purple_pansy88 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
73	PSA on dressing for your age and place in life. What I have finally learned as a socially clueless woman (long)	LIFESTYLE	purple_pansy88	/r/RedPillWomen	22/10/21 03:22 PM
15	Transgender person complains about men installing radiators. You can't make this up.		purple_pansy88	/r/AntiFeminists	23/10/21 09:51 AM

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2	Housewives, how do you and your husband afford living off one income? You can't get around the fact that the cost of living nowadays isn't cheap. Just running a car is expensive. I don't even live in the west and I really constantly have to think about what I'm spending. I hear America is very very expensive. We manage but I forgo a lot of luxuries. Going to a salon to get my hair done is something I do once a year, I get some highlights a few shades lighter than my natural hair color and a cut. I would like to get my natural nails done just with a gel color but I…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/22 12:34 PM
1	Pornography I strongly dislike pornography, but it's also not a hill I'm willing to die on. I have told my husband it's not my business if he looks at is as long as he doesn't bring it into our marriage at all and he keeps it completely separate. When we were first together, I tried watching it with him and I was just cringing the whole time. There was nothing pleasant about it. Watching people have sex is actually kind of disgusting. I mean most men these days watch porn. I'll have a problem with it if my …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/22 08:42 AM
7	I tried ironing for the first time Like hack: I have found that using a hairdryer on the hottest setting can get some wrinkles out of clothes. I moved recently and when I pulled some chambray pants out of my suitcase they were really wrinkled. I blasted them with the hairdryer for 5 minutes and pretty much all the wrinkles were gone. Flattening and straightening clothes when you pull them from the washing machine and into the dryer/onto the laundry line also decreases wrinkles by a lot. Ironing is my worst chore. I always worry a…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/22 08:30 AM
1	Winter Clothing Suggestions When extremes of temperature exist it's difficult to dress in certain aesthetics. Perhaps focus on prints, colors, details and textures rather than on wearing certain items of clothing. For example, a pink coat or a coat with a floral print is more overtly feminine in style than a plain black one.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/22 08:21 AM
2	Anyone struggle with a more "manly" personality? I have definitely never felt like I fitted in with women as a whole. I don't feel like I fit in with the majority of men, either. I put it down to having high functioning autism. I have never had extremely close female friendships or felt a any automatic solidarity with women. There has always been this distance between me and the vast majority of other people. Other women pick up on this and some of them really don't like me. Others try and encourage this emotional closeness that I can't get be…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/22 08:14 AM
1	How to become a kinder person? Do your best to treat others how you want to be treated, that's the only authentic way to do it. If you try to change your personality it will never be consistent and you will come off as fake. Before you act in a way that is unsympathetic, stop and think about yourself in the other person's situation and act accordingly.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/22 08:00 AM
1	Is it fixable or am I better off exploring a better situation? You are not responsible for his childhood trauma. It sounds like he's using it as an excuse to hide the fact that he might actually be gay or asexual.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/22 09:27 AM
1	Is it fixable or am I better off exploring a better situation? If your marriage hasn't been consummated you can actually annul it. When I was in my teens I dated a young man who was very sex averse and wanted to wait until marriage and I found out he was gay. That's always a risk. We live in a culture where sex outside of marriage is the norm and where there are few to no social consequences as a result. There is going to be something up with a lot of people who may want to use waiting until marriage as an excuse to hide deeper issues. There are definitely …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/22 09:26 AM
8	Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they? The handmaid's tale is about forced surrogacy/ adoption and the enslavement of women so they can give birth to children for other people to raise. Some of the biggest villains in the story are other women. I don't see how it relates to abortion or contraception or women having their own children and raising those children at all. Reproductive freedom is its own issue. The handmaid's tale is mostly about women's bodies being enslaved for surrogacy and adoption. That does happen around the world u…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/22 09:10 AM
5	I’m ashamed of my body count as a woman, am I low quality? What matters even moreso is your reasoning for being with so many men and whether or not you have rectified the problems that mean you will have sex with so many of them. Do you have an insatiable sexual appetite? Do you deliberately go for men who are emotionally unavailable? Do you have an avoidant attachment style and are you emotionally unavailable to men? Do you struggle to stay faithful? Do you still have underlying issues connected to this pattern of behavior that will effect a relationsh…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/22 09:05 AM
6	I’m ashamed of my body count as a woman, am I low quality? Men release oxytocin, too. It's not just women who release oxytocin during sex. Men however release more vasopressin. I don't think this theory is completely true, at least not in my experience. When I was single and dating I had sex with a lot of men. It honestly hasn't effected how much I love my husband or how faithful I am towards him. We have been together for close to a decade. I'm not actually a wildly sexual person with a high sex drive or a desire to be with many men. I just felt like i…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/22 08:50 AM
1	Is it hypocritical to support friend going against my (or our) values? I think you should personally mind your own business and not be so invested in what your friend does, whether or not you think it's wrong. I personally think you are way too involved with her personal decisions and that she over shares with you. I think your friend did something dishonest and risky, but I also think that's her call and between her and the man she is with. Maybe he genuinely doesn't care that she did this. Maybe your friend lacks options in order to get what she wants. I don't pe…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/22 08:39 AM
1	Our conversations devolve into fights so often :/ help. My husband is exactly like this, has been ever since I met him. It's not so much moral character but with him it's being 'logical' and doing things 'intelligently'. I just humor him or if I'm not feeling like it I quietly and gently disengage from the conversation and I don't give his behavior space in my life. Whenever I continue with my point it makes everything worse and can turn into an argument. He's a very efficient man when it comes to machines but he has no idea how to deal with people. …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/22 12:13 AM
