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20

He would never dream about saying these things in public. But sir, you do dream about it don't you? You fantasize about saying it to someone who has to put up with it? While they're at their most vulnerable to you, physically and emotionally? Oh that makes it so much better. What a hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:49 PM
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I'm trying to figure out what one of them says at the end like 'he fucked up'? The body language of one or two people in this video can be debatable but EVERYONE seems awkward and displaying defensive or standoffish behavior (arm crossing, scrolling, awkward smiling, looking around). There's a body language guy on YouTube I would love for him to analyze their relationship 😂 Glad to see this on FDS I saw it the other day and it's just so awful we needed to discuss. I think too this is why we play…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:11 PM
175

It's really a good thing he didn't go in the bathroom, women's period blood mixed with bathwater, as everyone knows, can lure men to drown themselves in it. The Crimson Death they call it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:30 AM
8

She should have closed the closet door and locked him in there forever. ❤ Or less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:27 AM
24

This is a step in the right direction but now I'm worried a lot of women who became dependent on this platform might move to weirder and less safe ones. Either way I'd say OF simply presented the illusion of safety and anonymity, these women's identities and safety were always in jeopardy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:00 AM
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Idk if it's the situation here but nine times out of ten if a friend has this man/friend they really want me to date... They've usually already dated or tried dating and it didn't work out so you're supposed to take them off of their hands. 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:16 AM
129

As a kid I never understood... But now what I know... If I ever had kids, no sleepovers ever. Nope nope nope. These judges literally are telling women they can't warn their kids or kids friends, I'm assuming that means keeping something like this from the parents too. That judge should be removed for endangering children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:55 PM
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The only scenario I can say sure cement her in is if pickme is captioned saying 'See this is why you're all still single you're too picky!'' 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:11 AM
102

I read this wrong at first and thought they cemented the pickmes in there too... But maybe that was on purpose? 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:05 AM
11

This illustration is amazing, and just make me realize why other similar images bothered me. These hands aren't just hands of different races, they all have personality and individuality. This artist did an excellent job of showcasing diversity without it being token.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:26 PM
5

OK but where is this from!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:14 AM
3

Wait so if he wasn't cheating she's just being 'jealous'?? This behavior is awful. At that point does it even matter if he's cheating?? He's a terrible boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:31 AM
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I think we can be so concerned with signs that men are committed we consider marriage the final stage of that. But I see too many posts about whether or not the man wants to marry, what do the women want to do? Are you going to be more likely to say yes for the ring or because it's the real thing? A married man can do all the same things a unmarried man can do. An uncommitted man can propose just as easy as a committed man. It's ONE way to gauge commitment but it's not the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:55 PM
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I think marriage should always kind of be on the table (if that's the goal) but I would be really uncomfortable if serious marriage talks happened before a year. I used to think no proposal by a year meant no interest, but that really isn't too much time either. Three or five years with anyone without a clear plan on moving forward (ring/living together whatever YOU want) he/you're just coasting at that point. There's a reason for hesitancy on either side. That's what makes it a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:40 AM
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If anyone randomly messages you for casual sex, is that not considered rude?? Why even assume you would want to share half of her unfaithful man? Or be objectified by some woman who can't even form a sentence? Who knows where they've been. 🤢 The thing I hate about these interactions so much is they think they're these madames for their husband, delivering fresh pussy for her kings pleasure. Honey do you think your husband gives a fuck about the nuances? Do you think that he wouldn't bang anyone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:29 PM
10

Thank you! Omg I was like no I've seen this before and almost this exact wording. Idk if one of them copied the other or this happens that often? The wording is just so similar and they're both doing makeup. Is this like a challenge trend thing? Edit: the wording isn't similar, its exactly the same lol who did it first! Edit Again: this video was posted 18 hours ago from what I can see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:41 PM
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His post is further down in relationship advice complaining about a dead bedroom... 😣😂 "Why me why meeeeee"🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:03 AM
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These are so many points I've never even thought of. Thank you for this thoughtful tweet, and polite concise responses using evidence to back up your thoughts. Like I didn't see any of the people disagreeing making a thoughtful reply. Most people just saying 'No', 'yikes' or 'swerf'. Some people even wanted to say FDS doesn't blame men. 😂 I think we can get all of Reddit and 4Chan to back us up in that one. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:40 AM
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Oof the bought her own ring part is so bad! I know it's just a show but I'm sure this kind of thing has happened before! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:40 AM
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Man I'm tired of people/TV shows doing the proposal but the other person doesn't know/expect it. Don't propose unless a conversation has been had about whether yes will be the answer. I feel like sometimes these public proposals are selfish and manipulative. I'm not sure if it relates to the show I haven't seen it. If I was put in this position I would feel like I at least had to say yes until we were in private, but still how embarrassing. I imagine in this show and from the comments it's a for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:29 PM
4

