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Or maybe you're just a simp. You don't have to give girls free car rides to be their friend. Heck, I had a friend in highschool who literally charged his girlfriend for car rides, like $2 for X distance, to cover for his gas. And come to think of it, this was actually the norm in high school, so that the guys with cars didn't end up forking all the costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:06 PM
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But the same is true of men. I had lots of male friends as a youth, never heard from them again once they got a girlfriend. And it's normal. This is how young people learn to socialize with the opposite gender. When you're a teenager, everyone is single, it's all about having friends, and after that period, you graduate to intimacy with a partner and having your own family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:04 PM
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if not, they can find a man who will Pray tell, where do I find a man who will give me money?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:00 PM
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The problem is there are not many men you can have a child with. I think every woman would be really happy to have many children if she met a man she could actually do this with. But if a man only brings a pack of problems and increased responsibilities (because now, in addition to your previous responsibilities, you also have to be this perfect cool girlfriend who meets his sexual wants), it's just hard to see the other end of the tunnel and finally meet a man who wants kids. It's extremely har…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:55 PM
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And I'm saying this balance has shifted among young men in the west, to the point that now the young single men in the west are single because they are much more scared of everything than women ever were, not just crime, by the way, I observe just general cowardice that's much more pronounced than in women. Which part of that statement do you not understand? I'm obviously talking about modern westerners, I'm not talking about that 5'2 Indian who hoards sheep in the mountains or Vietnamese delive…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:35 AM
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No, I think they are a lot more easily scared than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:20 PM
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They are scared but not actually careful, an infuriating combination that goes absolutely nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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Oh yes "be more like women" means be a coward, because it's well-known that women are cowards? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:44 PM
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Women are not like that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:43 PM
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I completely disagree with everything you think. Life is way deeper than you think. When people say they want a man who is loyal and won't ghost, they don't mean a man who has other options. You are completely projecting because that's what you as a man look for in a woman (a woman young and pretty enough that every man would find her attractive too, however she magically is a virgin because she diligently says no to every man until it's you). When people say they want a man who is loyal and won…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:45 PM
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Maybe not "raised that way", but young men are so scared of everything. No I don't mean they are scared of women and getting falsely accused of sexual assault, that's a cop out to circumvent the fact that young men are afraid of everything, period. Talk to men nowadays, they are so afraid of everything, the rain, cold weather, airplanes, getting sick, "gross" stuff, walking alone, going places, "dangers", heights, completely safe activities. It never ends. Don't blame women for the fact that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:57 PM
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I am a woman, will never flag myself as such, recipe for attracting creeps, bot. Why do you even place such importance on self-flagging? Men can flag themselves as women if they want to talk for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:51 PM
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You misinterpreted my comment. I was arguing that men are as picky as women. The male Redditors who think women are more picky than men are just at the bottom of the male hierarchy so their experience isn't insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:18 PM
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No, they are not. You guys are at the very bottom of the social hierarchy so of course you're not picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:20 PM
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I'm not complaining about people only liking me for my looks. Plenty of people like me for my personality, or my money, or my intelligence, or whatever. What I'm saying is that when it's everyone it doesn't feel special. Your example wouldn't work because not all white girls want to sleep with a black guy, only some of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:02 AM
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It's not easier for women to find what they're looking for in a partner. There's no magic world where men are better partners than women and therefore all the women easily find a good partner. There are roughly as many women and men. For monogamous relationships, the field is fair. Men aren't magically less picky than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:22 PM
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For me what makes me realize that it's not all it's cracked up to be is that we get interest from every man. It doesn't matter if we have anything in common or if we look like we could be a potential couple, the man is interested. You can be a skinny girl who's passionate about preserving the environment and doesn't do drugs and you're going to get interest from obese 50-year-olds who put 10 water bottles in the trash and chainsmoke. It really destroys the romantic idea of meeting someone you co…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:18 PM
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You're talking to the wrong person here because my entire family and friends are women making more than their partner. It's not everyone, but it's certainly not RARE, and it's certainly ridiculous to say it's rare to see a woman CONSIDER it. I honestly doubt you've ever spoken to a woman before, so how would you know what they are and aren't considering. But for the general rule, women don't marry up, they marry horizontally. Married women make less than merited men because even though they marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:02 PM
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And yet if a lesbian did this on me, she'd be right to say what she said. So they aren't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:18 PM
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Just because he doesn't commit a crime doesn't mean it's fine. Like you shouldn't do something that makes 99% of women uncomfortable and feel unsafe just because you think there's an advantage for you (to potentially find a younger woman). Your benefit isn't worth making everyone else's life worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:17 PM
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Bullshit, I've never received flowers, been flirted with, and received compliments. Men don't do that. They don't know how to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:14 PM
