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Fundamentals purpleshoesamurai/r/seduction17/10/25 11:58 PM
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Fundamentals purpleshoesamurai/r/seduction23/09/25 06:51 AM
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no worrying is pussy shit
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:45 PM
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im average size and one time i banged this petite black girl, she insisted on giving me blowjob, and it fucking hurt cuz her mouth was too small her teeth kept scraping my dick. my guess he probably doesn't like getting blowjob from you cuz your mouth too small and it fucking hurts, its painful and not fun.
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:44 PM
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u ugly, get better pics.
/r/seduction18/10/25 09:07 PM
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so how do i break it and become better?
/r/seduction18/10/25 09:06 PM
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just try it YOLO, i want to try same thing when my online business takes off.
/r/seduction18/10/25 08:32 PM
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mmmmmmmm, fuck me eyes, yeah
/r/seduction18/10/25 08:24 PM
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so you're going to ignore a very common dynamic because it doesn't fit your worldview? me i want to find a wife and get married, but we can't ignore the dynamic i just described just because you personally don't like it.
/r/seduction18/10/25 06:27 PM
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maybe i am wrong tho, maybe you can enlighten me. i am open to new opinions and ideas, but you haven't presented anything interesting yet.
/r/seduction18/10/25 06:13 PM
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there may be what a woman wants, but often times when a woman get what she wants, she no longer want it. she wants the man she can't control. when she meets prince charming and he takes hours or days to respond she is wondering what he is thinking and wondering if he likes her or not, this is powerful. do you think prince charming with 10 billion hoes in his phone is going to spend all day texting you back and forth? only when he wants to fuck.
/r/seduction18/10/25 06:12 PM
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you know i thought about it, for me finding someone who is loyal probably looks like complete submission, a woman who will let me go through her phone without making a big deal about it. I've never had that before.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:49 PM
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very true, can you give some more examples of how to mimic top 5 percent man behavior?
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:44 PM
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i don't really care if she devotes herself to me, we're just friends. i would like to fuck her again, but i also don't really care if i do fuck her again or not. especially when i met a new woman last night. and there is another girl at school i like more. i completely agree with your last point, but it's hard to believe most women are loyal when you consistently see certain types of behaviors from women. the girl at school i really like, i really believe she would be loyal to me if she got into…
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:42 PM
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i will have to give it a shot, but honestly im not really tracking or paying attention to how much time has elapsed. usually i respond within minutes, sometimes i do take hours tho. maybe i can make a concentrated effort and take double the time to respond. and can you define ''respect''? i think men and women have very different ideas of ''respect'', and actually, treating a woman the way she secretly wants to be treated is more respectful, than whatever society's definition of ''respect'' is. …
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:37 PM
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good point, how to replicate this?
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:27 PM
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throw up
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:18 PM
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so yes, what do you think is the balance, and how do you think i can achieve the balance? on the other hand, i think it's possible both these men mentioned in my posts are actively being manipulative by ignoring, and you know what? it's working. so i'd say that, while you say ignoring is a turn off, you probably find it a turn on and become obsessed with the guy, and maybe you don't even realize this about yourself. because you are a woman so it's hard for you to look at yourself objectively and…
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:16 PM
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mm, how to strike the balance?
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:12 PM
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ur literally non binary lol
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:12 PM
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ya, i like this
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:11 PM
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i don't know, i don't think this is the full picture, women like talking to me for example.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:11 PM
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can you give some examples? what kind of things did you see as a kid that made you realize your mother is wrong? what is the story or stories behind getting your heart broken by texting a woman too much? can you give some practical tips and advice to implement in texting game with women? cuz obviously, you HAVE to text them, but obviously smothering them in texts is also bad, there is a balance. How to achieve balance and be desirable and be the guy she breaks her rules for?
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:09 PM
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mm, it's like working out in the gym, the muscles don't grow during the workout, they grow in the following days afterwards when the muscles break down and repair themselves. so it is the same way with the minds and the emotional brain. it must repair it self afterwards to build that bond.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:00 PM
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you should give a real answer, there is surely some nuance. if no one ever texted, 90 percent of modern day hook ups wouldn't happen. but on the other hand, if you text too much, you lose any chance you had.
