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| 135 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight? | Logistics | punktfan | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:54 PM |
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| 1 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?When she says she needs time, it usually means she doesn't trust you. If you don't like talking or being nice to women, that's probably a big reason why. | /r/seduction | 21/06/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Questions for getting first date layHonestly, the logistics of both are pretty decent. I always opt for the environment I enjoy more, because if you're having a good time, your date can tell and it's gonna go better for you. I think I'd go for the hipster bar personally. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you have a mutual that you flirt with for fun?I don't know what your type is, but Houston is a big city, so there are probably men who are your type if you figure out the right place to look. If you're into kinky stuff or BDSM maybe check Feeld or Fetlife.... in my experience, people are more experienced and respectful there than on mainstream apps. But if you're more vanilla, maybe meeting people through your hobbies is a better way to go than apps. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a mutual that you flirt with for fun?What is your area? Why are men there not dateable? | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 03:22 AM |
| 7 | How to make a move on a friend who’s had a glow up?It's pretty rare that a woman would agree to watch a movie alone with you if she's not interested in hooking up. So don't be shy about expressing your interest. Creepy happens when you're interested, but hiding your intentions, so she can't trust you because you're not being honest with her. Show your interest openly. I'd recommend starting with some light touches. Hug her when you arrive, then when you end the hug, see if you can manage to give her fingertips a little squeeze, then find more op… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 03:22 AM |
| 7 | How long do I wait to ask for a date?Ask as soon as possible. I usually don't wait more than 3 messages on an app, because the whole point is that people want a date. In person, I usually ask when I'm ready to wrap up the first conversation I have with someone. Often it's something like, "Hey, I have to run, but I'm really enjoying this conversation and I'd love to get together sometime. Can we connect on <preferred app>?" Then I text her either immediately when I get home, or around 10am the next day with a specific date suggestio… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Do you have a mutual that you flirt with for fun?It's kind of pointless and takes your attention from dating people in real life. I (36m) used to do it a lot in my 20s, then I decided to focus on real life dating, and unfollowed a lot of my online only flirts. Then I started doing it a lot during lockdowns because I was so bored. Now I don't use social media for anything other than arranging real life meetings. I have zero time to waste on online-only flirting. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How much roast is Ok?If you're the type of person who naturally roasts people and uses sarcasm, be yourself. As someone who grew up in a family with this kind of humor, I totally appreciate it. That being said, roasting over text with someone you don't know is very very likely to not come across as a joke. Personally, I think it's a bad strategy for attracting new people. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 12:27 AM |
| 3 | M4F, Looking for a female submissive partnerlol good luck bro, you're posting in forum full of 99% incel men trying just as hard as you doubt there are any pakistani women here | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | those of you who went for several years to a european western sexually liberal countries but returned without sex or a girlfriend and had sex/girlfriend in a muslim sexually conservative country, what and how did you achieve that?What country are you from? | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 9 | Neediness vs. being direct: Tell a woman "I want to fuck you".What the fuck did I just read? Are you trying to be Plato? Or are you trying to fuck? Here's some philosophy for you: there's an alternative to "engaging in courtship" called flirting. It's fun, and when you learn to enjoy it, it becomes foreplay, foreplay is what you do to make a woman's pussy wet. When a woman's pussy is wet, she'll be begging you to fuck her. That doesn't make you needy at all. But when you're begging her to fuck before her pussy is wet, that's needy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Are you guys in shape ?I'm not Brad Pitt. The thing is, once you become a 7/8, which is totally possible for the average man by getting in shape and being confident, you'll have easy access to 10s because most 10s don't believe they are 10s, and even if they do, they realize that if they want to date, they probably have to date down a little bit in appearance, and you can totally make up for that by treating them well. A woman who is a 10 would be more than happy to be devoutly "worshipped" in the bedroom by a guy who… | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 07:46 AM |
| 31 | Are you guys in shape ?Yeah, I'm in shape. I'm going to the gym 3x a week for two years now. Honestly, trying to hook up without going to the gym is a huge waste of time and effort. Going to the gym will take you from difficult successes with 5s and 6s, to easy success with 8-10s. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 06:02 AM |
| 0 | I let her walk away form me in the subway platformHonestly, it sounds like she was probably freaked out by some stranger running after her and trailing her on the street. She probably felt unsafe and was smiling as a way to avoid offending you. This is NOT the way to approach a woman. When you see a 10, smile and say hi, hold eye contact for a few seconds and make a polite comment or ask an interesting question and see how she responds. If she decides to walk away, DO NOT chase her, ever. It's creepy, shows low value, and is likely to get you i… | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:24 AM |
| 2 | What's better for the first time: inviting her to your average apartment, or going over to her place?Invite her to her place, just make sure that it's clean, smells nice, and that you have something to do there other than sex. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Getting laid with tourists, is it a good idea or not really?If you live in a place with tourists, that's pretty much a gold mine for casual sex. People on vacation are usually extremely open to casual sex, and you get bonus points if you're a local. You can also easily escalate by offering to show them your favorite local spots, acting as their private tour guide. It also simplifies things that they're leaving soon, so unlikely to get attached, and if things get awkward or dramatic, you don't have to deal with it for long. And you get a steady supply of … | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | New adventureMake sure you get consent from your dates, especially if you are sharing photos and videos of them. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Not "attacking" on first two dates - is it bad or not?If I were on a date with a shy girl, I'd start by gently holding her hands while talking to her. You don't have to go straight for a kiss. Go slowly so you don't scare her. But also don't be shy yourself. Slowly make some moves to show your interest. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 12:38 AM |
| 5 | Younger Women CHASE Older Men Who Ask “Trigger” QuestionsWhat is this post about? | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 12:28 AM |
| 8 | Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill?Why don’t you add more amenities and give them a free latte and bottled water with the plan B? I believe that's called "adding insult to injury" and I really hope you're not serious. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 04:25 AM |
| 17 | Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill?Well first off, I think you need to understand what the Plan B pill is. It's not a "nut inside for free" card. If you want that, you've gotta get a vasectomy. Before you go complaining about that being painful, it's like two days of being sore. The Plan B pill on the other hand will completely fuck a woman up for a month. It's an intense hormonal pill that forces a woman to have a painful period, and will mess up her mood and emotions for at least a month. Imagine if birth control meant that aft… | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 04:23 AM |
| 3 | What day (and time) of the week do you think is better to set a date? If possible, of course.It really depends on your schedule, and hers. In a typical US schedule, I think Saturday afternoon is the best. Gives you time to get to know each other and build rapport before the evening, and evening to slow down and get intimate, and then you can spend the whole night fucking, have a lazy sunday morning, get brunch together and each of you can get home in time to get some rest before Monday. Basically, you want to do it on a day off when you have another day off the next day for maximum free… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls adviceSnapchat says "I want to see you naked, but I want to hide behind my screen when I do it", and when you're sending that message to women, you'll end up stuck behind the screen. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Girl wanting to hookup, serious or a joke?Honestly, I've found that sometimes trying to talk a woman out of having sex with me is a great strategy to seduce her. Not joking at all. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Hotel Bar Adventure with Unexpected TwistsThis post sounds like it's either totally fake and bad writing, or you were just drunk and stumbling though some awkward interactions with people at the bar that didn't really go anywhere. A lot of things in this story don't add up, like why were you trying to get this woman's number when you had already kissed her and were in her hotel room, and were leaving the next day on a flight? | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl wanting to hookup, serious or a joke?Paying? How does paying factor into this? Is she asking you for money? | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?You should move on to someone else. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 04:34 PM |
| 10 | Approaching girls adviceSay hi. If she seems open, start a polite conversation and just chat about whatever you're interested in. If she doesn't seem open, don't waste your time with her. After you've had a nice conversation you can ask for her Instagram or phone number. Don't ask for Snapchat. Don't have any expectations, and if she says no or isn't interested, be chill. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:36 PM |
