purrp606 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Q4W: what struggles do you face dating that men fail to empathize with? I get what you were trying to do. This sub is miserable. I think your point stands to the lurkers	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:52 AM
3	Men need to stop expecting women to teach them to be good lovers. Thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 01:06 PM
8	Men need to stop expecting women to teach them to be good lovers. I should mention I’m 45 years old. I’m not having sex with virgins or guys in their 20s with no experience. If a man gets into his late 30s and is still bad at sex, he’s just living his life wrong. I don’t have time to help someone like that. Yeah, fair enough. You’re talking to a demographic of men who are largely 20-30 and terrified of their own inexperience here, hence the panicked responses In your opinion, what should those men do? I’d happily read a book if it made my first time pleasant f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 12:28 PM
3	If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one? Racism is still racism regardless of context. A black person hit my Asian grandpa and there is a wave of black people attacking Asians. I still do not resort to racism against black people. I think even perceiving that “there is a wave of black people attacking Asians” falls into racist territory by some academic standards - But you have to make sense of that reality as you experience it, right? As much as there’s no “context” that permits it, I bet this knowledge of the Asian hate crime wave sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 09:33 PM
6	If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one? There’s a really tragic and very typical miscommunication that’s happening here I read what OP is saying as an implied critique of TRP’s premises more than anything. If you believe that a woman has no regard for mutual love and the only thing desirable in a man is Power - why would you love women? What a lot of women seem to see as brute misogyny, I see as a pained attempt to reconcile their own yearning to be loved by a woman with their anxiously held impression that it’s all a zero sum power g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 07:02 PM
10	What is a 10? What is a 5? What is a 1? TO YOU That chart is ludicrous. Emma stone is a 6? Like she’s just above average? Madness	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 09:40 AM
2	Women, do you know any sexually less than successful men in real life? What are these men like? “A neutral ideology” lol ffs just think for a minute about that	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 11:36 PM
10	Women, do you know any sexually less than successful men in real life? What are these men like? Their problem is they don’t know how to be desirable to women. They’re nice guys (genuinely nice, not Nice Guy) but they are also awkward. They don’t know how to flirt, how to pursue, how inspire lust in women. So yes personality is important but it’s not just a matter of putting yourself out there. It’s specific personality traits that are important. I think that’s probably right. I bear a painful suspicion towards exactly the process of flirting that’s supposed to create desire, which probably…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 05:16 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Durk is pretty good man he was a pioneering figure in todays hip hop sound	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 12:37 PM
8	The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations. Uh, the life of MY woman and child maybe. Not some other asshole’s tho lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 08:47 PM
0	Do older women resent younger women ? Im also a 50 year old escort that banks. you probably have some apt insights for this subreddit lol. What kinda guys do you usually see if you don’t mind me asking? Loners? “Incels” or other currently relevant male demographic trends? Married guys? Anyone below 30 or 25? Gained any wisdom about “what men are really like”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:35 PM
1	FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too high good messages within the philosophy, like finding and pursuing your purpose, weighing the value of certain life decisions that are pushed upon you... Etc. literally the same liberalism that TRP poses itself against as soon as it starts talking societal scale solutions nah, as a philosophy its just liberalism looted of all transcendent sentiment. Thats why liberals and progressives don't like it! Its the same thing they believe, individual fulfilment, without any of the fairy tales about how heal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 01:13 PM
4	Personality matters, but don't conflate it with virtue This all gets at a huge problem with the frame of “red pill” evo psych gender dynamics discussion. It’s true our mental functions are in the end contingent on the limited material world and so have to be adapted for survival, hence strength, dominance, etc But imo this is just an analytically lazy shortcut to pretend you’re not really having a discussion about society - so you can skip past everything involving the actual experience of humans interacting, and everything that’s been thought and w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 12:13 PM
2	Do you care about a guy's "number" if so what ranges are do you prefer? I think it’s one of those contradictory urges - kinda women’s equivalent of Madonna/whore complex. I don’t think we have any reason to doubt all the women reporting disgust with high N dudes - I’ve heard the same from friends who’s gfs were repulsed by the idea they’d been with anyone else before at all and had a hard time coping with it. Not “femcel” or loser women either, pretty well socialized upper middle class women. I think even in the reductive evo psych perspective it makes sense. Your m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 12:53 PM
3	FDS and TRP were born and exist due to ugly people who's standards are too high I don’t doubt it works, we live in a perverted society. The original red pill bloggers before it was a Reddit thing would concede as much - I remember it being called “looting in the apocalypse” by cheateau heartiste. But I think “reasonable” RP wanna have their cake and eat it too when it comes to being a decent person and man. RP all descends from 48 Laws of Power, how to win friends and influence people and Machievelli etc - Its a rubric of manipulation, it’s categorizations fundamentally inv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:48 PM
2	How much of the RP is based on bully/victim dynamics between men? Lol yeah not a very satisfying answer I’ve googled myself to similar depressing finds many times Could be just projecting but this seems like THE starting point for a real discussion about dysfunctional courtship dynamics of today. All the male demands about body count or women having to lower their standards etc is ephemeral to me and seems to lead nowhere. The whole dynamic where dominance as such IS eros is to me clearly core to the entire sad gender dynamic we have. For example, the idea tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 10:23 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread They believe it’s all about relative social status so there’s no raising the tide and raising all boats with men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 06:06 AM
3	How much of the RP is based on bully/victim dynamics between men? Dominance isn’t characterized by “protecting the weak and vulnerable” nor by being a sadistic tormentor as such It just means you have a relative position of power over someone. So “dominance” being a fundamentally attractive quality is in itself imo very obviously troublesome - by definition we can’t all have power over each other. However, the pursuit of a harmonic social negotiation with the reality of power/hierarchy is something that basically defines us as humans. It’s why the shortcut to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 07:01 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread started debating them ruthlessly. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 05:24 PM
1	Should "smaller" men give up on PIV (penis in vagina) sex ? Lol shit, true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 11:28 PM
5	Should "smaller" men give up on PIV (penis in vagina) sex ? was on Instagram on her phone or watching TV when I was fucking her and she would always jus tell me to enjoy MY time Is it just me or is that fucking insane behavior lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 03:39 PM
0	Settling is one of the worst things you can do, next to cheating Teslas haven’t been cool for about 3-4 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 07:50 AM
2	Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity? Wait is femininity a patriarchal construct to create servile women, or is it a beautiful primal essence that patriarchy represses. It can’t be both. Failing to get this straight is where 3rd wave feminism really lost smth from 2nd wave. Dworkin may have very literally been a man hater but she was sharp about this kinda thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 07:50 PM