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punisher1005/r/seduction07/12/11 02:53 AM
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1

That's me. I have only had 1 Tinder date. Meanwhile I can pickup a girl pretty easily any night of a week..
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:10 PM
-15

Nor am I. Perhaps you need to work on your reading comprehension skills.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:54 AM
-11

I don’t care you that you don’t care. You’re the one asking for advice not me you dumb dumb.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:46 AM
-17

You sound like a huge bummer.
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:55 AM
1

The word you’re looking for is “beside”.
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:51 AM
1

It sounds to me like you're coming off too strong. Try approaching indirectly.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:46 PM
1

It’d be better if you could spell.
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:39 AM
2

I'll try to explain. My girlfriend knows I care for her and would move mountains for her. But I don't need her. I love her and I want to take care of her. But I don't need her. I want to be a great man to her but, I don't need her. If she wants to leave or cheats on me , same goes for me, okay bye, kick rocks. I will feel bad but I know in myself I will be okay.
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:15 AM
3

It's just fun and easy. You don't have to cook it. You can have literally just one after a meal. It's just kind of fun. It's not like a whole cake or anything, you can share them. Occasionally I'll go to get something out of the fridge and grab just 2 of them, eat one and take one to her and feed it to her randomly. It's not a zillion calories, it's 1 M&M.
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:45 PM
23

Yah this exactly. When I met my girlfriend I asked her to help me in the kitchen and then went to the freezer and got out ice cream. Then went to the TV and turned on NetFlix. You can't just go straight to fucking. EDIT: I also keep frozen M&Ms and skittles in the freezer and get just one out occasionally. Kind of fun.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:32 AM
2

Jesus that’s a lot of misspelling.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:17 AM
2

Chicks get horny too...
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:26 PM
2

I started talking to a girl from class. After texting her, we arranged a date. She stopped responding to my texts the night of the date. No explanation or heads up. The next morning I went to class and sat down. I was visibly annoyed and she just started laughing at me before walking away. I wish I could say I played it cool, but that really got me even more mad. It’s like she got what she wanted from me and I gave her the satisfaction of rejection. Fixed. Readable.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:00 AM
11

I'll tell you right now negs do not work unless you know them already and it's joking. Like, a good one I use with my girlfriend, "Don't wear that you're going to look better than me." It's not a direct neg but it kind of is.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:51 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:42 PM
20

That's none of your fucking business but thanks for asking.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:21 PM
14

It does work for me I have a girlfriend and a happy family.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:17 PM
8

You're an idiot. You have a girlfriend right?
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:16 PM
21

Maybe you misread, shoes as "girl".
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:11 PM
30

Most importantly it's interesting and non-sexual.
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:36 PM
47

Seriously, just say, "I just noticed your shoes, where did you get them? I think my sister would like them." or something similar.
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:17 PM
83

Complement her shoes.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:50 PM
2

Nice.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:11 AM
4

Go to parties, socialize, find study buddies, talk to people after class, walk with people between classes, eat lunch with people.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:35 PM
3

I'm older and have a girlfriend now, but I will reply right away if I have my phone and time. But I will also say, "Hey I'm in the middle of something, I'll text you later" and leave it at that too.
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:28 AM
-6

Are you a male or female? Have you had your testosterone checked?
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:18 PM
-9

To say the least. Idgaf but I regularly date 8-9-10s and the dating apps are a waste of time.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:43 AM
1

Send again I don’t see it
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:37 PM
1

I’m trying to help you my dude.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:30 PM
1

Maybe you have a reading comprehension problem which might be the core of your problem and why you find struggles for help.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:22 PM
1

https://i.imgur.com/Q1gb5cD.jpg Ok buddy. Anything else?
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:15 PM
1

I’m not white and live in Mexico. So?
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:09 PM
8

I hope so for your sake.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:40 PM
3

Well considering I just had a threesome and you're an insufferable asshole, I think one of us is more versed.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:29 PM
2

I'll build on this. Make relationships with FRIENDS. You don't have to focus on getting laid. That stuff will come naturally as you become more comfortable with yourself. Be kind, be flirty but not overt. Try to laugh and be in the moment but don't worry about an outcome. You can suggest things but even with my girlfriend I don't expect anything. Sometimes we go fast, sometimes slow. Don't have an expectation and things will progress. Literally my girlfriend texted me "I want to fuck you" yester…
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:23 PM
3

You're just an asshole. Try to work on your perspective.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:19 PM
3

Another thing I do, I sail on a race team. Most people don't know you can just walk up to yachts and ask to sail. It's literally that easy, most people are happy to have crew or people to shoot the shit with and sail. My girl was mortified the first time I just walked up to a stranger and asked if we could sail with him. Old retired guy, he was like "Sure!"
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:21 AM
28

I do this shit all the time. My girlfriend is unconfortable with it but I negotiated down our rent $250/month because I just said no. I said "come on this is the best you can do?". I have no shame though, doesn't hurt to ask.
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:39 AM
5

Yep I think so too. Low sex drive is a hormone issue not just getting over some mental issue.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:34 AM
5

