puffpuffpastries Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Can one use RPW concepts for self improvement rather than relationships? I was going to say they must.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/18 02:01 PM
5	One year of dating and no talk of the future This is a really good point. People should lay out long term goals and timelines and then develop personal feelings upon compatible life goals.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/18 10:39 PM
2	A review of the tale of a very large pussypass denied (though a lot of horny old goats wanted to give this woman one). Soon to be a major motion picture. I took your statements to be a criticism of the community or the culture of the demographic, so it didn't feel like a personal attack. And no problem. I actually live in a big, overwhelmingly blue city (baltimore) but I happen to know people who represent the whole spectrum (albeit sparingly), which is something I genuinely enjoy. On that note, as we've stated, only my liberal friends have walked away or held grudges over our political differences. My conservative friends dont take it personally…	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/07/18 12:35 PM
1	A review of the tale of a very large pussypass denied (though a lot of horny old goats wanted to give this woman one). Soon to be a major motion picture. Hey, thanks. I was actually intrigued to look into it because I'd also been noticing it recently. That quote is also interesting. I always try to think of things through the lens that morality is subjective, the person on the other side of the experience has their own interpretation of events, and the morality involved. I would be really excited to see a classic, hard-science, Scientific approach which analyzed which of the two is most conducive to self-victimization. The more we talk, the more …	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/07/18 02:08 AM
1	A review of the tale of a very large pussypass denied (though a lot of horny old goats wanted to give this woman one). Soon to be a major motion picture. That's interesting that you sort of legitimized it because I was just trying to describe a phenomenon I'd noticed. Then I started typing it into Google and it autocompleted pretty easily, with multiple search suggestions. However all the articles I clicked there failed to search the whole term (although a lot of them pulled up mansplaining?) So I switched to bing. This link loosely belongs, I think. It discusses the fallacious nature of the concept of a group mind, particularly in the social sci…	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/07/18 12:35 AM
2	A review of the tale of a very large pussypass denied (though a lot of horny old goats wanted to give this woman one). Soon to be a major motion picture. Interesting pick. I sort of threw my bbn hat in for the bit where it rhetorically asks if it's possible to examine her story in a feminist light. As for your last paragraph, I would agree that that attitude is becoming more common. Weirdly though, it's not just women, more and more men are agreeing that women cant be criticized by men. I think it's part or the 'protected groups' fallacy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/07/18 09:42 PM
2	A review of the tale of a very large pussypass denied (though a lot of horny old goats wanted to give this woman one). Soon to be a major motion picture. https://www.wired.com/story/elizabeth-holmes-downfall-has-been-explained-deeplyby-men She's been called the first feminist antihero.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/07/18 09:01 PM
14	"I opened the fridge and shouted "I'LL MARRY THIS WOMAN"" - A quote from my man to me. TY ladies. Update inside. Hey, congrats on addressing the problem in the best way! This reminds me so much of my husband... one of his online names is literally a variant of 'meat and potatoes'. I'd sort of fallen into this sort of strategy to bridge the gap (I like interesting,exotic, complicated dishes) but this is definite inspiration to go farther. The whiteboard has been one of the easiest methods I've employed too. We can even plan out the whole week and refer back to it or move things around as our schedules chang…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/18 08:06 PM
3	Prenups I was trying to figure out how to word this. I would have no problem with the act of signing one and I understand why someone would want one, but I would wonder what the implications were and would need to think about them in the context of the relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/18 02:08 AM
3	Tips to support husband through situational depression? I totally get that and it's great that y'all dont feel it to be an overwhelming issue. I get what you mean. Mine has been stressed about work things to a high degree before and, while I want to help him with it, it doesn't take the foreground in our relationship. It really does seem astounding that such a minor (comparatively) thing is enough to make them throw in the towel.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/18 03:38 PM
2	How are you currently trying to improve yourself? (For yourself or your SO) I'm working towards becoming a Notary Public for additional income, while still being at home. I'm also looking into ways to learn Italian because we like to travel to Italy together and he, Despite having been, has no aptitude for the language, whereas I do and have a bit of a background in latin. Aside from those specific things, I continue to work on learning and developing recipes for him (I made his favorite fish of mine ever recently!), being more patient and understanding (he's noticed) a…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/18 02:40 PM
1	I want to love my man's parents...but they bore me to death. Do you have literally anything in common with either of them? This is somewhat how my husband's grandparents are and when I'm around either of them, I started with small talk, found common interests and hobbies (gardening and birds) and bagan5to explore that as fully as possible. Actually, after his paternal grandfather died, my interest in her husband's bird carving was the first and only thing to make him happy and animated and hubby And his dad really appreciated it. You mention church browni…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/18 02:31 PM
