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DATING ADVICEpumpandsump/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 11:42 PM
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ADVICEpumpandsump/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 11:51 AM
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Do you feel that she just likes to lord over you or do you think she genuinely likes your company? I think both. I think she's a bit lonely to be honest. Good suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 05:33 PM
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I feel the status burn a bit, but I think the issue is a combination of status and personality. Like her personality is that way BECAUSE she's high status, does that make sense? I have some other high status friends and their personalities aren't like hers, we get along just fine, so I know it's not just status itself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 01:04 PM
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I guess I'm just asking if I should actually confront her about our friendship or just ignore her. Also, she appears in my friendship circles here and there so I'll have to be a bit cold to her if I do see her.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 12:55 PM
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If she doesn't have qualities you admire... why do you spend time with her? She's the one instigating the friendship. I think I've texted her only a handful of times just to ask about something (eg. Where an event is) but I've never called her to chat/gossip. It's always her calling and she usually just talks at me. She called two weeks ago while I was busy, I texted asking if she was OK, she said she just wanted to catch up and I just never called her back. Plus I know she has low self-esteem (…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 12:20 PM
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Good one!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 05:54 PM
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Thank you I really enjoyed reading your comment. I think it is worth considering whether you may be being a little too high maintenance about it. I think I'm borderline high maintenance. I definitely eat sweets and drink a tiny bit of wine here and there, but only 1-3x a week of indulgence. So definitely I'm not restricting myself 100%. I just can't really afford to eat sweets or drink more than that, but dates are always revolved around food and indulgence. I think I can definitely be categoriz…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 01:14 PM
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This is mostly it. He's extremely muscular so he can eat a ton. I just can't afford to eat that much. I have to be extra careful when eating with him so I'm not swayed by his larger portions.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 09:30 AM
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Thanks, I like this one! That's a good way to be lighthearted.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 07:07 AM
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I exercise regularly. I'm watching my diet. That's all you need to know. I'm looking for ways to defuse the situation when someone pushes me to order high calorie foods, especially when it's someone I'm dating. I don't have a problem with friends that push me because I justify flat out say no, but when I'm on dates it's more difficult to be fun and flirty when I start getting irritated because he keeps teasing me that I'm not eating.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 06:44 AM
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You're missing the point of the post. I don't need diet advice. I'm saying I already have a good diet and watch my portions, it's other people who are ruining it. I'm completely fine when I'm cooking myself or eating out myself. The point of the post is regarding social pressure not food choices. For example going on dates and getting a "fun" drink and apparently I'm a downer when I order sparkling water instead of a 300 calorie drink. I just want people to stop giving me a hard time about my ch…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:28 AM
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Thanks! Never heard of it. Will check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:22 AM
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I politely disagree. It's exactly about how much you eat, actually. I eat fresh and healthy food but it's completely possible to gain weight eating "healthy" foods. For instance if you eat an entire avocado that's 300-350 calories.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:13 AM
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The problem is I don't know how to handle it (when someone calls me out) without basically telling them to fuck off. I get very defensive because I don't want them to question my choices. I understand my choices but I just don't like when people ask me about them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:10 AM
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