puacobra Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	A retired PUA's two cents. Because it takes over your life and ruins your chances at a meaningful relationship.	/r/seduction	15/03/13 11:55 PM
1	Conversation skills (Especially what to talk about in the first 5 minutes)? The trick is to not make it an interview. Don't ask closed questions like "what do you study?" ask open questions that demand a longer response. For example "why do you study that"? or "how do you find it"?.	/r/seduction	10/08/12 01:09 AM
3	New to the community, could use some help with the other side of the equation... Sounds like you're playing the boyfriend card when you should be playing the 'friends with benefits' card. A good way to avoid this is to take a lot of time before responding to texts, calls etc. etc.. I usually wait 3hrs-2 days. And it will only make the person want you even more.	/r/seduction	22/07/12 04:59 AM
3	What activities or hobbies have you taken up to become a more interesting and attractive person? Picking up magic goes extremely well with seduction.	/r/seduction	22/07/12 04:48 AM
1	5 Things That Will Get You Laid This will probably get buried but I think it may be helpful to some. Many people make the mistake of trying to tell a girl they have a cool life by bragging. Nothing can be worse. There is no need to brag to a women or anyone for that matter, you always should act yourself. The way to tell someone these things is through stories. For example, if I wanted to tell a girl that I travel, lead men, and date beautiful women I'd say: "Once, when I was in Costa Rica I noticed some drunk guys bothering a…	/r/seduction	22/07/12 04:46 AM
1	How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college? Thanks.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 11:22 PM
2	How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college? In college, there are also great classes on interpersonal communication.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 06:24 PM
8	How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college? When I first read "The game" I took notes and read up everything there is on body language. I changed my classes and studied communication and public speaking. Now, nearly two years later I get paid thousands every weekend to teach pick up.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 05:56 PM
2	How do I build connections with girls that I find attractive? Here's the deal. When you first meet a girl use DHV's and ignore the target; once you get a number you act yourself. You are right it feels less genuine, but the goal is not to become her best friend and chat for an hour, its to get a number (in less than ten minutes) and chat on your date This is something I tell all of my students.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 05:54 PM
1	Need tips on finding the right balance!! I've been involved with the seduction community for close to two years and now run boot camps in NYC teaching guys seduction. As I first got better I realized I saw things differently. I stopped seeing women, I only saw targets. It took a while before I was able to balance my personal life with the pick up world. I did it by making a simple rule for myself; to stop asking for numbers unless you're genuinely interested in the girl. Being able to pick up most women call's for a tremendous amount o…	/r/seduction	18/07/12 01:09 AM
1	Living with my parents I wouldn't be worried at all. Many people your age are living with their parents, even women. Personally, I think it makes bringing a girl back home more suspenseful.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 12:50 AM
4	Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met! This is 100% true. Zerg is a boss.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 04:01 PM
1	This is my contribution to the community. Use it well. My bad! I did forget the time bridge. And using fb works wonders, it is a pretty sneaky way to get her number. Bonus: you can see hundreds of her pictures, friends, likes and interests, etc. if you want. Dilated pupils are always tricky to notice but preening (touching the hair) is the number one way to see if she is attracted. It will be when she see's you for the first time and it will be subtle. Be on the lookout for it and you'll be noticing it everywhere! I've been in the game for a year an…	/r/seduction	02/07/12 10:32 PM
1	Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit? *men	/r/seduction	13/06/12 11:16 PM
1	Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit? *men	/r/seduction	13/06/12 11:15 PM
1	Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit? In my experience pick up really works on just about anyone. Obviously it's not always possible to get a number, especially from religious women and grannies; but you usually can.	/r/seduction	13/06/12 11:14 PM
2	Women reading this: What attracted you to this subreddit? How's that working out for you?	/r/seduction	13/06/12 11:09 PM
2	"maybe" and "probably" dates Online dating is a whole new ball game because people tend to be more dishonest. Still, the key in setting up dates is to choose the time and place and be confident. Instead of asking "do you want to go out?", say "Theres an awesome new italian place in the city, lets grab some pasta this friday". The difference is not leaving the choice of saying "yes" or "no" to her but rather to lead her. Women are attracted to men who lead. Source: im a pua in NYC.	/r/seduction	12/06/12 12:50 AM
1	Seddit I need your help. I can offer advice on how to see if she is interested in you. When animals are attracted they tend to do preening and make themselves look better. Cats lick themselves, men tend to rub their chest or chin. Women mainly do it by stroking their hair. You'll notice them doing it quickly after glimpsing someone they deem attractive. This is not a rare phenomenon. Another thing to look out for is body language. If there body is facing you or there knees are pointed in your direction that's another si…	/r/seduction	12/06/12 12:45 AM
1	Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you. great link, very interesting. Thanks.	/r/seduction	11/06/12 09:15 PM