| 14 | Can it take a while for a girl to warm up to you?Honestly sounds like you two need to be more direct in your communication with each other. If she wants to take 3 dates or more to open up, it's up to you if you're willing to go that slowly. Personally, I'm not, because I have so many other options where things flow more easily. But under no circumstances would I go on more than 3 dates with someone without some explicit communication about where things are headed and what both of you want out of it. Don't waste your time with uncertainty. It's… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How do women go about infidelity in their conversations?Don't fuck someone's wife or girlfriend unless they're in an open relationship and have open communication about it. It just opens up way too much potential for messy drama. The one exception is if she's traveling or on vacation. Then it doesn't matter. You need to say more about your weird situation if you want advice. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?Yes, you should start physically escalating within half an hour. That doesn't mean you have to go all the way to sex on the first date, or even kissing, but you need to start touching as soon as possible or you're gonna friend zone yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 05:28 AM |
| 4 | No PUA course is good?I hadn't heard of this concept by name before, but it's really good. Usually when I go out to approach women, I spend my energy looking for signs that they are open, and then I say hi to every open woman and see how she responds. I only escalate with the most attractive ones, who are open and worth my effort. But focusing on who's open or not at the beginning is incredibly effective. Robert Glover's concept of "open doors" refers to the idea that men should focus on creating opportunities and ta… | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 05:02 AM |
| -1 | No PUA course is good?In my case, I no longer attend AA meetings, but I'm still here. Not because I need it, I definitely don't. But I want to help sexually frustrated men figure this stuff out. It's really life changing when men learn how to successfully get what they want with attractive women. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | No PUA course is good?If you're looking for a PUA course to make you more attractive, you're missing the point. PUA is about facing rejection, learning that it's not actually so scary, and getting comfortable expressing your interest in more women. If you want to be more attractive, that comes from doing hard work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | In Chicago tomorrow trying to get laid (24hr speed run)You can ask questions publicly. I'm not interested in DMs. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?I'm a man and I suggest that you go on a date and split the bill and stop being so paranoid. But you already responded to that suggestion. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:24 AM |
| 1 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?If you say so | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?Ok, then don't 😅 | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:20 AM |
| -1 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?Why would you ask a stupid question like this? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:03 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?I have 76k reddit karma because I've had my reddit account for several years and I make comments that are valuable contributions to discussion, not fucking retarded incel garbage. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?Honestly, if you're as stupid as you seem, chemical castration seems like a good option. Not because of your race or height, but because someone as fucking stupid as you shouldn't be reproducing. Also, if you're into chemical castration, why the FUCK are you in a seduction subreddit?! How fucking stupid are you? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?He's not a fake character. He's a real person. Follow his Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shaftuddin Edit: here's a bonus short indian dude who fucks: https://www.instagram.com/meditatewithanjaan No more excuses. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?Yep, I absolutely am only spending my time on the top 1% or even 0.5% of women. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:41 AM |
| -2 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?Are 8s, 9s and 10s dumpster diving? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | In Chicago tomorrow trying to get laid (24hr speed run)Pay for Tinder, buy some boosts. Have a plan for a fun date and immediately message all your matches that you're just in town for a day and invite them to your fun date plan with you. Last time I was in Paris, I messaged all my matches that I wanted to go to a specific sex club. Found a hottie who wanted to go with me, and we had a great time. When you only have a day, direct and aggressive game is best. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Was this a complete fluke or should I do it again?I'd say your approach could use some more tact. But in general, women respond well to authentic expression of interest. "Don't hide the banana", don't be ashamed of wanting to fuck. Women who want to fuck will respond well. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?You're right, but nobody in this sub wants to hear it. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:11 AM |
| -1 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?I'm 36, average dude, 5'10", smashing college aged hotties multiple times a week. You don't have to be Leonardo DiCaprio. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:10 AM |
| -1 | Do you think it’s possible for me to experience Teen love as a 23yo? If so, what are the steps I should take to get it before it’s too late?I don't know what your definition of "teen love" is, but I'm 36 and I'm still regularly experiencing pretty awesome love. Way better than anything from my teens. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?Yeah some dudes here seem to be actively trying to be non-seductive, and then complaining about how no one will have sex with them. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:07 AM |
| 2 | If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest?What the fuck? You've got red flags all over your mindset. You assume that women have zero interest? You can't imagine a reason that they would want to meet you for dinner other than to exploit you? This is going to turn into a self fulfilling prophecy. If you want to find out if she's interested or not, just tell her you want to split the bill. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Day long Response timeDude, relax. Are you really so insecure that you're gonna freak out over 24 hours? She was busy. So what? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How do i respond when a guy starts being touchy? Im very inexperienced, so touch feels electric and overwhelming.Good! | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How do i respond when a guy starts being touchy? Im very inexperienced, so touch feels electric and overwhelming.You could tell him that back when you were on the balcony you actually wanted to make out. If he just wants to be friends now, then you can just laugh about it together, but most likely, he was feeling shy too and if you tell him what you were really feeling it might make him more open and want to try again. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How do i respond when a guy starts being touchy? Im very inexperienced, so touch feels electric and overwhelming.Ah well then I guess seduction isn't for you. Stay home and masturbate. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How do i respond when a guy starts being touchy? Im very inexperienced, so touch feels electric and overwhelming.Honestly odd flex to defend someone who is calling women "dumb toilets". You do realize that being a rude incel asshole to a woman is literally the worst strategy for seduction? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Getting stopped when things get physical, foreplay tips?In my experience, most women love feeling lust, but not desperation. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Getting stopped when things get physical, foreplay tips?Never touch a woman if she's feeling uncomfortable. That's the fastest way to turn her off and make her want to leave. Stay attuned to her comfort level, and if she's uncomfortable, always take a step back and slow down. It doesn't mean she doesn't want you, just that you're going a bit too fast for her and you need to slow down to match her pace. Honestly, your problem sounds like you've gotten comfortable and confident enough that you're just trying to move a little faster than you used to. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How do i respond when a guy starts being touchy? Im very inexperienced, so touch feels electric and overwhelming.wtf is wrong with you | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How do i respond when a guy starts being touchy? Im very inexperienced, so touch feels electric and overwhelming.It would have been rude to move away I'll probably get downvoted for this in this sub, but if you don't want a touch, move away. Don't ever let the fear of being "rude" stop you from protecting or expressing your own boundaries. Any man worth being with will appreciate you taking care of your boundaries. the tension is still there months later and i wish i had done something then Wow! That's a really long time to feel tension from something like the touch you described. What does the tension fee… | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | tinder is only for white peopleI'm not 6'5" or blonde and I have Western women competing for my attention on a daily basis. You can't blame the women, when it's your own damn fault. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:33 AM |
| 2 | tinder is only for white peopleFalse | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | tinder is only for white peopleYou're assuming that people don't like you because of your race, and then complaining about the race of the match you got. You're projecting bro. Tons of people in Canada love to date brown and black men. Just because you're racist, doesn't mean that racism is the reason you aren't matching. Your profile probably sucks for other reasons. Your pics probably aren't good, and your description is probably cringe. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Shit test passed, good job! | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Need help with a responseFirst, you're overthinking. It's not sustainable to come to reddit every time you want a witty response. Just say whatever comes to your mind. You'll win some and you'll lose some. You'll probably have to consistently miss a lot of shots before you reliably make them. But you've gotta take the training wheels off and just try. Personally, I'd say something like, "A lot of women have tried to hold onto me and failed 😅 Honestly, I'm looking for a woman who can meet me where I'm at, and I haven't f… | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:56 AM |
| -4 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Why are you afraid of shit tests? Are you full of shit? (Yes, this comment is a shit test) | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:45 AM |
| 22 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Shit tests are not normally something people do consciously. It's usually just a woman sus-ing out if you are who you say you are, if you can be trusted, and how you respond to a challenge. It's like you would probably test out the strength of a rope swing before you swing on it, you're not manipulating it or trying to pull it down, you just want to make sure that it's solid and it's gonna hold you. Women want to be held by a secure man, so they're just testing to see how secure a man is, usuall… | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:42 AM |
