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overnight oats
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:36 PM
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I've been rejected romantically a couple times. Idk about leagues, I assume because they rejected me they were above it lol 😅 Happened twice in highschool and then I got my bf after graduating and we're still together. Both times the guys made a point to bully me about it incessantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:57 PM
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My boyfriend not being able to communicate his feelings was probably the second biggest hurdle we've gone through in our relationship and almost resulted in a permanent break-up. He kept telling himself that talking about the problems he was experiencing wouldn't help, but he kept things bottled up for so long that he eventually snapped and abruptly broke things off with me. I had really tried to get him to talk to me, but of course you don't want to push a person beyond their comfort zone when …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:52 PM
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I don't really care tbh. It of course depends on the bf. Most guys I know aren't that chatty or gossipy, so if my friend tells her bf smthn I said, it wouldn't go much further than that. If they were dating someone who I think would be more gossipy, I probably just wouldn't tell them as much (I don't share many secrets or deep feelings with my friends to begin with, I mostly reserve that for my bf).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:33 PM
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if the gift or treating was clearly because they were into you (which I'm assuming is the premise of this question), you should at least tell the peron you're in a relationship so they're not wasting their money on you. But otherwise, I get platonic friends gifts and pay for their meals often enough, so it's not always a romantic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:22 PM
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yea it's pretty much like having a very intimate best friend you also fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:19 PM
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Basically never. I don't mind it at all, although it doesn't rlly provide much pleasure. My man just isn't into it. I wouldn't care either way, I'm quite indifferent to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:20 AM
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I'm rlly not touchy with anyone besides family or extremely close friends (and obv my bf as well), so whenever anyone does it to me I get so uncomfy. Even women tbh. Like I can either say no and look like a dick, or hug them and be super uncomfortable. Icky. I do have some sympathy for ppl who just don't understand social boundaries, but I still don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:16 AM
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I have a friend who buzzed her hair off a while ago, and now that it's in the growing out process she looks like harry potter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:06 AM
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It's deserved honestly. No one slimier than the "where my hug at" dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:03 AM
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Forget the red pill. If you want game, just follow this guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:43 AM
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My bf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:41 AM
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they're too far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:18 AM
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r/bpd
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:16 AM
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oh fuck! lmao I remember now haha. It's been ages since I watched it, I'm due for a rewatch. I only remember how I felt about it after watching it. Even watched the musical as well and I hardly remember that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:13 AM
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hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:00 AM
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I can't remember, I gotta watch it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:50 AM
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its cuz you're too good for the common female filth 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:48 AM
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and what the other half reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:43 AM
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Legally Blonde was genuinely a rlly uplifting and revelatory movie for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:43 AM
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lmao I've still got my man don't worry, I just vibe to break up songs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:58 AM
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Going through a break-up is 0/10 wouldn't do again experience, but break-up songs are 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:53 AM
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ur cuff broken or smthn then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:44 AM
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I'm never not in the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:14 AM
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You've figured me out 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:02 PM
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now you can name your child that instead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:59 PM
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lol my man looks pretty cute with and without the beard. I always get pretty excited to see his full face again when he decides to shave
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:54 PM
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haha yea. snow would be awful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:53 PM
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you have quite the vision. I don't think my writing talents could do your story justice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:49 PM
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lol I tend to read more than I write
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:29 PM
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That probably already exists tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:28 PM
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eh. My friends range in age from 20 to 30. My siblings are all older than me and I tend to hang out with them a lot, we end up sharing friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:25 PM
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this is an alt. On my main account I use r/fanfiction frequently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:22 PM
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I don't feel like they need an age cap but rather an evaluation of mental capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:09 PM
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I'm sure they are 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:08 PM
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I can think of plenty of men who would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:59 PM
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lmfao that's the exact same type of shit my man tries to get me to listen to. Thanks haha 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:48 PM
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I'm saying men looking to commit to a monogamous relationship likely wouldn't be as interested in high-n women, strippers or sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:47 PM
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haha sorry 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:44 PM
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I like delegating and managing ppl. Unfortunately in school group work you have to all work together as equals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:41 PM
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No he's very mellow. I prefer low energy men. Most of our hang out time is gaming together, cuddling, hanging out with our families, and taking each other on cute dates. I've never been interested in having a very exciting partner and I'm adverse to change and spontaneity (although I understand why some women find it fun). The initial stages of the relationship were exciting of course, just because falling in love is an exhilarating experience. But now we're just comfortable with each other and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:40 PM
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oh lmao 🤣 Yea that was a bit confusing. I agree tho. A positive relationship with a good dad is hugely important
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:31 PM
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How often do you interact with ppl aged 60-70? They're kinda just normal adults, just with more life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:31 PM
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Exciting--sure but not necessary, maybe a bit mysterious (although that's kinda cringe), fun is good, a bit spontaneous is okay (another one I'm personally not into), but why would we want to feel like shit? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:27 PM
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You'd simply be wrong if you viewed it as inherently unequal. Me and my partner are equals. There is nothing that makes him more valuable or me lesser than. Yet we enjoy a traditional relationship. You haven't provided any reason to believe it's unequal. I'm not saying there aren't traditional relationships that are unequal, but it's not an inherent characteristic of traditional relationships. Just like how non-traditional relationships can have unequal dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:12 PM
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I'm a traditionalist and I see it that way lol. Me and my partner are equals, we simply fulfill different roles in the relationship. Both of us are equally valuable. There's nothing inherently misogynistic or unequal about a traditional relationship. It doesn't have to be the kind of relationship you want, but you're generalizing all traditional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:02 PM
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true. Funkos are kinda mid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:49 PM
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you can have a traditional relationship and still treat your partner as an equal. It's different roles, not different value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:43 PM
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Couldn't be anything worse than what I have in my room, so I'd probably be into it (if I were a doer of casual sex lol). Idk if I'd want them in the actual room we're gonna be fucking in tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:35 PM
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the block button is starting to look more and more tempting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:07 PM
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me and my bf used to watch Andrew Tate clips together on insta. Granted my bf didn't really admire him, we just thought he was funny and he had a few good nuggets of wisdom here and there. I would probably be off put if my man put any internet personality on a pedestal, but I don't care if who he listens to as long as he approached the topic with wisdom and discernment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:04 PM
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you're so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:00 PM
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I suppose. Why else would people do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:56 PM
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Well idk rlly. I guess positive attention (such as people comforting you or people being concerned for your well being) always gives a bit of dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:22 PM
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Well it depends. I've described what I view to be the epitome of confidence and I don't think anyone is perfect. It's more like an ideal I think men should strive towards and the closer a man is to it, the more attracted I will be. Maybe like 30%ish are confident enough I would use it as a characteristic to describe them as. It generally takes more for a man to pass the confidence threshold than the looks threshold for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:05 PM
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Ah. Well I feel like it's a state of being. A man who is confident is a man who's happy with who he is, what he wants from life, and where he's going. Imo it kinda seeps into every aspect of a person's character. A confident person is self aware (I think sometimes confidence gets confused with pompousness, which is more like putting on airs rather than genuine confidence) and isn't concerned with how people perceive them. To a reasonable extent of course, I think a man who is truly comfortable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:53 PM
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Speaking personally, confidence matters more than looks to me. Unless the man is unbearably ugly, confidence makes up for a ton of what they're lacking in looks. Like idc how handsome a guy is, it probably won't register if he doesn't carry himself with confidence. Whereas I've had plenty of men catch my eye simply because they've got the confidence and self assurance I like, even if they're visually not as appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:27 PM
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I would be surprised if most millionaires with stripper wives were practicing complete monogamy. It's a trophy wife, it's just to look good. Not real commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:10 PM
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getting traumatized
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:06 PM
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They like being able to claim victimhood and they also like having something to complain about to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:02 PM
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yea first thing women do when they feel hard done by is go complain to their friends (or anyone who will listen). Even for very very minor things. I really try to only talk about positive things concerning my man, unless I need genuine advice in which case I'll share with my closest friend or parents. I do think men can complain a lot too tho. I'm part of a friend group that games frequently together and they're all men, and they shit talk women constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:00 PM
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to me it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:50 PM
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That doesn't mean it's not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:50 PM
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It's either unattractive or attractive imv. Confidence is extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:47 PM
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when they see a good looking person with a bad personality, the reward for their "fixing" efforts is more visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:46 PM
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most women I know are quite attracted to confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:43 PM
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Women want confidence, not meekness. My brother is extremely confident and he'll routinely check himself out in the mirror just for funsies. He has women. making moves on him constantly and he doesn't even engage in the party scene lol. I do think you're wrong in the the opposite of modesty is a pompous asshole, it's most often just a very confident man. Women are attracted to confidence, this has been established for a while now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:08 PM
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Yea his scent is a huge turn on, but I also just have a very dirty mind lmao. Yea idk what the deal is cuz I always really enjoy sex and how it feels. I'll have to look into that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:02 PM
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I'm the same way. I'm pretty much constantly ready to go at it. Foreplay is nice of course and I'm not like constantly wet lol, but pretty much all my man needs to do is exist and my mind starts wandering sometimes. My libido is quite a bit higher than my partner's actually. Even tho the arousal part is easy I do have a bit of difficulty actually finishing. Like I'll be aroused and really enjoying the experience, but it takes a lot more to finish than for my man. I'm still in the process of figu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:48 PM
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I spoke to my doctor about this once and she told me my testosterone levels don't affect my libido at all. After some research it looks like women with overly high testosterone levels (such as with PCOS) may actually experience a lower libido than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:42 PM
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No. If anything maybe just tone down the libido a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:34 PM
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the best :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:00 PM
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Yea honestly I'm not sure how many exist. I'm Christian and so are my sisters and close friend whom I consider have quite healthy relationships. So I know the Christian culture plays a huge part in promoting certain relationship values. Also a lot could be due to how I was raised (My parents had a healthy loving relationship and valued family and stability). Because for me I find that kind of stability, level headedness, reliability, etc. attractive and so do my sisters. But most of my secular f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:21 AM
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it's presented in a funny way but I genuinely agree with that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:04 AM
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Yea I see it often with some of my female friends. It's honestly really unfortunate. But then again, I think it could almost act as a filter for those men. The type of women who prefer the drama and shit tend to be quite toxic. So if they find a woman who appreciates the peace and the romance, it would probably set them up for a better relationship in the long run (assuming they can vet out the women who are just settling or trying to take advantage of their kindness)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:00 AM
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Yea I get that. Just going off of what the archetype is tho, I don't think it's something young men should aspire towards (Assuming they want a healthy marriage and family in the future).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:57 AM
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honestly I think ballet would be super fun to learn. But it also looks so difficult and I always felt like I had too big of a frame for such a delicate art. Even if I lost a bunch of weight and leaned up, I would probably still be quite bigger compared to most ballerinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:55 AM
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these are the types of dudes to text you good morning every morning, and buy presents for no reason Chad? Honestly idc how beta ppl think it is, to me that's the best and most admirable type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:53 AM
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lmao I hope it's a troll. Then again, if it is I might feel a bit embarrassed for getting catty 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:49 AM
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yea this is like a safe haven lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:33 AM
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yea, it was entertaining when I first found all this stuff, but it's kinda just gotten old. I agree we should have more sympathy for people who struggle romantically and sexually, but a lot of the rhetoric feels like they're just throwing themselves a constant pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:29 AM
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I fear the deranged. In all seriousness I'm not scared obv lol. But I do believe the lack of struggle and complacency is genuinely dangerous for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:27 AM
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Yea I just feel the people who talk on the discussion posts are way more intense than the ones who hang in the daily. Most recent post prompted me. Like I'm trying to make reasonable arguments and discuss and immediately things get escalated to high heavens lol Generally I do find the posts pretty boring tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:25 AM
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I've spent so much time in the daily chat I forgot how unhinged the discussion posts are. It's a scary world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:16 AM
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If I were the bf and I found out any of this shit, her ass would be out the door immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:13 AM
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okay lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:12 AM
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Who said I was upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:11 AM
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Haha not only stupid but weird aswell... I wouldnt think of something like that but I guess you do? Yet you thought getting fat was a good idea? lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:10 AM
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I'll enjoy a long healthy relationship with my partner without the constant stress of having to come up with tests for him constantly. Next you're gonna stick cameras all over your house and stick a gps on him "just to be sure".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:02 AM
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Oh wow you can do a google search!!! Congrats!!!! Well you didn't seem capable, so I guess it is quite the accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:00 AM
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lmao. Like spending 24/7 with a guy, learning his values and personalities, his quirks and habits, etc. isn't enough to determine whether or not he's a trustworthy person. You must be shit at reading ppl or smthn, cuz no one can keep up an act constantly. If you were observant you wouldn't need to get fat to know your guy loves you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:59 AM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/obesity-prevention-source/obesity-consequences/health-effects/%23:~:text%3DObesity%2520increases%2520the%2520risk%2520of,changes%2520in%2520hormones%2520and%2520metabolism.&ved=2ahUKEwidxY2H3rT7AhWDIH0KHQOEDjIQFnoECA8QBQ&usg=AOvVaw3rhXddORjxJxll7_DRvefK 2 second google search
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:53 AM
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lmao most overweight ppl who get diagnosed with heart issues and shit are told by doctors to lose weight to maintain their health. It's ridiculous to say excessive weight gain doesn't affect your health negatively. Two seconds of research will tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:49 AM
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I don't need to test my man to figure out that he's with me for me and not just my body. I love and trust him, and we know each other better than anyone else. I'm not worried about that because I know who he is as a person and he's proved time and time again how much he loves me for who I am. There's no reason to test him and frankly I consider the culture of testing our partners for things we could easily figure out through healthier avenues to be toxic. I wouldn't marry and have kids with a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:47 AM
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If you're in a healthy relationship, you shouldn't need to jeopardize your health and alter your appearance to determine whether or not your man is committed to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:34 AM
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my man can make a rlly good sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:29 AM
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posted this here the other day https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ywj3fy/daily_community_chat_megathread/iwkfgdh?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:18 AM
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That doesn't say anything about the legality of abortions in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:39 AM
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Break up with her back
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:37 AM
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yes it is? lmao. There are no laws regulating abortion in Canada, and any abortions are covered by healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:13 AM
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I think when it comes to a romantic relationship, it's meant to deter people from unhealthy co dependencies which is a valid concern. If you're truly an unhappy person without a romantic partner, that will inevitably put a lot of stress on whoever you eventually pair up with. I don't think the same applies to familial and friend relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:32 AM
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ik I'm just poking fun at the broad spread for male iqs as opposed to female
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:29 AM
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I thought you were just talking about the top lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:05 AM
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to the beach sure. Or with a tank top underneath. Not that particular style, but if we're just talking something semi-transparent sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:01 AM
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I guess I really am pathetic 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:03 AM
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Take note of Mr.Mushy's comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:49 AM
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I'm gonna become the president of America.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:48 AM
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you could also say they have slightly lower iqs as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:42 AM
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don't worry, that was the point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:37 AM
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isn't he like married or smthn?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:35 AM
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idk, I don't think I could land a moon without my man's help
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:35 AM
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is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:33 AM
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lmao I know he's messing around. I am too 😅 edit: it's my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:32 AM
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Just the usual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:31 AM
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just google it lmao. There are news articles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:26 AM
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So fucking inconsistent. Like, every Doctor who's ever performed an abortion should be in jail following that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:26 AM
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in Canada it's legal to abort at any time. Fucked up thing is that if the doctor fails the abortion and the baby comes out alive, the doctor is legally required to keep the infant alive (although I doubt they often follow that duty if they're willing to abort that late into the pregnancy). So not only is it legal to kill your 9 month baby in the womb, the government pays for it too. What a joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:05 AM
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nah I was just very sheltered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:14 PM
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I think the key is if you notice a point where you could possibly take advantage, don't. I know when I was 18 I was very easy to take advantage of because I had literally no experience with men. That wasn't the case for many other 18 yr olds I knew. I think the relationship can be fine as long as you're not purposefully and maliciously taking advantage of any power imbalances that come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:35 PM
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ignore the schizo edit: oh fck off with the reddit cares, you know who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:58 PM
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you're too short
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:15 PM
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I'm against regular abortion, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:14 PM
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I get why he's frustrated but you didn't do anything wrong. He knew her for like one night lol, it shouldn't be that difficult to shake it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:11 PM
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eh not as rare as you'd think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:03 PM
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well for the traits that just unique characteristics I'm personally not attracted to, like feminine, eccentric, high energy, etc. those wouldn't make me dislike someone as a person. The more negative traits like rude, selfish, and possibly even the hygiene one, probably would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:00 PM
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what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:39 PM
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I was thinking from a more romantic/attraction angle. I don't really care what people look like outside of that context, tho a lot of the non-physical traits still stand and may make me dislike someone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:32 PM
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well now I feel guilty for baking sweets instead of working put lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:23 PM
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I avoid avoid brilliant basic colors like red, green, blue because there is usually some mental condition involved. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:09 PM
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I think I actually have that cocoa canister lol. I'll have to try it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:57 PM
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not a dealbreaker. My taste in hair changes with the men I'm attracted to. When my man had long hair I was super into it and now that he's buzzed it I'm still super into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:52 PM
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thank you, this was very informative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:51 PM
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nice, I'll give it a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:50 PM
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Anyone have a good cake recipe? I have some icing I need to use up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:45 PM
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height is a preference, not a requirement. Yea I like my man to be tall, but it's more important that we get along well, share values, share goals, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:35 PM
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Saying I'm into tall men doesn't mean I need the tallest man alive. I'm not gonna leave my man whom I'm perfectly happy with because some dude an inch taller showed interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:30 PM
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sounds good 👍 I don't see my dreams dying anytime soon lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:27 PM
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is reddit not social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:13 PM
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honestly with the way they joke around with each other, that's a possibility 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:10 PM
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oh well. Not my problem if they want to sleep with me, although I would be genuinely be surprised if that were the case. I only hang out with either of them when I'm with my bf or best friend (the guy in the relationship is dating her) anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:10 PM
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I doubt it. One has a gf and both are my man's closest friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:01 PM
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Depends on which guy I'm talking about. I've only got two lol. Main reason is that they're fun to hang out with I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:55 PM
1