Seriously! If you're asking for relationship advice on reddit I think I've got SOME idea of how it's going! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:52 AM
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At the time it was very upsetting, now I'm much more aware of these things and I dodged a bullet. That's a quick marriage... How awful he's telling people he didn't want to marry her. 😩 And then does. What a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:21 AM
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I don't get this as often since my online accounts /wording often get confused for male. They get SO aggressive. I get called simp and white Knight all the time. They hate it when they think one of their own is defending women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:45 PM
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I had an ex, we broke up after eight years he was with someone new after three weeks married in a year. I was shocked. Why didn't he ever ask me? What was wrong with me? She pressured him into it! And he went with it. They divorced like a year later. Never beg for anything in a relationship. A codependant man will do the minimum they need just to keep you around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:54 PM
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That's a really winded way of letting people know how insecure you are and jealous of the ex. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:10 AM
10

Definitely has a promising career in the circus. Those mental gymnastics. Also when did you spend time cleaning his tub especially if you don't live there? You don't go to someone's house to spend time with their bath scum. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:47 PM
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That's just disturbing. Honestly the top looks better anyway, She's a beautiful young girl she doesn't need to be orange and glowing. With lipstick. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:11 PM
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Aftercare just sounds so goddamn creepy to me. Sounds like some weird medical procedure has taken place and the person needs to be cared for so they can recover. What has essentially happened is reverse therapy, instead of dealing with trauma it's creating more. It's like a form of trauma bonding, like love bombing and gas lighting, they're crying because they've been violated and the body knows before the brain (and brains are super mailable and willing to go along with the 'group', but your bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:58 AM
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That's so scary I'm sorry that happened to you! And with a kid in the damn car! I've definitely experienced this before, so have my friends. One time a guy drove around to cut me off at the next intersection and was OUTSIDE of his car ready to confront me. I'm not even sure what I did to him? These men are cowards and waiting to take their aggression out on whomever they see as weaker than them. I should have ran over his foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:44 PM
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Unfortunately this kind of this is fairly common I guess. We had incidents like this in my town, so I can only imagine other towns may be similar. I really think it's sex traffickers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:31 PM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeu31Gem/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:21 PM
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I don't think I could process that on my own. Some therapy wouldn't be a bad idea. And some kick boxing classes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:51 PM
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Seriously and while women can be assaulted whether they are rude or nice or whatever, telling them to ignore their instincts or police their behavior should be a huge NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:17 PM
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We were all in HS once unfortunately my experience isn't unique! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:14 PM
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I always want to praise these men but catch myself thinking nah this is how it's SUPPOSED to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:41 PM
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Honestly I liked the message but in the back of my mind I was like please don't let this guy be a creep. 😅 Hey there young lady you all alone? Hey bro the young lady is uncomfortable you need to step off. So anyway, what grade are you in? You could definitely be a college girl you remind me of my daughter she's an angel. You want a milkshake sweetie? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:40 PM
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That's the thing about this girl as soon as she stopped recording the man tried to grab her. Always record! Be loud! Tell people! Jackie spending too much time telling women how to react... tell these men to stop being gross! She's encouraging men to be as rude as they want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:36 PM
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Wow I had no idea! She's a hall of famer for sure! 🏆 Her story makes sense though, I definitely think when we see women making these excuses for assholes it's so they feel better about the shit men in their life. This grown ass woman has had enough feedback by now to start waking up and respecting herself and her sisters so I hope she changes too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:22 PM
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I always thought it was a broad term to blanket the industry. Whether you're a high paid sex therapist or an 18 year old prostitute you're a 'sex workers'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:16 PM
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Too long didn't read... I'm mad that she's not saddled down with the thing I insisted on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:15 PM
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I've heard some of these couples call bi women unicorns. Too many 'poly' couples just want a regular sex object for their three ways, and the woman doesn't want to be left out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:40 PM
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Ladies... if I ever type up a doozy like that one just... Please send halp. Send all the halp in the world. 🤦🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:41 AM
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Look into the musty smelling pile of clothes. What do the clothes say to you? 🔎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:35 PM
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'You don't own his orgasms' is the new way of saying people shouldn't have to have loyalty in a committed relationship. Is it so much to ask that your dick shouldn't get harder at the thought of your own hand than my vagina? 🤔 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:44 PM
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This is why even if in the moment something seems 'fun' or 'flattering' boundaries are so important. Everything SEEMED fine while he was getting his way. Maybe deep down she didn't say no or speak up because she had a feeling... But as soon as her needs became inconvenient to him it seems like the switch flipped... But the reality is it's not that her feelings don't matter anymore it's just that he never put them first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:04 PM
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This girl is going to be cringing so hard years from now once she has moved on and gets the occasional flashback of nest guy. First waiting so long to see his apartment... The reasons she must have been coming up with in her head, and the when she finally sees it... Not just leaving then and there but trying to be a good sport and actually sleeping in the nest... And then even going as so far to offer a room for the nest if they ever lived together, some sort of aviary in one of their rooms. Pay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:29 PM
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The not all men crew has no comment on locker room talk apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:48 PM
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Good lord she's beautiful! Ladies, set those standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:29 PM
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Hahaha she's getting rightfully torn apart in the comments. She should be grateful this is the most action she's gotten on her twitter in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:17 PM
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If it's always going to be our fault might as well not be dead or raped. ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:20 PM
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Yeah definitely a normal reaction from a friend that doesn't want to fuck! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:10 PM
6