1	How to help him work out / lose weight without nagging? My husband takes awful pictures of me and I have always found it funny. I always ask him who that fat woman is, or I make fun of his photography skills, as how could he not make me look skinny, tall and blonde? I never thought he could be sending me a message. I mean I still don't think he is, as he is very direct, but the nonetheless her husband might even be aware of the way he looks and he just doesn't care. Maybe he's in denial and it could work.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/22 12:03 AM
2	Ladies, what’s your wardrobe like? I tend to wear modest clothing. I like my skirts to either be just over the knee to ankle length. I have very large bust and I avoid showing cleavage. I wouldn't wear a tank top unless it was a layering piece. If I wear leggings I wear a long top that covers my butt. I will not have my bra on display. In summer it will either be a midi or maxi dress or loose cropped pants or Bermuda shorts with a blouse. I usually wear sandals or ballet flats. In winter or when it's not hot I like mom jeans or l…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/22 11:54 PM
2	Boyfriend told me to “find someone else” during an argument. I think I know what strategy to use to handle this but want advice. Feel like here is the only place I’ll get useful advice that isn’t “DuMp HiM” Feeling hot makes me angry, I lash out at everyone. I'm the hot one in my marriage, my husband is always cold and he's always turning the heat up. I always find myself feeling really impatient and asocial all of a sudden, then I realize that I am hot and I'm sweating and that he's turned the heat up. The last thing I want is anyone touching me. In the summer my temper is much shorter in general, I really have to try and keep myself in check and do whatever I can to keep cool. Your boyfriend coul…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/22 11:34 PM
1	My doctor just discouraged me from having another child My kids are 3 and a half and 15 months. I have never taken them to be checked over because I know that they are healthy. I don't want to be told there is something wrong with them or me when there isn't. I wouldn't share my personal life decisions with a doctor. Doctors often like to find problems when there aren't any and a lot of them have a god complex. Their income literally relies on telling people they are sick and cajoling and traumatizing people when they are not. Doctors are for sick or…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/22 12:43 AM
2	My husband doesn’t find any older women attractive and it scares me. When you hit menopause your sex drive will likely disappear. By the time men are 60 their sex drives also become lower. Over half of them have erection problems without taking a pill. Neither of you will be thinking much about sex when you are menopausal and he's an elderly man. You will be focused on companionship and growing older together. I would actually be way more concerned that he will be able to keep up with you in the next few years. As men age it doesn't matter if a hot young woman is…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/22 12:33 AM
1	being fat makes me hate taking care of myself or being social, what can i do to improve? Obesity is really common nowadays. Most of the world maybe apart from some parts of Asia and Africa has an obesity problem. You aren't an anomaly. If it upsets you that much you will have to just eat less food and lose weight. Keeping it off is an enormous challenge. I can tell you as someone who struggles with weight. It's a lifelong battle. Especially in our society where we have more food around us than we know what to do with, those genes that predispose a lot of us to obesity are activated.…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/22 01:15 PM
1	Man's the asshole for asking his wife to dress up for one date night I never dress up in uncomfortable clothes. I don't own a pair of heels. I would never wear heels or a pair of thongs for anyone. I don't own any perfume. That's why I chose a man who thinks thay stuff is just as impractical as I do.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/22 12:58 PM
1	What do you guys think? I think if women don't want certain kinds of attention they should dress modestly. I think it's inappropriate for a 26 year old married woman to be showing her body to lots of men. Saying that it's not really her sister's business and it's between the sister and the husband.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/22 12:56 PM
1	My husband spent $850 on a riding lawn mower last week. Today he greenlit over $2,000 in new appliances for me. Getting household appliances is my favorite type of gift. Anything more efficient that makes my life easier.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/22 12:50 PM
6	Would women be happier if they stopped thinking about themselves/perfecting themselves for the “male gaze” or if they improved their lives to be deemed attractive by men? I think it's important to be with a man who likes your appearance (along with you liking his). I'm with a man who likes chubby, large chested women with round faces. He also prefers pale white women like me. Although I may not be everyone's type. Do whatever is in your comfort zone to be more attractive to the man in your life. I mean I have been wanting short hair, but because my husband doesn't like it, I wear it just past my shoulders and wouldn't have it all cut off. I also got lighter brown…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/22 12:48 PM
1	What do you do if you hate your friends BF? Just be a friend and just give her an ear to vent to. You have no obligation to give her advice and she has no obligation to take it. You are being far too personally drawn into this situation. Stop believing that you need to invest yourself in her and just because you hang out with her and let her vent to you that you have some entitlement to tell her what to do with her life. If and when she is ready she will leave him. It's entirely her responsibility. It's also completely up to you if you ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 09:47 PM
10	What do you all think of open relationships? I think people in our modern western culture put far too much importance on sex. They are obsessed with sex and they are incredibly hedonistic. Sex is supposed to a procreative or loving connection between a husband and wife. This desire for open relationships is just a reflection of people becoming too sexualized. They are willing to play with people's lives and hearts and spread diseases for the sake of their selfish gratification. If any man feels this way he seriously needs Jesus. If you ope…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 09:41 PM
1	Vulnerability is the driving force of connection My husband was raised in a family where people just didn't share their emotions. His parents were immigrants from china and his mother was raised by an aunt because her parents were too poor. The aunt beat her and she was never hugged. She confessed to me that she never hugged my husband because she didn't know what a hug was. She married his dad for money, not for love and his dad never showed his wife any affection, he was also a violent man. No one in his house ever talked about feelings. My …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 09:33 PM
1	Vulnerability is the driving force of connection People can't cry at will, it's an involuntary response to negative emotions, so I don't think that's a viable explanation. I think some men just can't cope with the burden of a woman's emotions, especially if it doesn't align with their own interests or if that woman wants more than a man feels he can give. Many men also don't understand female emotions and feel like they are an alien concept, which makes it difficult to empathize. I also don't understand what a person's race has anything to do …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 09:22 PM