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:58 PM
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i made out with this new asian woman last night, but i still like this one girl from school, maybe i will text her today. i wrote a love letter for her. my brain's messy. actually nvm, i just checked and she didn't reply to my last 4 texts. so idk, i think i will just wait till monday, she said she wants to see me monday. what do you think? should i send a 5th text? or nah? and i struggle with this, one of my female friends fell in love with me and we had sex and everything over the summer, but …
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:56 PM
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explain
/r/seduction18/10/25 04:29 PM
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so what would you do since both of these girls reach out to me almost everyday on their own, so i feel obligated to respond. if i dont say anything for 1 or 2 days they will both reach out without me initiating.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:41 AM
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good idea, you know what facetime video chat is probably the best cuz it's similar to in real life interactions. more memorable. you can use your face to communicate without words.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:39 AM
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you're not wrong
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:37 AM
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found the feminist, please leave
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:32 AM
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that's true, i don't leave the house often. except to talk to girls, is my only real hobby. i like the point about phone calls, and i do prefer phone calls, but im deaf, and many of them women i date are from foreign countries, and with their thick accents i usually cant hear anything they're saying over the phone. I think you're right on the nail with this one tho, you seem to strike the balance.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:32 AM
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this is a really good point, and when girls know you and trust you they are far more forgiving of mistakes in the seduction process.
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:28 AM
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can you give some examples of what that actually looks like in practice?
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:35 AM
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im a text smotherer, but i do that with everyone including my guy friends, not just girls
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:34 AM
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i would say both of these dudes could be movie actors, both girls are hot and have good bodies, but yeah i'd say you could consider the guys out of their league. both of these women are asian tho, and i just like asian women a lot.
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:33 AM
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there are a few women i can think of that i treated similarly, barely text them, just when i want sex, i was not that into them.
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:32 AM
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imply what
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:31 AM
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both of these girls also initiate texts with me everyday so i feel obligated to respond, clearly the physical attraction is there, i think i don't pass the sexual vibes check tho. well i did have sex with the other one before actually, we hung out as just friends earlier this week, but now that i think about it now, and knowing she banged the blonde guy yesterday, i was wondering if she said we are just friends but actually secretly wanted me to bang her so she could get over the other dude? sin…
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:28 AM
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so both of these women are physically attracted to me, i know they would both fuck me in the right circumstances, we've had many sexual conversations and i had sex with one of them before. but they're both smitten with other guys. It's got me thinking how, maybe because I am too available by texting them everyday, they have started to view me as a male best friend. which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but hearing this makes me think maybe i need to ignore girls all of the time and maybe girls wi…
/r/seduction18/10/25 12:09 AM
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I used to feel the exact same way as you and felt equally worthless and was equally unsuccessful with women. Honestly, i still feel worthless sometimes, like today. But I have actually had experiences with several different women now. You just need to do mass volume, approach 100-150 women per WEEK! for the next 1 year! And you will have at least a few lays and possibly a girlfriend by next year. Put in the work no matter how you feel. Also, reassess your style, get a new outfit, get a new hairc…
/r/seduction17/10/25 09:57 PM
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yes this is very true, i had this thought, anyone billing himself as a pickup, dating, and relationship coach likely has lots of toxic issues in his own life. he may be very good at picking up girls and getting sex but there's a damn reason he still isn't married after all this time. and it has nothing to do with the women and everything to do with him.
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:45 PM
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i disagree, why would you trust someone who doesn't take care of themselves? anyone can look like a 7 out of 10 at least if they put in effort to their look.
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:38 PM
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idk what author you are talking about which guy is it
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:36 PM
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yes and no, i paid for a dating coach advice this summer and he helped yes, and he's incredible at cold approach. but on the other hand use your head think about it, how psychotic does a person have to be to make their whole life all about dating women and banging hoes and dedicating themselves to figuring out how to bang more hoes? any normal man with a normal mindset will play the field a little bit and settle down with a nice normal girl. any dude selling his dating advice is not normal in th…
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:30 PM
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Go to the mall and talk to bitches all day. Get a good hair cut ditch the glasses go to the gym moisturize eat vitamins eat healthy get some new clothes get a cool new outfit . Just ball out having fun and looking your best and let loose be silly with these hoes they don't like a nigga that takes himself too seriously.
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:31 PM
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Stick to your morals I broke mine to hook up with hoes it was not worth it. Wish I was married to a good girl and had kids by now.
/r/seduction02/10/25 03:57 PM
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Talk to girls at school. Go to college, way easier to meet girls and find girlfriend at college than at a job out in the adult world. And since you already have a female friend that's good, make more female friends. If you have lots of female friends they will even recommend you as a boyfriend to other girls.