New rule, when we see assholes like this everyone give them. The worst advice possible that will reveal their narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:38 AM
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He's struggling to see a way out... That doesn't make him look like the selfish piece of shit he really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:15 AM
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This whole thing just happened to him? What a poor victim of a man! 😢 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:43 AM
10

I've put up a fake security yard sign before, I bet you can buy the stickers to put in your window. I might make some with my cricut after reading this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:13 PM
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I don't even do that around my friends. Totally rude behavior. It would have only gotten worse. Date #1 and he can't ignore his friends for fifteen fucking minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:39 PM
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She called and asked because she already knew the answer!! 🤡🔬 And she didn't want to leave it be. You don't ask for basic decency like this, you simply walk away if you're not getting it. Simple. Yeah? Fresh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:14 PM
10

People envious of those who take control of their lives will do mental gymnastics in their heads to make them sound bad so that they may feel better about their own choices and the ways they settle. I follow some FDS hate subs to keep an eye on what they're saying (and for major laughs) and I can tell you they're projecting BIG time calling us bitter and alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:03 PM
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I can't wait to see the responses to this... Because if you're mad you know you just got called out. 😎😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:59 PM
24

Why is it always such a poly talking point to defend the male gaze? It's not that they want to make connections, no, they like looking at tits. She's really trying to make it sound deeper than that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:46 AM
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What is the difference between a HVM and a guy who did a thoughtful thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:01 AM
19