I just commented the same thing. I am not sure why you're getting downvoted. It sounds exactly like this.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:30 AM
4

You might have a hormone imbalance. Go to your doctor and explain the situation.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:30 AM
1

Well I’ll preface this. I don’t care. But yes.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:34 AM
1

I disagree about asking on dates. I always say I’m doing XYZ and do you want to come? I do this with literally all my friends and they do too.
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:23 AM
2

Hey man you can have feelings. Having feelings is normal. You can be strong and do the right thing and still cry sometimes. I’m 41 and have a spouse and get plenty of tail and I cry at movies sometimes. Being a man isn’t about being the biggest baddest ass. Its about being companionate. It’s about being strong when no one else is.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:34 PM
2

Bruh I start this often and early. My GF now just yells “excuse me!” If I really let one rip. It’s too late now though she’s invested.
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:25 AM
5

I would never in a million years say something like this to someone I haven't f-ed a hundred times already.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:59 PM
2

Maybe you confused words. Confidence and compliments aren’t the same thing.
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:52 AM
2

I ALWAYS wear a watch. I have an Apple watch for my every day wear for health tracking and all that. But I have 3 $10,000+ watches that I wear for special occasions. Watches are fuckin' baller and people that know, know. I've been places where I'm wearing one of my fancy watches and have gotten complements many many times.
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:49 PM
42

A girl I haven't talked to for YEARS hit me up on facebook and strait up sent me a link to her onlyfans. I was like, what the fuck is this? The conversation ended with her telling me I'll never have girlfriend and this is why I'm single. Plot twist I live with my girlfriend.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/21 11:45 AM
1

Grow a beard. I’m 39 I look 20s without a beard.
/r/seduction20/10/19 09:34 AM
4

Disagree. I have said it before and she was like “that stuff doesn’t work.” My reply, “worked on you”. She laughed. We were together 6 years.
/r/seduction17/08/19 01:58 AM
3

Lose
/r/seduction20/07/19 03:46 PM
2

Mods ban this weak asshole.
/r/seduction22/04/19 08:11 AM
1

I still don't get how what you're trying to say relates to what she did.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/19 08:31 PM
2

She made false accusations which would have resulted in ruined lives of 15 men. She should get charges for every single one of them.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/19 08:29 PM
10

She's ragging for sure. My gf says this exact same phrase. Edit: we have been together for 2 years and I'll add if she's still feeling frisky she says, "we should take a shower together." Which means period sex but it washes off as we do it in the shower so she doesn't feel gross.
/r/seduction29/03/19 08:18 PM
5

Lol wut?
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:31 AM
17

I hope everyone does. It hardens you and makes you a wiser and more compassionate person. It's like working in food service. Everyone should do it at least for a while.
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:01 AM
10

Hang in there brother.
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:00 AM
2

I don't even know why you posted this. It's not a question and it's not helpful.
/r/seduction20/01/19 07:48 AM
1

You won't forget about her but you can use this as a learning experience. And yeah you def aren't alone.
/r/seduction20/01/19 07:44 AM
15

Based on this FR you didn't get rejected at all. This was grade A.
/r/seduction12/01/19 04:26 AM
1

Embrace it. Say, "hi this is the first time I've been here and I don't really know anyone, so I figured I'd try to meet some people, I'm 'mackpower'"
/r/seduction01/12/18 07:50 AM
1

Why did you delete your post? You know exactly why I asked and I stated so in the very first paragraph of my reply trying to help you. Your hormones.
/r/seduction02/11/18 07:00 PM
2

Wow dude. First I get where you're coming from. You're feeling like there is nothing because you're going through a dry spell because of your situation. So first things first realize you're feeling this way because of your hormones and it's totally normal and natural. There is nothing wrong with the way you're feeling and you shouldn't feel bad about it. Second thing here, getting a spouse will come. Someone way smarter than me gave me some great advice that I'll never forget. Getting in a relat…
/r/seduction02/11/18 11:29 AM
1

Long strokes, rub her clit...
/r/seduction11/09/18 08:07 AM
50

What? This sub is exactly 100% polar opposite hating women. We are not incels. This sub is about respecting and understanding women and helping our brothers to understand women. The whole point is to build up better men who respect women. What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/seduction10/09/18 05:25 AM
24

Nice.
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:43 AM
10

lol she's not a battering ram. Go slower.
/r/seduction09/09/18 06:57 PM
1

Dude do not hide your baldness. Own in. There is nothing wrong with it and plenty of women love it. There is nothing sexy about being ashamed of something though.
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:30 PM
2

^ This right here OP. You literally say you've had girls interested. You've been selective who you want to date like LITERALLY ALL OF HUMAN KIND. You're obsessing which is totally natural and normal but it very obviously isn't an obstacle. Get over it and get out there.
/r/seduction07/09/18 07:08 AM
4

