puppycatlaserbeam Archive

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3	Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone? Tbh, as a woman I feel similarly. The main difference I see between men and women on this subreddit is how hurt gets externalised by men more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 02:16 AM
1	Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men? Another reason for this leniency is how it can align to a broad preference for the masculine to be bigger than the smaller feminine. This often comes up in talks about women's strong height preference but another way for a woman to feel smaller relative to her partner is weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 07:46 PM
1	CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below…. YouGov has some interesting and funny data on this point. Both genders at a macro level think they are more attractive than they actually are / is possible in either a normal or uniform distribution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 07:04 PM
2	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Do you mean American women? There are a few countries where sex work is decriminalised / legalised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 03:24 AM
0	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? He's quite attractive objectively, and subjectively omg I would definitely approach / want to date or be friends with him. But am not surprised at some of the responses lol, this is PPD and some of the standards on here are really absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 06:40 AM
1	CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re not I haven't seen any info about Pew changing / improving their data collection for this study, that would definitely be relevant to know. However without that, I think a comparator like the census showing some notably different information is more evidence-based and persuasive than anecdotal information.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 01:03 PM
1	CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re not FYI, the Pew sampling set seems to have some big problems oversampling young women in serious relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:52 PM
2	CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re not Is there a set of numbers you're referring to in particular?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 03:21 AM
3	CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men. I thought it was a really shocking and interesting finding at first and was interested in what could have changed so recently - but as always with studies, it helps to dig into the data and do some comparisons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 11:52 PM
12	CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men. Not trying to spam but as the same topic consistently gets posted: the Pew data study these stats are from has sampling issues (or potentially question phrasing issues).	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 12:50 PM
-1	How is it that more women are in relationships than men? There is not a massive disparity, because the Pew data study these stats are from has sampling issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 04:43 AM
3	70% of all younger woman are in relationships where as only 30% of younger men are I edited my comment above to link to one in particular that does a comparison with the US Census. edit: looks like there were deletions but I doubt it's because anything in that particular comment broke a rule, so will replicate it and edit it in above!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 01:28 AM
13	70% of all younger woman are in relationships where as only 30% of younger men are The Pew data study you are referring to has significant sampling issues. /u/ta06012022 has posted some excellent information about this. Here's one comment that goes into detail comparing this particular sampling set to the US Census (appears there were deletions but doubt it's about this comment breaking a rule so have replicated it below): But that it's a 2x deviation...that is humongous. But that 2x deviation also isn't real. Pew hasn't published the underlying dataset for that July 2022 surv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 01:24 AM
5	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? Oof, shallow and stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 10:37 AM
1	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? Insecure could play out a couple of ways: He is shy, has been bullied, has body dysmorphia, is uncomfy with women who fetishise his height etc: I would have some hesitations and doubts but would proceed with caution. He has a huge chip on his shoulder about what women find attractive and women in general: I would feel extremely uncomfortable and on edge, and would extricate myself asap then politely message to say I don't think it's a match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 10:37 AM
4	Do women care about men's looks? To be fair comedians often pull baddies. The Pete Davison handwringing is the obvious example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 02:12 AM
–	The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male height Sorry I just don't believe women Can we close PPD yet...or at least call it /r/pillshitposting or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 06:11 AM
2	Nice Guys are really just lazy. Something else I think can get missed is that, because it is easy, a lot of people do it. Further to that, people are naturally inclined to be kinder to more attractive people. If what you bring to the table is only what almost everyone else has, your odds aren't great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/23 04:38 PM
2	What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’? The argument being that a woman who likes you for your resources or what you provide does not truly desire you and will not treat you as well as she did her (most likely) attractive but toxic ex. She can like/love you but if she does not completely lust after you then there will always be something intangible missing. We all know that the same woman will not treat all her bf’s or partners with the same enthusiasm and effort. Are there many women who are putting attraction as a secondary priority…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 07:48 AM