There's a few numbers going around, apparently this last month everyone who lost a job were women? (men lost jobs too but then men were able to GET jobs making the losses women's only) Something like 140,000 jobs. I swear it's a conspiracy to turn us all into sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:43 PM
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People want me to convince them porn is bad. How about first show me the studies otherwise. It's one of those things where like... Just use common sense. Is it normal to get off of violence, incest, rape, as close to child abuse as 'legally' possible? Are the people who supply these products going to care about what happens to people who use? Don't y'all want your 🦆 to work again????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:40 AM
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'I know 20 black women who will...' 😂 Woops not anymore! One of those backhanded compliments he'll be paying for later. I have to admit at first I was like awww... But then why do they need to do that? If they didn't would the still be difficult?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:36 AM
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Plenty of mods to immediately (I'm talking seconds) ban FDS users from subs for controversial feminist comments and they can't tackle this? It's because they don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:37 PM
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😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:08 AM
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I wonder what her actual reaction was? Anything less than that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:57 AM
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Was there like, never piss on his bathroom floor before they moved in together, or did he live with his mommy who always cleaned up his piss?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:26 PM
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When you ask girls when they first saw porn it was usually their dad's or brothers. These men see nothing wrong with exposing themselves to it or exposing young girls to it. And you're right people always talk about porn like it's just sex. It would be one thing if it was JUST PEOPLE FUCKING. But it never is. The first porn I saw when I was very young was bestiality porn on my friends family computer (I imagine the brother or dad had it in a folder). Fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:21 PM
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Seriously, imagine a store on the corner of every neighborhood giving away porn to children every day. As much as they want, whatever type they want. That is the reality of what's happening right now online, but instead of outrage we are seeing total denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:55 PM
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What's sad is that this is considered a controversial view. Like I'm scared to post this on my Facebook. Porn is like a drug religion for so many people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:43 PM
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"But I provide the income! 40 hours a week is the most I can contribute to this family!" -Lazy Dads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:09 AM
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So their argument for prostitution is that they should be in dangerous areas "normal women" can't go? Don't women work those jobs though ? Are they like arguing that these guys are OK to cheat on their wives back home? Wouldn't it be the same for single guys? Just get some when you can? And then it should be legal because some women don't have any other means of earning an income? Where is the consent in that case? I'm just so confused, and then they used that smart guy meme like it's such a str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:48 AM
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Ugh! I saw a post way back about a dad supporting his daughter's OF. Grab me a bucket to puke in please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:39 PM
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Many ladies I know are trying to use it as supplemental income. $7-$10 a month for subscriptions. Mostly so guys you know, your so called FRIENDS go peeping. Just so weird. So not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:57 PM
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The real focus of the article should have been class warfare and low wages leave more women relying on sex work to make ends meet. Wife, whore or working woman? Looks like society is pretty much forcing us to do all three for the price of one. Edit: Thanks for the award kind lady! Side note only two of those jobs really be paying right now... 😂 (barely)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:53 PM
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Look you're not wrong. There's just a wider group to work with here. Banana is infamous for not being the favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:44 PM
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🍾🥂🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:25 PM
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He might be trying to sneak into the more secure FDS Group. Thank god he's too dumb for that or for acquiring pussy. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:24 PM
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Me too. So many jerks talking about how this sub should be banned and banning people just for using it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:47 PM
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This is one of my favorite spaces on the internet because of what our mods do. Thank you mods! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:01 PM
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They're definitely up in the feminism and ask feminists subreddit. No sign of them here from what I've seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:00 PM
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I don't know whether to cry or vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:38 PM
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He really couldn't help himself. IT NEEDS TO BE SAID! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:43 PM
2

That's amazing! Keep on leveling up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:26 PM
3

