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People need to take some personal responsibility at some point. I can't pity everyone in the world. Guys gotta stop whining in general and women in the situations you described need to run away. So why bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:07 AM
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Do you know of any life choices that make you age faster? I am thinking alcohol, smoking and stress are up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:12 PM
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Any studies to back that up cap? I am at 30 and that means I would have to start soon. Or at least give me some good articles describing the protocol?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:09 PM
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Excuse my indifference but I don't really care. There are other more important matters to address first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:08 PM
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To be fair I do think women's choices is partly responsible. However, 90% of the actual answer is what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:11 PM
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Which shit women want you mean. Who would want to date those women to begin with? They have nothing going for them besides their looks so who cares? We are talking about actual confident cool women, the other women don't even matter Actual cool hot women do whatever the fuck they want is the main truth. And logically they won't ever date someone who is 10+ years older simply because it is too awkward, in fact they rarely date guys 5+ years older than them. Then you have all the insecure and shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:57 PM
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What age do you think both sexes start deteriorating from their own peak physical attractiveness? Another women here told me women at 30 and men at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:44 PM
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Didn't realize being Jewish was that different. Would love to learn more but even more lazier to research it in general. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:42 PM
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I dunno. I mean they are specifically looking for marriage, not SMV. The argument was never for increased SMV. However you can't deny that reaching your goals and making money off it means more interesting stories, more confidence and more respectable. All things that maximize your own SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:38 PM
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You are gross man. This is a great argument but people like you make it so no one would ever take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:36 PM
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This is a cool argument and all but why the hell did he use the word "nubile". Like fucking gross man, what is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:35 PM
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Lets not act like being religious is some pious life choice. They can live out the rest of their life how they see fit and if is is being religious, well at least it isn't one based on hedonism so that is great. However OP makes no sense. You can't "change religions" via choice and certainty not women. It is more of a calling or realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:33 PM
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She said she wanted a 6/10. If this girl is a 6/10, the guy would be more than willing to play the game. I would and I am a 6/10 lol. The reason he or I would wait is because this girl is a whole package and everything else ticks. And I am looking for marriage only and she is too. So why not take it slow if both are committed to making it work after the first 2 dates? A month isn't that long of a wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 02:25 PM
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Yeah rereading my comment I don't know where I was going with it however I wasn't even talking about single moms. I was talking about locker room culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 02:23 PM
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I sort of agree you do sound like a whiner. This is 2019, there are people going back to school in their mid 20s and even late 20s. You got to play the game accordingly. Either find a guy who is promising and will have a solid career lined up in a 2-3 years or date an older guy and keep vetting hard to to dodge the FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:14 PM
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You poor girl. 25 is NOT the wall. Omg. You poor thing. You are at the PRIME age for marriage...or wait a few more years and that would be fine. But I will admit one thing you have to do seriously here no out-- I would consider dating seriously only here on out. Here is my advice. Vet hard. Tell the guy you don't sleep with the guy until you are in a committed relationship. Make him wait. The only guys who think you are a marriage prospect whom they wish they might marry in a few years are willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:06 PM
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I don't care about the n number but I care about honesty so I will ask them. Is this the relationship you want us to have? Either we are a team or we are opponents trying to one up and hide things from one another. It sets up a bad foundation basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:58 AM
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Insecurity causes about 90% of men to subconsciously make this rating system that pretty much everyone is forced to follow--Men constantly judge other men by what women they ended up with. . That is the definition of locker room culture actually. Lots of men unplugged and do whatever the fuck they want, but it is hard because lots of doors close for you(career advancement, social acceptance, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:30 PM
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I think a far more realistic and easier solution is if we as a society stopped valuing sex and relationships that much but instead valued SingleHood at least equally. However your answer is the other way obviosely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:14 PM
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Way too pessimistic brother. What will happen is guys will just check out completely and do their own hobbies and work on building sex robots. About 10% will whine and be addicted to drugs, and the last 10% will have a harem of women of their choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:10 PM
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If more women are more sincere about their sexual preferences this sub wouldn't exist because there is nothing left to argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:06 PM