2	The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored. You need to work on your numeracy if you cannot see how the numbers in the table are sourced from the data in the tables in the linked survey. When you refer to "the OKcupid data", do you mean the data and insights in this post? If so, while it's true this data pulls on millions of profiles, it is also 16 years old. The YouGov data linked has a few thousand respondents across a range of ages and genders in the UK and is from 2017; I'd say it's a pretty good dataset for a Western country and is m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 03:35 AM
–	Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women? "Becky, Esquire" is an amazing flair	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 10:57 PM
6	Rejection is not completely consequence free. That first account is particularly unhinged. Were they wasted or just empty shells of human beings?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 10:26 PM
1	The idea that these countless men who are struggling to get their equivalent are somehow ALL overrating their own appearance is just disingenuous. There are some men who do, sure but as a whole the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint cannot be ignored. YouGov poll Hahaha those stats are great. I always wonder if there were some guideline parameters around the scale what might change (e.g. if it was clarified that they were asking for your self-rating within people of your age group, not everyone of your gender; or if there were example photos placed along the scale so people had a common idea of where others might fall before being asked to place themselves). I suppose the core idea (too many people think they are better than average) wouldn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 09:56 PM
1	Women, would you date a man who sexually experimented with other men in the past? Who actually knows they hate broccoli, the kid who has refused to ever try it or the kid who gave it a go and said 'ew gross'? In this essay I will	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 02:06 AM
–	Unpopular opinion, but i don't think it's necessarily harder for ugly people to find a mate Who is defining the attractiveness of women in your comment, if men in general aren't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/23 12:05 PM
–	Why do men think they have low standards? I think the phrase 'low standards', maybe bc it's a negative framing, infers a negative attitude people have about their options. 'I have very low standards' is rarely followed by a positive sentiment. On the other hand, 'I find lots of people attractive' is more positively framed and I've seen this used for positive and negative feelings about the dating scene.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 09:07 AM
2	Your girlfriend(or wife) is in an argument with her dad It's a shitty attitude. Hopefully as an adult you're able to have a lot of distance from him now	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 08:56 AM
3	Your girlfriend(or wife) is in an argument with her dad I think the best course of action is going to depend on the individuals and relationship dynamics involved. For me, my dad is abusive. I need a partner who will listen and respect what I tell him about that man and will back me up regarding him. A situation like this would probably be traumatising for me and I might have frozen up; I would expect him to notice and get us both out of there quickly, and I would probably need space and quiet time afterwards to calm down, so I would need him to be a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 05:23 AM
0	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed Yeah, it's easy to think of lots of approaches that someone you're already attracted to could do that would be well received. I think the approach I described would avoid an unsuccessful approacher being called a creep by most people though, and what individual people are attracted to isn't a monolith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 11:59 PM
5	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed I did a quick google after you first commented to see if I was incorrect in assuming it was a synonym for flirting. A couple of dictionary definitions were "make sexual advances towards someone" and "to show someone that you are sexually attracted to them". So actually maybe a subset of flirting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:47 PM
6	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed Ah interesting, I'm not sure I would say a compliment in passing qualifies as hitting on someone! Most of the time when I see that it is people being friendly and encouraging rather than trying to flirt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:36 PM
7	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed This is a good question! The Jabba the Hutt criteria makes it quite tricky though. I'm not sure there is a way I would enjoy being hit on by someone I found very unattractive? Would be interesting to know if men would also feel the same way about someone they found as appealing as Jabba hitting on them. For any guy, regardless of attractiveness, I think the best way to hit on someone is to open with a friendly-only conversation starter, and see how the reaction is. If it's positive you could mov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:23 PM
2	Relationships are just a carnal diversion. Something we do to stave off boredom at best or a crippling addiction at it's worst (inceldom). All we are really doing is satiating a biological compulsion that is hard wired in all of us. Just sex with extra steps. This post reminds me of the time Lisa announced a girl wanted to play football.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 05:28 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? Given how popular incest porn is, I really hope not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 10:43 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? You're right fiction isn't real life, so I'm not sure why you think women liking to read ETL means they'd like a similar relationship IRL. In the ETL I've read there's a big focus on grudging respect for intelligence and accomplishments, but am sure there's different variations in the genre	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 09:35 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? I'm not sure why you think my point (that a man of undefined attractiveness can improve his odds a surprising amount with some basic respect) is inconsistent with yours (a man of sufficient attractiveness does not need to meet further standards to pull). I'm a big fan of ETL, I'm surprised you don't think that some level of respect is an important component of the dynamic! This is