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| 1 | Not a writer, but, I put together my first response of Rachel Drucker's "Men, Where Have You Gone? Please come back." Would appreciate your feedback.I would add agreement that some stats would be helpful. But it’s tricky when telling a personal story to connect emotionally AND adding data to show why the premise of your story is many other men’s story too. My friend on Substack does a great job in a lot of his articles on men’s issues. Take a gander if you’d like another well rounded take https://substack.com/@stephenbradfordlong?r=1d1o9&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/25 02:30 PM |
| 3 | You can't believe in the existence of male gaze and not to have gender stereotypes at the same timeall this and they say they can replace men with dildos. pot calling the kettle black.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/01/25 03:07 AM |
| 2 | „The one thing I didn't prepare for was how lonely it is to be a man.“I have yet to meet those other trans guys. Where they at? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/24 12:45 AM |
| 5 | How Anxiety Is Different For MenOffhand, do you remember which videos you’ve seen of his? The ones I’ve seen don’t take that stance from what I recall | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/24 05:23 AM |
| 5 | When it comes to men making women comfortable, there is never really a win for men.Worse than cattle, really | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/24 02:58 PM |
| 14 | When it comes to men making women comfortable, there is never really a win for men.What’s crazy is that if the default were to harm women, they would be treated like literal cattle and we know we’re worlds away from that | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/24 02:58 PM |
| 26 | "I am trans and hate the online demonization of masculinity" | The Michigan Daily OP-EDSame | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/24 12:29 PM |
| 13 | Why is there a rise of female pedophiles?Grooooosssss | /r/MensRights | 04/05/24 04:53 AM |
| 17 | Trans Men Are Our Greatest AlliesI’m a trans guy and have been trying to speak up to people I know about mens issues. It often falls on deaf ears though… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/04/24 12:00 PM |
| 26 | Which words and phrases are some examples of hate speech or misandry against men?Adding the word “man” to some thing to demean a guy. “Man-bun” “man-purse”. I’ve never heard it used without a sneer | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are feminists shocked when young boys turn to altright role models?Sorry to comment just to keep track of this convo. Too tired to read it all in one go but I’m loving it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Rent is sky high. Women most affected.They leave out the fact that any single adult with children in tow is going to have a hell of a time finding a place to stay where the kids have their own rooms | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What redpill “truths” have you seen disproven or at least seen an exception to?Is the car listed in her name? That’s some serious emotional entrapment. I know it’s rough, but maybe try to get a car in your name that’ll last you at least a year, find the cheapest place you can find to rent, and get out. She has no right to fuck with your life like that and someone threatening to kill themself if you leave is abuse and it isn’t your fault if she does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What redpill “truths” have you seen disproven or at least seen an exception to?Man, I’ve had a decent amount of partners as an adult and I’ve rarely ever had more than $3000 to my name. Get out of your parents house 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Flying to New York To Speak about Masculinity and Modern MenDamn that was a good video | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Men, Intimacy & The "Right to Sex" - Between The Scenes | The Daily ShowY’all remember Bob from Fight Club? The only time the main character could actually break down and cry? That right there shows how rare it is for a guy to be that vulnerable with another guy, physically. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/10/22 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Being a left-wing male advocate is a special kind of hellWish we could just walk away from it but they’ll come after you a lot of times | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand why the hell I was banned from menslib? How is explaining the science behind being trans transphobic?True that | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Help me understand why the hell I was banned from menslib? How is explaining the science behind being trans transphobic?I blame most things along that line as coming from genderqueer theories. Always seemed anti trans, anti gay, and anti cis. Pulls from blank slate ideas of what makes a person. They think it’s all nurture and no nature. I’m a binary trans guy, myself | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/22 03:27 PM |
| – | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?I thought in a lot of states that the kid of a mother that gave it up for adoption either never had access to know who it’s mother is or would only get the option at age 18 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Johnny Depp was a watershed. We’re over the worst and finally people are listeningI’m here because I used to be leftist and now consider myself centrist, but most right wing stuff is so old school gender-wise it’s inflexible. Sometimes they are on point but not usually, for my two cents | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Johnny Depp was a watershed. We’re over the worst and finally people are listeningHere’s hoping | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/22 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?I’ve seen the same in my social circles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Native American and Mexican gender roles?I lived with a lady that had a very extensive book of maps of this continent and the pre European times. It showed the migration and general movement of the various peoples who lived here and why they moved back hundred of years. Maybe even thousands. No idea what it was called though. But it was insanely detailed covering things like drought, wars, animal migration shifts that made the people need to shift hunting grounds, combining and separating tribes | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/22 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Transman Highlights Male Social Disprivilege👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼this! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Transman Highlights Male Social DisprivilegeIt sounds like the trans guy is new to hormones and from what I remember as an older trans guy is the first few years are pretty bad I’m sure teenage guys experience something similar even though they’re younger and all young teens get a little dumb and crazy. I also used to make a lot of weird conclusions about why guys and society were the way they are but now I mostly listen to guys | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/22 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Mens Rights VolunteeringThere’s a domestic abuse resource center in my city that does help men as well. Not sure how comprehensive the programs are but they don’t highly gender their language in their website either | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Native American and Mexican gender roles?He didn’t say it outright but there was a lot of parts of the conversation saying as much for general indigenous peoples on this continent | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Native American and Mexican gender roles?Yeah that’s kind of what I ended up saying to him. But since I’m the European and he’s native it was…tricky | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Men are excluded from sex positivity movement aaand…..it’s Men’s fault due to lack of participation and toxic masculinity.Yeah that seemed like a glaring thing she really doesn’t get. Women don’t get that men have reasons for what they do or that they can feel insanely uncomfortable but don’t have cultural space to even let it be known or people tear them a new one for that too | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Men are excluded from sex positivity movement aaand…..it’s Men’s fault due to lack of participation and toxic masculinity.You hit the nail on the head there | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Men are excluded from sex positivity movement aaand…..it’s Men’s fault due to lack of participation and toxic masculinity.I’ve met a lot of women like that. Some of it aligns with the assumption that every guy wants to sleep with pretty much any woman given the chance, can end up with women shaming men for being rejected and as far as accusing him of rape when she butt hurt. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | At least 23 South African boys killed in ritual circumcision in 2021Christ…are there movement to urge people to stop or do that part of the ritual in a more humane way? | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Notice how these concepts are mostly (if not only) described as issues that ONLY affect women?I feel like it’s the virgin/whore dichotomy. Like the types of relationships they’re talking about are either one where the woman is partnered with a husband who is a hot mess and is totally “yes, honey” and subservient to him vs the relationship where the wife is domineering and chatty all the time and the guy just follows her around to parties he didn’t want to go to, forking over cash he earned. People talk like these are the same relationship. But they’re two totally separate types | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The Boys and Men's Well-Being Index is up and running.Thank you! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/12/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | LGBTQ community started to speak up about misandry in some subcommittees.Holy crap there’s a lot of info here. It’s going to take me days to get through all the links shared by the OP and commenters. Cooool! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/21 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Is this scenario sexist?I can agree with that | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | how come?I’ve had to couch my concerns for mens rights without naming it. As soon as a slogan or group name of anything comes up, people shut me out. So I just directly talk about the harm and potential solutions | /r/MensRights | 08/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | how come?Seriously. I don’t think women realize that guys can be aroused and not into something too. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | how come?Can you share a source on that stat? I’ve been trying to find it off and on | /r/MensRights | 08/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | how come?I’ve heard that trafficking for boys tends to be for hard labor in places like mining, but I don’t have sources for that | /r/MensRights | 03/12/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Can people send me info on the responsibilities of voters before women were allowed the vote? I keep hearing that it was tied to land ownership and military service but all I can find are the “rights” of voting and not what that level of citizenship required of an individual.Thanks a ton! | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Can people send me info on the responsibilities of voters before women were allowed the vote? I keep hearing that it was tied to land ownership and military service but all I can find are the “rights” of voting and not what that level of citizenship required of an individual.Do you have sources for this info? I’ve seen general timelines of basic race and gender rights but have not seen taxes tied to voting yet. Also, if you know where might talk more about where women were allowed to vote in the US and other democracies that would be helpful too | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 21 | Am I the only one who notices that gender roles are more rigid for men than are for women?And yet if a guy decides to become the white knight it’s “don’t expect us to thank you for doing basic human decency!” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/21 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Can people send me info on the responsibilities of voters before women were allowed the vote? I keep hearing that it was tied to land ownership and military service but all I can find are the “rights” of voting and not what that level of citizenship required of an individual.We’re women who could vote required to have children first? | /r/MensRights | 26/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Can people send me info on the responsibilities of voters before women were allowed the vote? I keep hearing that it was tied to land ownership and military service but all I can find are the “rights” of voting and not what that level of citizenship required of an individual.Do you have sources for this? I haven’t been able to find much but I guess I’ve been mostly looking at the USA | /r/MensRights | 26/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Can people send me info on the responsibilities of voters before women were allowed the vote? I keep hearing that it was tied to land ownership and military service but all I can find are the “rights” of voting and not what that level of citizenship required of an individual.Neither am I. I’m just trying to get a clear sense of what happened in the past because people use the argument that women wanted rights without responsibilities and I can’t find that example of signing up for the draft or military service as a prerequisite for getting a vote at all. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Male Victim/Victim of a Female sexual assault resourcesI’ve been told that this group in NC is pretty open to male victims but I don’t know anyone who has personally gone through any of their programs of support https://www.ourvoicenc.org/about/ | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Gender historyRight? The vast majority of people that existed forever were nothing like the nobles and successful merchant class | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Gender historyThanks! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Discrimination while looking for a place to rent?Well, if you look through housemating.com and Craigslist, and 85% of post specify female only I’m not sure what else to call it | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Why are there easy hormone replacement thrrapies for women, but not for men?I have a needle phobia and get my friends to do my shots every 2 weeks for transition. It’s been over 10 years and usually I don’t have the ups and downs but sometimes it does hit me weird. If you can, work with a doc on doses, because having the shots not too far apart really does help | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Discrimination while looking for a place to rent?I couldn’t find any affordable shared housing in Eugene Oregon that was open to men so I had to move elsewhere | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | "Men don't value their emotions, they are emotional whores." - A lovely example of why so many men are "emotionally distant" with women.As a trans guy who lived as a bisexual woman until I was 25, I’ve never had any of my male lovers dump emotional stuff on me like that person states. I’ve never even heard of this happening to my female friends either so I’m not sure where that idea comes from | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Need your help! I've created a compilation of anti-male bias in academia, focusing on visuals ("The Face of Anti-Male Bias in Academia: A Compilation of Banners, Posters and Other Visuals "). If I missed anything, would you please link it or email it? Thank you.Another serious reason why men are doing worse in schools | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/21 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Autogynephilia, "Transmaxxing" and Chris-chan Are men transitioning to escape male gender roles?In the leftist circles I’ve been in, if you treat someone who says they’re a trans women(hormones or not) as a man then you’d get pushed right on out of that group. I can see how average society might be more likely to treat a non passing trans woman as a gay man. But a ton of guys who might already see themselves as “problematic” men are probably already in a hard leftist bubble to begin with | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | "Men have oppressed women throughout history."This has a lot of links to sources that seem right up your alley on this subject https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/iu2ebj/women_could_and_did_own_property_and_have_rights/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 6 | "Men have oppressed women throughout history."It’s tricky because rights and responsibilities are so tied together. But it looks like men can be imprisoned for financial crimes their wives do. And depending on the time or country she had more or less independence to own her own property | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 5 | "Men have oppressed women throughout history."Ok. So wiki has a post on coverture. Also, this talks about parts of it from the male perspective, https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/er5kel/a_very_interesting_exchange_on_rpurplepilldebate/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | "Men have oppressed women throughout history."Christ, I’m not finding it now. Will have to get back to you on that. But when I’ve seen it mentioned it was tied into the element of men having legal responsibility for their wives. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/21 02:56 PM |