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This comment pretty much summarizes most of this subreddit and 80% of all the whiny guys in present time lol. So then after they get past it, where does one go from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:20 PM
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And then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:14 PM
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She must've been your looksmatch bro. Maybe you are just an attractive dude too. I think it is pretty well established now that romantic gestures are creepy if it isn't coming from your looksmatch or above so the Don Juan thing is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:05 PM
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I was just going by a highly rated comment in this very subreddit. It said something like, "women what is something you secretly know and don't care about." and the top reply was we know the guy may not have the best personality but if he is hot enough we are willing to take the chance anyways. Sooo I am just parroting what you ladies said last month lol. You are just taking it to the extreme(Jeremy Meeks). However it is also my fault for not making it obvious I didn't mean bad personalities lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 03:02 PM
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ooh yea that makes sense lol. I am sure you had your fun when you were younger too. Attractive people really live in a different reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:30 AM
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How in the world did you hook up with an 18-20 yr as a 50 year old LOL. You must be a really good looking dude. Tips are always appreciated lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:57 AM
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I am starting to see why it is smart to check peoples post history. This guy posts on red pill and has a huge complex. So ignore this comment ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:26 AM
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How old are your old ones and young ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:23 AM
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What do you consider old for a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:21 AM
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Their ages are from 22-40. Like one who is 22, 24, 28, 30, 35, 41 and some other ones. I do think it is me who changed not my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:34 AM
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That would be awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:26 AM
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I am sleeping right now so I will read article tomorrow, is that what the article shows? If so, that is very interesting. ty for link.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:17 AM
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I'll have to read the article. That gives some good insight actually. But still I think women today are more "woke" and educated so I don't know if bringing up the past is relevant. Still it is something of value(what women wanted before).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:52 AM
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I think they have a new site up, they all should just go there and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:34 AM
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Well I mean that is also completely true but we aren't talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:31 AM
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I gotcha. I think I am sort of a medium free spirit? I dunno I only been in one relationship(it was quite long). Been single for 5 months and started dating and the scene changed so much. So many new dynamics. Anyways, I am just tripping out if my next partner says a few years down the road she wants to open us up. That would kill me bc I'd have to divorce her :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:47 PM
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Respect. Nothing wrong with quitting while you are ahead. Why shake up a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:42 PM
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I made a thread about women and hookups in marriages for "AskWomen Only". I guess I assumed since you responded you are a women. Anyways, dude, I really hope you are right about the Don Juan thing lol. Sounds like a fun little perspective you cooked up aka I think you are coping hard. As of now I don't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:01 PM
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Great point about lesbian culture being different than gay male culture. That really opened my eyes and maybe what you are saying is more plausible. Obviously my defense is the Patriarchy socially conditioned women to feel shame and forget it and now that women are more free, more and more are seeing that they were"wrong before". I am thinking this reality may happen in 10-15 years and the reason why it hasn't happened yet is because hookup culture just started thus it takes some time for things…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:49 PM
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Oh wow. I had no idea. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:40 PM
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I mean this thing exploded just 2-3 years ago. In 10-15 years I feel like it would be a lot easier later on. You guys are in the pioneer class.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:39 PM
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How do I know this is not just YOUR view. How can I be sure that is what all women think? After all there are women in all sorts of relationship models these days. Have you read any accounts of actual women in those situations. They don't feel what you are saying they should feel. They say they think their men respects them even more for letting them do as they please. They also admit before they really thought about it they had the same exact thoughts as you and many saying they "can't go back"…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:35 PM
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I don't understand what that means. It is a fact blue pillars have a variety of relationship models(polygamy, open marriages, etcetc)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:28 PM
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It can be blue pill(lots of blue pill relationships do it). It can also be purple pill too(Some do but not much). Only red pillers don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:27 PM
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I am confused by your responses. You replied to my other thread as a girl lol. If you are a guy who can you verify a Don Juan thing exists? You aren't a women so you have no say. edit: oh wait are you trans? oops