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Except beggars can't be choosers. If you're a man who hasn't had sex, you are most likely a beggar. It has no importance that you declare you will not date promiscuous women. You're already the unwanted men. It's like imagine the men that nobody is attracted to banding together and saying "we refuse to date promiscuous women". Okay... And also, women choosing to sleep with some men and not others isn't a feminist or men's rights issue. You are men competing against other men. You are not unfairl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:07 PM
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Lots of good guys want to get married, these don't get settled for, they are an ideal husband
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:06 PM
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Is it really cash and prizes if she'd have made more money doing literally anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:05 PM
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If you're not a shit dad you get 50-50
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:04 PM
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From 25 to 29. Every man I came across wanted to bang me at least and most probably wanted to date me seriously as well. It was too much and I hated it. I felt bad because a lot of them I had zero in common with and I would rather get interest from someone that I have a connection with, otherwise it just renders the concept of love very meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:59 PM
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It doesn't matter if men are hornier because not all women know how to harness that horniness and not all men are too horny to think. Take high school. This might surprise you, but most girls don't get asked out in high school. Is this because the guys are not horny, or because they are socially conscious that asking a girl out is revealing and embarrassing? It can be both. A lot of guys don't care that much about asking girls out, and some guys just don't want to go through making themselves vu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:12 PM
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Women aren't attracted to men who can protect them and make them feel safe. I'm sure some are, but it's not the rule. What women are attracted to is money or good looks or intelligence. Why money? Because it's a lot nicer to have more money than less money. This is regardless of whether the man actually transfers any money to the woman. Being around a rich man is better than being around a poor man because his nice will be nicer, his clothes will be nicer, he'll have less struggles, he's not con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:34 PM
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It's not that complicated. People who are more attractive (including job, money and personality) than average don't struggle at all with dating. They can go on a dating app and find a great option for themselves immediately. Because desirable people will go with desirable people. It's not even hard. The problem is that all the undesirable men find themselves on Reddit complaining about how easy it is for the desirable women. It's so stupid. And they refuse to admit it's just that, and they insis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:13 PM
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It's proof for 9 women, not for billions. It's easy to find such women, but then again it's also easy to find men who like being pegged by a giant strap on. You don't see anyone saying that's proof men prefer to be penetrated than to penetrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:08 PM
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It doesn't take much creativity to react to video compilations on YouTube. Your sexism is vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:26 PM
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You just said it yourself, they don't make clothes for 6'3/6'4 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:02 AM
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I don't know if you're being dense on purpose. You answered your own question. You mad because tall is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:15 AM
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We're not attracted to most men so cold approach isn't good, it's always going to be the guys we're not attracted to who will cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:11 AM
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It's more similar to YouTube. Lots of men earn money on YouTube without being particularly witty or funny, but they started early and built a fanbase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:10 AM
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Then compare it to YouTube. A LOT of male YouTubers make a living from YouTube without having talent, some just film themselves watching a movie and edit it with clips from the movie. That's not more creative than OnlyFans, OnlyFans creators also have to edit and curate their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:08 AM
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I am talking about MALE fashion models, read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:04 AM
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This isn't about age, she just decided she no longer wanted to have pre-marital sex. It's probably a question of beliefs / values. It may sound weird to you, but it may happen. For instance, if growing up she was not exposed to ideas of abstinence and purity and she was only exposed to "having sex is cool and no big deal", and later she comes across the idea that it's good not to have sex and that it's more special, she can be seduced by that new idea and decide to align herself with that. Obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:55 AM
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I DON'T believe in such a thing as a househusband OR a housewife. For me that's just having a wife who is unemployed, or a husband who is unemployed. And good for you if you want to support your wife's unemployed lifestyle. Being unemployed is dope except it doesn't earn you money. If I had a househusband, I would do 50% of the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:52 AM
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I think normal guys don't do that, and if they do end up sleeping with their friend, it happens randomly, not with premeditation. If you're thinking about sleeping with your friends, you are a loser creep and it's not going to end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:50 AM
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It's mostly men mocking small dicks. You guys have a thing about dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:48 AM
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Fuck the need to feel smaller, tall men are hot for the same reason fashion models are tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:47 AM
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The guy will judge you by the way he perceives you anyway. You could have an n-count of 100, but if the guy perceives you as shy who stays home and doesn't make many friends, he'll think you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:21 AM
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It's something like 100k more in salary to make up for 6 inches in height. 6'2 guy who makes 30k = 5'5 guy who makes 130k I'm aware that's not a 6 inch difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:14 AM
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Oh and by the way, I feel like online sex content sellers really get unfairly put down in posts like this. It's like assumed that because they are women what they do isn't hard and anyone can do it. But what's stopping you from creating a YouTube channel and making millions of dollars playing video games or "reacting" to music videos or making pranks? Oh what's that, you're going to say that's hard to do because you have to find subscribers and do good content? Sex content creators face the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:12 AM