2	What are your rules for a woman? What standards do you hold yourself to that might differ from men’s? I definitely pay more attention to the clothes I wear and the way I style myself. I own a lot of outfits. I'm not what most people would call conventionally attractive and I have a casual style but I make an effort to look put together and to wear cute things. I prefer men who are hygienic (there is nothing worse than a man who thinks it's 'gay' to care whether or not he has oozing blackheads on his face and doesn't clean his butt properly or use soap or deodorant) of course but have better thin…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/22 12:34 AM
1	Starting to become afraid of having kids, because I'll be an older mom (30F) 30 is average age to have kids. Most women are very fertile throughout the whole of their 30s. Low infant mortality actually means that most women can start a family at 30 and have at least 3-4 children and that's when breastfeeding. If you got pregnant every year or two throughout your 30s you would have an average of about 5 or 6 children. If you want to do more research google Jean Twenge. She debunked the whole 'fertility falls off a cliff at 35' garbage.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/22 12:26 AM
3	Vulnerability is the driving force of connection I was inclined to believe this before but when I was single and dating vulnerability seemed to scare men off in a very big way. I tried being more vulnerable after reading fascinating womanhood and I followed the advice and it didn't make men any more attracted to me. In fact it made men lose respect for me. Men hate seeing women cry or talk about what worries them or share personal things with them in my experience. They tend to withdraw when women behave this way. My husband is like a robot an…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/22 12:20 AM
1	Is it possible for one of us to be healthy while the other is terribly unhealthy? I have definitely had this struggle with my husband. I recently gave up junk food as my first step to being focused on my health but he definitely still brings it into the house. Sometimes it's hard to resist and I have had some setbacks. Recently I had a nasty fall and really injured my ankle which has inspired me to lose some weight. I have also been having tailbone pain and I would like another baby within the next year. I want my pregnancy to be as smooth and as comfortable as possible. Thin…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/22 11:28 PM
2	How do you know your value as a woman, RPW? What is the ideal woman? The ideal woman turns to God for guidance. The ideal woman is a good person to the best of her abilities, just like the ideal man. The ideal woman serves her purpose as a wife and mother, however it takes two to make a marriage work. If you don't marry a good, responsible man with a good heart who follows god then he won't bring out the best in you no matter how good you are. The only focus you should have on your body is to be physically healthy. Many of us have struggles in terms of this that …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/22 11:14 PM
2	Crotch Goblin ~ Fur Babies People have become enamored with consumerism and finding their identities within the things they buy. They have also wandered away from religion which teaches things such as the importance of family and marriage. People have started naval gazing and they believe they can become their own messiah. Everyone thinks they are special and unique. It's not good enough just to be 'middle of the road' anymore. People are afraid of the smallest bit of stress or hardship. The idea of children isn't 'fun' f…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/22 10:58 PM
4	Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman. This is beyond disgusting. I would march into the room with a super soaker full of ketchup and launch it at them when 'Molly' was in the middle of faking it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 10:35 AM
0	A father has said he is shattered after the courts in Poland ruled that his wife, who took their young children from this jurisdiction five years ago, can keep the children in Poland. Irish courts allowed wife to bring children on holiday but she kept them there. Poland in general doesn't like children to be extradited by the family courts, especially to western countries. In fact it's become somewhat of a refuge for families facing bent child welfare officials and some families have even won refugee status. I don't think this is related to feminism.	/r/AntiFeminists	28/10/21 10:29 AM
1	Keeping Our Love Life Private From Friends/Family Your friend sounds jealous of your relationship. As soon as jealousy enters a friendship it instantly becomes toxic. I recently ended my friendship with a woman I have known for years because of passive aggressive jealousy and competition on her part. She started making subtle jibes at me over absolutely everything. She would quiz me about my personal business all the time and then make these comments that were not outright aggressive but not exactly something you say to someone whose feelings y…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 06:28 PM
1	PSA on dressing for your age and place in life. What I have finally learned as a socially clueless woman (long) I definitely think that women are criticized, but it's far more passive aggressive. As a woman it's like you are expected to guess what everyone expects of you and there are all these unwritten rules because whilst women are apparently to fragile to have things spelled out to them, they can apparently read minds and guess every expectation of them, whereas for men we just spell it out and tell it like it is. There is definitely some degree of infantilization when it comes to women, yes. There is…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 06:18 PM
2	PSA on dressing for your age and place in life. What I have finally learned as a socially clueless woman (long) I did say that some degree of following trends is a positive thing for every age, just don't let them dominate your wardrobe.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/21 10:26 AM
2	PSA on dressing for your age and place in life. What I have finally learned as a socially clueless woman (long) I don't think that 30 is particularly old, but it's way past the age where you are expecting to start really 'adulting'. Young people wear those clothes to find status among their peers. There is no reason for a 30 year old woman or man to try and impress people who are young enough to go to high school or college. I guess this is my opinion. I would feel silly in a bucket hat. I do however like the slightly looser fitting jeans, you won't see me dead in skinnies (although I do like leggings) be…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/21 10:21 AM
2	PSA on dressing for your age and place in life. What I have finally learned as a socially clueless woman (long) I agree I'm really not a fan on the neon hair. I no longer live in the UK and you rarely see it where I am now, but when I last visited the UK it was everywhere. On the subject of children's shoes, it's better to avoid them for various reasons. I was a size 38 (European sizing) before having children and I remember when I used to buy sneakers from ebay. An annoying thing that sellers like to do is to try and pass children's shoes off as women's. This isn't a problem for me anymore since my feet …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/10/21 06:57 PM
1	PSA on dressing for your age and place in life. What I have finally learned as a socially clueless woman (long) I definitely have quite broad shoulders, at least compared to my lower body, I'm an apple/inverted triangle. I was always under impression that petite means short and being short makes people small proportioned, not necessarily slim or delicate. When I said shoulder length I meant anywhere from shoulder down to about the collarbones. I had mine cut to about collarbone length. I probably should have just said mid length.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/10/21 06:40 PM
