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Most of my guy friends I've met have been on Discord servers for mutual interests, D&D meetups, or other "nerdy" places like arcade bars or conventions. Even if you're not a gamer yourself, I think it's a better way to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:44 PM
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A lot of the "men have to do the hard, violent work while women stay home and raise the kids" mentally isn't as relevant in a modern-day comfortable society. (And conversely, in the third world where men, women, and children alike are equally used for hard labor.) Sure, most men are still the ones doing construction work, but there's no reason why a woman can't be a derrick operator or a roofer or a steel worker. Any jobs that require routinely lifting over 50 lbs are hopefully phased out by rob…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:26 PM
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Yeah, for me it's always funny when the evo-psych talking point is brought up, "Women don't respect vulnerability in men. By instinct they are only drawn to a big strong man who will protect them, so if a man cries or is 'weak' in any way, then the women subconsciously loses attraction." ......Then why do I love maid Levi so much huh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:02 PM
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Or we're just...not hypocrites? Because we also enjoy porn, erotica, etc.? Shame that you ask a seemingly legit question only to already have your own lame cognitive biases override the answers. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:09 PM
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Agreed, it would be far better for the sex work industry if there was more oversight to ensure ethical conditions and fair payment. It's scary to think about all the content on relatively "vanilla" websites where actresses and actors were in a desperate spot and thus didn't meaningfully consent to what was happening. It makes me feel gross to think I might have accidentally watched something like that over on the hubz. Paying someone directly for their work, whatever type of work it is, is the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:50 PM
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Anything short of emotionally/physically cheating on me via direct interaction with another person is fine. (i.e., telling someone else they love them or similar is not fine, sexting or fucking someone else is not fine.) And I'm open to polyamory, but not without my informed consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:38 PM
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The mediocre sex the vast majority of men are bringing women isn't going to cut it either. The orgasm gap is my source for that. If men took their balls and went home, our orgasms would barely be affected. Say it louder for the people in the back!! I don't expect to have an orgasm every time or really ever since I'm kinda a tough nut to crack...But the amount of men who don't make any attempt is shocking. I blame porn. (and not in a "porn should be outlawed" way but just an "smh" way)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:31 PM
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Let me ask, do you also support abortion bans in case of rape, incest, or danger to the mother's life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:21 PM
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an idea that has 100,000's of years of anthropological data where most men simply did not procreate What do you mean? I'm not very familiar with this subject matter but was not aware of some kind of historical evidence about how many men didn't procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:48 PM
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Sorry I probably made it sound like it happens frequently! 4 times that I can remember in the last 10 years so definitely rare. 2 of those times were normal encounters (man comments on something I'm buying then continues to talk, but I didn't think of it as flirting). The other 2 were just awful, 1 of them resulting in being groped and I should have walloped him across the face with a big bag of spices. (And I have to say anecdotally the way I was dressed seems to play a role. I wish it were pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:55 PM
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I think what people are missing here is that getting hit on does depend largely on circumstance. If you tend to either hang out in large groups of friends outside, or be a bit of a homebody, and not constantly out and about by yourself, then you aren't in the right circumstances to get hit on. Also I think as a woman I tend to not necessarily realize if/when I'm getting hit on, that if a random guy starts talking to me at the grocery store or if a guy at my apartment complex is being super frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:42 PM
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do you think we do this shit because it doesn't work? No, I'm sure that false flattery, negging, confusion, "being mysterious," making her think she's done something wrong (I forget what that one is called but getting mad at her to test her reaction and keep her compliant) do work on people. They are also successful as the tactics of abusers. You COULD try and just be yourself. It's your choice not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:17 PM
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Your mind will be blown when you find out there are in fact women with symmetrical faces who spend time on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:03 PM
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Or you could just...date a person and give your actual, genuine opinions? Instead of playing mind games where now you actually have to keep track of your lies. This shit amazes me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:54 PM
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Well sure. You make a good point that a lot of things can be forced to fit the definition of a cult (based on Dr. Steve Eichel's characteristics of a cult which is what I used). Thanks additionally for clarifying what is not part of TRP. I guess what I'm saying is, is there nothing to be concluded from all of the overlap between TRP and more problematic groups like PUA, or extreme right-wing, or becoming hateful towards women over time? If you visit r/exredpill you will see tons of stories of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:58 PM