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:30 PM
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Are you a girl? I feel like this something that is only true in novels. The real world doesn't work like that. Girls just care about physical attraction first and a tiny bit if the guy is a good dude(and if he isn't a good dude they might take the risk anyways because he is hot). The whole Don Juan thing is just women romanticizing that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:09 PM
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Yea too many relationships is as bad as too many notch counts(if anything it is more bad)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:04 PM
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Moderation is best. Too many relationships means she doesn't learn from her past, too many notches means I would probably be too insecure to deal with her(so more on me and I don't care that I am insecure about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:02 PM
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They have a voting system thread on whether if they should accept transgender women in their sub which shows some disagreement. GenderCritical's stance is no transgender PERIOD. That is why I said what I said. I maybe wrong though. Either way its a radfem subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:30 PM
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Na I got better things to do with my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:25 PM
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I meant the average women. Yes 20% or screen you out if you aren't 6 feet but most of them are shitty women so nothing of value is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:22 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't be attracted to such a women who is trying to checkbox a list of being feminine. I prefer someone who is much more authentic. I feel if gender roles must be met, it is something natural someone falls into if they always stay true to themselves and stay authentic. However, I do think some trail and error with stereotypical gender roles never hurts if they want to go that way-- thus I can see the value in TRP and the women counterparts. Still I think it is a slower way of going abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:53 PM
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I think those two words describe me to a T-- confidence and serenity. I am lacking in the career but hope to establish myself in time. It is great things are going great for ya. I hope to make a similar comment in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:42 PM
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Given what you said the best way I can mesh them is the following: You need to first establish a persona that is about mutual respect and developing a friendship. After you have that persona you should probably fall into your respective gender role indefinitely to keep the women since the women who is high value will have a laundry list of similar suitors waiting for her to give their shot. Since women make as much money as men(or that is the direction the world is going), men need to bring othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:38 PM
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hmm interesting. I like how you blend the whole "empathy/basic & healthy relationship based on mutual respect and friendship" to "being forced to do your gender role despite it all". Once again, you can answer later when you have time or forget about it but what is YOUR definition of the gender role each sex should be forced in doing if they want to maximize their own self-interest with eventual relationship/marriage? For starters I understand you need to first accept the facts which are females…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:27 PM
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Yeah I mean I obviously knew that but it is nice to know it isn't just in my head and is actually true. With social media and all, it is possible to be thrown in a loop or sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 03:15 PM
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Right of course all of it is speculation. Thanks for the feedback. It is nice to know it isn't necessarily going on sailboat rides and other crazy dopamine hitting things constantly is what attracts women but more so how you approach life and how you do things and lastly how you make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:55 PM
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What are the core redpill beliefs you believe in? I feel like we are both talking on the blue pill's empathetic way of confronting things though. If it is too much to type just ignore this comment. I'd rather you not waste your time if it is a lot to type out. Have a good day. If it is simply women actually do care about physical attraction I agree. I don't think I agree with anything else though but I don't know that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:48 PM
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I didn't have an eventful 20s but at age 30 I have suddenly been getting a LOT of attention from women. The comments I get from them most is they love my enthusiasm and how they make them feel and how they can talk to me all day. Physically I am a 5/10 or 6/10 and these women are average looking and have personalities that are full of life. So am I finally considered "fun and exciting"? I don't have the social calender that the stereotypical people who are "fun" and exciting". Can you explain wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:43 PM
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Does exciting and fun mean actually having a social calendar of doing said things or does it mean having the mindset of it? It is possible for a person to have those 3 traits and still starting building your social calendar-- like they have 1 or 2 cool things but are constantly adding more things monthly. Would women or even yourself date that sort of guy? Or does he already have to be established in his exciting/fun lifestyle to be date-able? I guess I am wondering what exactly women want-- the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:31 PM
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Didn't mean to be harsh on you. I would love to meet someone like yourself in the dating world but its tough. Luckily I also believe like attracts like so I think I will be fine. Granted tips in finding people like you is helpful but people normally date in their respective attractive classes so there isn't much help you can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:23 PM
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I think you are thinking too deeply into it. It is just a bunch of autistic and insecure people coping hard. They aren't accomplishing anything but abusing others. Hurt people hurt people. Actions have consequences. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. It is their prerogative so they can have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:17 PM