1	Will my appearance affect men's attraction or liking towards me? Short hair was common in regular, feminine women up until the 00s. Just look at Princess Diana. It was common for teenage girls to get a short bob or a pixie. My teenage sister had a pixie in the 90s and her friends had chin length bobs. Flapper girls had short hair. Marilyn Monroe and Audrey Hepburn had short hair. Now it's not mainstream and fashionable to have short hair. It's either grandmas who are holding onto old fashioned styles or women who are gender non conforming. The connotations ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/21 12:28 AM
7	Dangers of clinical psychology infected by feminism: the profile of the modern woman forced into the minds of patients This is why I don't bother with therapists. They often have their own agenda and it gets in the way of them being professional. Having someone with authority talk down your aspirations like that is not going to help your psychological state.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/21 02:04 PM
1	This is how feminist think we should treat female criminals You can technically be sent to a mental facility directly after the crime if you are very obviously psychotic.	/r/AntiFeminists	10/10/21 01:23 AM
16	This is how feminist think we should treat female criminals She should spend the rest of her life in jail, unless she was genuinely psychotic in which she should be placed in a secure hospital facility. I would have the same opinion if a psychotic man harmed someone in this manner. Not to mention how horrible this is for a 2 year old boy to die this way, but I feel really terrible for the people out shopping that day and the people working in the supermarket. No doubt they have some trauma from it. I think people forget that men have all the same trauma …	/r/AntiFeminists	09/10/21 03:21 PM
2	Why are feminist so salty about this? Laurel Hubbard: Transgender weightlifter named sportswoman of the year. Women and people who are biologically male have different sports teams for logical and rational reasons. This person has been exposed to testosterone for 35 years. They have no place in women's sports regardless of what pronouns this person uses. From my standpoint this has nothing to do with hatred of men.	/r/AntiFeminists	08/10/21 04:12 PM
4	This type informative graphics, backed on science, that show serious social issues, are very important. Not low effort ranting about women behavior etc. - this is unhelpful. Women-are-wonderful affect is one of main reason why society is biased toward women. I know that when Lisa Montgomery was executed there was a giant uproar about how she was severely abused as a child, the same with Aileen Wournos. I have never seen that sort of campaigning for a man on death row, despite the fact that violent male criminals also often have histories of the same trauma. Ultimately both women did end up getting the death penalty but if they were men I guess there wouldn't even be a backlash.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/10/21 11:15 AM
1	Solution to our problems with feminism ? Western Europe has a very similar family law system to the USA. It still heavily profits off of divorce and separating families. Divorce is heavily encouraged at any sign of marital discord and the state essentially has a lot of authority over your children.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/10/21 10:55 AM
8	This type informative graphics, backed on science, that show serious social issues, are very important. Not low effort ranting about women behavior etc. - this is unhelpful. Women-are-wonderful affect is one of main reason why society is biased toward women. I think this effect usually applies more to women who are simultaneously young, attractive, white and middle class.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/10/21 10:52 AM
1	Solution to our problems with feminism ? Maybe marry a woman outside the USA if you feel that way. I think you need to work on yourself so you don't carry your anger into a marriage if that's what you choose to do.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/10/21 10:36 AM
0	Solution to our problems with feminism ? Those women are lonely and bitter and they blame everything on men. You are doing exactly the same thing vice versa. Yes dating is BS for young adults today, but if you look hard enough and stop feeling completely bitter towards the opposite sex you will find someone with the same values.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/10/21 12:57 AM
0	Solution to our problems with feminism ? Again, breeding applies to animals, not humans. It's not only vulgar but it's an incorrect term. Humans are not animals and we don't exist in captivity. You have to have value to someone in life, whether you provide company, labor, marriage, children, friendship, money, knowledge, physical care ect. You can't get just get by on existing, everyone has to give as well as take. You are not automatically entitled to things just for existing.	/r/AntiFeminists	07/10/21 12:01 AM
0	Solution to our problems with feminism ? Feminism and modern western values in general has lowered the birth rate to below replacement levels, so developed countries are bringing in migrants for that reason. In many countries welfare payments are actually higher than the low wages paid by service jobs and manual labor, so instead of citizens doing those jobs migrants come over to do them. We end up with whole, marginalized communities reliant on government money. In some countries like the UK industry has been globalized, so the jobs t…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/10/21 11:18 PM
1	I'm 15 want to be a housewife, I feel really isolated and everyone at school is bullying me Do you live in the UK? The UK is woke central. Being 'cisheteronormative' and right leaning or libertarian over there is like a crime and parents have no authority and everything is abuse, sexist, racist, transphobic. I moved away to raise my children as soon as I had the chance. I couldn't breathe. I'm devastated that this is my ancestral homeland.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/21 06:10 PM
-1	For the Old Ladies - Sex & Marriage Wait until you are nursing and looking after small children, or you have gone through menopause, or you have a situation which is very stressful. Most women find their sex drive takes a hit. I think a higher sex drive is typical when you are young and have fewer responsibilities, but it's well known that with age and time and more responsibilities women don't think about sex nearly as much as men do on average. If that's not you then congratulations, but it's the norm. It's even a cliche at this…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/21 06:03 PM
1	For the Old Ladies - Sex & Marriage I never said that women are never enthusiastic about sex, however most women will go for long periods every now and then where they don't want it. This is a normal part of being female. Men don't go through this, generally.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/21 05:04 PM
1	For the Old Ladies - Sex & Marriage Pornography still existed in the early 00s. Men still looked at magazines and watched VHS and late night porn on television. There was still this modern notion that women had to have the sexual appetite of men to be 'worthy lovers'. I don't think women should be forced to act and pretend to be overly enthusiastic. Women have much lower sex drives than men on average, especially when childbearing. I think we need to accept the differences between men and women in this regard and not project a mal…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/21 04:59 PM
1	How do you make a house into a home? Soft blankets and textures. I'm not really much of a person that enjoys lot of frivolous ornaments but I like my home to be comfortable.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/21 04:30 PM
