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publicenemyone/r/seduction09/12/15 07:44 AM
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The only way you’ll seem needy is if you keep pushing after they’ve already said no
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:10 PM
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Lol it’s not a matter of fear, I just don’t like dedicating my entire existence to picking up women. I feel like there’s more to life than that. Going out for the sole purpose of trying to women seems kinda pointless tbh. If I’m out and about, and I happen to meet someone who piques my interest then I’ll see if anything is there. It’s just not something I specifically seek out (most of the time).
/r/seduction17/06/26 04:53 PM
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I’m not a huge fan of dating apps, but I’m not completely closed off to the idea of using them. I’ve been going to singles events about once a month already, but I’ve been trying to look for some other avenues to meet people. 5 in-person approaches every day seems like a lot, especially on weekdays. Do you only approach women you’re interested in or do you approach anyone and everyone? I live in a city with 1.3 million people so I don’t think that part would be an issue for me.
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:41 PM
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Dude, where are you going on a weekly basis where you are able to meet 75 to 100 new women per week?
/r/seduction15/06/26 10:27 PM
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You’re talking about women as if they are some separate entity from people. Just learn to see women as regular people, and don’t put them on a pedestal so much. Do you have any female friends? If not, then that would be a good starting point.
/r/seduction29/04/26 04:35 PM
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Have you seen this guy in action or are these mostly just stories? I've known guys who have success with women but they leave out a lot of details in order to boost their ego. For example, a guy could tell this story about how he met a girl and she was immediately into him, but he'll conveniently leave out the part where 10 or 15 other women rejected him right before that.
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:57 AM
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Lol as a matter of fact I am. I’ve never heard it as a common complaint among my black friends. Interesting.
/r/seduction18/03/26 02:10 PM
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Mostly the latter. It’s very rare for me to try to turn a hookup situation into a relationship.
/r/seduction18/03/26 06:44 AM
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Literally the other way around for me. I’ve had plenty of hook ups over the past few years, but I can’t get into a relationship to save my life. Mainly because hook ups require less commitment/emotional investment.
/r/seduction18/03/26 06:25 AM
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The biggest thing that helped me was having more female friends. Makes it a lot easier to see them as regular people and not find them so intimidating.
/r/seduction05/12/25 06:05 PM
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The problem with this analogy is that it implies that you and the girl you’re dating are opponents. As if you’re trying to beat her at something. When I’m on a date with a girl, I see us as potential teammates working towards the same goal. If our goals don’t line up, then it just is what it is. She is her own person with her own tastes and preferences and there isn’t really anything I can about that. Better to just find someone else who wants the same thing you want.
/r/seduction16/11/25 04:09 PM
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In my experience, women are usually more like to say yes to a guy once they’ve built up some rapport. But of course, you can build rapport with a girl in ~15 minutes. Just going up to a girl and asking her out right away almost never works. I usually like to wait about a week or two before asking her out, just to build comfort/familiarity. The only time where it’s an issue is if you wait like a month or even longer.
/r/seduction06/11/25 05:52 PM
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Take 100 shots, you’ll hit at least once. What’s wrong with this one?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:32 PM
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You can be better and be yourself at the same time. There’s a difference between working on yourself and pretending to be something you’re not.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:29 PM
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Amen. I spent so many years thinking that seduction was about how to turn a no into a yes. When in actuality, it’s about evaluating/building connections with those who already like you along with just being more likable in general.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:20 PM
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Meetup.com is where it started for me. Just tried to find stuff based around my hobbies and interests. For me it was improv, board games, and arcades. And the people you meet from those meet ups can help you branch off into other things.
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:41 AM
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Yup, this is pretty similar to what happened to me
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:23 PM
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I didn’t start having success with women until I was 25, so 3 years after I graduated college. A lot of it just comes down to having an active social life. I got laid three times in 5 years. 22-year-old me would’ve thought you were a god lol
/r/seduction11/06/24 02:23 PM
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Quality > Quantity
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:20 AM
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“What a stupid fucking quote. I’m killing way more than 2 people!”
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:58 PM
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I can understand the first two, but what’s so bad about the third one?
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:22 PM
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24 ain’t that late, man. I’m 25 and I made out with a girl for the first time ever a few weeks ago. You got this, just get out there, start approaching and hone your craft.
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:40 AM
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I needed to hear this. I had an “almost” a few weeks ago and I still reminisce about her when I need to be more focused on finding the next one.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:38 PM
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To be fair, one of the biggest suggestions that a lot of guys hear when it comes to dating is “lower your standards,” because they get criticized when they go for women that are out of their league.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:47 PM
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I’m a 25 year old kissless virgin. I didn’t really care about getting laid until recently, though
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:51 AM
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Yeah you’re right. Both are important, but I think ‘buying’ should be the priority.
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:31 PM
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Yep. Be the buyer, not the seller.
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:15 PM
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“It’s not who you are that holds you back; it’s who you think you’re not.”
/r/seduction19/05/18 06:40 PM
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From my experience, if you can get an introvert to talk about something that they are genuinely interested in, then they won't shut up about it. So if you can find a woman that you have a decent amount in common with, then it should bring out a more extroverted side of you.
/r/seduction17/07/16 09:16 PM
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Amen to that, brother.
/r/seduction11/03/16 06:23 AM
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This is... without a doubt... the KEY TO EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!
/r/seduction22/01/16 05:43 AM
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Hmm never thought about it like that. Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:56 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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