Dude lots of shit in this story is try-hard. The daddy stuff. Pointing out your differences instead of highlighting what you have alike. Talking about guitar lessons when she probably doesn't give a shit. Keep bringing up ways to get back to your place. It's not natural and comes off needy as hell. If you want to get a woman back to your place you say what you are doing and invite her along you don't pushy suggest she do what you want her to do.
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:54 AM
2

Same. I won't post specifics but I'd like to post a reply so others with similar problems might benefit. I'd also be open to coaching/mentoring more long term.
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:29 AM
1

your you are youare you're
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/17 02:08 AM
-1

The slave master and the slave are comfortable in their relationship. Does that make it fair and equitable? Laughable argument
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 01:36 PM
1

That's not the argument. And I'm talking in circles repeating myself to some folks who don't seem to understand. So I won't continue. Good luck guys. I hope you get it in the future.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 01:33 PM
-1

Jesus christ I really don't know how to help you guys. I honestly really just feel pity for you. I'd love to talk in circles for hours explaining the nuances of relationships but I have better things to do. Good luck guys.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 01:31 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/66lys1/well_would_you/dgk44zl/
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:54 PM
6

You know, this isn't very constructive. I'd encourage all of you guys to read up on EI: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence Understanding how people feel is a valuable life lesson that would really help a lot of these replies.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:50 PM
0

JESUS CHRIST. YOU ARE COMPARING IT TO SEX. How fuckin dense are you white knights? People who can't get laid
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:44 PM
1

All of it. Your premise implies something I didn't say. Then you quote part of a comment trying to reinforce a point I don't understand. So what point are you trying to make?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:43 PM
0

Can you rephrase in English?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:39 PM
16

Yeah sorry no. It's not about getting laid, it's something called respect and empathy. I'm not worried about my gf fucking some other dude, but in the same breath she'd NEVER consider going on a holiday with some guy and staying in a room he paid for. TOTES FRIENDS! Just the fact that I have to explain these very basic life skills just speaks volumes about the whiteknights and neckbeard shit going on here. You don't have to control your significant other to know that certain behaviour is just fu…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:34 PM
1

Perhaps you should read it.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:25 PM
2

K
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:25 PM
1

Perhaps you should read it instead of putting the onus on me like it's my responsibility to spoon feed you information.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 12:24 PM
2

Because you left out the rest of my statement. That's cherry picking and just like what she said is not what you pretend it to be. What I said is also not what you pretend it to be. Perhaps you could work as trumps tweet editor.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 11:41 AM
3

K
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 11:27 AM
13

Not what I said. Nice try though.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 11:26 AM
1

It's really kind of telling about you how you distort the reality of the situation to fit your potentiality than just accept what she literally said. Consider googling "straw man arguments".
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 10:48 AM
3

Concoct a scenario that fits your narrative if you wish. But it's pretty simple reading comprehension that that's not what's going on.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 10:16 AM
18

That's not what she said. But nice try.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 09:04 AM
4

Yeah because it's not normal. The only time it's normal to pay for your friend's lady is when your friend is there or if it's some kind of incidental. There is no situation where I'm buying my friend's partner random gifts. That's really really bizarre.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 08:57 AM
72

Why doesn't she just buy her own games? Why should her boyfriend be floating her, and why are these beta fucks buying her games? I don't give a shit what my partners do, but let's call a spade a spade. If she want's to accept gifts from dudes that aren't her partner, that's leading and not something a lot of guys would be cool with.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/17 08:52 AM
2

IANAL but I 100% agree. She was also trespassing after refusing to leave when they repeatedly told her. I'd be laying low if I were her I'm sure the police would love to speak with her after seeing this video.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/17 07:20 AM
61

If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a ball.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/16 09:08 PM
3

I almost feel like cis is a disparaging term now. Almost like faggot or homo was/is.
/r/MensRights12/09/16 03:48 AM
1

I'm of the mindset it should be double the sentence if proven that the accuser falsely testified.
/r/MensRights16/07/16 09:10 AM
10

Dear everyone reading this, your girl getting hit on CONSTANTLY is a fact of life of dating hot women. If your girl getting hit on bothers you it just makes you appear weak and inexperienced. Trust me when I say getting butthurt and defensive when your girl gets hit on is not attractive. Good job OP.
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:48 PM
1

Off topic. Good for you I guess?
/r/seduction09/02/16 07:39 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:34 PM
2

Did you read what the dude said. He said: if you don't have connections or can't spare a little money to get in the door. Don't knock an entire scene because you can't afford to play I was simply giving context. It wasn't a brag I was just refuting his weak ass comment.
/r/seduction07/01/16 08:49 PM
1

Money. I make a lot more cash here in my industry.
/r/seduction07/01/16 08:47 PM
-1

I never said I was having a hard time Doctor_Pedobear, I said it was more difficult than other cities. I think it's a pretty common sentiment too considering the upvotes.
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:54 PM
0

Not bragging just context. Line and Library are way overpriced like I mentioned in my original comment. Never heard of the other spots but I'll check them out.
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:42 PM
1

Different strokes for different folks I guess. I think NY women are easier to approach by a long shot. Bodega Thought I'd been here before but I looked through the yelp pics and I don't think I ever have. I'll check it out.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:57 PM
1