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There is a cross talk but there are many there who don't like GenderCritical. It is like MGTOW, RedPill, MRA. Seems as if there are just lots of groups in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:43 PM
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If you wanna play that angle the red pill ain't sociopath either since they have been burnt by women and are playing things to their advantage. At the end of the day both are a dead end and sociopath behavior because they don't treat each other as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:42 PM
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Nope they aren't!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:41 PM
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Obviously that is true but you can't deny male thirst. Lots of men ARE checking out but TONS of men ARE still checked in despite it all. Look at the average weight of women in USA and marriage rates haven't changed THAT much so does it matter male value attractiveness as #1? In the end male thirst takes over and they learn to love their women. Men are THIRSTY and women know this and know they can just love their bodies and move on with their days. Men are also checking out I admit but not as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:39 PM
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I am not talking about average girls. I think the average one is entitled as well. My point is about the ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:04 AM
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He has a point. I wouldn't consider those traits masculinity. Women and men can have them but they aren't inherently masculine-- they are just being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:26 PM
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I don't know though, those are the older women 45+. I am talking about the current gen(18-40)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:22 PM
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For sure sis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:15 PM
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Scapegoat argument for you and /r/nockerjoe I hate to dismiss you both but reality is unattractive women have it a lot worse than average or above girls despite beauty standards hitting them all. An average women or above can pick a less attractive guy who is still great all around and they can just "women up" and realize they are still pretty girls-- I amn't crying a river for them ever. Unattractive girls though will die alone because there is no one there-- either be in a toxic relationship w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:13 PM
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I have no relationship with trp or purple pill and I agree with those girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:08 PM
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sounds about right. I felt like you were my age lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:33 PM
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This is an interesting comment. Since women are more choosier doesn't it require less pressure to hit beauty standards to get a solid guy? It is okay to be "lazy" in a way and focus on career instead? Granted this only applies to beckys/average girls. Women who are physically unattractive I think got it even more worse than before though. In fact, they may be having it the hardest now. I think the difference between the average/hot girl and a unattractive girl has never been this lopsided in hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:29 PM
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How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:27 PM
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I personally don't have a problem or a care. People can do whatever. I am just stating my opinion on what their actions will result in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/ There has been lots of new ones popping up. That one, Vindicta, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:16 PM
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Seems like sociopaths and they will probably attract similar sociopaths or suckers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:09 PM
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Wait link?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:04 PM
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Right here folks. They tend to be high n themselves. High ns don't give a shit and that goes for BOTH genders. It is the low ns that care aka low status males or the ones who married young and treasure their low n for some reason. It gets more complicated than that though. Extremely high n normally means the person does have some mental health problem thus is a good reason to screen them out HOWEVER some of the ones with high ns are the best marriage material anyone can hope for. So really it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:57 PM
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Yeah but they are 40 years old, not a 18-35yr old. By then I would hope most people would be enjoying their life regardless of their relationship status. At some point most people move on with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:30 PM
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I have no relationship with the red pill at all nor this subbreddit. I just put a label that is closest to me-- I obviously amn't blue and purple seemed ambiguous enough. I don't even know what the purple pill means but I assume it is a mixture of blue and red. Lastly my goal isn't to win this discussion. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:27 PM
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Well I am very happy you are happy with your life. I don't have any hostility to you. And btw most pretty women have a line of guys willing to marry them so your post isn't something I am alarmed about. Like I said earlier you may be above my league so you very well might be one of those women who want the best man from said line of guys. I don't have any need to explain myself to you too. Lastly I never claimed you would be an unfaithful person-- in fact I sort of already knew you would be fait…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:04 PM
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Solid move and congrats on your happy marriage. In the end "doing the right thing" is the best move there is and you did it. So props
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:31 PM
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I am hearing you quite clearly. Sadly our discussion has to end here. I am not disagreeing with you-- I know the majority of men are like that. Personally I don't really care what you or women like you do because I know how to avoid those people quite easily when I vet a women-- thus it is not my problem & not my headache. I am giving you advice no one here is willing too. If you really want to get a men thinks like me(I am not bragging, I am fully aware you may be way above my league so this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:18 PM
