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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	I finally know…		pulsed19	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/25 04:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Bro to Bro,man to man,father to father…. Some divorces can be nasty and one should indeed take steps to protect oneself.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 07:02 PM
13	Social media has destroyed everything in this world Not to be that guy but subreddits are rather self-serving. I believe some women might have the same opinion about this subreddit. And also not to be that guy, but sometimes people do grow apart. Divorce is hard on most people that go through it.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/26 12:40 PM
7	How to move on I think what has helped is the realization that it was just not meant to be. Things happen for a reason. I have a lot of regrets, a lot of what ifs. But at the end of the day, it’s about no finding a new happy life for oneself. Life didn’t turn out the way I thought it would. At this point, I have. No choice but to move forward and hope for the best.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/26 09:28 PM
1	When the divorce was done, what did you do ? Yeah to me is interesting that everyone else has moved on, and I still think I can go “home” and resume where we left off. I know we’re all different. Now I am honestly healing and doing my best to move on too. The brain is super interesting and I think it compartmentalizes to protect us.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/26 01:20 AM
11	When the divorce was done, what did you do ? I honestly still thought it was “temporary”. It took me a couple of years to realize it was all very much not temporary lol. I’m a slow learner. So I ended up postponing the grief a couple of years into it all hit at once.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 08:11 PM
2	Emotional collapse You’re lucky you have good friends. That’s really helpful to reconnect with them. And your second to last paragraph is something I could have written (except for the 23 years and the kids part). I think it’s very common and natural. Sometimes I wake up and I think I’m still loving my old life lol. I wish you the best in your healing :)	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/26 05:10 AM
3	Emotional collapse This resonates with me so much. I would honestly suggest trying to reconnect with old friends and finding hobbies. Essentially your life as you knew it ended. You now have to find a new one for yourself. What I lacked more than anything is meaningful connections like people to hang out with and such. Hang in there!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/26 04:49 AM
9	Where to meet women - Hot Yoga I’ve done it. It’s fun. I’m like the only guy sometimes.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 12:39 AM
3	How do you ban the thought of Su1cide as an easy way out of the nightmare? I used to do this a lot. With time I convinced myself that being alive is better than not being alive (even if marginally better). I did have therapy and I got a cat. Something that helped, strangely enough, was socializing more at work with the right people.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 02:33 PM
1	Does anyone else feel like "a looser" despite "winning" at most things in life? I feel like this. Maybe not as much as loser. More like a lot of guilt and thinking what I could have done to stay married. I did so many bad things at the time. It’s been five years already and the fact that it’s taking me this long does make me feel like a loser. Like my life is a movie in pause.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 06:39 AM
1	Does anyone else feel like "a looser" despite "winning" at most things in life? Lol sorry this made me laugh	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 06:37 AM
2	Wedding ring Dang I remember this. Sometimes I would still wear mine even after the divorce because I thought it was “temporary”. Now that I know it’s not, I stopped a while back. I think the proper time is when you realize it’s over…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/26 05:26 PM
0	If the wife initiates the divorce, why should we tell the kids it was mutual? For their protection. Assuming everyone is a decent parent, the children have the right to have both of them in their lives. They’re not pawns in a domestic dispute.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 06:05 PM
5	Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends? Yeah but they were not my friends to begin with. I knew them through the marriage and when it ended, so did their friendships. I lost one of my friends in the process but everyone else that was my friend remained so.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 10:38 PM
1	I need advice on protecting myself from false accusations Document as much as you want. If divorce is in the cards and this won’t be amigable, yes I’d contact a lawyer asap. It’s better to be proactive and make sure you cover your ass. Be strong, brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 04:19 PM
1	I finally know… Regardless of whether or not it’s true, I do agree I need to get to a healthier place. There’s nothing I can do about the past but to learn from it and move on. Now that the door is closed for good, I have to. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking recently and I do have a plan to seek help and move on. I do appreciate the your words.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/25 04:10 AM
3	I finally know… Yeah it’s all very rough. As you said, it feels like the day it all happened. Hang in there	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/25 04:31 PM
1	Just found out a friend of mine (female) 24yo, makes over $10,000 a MONTH by selling nudes online. She dropped out of highschool at 16 and has no job experience or higher education. She makes double what I make with 10% (or less) of the effort... I hope she pays her taxes :-p	/r/MGTOW	20/05/19 10:56 PM