unsuprising
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:30 PM
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I'm not an American for one. I'm Canadian and I'm in college rn, so of course I don't have a shitton of capital. I'm not advocating for the American dream lol, not everyone will or needs to be a millionaire. But college is an investment. If your degree doesn't have the potential to pay off your debts or sustain you, you've made some poor financial decisions. You're still leagues ahead of the majority of the world but still trying to throw a pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:22 PM
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Why did you get a put yourself in debt for a college degree that evidently won't be enough for you to pay it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:10 PM
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I'm not simping for the US, I just don't see why of all the countries of the world you're trying to pick on America. Quality of life in america is pretty damn good compared to the majority of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:03 PM
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Aww can't use Google bb? Here u go The U.S. is a country of 50 states covering a vast swath of North America, with Alaska in the northwest and Hawaii extending the nation’s presence into the Pacific Ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:48 PM
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I'll do what I want to 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:47 PM
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I just want a job man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:46 PM
0

US is a country. Literally means literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:42 PM
1

I'm pretty sure it's a literal country
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:37 PM
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I have to. I'm in enrolled in a statistics class rn 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:37 PM
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Lol that is def not the case for a lot of age gap relationships. My cousin started dating a 40yr old man when she was 16 and all she got for it was a drug addiction, beatings that have put her in the hospital, and extreme poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:36 PM
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something here isn't adding up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:32 PM
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I don't date autists. 3.5
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:30 PM
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honestly I could eat an entire plate full of turkey with nothing else and still feel like I had a satisfying Christmas meal. Turkey is like my favourite food and I haven't had any since thanksgiving 🤤 You can bet I'm also going to do some Christmas baking and enjoy the sweets too tho. Christmas is a great excuse to break a couple rules. It's a time to enjoy oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:23 PM
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no. Portugal has never interested me. I don't have any desire to move anywhere at all tho. I'm quite content where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:19 PM
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eh. I feel like after a certain point you've gotta own your lack of experience and just learn to be assertive. Even if you haven't had any dating experience, at some point you should be able to learn how to stand up for yourself and shit. Before ppl flip out I think the same applies to women. Like I understand it for late teens and early twenties. A lot of people are less experienced at that age. By mid to late twenties you should have figured out some proper communication skills and know what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:18 PM
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yea for some reason I always get downvotes on my more sarcastic comments so I'm never sure which side it comes from. Whether they're upset because they don't understand I'm being sarcastic, or they understand it and are upset with what I'm implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:08 PM
1

he does leave things for the last minute sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:55 PM
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Well me and my partners are each other's firsts. But I also realize now that if I broke up with him in the future I would no longer be a virgin, so it would be quite hypocritical to expect only other virgins going forward. I wanted to wait until marriage but we both lacked the self-control lol. Just because someone had sex before doesn't mean he doesn't value it as and expression of love and intimacy. If the sex he had before took place in a committed relationship, he definitely could have still…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:53 PM
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I think the real problem is people misassigning normal relational and social behaviour as gaslighting when it's not. Gaslighting is used to make the victim question reality and when done excessively and maliciously can really fuck with the victim's mind. I do believe people claim victimhood far more then they are actually legitimately are victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:48 PM
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I'm just talking about my man's sense of humour. I don't think legitimate gaslighting is normal emotional labour, that's a very weird idea honestly and I have no idea how you came to that conclusion. Gaslighting is kind of a buzzword now which is why I use it often when joking around, but that doesn't mean it's not a serious manipulation tactic many people use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:01 AM
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idk what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:52 AM
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Why is everything so much funnier when I'm sleep deprived 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:23 AM
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thx, he's really a darling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:16 AM
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We joked like this before dating as well. Sometimes you just hit it off with a person who shares your sense of humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:13 AM
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I view it as an act of intimacy and an expression of love. I prefer someone who thinks of it the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:12 AM
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I'm a woman who cares about the n count of men I date. It's not because I'm worried thinking about the other women he's fucked, it's because he probably doesn't value sex in the same way I do if he's out there racking up the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:03 AM
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idk me and my bf joke like that all the time and we've got a pretty healthy relationship. But who knows, maybe I only think that because I'm being "gaslit" 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:59 AM
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idk just small everyday household shit. Sometimes he just does things in a very weird way, often times he just doesn't think to do certain stuff. Keep in mind we're both 20, so pretty young, and his mom had always kinda been the one to do a lot of the household shit for him. He also just doesn't really plan ahead and has a very poor memory so he'll sometimes do shit without thinking the entirety of his actions through or he'll forget stuff he needs to get done often. Things like sorting laundry,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:36 AM
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yea I was just trying to see how many ppl on here would screech about women only liking toxic men lmao. It's pretty clear he's joking and I think it would probably help him stand out from the rest of the guys (granted these kinds of dating shows are pretty cringe anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:21 AM
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If they want more money, they can find a higher paying job. It has nothing to do with tipping and ppl shouldn't be getting worked up about customers being stingey with their tips. They agreed to a specific wage, and if that's not enough for them they need to find someone who will pay more or work their way up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:16 AM
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I kinda agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:14 AM
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tbh the shit that guy was saying is exactly how me and my bf joke with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:08 AM
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idk I'm in Canada. They still get paid minimum wage regardless of if you tip or not here. The tip is just a bonus, not to mention sometimes it's shared among the staff (tho I hate places that do that, it's incredibly common). I've never heard of people getting paid less than minimum wage to account for tips, is it really that common in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:01 AM
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My bf does the dumbest shit sometimes when it comes to general housekeeping, it kinda shocks me when he doesn't know stuff I assume to be common knowledge. Ik she's dragging women for this in that post but I honestly do find it pretty cute, at least the first time it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:59 AM
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I kinda just factor it into the price when I'm going out to eat. Besides I like to be extra generous if the person serving me went the extra mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:53 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ck61GoFA5l9/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:50 AM
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okay. I'll answer then. My dad has a huge impact on my dating life. My father is probably one of the most important people in my life and definitely the person I look up to the most. I think it's totally defined what I expect from a partner and how I want my future family to function. I even find myself comparing my current partner and my father subconsciously and I have to remind myself that my bf still has some maturing to do yet and I needn't expect so much from him at this point, and he's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:25 AM
3

just clarifying, is this specifically directed towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:17 AM
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like a fever dream
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:56 AM
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fair enough 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:51 AM
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lmao I loved that video
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:51 AM
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nah I have a specific user who shall not be named in mind with that call out. I would honestly suck at getting pussy if I were a man, I'm not gonna deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:50 AM
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how I imagine some of the men on ppd converse with women before coming here and complaining about getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:20 AM
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yea the romantic in me thinks it would be a really cute and sweet present, and I'd be flattered the moment I received them. But I think after I've recieved them, I would probably just be like "well now what?". Like with chocolates or smthn wearable or whatever, the clear course of action is to eat it or wear it. But for flowers you just stick it in a vase and look at it. Plus they eventually die which is kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:43 AM
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2 and a half years of dating and I haven't recieved flowers lol. Part of me thinks it would be cute, and part of me thinks it's kind of a useless and annoying gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:32 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:34 AM
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you think that's chadlite?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:45 AM
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I don't know many women complaining about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:37 AM
2

Good hair days do wonders for my self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:25 PM
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My dream and current goal is to someday be a SAHM, so yes 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:35 PM
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I ask my man what he did for the day and without fail all I get in reply is "nm" -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:29 PM
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No cuz I have a bf. If I were single, I would consider it. Shared values and shit is pretty important to me tho, so I don't think I'd take just anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:26 PM
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the design is very human and intuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:59 PM
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I don't want to work, I have to lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:58 PM
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his intellect is beyond reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:56 PM
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Now I oughta amass some exes so I can try this 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:50 PM
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I've managed to keep it low just fine 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:32 PM
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it's been like 7 minutes, cool it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:23 PM
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Depends how strong the orgasm is. It's not like I lose interest in sex or arousal right after or anything, but if it's a rlly powerful orgasm I may need to take a couple minutes to rest before getting straight back into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:17 PM
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you unironically think women can't do anything to not rack up a huge n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:45 PM
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I appreciate that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:00 PM
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impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:00 PM
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lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:59 PM
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Celebrity culture is cringe. Everyone obsessing about people who enjoy their cushy little lives and couldn't care less about your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:38 PM
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Does anime count? Cuz in that case I never rlly kept it a secret lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:00 PM
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yea I just don't think there's ever a reason to flirt when you're in a relationship. I'm sure there are ways to joke around and get along well with others without needing for it to have sexual undertones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:00 PM
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as long as I never have to hear about it from him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:54 PM
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not even comparable 🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:53 PM
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eh. kinda gross for a guy in a relationship to do that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:47 PM
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break up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:42 PM
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how do you define flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:34 PM
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introverts tend to have higher bodycounts ... 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:24 PM
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Everyone has their own way of doing things I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:24 PM
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toxicity ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:31 AM
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the true red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:21 AM
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they already had a whole video about trp. It's not like he's using it unwittingly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:09 AM
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no lmao? I mean I don't think it's a big deal that they went outside of their "mod duties" in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:29 AM
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it was very clearly just a personal opinion note. I don't think it's a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:24 AM
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ik haha. Got a good chuckle from me too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:54 AM
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lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:35 AM
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W mod moment Took the words right out of my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:31 AM
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Recent ppd post. Already been removed. Chick looking to "open up" her relationship because her bf's 6 inch cock just wasn't big enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:02 AM
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nah ik, but last time I spoke about this stuff reddit gave me a permanent time out 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:00 AM
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lmao I'll keep that in mind. We've already had some rough patches but we've been pretty solid for a while now. Regardless I feel love is more than just feelings and shit, you have to choose it and work at it y'know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:59 AM
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please this has gone too far 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:55 AM
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I was pretty sure there were numbers in there or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:52 AM
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Heaven forbid he has a 6 inch cock
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:38 AM
2

