purplehammer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Angelina Jolie walks away $80 million richer after Brad Pitt divorce Be very careful attempting to justify anything with "it's the law bro." By doing so, you are unintentionally justifying all manner of unethical and abhorrent things that were legal in the past for no other reason than that they were legal at the time. Also, the law can never be an argument for what is ethical or justifiable as the law is entirely dependent on what patch of dirt you happen to be standing upon.	/r/MensRights	04/01/25 02:53 PM
3	Online dating is pretty brutal and insane Your issue here is you are taking what that dude said personally, as if it says something true about you. What he is talking about is a generalisation, he doesn't mean that it applies to everyone and it can easily not apply to you. However it is relatively representative of the structure of OLD and is therefore an easy way to look at the likely outcome most lads will end up with.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 06:43 PM
1	'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye'' Knowwwww when to walk awayyyyy	/r/seduction	10/10/22 12:00 AM
5	'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye'' Oh yes, this is exactly the response that sort of girl needs/deserves. 🤝	/r/seduction	10/10/22 12:00 AM
1	'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye'' Re-read that rejection in the title of this post. Now do it again. Now ask yourself who in their right fucking mind would say that to someone they were even remotely attracted to? Finally ask yourself why in the world you would want to spend any of your time and effort whatsoever on the kind of girl who is so far up her own ass that she says that to someone who says hello? Even if she was the hottest girl in the bar, if she actually approached me after i witnessed her do that to another guy, my …	/r/seduction	09/10/22 11:58 PM
27	How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare??? Just hope the passenger seat isn't damp!	/r/seduction	09/10/22 12:46 AM
71	How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare??? gives him permission to put his approach anxieties aside. This is it. Give the dude a reason to lose all reasons he had to not say hello.	/r/seduction	09/10/22 12:45 AM
25	How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare??? also side question is it normal to wait until you are dating to have sex? It's whatever you want. Clearly you want the "first time" to be special so hold yourself to that standard and be proud of it, it's a who cares what other people think situation. Would guys agree to this? The kind of guy who wouldn't, is most definitely not the kind of guy you want to be around/with. What does this mean?? Means these guys are perfectly normal. Most guys will look but do nothing more. This could be due to fe…	/r/seduction	09/10/22 12:39 AM
0	trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29m Well i mean you have put that pretty fucking horrifically but there is something to be said for the advice here, specifically the note of introspection of would you be interested if a girl approached you as xyz and how its always on you. The issue is that the sort of person who could benefit from and need to hear this advice (yes likely op) will simply take it as rude and insulting.	/r/seduction	27/09/22 09:35 PM
2	trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29m Why would this be an issue to you? Presumably the people you love with are already going to be aware that you struggle with women, so why would a book designed to help you with said issue be an issue? That is assuming you are not living a lie and projecting yourself as something else ofc. I would also say don't try to live up to other peoples expectations, they don't matter. No matter who they are. Live up to your own standards and expectations for yourself.	/r/seduction	27/09/22 09:25 PM
2	Asked out a girl for the first time on Instagram yesterday, happy that I did it Believe it or not, i agree with you. But it is important to realise that not everyone learns everything at the same age. This could be the action that gets the ball rolling for OP that would've stayed stationary otherwise and thats the important bit.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 05:04 PM
3	Asked out a girl for the first time on Instagram yesterday, happy that I did it Alright mate calm down, we weren't all born perfect at everything like yourself.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 04:57 PM
3	Women, why you do that? she just treats you all like fans, nothing deeper than that. This is instagram summed up fantastically well. 👌	/r/seduction	15/09/22 05:20 PM
0	Women, why you do that? I've never had an Instagram though Me neither but i do know it is a vein self obsessed popularity contest. Its basically "my perfect life" but nobody's life actually is perfect. Comparison in this regard is the thief of joy. Beyond that having a shit ton of followers is seen as high status, this is something most girls care about a fair deal. Again, a vein self obsessed popularity contest...	/r/seduction	15/09/22 05:16 PM