| 8 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Haha wow, this is exactly what OP was asking for. I'm impressed! | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:32 AM |
| 6 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Amber Heard is so full of shit that she'd fail her own shit tests. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Not necessarily. Most women don't want to put up with shit from their man, so they will periodically test him to make sure he's keeping his shit together. When you start failing shit tests from your partner, she is gonna start thinking about leaving. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Does your action make difference?Guess you should go become a monk then and at least get enlightened. Or you can just act like a little whiny incel bitch for the rest of your life. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Does your action make difference?Wow, with that attitude you're never gonna get laid. You're pathetic. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 12:04 AM |
| 8 | Does your action make difference?Yes, your actions make a difference! First impressions are important, the essence of who you are is important. But you can very easily destroy someone's interest in you by behaving like an asshole or an idiot. I swear half of this sub doesn't get laid because they act like entitled assholes who deserve pussy in demand without be willing to offer any effort or affection in return. Going the other direction and generating attraction with someone who wasn't initially attracted to you is much harder… | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Does your action make difference?"I'm never gonna work" is making you far more unattractive to women than your height or your race. Women despise lazy men. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneExcuses like "yeah, I'm skinny and I don't work out, but I don't need to because some people get attention without working out". You're not even dedicated to the most basic self care, you're opting out of simple things that can help you, and then just declaring that there's nothing you can do. Man, if you're not willing to do anything for yourself, why would a woman be willing to do something for you. Women aren't sleeping with you because you don't believe you're worth their effort, and you tre… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneSeriously making excuses. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:35 PM |
| 3 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneAh, well, I guess you're perfect then. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:25 PM |
| 4 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneAre you a skinny, insufferable, arrogant asshole? 😅 Maybe you need to hit the gym, bulk up, and learn a bit of humility and how to speak to a woman in a way that makes her feel good. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:47 PM |
| 5 | there's an invisible glass that excludes me, maybe seduction is not for everyoneHow attractive are you? Are you in shape? Clean shaven? Have a good income? Smell nice? Dress well? Speak confidently and respectfully? These are all things you can do to get results no matter who you are. Or you can just wallow in self pity and complain that manipulative PUA techniques didn't work for you. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesOk, enjoy your bet | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 09:50 AM |
| 9 | Soft rejection from a acquaintance?If you don't want to be friends, then say no to her offers to meet with a group. She'll have to decide between losing you completely or seeing you as a potential sexual partner, instead of what she's trying to do which is keeping you in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Going for drinks after work w my female co worker.Kind of mediocre rules TBH. You'll get laid a lot more if you're considerate of what women are thinking and feeling. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesI'm too busy fucking to track my stats 😅 | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 01:38 AM |
| 3 | What to replyLiterally anything | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 06:29 PM |
| 2 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.Girls don't care about looks nearly as much as guys think they do. If you can make a woman trust you, you can have almost any woman you want. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I sexted some random chick last night and dont know how to follow up the day afterNo, implying that he would be disrespectful if it were later, and that he wants to "get into trouble" is cringe. Might as well write, "Respectfully, I'm here to fuck". | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 7 | What are some of the best texts (PG-Rated) that you’ve received from women?"You have sexy ankles" - My stoner girlfriend when we were 19 In all honesty, if you're hanging on to "best texts", you're probably way overthinking the texting. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 08:01 AM |
| 4 | I Think An Employee was Flirting With Me But Was To Scared To ActYeah, I get it. I almost never hit on people while they're working. Easy to miss the unexpected. But it's such an obvious hint, I don't think she'd mind being put on the spot in front of a coworker. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 03:54 AM |
| 8 | I Think An Employee was Flirting With Me But Was To Scared To ActDamn, you already missed one opportunity. Yes, give her your number before she thinks you're a coward and loses interest! Go back with no grocery-related excuses, and just say "Ok, now I'm back to see you. I want to take you out to <insert date spot or event> later, and I forgot to get your contact info so I can send you the details." Bonus points, if you want to be cute, grab a flower that the grocery store sells, go to her checkout counter to pay for it, and then immediately hand it to her. Gi… | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 03:04 AM |
| 3 | What are the smoothest/witty lines you've said to girls?"Have you ever kissed a gringo before?" isn't going to be lost in translation. She's probably been asked that by 100 thirsty tourists in the past year, and every time her pussy probably got drier than the Sahara. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Beginner tips for day gamingStart with baby steps. It's ok to go out and just focus on making eye contact and smiling. Or just say hi. Usually when I go out, the only thing on my mind is just to say hi to people. I'm naturally making eye contact and smiling, and conversation tends to flow naturally for me, so I only have to focus on the initial move of saying the word hi. But if you're not used to it, just focus on the parts that are new for you, until you get used to them. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 02:55 AM |
| 35 | Women in general losing interest in me - how do I figure out the cause?I think it's probably point number two. Your vibe has changed, you're probably coming across as less confident or more closed. Without knowing specifics, I would guess that going to the gym, and going to more social events would probably help you. Get a haircut, shave, shower, make sure all the basics are taken care of. Women notice details. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Beginner tips for day gamingThis is pretty good advice! Though I'd probably shorten the part you say in point number 2. I might say something like: "Hi, I'm Bob. (pause for her name) I just wanted to say that I love that outfit! (pause for a response) I don't have time now, but I'd love to take you out for a coffee later. If you'd be up for that, let's exchange contacts." No need to apologize for the directness, nor to promise a specific follow-up. And of course, say things in your own words, whatever feels natural for you… | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Beginner tips for day gamingI almost exclusively day game. I just pick a comfortable social spot to hang out (I like beaches and coffee shops) and when I see someone I'm interested in talking to I just say hi and then I gauge by their response if they are interested in talking to me or not. If they're interested in talking to me, I strike up a conversation and see where it leads. I try to mention future activities or interests that we might have in common so that we have an excuse to meet up later and then I get their Inst… | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How do you manage all the people in your life + easy way to do this?I keep a bullet list in my phone of the people I want to spend time with. A couple of times a day, I drag and drop the names in the list to sort by priority and check in with the people at the top of the list when it makes sense to do so. The reason I do this is because I got tired of big tech algorithms telling me which chats or people to pay attention to, and I wanted to control it myself, to be more intentional about which people I give my effort to. I do it with friends too, not just dates. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:56 PM |
| 6 | I sexted some random chick last night and dont know how to follow up the day afterI'd leave off the part after 8pm, sounds cringe | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Do you text between dates outside of setting them up?I don't try to have conversations or get to know her over text. I try to use texting to arrange the next meetup so we can see each other in person. It's ok to say something funny or share a little bit of banter if it comes naturally. It's ok to respond to her questions promptly and thoughtfully. Trying to play games and manipulate her feelings over text is immature and childish, and probably wasted effort. Don't overthink it. If you're feeling anxious about her not texting you back, don't text h… | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How long should you wait before texting her after getting her number?you're overthinking it. I usually text pretty much right away. Doesn't really matter if it's the same day or the next day. just don't let it go a week without texting her that shows lack of interest and she will probably lose interest too. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:44 PM |
| 20 | What are the smoothest/witty lines you've said to girls?Good lord that is cringe. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | advice for approaching jazz bar girl talking to another performer?You can always make eye contact, smile, and say hi. But if she's not open to talking to you, there's nothing you can do about it. Focus your attention on people who are open and available. Don't get tunnel vision on those pretty singers from Pennsylvania. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Dating Apps: Experiences with women listed as looking for “Short Term Fun”Yep. If they say they're open to short term, you just need to make sure they're actually having fun. It's not just about YOU having fun. As long as they are having fun too, they're super open. Usually women who say they are looking for long term relationships or friends are also open to hookups as long as they're having a good time with you. Just keep in mind that very few women want a hookup without any flirting or foreplay. Some women will just come straight to your place for sex, but in most … | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:01 PM |
| 16 | I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it?Don't worry, men hit peak SMV in their 30s and 40s. You're just getting started, my dude. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 10:57 PM |