1	For the Old Ladies - Sex & Marriage There is this modern notion that sex is all about fun and pleasure and excitement and I wholly disagree. I as a woman don't think I actually need to orgasm. I am not saying I have never had one, I don't think they are amazing. For me it's like eating candyfloss at the funfair, it's mildly pleasurable, sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't, but I don't need candyfloss to enjoy the rides. In fact I think too many orgasms and fixation purely on one's sexual pleasure an orgasm addiction can tur…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/21 04:19 PM
8	Why would a woman have almost entirely male friends? I have Aspergers and I don't make friends that easily. The few people who do tend to get along with me are more likely to be male. I don't feel sexual attraction that often and I'm not exactly beating men off with a stick, although I haven't had issues dating and finding a husband. I tend to end up surrounded by awkward or nerdy men. I have had female friends but usually something has happened to end that friendship. Recently I blocked a woman I was presumably close friends with for 5 years beca…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 11:53 AM
2	What shoes do you wear in the fall/winter? I love puma basket hearts. They come in different colorways and they have ribbon or thick rope laces that tie into a large bow. I own them in nude pink and black. I can't wear shoes that aren't specifically comfort shoes or sneakers because I have problems with my feet and other joints.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/21 11:37 AM
1	Update: Dating an older guy 40s and 50s is barely any age difference.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/21 12:29 PM
17	hypocrisy I think there is a lot of denial that men can also be just as insecure about their physical appearance. On top of that men have to have charisma to attract most women. As a woman I am ugly, fat and shy and never had problems finding a husband. I think women have dating easier, maybe it's because I like awkward men and I'm not that emotionally sensitive.	/r/AntiFeminists	01/10/21 02:40 PM
3	Define “Femininity”, “Feminine Energy” and what that looks like in detail. For me it's about being the one that comes back down to earth and thinks about everyone's physical comfort and basic daily needs in any given situation. I'm always the one who considers what food we are going to eat, what clothes we are going to wear, what blankets we are going to sleep under, the laundry, the dishes, the cleanliness of our living space. I create that practical space for my family so everyone can go about their daily lives. I remember little things about everyone which factor in…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/21 04:00 PM
5	Responding gracefully to conviction from men I find if someone talks like that the best way to respond is not to. Just say "you do you" or "the culture is a bit different where I'm from". Don't think that you always have to defend yourself all the time. You will never make everybody happy.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/21 03:52 PM
1	Do most straight men ogle at other women and/or watch porn? Yes, unfortunately this is reality. Just tell the man you are with to keep it completely private and that you don't want to know anything.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/21 03:12 PM
1	my quality of life is better when I weigh less…if youre thinking of losing weight DO IT When I have been larger I'm just invisible in public. No one cares about me or what I'm doing and I like it that way. It's probably not the healthiest way to feel but I like it when people leave me alone. I don't particularly want to be with a man that is considered high quality either. I like dorky men who are awkward with women. I am with a man that other women don't particularly find attractive but I like him. He earns well and he's very responsible but he has no social or people skills. Me a…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/21 03:06 PM
0	Have you noticed women insist they don’t prefer toxic men and complain about jerks but then post memes like this? My paternal grandmother at least was a very happy woman. She was a housewife and a mother of 4 who loved being surrounded by family. She loved her small dogs and used to love grooming them. My other grandma was content with life but she was very neurotic and preferred her own company. She always worked different jobs and enjoyed her independence and was married 3 times. I don't think it's fair to say that women were always unhappy in the past. Maybe some were but then plenty are unhappy today as…	/r/AntiFeminists	27/09/21 02:08 PM
21	We need to ban feminists on the sub just like they do to us Unlike them we allow freedom of speech and an open dialogue. You can't change people's minds or make them open to new ideas by living in an echo chamber.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 02:51 PM
1	This seems super illegal This person is trolling. If a man is unconscious on ketamine he's not going to be able to obtain an erection or ejaculate, or his erections will be weak and short lived at best. She said she 'rode him as many times as possible'. Most men can ejaculate a maximum of two times in a night. The second time will generally take a lot longer than the first. This troll is probably a virgin. Apparently she also timed this night perfectly with her ovulation date so she could concieve. The stars just aligne…	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 01:11 AM
1	Have you noticed women insist they don’t prefer toxic men and complain about jerks but then post memes like this? I think that the biggest issue in our society is that there is no intergenerational input. Women don't hear from their mothers and grandmothers about what they need to look for in a man. They are not told to think about the future and where they will be when they are old. When women are young especially they can be bought by charisma and charm. Many young women these days are also not looking to have children or thinking about children, so why would a man need traits that make him a good father?…	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 01:01 AM
1	This Woman Having A Panic Attack Over A Guy Telling Her She Would Look Better With A Smile On Her Face Telling a stranger to smile is rude and nosy but it's not something one can't laugh off. Just tell them you are miserable because you found out today that you have terminal cancer. Then when you see the look on their face tell them it was a joke.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:54 AM
1	This is so "empowering" 😂 Societies ultimately end up embracing those things because they see them as progress and that's why they always fail. We should learn from the past.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:50 AM
2	This is so "empowering" 😂 Societies that are obsessed with casual sex and individualism always fail.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:46 AM
1	Feminism is not about equality. It's about female supremacy. Particularly supremacy for middle class, liberal women. The type that is well liked on Mumsnet. If you are the wrong type of woman then feminists want to see you burn just like they do men.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:39 AM
1	This is so "empowering" 😂 You need Jesus	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:37 AM
2	This is so "empowering" 😂 It represents a downfall in society. People no longer believe in morality or God and people are obsessed with their own self image.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:37 AM
1	This is so "empowering" 😂 I am from the UK (I don't live there anymore) and last time I visited 80% of young people had tattoos, trashy clothes and neon hair.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:31 AM