| 17 | "Men have oppressed women throughout history."They’d put men in prison for crimes their wives committed even | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/21 07:17 PM |
| 20 | Been wondering if I would have been happier being born as a female.I transitioned from female to male and from what I can tell, women aren’t happier because they’re fully convinced they have it worse and use literally everything under the sun to “prove it”. Men really don’t seem to usually have a clue that they have it hard because of their sex. It’s kind of crazy how much they blame themselves for everything while women blame everything else for their problems | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Invisible Men, @including_womenI’ve noticed this quite a lot as well. It’s crazy how few people get it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson and Warren Farrell on The Boy Crisis and Gender PoliticsCan this be found directly on YouTube as well? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/21 12:02 PM |
| 3 | [Instagram] Minnesota Supreme Court rules it’s not rape if victim voluntarily intoxicated | This is hugely problematic for both sexesThank you so much for sharing those links! | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 12:59 PM |
| 10 | How do I / should I, respond to statistics where women are mentioned but the topic has nothing to do with gender?I wish I knew. I get mad at people ignoring men in issues all the time. One of my pet peeves is hearing how many Native American women disappear or end up dead every year but I literally can’t find info or studies showing how many of the men end up with similar fates. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/03/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandI hear that. So much of this stuff around men’s rights is really eye opening | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandI feel like it’s the “princess syndrome”. People don’t get that it was a two way relationship between queen and king and the responsibility is pretty high. Not sure why women think they’re just owed something for doing nothing. We should all treat each other well but it’s not like women are princesses/queens and their partner is a servant. It’s so fucked | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandCan you open the link in a different browser window/tab? I’m on my phone right now but don’t know what format you’re working with to try to share this | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandIs twoX a different Reddit group? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandIf you want to think of it like that, be my guest. I have found most people are blind to their faults. Some aren’t and don’t care, for sure | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandGotta call her out. You have support? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandSame. I’ve had to give some solid pushback around the blame game with an ex it had taken years and we ended our relationship over other issues but it’s nuts how much I had to accept “being the asshole”. When Id call her out on her shit. It did help a lot to stand up for myself but it sucks that so many guys have to deal with that | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandLink isn’t working. Maybe it’s my phone? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandWhat’s the light switch affect? | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandI know apologizing can do a world of good but only really stick if the behavior is changed. It seemed to me like she had done a lot of work and that they’re relationship is getting better. She’d mentioned that things were going smoother since she’s aware of her bad attitude and checks herself on being nasty. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 15 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandFrom what I’ve found, it seems like a pretty small percentage of abusers are predatorial about it. I’d say gold diggers might fit into that category sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 35 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandPeople do it all the time. They think they’re doing right by someone and it’s not always the case. You think every abuser is aware of what they’re doing and intentionally hurting the people they supposedly care about? | /r/MensRights | 28/02/21 07:59 PM |
| 144 | Woman Realizes She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her HusbandI really like how this lady is becoming more aware of horrible behavior and working to change it. Hope that continues | /r/MensRights | 28/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with gender issuesThanks! I’m trying to find them for sure | /r/MensRights | 26/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with gender issuesWhat’s a discord group? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | For $33,000, You Can Now Hire Amber Heard, Who Admitted On Tape To Abusing Johnny Depp, To Talk About Domestic ViolenceWhat is wrong with people? | /r/MensRights | 17/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Pink and blue forms: is gender-based tax really as crazy as it sounds? | Politicians (and the Guardian) want to tax men at a higher rate than womenWhat does this even mean? “Guardian They found that female labour supply was far more sensitive to tax rates in each market” sensitive? To what? | /r/MensRights | 14/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | interesting takegotta be honest, most of the time a was watching I was like "what in the hell is she doing?" but she still ended up saying things that felt true and said in a way that I cant | /r/MensRights | 10/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | interesting takeyeah, theres a lot of grains of salt to sort out in that but she seems to have some good gems too | /r/MensRights | 10/09/20 01:33 AM |
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