| 42 | Flirting not know if she's single. What do you do?It doesn't matter. All that matters is her response. Flirt with her and see if she flirts back. The only reason you care about this is because you have a fear of rejection, but if you're gonna seduce women, you're gonna experience rejection. You have to get used to that. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 06:45 AM |
| 3 | How to Move Forward After Approaching Girls in Yoga Class?You sound retarded | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Asked Out CrushGood job! I got rejected at least 7 times this week. Getting rejected isn't a bad thing. It means you shot your shot and now you can move on to more open opportunities. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 02:49 AM |
| 12 | Favorite Game "Move/Line" You've LearnedHonestly my favorite move is "Hi" with a smile and no expectations. It allows me to gauge who is interested and who isn't very quickly. And then I make moves on the women who are interested. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 01:57 AM |
| 6 | How to Move Forward After Approaching Girls in Yoga Class?You need to start expressing your interest, touching them, flirting, etc. I recommend starting touch with the hands, it's safe, respectful, shows romantic intention, and hands are super sensitive. Just touch briefly at first, and see how she responds. If she responds positively, then linger a bit more with each touch. After awhile you can hold her hand while you're talking, start playing with her hand, and touch her wrist, forearm, etc. Maybe sure that she's participating too, and smiling and se… | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 01:42 AM |
| 9 | How to Move Forward After Approaching Girls in Yoga Class?Only men think men are gay for doing yoga. I meet and fuck so many women from yoga classes. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 01:37 AM |
| 4 | How to Move Forward After Approaching Girls in Yoga Class?Honestly, it's a great place to meet hot women. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 01:36 AM |
| 4 | What do I do when my date doesn't ask me questions?Honestly, if she doesn't ask me questions I get bored with her and move on. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Do what a girl asks and reciprocate her effort. Will increase or decrease interest?You should always reciprocate, the problems start when you're consistently giving more than she is. Whoever is telling you to never reciprocate is an idiot. Also, reciprocating means matching her effort. If she's just making requests but not giving anything herself, then you granting all of her requests is simping. That is something you shouldn't do. Say no to requests if you don't want to do them. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Need Help with Dating Apps and Handling ConversationsThe best strategy for dating apps is to invite her to a specific date the same day that she matches with you. If she just matched with you, chances are she's sitting at home lonely and wishing she were on a date. So just say something like, "Hey, let's meet for a walk at the park in an hour. We can walk to my favorite place for a drink nearby." Something laid back and easy, with no pressure or expectations. A quick walk, a drink, a sunset, etc, just to meet and feel the vibe. If you want to give… | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 04:47 AM |
| 50 | Accepting a girl back after a pull away?You say you're not exclusive, but then immediately after you say you don't want her dating or sleeping with other men. Bro, choose one. Either you want to be exclusive with her, or you don't. If you just wanna fuck, like 80% of the dudes on this sub, then you shouldn't care about exclusivity. If you want a relationship, then you should only waste your time with a woman who isn't going to leave you on read for weeks at a time with no explanation. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 04:33 AM |
| -1 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?You did. Maybe you forgot or are just moving goal posts. No point in continuing this conversation. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Concept: a woman digs you, then you touch her in a way that she doesn't like and she gets turned off. The way you touch a woman matters, and a man who knows how to touch a woman in a way that she likes will be much more successful than a man who just grabs her thigh because he wants to. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 03:15 AM |
| 6 | How to use use money to improve my attractiveness?Buy a gym membership. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 02:41 AM |
| -10 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Broheme, a girl can dig you and still be put off by your touch. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 02:40 AM |
| 11 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?A first date isn't the time to lay out all your insecurities. If you're nervous to the point of acting weird and she notices that you're acting weird, sure you can say "Ah, sorry I'm acting weird, I'm a bit nervous because I like you and I don't want to fuck it up". You can always be vulnerable about how you're feeling in the moment. But don't go telling her all of your insecurities and regular struggles right at the beginning. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 02:00 AM |
| 36 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?It's ambiguous This is when you need to fuck around and find out. Try touching her and see how she responds. It will become unambiguous very quickly. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:56 AM |
| 30 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?This is terrible advice! Don't start by touching her thigh! Red fucking flag! Start with the hands, always the hands. And don't use standing close to her and distractions as an excuse to touch her. That shows a lack of confidence. Every touch should be done confidently and straight forward, she should see it coming and see that you're paying attention to her and her response, and slowing down or taking a step back when she's uncomfortable. All of these sneaky intimate touches are the best way to… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:53 AM |
| 90 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?I always start by trying to touch her hands, fingertips first. Hands are a great place to start because they're not too intimate, few people will feel uncomfortable with you touching their hands immediately on a date, and they're actually one of the most sensitive, erogenous parts of the body. You could turn a woman on simply by touching her hands (don't try to turn her on immediately). Touching hands also shows intention, and gives her the opportunity to show a clear response, so it starts comm… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Daygame problems with localsYou're going to have the natural disadvantage with girls from your own country. Being "exotic" and different, as you are to a foreigner, is always a huge advantage. So hitting on local girls of your same nationality is always going to be a bit of a harder game. My advice with cold approaches is always to look for some detail about her appearance that she chose, like her hair color, or earrings, or shirt, or whatever and ask a question about it or make a nice comment about it. And then just see h… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How long too long to ask a girl out?It's never too late, and now is always better than later. Ask her out. Be chill about it. Just say something like "hey do you want to grab food together after the dance class?" or something low key like that. Don't declare your crush right in the middle of the dance class. She might say no, so if you make too big of a deal about it, dance class is gonna get super awkward. But simply asking if she wants to get food or a drink won't be too awkward if she says no. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How is your social experiences in the city of Barcelona compared to your own city / country?Barcelona has more attractive people than most places. If you're hot, and can game 8+ with confidence, you'll have access to better options. If you're not confident or attractive, you'll probably feel left out, and like you can't compete. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 09:23 AM |
| 17 | How to handle women scared by my approachYou didn't tell us anything about how you are approaching them. You definitely need to be approaching them from the front, slowly, say hi, and smile. A lot of women are instantly defensive about men approaching them, especially if they weren't expecting it or if it seems like he wants something from them and isn't just being friendly. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How to find a good spot for a kissYou can kiss in a climbing gym, but if you're not feeling comfortable or if she's not feeling comfortable, it's best to wait until you're in a comfortable environment before a first kiss. Why are you limiting yourself to the climbing gym? You need to get into a different environment together. Invite her to go out with you for food or a drink after the climbing gym, just the two of you. Go to a quiet place where you can sit close, or an outdoor place where you can walk around together. Better yet… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it always your fault?I don't know. I rarely feel manipulated by women. If I do feel manipulated by them I stop seeing them immediately. No time for bullshit. I'm absolutely sure that women aren't innately difficult and manipulative, and probably any man who thinks so is the type of man who allows himself to be played. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage 2+ girlsI usually tell them before meeting. It's in my Tinder profile. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage 2+ girlsI'm usually managing 4-8 girls at a time. I tell all of them that I'm non-monogamous from the very first date, so there are no surprises if they see me with someone else. Never had any problems with that approach. Even had a couple times that I ended up having threesomes or going out on dates with multiple women at the same time because of it. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 12:09 AM |
| 0 | Have I missed the boat?At the beach mostly. And at social events, dances, parties, etc. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Have I missed the boat?I'm 36 and having casual sex with a few women every week. Don't worry about the age. Just keep working on getting in shape and building your confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.Actually it's not really a numbers game. I put quality over quantity and I rarely regret that. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Long Distance AcquaintanceOk, what do you mean by "a relationship"? What does that look like when you're long distance? | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Long Distance AcquaintanceHonestly sounds like a waste of your time and effort. What do you want to get out of this? If you can't answer that, what are you even doing? | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 05:38 AM |
| 45 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.No, I don't waste my time with women who don't reciprocate. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:32 AM |
| 3 | I would fumble a girl even if she approached METhe answer is practice. You're gonna have to suck at it a few times before you get better. Talking isn't necessary, but non-verbal game is next level and takes a lot of confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:53 AM |
