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I bet you that if it weren't for her holding down the fort, he couldn't indulge in such a self destructive, and frankly, selfish lifestyle. Alcoholism (if that is what is implied) / partying is incredibly selfish, because if you're not able to hold down a job or make rent, you're going to be relying on other people to cover your ass. This guy is ridiculous for glamorizing the "party" lifestyle. How is he going to pay for all that? Who's going to clean up when the time comes? You cannot hold down…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 10:22 PM
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the thing is that a lot of women are still groomed to value relationships with men, and many men will whine about how important "sexual compatibility" (muh peepee) is. Many women are not woke enough to realize you can just bail if he is so low value he demands sex under these unfavorable conditions. The other thing I want to comment on is clearly the consequences of having a baby are not strong enough (for men). We talk all the time about how "women are "responsible" for single motherhood becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 03:51 AM
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Um, why is he resentful that people discard him for his vaccination status? He knows he can just get the vaccine too, right? Discrimination is over things that people can't choose. There's just so many logical leaps with that idiot, not to mention the entitlement and small mindedness. I begin to think more and more OLD's are the reject bin of men who can't get women through work or school the old fashioned way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 03:56 PM
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First of all, if men are grieving that women don't want to be SAHM moms anymore, they are 10,000% responsible for this based on how shitty they treat them, if I can't make this any more clear for the scrotes in the back. Feminism didn't "ruin" marriages, it gave them an escape route. Second, I wish there was an undo button that returns children gently to their creator, as if they were never born (not in a murder kind of way) because this type of cretin doesn't deserve a family, doesn't deserve h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:59 PM
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They're not being inconsiderate, they're attention seeking. They know being messy, loud, opinionated pisses the people around them off, especially if its women. If their roommates or neighbors were men, they'd have been confronted and scolded. They know its women so they can get away with it and it gives them a thrill that they got inside women's head. So yeah, my opinion is that men do this on purpose like a little kid making noises for attention. Also be careful of gay men who have internalize…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:50 PM
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I believe the misconception of women not being visual creatures came from a time when men were vascular mountain men building cabins and ranging cattle and doing all the manly hard work to provide and protect the women and they were already physically built different by virtue of their job; now... now they have nothing going for them, so being attractive is the LEAST they can do. If I had more braincells to rub right now I'd make some comment about how men's wallets have shrunk while their waist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:57 AM
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Let's start a narrative that the men with many sexual partners are themselves not marraige material 💅 Why should the woman you marry have to wait and you didn't? The best they deserve are the others who slept around. Keep your STD's to yourselves. Men with high body counts do not themselves deserve a wife with a low body count, not even serious long term relationships with a woman like that. They need to pay retribution for using up the pool of eligible women by rushing to sex so early and then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:20 AM
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Men wouldn't let women hide what they judge them by: if women aren't physically attractive they won't give them a chance at all, yet they feel no guilt about this. So why should we give people who are psychologically or biologically beneath our standards get away with lying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:58 AM
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No, this is cringe; when that guy winked at her, she should have scoffed and been disgusted. Yes, most men have absolutely nothing going for them but their appearance, but secondly, it's nothing earned and male validation is nothing to feel giddy about. She needs to stop feeding into """"hot"""" guy's ego, treat him like any other intern, make sure he gets his work done, stop fawning over and perpetuating an image obsessed culture. Yes, perhaps it's good that ONE GUY is capable of taking care of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:57 PM
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seeing their potential was their parent's job. If they did such a bad job of raising their son that they need adult women to baby and build them up, they're not dating material. Even if you had a shit hand of cards as a child, when you're a grown man it's up to you to fulfill your potential. A woman who believes in you is a bonus, not a requirement. You think women get built up by their partners? Nah, we have it HARDER. Everyone in the world is fighting to keep us down, wanting us to settle for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:03 PM
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Remember that walking away from a bad relationship is not a loss nor a negative, it is actually preventing future pain, which will accumulate to tip the scales and waste far more time than any brief pain experienced in cutting your losses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:02 AM
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Men like that do not deserve to be having sex, period. If he cannot respect the human being giving him this service, he shouldn't be having it to begin with. Thinking "women are only used for sex" is backwards thinking. Sex is something men need to earn after building trust and intimacy, not them casually taking it from women and then wondering what's wrong with the rest of their personality. If he just wants sex he should use a sex toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:24 PM
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it kind of shows how little they care about the pain women go through to be beautiful, if they justify using the same techniques on an animal, after all, we're both animals to men for them to manipulate however they want so that we can be more attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:20 PM
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how the hell can we as a nation screen for these psychopaths? I wish that people whose internet use reports visiting misogynistic sites will ban them from purchasing guns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:26 PM