my friend telling me that our star signs was a recipe for disaster and that I should break up with my bf because she can tell he's "not good for me". Keep in mind she has never met my bf before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:37 AM
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My brother experiences this all the damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:35 AM
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gay friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:34 AM
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Only one haha 😅 I'm 20
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:32 AM
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If you want a cuck, find someone who's into that. Stop humiliating your bf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:31 AM
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I guess I just find the idea of it pretty gross. Idk maybe more women do it than I know of, I just feel it's a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:30 AM
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as soon as you ask, if he has any self respect he'll be out the door. Just break up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:29 AM
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Turned out to all be projection damn 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:25 AM
1

oof that's gotta hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:22 AM
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funny. Whenever my bf gets looks or flirted with when we're together I kinda take it as an ego boost lol. Never rlly makes me mad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:20 AM
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yea but I don't want to line up new men lol. I take issue with the idea that all women are actively and purposefully keeping men on the backburner for when they get broken up with or get bored. I'm sure some women do it, but I don't think it's as common as rp thinks it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:18 AM
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good to know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:16 AM
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idk I use "bf", "partner", "my man" (which is my personal favourite) interchangeably. I think partner sounds more mature/official I guess 😅 and so I use it if I'm speaking with a more serious tone. And like, it's accurate. Me and him are partners in life, so why not? I hadn't honestly given the terminology much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:14 AM
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really depends on the person. My sister will still sometimes get left on read by her actual fiance simply because he's too busy doing actual productive shit to check his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:11 AM
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yea what I'm mainly against the idea that women literally keep backups on hand even when in a healthy committed relationship. Like I'm sure some women are shitty and it happens, but I don't keep men around me who are potential backup plans. Besides even if I broke up with my man now it would take a lot more than a dating profile (I don't see myself ever using OLD anyways) to find someone who I actually would be willing to get with. I'm rather picky about certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:09 AM
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If you're dating a high-end fashion model, odds are she's got an entire que lined up. Take it from an average woman, I don't have anyone waiting in the wings for me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:03 AM
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yea me and my partner are planning to take our time before starting a family for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:01 AM
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yea my parents bought their first house with no mortgage at 26 so... 😅 They were pretty financially stable by 29. My dad spent basically all of his adulthood up until then living at with his parent's farm and saving to start a family before that (aside from 2 years trade school) and my mother had been saving a lot as well. I'm planning to wait to have kids till I'm at least 30 because I want to be a SAHM and need to get financially stable. Things are looking up and I've got 10 years to start sav…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:00 AM
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yea my mother says she was glad she had us kids when she was older. She was 29 when she had my oldest sister and 36 when she had me (I'm the youngest). She felt it was a lot easier financially and she was a lot more mature and patient than she would have been if she was younger. She also felt like she got to make the most of her youth because she was free to travel around and experience things that are more difficult if you have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:31 AM
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yea the reddit for my city is a completely different environment than the people you actually meet day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:19 AM
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yea that's a big issue with my bf. He had a house fire this past summer and it took so much for him to even accept simple shit like some of our old pillows and sheets because he hates charity. I was like "dude, your house burned down, if there's ever a time to accept charity it's now 😅"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:00 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:56 AM
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jokes on you, I upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:55 AM
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I forgive you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:51 AM
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I honestly don't get why communication is so difficult for most people. I've had so many situations where I practically need to handhold my partner through our more serious conversations. I love my man to death but getting him to communicate with me about important shit is like pulling teeth sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:46 AM
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You only need the skills for the start of the relationship 🙄 I'm not the one hamstering, you're the one trying to get out of learning social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:45 AM
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I don't know how because I never had to do it obviously, I'm a woman. Social interaction and charisma does take some skill and strategy. Learning how to cultivate interest and attraction is just part of that, even if it means acting a bit different than you normally would. That's just part of socializing. You can bet I heightened some aspects of my character to appeal to the men I wanted. Such as making myself prettier, losing weight, acting more feminine, etc. I did that shit because I wanted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:29 AM
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my thoughts exactly lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:12 AM
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then don't act so interested tf? don't respond super fast, act like you have other options. Make her feel like you're a prize not easily won
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:11 AM
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28 and 24 doesn't seem that odd to me. Like by that point ya'll been adulting for a while lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:10 AM
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I kinda doubt they find you all that attractive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:06 AM
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Idk. I can only speak from my experience, granted I have a rlly high sex drive for a woman. I think usually a woman will be able to meet your sex drive if she's really into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:03 AM
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well the girl wouldn't have to be aloof, you would. Ideally it happens naturally. Like I was always more into my bf in the initial stages than he was into me. But idk how one would do it artificially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:00 AM
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at least $1.00 CAD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:57 PM
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i think so. You should act aloof to come extent, just to keep them on the hook. Go too far with it and they might just move on tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:57 PM
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ah, I suppose that makes sense. phone calls are just so much more efficient tho. I usually call all my friends as opposed to texting. I pretty much use texting exclusively for solidifying hang-out plans and shit. edit: I also text for just checking in throughout the day, but calling is much preferable for convos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:46 PM
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gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:44 PM
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the bleeding usually comes from the hymen tearing/stretching. Nothing to do with the woman being turned on. Also doesn't happen to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:43 PM
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I don't use facebook. I use insta to keep track of what old friends who I don't keep in touch with are doing and shit. If they start annoying me I just delete them. Other people I follow on insta are artists and I use it for inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:40 PM
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I feel like most women I know prefer phone calls. I always want call my man or meet in person (although he doesn't live super close so that makes things difficult) and he's always the one who insists on texting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:39 PM
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I don't think so. Hurt for maybe like 2 seconds and then we were on our way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:19 PM
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yea I've had far too many female friends complain about guys treating them like shit when all of the signs were there before anything ever happened. Not to mention continuing to see the guys even after these so called "awful experiences". Like it can't have been that bad if you're still meeting up with him for Netflix and Chill on Friday lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:18 PM
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precaution for sure. I'm also really careful walking past parked vehicles or corners and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:15 PM
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relevent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:09 PM
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my parents argued a fair amount. Nothing violent or anything. Worst one I remember was my dad getting mad at my mom for how cluttered everything was and he started taking a bunch of shit from the kitchen and throwing it away, including me and my siblings photos they had hung on the wall for some reason. He eventually calmed down and picked everything up and put it back. Granted our house is pretty fucking cluttered and my dad has always preferred to be more minimalist whereas my mom is a borderl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:49 PM
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yea but tbh I don't think I'd be comfortable being friends with someone who wants me to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:18 PM
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W strat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:02 PM
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I still find this funny as shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:12 AM
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why not? just because of their age?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:10 AM
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No. I disagree with most of feminisms current major talking points. I also believe in traditional family values and that women and men are better suited to different roles at work and in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:05 AM
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from my conversations with red pill men, the idea is more that you should approach every situation as prepared for the worst. The strategy is to assume AWALT even if it's not literally 100% of women, because that will better equip you for handling the assumed majority of bad women. Basically, there's no point holding out hope for the few good women that exist because you are unlikely to run into them, so it's better to be prepared for the bad women you certainly will run into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:57 AM
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hehe 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:53 AM
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🤣 good luck with that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:39 AM
1

oh okay haha, I can never be too sure on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:36 AM
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maybe like 5ish/10 in this pic. He looks kinda creepy the way he's staring into the camera, but he has potential. The hair is awful also
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:26 AM
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whatever works best for you I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:24 AM
2

thanks? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:13 AM
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no way, she's definitely below average. 4/10 max, I would even go lower. I agree tho it may be the photo, but I still don't think she could be average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:00 AM
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Don't you think experience with real women in real social situations may be better practice than virtual reality. No offense because I don't know much about virtual reality, but it does come across as weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:59 AM
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that's unfortunate. Before dating I usually spent my spare time with my siblings (whom I consider to be my closest friends). I won't deny getting a SO helps with loneliness, but it's also good to get a solid friend group. Having more friends and socializing also helps a lot when getting a gf I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:35 AM
1

losing your virginity isn't the only way not to spend a weekend alone. Do you have friends or family?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:22 AM
5

good ol' sunday afternoon nap never hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:08 AM
1

Could you explain your point more then? "bare minimum" is kinda just an expression and I didn't mean it literally, but I want to know what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:55 AM
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you have bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:58 AM
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what were you responding to then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:56 AM
1

please explain this. Is asking for a man who hasn't visited hookers or harassed women really too much lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:45 AM
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excuse you. billionaires*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:42 PM
1

TWEWY, Zelda BOTW, Genshin, Fire Emblem Awakening, Animal Crossing NH, Ace Attorney trilogy (Justice for All is probably my favourite, but they're all pretty much the same), Final Fantasy XV, Rune Factory 4, sims 4, Deep Rock Galactic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:41 PM
1

lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:19 PM
1

:(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:18 PM
1

lol me and all my siblings are adults and we still get pumped for Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:13 PM
1

just a baby 🥹 (lol not rlly I'm only 20)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:11 PM
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not harrassing women and not seeing women is like the bare minimum 😭 perfection would take quite a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:11 PM
1

Really? I thought you were older than me for some reason 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:55 PM
3

I think I would opt to have neither. Y'know like most normal men, who don't see hookers and don't harass women. That's what I go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:54 PM
1

Accidentally did that to my friend when I smoked for the first time. So embarrassing 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:53 PM
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grew up on that shit. So good. Roller coaster 1 and 2 were awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:50 PM
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my sister has already started decorating her house lol. Trees up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:44 PM
1

no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:41 PM
1

nothing to change
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:39 PM
2

I don't mind watching them the first time, but it's annoying that I can't skip it when I need to retry the battle. I tend to enjoy more open world games where I can take the story at my own pace tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:20 PM
1

So frustrating 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:09 PM
1

nah I'm not into those kinds of games lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:04 PM
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depends on the quality of the cutscenes. Like I'm only doing the story to unlock some shit later in the game, idc bout this shit, and I don't wanna watch it five times over 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:01 PM
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I hate boss battles that have a shitton of cutscenes you have to rewatch every time you retry. annoying as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:46 PM
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I think most people desperate for sex are also desperate for emotional and romantic intimacy. Sex is just something that goes along with that. I do think not being able to have those kinds of relationships when it's something you deeply want can make life significantly more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:31 PM
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I think it's more like someone claiming cell phones in general is a need. Like it's not technically a need. But basically everyone has one and life is a lot more difficult without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:26 PM
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She complains about men she's attracted to. She dates guys that have a billion red flags, and rejects the ones who are actually good for very superficial reasons. Was into a stereotypical tall, good looking, jock type dude for a bit even tho I had already told her he drugged one of my other female friends once as a "prank". This guy finds a different gf and their little flirtationship ends and she feel rejected (even though she never made a move and was constantly playing hard to get). Even if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:15 PM
1

so like. In a world where there were no societal consequences for killing ppl, what would someone have to do to make you kill them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:46 PM
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option a of fucking course lmao. That's just normal behaviour. It's not like guys magically lose the ability to notice beautiful women when he's with me. Actions matter far more than thoughts to me. Like "would you rather your partner cheat on you, or not cheat on you?" what do you think I would want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:40 PM
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I don't think I get a say in that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:36 PM
1

what would your answer be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:28 PM
2

ratboy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:21 PM
1

was catching up with one of my girlfriends on the phone, and she was talking about dating drama and shit. She basically just proved a ton of stuff redpillers say about the modern dating scene and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:18 PM
1

W
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:25 PM
1

who said I was being ironic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:20 PM
2

everything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:10 PM
7

Breaking news, the red pillers were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:07 PM
0

Ugly men theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:23 AM
2

I definitely went for traits that are similar to my dad. He's a wonderful father to me and a wonderful husband to my mom and so I am drawn to guys who share his qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:17 AM
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No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:51 AM
3

But feet pics? really?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:36 AM
2

perfect, a pure paragon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:22 AM
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no one is arguing for that except the loonies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:21 AM
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My siblings always get me one piece stuff for my birthday and Christmas lol. They're cute tho, I just showed my sis and she said she might get me one for Christmas haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:25 AM
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lmao I hadn't seen that. I oughta get one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:21 AM
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That's like my bf watching all of One Piece with me. Only love would make a man do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:09 AM
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idk. I dated up in some aspects and down in others I suppose. Ultimately I feel like my partner is better than me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:56 AM
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I get more upvotes than downvotes generally. I can always tell when I've pissed someone off tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:55 AM
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we don't speak of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:08 AM
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we don't speak of that incident.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:49 PM
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my bf and I were comparing how many friends we each have because he claimed he's more popular than me. When I started to count mine I was using my hands and he said "You can count how many friends you have on both hands, that's the problem". damn 😭😭😭😭 this hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:47 PM
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Why are you a starfish in the bedroom? Why don't you highly value communication during sex? making a lot of assumptions here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:04 PM
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lol that's where I thrive. Remote areas as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:59 PM
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I'm not a huge fan of big cities tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:49 PM
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Idk most of my friend's n-counts, (other than my bestie who's sitting at a solid 1 alongside me). It's not like I talk about sex with my friends all that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:47 PM
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lmao 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:50 PM
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She probably just ran into you 30 times that night 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:44 PM
1

it's literally what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:36 PM
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I don't call guys who are into that Chubby chasers. More like whalers 🐋
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:25 PM
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speak for yourself. I have to literally fight off the women coming for my man every time we leave the house 🥊
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:21 PM
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"I have no proof that all these men want to rape women so I'm just gonna say they're lying to confirm my biases"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:21 PM
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lmao to quote my bf after showing him this video: "body positivity is for burn victims and amputees"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:20 PM
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in between maybe. I only donate to groups I personally know the people who run them and they report back exactly how the money was used and distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:14 PM
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to make ourselves feel less broke
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:11 PM
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What are you talking about? Most of the men here think that stalker guy was deranged. I haven't seen anyone advocating for that kind of behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:10 PM
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Imagine living in NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:05 PM
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maybe incels and blackpill, but red pillers are usually trying to improve themselves and appeal to women so women will want to sleep with them. Even then, not all incels are rapists or even entertain those ideas. I'm sure there are shitty and deranged men who exist who try to convince themselves women want to be raped, but I think it's an extremely small minority even on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:01 PM
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idk. I did have this one guy in this class who I made eye contact with and I thought he was looking at me. So later I looked back and we made eye contact again. And it happened a couple more times after that. I'm still not sure if we were both thinking the same thing where he was trying to figure out if I was looking at him and we just happened to keep looking at each other. Or if he was just staring a lot for some reason. Generally I'd say if they're making unbreaking eye contact for more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:56 PM
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I think you're talking about a very small and radical minority of men. Most men don't rape and most men don't advocate for it. I'd argue most men don't even have rape kinks. They generally want a girl who can't stop herself from hopping on their dick as opposed to a girl who's doing everything she can do get off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:52 PM
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yea. tbh if you really want to avoid, don't have sex first thing. Lots of red pillers won't bother if you don't want sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:49 PM
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If they're a genuine "seasoned" red piller, you wouldn't know from first meet. They literally advocate lying to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:46 PM
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well I don't really know how I'd be looking at you right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:39 PM
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I'd honestly say she's a bit prettier than him. If he got his teeth fixed they might be even tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:38 PM
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you're not supposed to know they're red pill when you date them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:17 PM
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yo my sisters helped find our long time ugly and single guy friend a gf. whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:14 PM
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Is there like a database where guys get together and rate girls they've been with? Can I see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:12 PM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:09 PM
1