1	This is so "empowering" 😂 Spiritually and cognitively we are above animals. Although yes sex differences definitely exist. Your post sounds vulgar. If you want to attract a nice woman it's best not to talk like that. Oral sex is a product of pornography and modern hookup culture, I don't think men or women should expect it from their spouse.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:28 AM
2	This is so "empowering" 😂 I can't get behind tattoos and trying to look like you have an attitude. I don't find this look attractive on men, either. I don't know why it's so popular for both sexes.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:22 AM
6	Why do feminists dress their sons up like girls? They are brainwashed by the woke mob and they are doing it virtue signal and elevate their social status.	/r/AntiFeminists	19/09/21 12:19 AM
1	My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical" I have noticed that we live in a society where women are somehow not allowed to be objectively critical of themselves and they are not allowed to self depricate. If you are a woman who admits any type of shortcoming people perceive you as having low self esteem. You have to somehow believe you are this wonderful and ethereal being who is amazing and deserves a trophy just for existing. It doesn't seem to register with people that you can see and talk comfortably about your own shortcomings and s…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/21 04:53 PM
33	Caption this...? Some people really shouldn't be drinking any alcohol.	/r/AntiFeminists	11/09/21 07:26 PM
1	My boyfriend of 6 months is on the verge of abuse when it comes to my diet; yet is very charming and affectionate at the same time. How would you react? It sounds like he's on a very strict diet and wants you to take part and needs to try and be a little less overbearing and more considerate of others. You need to let him know that you don't wish to take part in his diet all the time. You also need to let him know that you felt a little embarrassed when he was impolite to your friend.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/21 05:00 PM
-4	Friendly reminder for all women I'll let you have the last word if it really makes you that happy.	/r/AntiFeminists	08/09/21 07:22 PM
-7	Friendly reminder for all women Why should I listen to you? Lol. Go away you big baby.	/r/AntiFeminists	08/09/21 07:20 PM
-9	Friendly reminder for all women By the looks of it I'm not the one who needs a safe space.	/r/AntiFeminists	08/09/21 07:18 PM
2	Is an ex-fat girl at a disadvantage? The challenge isn't losing the weight, the challenge is keeping it off. Most fat people become fat again. I lost weight twice, once in my late teens and again in my 20s and both times it stayed off for a year. I met a man who likes women who carry some extra weight. He doesn't have the healthiest lifestyle himself although he weighs less than I do. If you are fat you will likely attract men who hate being physically active and drink lots of soda. That's something to consider. It will likely beco…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/21 06:26 PM
2	Age difference in relationships I definitely wouldn't go out and search for a man outside my generation. Age gap relationships have a much poorer prognosis statistically. If you do meet someone with an age difference and you fall in love with that person I'm not saying never to give it a go, but I would be wary.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/21 06:21 PM
5	Friendly reminder for all women I think the lastest generations have gone soft. What does abuse even mean anymore? The term has been diluted so much to the point where if someone says they have/had an abusive partner I don't know whether or not I believe them. If I make fun of my partner? Me and my husband make fun of one another all the time. I don't want to be married to someone who I can't make fun of and won't make fun of me. He has me listed on his phone as fatty and I make fun of him for being a geek. Most relationships …	/r/AntiFeminists	08/09/21 06:13 PM
4	Please someone help me figure out what this I’m begging you It looks like the body of someone who is very obese and isn't wearing a whole lot of clothing.	/r/AntiFeminists	08/09/21 06:02 PM
5	Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women? She's very slow and just seems a little strange. I don't know why she married him. He was her mother's boyfriend and she met him when she was 7 and apparently first had sex with him at 16 (legal age where she lived). I find the whole thing weird but it's not my business.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/21 11:15 PM
23	Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women? I don't think it's jealousy. I think most people are genuinely disgusted when they see a much older person with a younger person. Just look at the 90 day fiance unsensored sub, women with younger men get called disgusting just as much as vice versa. Even in cultures where girls are married off to older men, it's done as a last resort when there are no younger suitors available and it's done because of desperate poverty. Historically marriages with really big age gaps have never been the average.…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/21 03:18 PM
3	New here! Truely have a question so please don't jump down my throat if I phrase something incorrectly or used the wrong flair. Are ugly women allowed to be RPW? I know it sounds clichè but I don't think looks are the most important thing in the world. Being beautiful has its privileges but it also has it's downsides. I kind of like being invisible, but yet I have had zero problems attracting men and finding a husband and having children. I hear about women being cat called and hollered at every time they go outside and being bothered on a regular basis and I wouldn't want to deal with that. I like it when no one pays attention to me when I walk down the…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/21 03:03 PM
57	Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women? Most men end up with women within their own age group. Just under 1% of newborns in the united states are born to men over 50 so it's not like older men are regularly settling down with pre menopausal women. I wouldn't listen to men in the red pill. A lot of them have their own emotional pain and grievances towards women. I have actually seen many of the same men who complain about 'the wall' talk about 'sexy milfs' in a different conversation. It's like my father, he used to make fun of fat wom…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/21 02:50 PM
15	Hippie communities and fake sex positivity? I think this sort of lifestyle is disgusting, personally. People who behave that way have absolutely no morals. We are not animals, we are human beings, we are above animals spiritually and cognitively. We understand morals. Taking morals away from society like this makes us sick. I would get away from these people and never look back.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/21 05:15 PM
0	Speechless That's 100% true but India has a really high mortality rate within the general population because of poor public health conditions and disease. 20,000 people are dying of rabies every year. Dead bodies float openly in rivers, in a lot of public places there are crowds of street dogs and no garbage disposal. I'm definitely not looking down on Indian people or saying that they are bad, but generally they have it pretty tough compared to a lot of people in the world. For example I don't have to wor…	/r/AntiFeminists	29/08/21 12:22 PM
2	Speechless I never meant to be offensive toward indian people, I'm just saying that India is a country where people face a lot of hardship. 20,000 rabies cases a year in humans is an example of that.	/r/AntiFeminists	29/08/21 12:10 PM