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What a man says is everything...assuming they have integrity. I mean everything I say. If their actions aren't what their words are then he is not a man but some lowlife POS. Now to your post. I am really sorry you had some terrible experiences. But it seems like you have an unhealthy view of relationships and men. You need to vet your man better. There is no reason for you to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't respect you. I'd rather be single then put up with whaver you are putting up…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:00 PM
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Pack it up boys, this is correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:39 PM
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Sorry I have no idea what you are saying. What is the madonna whore complex and the rest? I am simply stating she is dating immature men and asshole men. She can't vet well so she needs to take some ownership of her situation. Also it is possible the men she should marry her vetted her out because there are better options for them. The important point here is that she didn't get vetted out because of her sexual past by these guys, she got vetted out because as a whole product she can't compete w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:33 PM
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I think you are just dating assholes. I would easily marry you now if I loved you and you agreed to do everything you did with your previous exes. Now not everything but a good majority is enough and maybe some new stuff you didn't do in the past. Why is this important? Because if you can't give him SOMETHING to work with he will feel less of a men. That isn't your fault because you shouldn't do something you are uncomfortable with. Also some guys aren't like me and will use you and move on. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:42 PM
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She has no obligation to do something she isn't comfortable with. If that is her past and she wants to keep it that way then that there is nothing you can do about it. You aren't entitled to anything. If it bothers you this much you should had looked into it before you got married. If you vetted her right you wouldn't be in this position. In the end you are just being insecure... but it is okay. Either you fix your insecurity or you divorce. Either way is fine and that is the key here.. most peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:39 PM
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I don't know about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:04 PM
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You would think that would be true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:59 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:47 AM
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That isn't how it works in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:38 AM
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Doesn't really work in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:36 AM
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I completely agree and have the same exact way of looking at all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:43 PM
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I mean we can't deny it is harder for shorter guys just like how it is harder for an overweight women. But yea, average height guys should clean up with even a year of therapy and dedicated their weekends to socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:02 PM
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Slippery Slope argument. Smoking weed occasionally leads to being a street drug dealer!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 11:58 AM
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Like how there is radical circles in Islam(Taliban), Christianity(KKK), Feminism(Radfems), athiesm(Richard Dawkins) there can also be radical circles in RedPill. You found yourself in their KKK area.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 11:56 AM
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Oh man. Trust man. I am 30. I have met many guys in my past 10 years. 5 9' is easy, just be social. And that is coming from me who was a member of /r/short over 8 nine years. Haven't been there in 5 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:52 AM
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You are completely right but we live in an outrage culture where everyone throws their emotions to everyone else. The only way to win in this world is for you to join the status quo. If you don't you will be taken for a ride aka a sucker. There is nothing honorable for being a better man, not in todays world. If you want change you have to be pig headed. Ask any minorities-- if you have a problem start a civil discussion. Where is the harm in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:44 AM
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Well you can shoot yourself on the foot I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:37 AM
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Wait are you telling me most guys below 25 can't even flirt with women at such a basic level?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:22 AM
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I agree. Although I am not anything compared to the short men you are talking about. I get by though and am happy for my efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:53 PM
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Yeah I woulda killed to be your height because at the end you do have it easier via facts. I am below average height but never was a mentalcel. I just had this insane confidence from a place I can't even pin down. Despite that I still messed up a lot and have problems in other areas of my life-- outside women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:20 PM
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I think the argument they are presenting is more the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:52 PM
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Bro 5 9' is above average. How can you be complaining LOL. If you were under 5 8' maybe you can talk. Not trying to gate keep but if you just wear boots all the time you will be 5 10' which is a solid height for men. I think you were just a mentalcel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:45 PM
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You miss his point completely. Women are now free so men can be free now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:51 PM