something readers have commented on. You can't view someone as an enemy if you have no respect at all for them, othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 09:07 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? We're obviously not going to agree about our respective different lived experiences. On your last sentence, I don't know what to do about the reading comprehension going on here. Of course a man who at least fakes some basic respect will do better than a man who doesn't keep misogynistic views to himself. Showing some basic respect was the original point I made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 08:56 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? We might live in different cultures (or defining respect differently?). The men I know who have pulled the most women have all had some basic respect, even if they are mowing through ladies like a runaway train. It's just a lot more difficult to get women into bed if you insult them and other women who have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 08:34 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? I was pointing out that of the factors that can add or subtract from overall attractiveness, such an easy win with a surprisingly notable positive impact is left on the table by quite a few men. There's a difference between saying something is low hanging fruit, and saying something is the only issue between a guy with zero options and a guy with many options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 08:24 AM
–	What are some things you cant understand about the opposite gender? As a woman I think it's amazing how much a man can boost his chances of pulling by having some basic respect for women as human beings (e.g. not slut shaming women if he wants to fuck around, not SAing women). Tbf I have a couple guy friends who are just as confounded on this point, but have been happy to enjoy the competitive sexual market advantage of being a man with some basic social decency. I'm not sure if there's an equivalent baffling 'the bar is in hell why do so many women refuse to ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 06:54 AM
3	If you define "creepy" behavior on a subjective basis, then would men be justified in labelling unattractive women who approach them as "creepy"? I'm sorry, that sounds really horrible. I hope you can shift to a kinder environment in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 07:28 PM
1	If you define "creepy" behavior on a subjective basis, then would men be justified in labelling unattractive women who approach them as "creepy"? In my experience the only people who get called creepy are those who consistently overstep others' personal space in unwanted ways and ignoring cues to stop. Someone minding their own business would not be called creepy. But school can be a mighty tough environment :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 07:13 PM
–	Who is your celeb crush? Interesting question! Some of mine are Gong Li, Robert Pattison, FKA Twigs, Nathan Fielder, James McAvoy, Jason Statham, Nicholas Hoult, Idris Elba, Harry Styles, Shygirl, Rina Sawayama, Pedro Pascal, Walt Disney, Ryan Gosling, Dominick West, Hugh Laurie, Lucy Liu, Michael Biehn, Summer Glau, Matt Smith, Karen Gillan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:51 PM
1	CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractive Is there a source for the 96% figure? It seems wild that I know so many of the 4% women lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 09:47 PM
5	Men are better divided into three groups, not two I've lived in a couple of Western cities and in both there were plenty of adults in community theatre, including men into women who had multiple options or partners who most people would consider were a lot more attractive than themselves. So I presume Montreal is similar. Any hobby or activity which has an equal or favourable gender ratio would be good to try though. You could try music gigs, book clubs etc. A few guys I know swear by salsa dance classes as an excellent way to meet lots of beau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 08:08 AM
9	Men are better divided into three groups, not two One activity with a very favourable gender ratio for straight men is community theatre. There's different ways to participate (backstage stuff, or even just attending shows) if acting is very much not your cup of tea. Cosmetic surgery is not where I would jump to before trying to meet more women IRL first, but it's your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 07:48 AM
12	Men are better divided into three groups, not two Imo truerateme is about as delusional about looks as PPD is with all their average looking Hollywood star references lolol. There's some pretty unpleasant racial features prioritised/deprioritised in their system imo. I don't know what to say except men much less attractive than you have their pick of the ladies where I live. A change in location or meeting women through friends or IRL might be really helpful if the dating app meatgrinder isn't working. I wish you all the best!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 07:31 AM
3	Men are better divided into three groups, not two Is there a strong gender imbalance with fewer women where you live? Barring any major social or personal issues you would be cleaning up where I live (though that has a gender imbalance with fewer men).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 07:17 AM
3	Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for? Looks like some commenters might be thinking 'cooperative' sufficiently encapsulates 'submissive' or potentially 'will change to become what I want'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 02:53 AM
0	Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answers I get what you mean about personal investment or strong feelings clouding the rational side of an argument, but I'm not sure I agree this is a phenomenon unique to a particular gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 09:54 AM
4	Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answers What genuine answer do you think women are prevented from giving you about slut shaming? Do you think women who say they are against this are secretly thinking something different? Who is preventing you from having an honest debate about slut shaming? Do you mean there is a negative social consequence if you do this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:39 AM