9	When a lesbian engages in "toxic masculinity" Radical feminists are kind of terrifying to be honest. They don't just hate men, they also hate women who don't hate men and will throw them under the bus to support their cause by any means possible. Radical feminists even hold occupational positions where they rule over and subjugate marginalized women and try to pick up new recruits. Many of them do jobs like social work, teaching, probation, the legal system ect where they have plenty of access to people whose lives they can control. The ide…	/r/AntiFeminists	29/08/21 04:44 AM
6	FDS : Female serial killer is a hero apparently The first killing she committed may have been justified. Apparently she killed a man who was extremely violent towards her and who raped her. This is a common occupational hazard for prostitutes so although there is no concrete evidence of this situation taking place I don't disbelieve her. However she went onto murder many innocent men after the fact, ones which she admitted were not in any way violent towards her and simply just intended to pay her for regular non violent sex. It's as if she d…	/r/AntiFeminists	29/08/21 03:36 AM
20	Women of tiktok are listing themselves as vehicles to attract buyers in the "previous owner" trend. And they're flat out LYING about their mileage. When we use the car metaphor it's objectifying, but when they use it it's fun times. Maybe it's cause we refer to the TRUE miles on these "vehicles". What I find the most disturbing is that these girls are talking about themselves like they are not even people. From a socio political point of view I don't think there has ever been a worse time for teenagers. I wouldn't even allow my daughter to use a platform like TikTok.	/r/AntiFeminists	28/08/21 07:50 PM
83	Speechless People from India have way more to complain about that the shape of coca cola bottles. Lmao. In other news this girl has never seen an actual dick.	/r/AntiFeminists	28/08/21 07:31 PM
3	Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together? I think the internet is to quick to label anyone who seems just a bit dysfunctional narcissistic. I do think this guy at best is definitely emotionally immature and has a very poor response to stressful emotions.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 08:26 PM
1	Bothered watching red pill YouTube Have you seen most of the men in the 'red pill'? A YouTuber called the CBP channel has done a few exposès on them. Most of them are single, lonely middle aged men who live alone and have a lot of personal pain and grievances toward women. Most of them are not exactly living the life they claim to live. I would honestly recommend you look up The CBP channel on YouTube He's made a number of documentaries on the manosphere. This man himself isn't a feminist and he's been involved in the community h…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 04:26 PM
4	Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together? It sounds like you both have a lot of painful emotions. It also sounds like he's a person who uses conflict to deal with his.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 04:10 PM
2	How to handle your boyfriend following women on Instagram? I agree that this is distateful. Especially on your main account that your partner and everyone else can see. I would ask that he at least kept this separate from his main account and that he doesn't embarrass you like this. If you ask him to stop he might stop or look at these images in secret. This is a possibility that you will have to live with if you want to stay with him. Most men unfortunately look at images of women online and even some degree of pornography. It's not something I or most…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 04:07 PM
8	Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together? It sounds like he's jealous. You would probably be just as jealous if he had slept with another woman during that time. Jealousy is normal in relationships, it's how it's handled. He sounds like he can't handle the way he feels. However he needs to understand that it would be much worse if you did this when the two of you were still together. You were separated at this point. You didn't technically cheat on him regardless of what this man's opinion is on casual sex. Him saying he has 'a free pas…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 03:59 PM
3	My bf went camping with another woman. Why were you not invited at least? Odd.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/21 08:01 PM
2	Husband is distant (realised how badly I treated him). I think to be content in this marriage you are going to have to realize that your husband doesn't process love and emotions like you do. Like another comment said you sound like an emotional pursuer and your husband sounds emotionally withdrawn. You will have to find an outlet to pursue your emotions which is not your husband. Maybe put that outlet into being a mom, working for a charity or volunteering, caring for the elderly, finding like minded female friends ect. You will just have to accept…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/21 11:02 AM
11	8 personal skills all feminine ladies should develop One very important thing I want to mention, All of this is useless and even detrimental unless you also have a foundation which is assertive and understands and sticks to your own personal boundaries and convictions. Time and time again I see women embodying these traits but yet they attract and give to the wrong people who take advantage of their willingness to please and they end up in a situation which isn't good. You have to put yourself first, then you have the room to be generous and givin…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/21 09:38 AM
0	Should I bother continuing to date until I've lost all the weight I need to? Every woman you ever get with is going to piss you off at some point. Most relationships and marriages have some element of disagreement and conflict. Most married couples have times where they say unkind things to one another. That's why the divorce rate is 50%. Staying married to someone takes dedication. You got with someone when you were less experienced and you didn't like them, the relationship came to an end in two weeks because it was inevitable either way. You wouldn't make the same mis…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 04:11 AM
1	Should I bother continuing to date until I've lost all the weight I need to? I don't agree that people often settle for someone they don't actually find attractive. For that kind of relationship to develop there has to be at least some romantic attraction there. You avoid fat women because they don't appeal to you, not because you don't want to be unkind to them. I'm not saying you do want to be unkind to them but nothing would ever happen either way.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 03:37 AM
1	How much does your SO being "objectively" attractive matter to you? It doesn't matter to me at all. I wouldn't call myself objectively attractive so who am I to be that picky? I just have to find said man attractive.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 01:40 AM
1	How do you deal with the feeling of " but I deserve better" when it comes to settling down with a man? Think about whether your concerns are valid or not. No woman should have to date a violent drug addict who won't hold down any type of job for example. No woman should have to date a man who won't wash his butt crack or is addicted to video games. You also have to have some romantic attraction for the person for anything to work. However a man without faults doesn't exist, just like a woman without faults doesn't exist. You will have to accept some faults in a person.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 01:37 AM
4	Should I bother continuing to date until I've lost all the weight I need to? I don't think the women here are interested in hearing who you will 'hook up' with. The women here are looking for marriage. Talking about 'hooking up' in a woman's space like this is sleazy. We don't want to know about it.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 01:15 AM