Bungalow and Shangri-La, weho is OK but it's literally gay bars, Sunset and further into Hollywood is all tourist traps IMO... But like I said, these all pale in comparison to other cities like Miami, Austin, New York, etc etc etc...
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:29 PM
-4

Maybe LA county. But I don't know anyone who'd consider that LA.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:24 PM
0

No anger. I'm just stating my opinion. If you know of a great place in LA to meet women I'd love to hear it. 6 figures in Santa Monica basically means you are lower middle class Lol
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:22 PM
-7

I have plenty of money. I make 6 figures and live in Santa Monica. I'm dating 2 girls right now, one is a stripper and one works at a Korean hostess joint. They are fucking hot. LA still sucks for meeting women. Anyway that's not what OP said anyway and not what I asked. I said name ONE place, yet, nobody can.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:09 PM
-1

I currently live in LA, there are definitely some hot girls wandering around (I'm dating a couple of girls I consider 10's) but compared to other cities LA SUCKS! Pretty much all of Hollywood is a scam and/or tourist trap. LA is literally the worst place I have ever lived for meeting hot girls. Miami is way up there on the list, New York, Barcelona, Bangkok, Soeul, SOOOO many more cities where it's way better to meet hot girls. LA is literally the last on my list. The fact that nobody can name o…
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:05 PM
-2

These are not LA.
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:58 PM
-1

None of these are LA. I asked "Name one place in LA", not "Name a bunch of cities that aren't LA". Orange County isn't even LA COUNTY.
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:57 PM
1

Name one place in LA.
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:21 AM
12

Name one place in LA that isn't behind some velvet rope you have to pay for (in one way or another) please. I'd love to hear it. LA is horrible for meeting hot girls.
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:19 AM
29

Great advice there Casanova. You come up with that all by yourself?
/r/seduction20/03/15 01:08 AM
1

I'm atheist too so definitely not Mormon. I wouldn't call us polygamist since we aren't getting married and have no intention to and we don't live together. I would call myself polyamorist.
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:02 PM
6

Not the redpill. I'm totally happy right now. I have 2 long term girlfriends I've been with for over 2 years now and a date tomorrow at lunch. These are just realities you come to terms with as you get more established and self confident. Your life and more importantly your perspective changes with age. The women who deserve your love, time and respect put in as much effort as you do in your relationships. The types of women OP describes have their own set of problems and they project it on to o…
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:50 AM
14

Take solace in the fact that looks are fleeting. Especially for women. They dwell and obsess in them and they fade with every passing day. One day sooner than she hopes her looks will fade and she will still be a crotchety bitch. And you will still be awesome. Just a reality of life.
/r/seduction11/03/15 03:47 AM
1

Not just dads, men and young guys without children too. These issues are often thrust upon you without your consent or desire. Right now we have no birth control options other than vasectomy. (Condom use is not enough. I think all sexually active have all had broken condom or "slip off" scares.) I hope this changes in the future. I know I had to choose vasectomy even though I wish I had the same birth control options women have now.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 10:43 AM
1

He just put it out there (I want to fuck you) and that's it. Take it or leave it. I do this all the time and I have some smoking hot girl friends that are not off-put by it. I just put it out there and that's that.
/r/seduction02/01/15 07:26 PM
1

Asking her out on Facebook is fine, but why not grab lunch together and bring it up then? Also, as you probably are already aware, you shouldn't be asking out chicks you work with. It's dangerous territory as if things (likely) don't work out, it will (likely) make your work situation uncomfortable.
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:57 AM
3

You sound like a bright kid. And yes, basically that's right. Just keep in mind almost nothing that you do when you are 15 matters when you are 30 (or heck 20). At this point in your life you should be having fun doing what you like and worrying less. If you're not happy doing something, change it. You have a ton of time to experiment and decide what makes you happy.
/r/seduction11/07/14 12:57 PM
2

Not to be an asshole but you should consider learning to articulate your thoughts coherently before posting advice to someone else.
/r/seduction11/07/14 12:55 PM
1

Dude you got the right attitude. Keep this up and you're bound to be successful. Tips or not.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:57 AM
-7

They call them prostitutes and you can get them with no game at all from backpage.com. Check it out! edit: this is sarcasm guys... didn't think i'd have to say that
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:27 PM
1

Point taken. But to be fair, they were never granted the right in the first place. That said, we also try 14 year olds as adults when they clearly aren't. So that reflects the inequality of justice for children too, but toward the other extreme. That also doesn't address the other point I raised. And again, I'm just saying this for the sake of argument. I don't necessarily disagree with you, hypocrisy is rife in the system.
/r/PussyPass16/05/14 10:07 PM
1

I don't necessarily disagree with you. But an argument could be made that went along the lines, we don't take any rights away from children or mentally handicapped until they commit crimes either. Though I imagine they would be treated less harshly if and when they do commit crimes since their mental abilities would not be on par as fully mentally competent adults.
/r/PussyPass16/05/14 08:35 AM
1

