punsandprose Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
568	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments	FDS RESCUE MISSION	punsandprose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 04:38 AM
202	He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead.	SCROTES MAD	punsandprose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 01:55 AM
154	When did you realize he hated you?	RED FLAG 🚨	punsandprose	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 11:34 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	When did you realize he hated you? Tbh, while I'm all for positivity, for how many people (especially men) have told me I'm overreacting or that it wasn't "that bad", sometimes you just need to share your story. To hear that you're not "crazy" and have someone who says "yeah that was totally fucked what the hell??" .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 02:52 AM
3	A universal suffrage democracy will in the long run consistently favor women over men, because women are the majority of the electorate at every level of constituency, rendering futile "men's rights" activism or policy changes advocated for by TRP/the manosphere. A lot of women still vote "in man's interests" because of ingrained misogyny, following what our currently patriarchal society tells them is right, or because they are afraid of backlash from the men in their lives	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 07:34 PM
9	Reminder: never reduce yourself to the kind of woman that has to go through their partner's phone Sorry but no. How many horror stories have we read where HVM ended up being NVM who are good at acting. It might be true that NVM always find a way to out themselves (usually within 3-6 months) but I'm not going to let myself be played a fool for that long when I could figure out right away. What's pick me imo is if you sneak around to go through his phone. Ask for his phone whenever you want, if he says no or tries to put it off to delete stuff, leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 08:44 PM
1	If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglect Ayyy because it's not a child it's a bunch of cells lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 03:38 PM
26	If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglect The key word is bodily autonomy, this is true for both men and women, but your argument is equating women's bodily autonomy to men's financial autonomy. That's apples vs oranges She has the bodily autonomy to have an abortion, meaning her body her choice. She has that freedom. But she has to face whatever consequences come from that. He has the bodily autonomy to have sex freely, without a condom or other reliable pregnancy prevention on his end. (These are largely how these deadbeat dads are, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 05:02 AM
88	How to find out if he honestly watches porn or not Unfortunately, I always assume a man will lie about watching porn to sleep with a woman, addicted or not. I am at the point of ZERO tolerance, so I've had to get smart about talking about the subject to find out if he indulges in it AT ALL Lead into the subject so he can't automatically shut down the conversation. If you're on the level of considering having sex, you should have the conversation of what your likes/dislikes are sexually (that he initiates, he should show that he cares what satisf…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 04:59 AM
2	He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead. I think he is lashing out due to a lack of affection. He's not a toddler. He doesn't get to lash out on innocent women because "he didn't get his share of the toys ))::" He’s frustrated that he doesn’t have affection in his life contrary to other people who do. And yet, rather than looking inwards and seeing what is different between himself and others, he instead directs outwards and wants women to settle and be fuck holes He feels like he deserves it No one deserves companionship, let alone se…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 07:10 PM
3	He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead. There is so much more wrong here than the idea that he may be physically unattractive. Gym or no gym, he feels entitled to a woman	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 03:30 PM
101	He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead. Dear Goddess one of the other commenters said his is obsessed with Only fans and porn and is only 17... How?? How are they corrupted so young? How are you not even legally adult and already dehumanizing women??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 05:31 AM
4	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Ooofff I remembered wrong it was actually A gaming time chart :) So it puts toddler in a little more literal sense here https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ip816w/what_the_fuck_is_this_shit_and_how_is_she_okay/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 04:17 PM
8	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I have never gone out of my way (really? Picking valentine's day to fight with your girlfriend?) to hurt someone the way I've seen men hurt women. If I don't like someone, I will just cut them out of my life (where possible) and keep my positivity for others. But I can only think you would purposefully ignore someone's request WHILE still enslaving them to your needs if you hated them and wanted them to suffer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 03:55 PM
2	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I'm sorry for your past circumstances too, thanks for saying that ❤️ truer words have never been spoken. And now that we've experienced rock bottom we will only continue to flourish upwards!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 03:50 PM