24	Easily bored by everyone I meet Looking at your post history you really need to remove your head from your ass my dude. Your presuppositions about women are entirely your problem, not a problem of girls. As for the 10 body count by 20 remark, this is just laughable. Sure a (very) small minority of girls may have that but the vast majority won't. Hell i have meet many girls who were actually still virgins at 20. Im not talking fat ugly girls either, im talking normal decent looking girls who just did not want to give away somet…	/r/seduction	13/09/22 09:32 PM
70	Girls I’m dating are calling me cute "The multiple girls im dating are calling me cute" Errr... Umm... What a bizzare complaint. If ever i heard of a first world problem i reckon this is it! 🤣	/r/seduction	11/09/22 12:34 AM
1	How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager? Love this. Great words of wisdom 🤝	/r/seduction	10/09/22 05:45 PM
2	How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager? You'll drive yourself crazy focusing on comparing yourself Comparison is the thief of joy...	/r/seduction	10/09/22 05:28 PM
2	Toxic advice in the book "models" someone gets rejected several times you should just move on? Elsewhere in the book it speaks about accepting rejection also. It has been years since i listened to the audiobook but i distinctly remember a quote about "if she shuts you down, tells you to go away or similar, move on, you are wasting your time, there is 3.1 billion women on this planet, she aint worth it." Obviously im paraphrasing and that is not word for word the quote but it gives u the general jist of it. I think a big part of …	/r/seduction	10/09/22 12:30 PM
3	Toxic advice in the book "models" Look its been years since i listened to that audiobook but perhaps you just skipped over the entire section specifically called "demographics". All of the topics you mention were spoken about in the book.	/r/seduction	10/09/22 12:23 PM
7	I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed. Good god you did not just say that. Go look in a mirror and touch grass my dude. 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	05/09/22 07:42 AM
23	I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed. You and me both mate. I do find some comfort in the fact that someone who is already a couple inches taller than us feels the need to go to this length though! 🤣	/r/seduction	05/09/22 07:41 AM
1	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? I live for the day i have these such problems my friend! 🤣	/r/seduction	28/08/22 03:18 PM
3	Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10's there's always the emotions inside your mind that make your heart jump out of your chest when speaking with your crush. This will always be there, its just on you to manage your emotions and be confident in yourself. Im not built like a greek god so to speak, so Im a bit self-conscious about it. If you are self conscious about it, change it. You don't need to be built like a greek god but do remember that women will expect a high quality partner to be somewhat in shape. Think about it from your …	/r/seduction	24/08/22 08:53 PM
9	Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10's Okay so this is actually a somewhat good thing. You need to isolate your mindset when you talk to the "9-10s" and apply that to everyone you talk to, even women way older/younger than you or are already married or whatever because if you do that then you will subconsciously continue this mindset with the women you want to get with. What you are feeling is entirely natural and is the "dont want to fuck it up" mentality or some would say a "scarcity" mindset when you talk to those girls you want t…	/r/seduction	24/08/22 08:21 AM
4	Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed. haven't had sex in a year. Damnnnn son don't remind me, jezz! 🤣	/r/seduction	23/08/22 08:39 AM
10	Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed. Forget pedestal, dude is just blatantly objectifying women and using ones he aint even interested in for sex. Then is shocked when women sniff out his true intentions and character, thats not even mentioning the fact that this screams of karma to me. The feeling he is having is probably the same feeling he gave to those other girls that he wasn't interested in.	/r/seduction	23/08/22 08:37 AM
4	Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed. You can give a man fish but you can't force him to eat i suppose. 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	23/08/22 08:34 AM
13	Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed. wtf? What they are saying is you are in denial. You are being given the answers, you just dont want to hear them and deflect with saying these sort of things like "oh it only works for you because you look like brad pitt and are tall". This in itself is your own insecurity shining through. How do i know? Because i am 5'6', im not tall and i had the exact same mindset in years gone by, the "girls only like tall guys" mentality or specifically that there was no way that a girl taller than me would…	/r/seduction	23/08/22 08:32 AM