4	Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you? Oh I thought you meant you don't talk to women who have gay friends at all, not women in a social setting who are hanging out with gay friends at the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 03:53 AM
13	Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you? Sounds like a difficult standard to hold if you live in most cities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 02:45 AM
25	Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you? Gay guys and men with women will also do this for strangers. The first sentence once you're out of earshot is always about how they are just checking they're ok and if they say yes, the pulled aside lady will head back over. If not, they'll help them get away into an Uber or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 02:10 AM
3	Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you? I don't think I've ever seen this. It's mostly about escaping an uncomfortable or unsafe situation. If it's related to envy, depending on who they're envious about, they will either flirt with the guy or unsuccessfully try to distract the woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 02:01 AM
37	How are short man supposed to date? Is there a PPD awards I can nominate this comment for or something? The abrupt turn halfway through is the funniest thing I think I've ever read here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 08:14 AM
1	Some thoughts on "icks". They aren't avoidable, and you shouldn't worry about them. I suppose if I didn't gel with someone's personality or didn't feel safe with them alone at my house, I definitely wouldn't feel safe or attracted enough to want to have sex with them. But everyone's different, as you say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 12:11 AM
1	Some thoughts on "icks". They aren't avoidable, and you shouldn't worry about them. I must be old fashioned or naïve, but I have a certain level of dismay that someone you're seeing that is good enough to fuck might get kicked out instead of falling asleep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 10:25 PM
8	Why won’t my situationship commit to me? ? Why wouldn't you ask him if you want to discuss this? Why be so passive in your own life? Is it because you're afraid of the answer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 02:02 PM
7	The equivalent of fat women is fat men, not short men. One advantage I rarely see mentioned about heavier guys is that their size can help women feel smaller, which is often a critical feature of straight women's feelings of attraction. In more rural/conservative areas, skinnier guys won't appeal as much to the average woman as heavier/stockier guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 04:23 PM
1	Do most single women have a "Steve"? I don't think all the women I know are well below average or antisocial. But I suppose I haven't looked through all of their inboxes, I'm judging this based on comments they've often made about the lack of interest guys show in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 02:53 AM
0	For the committed ladies: how do you feel about your husband/boyfriend hiding money and investments from you as a backup plan? Would love to hear an expansion of how apparently all marriage laws are in favour of women. Your entire post infers a poor grasp of relationship property law and how the court and most people view hiding assets. Being pro-economic independence is not inconsistent with thinking dishonesty is wrong. On your question: we have joint finances with separate accounts for fun money and emergency funds. This is a failsafe to enable either party easy access to some money to exit the relationship if it tur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:38 PM
-1	Do most single women have a "Steve"? I think you must be seeing very attractive women if you think most women have literally dozens of men desperately messaging them that they are not interested in. I don't think I know any women like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 09:47 PM
3	2023 PPD Survey Turned into a Dashboard, v1.0 Yup, it does even out more than I expected: All ages Ages filtered for men Ages filtered for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 06:29 AM
2	How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”? I'm not sure, it certainly seemed like a plausible explanation as to why the numbers between men and women were so different in that data. Did you think a different reason was the cause of the gender discrepancy in the Pew data?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 06:26 PM
5	2023 PPD Survey Turned into a Dashboard, v1.0 Well it does happen to reflect the recent Pew data, but I think it probably also reflects that this sub is incel-adjacent. It therefore attracts incel men who are likely mostly single, and curious humanities nerds/online trainwreck enthusiasts of all genders, which I doubt has a strong correlation with relationship status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 01:15 PM
2	2023 PPD Survey Turned into a Dashboard, v1.0 Thanks for linking the data OP. I started clicking around in a pivot table but I doubt anyone considers this a surprising insight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 07:59 AM
2	Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy? I think so. Attraction is a funny thing though, I might be attracted to Man A who I perceive as better than me, but I might not necessarily be attracted to (or more attracted than Man A) Man B even if he technically has more wealth, is smarter etc. I think the theory of hypergamy isn't a complete explanation of attraction, dating and relationship dynamics. Theories about trauma explain a lot more about those things in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 07:14 AM
4	Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy? I have pretty low self esteem so I don't think I know many men that I think I'm better than. Just because I think someone is a better person than me doesn't meant I'm attracted to them though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 06:21 AM
3	Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult women This one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 05:48 PM
9	Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult women This is an interesting topic to post about considering you seemed to have a different view in a post you made a few months ago. What was it that changed your mind about feeling disgusted about creepy, older guys taking advantage of younger girls?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/23 08:25 AM