| 14 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.You should feel no pressure to stay there for any given amount of time. Once you have enough repor with her, invite her to go somewhere with you. I wouldn't invite someone directly to my house in less than two hours, but you can start by suggesting going somewhere else for some food or desert or something, or going for a walk to get some fresh air, or even just stepping outside for a smoke if you both smoke. Then after awhile invite her to another place, then invite her to your house, or some pl… | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:52 AM |
| 91 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.If I found myself with a woman who wasn't carrying her weight in a conversation, I'd move on and find a woman who is willing to reciprocate and participate more. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Once you're having a conversation with someone, and she's enthusiastically participating in it, you ask for her contact. I try to mention some event or place that I think she might be interested in, and then say something like "Let's exchange numbers and we can figure out a plan to go to <place> sometime". Or if I a place or event doesn't come up, maybe I mention something that I'll send her more information about, like a book or a movie related to our conversation, and I ask for her number to s… | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 01:46 AM |
| 15 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindIt's gotten to the point now where I have fantasized raping some random chick. Whoa bro. You say you've done self improvement, and yet somehow you're saying shit like this. It seems to me that you have a fundamental problem of thinking that sex is about YOU getting what YOU want, and not thinking at all about what the other person wants. If you want to have sex, you need to think about what the other person wants, because sex is a mutual exchange. I also can't offord escorts because they are way… | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:47 AM |
| 8 | How to go on a date in JapanOnly if you want to pay to play lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 12:43 AM |
| 0 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?What? My post has nothing to do with paying for anything, so I don't understand your comment. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?That's the exact opposite of what I said. I can text them, but I struggle to navigate the logistics of the numbers. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:06 AM |
| 15 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?I go to social events for hippies: yoga, breathwork, ecstatic dance, meditation, singing. But any social events work as long as you're interested in it. What I say when approaching is "Hi". I never approach with an agenda. Just with curiosity. When I say hi, it's like an experiment to see if she responds positively or negatively. I'm always paying attention. If she responds positively, I make a comment about something nice I observed about her. Usually not something too focused on her physical a… | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 12:21 AM |
| 6 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Mostly at the beach. Sometimes at the gym or the pool. Sometimes at social events. At latin dance parties. Pro-tip: learn how to dance, latin dance parties usually have a ton of women who are desperate for men who know how to dance. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:48 PM |
| 6 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Tell me more. What makes you angry about it? I tell everyone that I date that I'm non-monogamous. So it's not like I'm deceiving anyone. I'm just trying to figure out how to send out a spontaneous invite for one-on-one quality time when I don't know yet who will respond, so that I don't accidentally end up having to withdraw an invitation to someone. Just because women know I'm non-monogamous doesn't mean that they want to go on a threesome date with me. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:46 PM |
| 11 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Damn, this is a good idea! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Start by saying "hi". | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Ok | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Ok | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Yeah, I could do that. I just think being so non-specific is a turn off. Women like men who take some leadership and have a plan. It's more attractive to give a specific invitation. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:38 PM |
| -22 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Or they just wanna fuck someone who knows what he's doing. ;) | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:36 PM |
| -16 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?I am a fuckboy, yes. Women put up with me because, contrary to popular belief, women love fuckboys. It's not about looks. Looks are subjective, and women honestly don't care about looks as much as they care about confidence, consistency and safety. If you make a woman feel good, it doesn't matter how you look. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:36 PM |
| -1 | Rejected at partyYou didn't tell us anything about your game. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:10 PM |
| -3 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Honestly I might give it a try 😅 | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Why does it make you sad? | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:05 PM |
| -48 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Texting back and forth isn't something I do, nor do the women I date. The phone is for organizing logistics, and that's pretty much it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:04 PM |
| 23 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Hmm, decent idea, but my demographic isn't really on Instagram. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Asking for consentYou're right! It's not always necessary to ask verbally, if you're already sure that she's consenting. If there's any doubt at all, it's better to ask, and it's not going to kill the moment with someone who's actually into you. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Asking for consentYou think rape is heinous but you don't think men should take responsibility for respecting a woman's boundaries. Do you not see the connection there? | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 09:40 AM |
| -1 | Asking for consentLMFAO, ok big boy. Yesterday you were asking how to initiate a kiss. Clearly you're the expert. 😘 | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:36 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with shit tests about your appearance (weight, height, features, eye color etc) and personalityIf a woman makes a comment about your height, walk away. That's not a shit test, she's not interested, and the best way to deal with that is to move on. Why would you want to be with a woman who insults you for your physical features? BeCaUsE sHe'S hOt?!? Don't be a simp. Move on to women who respect you. Women don't call me a manwhore, because I say it first. One of the first things I tell them is that I'm non-monogamous and I sleep with a lot of women. I say it proudly. Every once in awhile a … | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Asking for consentYou sound a little rapey to me, to be honest. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Asking for consentProjecting much? I approach, and sleep with 7s and up 3-5 times a week, and have mind blowing cosmic sex with them because they know I'm safe and I'm not going to force myself on them against their will. You're the coward, you can't even bear to hear a no without your entire "masculine" identity crumbling. Weak. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:09 AM |
| -1 | Asking for consentI'm a man, and you sound like a pussy. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Asking for consentWhere I grew up, enemies of my country who expressed a desire to have sex with women against their will were called rapists and real men in my country would defend their women against such foreign rapists at all costs. Your comment doesn't make you sound as manly as you think it does. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 09:47 PM |
| -1 | Asking for consentYou don't have to tell most women that consent is sexy. A majority of the time when I verbally ask women for consent they respond by telling me that it's so sexy that I asked because it makes them feel safe and respected. And when a woman feels safe and respected, holy shit! She goes wild! | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Asking for consentAsking for verbal consent will never "kill the moment", except with a woman who doesn't consent, and that's a woman you don't want to do anything with anyway, because she'll be the one accusing you of assault later. If you're not sure if she wants it or not, always ask. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 09:39 PM |
| -6 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?This is the answer. Clearly, from the comments here, a lot of men would assume that a movie night means sex. The most experienced guys understand that assumption isn't valid, and that assuming that <not-sexual-invitation> is an invitation for sex is probably blocking a lot of good things in their sex life. But a majority of guys haven't reached that level of insight yet, so it's best to be very clear before he comes over. This is also an opportunity to see how he reacts to boundaries and being t… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How to make my personality attractive.It's not hard. Just stop trying and be yourself. I can't give you an example, because I'm not you. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 03:35 PM |
| 9 | How to make my personality attractive.Direct is always better than indirect. Just say what you're thinking. Don't stress so much about making it fun. Smile if you're happy, laugh if something is funny. Fucking cry if something is sad. Relax and be authentic. Flirting boils down to confidently expressing the fact that you're interested, without making her feel unsafe. That's it. You don't have to play any games or tell any jokes. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 08:45 AM |
| 5 | Left on read by fwbShe's a FWB in another state. Chill out. If she's not texting you back, go focus on something else. Go to the gym, work on a project, flirt with someone else. Your life is too interesting to sit around waiting for a FWB to text you back. Right? | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 08:33 AM |
| 25 | How to make my personality attractive.This is a very general question, so I'll give you a very general answer. Stop being “cute/childish/young/nice/friendly/boring”, and be your authentic self even when you think people won't like you for it. Some people won't, and that's good. If you want to be more attractive, you need to be more polarizing. It will repel the right people, and it will attract the right people. So, say what you think. Have your own opinion. Disagree with people. Don't apologize. None of that means that you have to … | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 08:31 AM |
| 31 | Have you successfully seduced women on linkedin?What the fuck? Bro you're really scraping the bottom of the barrel... Don't hit on a woman on LinkedIn, even once. It's not the place for it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 08:28 AM |