2	Tips to support husband through situational depression? (I'm so horrified that people were suggesting divorce. Nowhere did it seem to indicate that you dont love tour husband or that his situation is untenable for you. It really underscores how our philosophy is one of support and dedication, rather than the one BP one that others espouse.) OP, it sounds like your husband's personality and cultural upbringing have instilled in him a strong work ethic, which is a great thing. However, in this situation, it might be helpful for him to see a therapist, …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/18 02:11 PM
5	Father's Day I dont have a relationship with my parents, but can I just say - my husband and I hosted my cousin's 4 children overnight and he was a total hero about it. They absolutely adore him, vying to play video games with him, one wanted him to hold her the entire time, they completely loved him and he willingly gave up essentially his whole weekend to hang out with them. He was actually disappointed when their mom couldn't bring them by and offered for us to go get them 1.5 hours round trip. I told the…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/18 01:51 PM
2	RP truths vs Feminism -- I need some encouragement! I noticed your point Bout feminism too. I actually spoke to my husband yesterday about it, about how feminism demonized and trivialized traditional femininity and now the only way for women to be valid is to basically become men - talk like men, focus on things that men focus on, value those things to the exclusion of all others. Like you, the thought made me scared and inferior in the past, but then I began to become aware of the growing trends of misery and discontent within their community. F…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/18 03:24 PM
3	I love wearing cute feminine clothes but can’t find the clothes I want. Where should I look? I love the same stuff. I am also questing, but I have been enjoying unique-vintage .com recently.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/18 10:58 PM
2	Say it once, then let it be That is so great. I think marriage in the.modern world is something each couple has to take apart, look at inside and out and see if any / all of it applies to them. It's not necessary to be married to have a lifelong commitment. So theres you, a person who seems to want that traditional commitment and him, a person who seems to want a lifelong, non-traditional commitment. And you were able to talk about it calmly and sparsely, let each other's POV matter and, allowing him to take the helm, make…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/18 01:21 PM
23	Talking about your past relationships and n-count with your S/O... I respect the other poster's point of view and I'm sure it works for them, however I disagree. I think it's best to just be honest. If it has the chance to be a problem, it's probably better to discuss it before that fact, if he brings it up. In my case, it came up casually with my husband and I fairly early on. We discussed it casually and moved on pretty quickly. I should probably add the caveat that in his mind, my number is very small, so it may be different for women with a number considere…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/18 04:41 PM
12	In the spirit of the recent rule update, how do you change yourself/your actions to support your man when he is going through tough times? I try to stay on the background and focus on... putting a charm over his life? Idk how else to say it, but I'll run his shoulders, place items he'll need near him if it's a work thing, pour him a beer, coffee or water, make sure he eats if he's upset or busy, set the ac down because he gets hot, especially when he's upset and whatever else to make things as amenable as possible to his mood and problem. Other than that I try not to be too talkative, but will be very sympathetic when he vents abou…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/18 01:33 AM
7	What do you think it means to be a Red Pill Woman? Embracing and cultivating a traditional version of femininity. Classic skills, classic temperament... they have a place in the modern world and rpw (to me) means bringing them forward. Also, being able to relate to the women here, who may be nervous to go to other sources for conversation and advice. And, finally, appreciating men / my man for filling the roles which they've traditionally filled. That's more or less what it means to me. Eta: so it's all those things. A lifestyle primarily and a …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/18 07:57 PM
2	What are your hobbies and passions? C: it's always hard to say favorites, but I am currently reading SPQR: A history of the Roman empire by Mary Beard, which is fascinating, and I just recently finished The turnip Princess and other newly discovered fairy tales by Franz Schonwerth (sp?) And A Graphic Introduction to Evolutionary Psychology, which I highly recommend and which was very rp. E: accidentally hit 'post' while hurrying to get on the light rail. What are some of your favorites?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/18 03:36 AM
3	What are your hobbies and passions? Gardening. Feeding and watching birds and squirrels. Reading, especially classics.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/18 01:17 AM
10	Monthly Goals I want to challenge myself to read at least two more books this month. I think it is an achievable goal, especially since I've been on a real reading kick recently. Yesterday I started 'do androids dream of electric sheep?' And a couple days ago I finished 'animal farm'. ETA: I completed my goal! I finished Do Androids Dream soon after writing this, as well as A Scanner Darkly, Editorial Wild Oats by Mark Twain and a couple Batman graphic novels. That also means I accomplished my Goodreads goal …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/17 02:16 PM
4	We hit 20,000 members. Lurkers and Newbies come out and say hi! Lurker of quite a while, though I've posted here and there. Wouldn't say I'm red pill per se, but very traditional. Not yet married, but in a very commuted relationship. Fan of gardening, cooking, baking, reading, animals and general housery. Like to dress feminine and fairly demurely. I love the community here!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/17 03:39 AM
4	How could having a stay at home parent benefit my SO and I? Right? And what even is she talking about? It's a random rant about herself and nothing of import.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/17 03:21 PM