Wow, I work as a sysadmin in IT and never once had anyone react negatively. As others have remarked, it's not the job it's you. If you're not proud of what you do or who you are it's going to reflect in your conversations.
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:06 PM
3

I would hazard to guess that the law was enacted because we recognize that women's hormones can make them act irrational during and after pregnancy.
/r/PussyPass13/05/14 07:39 PM
1

Are you going out without her?
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:54 PM
3

I was thinking the same thing. Tinder has zero to do with bettering yourself or your partner. It's quite literally the opposite of what this community is about and circle jerks about it are exactly why the pickup community has a bad name.
/r/seduction02/05/14 01:14 AM
2

It's really just easier than saying that he kissed 12 girls and had sex with 3 other girls. Just like it's easier to say CPU rather than "central processing unit". When you say things so much it's just easier to have a shorthand, lol, omg, wtf, fwiw.
/r/seduction01/05/14 11:38 PM
22

I'll add on to this. I've dated my share of 10s and some of my best girl friends are 10s. I'll tell you right now living as a very attractive female is a totally different world than it is as a male. Something so foreign it's just hard to relate to as a guy. Women get showered with attention wherever they go. By both men and women. To the point where it can become annoying at times or downright scary at others. After some time very hot women tend to avoid these social interactions by skipping th…
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:42 PM
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Couldn't have said it better. This guy is the poster boy for every other guy wanting advice. Take notes guys. This is the way to do it.
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:15 AM
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This is not a shit test, this is an IOI.
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:51 PM
6

Self realization. Nice brother.
/r/seduction07/10/13 03:00 AM
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This is legit advice. I do the exact same thing with tons of success. Really the only 3 topics I ever go into: 1) My concern that she's ok. "How are you feeling?" that sort of thing. Women are all about the feels so they love to communicate it, plus most women appreciate a guy that can take care of them. I guess in the same way we appreciate it when women take care of us. 2) Logistics, who, what, when, where, how are we getting together next. 3) Pictures of my adventures or whatever I'm doing, g…
/r/seduction01/10/13 12:28 AM
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I would like to have consensual intercourse in the missionary position strictly for the purpose of procreation so that we might produce viable offspring to help plant next season's harvest, madam. Doth thou protest?
/r/seduction28/09/13 12:43 AM
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Here's my goto line, "Do you remember my name?" If she says yes: "Damn, I'm terrible with names, I totally forgot yours." If she says no: "That's ok, I forgot yours too!" I've never had a situation where someone was really upset.
/r/seduction23/09/13 07:06 PM
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Wow. That's a really cool "happy ending" story. Good to hear man. Good work!
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:20 AM
3

Hey Chris, Did you ever meet a guy felt like he was totally hopeless? What was the worst case you ever encountered? Were you able to help him? Thanks!
/r/seduction18/09/13 11:00 PM
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That's certainly your opinion, one I'm sure he doesn't share if he's using the term.
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:42 AM
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I hope a mod deletes this and bans you.
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:33 AM
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Fuck off dude. He can self identify however he wants. Thanks for your lesson in political correctness today.
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:32 AM
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Wow dude. You are really beating yourself up over your failures and internalizing them. You know, dating should be fun and not only an analysis of all of your failures. I think if you just allow yourself to be in the moment instead of analyzing every aspect things might come a little more naturally for you. I'm 32 (about to be 33) and I do this same thing to a degree but have made a lot of changes in the last few years. First and foremost you should be true to yourself and stop getting wrapped u…
/r/seduction27/08/13 07:57 PM
1

Good for you dude. Very mature of you both.
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:36 AM
2