What about for women? We're definitely not all sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:56 AM
1

how do you determine which category you're in?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:32 AM
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uhh... hm... idk I'm not that creative 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:25 AM
1

say he forgot his wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:23 AM
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honestly I would have got on so well with him 🤣 They handled it well at the end tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:15 AM
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I'm 20 and I find it crazy lol. Then again I'm quite conservative when it comes to sex so I have a strong bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:57 AM
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lol like you can call that a bf then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:46 AM
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How has she slept with only two guys in the past two years if she has ne boyfriends that frequently?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:38 AM
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50 by 19? Damn she's been through it lol. I'd almost be more concerned for her than anything at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:32 AM
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I want a man who views and values sex the same way as me. Especially if we're going to be raising children together. I don't need my partner to agree with me on everything, but I consider sex to be a pretty important topic. I wouldn't be worried about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:09 AM
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someone already brought this up on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:04 AM
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you cheat constantly too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:03 AM
1

women don't like bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:33 AM
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I feel the same way. I would probably break up with my bf if I found out he was open to a non monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:28 AM
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I dislike women because I'm "not like other girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:15 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:13 AM
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it's okay, we're all dumb here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:09 AM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:02 AM
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because grinding isn't sexual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:53 PM
2

I'm about 5'7", I've always wanted to be a few inches shorter. 5'4" ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:23 PM
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It's meee 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:09 PM
2

Animals seek family and community out of survival. Dogs only "love" their masters because of pack mentality. It's a mutually beneficial relationship but from the dog's perspective it's purely selfishly and instinctually motivated. Even my cat, as precious and adorable as she is, doesn't care for me or love me beyond what I can offer her. Human's view pets and other humans in a completely different way. You could argue that everything people do is selfishly motivated and purely transactional, inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:25 PM
1

I'm definitely missing something here 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:12 PM
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It would matter to them. Yea and I'm saying in a world without God, there is no conceivable reason why it should matter. The thoughts and feelings humans have don't make sense. It's why I'm not a nihilist and why I'm not an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:11 PM
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I don't personally believe animals have empathy or consciousness of self. Sure our actions impact other animals, I never denied that. I'm just saying whatever impact we have wouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:01 PM
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yea I really lack discipline for smthn like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:59 PM
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Yes but sometimes just sharing such personal stuff willy nilly can end up backfiring on you and just pushing people away. You have to be careful with who you choose to talk to. I'd argue we should be more observant to our friends. We should be checking in on them and making sure they're getting the help they need. That's what friends are for. I don't think blaming men for not talking about it, which is a really hard thing to do, is helpful for men who are struggling with suicide. We should be ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:58 PM
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God isn't forcing compliance lmao. The way I view it is if God doesn't exist, we're really just a bunch of animals making up meaning for ourselves. Does what I do really affect anything long term? No. eventually this entire planet will be gone and all of the things we make up reasons to care about will be gone too. Why should I care about hurting other people when they're realistically just a mass of flesh and bones. It's impossible for me to even consider atheism because Nihilism makes no sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:54 PM
2

suicide isn't exactly the easiest thing to talk about with just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:47 PM
1

very true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:43 PM
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I slept in, missed my first two classes, and cried. I also ate some pasta which was good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:24 PM
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Atheism definitely doesn’t necessitate nihilism for me it does
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:38 PM
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not that I know of, but I've also never looked into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:37 PM
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I don't smoke or drink anything so I know for sure I'm just a bit dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:52 PM
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Hey if anything it's a compliment to her tastes 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:44 PM
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I swear I have the memory of a goldfish. My bf sends me a reel on insta so I open it and watch it. I think "hey this is very funny, I should send this to my man" and proceed to send it directly back to him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:39 PM
2

Did I say smthn funny 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:35 PM
1

? I like my own boobs, but I'm not really interested in other women's
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:29 PM
1

wtf does this mean 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:26 PM
1

I'm not attracted to pretty boys and I'm not bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:14 PM
2

yea, if I was an atheist I would probably be more motivated to kms tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:08 PM
2

I'm more outwardly expressive of how I feel about my partner, but I'm confident he feels the same even if he doesn't always communicate it in the exact same way as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:06 PM
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If I wasn't Christian I would for sure be a Nihilist. I feel like it's the only conclusion for a world without God.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:04 PM
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I already said I'm 20 lol. So most of my friends are also around that age. I think it's a lot more unusual for my generation, but I still understand why some women would go for older men. But I think a lot of young women now are very adverse to anything with very large age gaps. Part of the feminism hype train ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:03 PM
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Yea, I don't personally have any girl friends my age who have a had a relationship like that yet. But I wouldn't be surprised if I were to find one of them dating a much older man. Especially my friends who are less educated, dropped out of school, or are less financially stable, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:55 PM
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I don't understand why either. Like especially after dating my partner, It became so clear that he just functions completely different from me. Yes some of it could be attributed to personality differences, but a lot is just guy stuff. Even looking at my brother, BILs, Dad, etc. they just think about and approach things completely differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:49 PM
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yea. I'm 20 and sometimes when I get stressed about money and shit I sometimes think about how much easier it would have been to just find a sugar daddy or get with an older more established man. I can't say it's not tempting, and if I hadn't happened to find a wonderful guy right out of highschool, I probably would have been open to, or even purposely looked for older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:43 PM
2

I did too 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:39 PM
1

it doesn't rlly count because my bf is my also my first partner, but if we break up I honestly don't think I could find someone as good looking as him again. I think his ex is prettier than me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:29 PM
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Or do people think that friends are people that buy them gifts and shit and do tons of favors for them without ever asking for anything in return? yea. That's how I treat my friends at least. I love to buy my friends stuff and treat them because I care about them, not because I'm expecting them to pay it forward. I especially don't expect them to pay it forward with sex lol. Regardless I've never lost male friends due to this kind of stuff so I don't really think it's a universal woman experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:36 AM
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Whenever I look in the mirror, I find myself to be very pretty. I love my face and features and I like looking at myself in reflections (maybe I'm a bit vain lol). But I cannot get a good picture of myself for the life of me. I look horrible in cameras. There are very few photos of myself I actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:41 AM
3

Is this not common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:31 AM
2

I'm hungry af. After this shift I'm gonna go home and devour some pasta
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:41 AM
1

i rlly wanted cake the other day so I baked a big cake with fancy icing. It tasted how it usually does but for some reason didn't scratch the itch. I think it's cuz I made vanilla icing instead of chocolate. Regardless had another slice the next day and it was heavenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:42 PM
1

definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:40 PM
1

I really like being young. I don't need tons of money to enjoy life, I don't really feel constant anxiety and I'm pretty confident in who I am. I have energy, lots of time, not as many responsibilities, it's pretty chill and I'm gonna make the most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:10 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:39 PM
1

she's usually pretty good about that. Sometimes if she's feeling attention deprived she'll try crawling over everything tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:37 PM
1

lmao possibly 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:18 PM
1

my keyboard does the job lol. I just need it for typing up papers and shit. I'm not particularly attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:14 PM
1

no lol. I don't even think laptops can come with mechanical keyboards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:04 PM
1

well what does mine tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:04 PM
1

ah. I'm not so picky about keyboards, I just like something that feels relatively nice lol. Doesn't matter much to me rn tho as I pretty much only use my laptop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:54 PM
1

lol I'm def not the neatest with my writing, but I think I've gotten better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:53 PM
1

really? I've plenty of good mechanical keyboards without leds. Regardless you can just turn em off. I like the lights tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:52 PM
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lol I usually use them if it's dark, but they automatically turn on when I start my laptop. I just forget to turn em off. Plus it's pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:45 PM
2

precious homework buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:38 PM
1

no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:20 PM
5

tik tok is shit, pls don't judge the rest of us based on those egomaniacs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:20 PM
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I tend to think most men are attractive and most women are attractive. It takes a lot for me to think someone is ugly, and tbh I'm probably more harsh with women (probably cuz I'm just being catty lol). I may be an outlier with this perspective tho. In terms of that tik tok girls chart, I think both genders are distributed in the way she drew the "women" column.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:19 PM
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As sad as it is for women who have grown up in bad home environments, I would consider a woman who has a bad relationship with their parents, particularly their dad, to be a red flag. It's not necessarily their fault or anything, I just think it has the potential to cause a lot of issues especially in dating and relationships to men. I also think not being able to maintain lasting friendships or having a series of short flings is a red flag. I think a woman who is open to casual sex, hookups, fw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:52 PM
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nope, my dad would threaten to whoop my ass tho (and mom would just threaten to tell dad). Granted all of my ass whoopings growing up were certainly deserved 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:27 PM
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not particularly 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:25 PM
1

but the only reason women like tall men is because it looks good?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:47 PM
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you could also say "I like his eyes, but his nose is too big". In the modern age, height serves no other purpose than being visually appealing (aside from being able to reach things high up which I would find difficult to believe is the most important attractor for women). How could height be anything other than looks based?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:41 PM
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idk I don't vape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:18 PM
4

ppl going schizo in the dm's again🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:10 PM
2

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:45 PM
1

looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:41 PM
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covid started when I was finishing my last year of highschool and everything got moved online. My bf (although we weren't dating at the time) and I had a lot of classes together. I gave him the answers to all of our assignments and tests and basically gave him a free pass for graduation. Later when we were dating and I met his grandparents for the first time, his dad was raving about how well my bf did in online school and how it was a much better learning environment for him, not knowing I'd he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:35 PM
2

Caterpillars
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:08 PM
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vapings kinda mid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:04 PM
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I agree with this. If you read my very first comment, I take issue with how and why men approach the relationship rather than just whether or not they're in an imbalanced power relationship. (I say "men" because that's usually what people are referring to, but could be women too ofc). Abuse is about the methods and actions of a person. Power imbalances open a door for those kinds of people to take advantage, but it doesn't mean that's the only way a relationship could form.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:00 PM
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yea, I'm saying they feel good simply because they do, not because of the cravings or withdrawals. I'm sure if I did have cravings they'd feel even better, but I've always enjoyed them even from the first time I smoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:56 PM
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Yea I know of plenty of healthy age gap relationships and I don't view men who get into the honestly and with good intentions as bad or anything. I think it's a very nuanced topic and I don't exactly advocate for making laws stricter surrounding it or anything. I'm just wary of them due to personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:54 PM
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I never said the majority of age gap relationships were like that. I just said it happens and those are the men I take issue with. I agree with you that inexperience is the main problem, but age and experience are generally linked. I view huge age gaps as a yellow flag, not a blazing red one. I don't think age gap relationships are by nature wrong or immoral, I just think it could be an indicator of a power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:46 PM
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sluts with extreme insecurities tend to be willing to compromise on a lot of physical shit. Just be friends with her first and then subtly tear her down emotionally. Be her support system for a while when she inevitably has her breakdown, then threaten to leave if she doesn't "pay it forward". Works like a charm ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:36 PM
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you think a cigarette once a year is an addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:33 PM
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Or maybe she doesn't enforce her boundaries because it isn't worth it comparatively to what she's worth and what she wants right now. I'm speaking from experience dude. I know why I didn't advocate well enough for myself and it wasn't because I was interested in the guy (I for sure wasn't). I'm not going to continue to beat the dead horse because you seem to think the only age gap relationships that exist are young women chasing after the "cool, edgy, older men". Idc about those ones, if the chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:32 PM
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Mine never did. I always had that problem with vaping, but I found smoking really easy and frankly just a more enjoyable experience than a vape. Never had coughing issues from smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:25 PM
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I really enjoy how cigarettes feel, but I've never craved them. I have one every couple years or so when I get together with my old high school buddy who moved away (first person I ever smoked with). It feels good, smells good, is just fun to me. But I'm definitely not suffering any withdrawal symptoms lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:23 PM
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I haven't always been this way 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:17 PM
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c
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:16 PM
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If ur good at manipulating people's feelings and shit, it wouldn't be difficult at all. A bpd chick would suck ur dick just to ensure you're still friends and aren't losing interest. She'd probably do that even if she had a bf too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:13 PM
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My bpd friend is constantly telling me to break up with my bf and fuck her, maybe I should take her up on that offer 🤔 I don't think it'll be very difficult to get a person with bpd to want to fuck u
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:08 PM
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what you call "they are naive and easy to manipulate" is more that "they're more attracted and more willing to compromise". No I call it naive and easy to manipulate cuz I've experienced thay shit and I was naive and easy to manipulate. I know what if feels like and I know there are men who exist who will purposely continuously push young women right to the edge of their boundaries, regardless of how uncomfortable the girl is. They do this because they know she's not assertive enough to enforce …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:06 PM
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I think for a lot of guys, they are into younger women simply because they think they're prettier. I have no issues with those men. I take issue with men who purposely prey on young women and girls because they know they are naive and easy to manipulate. Pursuing someone young because you think they are pretty is fine. Pursuing someone young because you think they would be easy to manipulate is not. There are men who exist in both categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:29 AM
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it helps me sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:27 AM
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hitmonlee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:26 AM
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yeah but like i spent 16-18 mostly in inpatient psych for suicidality so im doing good based on perspective. fair enough, you can rlly only go up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:22 AM
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Vaping is pretty awful tho. Just makes me think of all my old high school friends who are letting their lives go to shit. Being better than crackheads at a bus stop is not a good benchmark for yourself dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:13 AM
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vaping eww
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:04 AM
1

🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:49 AM
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I've heard like. There's nods of respect. or like that sometimes they mean different things. I'm not a man idk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:44 AM
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some man please explain the differences in the types of nods with man to man non verbal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:42 AM
1

If I were a pokemon I'd be a boy pokemon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:55 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:52 AM
1

hitmonlee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:49 AM
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I know quite a few couples that got together in their old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:02 AM
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yea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:00 AM
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I'll cook, clean, do all the household shit, as long as my man brings home the bacon. Yea if I'm gonna be the breadwinner, you best believe my man is gonna be cooking and cleaning for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:54 AM
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Yea, that's why most studies are a load of bs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:50 AM
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not rlly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:53 PM
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I feel nothing from those pics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:49 PM
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just use r/shadowban if you ever want to find out if u've been banned or not. Happened to a couple of my accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:57 PM
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I love rum and coke. Other than that most drinks taste better without alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:25 PM
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So? all of the women in those movies and shows are drop-dead as well. Not to mention for most male focused media, all of the women are super attractive. It's almost like movies sell better when they have attractive and charismatic actors and actresses portraying unachievable standards. No one wants to watch movies about average ppl sucking at life. Movies are for fantasy fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:01 PM
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Hey I'm not that boring 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:26 PM
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these all seem reasonable to me 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:18 PM
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Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:27 PM
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it's our self-hatred projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 PM
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Most people in this sub aren't a good example lol. These people are obsessed over dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 PM
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I refuse to believe that's real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:15 PM
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I'm in my first relationship rn and it's going pretty well. My sister is doing fine, most of their issues lie with her innate personality traits rather than inexperience. And although I never "saw" my parents dating (obviously) they were engaged within the year and had no issues, despite my mother having significantly more dating experience. A mature adult dating for the first time is completely different than a very young adult or teenager dating for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:00 PM
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What about it makes it difficult to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:51 PM
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Yea lying in general is looked down upon. Dishonesty will never be considered admirable behavior by the general public. people who lie don't do it so other people will think they're a good person, they do it to get what they want regardless of who they screw over along the way. Lie all you want, but don't try to pretend you don't deserve any backlash you get if you get found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:39 PM
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I think it's abnormal, but I don't necessarily think it's bad. My sister didn't go on a date until around 24 and now she has a fiance. My dad never dated until 26 and ended up with a long happy marriage. I would never say it's the norm, but I wouldn't think less of anyone for not having dated by that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:35 PM
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you can be anything you want to be on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:10 PM
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Exactly. Lets all vote for who we don't wanna get in. That'll stick it to the man for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:09 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:06 PM
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okay okay. I love him and I love sucking his dick. Does this work better?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:01 PM
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yea, that's why it's a pretty poor example to show women aren't shallow, when everyone in the situation is an outlier to normal dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:59 PM
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no I love sucking dick, I'm just particular about which dick I'm sucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:57 PM
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I actually have a friend who got her parents to arrange her marriage. She hasn't met her fiance in person yet, but they skype and seem to get along well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:55 PM
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It's been lost again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:49 PM
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apparently you should ask out girls with down syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:46 PM
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lmaooo 🤣🤣🤣 This explains some things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:46 PM
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I have a boyfriend 😭😭 a monogamous relationship. Geez I can't go sucking off every guy who does smthn nice for me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:43 PM
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I don't want to think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:41 PM
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Multiple dudes with down syndrome and girlfriends? That's surprising. Regardless women hike up their standards after high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:40 PM
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I hate it here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:38 PM
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he was prolly in his sixties, I assume he was probably married, and I have a bf. I let him know I was extremely grateful tho. Was still 20 mins late for class but I got there eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:36 PM
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Got stuck in the snow this morning and some guy driving by stopped to help dig out my car and push it out. Faith in humanity restored 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:32 PM
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lol I've never personally had to do that, but I'm sure it was 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:29 PM
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I'm not sure. I like tall men, but I feel dating someone that much older than me might feel a bit weird. I suppose both would be fine but I'm leaning towards a short guy my age. Idk how I would relate to a 30 yr old, but if they were a good person I suppose I would five it a go. I'm assuming for this question "short" means at least shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:04 PM
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lol I love it here, but it definitely has it's downsides
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:30 PM
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exactly 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:16 AM
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is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:03 AM
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6'4"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:56 AM
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gets worse from here on out. melts around march to aprilish. Jan is usually the coldest. Depends where you are in Canada tho. edit: negatives can get to like 25-35 range. can get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:55 AM
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I'm talking celsius. Canada. We've had snow for a while already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:51 AM
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my store is freezing. Even they raise the temperature to 25 or so, the door is constantly opening and closing (sometimes not closing cuz the ice messes with the sensors) it feels cold regardless. I have to stand right next to the door all shift so I literally wear a coat when I'm working inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:44 AM
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Once my bf learned this, he started beating me up regularly. He's even hotter to me now 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:41 AM
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I think the main thing about this situation in general is that he wasn't even creeping on her. He was just using the gym equipment and looked in her direction briefly passing by. She wasn't even receiving unwanted attention and still made a big deal about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:34 AM
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yea Idk why I never catch anything from my man. Neither of us get sick often and even when we do we don't rlly try to avoid each other or anything. But I can't recall a time I've caught smthn from him tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:34 AM
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no, not at all 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:22 AM
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I haven't been alive for 22 years lol. Can't say I'm quite that immune yet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:18 AM
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I'm just mad ur calling me stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:17 AM
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what a convoluted way to call women stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:09 AM
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oddly enough me and my partner rarely pass our sickness to each other. I tend to not get sick very easily in general tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:05 AM
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I do in fact love bragging about my man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:14 AM
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I feel targeted lol. That was kinda a joke, by "best" I mean a guy I'm completely content with spending the rest of my life with and don't feel the need to search any further. Even if there's a guy better than him, I couldn't rlly imagine it and it's not worth thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:13 AM
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idk what to tell you. You're talking to a woman here and I know I was never too picky about that shit. Most women I know aren't that picky, and fpr the ones who have higher standards, looks, money, etc. is of higher importance than expecting a guy to be perfect socially. Perhaps you're just more awkward than you think you are. Most women expect men who aren't completely socially awkward, but there's no demand for absolute perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:02 AM
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High standards on looks, sure. On social skills? no. Lots of those guys were awkward fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:23 AM
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I mean obv they are. They also usually have more risk taker personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:00 AM
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I've never passed up a guy. I've never had a guy make a move on me before I started my first relationship, and I made the first move on my man because I thought he'd make a good partner. I'm sure there are other wonderful men in the world, but there's no one I would want more than who I'm with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:56 AM
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If she's getting the ick from an emoji she wasn't into the person to begin with, she's just looking for an excuse to reject him. If some guy she was already into sent her an emoji, she'd be all over that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:55 AM
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stop calling me out 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:50 AM
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I never struggled with this. Got the best guy first try lol. Aside from my own experiences, my female friends don't tend to miss out on good guys because of those kinds of standards. Most don't care about that. They miss out on the good guys because they're too busy obsessing over really toxic guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:48 AM
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eh, i didn't care when I was teen, I don't care now. It's a guilty pleasure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:46 AM
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yea, but I can see the appeal of something more exciting. Just because ppl enjoy it doesn't mean they want to literally emulate it in their own relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:28 AM
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I'm a gamer but I despise horror
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:16 AM
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generally healthy relationships aren't all that exciting to read about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:08 AM
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lol I wrote so many BS papers for free money. Not difficult and extra $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:23 AM
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I wouldn't mind. I can think of better things to do for less money, but I've never been and I think it could be fun. I do enjoy amusement parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:08 AM
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machamp obv
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:03 AM
2

the goblins
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:15 PM
4

and they say only women monkey branch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:01 PM
2

I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:42 PM
3

Yea reddit kinda sucks ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:42 PM
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Not my college bookstore posting false information on instagram 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:05 PM
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On reddit, women are seen as vulnerable and protected group under the TOS and men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:01 PM
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when u said cold I was thinking in terms of what the weather is over here (blizzarding rn) and I was like, "nah they're looking at u like ur a freak of nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:52 PM
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👍 yup, it's pretty great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:07 PM
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Well it worked for me, I don't see any reason to change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:02 PM
1

who doesn't want a dominant hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:57 PM
2

I don't have filters on any of my pics on insta
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:51 PM
1

Do I? I like to think of it as engaging conversations 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:44 PM
1

Of course! 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:38 PM
2

I just did out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:34 PM
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they interest me, I just don't think it's important. I like that I can engage in debates without pissing myself off like politics does. I enjoy debating but I tend to get too invested when it's about topics that really matter to me. This is a good alternative because no matter what crazy ideas people have about dating, it doesn't really make a difference to me in the end. I mostly hang out in daily anyways so it's not like I debate too much to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:17 PM
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I think I read through bits and pieces a while back. I don't have the time to really dive deep into research for a topic as unimportant as dating dynamics and sexual strategy. Maybe if I'm feeling curious I'll dive down the rabbit hole again sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:10 PM
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that didn't happen either. Regardless, I'm not on this sub to debate religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:04 PM
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even if he did that, not everyone would follow. Even people who do have access to the bible don't follow the teachings of it, and some who claim to distort it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:57 PM
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nope I never said that and I don't support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:36 PM
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I actually believe God reveals himself to groups of people regardless of whether they've heard the exact story or not. Like Native groups could still have revelation from God and understand that they need to believe in him for salvation, without needing the story explained to them by Christians. What Christians sharing the gospel does is put it all into context. I don't believe anyone goes through life without a chance to learn about and take advantage of salvation, because I believe God is a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:53 PM
1

I pick up new hobbies all the time so the list has gotten quite long now. Aside from what I consider my less productive hobbies (anime and video games) it's mostly crafty stuff, like crochet, knitting, embroidery, cross-stitch, sewing, drawing/painting, and I also enjoy baking. There are a few other things here and there I enjoy too. I also love swimming and skating, but those are rather seasonal hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:27 PM
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yikes. Yea I'm happy my bf's family is really chill and easy to get along with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:24 PM
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I suppose. But to me the idea of needing to impress people, especially people I see fairly frequently and am related to, would be tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:19 PM
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Generally when people talk about impressing their inlaws, it's a bit more performative than how they are with their own parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:43 PM
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Really? You'd think after 25+ years of marriage the inlaws would become like a second family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:37 PM
1

told u I was dating Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:05 AM
1

dating is a lot more than sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:01 AM
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I don't view men as a monolith so I can't pick out traits and plaster them on men as a whole. I don't really know how to answer this because for every man I've met who exhibits a trait I like there's probably a man who exhibits a total opposite trait that I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:01 AM
1

I can help myself out thank you very much 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:58 AM
1

😱
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:57 AM
1

I have like 2 friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:57 AM
2

pure lunacy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:10 AM
0

where did I go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:38 AM
0

We love some deranged discord exchanges
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:28 AM
2

that severe? no. It really depends on the severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:54 AM
0

you've lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:53 AM
1

I personally view the opportunity to live life as a privilege. I don't think the world is all suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:47 AM
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no offence but I rlly didn't like theatre kids all that much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:17 AM
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There are plenty of other jobs in hospitals that aren't nursing as well. My mom was a lab tech, and I have a friend training for x-ray tech, although she was originally interested in sonography
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:58 AM
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yea he's a specific guy, it's not about his looks or anything, it's what he says
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:11 PM
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i think he does dating coaching tiktoks or smthn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:09 PM
1

18
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:07 PM
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I knew him four years, we'd only been officially dating for a month tho (although we were into each other for quite a while before that). It was good. It was his first time too, so we were both pretty nervous and just figuring out things together, but we eventually got the hang of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:58 PM
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Depends on the relationship you have with your kids and where they live. I know neither me or any of my siblings would hesitate to help my parents out when they start needing it. They've done so much for us, of course we'd want to care for them when they're older. I think my biggest motivation for having a big family (aside from just being family oriented and loving a family environment) is that having a big family and kids helps a lot with loss. My dad for example has outlived both his parents …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:49 PM
1

kinda? like I would be a bit weirded out. probably not a deal breaker tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:09 PM
1

proton gang over here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:12 PM
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I know...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:36 PM
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Even if financially the sahm thing doesn't work out, I don't think I'd regret helping him out rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:27 PM
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you don't get a relationship then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:23 PM
1

sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:04 PM
2

rude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:58 PM
1

thx for the concern 😊 I realize the risks and everything but I've known my man for 7 years, so I'm not overly worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:24 PM
1

Oh I've seen the FDS horror stories
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:22 PM
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We're planning on a joint account when we marry. I'm pretty content with how things are rn. Like I said to another commenter, he was paying for everything for the first two years. He's planning on getting a job when he gets a more permanent residence (his family had a house fire in June and are waiting for their place to be rebuilt).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:13 PM
1

sounds g
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:09 PM
1

Nic guys finish last unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:03 PM
1