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I think you're forgetting about shame. You need to be shameless to sell sexy pictures and a lot of women can't do it because it's built into our culture to be ashamed of doing that. Maybe you're going to say you don't have to show your face, but for me the thought that my pictures could be recognized by just my body is still mortifying. Maybe I'd do it if it was more accepted, but even without the stigma of being someone who does that, there's also a shame to showing your naked body, for the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:05 AM
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Speak for yourself, any man who isn't bottom 10% has standards and isn't desperate. Same for any gender. 99% of men are NOT simping for women online, paying for dates or suscribing to only fans. You have a problem. And yeah, maybe the bottom 1% of men are a problem too, but most people never encounter them. They are certainly not driving an "inflation" of women. Their problem is male hypergamy anyway. They are bottom-dwellers, but they would rather be to get photos of a girl far out of their lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:58 PM
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No, attractive women don't get cheated on either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:40 PM
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How do you know these got cheated on lol? Are they friends of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:35 AM
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All men think they're attractive, then they send you a picture and they look like a plouc. All the men I know who are even remotely attractive (not even to me, but somewhat attractive to someone) don't get rejected and don't get cheated on. That's madness. If you were attractive your girlfriend wouldn't cheat on you, that's basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:29 AM
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I confused you with the other guy I was replying to who mentioned having a baby mama, but if you agree with him, you're still unattractive. You don't see how you reek of repulsive insecurity the way you write 6 has and defend yourself after someone confused you with someone else? You can run a few miles? How would you not be able to run a few miles? Unless you're 90, being able to run a few miles is the basics of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:27 AM
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Your beliefs are absolutely laughable. You're not attractive, you're probably not college educated, you have kids and you're separated from their mother, but you're not rich, the list goes on. I have zero faith that you're attractive even if you take just your looks into account. Don't forget men always think they are attractive. And for men, personality is a massive deal. A man with mediocre looks who thinks he's attractive is the worst combo you can have. That alone tells me your personality r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:09 AM
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It's laughable that you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:07 AM
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Literally a normal guy who is better-looking than 30% of men and who has a good personality will never struggle to find dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:39 PM
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But you are unattractive. No attractive man experiences what you do. Attractive men have the world as their oyster, they can ask any woman out and she'll say yes. You don't even have to be that attractive. Just moderately attractive guys. Of course it's hard for unattractive guys. But as hard as it is for you, that's how easy it is for men who are just little bit attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:23 PM
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No, literally never. Men are clingy. Every time they had sex with me, they then demanded commitment from me. That was not my intended outcome. I thought they wouldn't ask for a relationship, and I would have preferred that, to keep my freedom, so I could meet better guys down the line. Unfortunately, the guys were clingy, like they would cry if I didn't want to date them, and I was unable to tell them no. And by the way I didn't lie to get sex either. We just had zero conversation about wanting …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:01 PM
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Men feel dread because their partner can replace them more easily Yeah, that's the dread you experience because you're unattractive. If you were an attractive guy, you would know you can replace your girlfriend easily. It's not true that attractive guys live in fear that their average girlfriend can replace them easily. This subreddit always comes at it from the perspective of the unattractive guys, because this subreddit is ridden with unattractive guys only. In reality, this type of dread is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:49 PM
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Question of perspective. I think men have the sexual privilege hands down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:11 PM
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Date single women (but without secretly feeling resentful of it, obviously). You could be a great stepdad to some teenage children, and you would finally know what it is like to be part of a family. It brings more to you than to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:08 PM
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I mean that's the other thing. Usually you date someone similar enough to yourself so if a man makes a lot of money the women he's dating probably have the capacity to earn a lot of money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:42 PM
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From what I understand, mommy and daddy issues will be different depending on your gender. If a girl has daddy issues, that's like you say, craving attention from men. I guess she would be clingy in the relationship, and she might gravitate towards strong, masculine types. But if a girl has mommy issues, she's not craving attention from women, she wants to heal by giving the unconditional love she didn't get. She might date useless, immature men who lack autonomy and ambition, struggling depress…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:55 AM
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Good men don't struggle to date. Find me a man who is a desirable person to date who struggles to find dates. That would be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:37 AM
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Gotta stop blaming women if women are not the ones struggling to get dates. Big reality check: it's the person who cannot get a date who has too high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:37 AM
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So? Men are the same about age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:36 AM
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Cry me a fucking river. You will achieve nothing in life with this victim mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:35 AM
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In what world do you live though. You see men turning down otherwise attractive women for having a high N count? Women will date attractive men who are fuckboys and men will date attractive women who are fuckgirls. Because you know, they are still attractive. As in, the things that make them popular with the other gender... make them popular with the other gender. It's like a wrong premise to say "women like fuckboys". It's more like there's something that makes the fuckboy attractive to begin w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:32 AM