Smile. You are having more fun than anyone else and everyone there is just looking to have fun.
/r/seduction23/08/13 12:26 AM
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I say this to all of my guy friends I try to help. Meeting girls is like playing the lottery, you can't win if you don't play.
/r/seduction05/08/13 09:28 AM
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You're gonna love my nuts.
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:57 PM
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Well there really is no best way, it really depends on the situation. However, I can tell you a few things, 1) Avoid dragging anything out. If you feel the urge to say "hey you're fun, let's hang out and (do XYZ thing you like doing), DO IT. I feel like this sort of thing comes with age and maturity, but when you are confident and know what you want, you aren't afraid of being rejected. You realize that if you waste a ton of time with someone who isn't into you, you've missed MANY other amazing …
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:17 AM
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Kino is an escalation technique. You definitely can't escalate if you can't touch her and you can't tell her. Every girl I'm into I tell right away in one way or another. Rejection is part of the game. You can't win if you don't play. If you can't get over your own ego, you'll never progress.
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:02 AM
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I live in LA and it's the worst city I have ever lived in for meeting (hot) girls. Unless you have some serious status, via money or social connects, meeting women in LA is tough. By contrast, NYC, Miami, Austin, all of those cities have 10's walking around everywhere and most are pretty approachable. If you want to meet hot girls casually, don't come to LA.
/r/seduction03/10/12 04:13 AM
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The last sentence bolded sums up this entire thing nicely.
/r/seduction30/05/12 11:22 PM
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I answered the question.
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:58 PM
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If what you're looking for is sex, and she isn't willing to have sex with you, why aren't you spending your time with women who are willing to have sex with you or finding women who are? She is not giving you what you need/want, so find it somewhere else.
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:50 PM
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You can play the "hard to get" card when you have a harem of women already. When you have a lot of options, it's easy to not be invested. (Not to steal Tenmagnet's thunder. If he'd like to reply, that's cool too.)
/r/seduction25/04/12 09:31 AM
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I can see that, but I'd still skip it. In my experience girls like this are looking for validation and I just wouldn't waste my time. I understand that some girls don't want to seem easy, but in that case, typically, they are harder to F-close and not hard to get on dates.
/r/seduction07/03/12 07:29 PM
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I respectfully disagree. If I asked a girl out and she didn't seem interested, I wouldn't even waste my time. I'd spend my time where it would be most valuable. Meeting girls that were open to a relationship and not someone you have to chase around.
/r/seduction07/03/12 06:40 PM
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Hey Sasha, you seem like a cool guy. That said, please disable the auto play of that video. I ALMOST closed your website just because it auto played the audio at such a loud volume. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction29/02/12 09:59 AM
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Oh wow, this is the silliest advice from keyboard jockeys I have heard so far. There are a million better IOI's than dialated pupils. PLEASE don't listen to this shit. You are spinning your wheels.
/r/seduction29/02/12 09:55 AM
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TL;DR - Inner game matters. If you guys want to learn some awesome inner game stuff. Check out Hypnotica. He is an obviously smart guy who has some solid advice.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:41 PM
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Hi Neil. I just want to say that I'm a big fan of your writing style. Obviously your book has really had a crazy cultural impact. Thanks for your work and thanks for doing this AMA. 1) What do you think about Vince Kelvin taking over Project Hollywood again? 2) Do you ever regret writing the book? Would you ever do a Project Hollywood type of thing again? Or have you moved past that since you have had all this crazy success? 3) Is it strange to hear regular guys talking about "game" now?
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:57 PM
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Here is some golden Solo advice. 1) As soon as you enter the spot, say hello to everyone around you guys, girls, the bartender, etc. Waiting makes you seem creepy, and saying hello right away gives you instant connections to other people so you're not standing around wondering what to do next. Just say hello, be friendly and try to enjoy meeting people. You can scope sets as you socialize. Here is your opener, "Hi! You look like you're having fun. Why are you out tonight?" or "What brings you gu…
/r/seduction06/02/12 09:54 PM
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*There's *Who's
/r/seduction17/01/12 07:13 PM
2

Facial hair is purely preference. But I will say this much, generally some facial hair is good simply because it's masculine. How much is too much? Well that's hard to say objectively since "too little" or "too much" changes from guy to guy, and from girl to girl.
/r/seduction17/01/12 01:33 AM
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This was worthless as far as information. Good promo for himself though.
/r/seduction17/01/12 12:06 AM
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Well, both really. The beta guy was too needy. Then the "alpha" guy fell out of state and turned into an emo bitch after getting laid. Completely turned her off and he probably won't get it in again. So, I was just trying to point out that this just validates in multiple ways what we try to pass on to you guys.
/r/seduction16/01/12 06:21 PM
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And it confirms everything we try to teach guys. So it's nice to have the reinforcement.
/r/seduction16/01/12 05:15 PM
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I just want to say, good for you dude. I have been best friends with a girl for 15 years. I did the same thing but got shutdown. I think there is still a chance with this chick, but at least I didn't pussy out.
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:01 AM
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Yah, I would say this is an advanced game topic. You should be regularly banging multiple women and have a few FWB situations before you can realistically expect to pull something like this off. AA and Oneitis should be the least of your worries. ;)
/r/seduction12/01/12 09:25 AM
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I'm not arguing that there are unconscious thought processes, nor that there are genetic influences on your behavior. What I'm saying is life does not happen to you and people are not mindless drones with no free will. You and everyone else here wakeup and make choices every day. Those choices manifest your reality. Quote a million studies about behavior, you'll never change this very simple fact nor persuade me to the contrary.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:28 AM
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I'm saying you are sentient being, therefore you have choices. There are exceptions to every rule, but it has been established since the beginning of time that your life is a manifestation of your actions which are a manifestation of your thoughts. Dubito, ergo cogito, ergo sum
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:12 AM
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Sedditor This just in: you can take numbers of people and extrapolate statistics.
/r/seduction12/01/12 12:41 AM
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Sedditor No, I think teasing is a subtype of negging, not the other way around. You can actually say sort of shitty things as a neg with the intention of taking her down a peg or 2 compared to you. But we can still spit-shake. :)
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:08 PM
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Sedditor Negging and teasing are not the same thing. Teasing can be negging, but there are other things you can say or do that aren't teasing. The "I like your nails..." neg is a good example of this. The point of negging is to lower her perceived value in relation to yours.
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:05 PM
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Sedditor Well said.
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:45 PM
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Sedditor Fair enough. We can give you the tools, we can point you in the right direction, but we can't take the journey for you. You wanted real examples of things you can do other than "fake it" and these are it. Life is a series of choices. Some choose a journey of self improvement. Some choose forever alone. There isn't anything inherently wrong with either choice in my opinion.
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:41 PM
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I'm perfectly calm dude. You just aren't getting it. Your friend is an idiot if he thinks he can spot one over the other just by looking at them.
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:40 PM
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Sedditor Well there is a whole line of game called negging that deals with this sort of thing. But one thing about negging that most people don't get is nobody should have hurt feelings from a neg. There are some negs that are a little stronger than others, but all in all things shouldn't be mean spirited. Here are a couple classics that are just off the top of my head: "I like your nails, are they real?" "You're too nice for me." "You're a mess! I can't take you anywhere!" (said when she's bein…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:32 PM
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Sedditor I hear you on the "preying on insecurities" thing. But I have a retort for you. Occasionally you run into situations in life where things are not black and white. You can still have good intentions, for example, wanting to have a great relationship with a girl, be it sexual or friendship. But not always be angel in every interaction. Here is a comparison that you might be of some value to you. Let's say you want a delicious chicken sandwich. Well to get a chicken sandwich you get some b…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:08 PM
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Sedditor This is what we call "classic self limiting beliefs". Who you are is entirely a state of mind, and your state of mind is entirely up to you. Some great ways to build your self confidence: Positive self talk. It sounds cheesy, but saying "I'm the baddest dude here." and trying to believe it helps. Get your ass in the gym. Working out 3x a week not only helps you externally look better, but it releases endorphins and other brain chemicals that help you feel better about yourself. Focus on…
/r/seduction11/01/12 09:52 PM
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I don't think you understood what he said. First, girls aren't objects that you can just pick out and fuck. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way. So no, there is no specific thing that differentiates them. THEY ARE ALL THAT WAY. The way you get in a chicks pants is by engaging them in a stimulating way. You need to GTFO of seddit if you can't understand this very basic premise. You make us all look like sex crazed assholes.
/r/seduction11/01/12 09:42 PM
1