8	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Oooo you already missed it 😬 someone already said he's probably depressed or suicidal. Another person said it's "important" to not "expect them to care about holidays". This post is in pick me hell now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 03:34 PM
7	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments My goddess that SAME user LITERALLY said he shouldnt care about her?? I just -- The pick me energy is too strong in that thread guys. I can't go on any longer. Save yourselves	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 03:32 PM
5	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments You're a stronger person than me.. happened the same way with ME setting up reservations for a restaurant HE liked over an hour away. I had begged him a month in advance to book something for us. I gave up and booked this a week out. I got dressed up. He showed up in shirts and jeans. We took my car (he didn't have one lmaaooo). He didn't speak to me the whole hour drive. I paid for gas there AND back. I paid the check. He complained the whole time that I didn't book early enough and that the pi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 03:27 PM
55	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments That... Makes me genuinely afraid for her. Why you want life insurance on someone who you don't want to attach yourself to unless you were actively planning.. something.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 07:45 AM
11	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Ayyy just spreading the good word (that we can't label as FDS in other subs 😂)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 07:26 AM
53	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Wait would child support still apply??? Ugh whatever men find a way to deadbeat on that too anyway..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 07:00 AM
75	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments But but but gifts just mean you're a gold digger and words of affirmation mean you're an attention whore and acts of service means you want a betaboy slave ))):: /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:59 AM
65	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Don't be shy push him off the cliff ✨✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:57 AM
38	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments If it does break the rules, then no I definitely diiiiiidddnt, if it doesnt break the rules then yeah I absolutely did because they were starting an echo chamber of blaming her (please don't ban me I love it here it's the only place I feel like I belong 😭)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:56 AM
32	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I will neither confirm nor deny if I sent her kind words with FDS link in a dm :) because I'm not sure if that would break the brigading rule lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:53 AM
34	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I just clenched my teeth at the thought that he probably expects her to still treat him special on his birthday, Christmas, etc and would be legitimately shocked and sad (lvm can only feel sympathy for themselves) if she didnt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:51 AM
10	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Stealing that btw. now replacing every god exclamation with goddess	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:49 AM
23	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Nah, that ship has sailed, no grand gesture or surprise at this point should trick her into thinking he gives a damn (but ps he won't do anything anyway). No use waiting for the milk to curdle when it already tastes sour	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:07 AM
28	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments 😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 06:05 AM
30	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments The me back then was too busy drowning out my heart telling me to run to really listen to anyone else :/ sad as it is, it took breaking that heart and putting it back together to remember to put my damn ears back on too lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:53 AM
44	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments If she posts about breaking up with him, can we count that under FDS success flair?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:38 AM
143	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Why is it that men's love languages tend so much to be physical touch and words of affirmation?? Maybe because they want effortless sex without her orgasming and then to be told what a good job he did for changing his shirt today? (I am still traumatized by this one sex points chart that included "brushing your teeth" as one of the "chores" shudder)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:32 AM
52	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I just saw that someone said "they aren't compatible" then posted a link.. about abuse.. That's not a compatibility problem?? He's a literal abuser??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:22 AM
34	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Side note because you have a great idea, FDS Valentine's day anyone?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:18 AM
55	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments But she doesn't understand, his love language is physical touch )))::	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:15 AM
89	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Another thread was like Well surely he does x thing for you? Oh well what about x minus 10 thing? That should make you feel loved right? No? X minus 10000 should be enough, you're probably just not noticing he loves you Oh, well then maybe you should break up with him The standards are so, so... SO LOW.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:08 AM