| 20 | What does it mean when girls can’t keep eye contact with you?It's normal for people to look away after 1-2 seconds of eye contact. Longer eye contact than that is super intense and almost no one will hold it longer. It doesn't mean anything, it's just normal. If she's twirling her hair, that's a sign of interest and you should probably at least say hi and smile, rather than staring at her like a deer in the headlights wondering what it might mean. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 06:11 AM |
| 111 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?You are afraid for them to know you are hitting on them, and that's what's holding you back from being confident. When I hit on a woman, I want her to know that I'm hitting on her, consciously and confidently. So your first step is to lose the fear of her knowing your intentions. Imagine that you want to buy a beer at the bar, but you're afraid of the bartender knowing that you want to drink. You're never gonna get a beer that way and the bartender is just gonna think you're weird and probably g… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Good Ways to End Dates on a High Note?No, stating your intentions and asking for consent is great! I'm completely in favor of doing that. But ending a date with a plea for sex when you weren't feeling the chemistry or openness, that's the insecure part. You're not OP, but in the scenarios OP was asking about, sex was already pretty clearly off the table. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Seduction means seducing yourself first before you seduce othersI think you're the one who should elaborate. I have no idea what you mean by this. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Good Ways to End Dates on a High Note?This line sounds like what an insecure man would want a woman to say to him at the end of the date, but I guarantee you it's not going to work on 99% of women. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:50 PM |
| 7 | Good Ways to End Dates on a High Note?Reading this, I think your dates would be a lot more successful if you left her feeling like you were tuned into her and how she's feeling, rather than feeling like you were focused on some goal or strategy of your own. Women are intuitive, she knows that you're not just relaxed and enjoying the moment with her. People like to be seen (metaphorically), and a great way to end a date is to leave her feeling that you really saw/see her for who she is in that moment, rather than to leave her feeling… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | I need someone to help me with the cold approach while keeping me under control (read the description)Controls you? Bro, learn to control yourself! | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 10 | What is proper way to give smile to womenYou're overthinking it. People naturally look away from eye contact, it's instinctive and social conditioning. Always keep your eyes moving, scanning around for eye contact, don't stare at a woman waiting for her to look back at you, she will feel creeped out by that, and avoid looking at the person staring at her. So keep your eyes moving, always aware of potential eye contact with anyone around you. When you do make eye contact, immediately look away, and then look back. If she's still looking… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 01:00 PM |
| 8 | I don't like taking the lead. How do I change that?Instead of putting your effort into figuring out a way to avoid leading, your efforts would be better spent in therapy working through why you're so disengaged, apathetic and simultaneously anxious. Those are pretty common things, but they're not healthy, and they're going to get in the way of a successful dating life. Don't just take a helpless "that's just how I am" attitude. This is an opportunity for you to learn and grow and get to the point where leading comes naturally and feels good. Alt… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Date with a non english speakerI went on my first date in Spanish 12 years ago. It was all conversation, and zero physical chemistry. Afterward, I found out that the woman wrote a blog post about how she went on a date with a man who spoke Spanish with an American accent. Huge compliment for me at the time. We're still friends even though there was no sex or romance. Point is, don't underestimate your Spanish abilities. This year I went on a date with a french woman in Paris who didn't speak a word of English. Using Google Tr… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 05:17 PM |
| 0 | How to build confidence talking to womenI'm not here to attack your ego. I'm here to help you understand how to make sure women are having a great time with you. If you don't want that, you're in the wrong sub. Peace. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:09 PM |
| 0 | How to build confidence talking to womenSo your morals are to try to trick women into becoming emotionally invested in you, a loser? At least you're consistent with the loser part. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:05 PM |
| -2 | How to convince neighbour girl for hookup.Honestly doesn't sound like she's the girl you should be making moves on. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 05:17 AM |
| 4 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyYou are correct. But most men don't know how to read her signals enough to confidently escalate so quickly without creeping her out. It's definitely possible though, I do it several times a week. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:45 AM |
| 8 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyCreepy happens when a woman suspects that you have hidden intentions or that you aren't going to respect her boundaries. If you're clear about your intentions and sensitive to and respectful of her boundaries, it's pretty much a guarantee that she won't find you creepy. But where most guys mess this up is that they go waaaay to fast while not paying attention to her boundaries. My advice is to slow the fuck down and pay attention, and only escalate if you are getting positive signals from her th… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:43 AM |
| 4 | How to build confidence talking to womenit's about making her feel emotionally invested even if you are a loser Fuck man, if you believe you're a loser and you're trying to make women emotionally invested in you that's manipulative and fucked up. Be a quality man, and you'll actually have to talk women out of being so emotionally invested in you so that they don't get hurt. It's a much better place to be in than being a loser who's just trying to trick women. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:15 AM |
| 6 | How to build confidence talking to womenStop fearing rejection. Rejection isn't honestly that bad, and the most successful men experience rejection frequently. It's a part of success. If you're not regularly experiencing rejection, you're not shooting enough shots. As far as thinking your dick is too small, stop taking your cues about what most women want from porn. Yeah, some women want a huge dick, but the majority actually want an average size dick, or even a bit smaller since that's better at going all the way in without pain and … | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:11 AM |
| 7 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do?Men will hit on anything with a pulse, don't have to be gay for that. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked for my fricken number what do I do lolDamn you almost blew that one already... never text a woman while you're drinking to spontaneously "hang out", makes you look thirsty and sloppy as fuck. When you're sober, just text her "Hey, I'd love to take you to a nice resto. How about <place you want to take her> on <day> at <time>?". If she says that time doesn't work for her, ask her what day she's free. Don't try chatting with her over the phone, only use the phone to arrange a meetup. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:44 PM |
| 6 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do?Re-read what I wrote. I didn't say it translates. I said YOU have to be the one to initiate, because women rarely will, even if they are attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:34 PM |
| 6 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do?If they're telling you that they have a boyfriend or that they're busy, you're saying more than "Hi". Literally just say "Hi", and then keep walking, practice that 100 times before you say anything more than that. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:31 PM |
| 34 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do?The good news is, if you're getting hit on by gay men, you're attractive. But women will never approach you. You have to be curious and figure out which women are attracted to you. I used to be in your spot, gay men hitting on me, and never any attention from women. But once I started getting comfortable initiating conversations with women I started to find out that many of them are attracted to me, I just never knew before. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 10:15 AM |
| 12 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do?Start simple, go out with the goal just to say "Hi" to as many women as possible. Don't push yourself to do anything more, until you've mastered that. While you are saying "Hi", focus on improving it by making eye contact while you do it, smiling, and paying attention to her response. With practice, you should be able to approach literally any woman on the street, say hi, and know whether she is interested or not all in under 2 seconds. Once you can do that, move onto step 2 and start asking que… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 10:12 AM |
| 1 | "Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure"Thinly veiled intentions are creepy as fuck. If you're hitting on her, own it. And don't belittle her by calling her sweetheart right off the bat, you're not doing yourself any favors by doing that. The most effective way to flirt is to be honest, transparent, and confident about your intentions while making her feel good! | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?A date is not much of a "commitment". I'd give her a proposal for how a date would go, and she can either commit to that or not. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:40 AM |