We're both 20 and still live with our parents. Which is also why I was confused by his question. All I really pay for is like dates and sometimes other needs like clothes, shampoo and stuff like that. I think he was concerned cuz for the next four years while he's in college I'll really be the only one contributing financially to our future (we're saving for a house).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:03 PM
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I'm pretty confident he's just feeling a bit emasculated. He worked for the first two years of dating and paid for practically everything we did together while saving for University. I say chad as a joke but he's genuinely a really wonderful guy, he also often checks in on me if I'm feeling happy and content with the relationship. This was just one of those moments, although I do find it funny the thought would even cross his mind. I genuinely don't have a lot of money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:00 PM
1

You're just scared u can't compete with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:50 PM
1

😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:46 PM
1

Of course 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:44 PM
1

aw well, he's chad so idc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:43 PM
1

Cuz underwear is so damn expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:42 PM
1

no lol. He's just in school rn so I pay for everything. I'm eventually gonna be a SAHM, so I don't mind paying it forward now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:41 PM
1

we'll see how many apply to me 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:40 PM
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I actually have a problem with this. If I'm going to be in any place for an extended period of time I always bring a ton of shit with me, especially for road trips and stuff. Like books, games, movies, other random shit. I don't end up using much of it but it makes me feel better if I have it. It annoys my man to no end cuz I just have so much stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:39 PM
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Last night my bf asked me if I felt like he was using me for my money. I'm broke bitch, what money?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:37 PM
0

I honestly don't think I'm that picky 😅 Maybe I'm just having difficulty grasping it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:36 PM
1

and here I was crushing on every guy who so much as breathed in my direction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:35 PM
1

All women are dysfunctional bitches aweee, stawp it. You're flattering me 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:34 PM
1

why not just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:26 PM
2

I'm gonna be an auntie soon and I'm so excited for it 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:22 AM
1

I don't use toys but I'd be seriously surprised if they helped save time. Like doing it with my hands is already fast enough as is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:03 AM
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If you've already cheated by the time she proves she's worth being loyal to, you've already compromised the relationship. If she ever finds out, the relationship is over and you've lost the outlier to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:56 AM
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Yea. I think because they're so argument prone they're also very quick to forgive. Most of their communication is quick explosive arguments and then they make-up and work things out moments later. Would be a torturous situation for me, but it works for them. They never seem to hold grudges against each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:37 AM
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she's stubborn af too. No idea how they don't end up killing each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:13 AM
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A stubborn man is an unattractive man. My BIL is exactly as you've described here and it annoys me to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:56 AM
1

Christian. non-denominational although my beliefs more closely align with Charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:48 AM
2

Yea of course lol. I'd assume most people have had them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:19 AM
2

yea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:17 AM
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Idk bout southern california, but I don't know many (if any) women who post photos like that or even post often on ig at all. Ik they exist but women like that are certainly not the norm, at least where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:05 AM
1

I'm not interested in customers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:05 PM
2

wait till wintertime
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:07 PM
2

Well idk. You were there and I wasn't so you prolly have a better idea than me. It would just make me nervous to think men might interpret me being polite and friendly when I work as flirting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:03 PM
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Eh, I can be quite loud lol. I also find being loud just makes it feel better. Like I'm pretty loud when it feels really good and it also enhances the experience for me. Kinda like how in martial arts they recommend you shout when you punch and shit lol. No idea why it does it for me, but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:01 PM
4

I would think my partner would look very out of place if he wore that everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:57 PM
1

That's so odd to me. Like I just imagine silent grunting or some shit lol. Do you at least talk to your partner during?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:55 PM
1

you don't moan during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:46 PM
1

Yea it just seems awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:36 PM
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like she cleaned the table you were sitting at? That would be pretty odd and I guess would be a sign. But if it's just the tables near you, I've had plenty employees do that when I'm at restaurants. Especially if it's the morning cuz they have to wipe everything down. Just saying. Could have been flirting. Could have just been doing her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:35 PM
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ohhhhh. Was eye contact, smiling, and just doing her job the only indication that she was into you. I do that to all my customers and I don't get tips 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:28 PM
2

fast food workers get tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:25 PM
2

I've definitely had both. Being rejected by crushes in middle school and high school did a number. Some said specific things about my appearance and some just made it very clear they weren't interested. It hurts. But then my sisters, mom, female friends, also said things that have stuck. Whereas my brother and dad have never said anything that has made me concerned about my appearance. Even when it comes to weight. When I was in high school, I had started to get a bit overweight. Not by much at …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:18 PM
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basically all of them. It's difficult for me to be sexually interested in a person I've never interacted with. This isn't to say these celebrities are unattractive, I just don't understand how ppl can obsess over a bunch of pretty people they've never met. If I had to pick the most apparent example, it would be Henry Cavill. By all means he's pretty much perfect in terms of looks, but I just can't really see him as sexy because I don't know him. It feels odd to think that way about a real life p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:09 PM
1

Looksmatch or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:09 AM
1

only pants and hoodies 👀 Is that a bad thing, cuz that's basically what I wear 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:53 AM
1

my bf only seems to compliment my hair when I'm having a bad hair day lol. It's sweet but also a little odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:10 AM
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this reads like fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:29 AM
2

damn really? Oh no! Maybe I should reclaim my freedom by running naked in the streets and sleeping with every man I see!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:48 PM
1

I don't mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:43 PM
1

Super Monkey Ball 2 had a killer OST
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:42 PM
2

I don't think my bf would appreciate me providing a bunch of randos on the street that kind of joy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:42 PM
1

Yea but if I was wearing the pants it's something I definitely wouldn't want everyone to see
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:34 PM
1

most gun owners I know just find guns cool lol. Then again I live in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:29 PM
1

I like his facial expression in first pic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:27 PM
1

until she sits down and her entire ass is on display
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:21 PM
1

when mine doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:20 PM
3

Yea of course. I hate worrying about my ass crack showing or needing to constantly tug up my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:17 PM
0

I'm pretty content just being cute tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:14 PM
4

not all guys want head constantly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:14 PM
1

It looks kinda weird when ppl ride with no hands
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:13 PM
1

Way too low waisted. Also a bit too attention grabbing for my tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:12 PM
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I think it's a lot easier for an older person with bad intentions to pressure a younger person into sex/sexual activities they don't want and then gaslight them about it being completely consensual and fine. People with less experience don't generally know how to reject strong advances and advocate for themselves as well as an older person, and after engaging sexually they may blame themselves or try to rationalize it. That's the main reason why large age gaps especially with very young partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:00 PM
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yea. I argue from both sides and get downvotes and shit from both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:42 PM
1

Funny. I'm glad I was born in the west of Canada for the exact same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:25 PM
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I haven't really had much catcalling(it's really not common in my area), but the situations I have had have been extremely creepy. Not even what they say, just where and when they do it. I was taking a shortcut through the woods to get home from the beach once and there happened to be a guy there and that's when he chose to comment on what I was wearing 😩 freaky af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:18 PM
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I love compliments, but if I'm walking outside by myself it could be pretty scary to have men making sexual comments about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:14 PM
1

yea
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:12 PM
1

why don't you just take your questions to modmail then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:09 PM
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I'd say so. As long as their not straight up ugly, they're probably attractive enough that I would be interested in dating them. like 70ish percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:53 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CkTS7wIhc2p/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:38 PM
2

Part of preparing for the worst is planning how to avoid the worst. That's probably the most important part of it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:35 PM
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I'm not a good person to ask that lol. Obviously I thought they were attractive. But I feel the same way for most men my age I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:34 PM
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Preparing for the worst when it comes to marriage meaning planning for how you'll handle the difficult times and how you'll approach situations without turning against each other. It's not just about trust, it's also about having the willingness to put in the work required to continue loving your partner and putting their needs before your own. If this approach to marriage is taken by both partners, you will be able to work through things. Most unsuccessful marriages happen due to poor choices e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:34 PM
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Like I said, only reason nothing happened between me and a lot of the more socially awkward guys is because both parties were awkward af and never tried to make anything happen. I guess I'm only speaking from the perspective of one socially awkward shy girl, but I got so little attention due to it that even a guy just having a pleasant convo with me would have me thinking about him for a while. Didn't rlly matter if they were smooth about it or not. Of course I still did have some personal prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:23 PM
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If you don't trust that things aren't gonna go south then don't get married. You clearly don't trust her enough for that. Weddings can be anything you want them to be. Invite who you want, doe whatever you want. It's a party to celebrate you and your bride, do whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:19 PM
2

damn you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:15 PM
1

and what's wrong with other socially awkward ppl? 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:14 PM
1

All women on ppd are over 50 untrue 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:11 PM
2

dammit we got a foot of snow a few days ago. Whatchu talking about. Literally blocked off highways cuz driving was dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:07 PM
3

damn it's me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:04 PM
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Maybe some women. I've been into plenty of awkward guys before ending up with my bf, but nothing ever happened with them because I was also awkward af. If either me or them had a bit more guts, I probably would have ended up with one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:02 PM
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Yeah but that suddenly sounds very selfish if he earns a lot more than you. It'a not selfish unless I'm taking advantage of it in an unfair way. With my husband whom I love, I wouldn't do that. Y'know, cuz I love him. I would feel the exact same way if I made more money than him. So hypothetically he might make 10 times more than you but you still want to have an equal say of how he should spend what he earns? Sort of. Tbh I'm rather traditional so I view men as the leader of the household. Imo …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:58 PM
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Only bothered a bit by the finality of the statement, but otherwise no. Everyone has to come to terms with the reality of their situation eventually, and the sooner the better generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:08 AM
2

someone already mentioned this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:57 AM
1

dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:44 AM
1

I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:36 AM
1

I've never heard that term before but after looking it up... no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:17 AM
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I do. I just don't see how the girl in the video is less pretty than her. They both seem very beautiful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:15 AM
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Interesting. I don't really know what makes faces appealing ig 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:12 AM
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Can you give me an example of what you think a really pretty face looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:06 AM
1

I am currently inhaling toxic fumes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:50 PM
1

Really?! I thought she was rather pretty 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:34 PM
0

Yea that's a bit unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:31 PM
1

never experienced it so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:24 PM
2

link to the tweet being referenced. If women are the ones being targeted here, they're doing a hell of a lousy job at getting the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:20 PM
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Better than anime characters lol. Glad no one's ever asked me that one before
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:10 PM
1

My sister had to pay 40 bucks twice a week for rapid tests just to stay in college and plenty of people got fired from jobs. There are ways to force ppl to do things without literally holding them down and making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:25 PM
1

what triggered all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:23 PM
3

exactly 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:22 PM
1

A real chad can land women without needing to drive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:22 PM
1

I did for the past 2 and a half years. He just got his. license this week tho 🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:59 PM
2

lmao 🤣🤣 makes me think of this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:58 PM
2

I don't think so. I feel like I'm already pretty and even if I could be hotter, I want to be able to choose which features to improve. There's certain things about jow I look I really love and if I were to lose those for something "traditionally hotter", I don't think it's be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:54 PM
1

Most people I know understand the general idea of what chad means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:49 PM
1

We're very selective with who we include
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:22 PM
2

I only fuck chads 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:19 PM
2

I've been wanting to leash train my cat lol. It's good enrichment for cats to get outside, but it's dangerous for them in the city plus my city has a bylaw against freeroaming cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:18 PM
3

I'm always on a bulk 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:54 PM
2

good on you then. Everyone deserves to treat themselves once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:52 PM
6

If I did when not depressed, I'd probably feel depressed afterwards for eating so much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:49 PM
3

I only do that when I'm depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:46 PM
2

I don't think so. The majority of men I meet past the threshold attractiveness for being willing to date, some more than others tho (like my bf). I'm not too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:37 PM
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My bf is a lot like my dad. I kinda had like the best dad ever tho so it makes sense I went for someone similar to him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:35 PM
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I'm the same way. I assume I'm relatively pretty because I landed a very attractive man. I also have never got a lot of male attention, but that could just be due to me being shy and standoffish. I've got no clue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:49 PM
2

It provides socialization without actually having to form friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:22 PM
2

my uncle was always really short and unpopular in high school and he got bullied a lot. Some of his classmates challenged him to a fight in the parking lot after school one time. He'd finally had enough and decided to go accept the challenge. They guy was a lot bigger than him but my uncle went absolutely ballistic and ended up almost killing the guy and breaking his arm. Sometimes pure adrenaline can take you a long way in terms of fighting. Needless to say he didn't get bullied anymore, he als…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:20 PM
1

get caught talking to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:13 PM
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I would not split 50/50. I planned on shared finances and a joint bank account when I marry. Me and my future husband are a team. My money is his money and his money is my money regardless of income. When it comes to how much we spend and big purchases, that is something we would come together to agree on. Neither of us would get more or less say due to how much we make. I do think this is a superior way of managing finances within a marriage relationship--which is why I'm going to do things tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:59 PM
1

I don't know that many women who casually have sex outside of relationships, but it could just be my area. I live in a smaller city and don't hang out with party people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:33 PM
1

sounds g 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:29 PM
1

finee
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:17 AM
1

I'm too outta shape for that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:13 AM
1

Are there women who actually identify as AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:07 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣 I forgot more men = more masculinity. Please forgive my transgressions 🙇‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:05 AM
1

you're compromising your masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:59 AM
1

hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:58 AM
1

lmao I admire your dedication
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:53 AM
1

I choose to take everything personally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:51 AM
1

I would never lie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:43 AM
1

I appreciate the mental image tho. You did your best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:42 AM
1

salivating over Gaston's biceps 👀 a little bit suspicious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:38 AM
1

unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:34 AM
1

not enough that your wife is gonna completely leave you in the dust. Imo if you're a guy who wants to go for younger women, you should probably be taking care of yourself better than other men who date within their age. Regardless, there are plenty of more low energy activities couples can do together to stay connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:06 AM
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just be more energetic lol. My grandpa married my grandma when he was in his 30's and she was 19 (idc what ppl say about the age gap, everything turned out fine and they're both dead now anyways) and he whipped her into shape like hell. She lost 50 pounds in the first year of marriage cuz she moved from easy city life to a literal shack in the woods. She was the one who struggled to keep up with him lol. If you take care of yourself well, you can maintain energy even when older.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:57 AM
1