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No idea how accurate my own experiences are. I am below average height and I think about 15% of the people I went on dates or what not were taller than me by 2-3 inches. Ironically those were my best experiences with women(and one was the best one out of everyone). I think it is because they were extremely secure & fun women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:24 PM
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You are most likely the one who is completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:09 PM
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Na I am actually totally fine. I don't have any problems with women either, granted I maybe too picky. I am just stating facts. Ya'll save face and are the good guys because you can tell guys you don't have to man up. How progressive! Telling men not to man up! Get rid of that toxic masculinity right? Now lets just use a new phrase to ilicit the same meaning but this time you get to wash your hands and say you are the good guys(since you don't tell the guy to man up). To be brutally honest, I ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:05 PM
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That isn't a dating preference... that is a fetish or some mental illness. Media representation can change some preferences but we aren't aloud to tell someone what not to like or not like, that is their right that can't be stripped away. I can see eurocentric standards being challenged through media so that peoples preferences change to include more minorities. But beyond that, there isn't much you can do. You like what you like and you can't shame em.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:10 PM
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Thanks for the verification I have been trying to connect that dot myself. So basicallly Tinder and OLD and social media finally made it completely obvious to young guys that its pretty much about how attractive you are and what women do when they are completely free for once & there is nothing anyone can do about it. Those two pills is enough for most men to check out I guess. I can see why free will is an illusion can come from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:54 PM
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You can't change what someone is attracted though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:35 PM
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I noticed that too. Yeah it is far harder than it should be for me but I am getting by just fine. I had to struggle immensely throughout my 20s though being single for a large portion of it, getting cheated on, etc. I guess I want to understand more what is happening with the younger generation. What costs are they pushing on to them? College degree costs? What does millenials being selfish got to do with them? I am guessing the ever increasing divide from the rich & poor and disspearing middle …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:42 AM
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There is nothing wrong with having preferences. Women should have them. The problem is women guilt-ing and shaming men for having preferences while at the same time having preferences of their own. The women started it. edit: If they stopped guilting us not to have standards we wouldn't give a shit if they had standards. Men are very logical about things but they don't like being accused of being a bad person for their own biology. Hell, women are the same-- they don't want to feel shamed for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:06 AM
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Oh so a big portion of under 25yr old men think like that? Daaamn. I guess I am on the other side since i am 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:46 AM
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What is the black pill again?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:21 AM
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Yea now instead of telling men to "man up", they will throw all the problems to the guy and say he has "insecurities and he needs to deal with them before complaining". It is the same shit. Not dealing with the problem and guilting the guy to take care of it by pulling a miracle out of his ass. It doesn't matter if they don't say "man up" bc in the end they accomplish the goal emotionally-- by guilting him extremely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:51 AM
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I wish I wasn't too lazy to find another top thread here. The reply has the most upvotes and it was a women like yourself. She said the benefits outweigh the cost. They understand some guys are shitty but they don't care because the benefits are simply too much. Thus, you are full of shit or the exception. Search for it-- I think the thread was called like the biggest things women won't admit or something. Ofc you will say Not all women! And I agree with you but we are talking about the average …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:48 AM
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To make it even more simpler. Why pick a choice with more baggage if you can get a similar item with less baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:26 PM
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I think I will get by as one of the luckier ones bc I already get dates with really cool girls with good personalities easily-- it is more trying to find the right person for me. I always played life on safe mode so I did my 20s to maximize a complete nice life later on and i am reaping my rewards now. Granted it will be a little tough since I didn't expect for things to turn up a notch but it has always been tough so it is no biggie-- just another challenge, just another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:57 PM
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Okay this is probably the most ridiculous thing I ever heard and I read a lot of stuff here. So many people start families in their 30s. What in the world are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:34 PM
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Oddly I was coming to the same conclusion myself recently. I am glad that it wasn't just me and other guys have been coming to the same conclusion independently. Good luck brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 02:05 PM
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I understand. So just focus on having fun in your life, have a normal job, and a women may not be part of it. And if she is part of it, she is also doing her own thing or did her own thing before she met you. I think the key is to remove your self worth from any 1955 fantasy and keep it limited to you just enjoying your days. Women may be part of it or won't but they have nothing to do with your self worth anymore-- they are just a periphery at best so relax into that and don't be so hypervigila…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:59 PM