1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? This sub seems to neglect that some women indeed sleep with men they met on the same night , have casual sex etc Ofc, some do. Some women also like some seriously kinky and weird shit too. Thats why i said if you wanna be abrupt with your intentions you can but know you are playing even more of a numbers game than normal. But if you do throw enough shit at the wall, eventually something will stick, eventually you will approach the right girl at the right time who just wants sex for whatever reas…	/r/seduction	20/08/22 12:21 PM
1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Very insightful indeed. Have you got the answers you were searching for from this post my dude?	/r/seduction	20/08/22 11:26 AM
1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? this video my be somewhat intriguing for you. If you want to be direct then sure go for it, but you will be playing a numbers game so rejection be be extremely often and some will likely be far harsher than others. Not to mention the fact that if you live in a tighter community you might end up with a reputation that you may not really want. Dudes generally dont give a fuck about what women they sleep with, just as you alluded to in your post. Women want a guy, but not just any guy. They are far…	/r/seduction	20/08/22 11:17 AM
3	How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy? Im dying here in anticipation, i bet its the aubergine... I hope its the aubergine! 🤣	/r/seduction	24/07/22 12:09 AM
6	why do men have all these mens rights pages and fathers rights pages across various social media platform's yet nothing is ever done? As a single father being shafted by the courts and my child abuser ex I wish there were more men willing to actually do something rather than 10 people get togethers. I think your opinion should hold no weight until your head has to be wreaked by an abusive woman trying to force you into having children you are not ready for. See how ridiculous that is as well? If you do not want "your body to be wreaked by pregnancy" then shockingly not engaging in procreation will avoid this. On a serious note though, are you just trolling? Do you honestly think that telling men "you have no right to an opinion because your a man" will ever convince any of us to agree with …	/r/MensRights	07/07/22 06:40 AM
6	why do men have all these mens rights pages and fathers rights pages across various social media platform's yet nothing is ever done? As a single father being shafted by the courts and my child abuser ex I wish there were more men willing to actually do something rather than 10 people get togethers. Whats that? Your a vet and you are torturing a puppy in your back yard? Well i have no opinion and nothing to say about that because im not a vet and it doesn't effect me. I can still say it is morally bankrupt, just like your opinions about wanting to kill unborn babies.	/r/MensRights	07/07/22 06:29 AM
2	How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend? The question is moot. There is no need to ask. If she has a SO and is happy with them she will tell you on her own. If she has a SO she is unhappy with AND likes you then she will not bring up her SO until after you two get your rocks off.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 06:22 PM
5	I [M24] asked my cousin[F24] to go for drinks with me after she told me that she had a crush on me. Fair. However im Afraid i dont have any advice regarding seducing your cousin beyond what you don't want to hear. Basically that you really need to think about this more as I don't think you are fully aware of the potential consequences of this (and im not just talking about if you actually get her pregnant).	/r/seduction	05/02/22 04:25 AM
8	I [M24] asked my cousin[F24] to go for drinks with me after she told me that she had a crush on me. How would they find out. No ones gonna know Words preceding unfortunate events...	/r/seduction	05/02/22 04:18 AM
11	I [M24] asked my cousin[F24] to go for drinks with me after she told me that she had a crush on me. Surely you have to be at least somewhat aware of the reaction you will get from this...	/r/seduction	05/02/22 04:17 AM
14	I [M24] asked my cousin[F24] to go for drinks with me after she told me that she had a crush on me. Fair. Do you think it's worth it though for if your family ever found out?? I imagine it'd really mess up the family big time... There are other girls to fuck.. This. There are other girls to fuck.. Especially this.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 04:15 AM
17	I [M24] asked my cousin[F24] to go for drinks with me after she told me that she had a crush on me. I dont know why you're not weirded out by the fact your want to fuck your cousin.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 04:14 AM