It honestly breaks my heart. They worked so tirelessly for us to turn around and ask our friends to pay $7 a month to look at our buttholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:18 PM
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That's what they have said to multiple users apparently! We are pretend feminists. That's why feminism has been anti porn up until these last ten years. 🤔 IMO feminism can't exist without being against the porn industry. It's a fucking coup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:17 PM
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Reddit liberals support equality! Everyone should get a chance to debase themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:15 PM
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FDS never condones lying about your intentions to a man or trapping a man. What the fuck is this shit. We have the rules and reservations we do because we watch shit like this happen to our mothers, sisters, friends. All we want is bodily and financial autonomy. Unfortunately to get it we have to treat men like something that could potentially take that away. Because they do. But we're just a bunch of pretend feminists I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:10 PM
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This has been a comfort to me as well. I hate being silenced. It frustrates me to no end. So many women have been denied from expressing their views on those subs. It's absolutely disgusting. But like many users said, they were never safe spaces for women anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:06 PM
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I was a porn user up until the last two years. I can't believe how long it took me to realize the content I was using was damaging my brain and hurting women I didn't even know. Maybe that's why I'm so outspoken about it, I just want to help people reach the conclusions I came to sooner. A lot of men are addicted to porn, that's why we get such a strong backlash for our anti porn views. We threaten their favorite drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:57 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, the mods at ask feminist disagree with everything I said in my comment. They support sexual violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:52 PM
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Haha! God bless FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:47 PM
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I'm sure I could figure it out! Feminist hacker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:31 AM
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Why did they even search your history wtf?? That seems like their line, they said that to me and another user. What bullies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:28 AM
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My full comment-- Porn is a product for a primarily male audience using primarily female bodies. The most common porn, especially lately involves simulating or creating violent acts on women including rape, incest, race play and age play. Any feminist should agree that violence against women, simulated or not, can create a desensitized audience some of them now fantasizing about recreating these scenes. Exposure to these things doesn't satiate a need but fuels it. And now this content is availab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:24 AM
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They only would have known that if they searched my post history. Why does a mod need to search my post history? I either made a comment worthy of a ban or I didn't. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:21 AM
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I wish I had thought ahead. If I use another account now with the same IP I could get banned from the site. Very important FDS survival rule is control who knows you're FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:18 AM
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It truly is. This user (OP) is an ex porn addict and asked a legitimate question about women's views on porn, and thanks to the mods on these subs they're not going to get the full story they need. Who knows something I said could have helped them along their recovery journey. But stopping FDS is more important than that I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:15 AM
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I can't believe I got hit with that one 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:10 AM
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I've heard from various users a lot of the mods on these subs are men. I knew the post was doomed when one of the mods commented something to the effect of 'I'll let this post asking what feminists think of porn slide since it's a slow day'. Excuse me? Violence against women is a threat every day. We should never stop talking about porn and the effects it can have on those who use it, and those who are exploited by its production.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:12 AM
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Well my response was definitely less courteous, but I am getting so frustrated with these mods dismissive behavior. They don't want to listen they just want us to go away. I was told any further contact would be considered harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:08 AM
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Another example of shackling kids to bad fathers. This mother's series of choices are now forcing her daughter to raise her husband. If you marry a man child, your kids will have to raise them too one day. Hell even your friends and family will be expected to join in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:14 PM
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I thought the same thing. Never end the rant. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:13 AM
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Guys like this need to be reported, I'm that bitch that would report it to the app and the local police. That is some serial killer shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:46 AM
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I think at that point I would just take the drink say thanks and ditch/dump it somewhere? Is it a bad move to make a guy think he might have successfully roofied you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:32 AM
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Don't send nudes. It's not a matter of whether you should feel shame for sending them if some guys leaks them. It's like leaving your curtains open at night. It's like sharing personal al. Information online. Yes you have a right to be free, but use your judgement to be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:37 PM
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Hey can we talk? So, you may not realize this and I'm sure you didn't mean it, but when you knocked me up and forced me to have your bastard while dangling marriage over my head, that hurt my feelings. But then I was so happy when you finally said you wanted to get married as long as I did all the work, but then when you said you didn't two days before the wedding, that really made me feel sad. And embarrassed, yanno? Thanks so much for listening, I know you'll continue with the behavior and not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:12 PM
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Not sane enough to decide who to hang out with, hmm? Is he talking about himself? He probably recognizes himself in the guy she's hanging out with. What if he takes advantage of her like I did? I'll admit I would be weirded out if I was the 'boyfriend' in this situation, but reconnecting with an old friend isn't always something disgusting. Let's be real it usually is lol. People from your old life usually either hit you up for sex or to sell you candles or leggings or some shit. Either way she'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:56 PM
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Oh yeah I've seen that! It's so freaky and gross. They call it art because they don't want to admit they're jacking off to cartoon characters being mutilated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:32 PM
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There's a new porn subreddit about torturing women for pleasure every five minutes and they want to bash on FDS for telling women they don't have to put up with anything they don't want to. Pickmes and penises it sound like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:48 AM
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All of the parents were flawed on that show but it did seem like Angelica's mom was portrayed as the most 'neglectful'. Kinda funny considering the stay at home mom almost never kept an eye on the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:41 PM
29

I love this! Haha men can be such babies when they're sick/injured too and he still thought of her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:24 PM
51

The way he talks about wrapping her up in a blanket to watch a movie, cleaning her up, explaining things... It sounds like he's talking about a child. Maybe that's the point. Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:48 PM
6

It's a really great concept and show... just the leads are always in the verge if rape or getting raped. Even the male lead was raped and tortured for three episodes. There's a lot of cool stuff in that show I don't know why they always have to use it as a plot point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:11 PM
25

This got shared to another sub and of course people had to take the time out of their day not to comment on the PEOPLE WHO WANT TO RAPE but how FDS is disgusting. Good job everyone. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:02 AM
74

Umm I need a support group for the season finale of Outlander. I was bawling... And I just don't understand why they had to go that hard. Period pieces always have gratuitous rape scenes. It's almost like sometimes these shows are trying to remind us of our place. See how good you have it now? Back then an entire village could assault you and it's just Friday night shenanigans. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:48 AM
5

This level of 'chill' should be reserved for those who have earned it, who have proved themselves. How can you be chill like this with someone you're just getting to know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:46 AM
26

Meanwhile people men are complaining that they aren't attracted to their wives anymore because of weight gain or not taking care of themselves. It's like Sandra Bullock and Bruce Willis are standing next to women on a bus as they spend time on their looks. Don't go over 50% effort, BUT don't go under 10% effort and if you brag about it too much you're conceited but also your man following Instagram models is perfectly normal because the men they are visual creatures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:12 PM
9

