punkbenRN Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why Do Women Put “Looking For Friends Only” on Dating Apps? It's to dissuade men that only want sex. They also want sex, but saying that attracts the worst of the worst. This cuts out maybe 30% of douchebags	/r/seduction	29/10/25 07:13 PM
18	Cold approach help These answers are terrible. I get the feeling these guys don't actually cold approach anyone. It's all about context and setting. How did they react? Are they smiling to be polite, or did you make their day? Are you in a grocery store or in a bar? If they seemed to receive it positively, start by introducing yourself. It's just that simple. From there, you can make small talk - how was your day/come here often? I haven't seen you around, I'd remember you/what are your plans for the day? Give the…	/r/seduction	03/07/22 09:20 AM
1	For the girls, why doesn't she ever text me first when it seems like she's interested based off our conversations? It's possible that she's not into you, but some people are just shitty at texting. Spend more time with her in person to get a better feel of if she's into you or not. Another tried and true method is to be up front with her, tell her that you are interested in her, and see how she responds.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 09:48 AM
23	A question for women: Is it off limits to approach you at the gym? Women arent going to comment on r/seduction, maybe ask r/askwomen ? Anyway, here is my take on it. If they have headphones in and are ignoring the world around them, they want to be left alone. If you make eye contact and they smile, go for it. If they make eye contact and maintain it, move and see if they keep it - they could just be zoning out. The gym isnt a great place to pick up women. It is, however, a great place to practice compliments with women. Go in with that mindset, the rest will f…	/r/seduction	03/01/20 05:05 AM
0	Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no game Its not a PUA thing. Stop saying that, its reductive and obnoxious. Is physical appearance a factor for everybody? Yeah. But not nearly as much as you think. I would even assert that hygiene is far more important than appearance. Again, it has more to do with confidence, whixh comes easier for someone who is attractive.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 10:39 AM
-1	Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no game This is a study of people doing speed dating... this isnt a great study and the methodology is flawed. Regardless, its a PUA thing. Its real life. Its having friends that are women and talking sbout this. Its having a girlfriend that is significantly hotter than me. Its the experience Ive lived, and Im average looking at best. It just isnt true.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 10:26 AM
2	Average looking guy with amazing game vs supermodel with no game I wasn't going to comment but there are a lot of misguided comments here and I just want to pitch in. It doesnt matter. It is such a broad question that doesnt account for all of the factors that go into it. It feels like you are looking for vindication that you can do well wheb you are average looking. Truth is, you can. The supermodel doesn't always get the girl. Girls arent things to 'get' in the first place. They are people. What you are doing unintentionally is assuming that women put as mu…	/r/seduction	26/12/19 10:01 AM
5	Any suggestions on asking someone on a date out over social media? I know it's a bad idea, but hear me out Start with some small talk to get the convo started. When you go to say it, be direct and concise. Not 'we should totally hang out sometime' bullshit, tell her you have a crush and want to take her on a date. If she says no, dont apologize and dont call her a bitch/slut/whatever - women are still human and have free will, its ok if shes not interested. And you shouldnt be embarrassed for asking. Dont do it drunk, and dont send a dick pic. Best of luck	/r/seduction	26/11/19 07:07 AM
2	How can I ask a girl out who is at her job without making it weird? That's awesome man! It gets easier, the more you do it. Dont be afraid to put yourself out there	/r/seduction	17/10/19 11:07 AM
1	How can I ask a girl out who is at her job without making it weird? Dont let it get you down, you tried. There are so many factors that play into it, and being "confident" would not necessarily make those chances better, but it would definitely make her uncomfortable if she didnt feel the same chemistry. The couple times it did work for me, the women actually felt that was a great way to go about it. Most women get hit on at work all the time and they hate it.	/r/seduction	17/10/19 10:17 AM
1	How can I ask a girl out who is at her job without making it weird? No, he's not. And im not infantilizing women. Yeah, you would compliment her shirt, but that's not what he is asking. He is asking about closing. I am speaking of that, not of banter in general. Bold is good, but in this setting where there is undue pressure on keeping the peace, the woman is effectively not able to leave the conversation, and not able to be honest, because of our 'customer service' business culture.	/r/seduction	15/10/19 11:45 PM
1	How can I ask a girl out who is at her job without making it weird? I really don't follow what your distinction between slipping a note and finding someone online is, and why online is better. But clearly you're not here to have a discussion. Do whatever you want to do. He asked a question, I gave an answer. The echo chamber is from the forum, in which there is one way to do anything, and everything else is wrong. Often, it doesn't treat women as human, but as a game. Yes, a conversation is a better approach, but take a step back for a minute - this takes readin…	/r/seduction	15/10/19 09:24 PM
0	How can I ask a girl out who is at her job without making it weird? Is everything ok? Did you want to talk about it? I figured it was implied that you had some form of conversation with her beforehand. If not, ill say it now - yeah, you should probably talk to her to see if you're even into her. Aside from that, hitting on a girl at her job is incredibly douchey, because she can't be honest and she can't leave. You think leaving a note is creepy? What sbout coming in every day and calling her pretty, and then throwing a tantrum when she wont hang out wirh you ou…	/r/seduction	15/10/19 07:23 PM
4	How can I ask a girl out who is at her job without making it weird? The few times i did, i wrote a note with my number and very discreetly gave it to them. No awkwardness, although it seems passive it doesn't put her on the spot and entirely gives the choice to her if she wants to follow up. Make sure in your note you write some distinguishing characteristic so she knows who left the note. It doesnt work often - you dont know if shes straight, or already seeing someone, or isnt feeling it, or that she even read the note - don't expect anything. If it works, cool…	/r/seduction	15/10/19 09:22 AM
3	'You can't hide behind fortune': Judge unleashes on privileged women Did you read the article? She was at a festival, had two tabs of MDMA at a festival... Is this justice? Are you satisfied? This article was rediculous and I don't see the pussy pass denial.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/06/18 07:47 AM