/r/seduction02/10/25 03:56 PM
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how many girls have you actually fucked over the last year with this fake persona? i promise you can def get more girls and have the better quality relationships if you just grow into yourself more and stop being fake
/r/seduction29/09/25 12:16 AM
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"here to shoot my shot"
/r/seduction28/09/25 06:18 PM
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i think a big one is making eye contact with a woman while speaking to her, and physicall escalating with touch. touch her arm, put your arm around her back. eventually you can touch her thigh and see if she allows you to touch her thigh. if she looks at you a certain way, she is ready for kiss. this is stuff that is very hard to explain but when you experience it you know. i had to have those kinds of things explained to me in order to do them. you can have a great conversation with a woman but…
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:35 PM
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ive only hooked up with like 1 girl i met through mutual friends and she did drugs and was mentally ill we went out for a month earlier this year. sexual tension is super important, but i feel like the rest of what you said is not very helpful to anyone struggling with girls. it comes naturally to you because you were socialized properly, it does not really come naturally to me.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:07 PM
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i want to be married with kids. and i can't possibly understand what you mean by organically because i've never had a truly organic relationship with a woman. it always takes me initiating the approach and puttin in effort.
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:40 PM
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What's her number
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:26 PM
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That doesn't really make sense, certainly not fitting advice for s sub that's dedicated to picking up chicos
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:32 AM
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What is your advice
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:24 AM
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Gold!
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:48 AM
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Healthy people are generally more healthy mentally too
/r/seduction25/09/25 04:25 PM
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Where is cangu
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:40 AM
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Disagree
/r/seduction25/09/25 06:33 AM
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Can u send .e the copy paste I want to try it
/r/seduction25/09/25 06:31 AM
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That is nice guy behavior you are describing and it's insidious, it isn't really nice or respectful to the girl to pretend to be her friend when you actually want to fuck or date or whatever. I want to make clear that girl I told you about I just straight up told her we should get married on the first date lol. So she has no illusions on what I think of her. You are correct that pining away for the same girl for months or years and never talking to any other romantic or sexual interests is a dea…
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:16 AM
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Because he's a gooner and you shouldn't date a man like that's he's low value and can't control himself
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:10 AM
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yeah a dating coach told me you should chase, especially if you don't actually have any women in your life
/r/seduction24/09/25 08:56 PM
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strange that i can't see your post history. where are you now ? have you had success in dating since then? i grew up christian too and went to church youth group too. but you know what? after having some wins in the seduction sphere of my life, i've realized those girls who sleep with me easily aren't good girlfriend material. ive been seeing a church girl i met at school just recently and she says she wants to be friends, but she makes it clear she is very attracted to me calling me handsome an…
/r/seduction24/09/25 08:45 PM
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we go to the same school and the same gym. and i understand you took a religious girl's virginity, but it is questionable how many morals and values she really had if she gave it up to you. and she just texted me asking if i went to the gym today, so maybe the story between us might not be over yet.
/r/seduction24/09/25 08:01 PM
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i ask because i went on 2 dates with a highly religious girl and i think i like her more than any girl i've ever gone out with but she does not want to date me anymore cuz i screwed up and said something about a threesome with 2 girls so she thinks i am not serious she thinks i only want sex. im a fuck up
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:18 PM
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how old are you? do you think being older reduces your chances with young women in the 18-25 age range? or do you mostly date older women in their 30s and 40s? have you ever managed to get an extremely religious girl who liked you but wouldn't even hold hands with you?
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:55 AM
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well if men are less interested in long term relationships that's not good for the future of society, means there will be no fathers to raise children, creating more chaos and criminals who end up in jail.
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:49 AM
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you're right, it is sick. you are a person of morals and values, you should find women with morals and values too. there's a surprising number of women with morals out there if you have the eyes to look and are seeking the same things as them.
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:29 AM
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relationships also fail when you live with your parents and your parents don't like it when you have girls over, so yeah just having money for basic stuff like renting your own place helps a lot
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:27 AM
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i just started an ebay store and hope to grow it to 10k per month, i want to eventually buy apartment buildings with 100 plus tenants, then ill never be broke again. what do you do?
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:26 AM
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what do those guys usually do to make 500k plus?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:45 AM
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you don't need any money to get a date or get laid, that's you bro. but you need to at least be able to afford your own place and be able to afford to provide for children if you want her to take you seriously for a long term relationship. there are women who will date long term you if you're broke, but you don't want them, they're trashy party girls and single moms and drug addicts. having a decent amount of money also solves a lot of things seduction related, can't pay for dates? get some mone…
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:44 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:37 AM
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I texted her today I'll just wait and if I hear nothing I'll see what she's doing Saturday we hung out the last 2 Saturdays so
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:22 PM
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15 min or less on two occasions
/r/seduction23/09/25 08:54 PM
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she didn't reply to my text last night, and didn't reply today. I may just be feeling her interest waning and maybe that's what is causing me to post on reddit about her lol, what do you do when that happens? my wing said don't text her for 3 days and wait for her to reach out, what do you think of that?