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You know, this is just evidence to me that men know they are beneath women and they hate that. We fantasize about bonding with an emotionally mature man because it is rare, men fantasize about women being dumb sex objects because it is rare. To me, I think this implies all the men with the objectification fantasy see women as superior to them. And I think we are 💅 I think to them, smart, emotionally mature and capable women surround him on all sides, the likelihood of any woman he chooses off th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:01 PM
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you know I would go one step further and say, if that's how society wants to play it, then women need to normalize not giving men sex at all. Normalize romantic relationships that aren't based on sex, and if a man isnt provider material, say no to sex. we can live without sex, men can't. Watch them turn their laws real quick when they realize we can just not have sex. I think casual sex is a line fed to us by the media since very young, sex because "you love somebody" and not "sex because he is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:22 PM
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porn must be exactly why men act the way they do. imagining having something extremely addictive that all men are exposed to, repeat whatever messages the producers like over and over again. I have been ruminating on "why do men act the way they do? what beliefs lead to this behavior? what cultural messages are they receiving about women, and from where?" It's obvious at first that most sitcoms women are the butt of the joke, the pretty figure, and the voice of reason while guys are the main cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:36 PM
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Imagine if MSM started saying "oh no seat belts are saving TOO MANY LIVES seat belts are toxic and evil! we should let people who want to suffer horribly in the vehicle society built die!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:14 AM
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I think it's a common trait in LV people of all types, this archetype of a person who is a people pleaser, fears conflict, but secretly at the core hold contempt for you. so you may be fooled 98% of the time that they're a genuine human being like you. Don't feel bad if you fall for it, because that's what they want and have been trying to do, we all have to learn somehow. That 2% of the time is their real self. If you were genuinely good from the start, you wouldnt even have thoughts of sabotag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:58 PM
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Theres so much wrong with sugar babying but you cant say that anywhere else because its "disempowering" sugar babying should be the bare minimum. Every man should be providing in some way for his woman because of the gender inequality. sugar babying means the men who pay EXPECT and feel ENTITLED TO SEX because they have paid the existence of sugar babying means the rest of the scrote think "see I dont have to pay you for anything because we're not that type of relationship" "if I dont pay you I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:52 PM
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I have a much colder attitude now towards LV people who complain endlessly, then brush off your advice, then come back on another day wondering why their lives are falling apart. These people are emotional vampires, they just want your sympathy and attention, the lowest effort way to get your attention, that's at least semi-ethical. LVM will just get your attention by negging you. But you come to realize, even the attention they receive via sympathy and pity is not justified, because they get th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:35 PM
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What in the olympiad mental gymnastics hell How does he manage to twist making women suck dick for him into a "poor me its bc I cant say no 🥺" and just fucking nasty bro, how in the mental gymnasium does he think "women can't get enough of me" pickme culture has gone too far! 450lbs is ticking time bomb for a heart attack! Does he have no shame? Doesn't he look down at his big fat belly and think, "you know what I'm gross and this woman deserves to be with a man that turns her on" But you know t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:09 AM
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Why are they not dating women their own age Are you telling me there's just no single woman in her 60s or 70s? Just absolutely ZERO women who lost a spouse, never married, or recently divorced? We need to call out these men and shame them. We could even get the men on board by saying, "why are you applauding this behavior? He is taking good women from your generation." Men are so stupid they envision themselves as the 60 year old dating a 30 year old, instead of seeing it as some older guy takin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:29 PM
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Heh I noticed this a long time ago... I follow a bunch of Asian instagram accounts for aspirational reasons, dressed exactly like the article says, going on lavish vacations and dinners. There's never any man in the picture. In my pickme days, I used to think, "they want guys in the audience to envision themselves as their partner so they hide their boyfriend" but these days I look and think "look at them, they're having fun with their girlfriends, they're showing that you can live a great life …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:57 AM
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Oh JFC he's a "suspended without pay" cop and she owns a successful business?? Wtf is wrong with these Pick Mes??? I heard successful women tend to attract toxic men because these women are used to working hard for everything in life, so they think a man is a fixer upper, not knowing the reverse is true in love. The more you try, the less he values you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:59 AM
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These men have literally nothing going on in their lives that they're still hung up over teenage strangers who will never have sex with them. Actually can we make that a saying? Just comment under the manosphere videos, "she's never gonna have sex with you anyway, why do you care?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:19 PM
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May I just point out he says, "when I scroll on instagram the number one thing that turns me off is those duck billed selfies" Sir, respectfully, we don't care. We don't care what you think. Obviously his audience is NOT women but other incel scrotes ripping out their teeny tiny peepees to jack off to another guy publically putting women down, not realizing it's the incels leading the incels. Whom he calls narcissists is just anyone not sucking his dick, and for that there are plenty of bros out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:05 PM
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men have completely lost the virtue of honesty or integrity. They've forgotten being a person of good character is it's own reward. The only thing they care about is The Nut. Porn is good because it gives them The Nut. Young girls turning 18 is good because fresh prey for The Nut. Pumping and dumping and creating single parent families doesn't matter to him, everything is good to man in pursuit of The Nut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:36 PM