Thank you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:17 AM
13

I wonder who they are I'd love to follow them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:06 AM
44

I seriously doubt he never made relationship /girlfriend type references during their two years together, especially if their entire friends group thinks they're together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:22 AM
106

Also... Like why?? He doesn't even use her fake name in the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:20 AM
18

If I buy a four pack of buns and a six pack of hot dogs, the hot dogs are leftover because there is more of them. Heck I could even make a hotdog with TWO WIENERS if I wanted to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:09 PM
43

I really hope a surge of FDS comments take over that video!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:43 PM
137

Marry young before you realize what options you have... 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:55 PM
1

Yep that's why no girl ever talks about guys that are good in bed. 🙄 Or struggle not to sleep with their sleezy exes. What's ironic here is I hear so many women complain about how the worst communicators/personalities were the best in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:05 AM
6

It also covers anything from literally being a cashier at a sex shop or sex therapist to full on in person prostitution, with no discretion in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:44 PM
2

I've definitely thought if I ever had to have a surrogate or egg donor that would make me pretty uncomfortable, but I have the conversation like kids can't be a deal breaker for you. I think they avoided breaking up despite her deal breaker. She should have left him the first time he said he wouldn't compromise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:13 PM
2

Wow that must have been such a confusing range of emotions for you. It sounds like you were very sympathetic to her upbringing at least. But yeah, desperate acts involving men is what this sub as all about avoiding which I love. And women NEED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:11 PM
2

Ugh it still makes me so mad like not being able to have a child gave her a mental breakdown and he still didn't reconsider the sperm donor thing? Heartbreaking. She will move on I have to have hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:19 AM
2

I noticed commenting was turned off perhaps he didn't like the people calling out his bullshit? I had to scroll down a bit before I found comments more on the women's side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:12 AM
2

I don't think he should tell her either! It would just make her feel worse. He should just take the girlfriend and move to a whole new country! 😂 Also no worries about the edits of course & good morning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:10 AM
3

Seriously if she can find strength and meaning for herself beyond this. She already avoided having a child with that narcissist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:05 AM
6

I don't like it because he's basically being told he won and feels like he succeeded. Instead he failed. He failed help the woman who wanted to be pregnant and put a pregnancy on a woman who wasn't ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:03 AM
7

I don't think it's ever a good idea to want something so badly it would put you in the hospital if you don't get it. Work hard towards your dreams sure... But some things just don't work out and motherhood usually requires a man/sperm donor. It just shouldn't be normalized to feel so lost for not being able to be a mother. I hope she either gets what she wants or finds new value in something meaningful to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:00 AM
10

I don't even know where to begin. Unwilling to give his exwife what she wanted more than anything because of his ego. Starts dating a woman 14 years younger, knowing she might want kids some day, probably not using any form of birth control, forcing an unplanned pregnancy on her. HAS HER TAKE A PATERNITY TEST. And then he wants to call his ex wife and tell her. Or maybe a nice letter on some pretty stationary? 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:41 AM
1

Awesome! Reading some comments and I can't wait to hear more about your journey! ❤🍻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:46 AM
1

Oh my god seriously? I mean maybe she didn't connect what he was actually going to do, I wonder if Meredith had told her friends about his abuse? I've definitely ran into friends exes in a gross way and not tell them because I didn't want them to worry about it. If he was armed/threatening I think I'd feel like I needed to warn them. Especially if her friend did have any knowledge of the abuse she really should have said something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:36 PM
22

Hmm maybe this is why I was banned from r/feminism. First they said (after me asking several times) it was because I asked a rhetorical 'what does this topic have to do with feminism' at the beginning of my comment, explaining to me if I have to ask I don't belong on the sub. But I really think it's because my comment was about men who like violent porn and how they are more likely to abuse or even kill women, and maybe the flood of new even more violent porn might lead to more violence against …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:44 PM
9

I don't have anything really to add but I just love this sub so much. I feel like liberal feminists have been gas lighting actual feminists, especially in the last few years. No I'm not going to let my man go STD farming for me, potentially knocking some random woman up. No I won't compromise what my heart and soul tell me, if I feel fine cheating on my partner it's probably time to move on. Yes I do expect commitment, faithfulness and being someone's one and only. I told my boyfriend too the mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:41 PM
14