2	What do you do when 'Chad' starts flirting with you and you are in a relationship? How do you feel? This is a really interesting question, so much of the premise doesn't align with my life: The areas of 'value' you defined made me realise I don't think I've ever met a man I would consider more talented, successful etc than my husband. The idea of leaving a good relationship because someone else left you a couple of comments on socmed is so absurd. My partner and I flirt with other people all the time, especially some of the types of flirting you noted I would just call platonic friendliness. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 05:42 PM
6	are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women? I'm curious if you prefer women to pursue you? That would seem the best way to filter for women who are enthusiastically attracted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 01:22 AM
1	Is having a bad relationship with one of your parents or with your parents that much of a deal breaker? In The Body Keeps The Score, one of the leading texts on trauma, the author describes how their experience treating traumatised patients has lead them to believe that sexual abuse within families is far more common than we think. And the stats are already shockingly higher than sub-1%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 08:00 PM
2	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? It's true, no woman has ever slept with a man if she knows or has seen him do a household chore, and anyone who claims otherwise is lying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 06:21 PM
8	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on? So you think in general, the first time someone has sex, that's the most enjoyable sexual experience they'll ever have, and every experience after that will feel less and less good?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 03:47 AM
2	Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rare The timeframes have some early/later exceptions to the general 18 rule where I live (outside the US). Usually changes in numbers of dependent children and income is what can lead to changes in child support liability where I'm from though. I wasn't just referring to above average income but the assumption that the payments would be made on time and in full, which again does not seem to be the norm in the US. I understand the hypothetical is not the average scenario but I disagree there's no util…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 09:14 PM
8	Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rare I'm not familiar with Cali child support formulae or timeframes, but in general across the US actually receiving $2500 a month until the kids were 18 would be an uncommonly good child support arrangement. This article summarises some recent census data and the averages are a lot more bleak. Even so, the woman in this hypothetical would be in a far better position if she had some higher education or work history. For me personally it sounds like a bad deal I'd be too anxious to sign up for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 11:38 AM
5	I think women do have a sense of entitlement when it comes to men as well I have had compliments along those lines, and it made me feel happy and appreciated that my friends saw and admired my efforts to take care of them and others. But there might be some context I'm missing which made this a more negative experience for you, e.g. like other commenters asking if this is a one-sided friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 10:44 PM
22	I think women do have a sense of entitlement when it comes to men as well The most overt time this happened was when a girl got drunk and told me she loved hanging out with me because whenever she went out with other guys they would always leave her alone to chase after other girls but I would always make sure she’s safe. I’m like what so I’m a bodyguard? You'll know the conversation tone, but as a third party this sounds like a friend was trying to give you a sincere compliment and you somehow managed to take it as an insult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 06:25 PM
3	How would BP’ers help this young man? (Challenge) Oh yup fair enough. To be honest after doing some googling it doesn't look like there is a core definition of blue pill apart from being more mainstream and more focused on people as equal humans than rigid different gender roles. Idk if Evan needs male friends as a prerequisite to finding more success with women, but I just found it interesting he had no male friends when he seems otherwise platonically popular, so maybe there's a clue there. I think the blue pill framing of my comment would ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 11:37 AM
2	How would BP’ers help this young man? (Challenge) Well I'm not red pill, which I think is the definition of blue pill? But I might be wrong about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 11:11 AM
3	How would BP’ers help this young man? (Challenge) My suspicion for the man in this question is that he might be looking at women out of his league, or he is not giving off a masculine vibe. The lack of any male friends is an interesting wrinkle, I don't think I know any guy who has no male friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 11:04 AM
8	How can you want people to treat you different than how you present yourself? Your post has an unstated inference about how women who are 'thots' should be treated, could you explain a bit how you think they should be treated?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 06:32 PM
2	The Lack of Critical Thinking Amongst Red Pill Men Why is it a problem when women are underrepresented in male-dominated fields like engineering and science, but it's not a problem when men are underrepresented in female-dominated fields like teaching, nursing, and modeling? Idk about modeling, but where I live there is media coverage and NGOs that provide scholarships to men that are concerned about the low rates of men in teaching and nursing. It's seen as concerning by a range of people because of the value of having role models and critical …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 06:11 PM
6	Women are much more shallow than men when meeting new people. Women are only less shallow than men when they already know them Is there a reason you think this is because women are relatively less empathetic than some of the hypotheses the article authors described? Such as defence against rape and reputational damage that sexually promiscuous women suffer but not men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 08:50 PM