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I feel like society preys on women to be consumers. Too many people define their personality based on what they buy, do not fall into this trap! Learn to enjoy your life within your means. One thing I think many people need to know and is little known is that the stock market is safer than the bank. What do I mean? Returns on your stocks are higher than the interest you get at the bank, so you are basically losing money by keeping more than you need in your savings account. Keep enough for a cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:45 AM
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Men know, they know that women not knowing and living in ignorance does them a world of good, so there is NO INCENTIVE for them to help us. The good thing is, we can see how our beliefs change our lives. Believing there are good men: - leads to getting taken advantaged of, harmed, or worse Believing men are shit, that do this on purpose: - protecting your own bag and living a luxurious life. So you know what, why should we buy into their crappy idea of romance. It does no good. It's like those i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:44 AM
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If I did give them the benefit of the doubt, I would say this is caused by them never having to had exercise their empathy muscle at all throughout childhood to highschool. Women existed in their periphery as objects without agency or desire to them all this time, so the idea to pay attention to what women say, feel, think and do is foreign to them. It would be like asking a student after a biology lecture, "so how many light fixtures were in the room?" the kid would ask, "wait, we are supposed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:01 AM
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Men have had a 50 year head start on brainwashing the media that it's okay and sexy to swallow cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:36 PM
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Why isn't he the one paying for it if he cares that much? 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:35 PM
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yep! one of the lines I tell myself when I cut off a scrote early and often is "I refuse to be a victim." the women who stay in bad (not necessarily abusive) relationships that they know are bad are implicitly asking for sympathy and therefore not a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:30 PM
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I feel like men want women to settle just for them, make a special exception for them. 😂 If there's a pickme that will already settle for anybody with the bar in hell, he doesn't want her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:04 AM
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dont forget loyal - never looks at better men and will settle for you no matter how much you screw up, disappoint or abuse her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:50 PM
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I think it's not that they're "boring" but they're "self absorbed" and it's so funny that men used to say women are the boring ones without any thoughts when I can guarantee it's because they dont bother learning anything about the pwrson hes talking to. I think men absolutely deserve their loneliness, that's why they all want a girlfriend. Pretty much every woman is capable of listening and creating wonderful conversation. I doubt they get this kind of sensitivity from their bros, who are all s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:54 AM
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I feel like casual sex has gone too far, and sexual liberation was originally supposed to mean "if you like him and he likes you you guys shouldn't have to wait till marriage to sleep together!" and I think that kind of liberation is healthy, but men trying to sleep with as many women as possible, incels feeling entitled to use women for sex, or only expecting sex out of a man and seeking none of the other personality traits is the problem. I'm sure porn and media has to do with a lot of the pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:24 PM
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Ugh thank you for sharing this 🤢 It just helped me realize how small that feeling of missing out on sex is, compared to the huge overwhelming negative of loss of self respect if I rushed into things with a guy. I feel bad for the non-FDS woman just realizing now that men are the liars. Never base your self worth on what men say, because they will say contradictory things just to get in your pants. Ugly? He'll say you're beautiful to him. Beautiful? He'll neg you to get you insecure. A prude? He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:48 PM
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I remember before FDS the patriarchy brainwashed me into thinking women really were weaker and deserved to be criticized more harshly. Now I realize they are criticized more harshly, but it's because it is easier to manipulate women into compliance not because they are morally weaker than men. Female celebrities have to be perfect, while Male celebrities get to be goofy and stupid so they can be "relatable" It's all so tiresome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:43 PM
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FDS really opens your eyes about fictional media; it isn't based on reality, at first, it's based on what the writers wished reality would be, then over time, it becomes reality. The scrotes have an agenda when making shows. After all, I've heard many advice about writing shows be, "what kind of wish would you like fulfilled?" For example, the Fairy Odd Parents fulfills the wish of having two fairies that grant magic wishes and always cares about you. I feel like TV is the main way hookup cultur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:40 PM
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If they do that I'll ghost them, and give THEM something to be confused about. "I wonder if it's because I tried to gaslight her?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:58 AM
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okay "marriage is super important to her" so it's not important for you then? you dont have to buy the ring if you dont marry her. men find the weirdest ways to shift blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:33 PM
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well you gotta remember reddit is predominantly male dominated, so our strategies are a "threat" and hate speech against them. I am just sad for the women who are censored from seeing FDS stuff as it can save them a lot of trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:16 PM
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ugh I hate when men complain "stop making this an ultimatum!" to guilt trip the other party into feeling sorry for "coercing" them to change with ultimatums. well, 1. you had a chance to stop the behavior long before it got to that point; and 2. women are free to leave whenever they want and for whatever reason they want. If he sees it as an ultimatum that's his problem, for you they are just standards for your comfort and quality of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:45 PM