92	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Hahaha one person was like "unless he's a psychopath he must be loving you somehow or maybe he doesn't understand )):" no, Dave. He is just a POS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:07 AM
278	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Can you believe they implied in the comments that SHE isn't doing enough to find out HIS LoVe LaNgUaGe? And that she has to find out HIS needs without communicating so he will meet the needs she has very clearly expressed. Jfc, I treat coworkers with better courtesy, if they need something and I can (very simply btw because her bar is in the earth's core) do it, I will do it. Poor girl they are making her out to be the bad guy, victim blaming and Gaslighting 101 istg	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 04:52 AM
176	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Please keep this woman in your thoughts and remember to never accept less than your highest standard from anyone ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 04:39 AM
6	Women who make the first move are more likely to end up with men who they actually find attractive I haven't replied to any of these others but I will reply to this once as follows: None of what I said above implies a good man is a slave. No one is forcing men into submission by expecting them to put in the effort to approach. If you find that to be "slavery", then you are the exact type of passive man that most women do not want. I find it ironic that the people talking about "power dynamics" in these threads are men, the gender that has almost exclusively held power in society for millennia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 12:24 AM
32	Women who make the first move are more likely to end up with men who they actually find attractive So what this study doesn't tell you is "do relationships where women pursue the men last". It's obvious that women are more likely to end up with attractive men if they message first vs the other way around. I'm sure most men would love not to chase, or put effort into pursuing a woman and just to have her come to him. She already dresses nice, looks good, wants to date, a nice pretty package gift wrapped up in a bow, just for him, no work required. These women are more likely to pay for dates t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 03:38 PM
2	What’s the fair(er) way of splitting bills when in a relationship? 90/10 for the first 1-2 years of a relationship. At this point we wouldn't even be living together because it is too dangerous physically emotionally and financially to cohabitate before then. However, the majority of all other relationship based expenses he should be covering (dates, gifts for me, food/drink, trips, etc). My 10% comes from buying an occasional small item be it small gift or card during holidays/birthdays and covering the tip on food every so often (never the bill). After that, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 03:16 PM
1	Do most financially successful women still expect that the men be the “providers”? Are men who refuse this role basically screwed? That's the point. Guys who pump and dump are also likely pretend to be honest and sweet and communicative and want a future etc. It's putting your money where your mouth is. I don't believe that guys who just want a quick fuck will shell out cash to take me out on quality dates (maybe it would work for a girl who puts out on the first date? But that type of girl would be less likely to have any kind of standard around being paid for either) If a guy that pays is just as likely to bail as a guy t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 11:29 PM
2	Do most financially successful women still expect that the men be the “providers”? Are men who refuse this role basically screwed? It's kinda the idea of the "ride or die" woman or "the good girl waiting back home" kinda sentiment, where as men are not necessarily expected to be as emotionally intelligent (see tv tropes like men zoning out when women talk about their day, not being thoughtful by forgetting birthdays or anniversaries and he's in the doghouse, blaming women's emotions on periods etc). Thats just media of course, but it both affects and stems from a societal standard. It's great to hear your values are healthy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 01:07 AM
2	Mark Hamill throwing a tantrum subconciously bc of female lead. Oh no, you're definitely right that a ton of men are salty sad bois about a girl "not being strong/cool/brave' whatever to be the hero in their favorite pew pew spaceship go boom galaxy movies )))::: . I've argued with tons myself. On the HVM thing, maybe so, but in a much more minor positive margin that we would like I'm sure :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 12:55 AM
3	Do most financially successful women still expect that the men be the “providers”? Are men who refuse this role basically screwed? You're definitely right to feel how you want to feel about it, I'm just giving the perspective of a woman who is not necessarily doing it for the cash, but more of a proof of character. From the opposite end, a lot of women will still split 50/50 but are STILL supposed to be an emotional rock, a therapist, spend lots of money on hair and makeup to look good, be a "good woman" and cook and clean, and all these extra things that don't necessarily have a "monetary" value. Just to end up cheated on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 12:49 AM
3	Mark Hamill throwing a tantrum subconciously bc of female lead. He's been in a number of interview saying how much he thinks Luke is out of character in the sequels. How Luke is a Jedi through and through and he would never give up and let it just "die" in the metaphorical sense. Luke is the stereotypical good boy hero ever optimistic sense of justice fights the good fight type. And in the sequels he's just this pessimistic, giving up kinda old grump and Mark haaaatttessss it. There's a few youtube compilations about how he dies a little inside whenever he t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 12:38 AM