I just googled my name and town I live, they've got my old addresses, phone numbers, family members and family members addresses... How is this legal! 😖 That's gonna take a whole afternoon to clear. Luckily I don't use my real name on most social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:39 AM
5

I'm literally watching Queen Bavmorda turn an entire army into pigs as I read this! 😂 Oh Willow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:36 AM
30

I see these once in a while. God it's so freaky how some men consider this a legitimate arrangement. It pisses me off too because housing is super hard to find and expensive where I live. Expecting maid services and or sex (it's usually sex based) in exchange for living arrangements is exploitation. Landlords can't do it, so why can some random creep with a room do it? It's almost worse because you don't have the same tenant protections. I posted such an add in a local rants page and was told th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:09 PM
8

That's very sweet and insightful of him! I wish you guys the best! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:50 PM
12

My favorite thing about her is what she does for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:30 PM
4

Well he sounds like the one who wasn't worth hurting for regardless! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:45 AM
48

Ugh is this from that post on relationship advice where the girl's boyfriend received a video of her rape and used it against her? He walked out on her. I think she said he even said how could she not do those some of those things from the video with him. I wanted to cry reading how horrible he was. Any man worth shit would have reported the video with the girlfriends help to the police. He would have been so heartbroken over her trauma he would offer whatever comfort he could possibly offer her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:59 AM
21

They are obsessed because they can't participate and it kills them. They want so badly to let us all know we have unrealistically high expectations, and are whores for not sleeping with men for free. They want to tell us men have it just as bad if not worse, and women cheat too. They want to mansplain all of this so terribly but alas! They cannot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:54 PM
31

This guy seriously thinks before the 80s men had no other responsibility aside from working. So if a man works 9-5, are those a woman's hours too? When does she get absolved of any responsibility to her family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:50 AM
12

Seriously! OP should definitely write an angry ass letter. I can't believe they're recommending this life ruiner! If a bar is responsible for damages caused by over serving someone, why do dating apps get a pass for literally recommending a cheating trash pile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:02 AM
51

That is a significant salary though, I'm sure it's pretty rare. And oh yeah it is predatory, the owner of that site makes a ton of money he's essentially an online pimp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:54 PM
107

People are not buying houses with OnlyFans can we please fucking stop acting like they are. My Facebook friends are selling nudes for $7. The value of naked pussy is plummeting. Otherwise right on I appreciate the rest of this sentiment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:34 PM
39

Yep they do this to save themselves the disappointment but eventually realize how BS it is. They become so emotionally drained they give up and settle or finally leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:21 PM
130

She knew from the beginning he was going to forget. Good for her for not throwing out hints or holding his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:07 PM
10

🎶Get out of the caaar you're walking home!🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:07 PM
3

I don't get it how is that comfortable enough to be worth risking your life? Where is her butt resting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:59 PM
6

If PROBABLY WHEN!! He's already expecting his first choice to not work out! Thanks for making me your plan C!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:36 AM
56

This is the kind of situation where women, sometimes you need to just let go and leave it up to the father. If he's going to use a child to control you, here take the child. I'm gonna say in most cases the child will be fine. Go stay in a hotel room for a week and sort everything out. So much of this kind of bullshit happens because women allow themselves to be manipulated. Disconnect yourself from your child the way the father so easily has. It's a matter of survival, and in the end for the chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:59 AM
17

Thou shalt not shit in the shower
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:11 PM
49

God why do boys make me allow myself to become their sex mommy? Lol jeez you just really need me boys. 😆 Please need me. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:25 PM
22

The edit shows what she knows but doesn't want to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:21 PM
6

He doesn't want to be with her. After a year he can see himself living with her one day? Not even marrying her, lol. He's charging her in hopes that she will break up with him or spend less nights there. Then he can be like '😭😭😭my last girlfriend wanted me to pay for everything 💩' to the next 21 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:58 AM
4

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fup2lj/fiancé30m_found_out_about_my28f_college_days/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:25 PM
9

Hah! No porn shaming, yet a couple days ago on a post about a man leaving his fiance after finding out her sexual history from a friend, almost every comment was calling her behavior disgusting, saying she deserved to be left and that no man would want someone after knowing that about them. So it's OK to watch a girl be defiled sexually, but not OK to be that girl later on in life. Basically admitting that the women in porn are trash to them, yet they defend it constantly. I got a couple DMS fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:53 AM
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