| 2 | I found a girl for me. Need your help.Honestly, you seem like you're doing a lot of things right. My biggest advice to you is to get comfortable with rejection. It's not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | How to get back exgirlfriend - weird situationBro, don't waste your time trying to get back with an ex who has a boyfriend. First of all, y'all already tried it and it was shit. Second, she literally told you that the meetup wasn't going well, didn't feel smooth to her, and that she didn't want to meet up again. Third, even if she were open to it, then you gave to deal with the drama of her other boyfriend. There are so many other, better, women out there for you. Move on and date someone new. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.Just because you don't know how to turn your desire for sex on and off and separate it from your biology, doesn't mean that women don't. Most women have the ability to separate a conscience desire for sex from their body's physical arousal. And these are working girls. You'd be just as naive to think that a wet pussy means she likes you as you would to think that a gay porn star's hard dick means he likes men. She likes getting paid, and she got something out of this interaction with you, you're… | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.You do realize that a wet pussy doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to have sex, right? And that latina prostitutes will absolutely kiss you passionately while running game... they literally fuck people to make money, faking a passionate kiss means nothing at all. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.If she changed her mind in 120 seconds it means that you already did something that scared her, and the 120 seconds was just enough time for her to think clearly and get the fuck away before she made a big mistake and had sex with a man-baby. Either that, or this working girl robbed you, and you just didn't notice the missing stuff yet. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.Problem is you, dude. You sound like an insecure little pussy who uses a "macho" demeanor to hide it. So what if a girl doesn't want to have sex with you? Why does that bother you so much? There are so many other women in the world. It takes a lot to scare a Colombian working girl, yet you somehow managed to do it. You're convinced that you didn't do anything wrong, but even your version of the story is full of red flags. I'd love to hear her version of the story. Little tip for you: all women, … | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:46 PM |
| 12 | areas for improvement: talking with tinder matchesYour first two messages get a C, your last message gets an F-. Why would you think that message would get a positive response? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | What are the best ways to open after a match on a dating app to lead to a date/hookupYeah, don't overthink it. Be curious about her, just ask her about herself and pay attention to what she says. See where the curiosity leads you. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 12:44 PM |
| 4 | Is my Tinder profile that bad or is my algorithm just completely dead?Sounds like you got yourself shadow banned. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 07:43 AM |
| 2 | This body language hack has gotten me more numbers even though I’m not that good-looking.For me, it wasn't slumped shoulders, it was hunched shoulders. Once I started going to the gym, my shoulders were able to relax into a less hunched, more attractive posture. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Decent car for getting girls?I'm in SEA, never had any trouble picking anyone up with my Honda Click. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Decent car for getting girls?I've picked up plenty of girls with a Honda Click 160. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Decent car for getting girls?Don't buy a car, buy a motorcycle. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesIt's not an interaction to lay rate. I interact with everyone. I interact with a hundred people every day. It's a flirt to lay rate. When I see 7s and up, I start flirting, and I absolutely get a 3/5 lay rate when I flirt because I've been flirting for 15 years, and working on myself as a man to be as attractive as possible. And it's not about looks, it's about energy and personality. On the looks side, I'm 5'10", 160lb, red hair, healthy, but not muscular, well dressed but not a model. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 06:00 AM |
| 2 | What are the best ways to open after a match on a dating app to lead to a date/hookupinvite a woman to get sushi | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 01:41 AM |
| 10 | What are the best ways to open after a match on a dating app to lead to a date/hookup"Hey! <insert polite compliment> I'm going to <insert place> tonight for <insert exciting activity>. Do you want to join?" | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 02:28 PM |
| 0 | How to follow contradictory adviceShow me a guy who doesn't have game, and I'll show you a guy who is insecure being himself. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Connection - Conscious Game ViennaWhat is your definition of conscious in this context? | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 02:01 AM |
| 4 | How attractive men handle rejectionSecure people are attractive people. It's one of the reasons that a majority of the men in this sub aren't attractive: they could be, but they're too insecure and it turns people off. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 01:51 AM |
| 11 | How attractive men handle rejectionBullshit. I reject attractive women all the time and most of them don't make a big deal out of it at all. Why? Because attractive people always have other options! | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 01:50 AM |
| 76 | How attractive men handle rejectionHow attractive men handle rejection, "Great! Now I know who NOT to waste my time with, and can move on to someone more open!" If you're not doing this, you aren't getting rejected enough. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 01:48 AM |
| -1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesIf 1000 approaches ended in having sex twice, I'd say your method isn't the most efficient. In the same amount of time, I've seduced 60 of the 100 women I tried to seduce. If, instead of approaching 1000 women, you went to the gym 500 times, women would be approaching you and your "conversion rate" would be a lot higher. Put your effort where it counts. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 01:42 AM |
| 6 | How long would you wait to setup a second date?If you're playing games to appear less needy, you already lost. And no one cares if your text used an exclamation point! | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 11:16 AM |
| 14 | Eye contact and smiles with strangersSmile back, say hi, she how she responds. It could mean anything or nothing at all. Only way to know is to fuck around and find out. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 07:03 AM |
| 7 | How long would you wait to setup a second date?Don't overthink or play some stupid game with the amount of radio silence. Text her the next day, or the day after and say "Hey, I had a great time! Can't wait to see you again. I'm free Wednesday or Friday next week. Do either of those work for you?" Just offer her two possible dates/times, because you ARE busy the rest of the time, unless you're on vacation or a bum. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 01:01 AM |
| 0 | How to follow contradictory adviceThe point of all this advice is to just be your authentic self, confidently. You'll push away the women who aren't right for you, and attract the women who are right for you. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:32 AM |
| 53 | I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F)Yeah don't fucking do that. That's the stupidest idea I've ever heard. You're gonna embarrass yourself and need to find a new cleaner. In general, writing "yes/no" is some insecure childish bullshit, as well as leaving yourself space to "play it off". No woman likes a boy who can't own his own attraction to her. Stop watching porn and using tinder and start practicing approaching women in real life, but not women that you have to see all the time if it doesn't work out. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I finally have a girl who's into me. How do I just not fuck up.Yeah, you already messed up. She can sense your desperation and it's a turn off. Don't worry, we've all been there. But what it sounds like is women find you attractive, you're just putting them off with your vibe. As others have said, don't text so much. Girls want to interact with you in person, over the phone is boring and makes you seem insecure. When you're not with her, your focus and energy should be on yourself and your life. You only have enough time to text her to make plans, don't try… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:24 AM |
| 9 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Listen, you are never going to get what you want with a woman by being a nice guy. That doesn't mean you should be an asshole, that won't work either. What it means is that you need to put yourself first, believe in yourself, invest in yourself, take care of your own needs. If you aren't willing to love yourself, why would a woman want to love you? I know that's not what you want to hear: self love, when you want the love of a woman, seems depressing. But if you want love, you have to get used t… | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outSomeone didn't read point number 4... | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 06:30 PM |
| 3 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?I would say something between a smile and a curious puppy. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Creepy is when you keep staring without ever looking away, and/or if the woman is not actively making eye contact with you. A key part of eye contact ettiquite is immediately looking away after making eye contact. This gives a signal to the reciever that you're aware of social norms. Eye contact can be powerful and it's uncomfortable without this acknowledgement. And if someone isn't looking back at you and you keep looking, you're signaling that you're either completely unaware of their feeling… | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 01:43 PM |
| 10 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Yep. I can afford it so I eat alone at restaurants almost every day. People might judge you, but if they do, who cares? | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 11:36 AM |
| 26 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Oh I didn't know them at all. I completely made them up on the spot and it was awful. But that didn't matter. Once attraction has been established, you can embarrass yourself and it still won't matter. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 07:03 AM |
| 9 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?What do they say? "Hey"? | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 05:17 AM |
| 86 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Confidence is not about thinking you're flawless. This mindset will just turn you into an un-self-aware loser. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 05:15 AM |
| 91 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?As soon as you make eye contact, bounce your eyes away (normal etiquette), but then look right back and if she's still looking, you can look as long as you want. If you get to 2-4 seconds, it's a sign of mutual interest. At that point, you have the green light to have a conversation. Field report: Once I did this at a restaurant, and the woman and I ended up staring into each others eyes for a good 30 seconds, and then she invited me to her table and demanded that I act out the scene from Romeo … | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 05:10 AM |
| 138 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Never trust the dating apps | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Men, stop trying to change women. Start acting like them.Sorry to hurt your feelings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:07 AM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanThat's not wh... you know... nevermind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:34 PM |