2	Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you. Dilated pupils are always difficult to check for, especially because it will happen so quickly. But there is a lot of information you can still get from the eyes. For example, a liar will usually look up and to the left, accessing the creative brain while someone telling the truth goes up and to the right, accessing the memory part of ones brain. Also be on the lookout for excessive blinking and how often they if they are looking at you vs looking Away. There's a reason eyes are called the Windo…	/r/seduction	11/06/12 08:01 PM
1	Giving your number vs. getting their number. Pros and cons? Thank you.	/r/seduction	11/06/12 07:56 PM
1	Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you. Haha, you've only lost a battle the war is still on. Firstly, it sounds like you could do with a pair of sunglasses. This should help with the eyes. If you did see signs of attraction the best move now would be to purposely ignore her. If she is looking your way just turn around and pretend you don't notice. If your talking to her, look away mid conversation and pretend to be interested in what's happening where your looking, and not at the conversation. This is cat string theory, it's meant mak…	/r/seduction	11/06/12 12:27 AM
1	When did you finally bite the bullet, and how'd you start approaching? I bit the bullet after 19 years of not flirting with a girl. I begin by approaching strangers and asking for directions. Slowly I advanced to conversations. Now I work as a Pua.	/r/seduction	11/06/12 12:10 AM
0	3 girls at a table and 1 me, what to say? Both of your openers are direct and show the girls you're interested in them right away. Personally, I only open indirectly like " can I get your opinions on something". You could also easily open with a great magic trick. Just say " I'm trying magic as a hobby, let me get your opinion on this quick trick". Note, you're not asking them if you could show a trick, you're leading them. As another side note whichever girl you want to be with is the one you ignore the most. It's because of cat string…	/r/seduction	11/06/12 12:06 AM
17	Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you. While I cant help with making eye contact, I can offer advice on how to see if she is interested in you. When animals are attracted they tend to do preening and make themselves look better. Cats lick themselves, men tend to rub their chest or chin. Women mainly do it by stroking their hair. You'll notice them doing it quickly after glimpsing someone they deem attractive. This is not a rare phenomenon. Another thing to look out for is body language. If there body is facing you or there knees are …	/r/seduction	11/06/12 12:00 AM
1	How would I get over my shyness and introverted personality? The things that helped me the most was to begin by just asking directions. Then try telling a girl she is buitiful and walk away. The point is to NOT try to get a number, but rather it's to become comfterable walking up to girl. I work as a pick up instructor in NYC, if you're ever around let me know!	/r/seduction	10/06/12 11:54 PM
0	Giving your number vs. getting their number. Pros and cons? NEVER NEVER NEVER offer your number. Personally, I rarely even ask for her name. When you do those things you are clearly showing serious interest in the girl. In pick up, its always preferable to remain "on top" of the conversation and have her chase you. This means you should avoid showing interest. To get a girls number I say: "you seem like a cool person, I'll hit you up on facebook just send me a text with your name". This way you still get her number (with her name, which helps if you do a…	/r/seduction	10/06/12 06:22 PM
1	47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) I train men how to pick up girls in New York. I'd be happy to help if you're ever around.	/r/seduction	10/06/12 03:52 AM
2	[FR] First Date, F-Close x2. Lost my virginity thanks to Seddit and it was AWESOME. Awesome job!	/r/seduction	30/05/12 12:06 AM
1	how to respond when she calls you smart Thank you.	/r/seduction	05/05/12 08:31 PM
2	how to respond when she calls you smart Whenever someone compliments you you say thank you. Never try to show how smart you are, girls prefer some humbleness.	/r/seduction	05/05/12 06:48 PM
8	I worked as a pick up instructor for over a year in New York. The course costs over a thousand dollars but can be summed up into three small rules. Haha, lets leave Jersey Shore out of this.	/r/seduction	13/04/12 01:02 AM
2	Went to a college party, horrible time, I had some questions. Yea! It reaches a point that you don't go to a party to get laid and rather to chill with friends.	/r/seduction	04/03/12 01:53 AM
3	Went to a college party, horrible time, I had some questions. Not prudent, just mature.	/r/seduction	03/03/12 10:07 PM
2	Went to a college party, horrible time, I had some questions. Honestly, during the day I get paid to teach guys how to pick up girls, but my night game is usually shitty. When you go to parties like the one you described just getting near the girl can be a pain! Not that you can't out game the other people, it's just a pain in the ass if there are 7 guys per one girl. I try to avoid those type of parties.	/r/seduction	03/03/12 10:07 PM
0	Cool ways to say that you're an engineer? If you're asking the question you're already behind. If you don't find a cool way to say it you think you look bad, and if you do, you did it for them. Either way you're worried about them...that's you're problem.	/r/seduction	26/01/12 06:21 AM
1	I have no idea how to keep a conversation going This suggestion is really only helpful when you meet someone for the first time...whenever there is a pause and the conversation dies down just look away and pretend to be interested in something else. If the other person starts it up again it's a 100% IOI and you're set. This can be helpful because when you turned away you appear not interested and hard to get, just building the cat string theory. Hope it helps!	/r/seduction	26/01/12 06:18 AM
1	May have herpes. Is my game dead? Interestingly, more than 75% of people have herpes. It's a virus that rarely acts up and becomes lyctic. You should get tested to make sure if it's type one or type two, but know there is currently no medication for it so it's bot going away. Don't let it interior your game though, but don't lie about it if anyone asks.	/r/seduction	08/01/12 11:25 PM
1	Talk To Everyone, Not Just Hot Girls! I agree completely. Whenever I'm at a workshop we don't only go up to chicks, we begin by asking directions from anyone.	/r/seduction	21/12/11 09:49 PM