5	Mark Hamill throwing a tantrum subconciously bc of female lead. I usually vibe with FDS on most things, but I think he was more upset on how they committed character assassination when it comes to Luke rather than anything to do with Rey	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 12:26 AM
0	Do most financially successful women still expect that the men be the “providers”? Are men who refuse this role basically screwed? Tbh, I think it's about timing. I am the type that likes being paid for and financially spoiled during the dating phase and initial part of a relationship ie year 1 or sooner. It's not that I want you to provide for me your whole life, I want to know that you are financially smart, stable, thoughtful and /generous/. These are the things a lot of women want in a long term partner. Once I can see the relationship into a more serious future long-term partner stage, then I can see things going more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 12:03 AM
14	Is he LVM? Or am I overreacting? There's words then there's actions. He can say all the right things all day, but if there's no follow up and he's not holding himself accountable, it's just acting. Nice words to placate you into waiting around. He's let you down before and you tell him you're upset. He's so sorry. he let you down now, but wasn't he sorry before? He knows it hurts your feelings. It's not a mystery or secret. hes showing you your feelings don't matter. He doesn't care. No one is forcing him to make promises to yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/20 03:13 AM
4	Received a first follow up text Am I misreading or is there something positive outside of him not texting you all day? The way this is worded is a little confusing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 03:11 PM
49	Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯 Can someone point them out? I'm genuinely lost aside from there's a chance he prescribes to the "3 dates rule"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:04 PM
9	For real? Not sure why you bothered to reply lol and then humored him by giving an answer, not a good look tbh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 09:40 PM
22	I made Sunday dinner, he took leftovers for lunch on Monday I'll say it, it's nice that this makes you happy but I wouldn't lable this a green flag .. This doesn't really seem like something worth posting about lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/05/20 02:57 PM
1	Dating apps are by far the best humans will get to seeing what dating truly is for both genders Abandon thread, no words on these replies but yikes	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 01:18 AM
1	Dating apps are by far the best humans will get to seeing what dating truly is for both genders "I am not mocking her for her face, just for the fact the she is fat and is demanding that she wants someone tall" Ah yes, that makes you look like much less of an ass	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 01:12 AM
-1	Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa? A person who can't explain their thoughts in simple terms either doesn't have a real point to make or doesn't understand the meaning behind their opinions in the first place (pretty common in echo chamber communities)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 01:30 PM
82	I need you ladies to hype me up in preparation of breaking up with LVM You're 23, don't waste another second of youth on someone who doesn't actively add to your life	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 03:30 AM
52	Whyyyyyyy I'll be the downer here and ask: why are we even shitting on her for her looks? Making fun of her hair and body type.. And saying "all pickmes look like this" is an insult to a HVW or newbies to the FDS strategy who might look like the OP. We're here to point out bad behavior and mitigate against it, not tear down other women's appearance. Be better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/20 01:38 PM
1	Telling a guy to cool ot How carefully and considerately planned can these dates be if he's asking you out all the time? How much time is he really investing in himself if he has all the time in the world to ask you out on dates? Is he hoping to break through the fabled "third date rule" very quickly? Just things to consider	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/19 08:21 PM
1	How do you deal with men who do this? 😂 I'm a little lost here too, sorry if it's obvious, he asked a question showing interest in your hobbies, you didn't respond, and he initiated again (with an immediately lame intro), what's the issue here?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/19 08:15 PM
34	What's so bad about getting pumped and dumped? Women can get off fine on their own lmao That's not how vaginismus works, but ok Most men have low standards, finding women "sexy" is not much of a compliment If that were the case she wouldn't consider it a "pump and dump", just a one night stand Lol check half the posts on here about opinions on n count but ok It's mostly risk and minimal reward for women in most sexual encounters. Pregnancy, sti, no/fake orgasm, pain, just for a guy to walk out the next day. Oh but what's so bad about all tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/19 06:43 AM
4	Facts Yo why you gotta come for lionfish like that, I mean look at that style on that prize	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/19 06:26 AM
7	how do you deal with a man who puts you on a pedestal? When it comes to your preference of balance between beta and alpha qualities, maybe he isn't a good match, you just have to determine how important that is to you	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/19 05:21 AM