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| 4 | What. Do. I. Do? =[ | puawesome | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 11:52 PM |
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| 1 | Is it time for a better, consolidated, organized "new to seddit post?"As a newbie, I definitely agree. As people have said the structure of the information given is very piecemeal and complicated. In particular, it would be nice to have similar information together, perhaps with a brief overview, or at least a few words about the main value in the topic that is linked to. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 02:54 PM |
| 2 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Thanks man! I like that: "The definition of courage is not being fearless, but doing something despite being scared." Going to live by those words from now on! | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 12:04 PM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Heh - yeah, I'm not bothered about a girl having the perfect body, as long as I'm attracted to them in some way. But that's the problem, the ones who have shown interest so far are girls which I'm not attracted to at all. But yeah, I figure if I just work on my social skills (through following the advice here - talking to more people, not caring what people think of me etc etc) so that the unfathomably awesome person that I actually am is more easily conveyed to people, I think I'll be fine and … | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 12:03 PM |
| 2 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Thanks for taking the time to give me some advice! I will definitely start putting all this in practice heh. Went out tonight, and whilst the main aim was to catch up with friends that I haven't seen for a while - I managed to talk to quite a few new people which was a good start! I'll keep updating you guys as I go, if you're interested. But yeah, I'm already kind of learning to accept the whole mentality of "if you're scared of doing something, and if that fear is due to a skill that your'e la… | /r/seduction | 21/12/10 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Heh - the opportunity is definitely there. To be honest though, I can't help but feel that the damage to my confidence that settling for someone I am really not attracted to in any way will do is just not worth it heh. As I said above, I'm not expecting a HB8-10, but hell, I'd at least like to start with a HB5-6 or something! :P | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Hey! Thanks for the input! To be honest, it's not talking to girls that is my problem, I think. Its just that I suck at doing it haha. I talk to girls quite a fair amount heh, it's not like I avoid them. And also, having read stuff about seduction on and off for about a year or so, I've stopped helping people just to make them "like me". I mean, I will help people, but only when I genuinely feel like I want to, and I feel like helping them. If its inconvient for me though, I'll say so, and won't… | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Glad to hear someone else knows the kind feeling I'm talking about and I'm not the only one hah :D Good job with your progress the other night - that's awesome! Keep it up! I'm kind of fine with the simple things like good eye contact and stuff, I guess it's just a case of extending it all a bit further so that I can talk more comfortably to strangers heh. Thanks for the advice. We'll both improve and become awesome social gods or something, yeah?! =D | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Ah, thanks! Yeah, I've actually been considering whether or not I should take this job I've been offered which would basically involves promoting a company to fellow students. You've pretty much helped me make my mind up on that one - seems like a no-brainer now hah. And will definitely try and stop caring what others think. I kind of realise that consciously trying to not give people a bad impression when I first meet them is probably the main thing which causes any feelings of awkwardness, and… | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Ah, ok. I'll try and implement that mindset as much as possible! The thing that'd worry me about that is that I'd say hi, and then not know what to say next and the conversation would kind of end awkwardly - but I figure the more you do it, the less likely that becomes, yeah? I guess it comes down to me needing to man the fuck up and just do it haha :D Also - probably overthinking this, but question, how do you start a conversation with someone in a line when they have their back to you? Surely … | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 12:33 AM |
| 2 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I apologise, I'd seen the sidebar, but didn't realise how much extra stuff there was in the post linked. My bad! I'll start working my way through that stuff ASAP. I go out every chance I can with friends, pretty much. I enjoy going clubbing tbh. As I explained above though, the thing about talking to everybody just seriously seems awkward to me. Surely the person you randomly start talking to will find it strange? I.e. "Why has this random suddenly started talking to… | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What. Do. I. Do? =[Hah - unfortunately isn't a great solution for me. I can take a hell of a lot of alcohol, whilst still acting pretty much like I do day-to-day. A yard of beer, completed in about 40-50s, will make me a bit tipsy. Not even hugely drunk. Maybe a bit more talkative, but having done this countless times over the past few years (getting drunk, not the yard :P), it doesn't seem to be the answer that I'm looking for. Plus, as a student, it'd be too expensive to drink a fuck load before every social enc… | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 12:09 AM |
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