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Lol holy shit. I never read a comment that may actually become true. I guess us Single guys need to GymMaxx and CareerMaxx and fit into whatever hole above.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:39 PM
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I understand where you are coming from. I mean any laws that get passed will have high turnout now on both sides. Women vote more than men and they have a good portion of men on their side too vs the 40% of men who will all turn up on voting days. I just think they will pressure men to give in. I guess we will see. It will depends mostly on what the powers that be want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:27 PM
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You don't have to do anything for anyone and nothing matters. No one is entitled to anything. Just treat people with respect and live your life. You will find a great girl down the line. You making lists of all these things you "have to do" misses the entire point of life aka you being a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:09 PM
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I think you are thinking too black and white. Think of it as a spectrum. On one end there is hot assholes and the other end are really nice guys who are boring. Women start at the hot assholes because they don't mind taking the risk. As they get older they go more towards the nice guy because they realize they would rather be respected as people. However they never actually reach the complete nice guy-- they end up marrying guys in the middle of the spectrum and if they can't they will forever c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 12:56 PM
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Oh I don't care personally about how much of a history she has. I only care about her personality and her looks way more than how many partners she has. I am talking about what other guys are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:46 AM
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We aren't talking about the top 15% men here. It is all dandelions and flowers there & they should man up and get on with their lives. We are talking about the bottom 70% of men who have a very small or nonexistant history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:24 AM
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aka be a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:22 AM
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Society wise the chancess are she is settling to you by about 60-70%, why bother taking the risk? It is about the juice aint worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:18 AM
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That is a logical fallacy, you are using a dishonest argument. Society changed so that now women have the keys to relationships and sex-- they don't give a shit if a guy wants to marry them unless they are kind and fun and accept them for their past. They would rather just have fun single and are completely content with it because we live in a society that takes care of them completely. Men are fucked. They either have to man up, swallow their pride, get help, and accept these women ooorrr they …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:08 AM
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I actually am not on either side, just illustrating what happens. I honestly don't there is a bad guy in all this. Everyone grows up sooner or later and realizes they should be in relationships with people who are more genuinely kinder to them. Women realize this at late 20s and find said men who end up waiting for said women to knock on their door. The smart women who are on the uglier side realize they should probably skip out on the hookup culture and date/marry young so they can settle with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:58 AM
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I don't' think you are thinking about the typical femcel. It has been run over by low esteem mentalcels and jaded beckies and normies. If you saw the subreddit a year ago it was very different. All subreddits on reddit went to trash over the past year or two-- reddit is trash now. An actual femcel would love to date and marry a kind incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:45 AM
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Incels can just go to therapy and deal with their shit. Honestly work on their shit for 3-4 years. Then a femcel WILL date him and MARRY him despite how ugly or disfigured he is. All he needs to do is know how to treat women with kindness and have some confidence...he doesn't even have to have a good job! Plus they get to pick. They will get a relationship AND sex for the rest of their life. Also if they are kind they can help the femcel to get therapy too so they can be kind to each other and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:30 AM
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Great question and I have no idea. I think they just don't get that much attention from women when they are younger so little to no experience. Other problems are simply only focusing on their careers, bullied in high school and never recover until late 20s, cultural reasons, or they just may have been losers all their life etc. By their late 20s they dated a bit and see women as people and have a somewhat solid career so they start getting more interest. It makes sense, if they aren't as attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:24 AM
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"best fit" is sort of a scapegoat though. Most women want nicer guys as they get older because they treat them better and these women realize they deserve that type of treatment. It has nothing to do with "fit", the women are just more grown up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:22 PM
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Their argument is both sides are settling at different amounts. It wouldn't be fair to the guys because the women got half of their needs met before 30 via casual sex and chasing men who won't commit and are trying to cash in the other half of commitment at 30(marriage). Most men don't have access to said women or any women at all before 30 so they are overall "settling more by getting it all at 30" and thus would rather check out of the whole thing instead. edit: I think the only fair way to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:50 PM
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Would you rate their appearance 2/10? I feel like you are talking about normal 4-5/10 women taking advantage of suckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 12:15 AM
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They can't get anything better because other men have other women they would rather commit to. So now you see the femcel struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:45 PM