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I'll never understand how needing to vet the person you are dating requires joining a cult, but maybe I'm just being uncharitable. TRP fits the definition of a cult: Always trying to recruit new members Trying to make money (pick up artist grifters) Questioning is punished The group makes up special language/terminology The group thinks it is exalted or enlightened vs. the rest of humanity Mysticism (NoFap, the idea women are a "code to crack") "Leadership" dictates how people should act and fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:51 PM
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The person you responded to isn't talking about cheating or something, they're talking about sexually and physically violent actions and words. For example if a man thinks it's ok to do something like hair-pulling or spanking without asking for consent to be rough first, and he's called out by his partner, usually he will try to be like "Sorry you just make me so horny I couldn't help myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:32 PM
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protection, help, respect and decency and all that are also now denied I'm curious to know what you mean by this. I'm a woman and I sometimes hear men say things like "respect and decency have gone out the window when dating women nowadays." What behavior is being referred to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:23 PM
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You said women want to date men who are more successful. But, how do you measure success? Like, I certainly wouldn't want to date someone who considered themselves more successful, more talented, smarter than me. If they didn't feel like we were overall equals, then why are they even dating me? Of course, they'd be better at me than some things and I'd be better than them at others. When someone feels superior to their partner (and may not even recognize it consciously!!) that's one classificati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:46 PM
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I don't like the fact that they call men "scrotes" for no reason, act like a coffee date is too cheap like you said, and also the fact that they self-identify as "radfems" tends to attract many SWERFs and TERFs. (Sex worker exclusionary radical feminists; trans-exclusionary radical feminists). The reason FDS is socially accepted and gets mainstream media articles written about it is superficially understandable, though. Because it's like, you see women who hate men, and you assume it's because m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:55 PM
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That's not "greedy" or "dumb" behavior though. It's just rationalizing that because you can't have something, or missed your chance, you didn't want it anyway. It's a very common coping mechanism to act like missing out is actually a blessing in disguise for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:32 PM
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Also, people with low libido should also have trouble reproducing and that personality trait should just extinguish itself through natural selection. Not how that works. Scientists are still puzzling out how a likely hereditary trait like being gay, for example, persists despite those people not reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:36 PM
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Yes, scary to think about how many rapists or would-be rapists are apparently on this sub. I mean, one can guess there are a few, but geez
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:17 PM
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Refusing to perform a sexual act you hate is not "mistreating" someone but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:16 PM
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If you’re willing to walk away if you don’t get anal...You must either really really like anal, or really not care about the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:14 PM
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Yes, this is definitely the way to get laid, I'm sure you're having lots of success
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:12 PM
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she tried to compliance or shit test them by saying no It's just called saying no. Gtfo with the made-up terms People who pressure and coerce their partner into trying acts they don't want to are abusers. Be glad you're not an abuser. If it's absolutely vital to you that you do anal, then find another partner who wants to do it. Maybe I'm misinterpreting this post or something...I hope so, as a past victim of sexual abuse and coercion in a relationship, I won't face it again. And I would hope my…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:05 PM
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Because Trump supporters don't deserve BJs or happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:53 PM
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You don't think a woman on Tinder with a swastika tattoo would get matches? Lots of people are just a sad and depraved mess, I don't think that has anything to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:43 PM
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5'10" and 135, I failed the test
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/19 04:47 PM
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But isn't "toxic masculinity" a useful term to describe how being masculine and tough is forced on men? If you cry, you're a little girl/bitch, suck it up, etc. "Toxic masculinity" seems like a good term for that. Unless you think there could be a less sexist term that'd still get the point across. Edit: I suppose it's right in front of my nose: term could be "forced masculinity."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 03:50 PM
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Toxic masculinity = men (or women!) shamed for being feminine, or feeling like masculinity is an obligation. Toxic femininity = women (or men!) shamed for being masculine, or feeling like femininity is an obligation. ​ That's how I'd define it without getting into the weedy part of the argument contending that toxic masculinity = rapists or toxic femininity = abusive harpy wives, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 03:46 PM
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