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lmao it's literally not even fun or easy like shopping though; for women it's like trying to find a stylish dress at a garage sale while for men it's like attending a job interview after cheating through college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:40 PM
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passive guys are nice guys in disguise, I've seen this recently in a scrote I talked to. They act like they were the good guy with their ex's because they went along with anything they wanted, and "they don't cause conflict", yet I guarantee the whole time they were probably sulking or stonewalling or withholding intmacy. it's better to just be direct with what you want instead of punishing people with your silent rebellion, you're not being nice or agreeable or peaceful at all. I so agree passi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:28 AM
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I think it started with trying to remove the shame hanging over a womans head if she had sex out of wedlock or had more than one partner. I liked that good intention, women are sexual beings and they make mistakes when they're younger. I think what it has morphed into is commodifying sex by selling it and also the recklessness of having it with so many people you get diseases and unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:34 PM
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this is true but you overlook one critical factor: in developing and poor nations, they see children as a resource and sex as a past time. that's why they're motivated to have as many kids as possible, playing a lottery game for example hoping one of them "makes it" in wealthy countries, they have less kids or none, as the pursuit of developing the country and working on your career becomes the end game, and wanting to provide the best possible future for your kid instead of having as many as po…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:10 PM
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you bring up fair and respectful points that a chad can exhibit many husband material traits, the difference is a Chad is not willing to wait 5 years before having sex with me. A chad knows he can easily get sex quicker and with a perhaps more physically attractive woman, within weeks even. But a husband who hears he'd have to wait that long will shrug and say okay, because he is with me for my personality / company and everything else. in reality I'd probably wait around 1 year at minimum, to 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:58 PM
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while at first I agree, mind games seem to be the only way to get results with stubborn people, I just dont think someone you have to resort to mind games with is worth salvaging. someone who needs that level of consequences is still mentally a child. if they cannot meet your needs out of empathy and communication, they simply refuse to comply. it's not worth staying for if it's time for mind games. unless it was something really really small like you just want him to mow the yard on Tuesday ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:44 AM
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it's okay to have high standards if you're willing to accept you may get nothing at all too. You choose your standards, so dont complain if you cant catch anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:14 AM
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No, the sex for chad is different than for a husband. you know you're not going to see a chad again so you can be as promiscuous and reckless as you want with him. the fact that you're a prude with your husband is proof that you're in it for the long haul. you want him to see you as his wife and not an object. you will have lovemaking instead of hot fucking. you have weekend getaways at a bnb instead of fucking in a parking lot. you can get anal or bj from any hooker, but only a wife can you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:09 AM
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I've come to learn a man is inseparable from his ego, so I quickly discern how they handle it. the number one factor for me to decide whether hes in husband category is whether his ego is insecure or if he is egoless. the thing is that people think a man without ego is "spineless, pussy whipped, " etc. but I think it is a man who is so strong he can laugh at the small inconveniences in life and can handle his emotions. I suppose TRP used to call this stoicism. a man with a fragile ego who yells …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:55 AM
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if the man is complaining usually he has little to offer. the average looking dude with beautiful women probably maxed out his game, wealth and social skills. usually if a guy is in the complaining stage he isn't willing to put in the effort to pursue the things that would make him attractive to beautiful women, so it would be EASIER for him to lower his standards, but POSSIBLE for him to get beautiful women by maximizing his potential. I guess it's like saying "don't give up hope of landing a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:43 AM
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mens stance on pornography is not "the woman I'm talking to will be happier if she changes her perspective" its "men will be happier if women think this way." I question any male who becomes a therapist and tries to treat female clients because I think they are just incapable of seeing things from a female perspective. everything they'll speak about is from a patriarchal men first perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:39 PM
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I think he knew you were out of his league and so sabotaged his relationship. Anyway, of course he finds a LVW, only a pickme would settle for a guy who wants to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:29 AM
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men shouldn't even complain about standards because the things we want arent impossible for them to acquire. other than height, their income, career, how they treat women are all things they can learn or change. it's not like we're asking them to grow wings or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:30 PM
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holy cow theres so many things wrong with men I cant even begin 1. her only crime was rejecting him... and to him that means she deserves to die?! 2. he takes no accountability for his actions. rather than going to jail and learning his lesson, he kills himself 3. if he really could not live with the idea of her rejecting him, as in an actual suicide due to depression, why did he have to kill her before killing himself?! it just proves to me the suicide was used as a way to get out of being puni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:24 PM
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Lmao I can imagine that article getting a "nice for what?" tag. What is this cool girl getting by putting down women like us? Isn't it empowering to literally "[enact strategies].... to get what they want from men"? Do they not want women to win?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:44 PM
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