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Well the reason why I mentioned it because you tend to group me in with the incels so I have to cover my bases and make sure to express that I literally don't care lol. No I am asking for YOUR empathy. I will give you my empathy if you need me to, if you don't then I won't-- that is your prerogative. So you can reread my comment with this clarification. We are a tiny spec in the Milky Way which is a tinier spec in our universe which is an even tinier spec in the multiverse. Time itself grows for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:27 PM
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Why do you think we are meant to be in a better place and men and women are naturally meant to be together? I never said we were enemies, maybe we are just aren't compatible? I mean first we realized Santa Claus isn't real. Then we found out God isn't real. Maybe monogamous relationships aren't real either? It could be the next thing. I am not saying you owe use anything and I am not shaming you(you are free to have as much casual sex as your heart desires, I don't care). All I ask is for some b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:10 PM
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He isn't upset lol. He hopes the women can get that with all his heart. He is just saying he won't be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:30 PM
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It is hard for me to talk about my perspective and other men. A little about me. Only one relationship and she cheated on me. I know it was on her and nothing about me. i ain't bitter or anything. I have an exciting future. Also I don't watch porn not because I think it is wrong but because it is a waste of time and I'd rather do other shit. Also I said hooked up once in my life and said no many times. Again, a very average dude here. Next are you happy and satisfied that we figured you all out-…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:09 PM
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Okay i gotchya. So you are turned off by most men. Like you don't even find them attractive anymore because they are too whiny. Because they aren't being men and manning up and taking care of the problem like they used to back in the day? I understand now! Why would you want to say yes to any man you aren't attracted to is what you are trying to get at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:02 PM
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I didn't see your edited comment! Let me reread it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:59 PM
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I mean going by how sexist guys are we can figure out why it is hard for you despite being hot. Most guys are somewhat sexist and want to marry younger soo how old are you? Honestly knowing how sexist guys are, if you are hot there is no other reason why they won't propose to you unless you are old. If you are at least 25-30, are hot, and are not getting any good guy to propose to you, you have single handedly proved to me you are right and I am wrong. Or that you are super picky and are turning…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:54 PM
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No agenda. Just bored and procrastinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:49 PM
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I mean the goal isn't to "have a spouse". It is to "be in a decent relationship at best". Trust, I would rather be single than be in a toxic relationship so I can clearly see why a femcel would rather wait than be in a toxic relationship with an aggressive incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:42 PM
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Hi! I think I am an excellent person to answer your question because I had girls in your exact situation approach me on dating apps in which I said no! They said they liked my pictures, what I had to say, my career, etc. Now I am probably a 6 but the same rules apply bc she is a 6: First of all I don't care if a girl is a virgin or not so it doesn't matter. The only ones who care are sexists and crazy men. In fact I think it is WEIRD and a TURN OFF. I would still date you if the overall package …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:35 PM
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I only spent 3 minutes making that list. With your feedback and more reflection it is clear to see Hot Men are indeed #1 so my bad there. Second of all, thanks for such a nice long reply and your feedback from actual women-- that actually helps form my own perspective in a more realistic lens. Third, I am not saying all women are in a dandelion field skipping around and men are in hell, I know relationships are hard to get and even harder to maintain on average for everyone and it for far worse …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:53 PM
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Good call. I think Hot men are on top as well now that I reflected more on it and your reasons make that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:30 PM
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Yay! I am so happy people are responding. This topic has been itching me for the past 10 minutes lol. Very interesting take! I think you maybe right. In the end women want commitment so they would compete for said hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:27 PM
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Hey everyone so I was thinking that there is an actual "tier list" for dating/hooking up in todays time. Hot women > Hot men > Above avg Women > above avg men > Average women > below average women > most men/Ugly women > Ugly men & incels > femcels See this makes sense bc no one wants to date femcels, incels are too shitty to appreciate femcels, and thanks to hookup culture most men have dropped considerably and are checking out where they only do hookups. Then we have the average women and abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:11 PM
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Cope. It depends what portion of men/women you are talking about. Can you agree it is like this: Hot women > Hot men > Above avg Women > above avg men > Average women > below average women > most men > Ugly women > Ugly men & incels > femcels You are being blind to anyone not in your "arena" so that is why your comments are getting alot of clapback. It is all us below average complaining to you and saying we don't want to date ugly women & want to date our looksmatch or above which we used to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:05 PM
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My first date was when I was 20. So already you know my history is going to be short. Yea after that I got a Long term GF and some other stuff. 10 years later and I just cancelled 4 dates in the past 2 weeks. ...for the same reason as you. Sad part is I am a complete average guy or below average and these women I cancelled on...I would had married 10 years ago. It is the apathy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:14 PM
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