/r/seduction23/09/25 08:00 PM
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mm, i dont mean to appear creepy comment on on all your posts i just find that you are so different from other guys in the seduction sphere refreshing and unique and find myself agreeing with most of your takes. yeah, i didn't know about Aga Khan, that's something i'd never tried before. i've honeslty never tried the whole traditional get a girl flowers and ask her out thing, because my only interactions with women have all been after reading The Game and under that framework and the other liter…
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:01 PM
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mm, i like that, expressing your undying passion. i want to express it to this Vietnamese girl, you replied to my post about her. but all my wings and advisors in pick up are obviously saying that's a bad idea. some guy at the gym told me if i want to make her my girlfriend i need to get her roses and ask her '' can i be your boyfriend'' he said he saw it on tiktok and it worked for him. makes me want to try it. what do i have to lose? and i do feel dirty talking to other girls like i said on my…
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:49 PM
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you are correct, i find i get the most female attention when i let go and stop analyzing and be present and be natural. feel everything.
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:36 PM
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and mystery is still single today 20 years later, should tell you something
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:29 PM
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i talked to a girl for 2-3 months over the summer before finally meeting up with her and we had sex and everything, but it eventually fizzled out because i was too needy for her and she believed i was a fuck boy who just wanted sex. sad. hottest girl i've ever been with too. and the smartest girl i've ever been with.
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:24 PM
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you're right, in my life, i've noticed the men who have consistently had many short term relationships over the years have the most mental issues and drug abuse issues. attracting girls is an important skill for a man, but if a man can't maintain a long term relationship there's some sort of issue going on there.
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:22 PM
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i feel like she likes me and is physically attracted to me but she thinks im a fuck boy whose desperate for sex. and that may be true, but i genuinely want to connect with her deeply on an intimate level. and yeah you're right if i sent a girl things like that i think most women would get offended and say think that im implying they're a slut. so im having a hard time seeing what you're trying to say here tho, because im not a woman, im a man. and its kind of true i am kind of a man whore, i hav…
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:18 PM
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no she straight up said she think i am a fuck boy and that she doesn't know if she can trust me yet, she even jokingly texted me an STD testing event
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:31 PM
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yes, i do this, i masturbate to the point my dick hurts and it's so painful i can't walk
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:05 PM
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beta
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:04 PM
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yes i agree with you 100 percent, i find my brain being sex sex sex when really i want to connect deeply with the women i meet
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:03 PM
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no healthy person smokes marijuana or uses alcohol on a regular basis
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:02 PM
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you shouldn't listen to this dude he encourages his wife to bang other dudes
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:01 PM
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how do i quit porn
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:56 PM
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yeah i know it's funny i say that, i do sound beta saying i actually enjoy my conversations with her lol. cuz the truth is most women are boring and i don't actually like hanging out with most women if we're not fucking. but with this girl it is true that i actually do like the conversations i have with her she's a goofball and fun to be around.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:07 PM
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I straight up told her on first date we should get married and have kids she knows I want her, so I don't think she is friend zoning me . But even if she is I actually enjoy my conversations with her I wouldn't mind being friends with her
/r/seduction23/09/25 03:07 PM
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Yes I need to overcome the early stages so it can be a relationship. I think the problem be she thinks I am a fuck boy who gets around a lot and she isn't sure that she can trust me yet
/r/seduction23/09/25 03:06 PM
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She's south Vietnamese and catholic goes to church every Sunday
/r/seduction23/09/25 03:03 PM
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Yes this is exactly what I want I want to be intimate, thank you for reminding me what I was looking for
/r/seduction23/09/25 03:01 PM
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You're right , what do you think are the best most fun ways to have this kind of conversation about sex? Or not even just sex but just physical touching in general
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:54 AM
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Well I don't know, I've even had sex with girls 15 minutes after meeting them before. But those girls weren't good girlfriend material. I figured I'd try the traditional thing I've never actually tried doing it the normal way for me it was always bang first date and if I don't I never saw her again but decided to try something different
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:17 AM
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She definitely knows I'm interested I straight up told her we're gonna get married and have babies on the first date she was like who are you lol. I think based on things she said she's afraid of being used only for sex because of a past boyfriend and she may be afraid that once she gives it up I think I can have it all the time. Cuz she said her ex boyfriend would always get angry and aggressive when she said no to sex and that's why she dumped him. I read another post on here that said, women …
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:08 AM
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2 things, you don't want those women, and I know plenty of men that are constantly in relationships and don't beat their girlfriends.
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