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Not everywhere, but okay, let's suppose you pay for a meal at a restaurant. Let's say it costs you $30. Let's say you do this four times until you become a couple and start hanging out at home. It cost you $120 and you had sex probably several times. Are you saying she should provide 10 hours of cleaning at $12/hour to compensate you for the four meals you provided? But let's say you had sex three or four times, that's like $1200 in what you would pay an escort. And she probably had to buy cloth…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:25 AM
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I think the flaw is with your premise. You're like "why men pay on dates", but they don't pay for dates everywhere. You pay for dates because you're an ugly guy who dates hot girls and you insist to go down that path even though they don't like you and you have to pay them, because you'd rather pay than date ugly chicks. Okay. But obviously attractive guys don't have to pay to date attractive girls. Guys don't have to pay when they date someone equally as attractive as them where it's reciprocal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:08 AM
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I disagree. You shouldn't assume that everyone lives in sexist shitholes and date crack whores who only fuck you because they have no money for the next meal but they really find you gross. Plenty of people live in gender equal places among college educated people where men and women date as equals and one doesn't pay for the other. I think when people say they "pay on dates and buy expensive gifts" it's really trashy like you're exploiting these poor women who are forced to fuck you because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:01 AM
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There’s nothing a man can trade for that today. It's money dude. You just have to earn enough money for the woman to feel comfortable slowing her career and spending more time cooking and cleaning. Many women would gladly do it IF it made financial sense, meaning you make double what she can earn at her job herself and there's security in case you divorce her, enough security to compensate for the fact she'd be left with no experience. Why double? Because that would be as much money as if she wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:52 AM
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It's already like that. How many men do you know who provide financial support to women that aren't sleeping with them???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:44 AM
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Okay, but if he said "white people sucks" it also wouldn't do anything. You can put two and two together as to why.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 07:24 AM
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Are you the best person in the world? Are you better than your peers? I'm the best at what I do, compared to my peers, and I've got a unique combination of qualities. I'm sure you do too, at least that last part. every fiber of his being wants to fuck that hot 20-something blonde in yoga pants that just walked by. Why do you talk like such a predator? She obviously doesn't want to sleep with him, so why objectify her? She's just walking by!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:25 PM
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The media isn't teaching males to be "nice guys". In the movies directed at the male audience (action movies), it's often the strong alpha guy who gets the girls. In the movies directed at female audiences (romance), it's always the nice guy who gets the girl. If anything, it's because women like nice guys, men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 03:11 PM
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It's not that hard. I always strive to be the best in everything I do - best in school, best in sport, best girlfriend, etc. If I was a man, I'd be confident that my girlfriend wouldn't leave me because I'm the best. As a woman, I'm still confident that my man won't leave me because I'm the best, but that's not how men's brains work. He probably doesn't care that I'm the best and just wants the most validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 03:06 PM
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I think what it means is that a man can treat his girlfriend pretty shittily because he doesn't care that much about her. If, however, she was the most physically attractive woman in the world, the man would be behaving extremely well towards his girlfriend to keep her. It's like... men don't really love normal women. They would always trade them for a hotter version if they could. It's just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 03:02 PM
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But what does the man bring to the relationship? It's just companionship. You have to think if the companionship is worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:59 PM
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At least there's a logic in leaving a man for a better man. And there's an easy way to prevent it from happening: be the better man. Men would just stray for anyone who's available. It's no use being the most available, as he'll just have sex with everyone. Not all men act his way, but it's sort of the red pill view of male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:41 PM
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Being friends with everyone :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 06:05 AM
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We can wear blue shirts and red shirts and we can watch as the red shirts try to hit on the blue shirts to make a point and the blue shirts try to resist the red shirts to make a point. All the while the black shirts dwell in a corner keeping to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 05:39 AM
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That moment when not doing anything becomes a political message.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 05:33 AM
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You said "anyone" would be creeped out after I said I absolutely wouldn't be creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:45 AM
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So I'm not someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:34 AM
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Yesterday on a thread on ask reddit called "What aspect of a woman's life are most men unaware of?" there was this comment with 600 upvotes: I was going out for the evening with my SO, but before leaving the house, we took our dogs for a walk. He fell behind because the dog he was walking has issues, so I went ahead with our other dog. A guy in a truck sat at a stop sign for a solid 2 minutes staring at me, not moving. It was that feeling in your stomach where fight or flight is right around the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 12:41 AM
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Being a submissive, anti-feminist, wannabe 50s wife won't attract a high value man, it will attract a man who's insecure, narcissistic and misogynistic. If it's what she believes in, fine, but she's not making easy for her future children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 09:33 AM
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For me the "I'm not like other chicks" is in the sidebar description. "Unlike most women in our rotten feminist society, WE accept the fundamental truth of red pill pseudosience."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 09:15 AM
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