I genuinely believe my parents raised me as close to perfect as is possible and they definitely taught me not to abuse alcohol lol. None of my other siblings struggle with addictive behaviour to the degree I do (although my mother certainly does with some of her habits, none involving alcohol of course). I agree that addiction doesn't just happen on it's own, but I still think there are some addictions that happen where circumstances put the person there, and some where they simply were more sus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:43 AM
1

I don't really have anything to trace the tendencies back to, I just have a very addictive personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:31 AM
2

I'm exactly the same way. When I drink I want to keep drinking till I'm puking. I still drink on occasion but I know eventually I'm going to have to phase it out of my life completely. I absolutely can't have alcohol in the house cuz I know I wouldn't have the self-control not to just drink myself to oblivion every time I want to relax. Pretty much the only times I drink now are when I'm at parties with close friends I trust and actually can just get drunk af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:00 AM
1

I love drinking a bit too much. There's a reason why my parents opted for an alcohol free household. Alcoholism runs in our blood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:12 AM
1

idk bout that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:11 AM
1

ahhh nooo. I was not talking about that 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:07 AM
2

lol we're getting our countertops replaced so our entire house is currently lacking sinks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:57 AM
1

Once you've got enough noise going on you eventually get the ability to tune everything out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:46 AM
1

Grew up in a family of six and almost all of us are very musical. I was so used to the piano constantly being played that when I was a kid I used to have sleepovers and my friends would complain about my sister playing the piano at 8 in the morning whereas I'd hardly notice it. My house is always quite lively and we constantly have visitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:41 AM
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I had a similar assignment in my management class. Did it online as an accelerated summer course and our final assignment was a huge research paper. Prof grouped us up and he put me in a group with 3 other people who had already dropped the class. I told him about it and he moved me into yet another nonexistant group. When I finally got into a group with people who were actually in the class they had already finished the entire assignment and they just had me look over it before they handed it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:38 AM
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I actually like a really loud home. Mind wanders too much in the quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:26 AM
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bathtub faucet water just hits different
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:17 AM
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No one is that unavailable, and if they are, they don't have time to be dating. Yup. I'm only that unavailable because I'm dating. Granted there have been a few odd times in my life were everything just happens to land on the same month (such as performance season for my musical groups or tournaments for sports teams), so things can get quite busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:16 AM
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It's good for scholarships, but I'm not strapped for cash and I'm in my last year, so it's nbd. I used to agonize about grades in highschool but now I will literally skip assignments I don't like if I don't need them to pass. I'm not worried about finding a job as what I'm going into is extremely in demand, and most places won't ask gpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:10 AM
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it just means you pissed someone off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:54 AM
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I just hope for a pass and leave it at that lol, good luck tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:39 AM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:33 AM
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fitness and physical health is important for mental health and general happiness (especially so for men imo due to testosterone and shit), but it's isn't all that's needed. My bf always compared it to running a computer (cuz of his cringey gamer brain lol) being that you need to worry about both the hardware and the software in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:28 AM
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It depends. I don't like the hassle of planning and going through with it all, buy generally once I get there I enjoy myself. My dad dislikes traveling. He doesn't like how expensive it is and he doesn't see the purpose. My mom has dragged him on a few trips tho because she adores traveling. Actually most of my family isn't into traveling now that I think about it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:19 PM
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Yea idk, my core values are very traditional, but for less important things i don't rlly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:38 PM
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Oh I always thought he was taller lol. A guy having a lot of money doesn't make him more sexually attractive, but it does make him a more attractive dating prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:09 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:54 PM
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He's old and seems like a boring person. Isn't he pretty tall already? He's just an unattractive person imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:51 PM
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Well I'm only 20. Idk, everyone has a unique sense of humour, it's just what I find funny. He didn't send me that meme or anything I just found it on insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:49 PM
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that's a little out of the blue lol. 20
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:30 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj95BCKOZIw/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:22 PM
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Cavill is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:20 PM
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yea. Being over 6 feet isn't super uncommon in my area tho so it doesn't rlly stick out to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:17 PM
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he's also 20 so 6 figure would prolly be a bit much for our age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:14 PM
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you gotta be hot to get into a relationship, the awwee factor can come out after you've got the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:13 PM
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Well he's got two outta the three but I'll let u guess which ones lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:10 PM
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be a radical centrist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:07 PM
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👍 good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:55 PM
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I prefer being unpredictable 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:54 PM
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I've literally made posts about how women like being objectified and desire men superior to them, you just have a selectivity bias That's not misogyny, it's just using observational skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:50 PM
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So this is confirmation my man is in top 20%. I'll take it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:49 PM
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You're saying women only get horny for the elusive 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:46 PM
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Greatest fighter 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:38 PM
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Women don't get horny. This is common knowledge 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:33 PM
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better than a guy who's super active on social media. Can be frustrating if I'm interested and trying to insta stalk him tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:26 PM
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people can choose not to date people for whatever reason they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:18 PM
1

