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pulley/r/seduction17/01/11 11:11 PM
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pulley/r/seduction11/05/11 02:02 PM
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No, the fact that you made that statement shows your ignorance. It’s about her status, what she thinks of herself, not how attractive she is to you. It’s how attractive she thinks she is, and thus gives us a few pointers about how she should be approached.
/r/seduction11/06/11 09:32 AM
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I aggree with a lot of this! But, kino should always be done quickly. It is completely normal.
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:03 PM
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I have a pretty good thing going with a girl with a lot of these traits. She’s the type of girl who doesnt do ONS, FWB (except for once, me) and doesnt have sex until weeks or months into the relationship. The key was to build lots of comfort and attraction. She was way into me before I even tried to kiss her. She’s been exclusive with me (without me knowing until recently) for months even when we werent seeing each other because she couldnt think of anyone else that way. The night I did kiss he…
/r/seduction04/06/11 11:54 AM
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She’s already moved on.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:17 PM
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You talk about using the massage as a gateway for fooling around, do you usually do massages? Not just you frogma, but the guys here in general? Massages are a FWB/LTR thing for me; something I do with girls I have sex with, not something I do to get there. Massages are nice, and I won’t object to getting one (and then maybe reciprocate), but for me it’s generally too much to give without getting something first. Any thoughts on this?
/r/seduction22/05/11 04:36 PM
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My experience is that if she isn't the easy type you will have to build some comfort. Build comfort, escalate kino and don’t be afraid to caveman a little bit. If you meet a lot of LMR don’t be afraid to be assertive. Also I’ve had success by doing the “Alright, you can come to my place, but you won’t be getting any action tonight” thing. I actually did that with kissing as well once, kissed her anyway, then dit it for the f-close and closed anyway. Havent field tested it that much yet, but I th…
/r/seduction11/05/11 03:26 PM
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We started out a a thing for students mainly. I already had some friends doing this sort of work for some venues, so I had a lot of contacts available to me through their networks. We had a lot of fun and I’ve made a lot of friends through it, but as far as pick up goes, I’d say you’re a lot better off as part of the audience than as the promoter. Theres a lot of work involved and that makes it hard to close anything..
/r/seduction16/04/11 01:07 AM
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Yes, I’ve been doing that for a few years quit after this summer though. Takes a lot of time and energy. Not quite sure how to answer your post, but if you have any questions, go ahead!
/r/seduction15/04/11 05:18 PM
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Seriously, read the sidebar. Indecisiveness is really un-sexy. If she postpones, you should give her a hard time about it, not give her the option beforehand! Nothing is more important to her than you. You are so fucking cool, you have no idea how much shes looking forward to it. And you, youre shitloads of fun and shes really lucky to be afforded some of your time. You are one cool dude! Now go change your name to ipwngirl.
/r/seduction26/01/11 12:17 PM
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This. Realize that it does not matter. If you don’t care, no one else will. Focus on stop being AFC and when you do that, and get that core confidence and you’ll see that its really not an issue what so ever.
/r/seduction24/01/11 10:24 PM
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Don’t be weird or act like you’re hurt about it, say Hi, it’s the polite thing to do! Just don’t get stuck hovering around her. If she strikes up a conversation, don’t keep it going to long, leave her wanting more of you and then go and give it to someone else.
/r/seduction20/01/11 12:43 PM
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Don’t hang around her at the party. Talk to other people. She needs to see that other people enjoy your company and that you have what we call "High Value". Let her see that everyone around you are having a great time with you and she’ll want that to. Don’t give her any validation tonight unless she does something out of her way to earn it. She should be wondering if you really like her or not, give her an excuse to do whatever it takes to get your attention.
/r/seduction20/01/11 12:22 PM
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Manny the Martian sounds great! Haha, I bet you get some weird looks doing that. How did it work out for you?
/r/seduction20/01/11 12:53 AM
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Congrats for creating a life for yourself man! You’ve already shown the world you can change, keep at it! How’s the nightlife in Shanghai?
/r/seduction20/01/11 12:51 AM
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Hi Benny! I think maybe, just maybe, you did everything wrong. But thats cool, check out the sidebar and then sit down and analyze. If you manage to do this without going about it all emotional, you can learn a lot.
/r/seduction20/01/11 12:02 AM
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Yeah, you’re probably right, these connections might be things that either happen or don’t. Maybe I’m a bit arrogant to think i can do much about personal chemistry ;)
/r/seduction19/01/11 11:25 PM
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Find a girl wearing any school's lettering or emblem and open follow up by saying "It’s a shame I don’t date girls from X University"
/r/seduction19/01/11 07:36 PM
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Hey, I’m just trying to analyze the situation to better my game. Its not her thats the big deal, its that this is a bit of a sticking point for me. I’m not talking about doing romantic things for her and shit, I’m talking about building not just interest and comfort, but some real emotions on her part. This one in particular is a lot less openly emotional than most girls I know, so Im thinking I need to create more of a romantic feeling on her part. Not just be a guy whos fun to hang with, but a…
/r/seduction19/01/11 01:16 PM
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Haha, I had a similar thing happen to me last saturday. Me and my friends were over at the next table from two HB7s. We notice this insanely drunk guy sit down at their table and just stare at them. After looking at this for a few minutes and laughing our asses of at this clown who isnt even managing to say a single word, I cut in between them and his line of sight. I asked the girl closest to me "Ok, so me and my friends are really enjoying the show here, but we were discussing, which of you is…
/r/seduction19/01/11 01:00 PM
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It seems like youre being much more emotionally availible than physically present. This is a bad thing, if she wants anything from you emotionally or any of your (very valuable) time; she has to earn it. Dont let her decide and set the pace for everything.
/r/seduction18/01/11 10:35 AM
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Yeah, I think the silence could actually turn the whole thing into a really fun, playful game! Just be careful that you dont come off creepy. Light kino, initiate contact verbally, then maybe get a book (take a look at what shes reading) and then try the notes maybe. I think most girls would think its pretty creepy with a stranger passing them notes and looking at them if you dont build attraction and set a playful mood first!
/r/seduction18/01/11 10:22 AM
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So, just to clarify, I didn’t really have a good response to the whole "I’m not so sure" thing. In hindsight maybe I should have comforted her and said that theres nothing to be unsure about? Any other ideas? And regarding the title, I’m not really talking about building a commited, exclusive LTR, but I am trying to go beyond one night stands.
/r/seduction18/01/11 12:14 AM
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