I'm not saying you can't bang drunk girls. I'm saying they should consent when they are sober or at least not completely and obviously drunk. I bang girlfriends or girls I'm dating when both of us are all drunk and fucked up, but obviously we have consented beforehand. :-)
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:02 PM
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This is the definition of Average Frustrated Chump. You are teetering on the edge of friendzone. You need to stop chasing this girl and work on your inner game. Do what 30vanquish says and STOP TALKING TO THIS GIRL.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:13 PM
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Yep nicely done. You should most definitely tease her about getting super smashed when you guys hang out again. Also, you're right, never ever ever bang a super drunk girl. I'm sure you'd appreciate not getting fucked without your sober consent, I'm sure she does too.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:04 PM
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I can say that I have had multiple 3somes. But always with the method you describe. Never had an opportunity to close a 2set in that manner. I'd be interested to know if there was a good method.
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:59 PM
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Don't or keep it short/funny. If you want to keep interest high you interact mainly in person. Interacting constantly on the phone, via IM or text messaging or via email is a sure way for her to get bored. You should use these methods of communication as a way to coordinate events or to build tension, and not as a way to comfort her with these types of stupid questions. The ONLY time I'd participate in these types of Q/A sessions is if I'm looking to get friendzoned or if I'm already in a LTR wi…
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:26 PM
3

You shouldn't even have replied to this idiot. Your question was perfectly valid and not even close to derogatory. This guy/chick should go suck a bag of dicks.
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:20 PM
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I only know of one girl, personally, who has herpes and here is the situation as I understand it. If you already saw a doctor, even if you have herpes, if you are on a medical regimen, the odds of you spreading it to your partner are less than impregnating her while wearing a condom. So, fear not OP. Life goes on. Take your Valtrex and bang away.
/r/seduction08/01/12 07:35 AM
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I would counter with, "Proceed with caution!"
/r/seduction08/01/12 03:04 AM
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Also, "I am not ready for a relationship. I want to be single and date lots of people and figure out what's right for me." EDIT: If you fuck her wear a condom, don't trust she's using birth control. These are the types of chicks that will trap you. This should seem obvious. But I'd like to underscore it.
/r/seduction08/01/12 03:03 AM
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One of my favorite ways of dealing with this problem is asking preemptively "Do you remember my name?" if she says no I always say, "Oh good I totally forgot yours too. Now I don't feel like such an ass." Then reintroduce and make a point to associate her name with something I know. If she says yes or remembers your name, you can say "Oh shit, now I really feel like an ass, I forgot yours!" Then laugh about it. Usually this will diffuse things. My other move is, introducing her to your friends. …
/r/seduction07/01/12 07:05 PM
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Truth. I once met a chick at the bar, she had a boyfriend at the time. But I said, "We should at least be facebook friends." and facebooked her on the spot. Like 3 months later I see the breakup popup on facebook, I send her 1 message "Giggdy." She replies "LOL!" 3 weeks later I hit her up for her number and a date. Long story short, SNL.
/r/seduction04/01/12 09:09 PM
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It must be art. LOL
/r/seduction30/12/11 06:21 PM
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You could use another adjective to describe her other than "bitch". How about woman, chick, female, hell even HB is a better choice. People already view the community as misogynistic. It'd be nice if we didn't reinforce that view with these types of comments. I think the up/down votes from the community on our respective comments reinforce this view. So if you wouldn't mind...
/r/seduction29/12/11 06:51 PM
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This is great advice... for day game. Here is a great example of when it's appropriate to go direct. When women do not have their guards up and aren't being approached by 10's or hundreds of creeps, you can do with direct game as described, or as shown in the video. If you are in a club, bar or other social situation where women have to deflect come-ons frequently, YOU WILL BOMB HARD with these methods. In these situations it is MUCH better to go indirect. Good advice though TonyDAbsolute.
/r/seduction29/12/11 08:40 AM
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Talking about women this way devalues our community. If you wouldn't mind, please choose your words wisely.
/r/seduction29/12/11 08:36 AM
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slow clap I laughed.
/r/seduction22/12/11 05:50 PM
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Great advice Im_a_rapist. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction21/12/11 10:25 PM
5