| 8 | Men, stop trying to change women. Start acting like them.Couldn't read that massive wall of text so I asked GPT to explain... The OP suggests that men should behave like women in terms of supporting equal rights and cracking down on sexual assault and body shaming. The author also suggests that men should believe in themselves and their male friends and not fear infidelity or rejection, as women in the feminist movement do. However, it's important to note that the author's suggestion is not necessarily that all men should behave exactly like women, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:04 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanWhy would you reduce a person's value to their body count? Are you a priest of some repressive religion? That's just stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?It's common enough that I've heard stories from at least a dozen friends who have had their drinks spiked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?So are you saying that men treat women so badly that women should expect that a man saying hi is trying to drug her, and call the cops? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A big cause of confusion is that the male “average” is statistically above average, but women understandably perceive this above average guy as averageMaybe focus on changing the things you can control. Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn't like your race anyway? Sounds miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:17 AM |
| 4 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?No woman is going to call the cops over a simple "Hi" and a smile from a stranger. And, unfortunately, it's actually super common for women to have their drinks spiked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A big cause of confusion is that the male “average” is statistically above average, but women understandably perceive this above average guy as averageSo what you're saying is the average guy sucks? Sounds like an opportunity to do better! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 3 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?I gave a dismissive answer because the comment I was replying to is completely made up and untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:01 PM |
| 2 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?It's not about looks. I'm 5'10" with a crooked face, and I only get the fuck off look from 1 in 10 women that I approach. It's about confidence, awareness, and knowing how to have a good conversation with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 10:18 AM |
| -1 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?Then be the 5% that they don't give it to 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.If you think rapists are being respectful, then you need a better definition of respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.There is no such thing as fake respectfulness and kindness, because those things are based on how you treat others, not on how you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:06 AM |
| 11 | How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman?Jesus, how badly do you have to ignore the signs that a woman doesn't want to talk to you to get yourself arrested over it? Guys, if a woman gives you a fuck off look, or any other indication that she doesn't want to talk, move on immediately. Don't waste your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:53 AM |
| -2 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.I didn't say being nice and respectful is good enough. Also, fuck being nice. Be respectful and kind, but you don't need to be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.It means guys who give a compliment or do a favor or say something soft and sweet and think that entitles them to sex. You can usually sus out a "nice guy" by telling him "no" and watching how fast he gets pissed off about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.Men who insist on treating women disrespectfully are clearly coming from a place of frustration and resentment for not getting what they want from women. They're thinking about how they feel, not about the most effective way to be intimate with women. I've gotten sooo far with women simply by learning how to treat them respectfully. Not in a "nice guy" way, but in a fellow human being way. I feel very sad for men who think disrespect is the way, and even sadder for the women who have to put up w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:38 AM |
| – | How do I get over red pill rage and become more purple pill?Again, there is nothing wrong with feeling anger. You seem intent on shaming someone for their emotions. What outcome do you want here, if not for people to stop consuming content that evokes anger? That literally IS taking responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 09:41 AM |
| – | How do I get over red pill rage and become more purple pill?I'm not really sure why you're intent on blaming him for the anger. Anger is a completely legitimate emotion. There is NO need for "accountability" for feeling anger. Yeah, he feels anger. But if he doesn't want to feed it, taking responsibility means stopping consuming RP content. What problem do you have with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 09:07 AM |
| – | How do I get over red pill rage and become more purple pill?RP resonates for a reason. If you've been consuming it, it's no surprise you agree with it. But think about the things you don't like about it. There is a lot of bad stuff associated with RP. Why would you want to consume something that leads to that? I don't consume RP content because I don't want to be a resentful or angry person. Sounds like it's time for you to unfollow the RP content and follow something new about relationships. Check out David Deida, Esther Perel, The Gottman Institute... … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 08:12 AM |
| 56 | 11 Panty-dropping Date IdeasThese are some great date ideas. Thanks! I was living in a place where adventure dates were easy, and I had a motorcycle, so I had that down. Now I'm moving to a city where that's harder, but this is giving me so many ideas. I love the farmers market + cook brunch together! Plus it gives me a good idea if a woman is wife material or not. 😉 | /r/seduction | 09/05/23 07:56 AM |
| 19 | Does it seem like dating is harder today than our parents and grandparents had it? Here's why that is.Good explanation. My reaction to "dating is harder" in the title was "No, it's not", but the reason I feel that way is because I've worked on myself to the point that I get attention from women often. The modern world has increased the competition to the point that if you're not a man who works on himself, you will get pushed out of the dating pool. The same thing is happening in reverse to women, by the way. Unattractive women are also struggling. But you'll only notice it if you're a man who h… | /r/seduction | 09/05/23 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetOnline dating is a casino game, no more, no less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Is effort a paradox in dating?I think you should keep searching for the reason you're not finding a woman. In your case, it doesn't seem to be related to effort. Are you asking women out and they're saying no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:49 PM |
| 4 | CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of timeHmmm, gonna need some context for that to make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?Take the time to read the context and comment I'm replying to. That comment blames school shootings on masculinity. My comment says "let's be careful not to excuse toxic behavior in anyone". I'm not blaming gender roles for school shootings, I'm blaming toxic behavior, which you are engaging in now by assuming bad faith. You're not doing anything to improve harmony and reduce school shootings. Engaging in conversation with a mean spirited troll like you is only going to provoke anger in the worl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?As in excluding others. Not letting people into their "cool kids club". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Are men always expected to be the entertainers on dates? Or maybe even in relationships?It seems to me like this view is based on limited experience with a subset of women. I definitely don't think these observations are universal to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Are men always expected to be the entertainers on dates? Or maybe even in relationships?I don't know what people "generally" expect. It varies by culture, and there is no general, universal answer. What I do know, is that for a relationship to be successful, there needs to be balanced give and take. Evolutionarily speaking, men tend to be the initiators, and offering to entertain a woman is one way of initiating. But I'd say women are more often taking the role of performers / entertainers than men. Just think about who usually dances on stage to entertain others, as one example. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world.> Most women can get laid any time of any day, with ease. Most men cannot. This is a common myth and I very strongly disagree with it. Anyone (man or woman) can get laid any time of day with ease if they're willing to lower their standards and self respect enough. But neither men nor women frequently want to lower their standards so much. In most places, it's probably easier for a man with $100 to get sex with a woman he finds attractive than it is for a woman to get sex from a man she finds att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:32 AM |
| 2 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?Plot twist, what if toxic masculinity is exacerbated by men experiencing toxic femininity? Let's be careful not to excuse toxic behavior in anyone just because of their gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?means of survival and to avoid exploitation and abuse I wouldn't call that toxic. I think you're describing something else. Toxic is when a woman is using her feminine traits to manipulate and abuse others. If a woman is not manipulating or abusing others, I wouldn't call it toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | What's the difference between "toxic masculinity" and "toxic femininity"? Or it's just that there are toxic people?Toxic is toxic. But in my experience there are different ways that typically masculine or feminine traits tend to become toxic. Toxic masculinity is often associated with machismo, aggression, violence, etc. Toxic femininity is often associated with mean girls, exclusivity, using sex to manipulate, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of timeI respectfully disagree with you. Both that there is something offensive or wrong about anger from a male body in art, and that anger is not a masculine emotion. Anger is a natural human emotion, and art is always an appropriate place to express human emotions. There was no "receiving end" of the anger, other than the leaves I was squeezing. This wasn't even genuine anger, and even if it were, no one is harmed by seeing anger expressed in art. If you can't tolerate emotion in art, that is your p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 12:38 AM |
| 60 | CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of timeMen can't learn healthy masculinity from women. An anecdote: a few months ago I (M35) did a nude photoshoot where the photographer (F30) asked me to grab a pile of leaves and shake them in the air with an angry face. The photo turned out amazing, so I posted it on Facebook (waist up). The reactions I got from women were mixed, but I had so many women who said something along the lines of "Eww, this anger makes me so uncomfortable. Why are you so angry?". In general I'm not an angry person, but a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 01:52 AM |
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