1	Should I bother continuing to date until I've lost all the weight I need to? Here's my take and I'm going to offer a different perspective to all the other ones you see here. I'm just slightly heavier than you and it's never stopped me. I'm married to an average weight asian man who is fairly nice looking and earns well (but dresses like a slob lol) He does however have a terrible diet and is addicted to soda, but he just doesn't get fat. If you are fat the men who get with you will vary in appearance and success but they are unlikely to care about their own health. In f…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 01:14 AM
1	Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era. I don't care about women walking around in their underwear on TV or what they look like as I am not every man's sex object. I know this is what a lot of women aspire to be nowadays and I don't agree with it, personally. I feel sad for the most recent generations as women are treated like public property. I think the lastest women's fashions are made to showcase women as public sexual objects. Victoria's secret is a good example of this. It's soft pornography. All that matters to me is that I hav…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/21 09:45 PM
2	When should I marry and how big should the age gap be? I would be wary of dating much older men. Don't completely exclude the possibility but don't deliberately go for older men seeking out younger women, especially if they have been divorced. The best success in a marriage comes from when a man is 2-3 years older than the woman. Large age gaps have never been the most common pairing. Ignore people who tell you it's 'natural'. I have looked at my ancestors all the way back to the 1700s in some cases and men were usually around the same age as women …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/21 09:31 PM
2	Tomboy dress I figure this is about practicality and physical comfort. Women's clothing really doesn't have to be uncomfortable. In fact comfortable women's clothes are more light, airy and comfortable than men's. You can swap jeans for leggings or bike shorts or some paperbag pants or shorts. You can swap tshirts for simple dresses and blouses. The good news is that you can wear sneakers with absolutely anything. I suggest you go to a clothing store and try things which catch your eye. Don't be afraid of fa…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/21 09:23 PM
9	He keeps bringing up my past Re-read everything you just wrote to us and think about it. He's unemployed and you do everything for him. He is in a relationship where he can't accept some things said woman did in her life before she was with him, but instead of saying "this doesn't bode with my moral compass" and looking elsewhere he's remaining with you and constantly having these explosions of jealousy. Explosive jealousy is a huge red flag. Men who can't control their jealousy are known to turn violent. He's made himself …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/21 09:12 PM
13	I can’t wrap my head around why I should have to clean for a man (not feminism) As a SAHM I actually get a lot of down time. I get a lot more than my husband does during the day when he's working and I don't have to get up early. I wouldn't expect him to help me keep the house clean and I wouldn't ask him to cook. There are certain things he voluntarily contributes towards but I would never put pressure on him. However if I was working I would want to split chores and parenting completely. This wouldn't work for us because my husband is awful at doing anything remotely dome…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/07/21 03:40 AM
3	I feel that my parents destroyed a lot of my value Move away and start afresh. Get to know new people and leave your past behind. I haven't spoken to my parents or any of my immediate family for many years. It's not a light decision but I came to the realization that they would never care about me and would never be there when I needed them. I also felt like I had to cut them off to begin again. I had to separate myself from the beliefs that they had about me and had instilled in me. I had some very bad things happen to me in my 20s, I realized …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/21 02:14 AM
27	How to be Lovely: A Guide to Attracting a Wonderful Man I think this thread is a little bit ridiculous. I can't put it any other way. I'll take my downvotes. You are talking about cultivating a false persona, not just about improving oneself based upon who you already are and attracting your compatible male counterpart and fostering a fulfilling marriage or relationship. This is why I think a lot of people in red pill spheres are socially impaired. PUAs do the same thing. They assume the things that the women that they personally desire want in a man…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/21 04:37 AM
6	Men Are Kind When I was 11 years old I was being deliberately followed by a creepy adult man. When I tried to walk past him he stood in the middle of the street so I couldn't. I ran in the opposite direction and hid in a shop doorway. An older indian man and a man with red hair approached me and saw that I looked distressed. They both walked me back to my house and made sure I was OK.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/07/21 12:25 AM
1	Women should plan for a future without a partner. There are far too many men in china and India compared to women. How about traditionally minded women get with these men instead of western men? A lot of men from these countries don't have all the same problems with pornography and alcohol and drug addiction. If you don't want a man who is explosive and violent just find a man with gentle temperament. Just a thought. Be aware though that a lot of men from more conservative countries have this idea what western women are sex crazed and just want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 06:46 PM
2	What to do when a man complains? I like sitting down and having a mutual whine with someone. It gets things off my chest.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/21 03:06 PM
1	Unsure if I’m being reasonable in LTR Girl he makes a 130k salary. He must be doing something right. Maybe he's just a night owl. Maybe that's when he feels productive and he still has to sleep. Being a night owl doesn't make someone lazy or bad, being a morning or day person doesn't make you superior. Perhaps stop believing the mantra of sleeping in the night and being awake during the day otherwise a person isn't pulling their socks up. He's obviously making it work for him, you just don't like it that he's not a morning person.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/06/21 07:59 PM
1	Guy gave me an incurable Std and has blocked me, I’m angry. Are people still freaking out about herpes in this day and age? It's really not the end of the world that you have it. Just take some anti cold sore medicine if you become pregnant or experience frequent outbreaks. It could be far worse. I would personally rather catch herpes than gonorrhea or Chlamydia. These are perfectly curable and I know that herpes isn't but they can do a lot more damage to your body.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/21 12:20 AM
2	Having Career/Degree is Important to Men My husband is asian (Chinese) and I am white and I am a SAHM. I had an incredibly traumatic upbringing and early adult life. I never did anything beyond school. I spent most of my 20s in a mental health crisis. I'm not physically attractive either. I'm fat and have severely crooked teeth. My husband keeps telling me he will get them fixed but we never actually get around to it. It's not like my my physical appearance did anything. I was the one that messaged him online and the one that initiated…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/21 11:18 PM