I aim to please. :) True story though, my ex and I always high-fived after really good sex, like "Good job, you really killed it in there!"
/r/seduction17/12/11 11:10 AM
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I pat her on the head and say "good job".
/r/seduction17/12/11 03:35 AM
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This was rough, but you can think about it this way. You won't make some of these same mistakes again. Here are some quick observations: 1) Go to a sushi restaurant on your own. Order a couple of rolls and learn what you like. Be able to order them next time you go out. 2) Learn to use chopsticks. It's easy if you actually do it a few times. 3) Obviously try to avoid situations where you are out of your element. You fucked up by not picking a new location when you knew the restaurant was closed.…
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:34 AM
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Thank you Captain Obvious!
/r/seduction12/12/11 01:47 AM
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You have major one-itis. Listen, this chick isn't an ideal girl. Hey if you get some ass out of the deal, good for you, but you need to have an abundance mentality. There are hundreds of thousands of other chicks out there. Who gives a shit about this one chick? What value has she added to your life other than just treating you like a door mat? Add her to your harem and move on. If shit works out (following the advice above) then cool. If not, then fuck it, there are tons of other chicks out the…
/r/seduction29/11/11 01:46 AM
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If your text game isn't escalating sexually, stop texting and go for a meet up. If you continue on a boring line of texting, you will become boring and the tension will die. Your options: Escalate or drop the convo completely until you can figure out a meetup. Assume attraction.
/r/seduction28/11/11 08:27 PM
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Only if you pay in all quarters that you got from your vending machine business. Classic, classic panty-dropper move.
/r/seduction08/11/11 05:58 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. This is very interesting.
/r/seduction19/10/11 11:34 PM
1

Ah, well shit, that's an important detail. My only advice, then, would have been to number close her, but arrange to hookup after everyone has split up. Probably impossible once you started drinking though. Might have been able to work out splitting a cab or something though. The logistics in that situation would have been the main problem.
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:34 PM
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Agreed. Every time a chick has said this to me, it means she think's you're hot and is really attracted to you, so is looking to find the "flaw".
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:30 PM
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That's hilarious, but very AFC of you. First mistake, you only exchange numbers 1 for 1, or just take their numbers. Next time she says, "let me get your number" you say this: "Well, give me your number, then I'll call you right now and we can both have each other's numbers." Second, you can translate that confidence by using the fake-it-till-you-make-it method. Learn by doing, push yourself to do things even when you don't want to. That's really the best advice I can give you there. Nobody was …
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:25 PM
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Here is my 2c. 1) If you're going to escalate with a girl in a social situation where it'd be inappropriate, you need to number close, but don't press. If the girl is into you, you can pull her back to your pad or some other location where her friends won't judge her (or you) for hooking up. You were dumb to try to kino her that hard around all her friends. 2) You already know you drank way too much. 3) Who cares if she was the hottest girl or not. If it was impractical to pull her, you should h…
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:15 PM
2

I totally feel the same way. I typically pull and date HB 8/9/10 and most of my guy friends give me shit since every time I hang I have a new girl around. However OKC seems impossible to pull. No idea why.
/r/seduction14/10/11 09:11 PM
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Totally agree with the other guys here. Don't wait, be fun and light, but send while attraction/interest is high. This wasn't a casual meetup/hookup where you should be showing disinterest. Send now.
/r/seduction10/10/11 05:14 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain and say, don't settle. Add these girls to your list of female wings and keep your options open.
/r/seduction07/10/11 08:53 PM
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Be the funnest guy/group. Nobody goes to Vegas to meet boring people. Be slightly louder than usual, but not obnoxious. My favorite opener in Vegas is "ohh, you girls look like trouble!" Good luck!
/r/seduction01/10/11 02:19 AM
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