Been really into Brick + Mortar lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:38 PM
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I just never mention it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:32 PM
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Her name is literally BooBoo Cat lol. She's a short hair diluted calico. She used to be my Grandma's cat and she's named booboo cat cuz her expression always looks like she's hurt or upset (like she's got a booboo).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:04 PM
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class cancelled today cuz icky roads. yayyy 🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:01 PM
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For once I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:59 PM
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awwe. My cat's name is BooBoo as well haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:59 PM
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The sad music in the background really makes this hit hard 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:57 PM
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It's not an issue with how many dicks you've taken, it's an issue with you haven taken dicks at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:50 PM
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First one is good and the only one I could see myself wearing, even if it's not necessarily my style. Third one is okay. I don't like the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:43 PM
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I thought he was very humourous. I only saw highlight clips and shit tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:16 PM
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Some women prefer more traditional gender dynamics in dating and relationships. If a man is willing to pay for me (specifically for first dates) that a possible indicator that they are approaching dating in the same way as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:57 PM
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yea haha 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:55 PM
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it wasn't so bad, we had become good friends after a while and I enjoyed hanging out with him without needing things to be romantic. Obv I'm glad with how things worked out tho, and I do realize I'm definitely not the norm with this 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:34 PM
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🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:31 PM
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possibly. In my are it's a lot less common for younger people to be overweight and everyone tends to be pretty shallow about looks. It's especially so for women, I know very few overweight women or women who don't seem to value their appearance much. For men it's a bit less so, but the majority are very sensitive about looking good. Even most of the chubby or unfashionable guys I knew in highschool have had major glow-ups since then. Part of it is just me tho. I tend to view men as either unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:25 PM
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Yea I still complement guys regardless of how they may receive it. I just want to be nice and even if I have to express disinterest down the line, I'm not gonna purposely avoid complimenting because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:20 PM
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btw your flair is triggering a trauma response for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:18 PM
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well I knew him for four years before dating him but I only really started to try to get his attention for like a year and a half or so before we dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:17 PM
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Of men within my age range and area, like 60-70%. Of guys as a whole... like 30% maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:12 PM
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I used to complement my bf all the time before we started dating. I'm an awkward fuck and too afraid to make a solid move (although I eventually did) so the only thing I could think to do is just compliment him a lot and give him gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:04 PM
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those were the cool theatre kids tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:52 PM
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theatre kid oh..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:52 PM
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I don't get it either. It's just a polite way to tell someone to fuck off with their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:50 PM
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it's because you haven't had time to notice her flaws yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:48 PM
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Videogames is my main hobby and I still never had throngs of guys chasing after me for it 😅 Granted I don't play very social games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:47 PM
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lmao don't say smthn with a combative and condescending tone and expect ppl not to answer similarly 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:44 PM
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I'm not super into WoW, I just know what it looks like at a glance cuz my bf was super into it when he was younger and he showed me a bunch of stuff. So I don't rlly know tbh 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:42 PM
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Recently got rebooted on Switch and got a sequel. I played it a ton on my ds when I was younger too. I'll check out that game tho, I'm always looking for new stuff to play
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:38 PM
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depends on the woman. My sister's now-fiance gave her a deer hide he tanned himself as a gift before they started dating to woo her. Needless to say that was her kind of thing. Not all women hate that kind of stuff, but you're certainly not appealing to the majority with a pic like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:34 PM
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no 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:31 PM
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went with my friend when she was getting her nose pierced. On our way out, noticed one the piercers had WOW running on his computer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:44 AM
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Well the one that comment specifically was about is TWEWY. Not completely unpopular as it recently got a reboot (although it kind of flopped), but I haven't met anyone irl who played it yet. At least known enough to have some yt vids about it which is what I was watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:12 AM
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oh just some not so popular games and books that I love. Things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:49 AM
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Only one in my family who got vaccinated lol. Wasn't planning to but college made things difficult and it wasn't worth the hassle fighting all the mandates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:32 AM
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My parents never took me or my siblings trick or treating growing up and I had always assumed it was because they were theologically/morally opposed to halloween. Then a while ago I was talking to my mom and she was telling me about how she'd go trick or treating every year when she was a kid and about all the costumes she wore and stuff. Turns out they just didn't want to bother dragging us around the block every year and didn't want to deal with church people pestering them about it (it was ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:49 AM
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that's the first step
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:32 AM
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Seeing other people talk about and appreciate the weird niche stuff I'm into is such a good feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:40 AM
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Imo after you reach a certain threshold of manliness, you can cry buckets and no one can say shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:43 AM
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his money is attractive 🤑😍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:39 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:27 AM
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immensely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:26 AM
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Yea I come from a pretty traditional background and that's still way over the top 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:24 AM
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I don't care much about muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:24 AM
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cuteeee. My man adores cats and I wouldn't have it any other way! Cuddling with me and the cats at the same time is even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:56 AM
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If someone is having sexual self-discovery moments while in relationship, it's likely they're thinking about having sex with people other than their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:56 PM
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lmao where does she go off getting huffy at him after cheating. She should be glad he let her off the hook
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:24 PM
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depends. I have a really close friend who, other than me, is really only friends with guys. She always says she just gets along better with guys usually. She's a gamer and that's pretty much her only hobby and so she just finds it difficult to bond with most women. Thing is, she doesn't just write off women or anything, she just genuinely finds it hard to connect with other women. So in the rare cases were it's just a genuine disconnect, I can understand. For most women like that, I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:54 PM
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immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:47 PM
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oh damn I misread. I thought you were trying to argue for emotional labour
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:58 PM
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I don't remember what they were. I don't think I made any actually...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:40 PM
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communicating isn't labour lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:39 PM
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I wonder if it works to also have more sisters. My brother grew up with 3 sisters and he was always extremely popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:36 PM
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yea Idk anything bout lifting so I'll take ur word that the timeframe is off 😅 All I know is muscle weighs more than fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:28 PM
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Well it is just a throwaway reddit post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:25 PM
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She says she's only gained muscle mass from lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:21 PM
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Maybe. Definitely a minority tho ime
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:19 PM
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Most of the people my age will recognize recluses for what they are no matter how much online social interaction they engage in. Gen z still party and hang out with each other irl all the time, and you will still definitely be an outcast if you just sit in your room online all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:16 PM
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I'm still stuck on her gaining 30 pounds and still being a size 4. Like where did that weight go lmao edit: apparently she gained it all from lifting, so 30 lbs of muscle makes significantly more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:14 PM
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If you've got money to burn go right ahead. But for most average earners, it is generally smarter to be frugal. People aren't cheap because they're poor, they're poor because they aren't cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:04 PM
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toxic masculinity 🤢 Regardless, I expect the man I'm with to be reasonable and in control of his emotions, not to hide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:57 PM
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I cringe when I hear the term "toxic masculinity". If I have, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:37 AM
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lmao fair. Living together is an adequate excuse 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:14 AM
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why can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:13 AM
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My dad took me skiing for the first time a couple years ago. I sucked so so bad at first. I fell over a lot and had a really hard time getting back up. I went on the training hill over and over and when I went on the bigger hill I only did the easy routes. I even fell down right after getting off the ski lift and couldn't get up again (idk why it's so difficult, ski booth guy had to come out and help me up 😅). Just keep at it, if it's a skill you're really interested in learning, it'll be worth …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:04 AM
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OMG I ❤️ dating mentally unstable women they’re so hot 🤤🤤🤤🤤 awwwe stawp it 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:48 AM
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yup. He had a previous gf but they'd only done oral. He was my first kiss as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:25 AM
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worked for my man. I've got a wild sex drive, he just got to me first lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:21 AM
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I thought mogging was kissing or smthn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:20 AM
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Christmas is the best time of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:40 PM
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You really haven't seen any positive relationships? I look at my dad and he's the happiest when spending time with his wife and kids. Same goes for my grandparents when they were alive and lot of other relatives and family friends. Just because you haven't seen it go well, or just because you prefer the life of a bachelor, doesn't mean that's where every other guy is going to find the most fulfillment in life. Maybe surround yourself with better people. When I think of the marriages I've witness…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:38 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:48 PM
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I think the fear comes from worrying about those who will abuse the ability to go in whatever washroom you want in spite of biological gender. There are places that are women only and men only, and when you start to blur the lines between men and women those spaces begin to disappear. I'm not really fearful and for most of my trans friends you wouldn't even notice if they used the bathroom of their identified gender. But I do understand why there's pushback and why people are protective of gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:40 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:04 PM
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lol I'm not actually american, I just wanted to contrast your use of "American men"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:06 PM
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american women would just kill it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:59 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:23 PM
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idk that's up to him. The proposal is more of a formality, but he says he wants to make it a suprise for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:02 PM
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I suppose I can agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:57 PM
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I'm 20. I know what I want, I have a long term bf and we've already had all the talks about marriage and kids, buying a home, finances, etc. We'll probably get engaged in the next couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:51 PM
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When someone tells me they'll pay I always let them pay no question (unless it's an extreme amount). I hate the stupid back and forth people do just to be nice. Don't say you're gonna pay if you don't wanna pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:47 PM
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I can't say I wouldn't date someone like that, as there's a lot more I would take into account when dating someone, but I can say I'd probably be less attracted to him. Baldness and a weaker jawline is nbd, but I prefer someone taller than me. And masculine characteristics and being able to joke with my partner are pretty important to me. I'm not demanding anything, I'm just saying what I find attractive. Especially in the original comment, I was just responding to the characteristics described.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:32 PM
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I'm not demanding anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:09 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CjiwEFuJD2X/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:30 PM
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open relationships are a joke lol. I'm not getting involved in smthn as messy as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:33 PM
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no clue, I don't keep track and I'm really only exposed to their anonymous internet persona. I'm into conservative men who believe in traditional gender roles tho, so I probably aim for different men than a lot of other women on this platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:31 PM
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No. I don't do FWB. I'm also not a homewrecker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:26 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CjokYMzJ-eu/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:24 PM
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exactly! So rude of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:19 PM
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Not all men here are created equal so it really depends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:16 PM
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I think I slept too many lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:10 PM
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I don't often but I do like to show off my features every now and then. Usually when I'm going to visit my partner I'll wear something a bit more provocative. It's starting to get colder so I'm obviously not going to be revealing as much now. But I like feeling attractive, and revealing clothes tend to make me feel as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:04 PM
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yes I'm aware now -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:56 PM
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fuck. I knew I was missing something. dammit i hate this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:38 PM
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idk with that kind of money, selling my soul is starting to look more and more tempting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:32 PM
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I could probably do better with a little less sugar and carbs tho 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:07 PM
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Everywhere I'm looking says 99.99%. Majority of people float pretty close to 100. Being over 150 is quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:06 PM
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PPD only attracts the most exceptional specimens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:03 PM
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k, but if I genuinely had 169 iq I'd probably want to brag about it too. That's like 99.99..% percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:01 PM
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yikes. Looks like he took the unconventional route out of inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:59 PM
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Most likely. But the training period would probably need to be considerably longer and would be more expensive for the company. I also wouldn't have as in-depth knowledge on what I'm doing. I do agree with your sentiment that a lot of post-secondary is just jumping through hoops essentially, but personally I've found my school experience to be mostly applicable learning. Even if I didn't get a career in the field I'm training for, financial and business knowledge is useful for personal life like…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:42 PM
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Personally I don't understand why people would try to be so dishonest with their intentions. Do people have the obligation to act with honesty in integrity? Not really. Would they be a shitty person for not doing it, imo yes. It's not difficult to just be honest and forthcoming, yet for some reason people don't want to do it, the motivations for which being completely self-centered and uncaring of others. If you want a relationship then can't you simply use your words and ask about it? I can and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:18 PM
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diploma ftw lol. Maybe it's just the major I chose but most of my classes are directly about what I'm going to be doing as a job, practicing client interaction as well and shit. Maybe I've just got rlly good profs tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:03 PM
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Maybe try business school. Almost every class I'm taking has real world application whether I choose to pursue a career in my field of study or not 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:27 AM
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The kind of girls who enjoy this a lot seem to really enjoy dancing. They love the music, the comfort of letting loose with friends. I think they might honestly get most of the value with private parties at their own home with only other female friends even if they are straight women. I don't think nearly as many women would do these things if there weren't men there (specifically young women). I've never done much of the dancing and party scene (Even though I actually love dancing), but I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:22 AM
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When literature peaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:55 AM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:09 AM
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I spend very little time with my friends. I mostly hang with my family and partner. They're just people I've known a long time and comfortable around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:31 AM
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I never was lying, never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:43 PM
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I'm a woman and I agree. A very small percentage of my female friends would actually be good to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:41 PM
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I want to do a road trip around my province as I find a lot of our parks and tourist areas to actually be quite pretty despite rarely going (I'm not much of a traveller). I'm thinking I want to spend some time in Banff as it's very beautiful and not too far away, especially if I have a winter wedding. If money weren't an issue I'd like to tour some of America's big cities. Japan would probably be really cool but I think I'd rather do that trip with one of my close friends rather than my future h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:39 PM
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squeaky wheel gets the oil
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:13 PM
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https://www.worldometers.info/abortions/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:12 PM
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so when you think do you think of sentences in your head, or... like how are you thinking if not in words?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:49 PM
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well of course we don't hear them, we just think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:33 PM
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I mean if she's happy, it's not rlly hurting anyone. Def not my thing personally tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:29 PM
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I have one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:28 PM
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damn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:44 PM
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what does rizz mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:36 PM
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I wouldn't divorce or break up but I'd probably have a convo about how he feels about it and why he kept it a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:31 PM
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Mainly speaking for myself. You're shorter than me. A guy shorter than me could never compete with a guy taller than me. Even if you improved every other aspect about yourself, I could probably find a man taller than me with the same qualities. Find women into shorter men or find shorter women. I didn't mean you have no chance to find a woman into you, I was more speaking for myself in saying you can't compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:21 PM
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u can't compete
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:15 PM
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6 foot 2 in height. Attractive. Taller than me which is what I prefer. Thick full head of hair. Attractive. Looks nice I suppose. Also good genes to pass on to my kids. Strong jaw. Attractive. Masculine. Narrow deep set intense eyes with nice straight eyebrows sat below a strong brow Attractive I guess. I can't think of a reason why this would be unattractive, so... Facial features aren't that important to me as long as he's not ugly. Nice white teeth Attractive of course. Hygenic and looks nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:32 PM
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what happens when you get a lot of upvotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:53 AM
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Probably 1 tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:09 AM
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Ah yea I guess so. It's difficult to believe there are people who spend that much on games, it's expensive af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:08 AM
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my dad used to take our whole family to one football game a year. Expensive for sure, but was really fun and exciting for us and for him (he had always wanted to be a professional football player). The memories were well worth the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:01 AM
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😋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:23 PM
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I mean it is rather hypocritical if you really think about it 🤔 (this is a joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:17 PM
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Are you trying to be ironic here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:15 PM
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I listen to hip hop and I'm a woman. I don't care what you listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:12 PM
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hence the quotations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:48 PM
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I don't agree with it but I find the notion funny af
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:23 PM
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"dating a single mom is like continuing someone else's saved game"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:17 PM
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I haven't decided yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:00 PM
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yea! ✊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:46 PM
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Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:44 PM
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It's my female neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:44 PM
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I'm not in UK lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:38 PM
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Generally if someone tries to make it personal I ignore it and continue with my points or move on altogether. No need to be petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:33 PM
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date, homework, probably a bit of crying and sorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:32 PM
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I'm not a therapist. I told my friend to go see a psychiatrist cause she genuinely needs to be on meds for all the shit that she's dealing with. And she needs a therapist to help her navigate the things that are causing her problems. I can only help so much when the person probably has a plethora of disorders I don't actually have any experience with. I'm still willing to talk with her and be there for her, but I can't counsel her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:26 PM
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Most women I know in my country are nutty af
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:20 PM
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Most of my immediate family thinks similarly politically, so yes. It's nice to have a place where I don't have to worry about debating politics and can speak freely because most of my friends disagree with me politacally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:16 PM
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no. More often than not, I think they overestimate it. Not counting the men I know who are in relationships (because they obviously estimated right), the men who I know that complain most often about being single are quite unattractive yet always going for very pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:12 PM
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fo sho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:03 PM
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I've never milked a guy for free dates lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:37 AM
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Long phone calls with mentally ill friends is like navigating a minefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:42 AM
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You clearly didn't know many sluts. I'm fairly conservative and have few friends, but I still know women who got up to 7 before even graduating highschool 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:41 AM
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I think tasteful piercings can be very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:13 AM
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In my bf's middleschool the principle (or possibly gym teacher, I can't remember) got caught fucking students. Needless to say got fired, Idk if it went all the way through court or if he got any jail time(he should've). But years later one of my bf's old buddies had the teacher as an uber driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:42 PM
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Men disliking other men purely because they are more attractive than them, perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:37 PM
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I go to the gym with my partner but I just walk around and do easy stuff while him and his gym buddies push each to their limits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:51 PM
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reverse cowgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:45 PM
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ask him out. Worked for me and my guy. He's not gonna do all that shit with you if he's not interested unless he's gay. Take some initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:24 PM
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whatever's legal I guess. I would need more than just an age difference to consider someone creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:21 PM
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on average, yes. I do know plenty of older single women who are wonderful people, but they are the exceptional, not the average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:30 PM
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My Grandpa's house is still standing 56 years later. He didn't necessarily know how, but he figured it out along the way lol. Needs some fixing up, but it's still quite impressive all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:59 PM
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Adult world will suck the life out of them anyway, It already has 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:57 PM
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I used to read cringy erotica/romances and still do read cringy erotica/romances. It's just dumb fantasy and a guilty pleasure. Absolutely toxic of course, but I'm still going to read it lol. Doesn't mean I literally want or would expect my relationship to even reflect an inkling of what's in those books.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:46 PM
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no really? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:50 AM
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that statement seems a tad bit contradictory, but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:48 AM
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"I have no conscience nor do I care about anyone but myself, hehe 🤭"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:46 AM
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"hehehe, lying is so much fun!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:22 AM
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Cat did my homework
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:18 AM
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very extremely apparently. I think getting a boyfriend made me want to become more feminine. I was definitely a total tomboy all through childhood and high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:14 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/RI7oC3n 72% feminine 3% masculine Classified as extremely feminine. funny thing is I took this test back in 2018 (I would have been 16 at the time) and got: https://imgur.com/a/3AhUplH 44% feminine 44% masculine Classified as Undifferentiated-androgynous. I wonder what happened to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:07 AM
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Exactly. Sounds like a good time to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:51 AM
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oh yea. barefoot housewife is the dream lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:39 AM
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you're talking to a broke college student here 😭 Sorry, I just can't afford you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:34 AM
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your dick is a bit too pricy for me unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:28 AM
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because we can get money for showing our tits
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:24 AM
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I'm just hoping for smthn I can tolerate 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:20 AM
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I mean, unabashedly sexist but idc much 😅 tbh I would prefer a little less in terms of responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:19 AM
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business administration. Rn I've gotta make a mutual funds portfolio -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:16 AM
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school :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:09 AM
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oh? Okay, I won't argue with that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:08 AM
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I feel like many men manage it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:00 AM
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🤔 how peculiar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:34 AM
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very cute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:38 AM
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Classic "grass is greener" situation. I've been on both sides. Wanting to be desired and then regretting it when I experienced men being inappropriate in their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:09 AM
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In those cases I would agree the woman is being unreasonable. There are plenty of reasonable cases women complain about as well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:01 AM
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I am a woman. Imo it's not sexual harrassment unless she makes it clear the intention is unwanted. If she's actively telling you what you're doing is okay, then I agree she's being unreasonable if she complains about it afterwards. I still think men would do well to read less overt social cues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:00 AM
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If a man is close enough that I can feel his breath, I would say he is a bit too close
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:30 AM
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not really. You also can't see my facial expression. But hey this is some good communication practice 👏👏👏 If you're unsure and you think a woman might be unhappy with your advances, it never hurts to ask 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:27 AM
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it doesn't usually take an expert to see when someone is unhappy with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:22 AM
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I go for tens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:18 AM
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I think many women would rather deal with being unwanted by men than deal with sexual harrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:14 AM
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True. Both are pretty immature in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:01 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:58 PM
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Regardless of whether women care about height or not, you'd think a couple getting married would be considerate of their partner's insecurities. Especially when the request was so minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:56 PM
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I'd like a man who has a close relationship with his mother, but if he genuinely requested for his mother to get involved, that's another issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:55 PM
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yea the mom thing is iffy. It depends on if he actually requested his mom to get involved or he just vented or something and she forced her way in. It's not really clear from the story imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:52 PM
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thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:49 PM
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women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:10 PM
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Where I am right now. I am content.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:43 PM
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If someone is balding, I prefer they shave it all off. The bald look works really well as long as the guy has the body to go with it. It lends itself to a tough and ultramasculine look. Personally I actually don't mind a man being fully bald, although it's not necessarily something I look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:40 PM
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I would not consider it full on cheating. I would still be upset that my partner feels the need to have pictures of other women to wank off. Even if it's not cheating, it's akin to it in my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:36 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:11 PM
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Job I hate, husband I love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:11 PM
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old
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:09 PM
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both are 56
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:43 AM
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Not necessarily. I think it could be at least a yellow flag if the younger partner is still veryyy young (as in barely legal), but I don't believe it automatically means something sinister is at play. Once both partners are over ~25, people oughta shut up about the age gap completely tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:40 AM
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It really depends. In the situation with my bf, I've given him full reign to get me whatever ring he wants. We went and looked at some and he knows my style. He told me he wanted to pick it out himself and I'm fine with that. If he had an heirloom ring and he genuinely thought it was perfect for me and decided to go with it because of that, I'd be happy with it. I'd expect him to have it professionally cleaned and repaired before proposing with it ofc. I wouldn't mind it as a suprise because we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:28 AM
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Physical: Obesity, shorter than me, scrawny, thin/long faces, blue eyes, blonde hair, hunch/very poor posture, deformities, very long hair worn down. Non-physical: Feminine, eccentric, buzzkill, unhygenic/stinks (that may be physical, I'm not sure), rude, extremely high energy, selfish, whiny, stupid. There are probably more that I just can't think of right now or don't care to. Some of these matter more to me than others especially when it comes to physical features (blonde hair and blue eyes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:18 AM
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I've definitely learned from it and wouldn't let it happen again, but I do think I should have handled it better initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:41 PM
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original post said could range from flirtatious messages to hooking up. I didn't do my due diligence as a person in a relationship in that situation, so even if it's not egregious cheating, it's a betrayal of trust of a similar nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:25 AM
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It was a really weird situation. It was all online over voice call so nothing physical or visual. For context I had just turned 18, was pretty unpopular in high school, Never had any kind of male attention until my bf at that time (whom I pursued and we were taking things really slowly). I was extremely sheltered basically and had never dealt with unwanted male attention. So guy was one of my bf's online buddies and he had been texting me a lot. There were a lot of red flags in hindsight and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:05 PM
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