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In my experience it is easier getting laid in college because of 1) raging hormones, 2) no parents, 3) freedom for first time and several other reasons. With that said, I started in pickup very late in life. I was 39 when I read mystery method. I have had unbelievable success picking up women. Logicmanifesto wrote a great post below. Here is a link to my two posts on Mystery method and my journey in the pickup arts. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2jsk07/update_to_my_journey_in_the_pi…
/r/seduction20/10/14 04:04 PM
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adapt, overcome and keep going out and talking to women. the experience is in the practice.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:53 PM
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There are women everywhere. If you see a woman you are attracted to just go up and start talking to her about something situational. after a minute or two of convo say, "Hey I cannot stay because I have a meeting to get to, but you have a really nice smile and I would like to meet you for a drink, give me your number and I will call you this week?" The conversation from this point can go in many different directions but you have your foot in the door.
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:50 PM
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Here is the link to my original thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/194ymu/45_yo_m_give_you_my_perspective_on_the_game_and/
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:44 PM
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I Strongly Disagree! The Game can be learned and you can improve no matter how fucked up you are!
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:32 PM
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Thagros and i cnt spll, That is EXACTLY the attitude you want to have "in field" It took me six years to figure this key piece to the game and my success with women skyrocketed. Ex. If I am in field and I am talking to an HB8. I can kinda tell she really isn't into me. Great! I politely terminate the convo and move on to an HB 9 on the other side of the bar. Boom! Start talking to HB 9, convo going great getting some minor kino going, Ask for her number...get it. Hang around for a minute or two …
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:25 PM
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Lexlucifer, Confidence and self-love is the only game you need to win. < I disagree! If confidence and self love were all guys needed to win at the game of love and dating there would be alot more guys having success with women and the dovorce rate would be a third! To have REAL choice you must learn the skills and get out in the field and apply them! You must be able to put your best self forward in real time or all the confidence and self love won't help you!
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:07 PM
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Ziemniax, I have been practicing PU for 6 years now. I started when I was 39 and had not been out with another woman other then my now ex wife in over 20 years. When I first started, my biggest fear was I would never have sex again! That was it! I was too old, out of shape, had kids, yada, yada, yada. I was going out to bars trying to pick up chicks but I was your classic AFC. I was buying drinks, complimenting girls, all your classic AFC shit! Then I discovered the seduction community through r…
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:55 PM
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POF
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:15 PM
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yes!
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:12 PM
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amibeingatool, The problem isn't guys being perfect. We all know no one is perfect! The women who you are attracted to knows you are not perfect. The goal in pickup is to put forth your BEST YOU and let the girl figure out what your faults are! Most guys disclose way too many of their faults too early in the interaction and girls get turned off. Adhere to the old adage: accentuate the positives and eliminate the negatives!
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:12 PM
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Here is what I mean "envelope" her hands. You have her or better yet you put her palms together like she is holding her hands in prayer. Then you put your palms on the outside of her hands gently press and lightly move your hands kind of enveloping her hands. Thats it, and chicks love it! I had one of my girlfriends explain the feeling to me. She said that it not only feels warm in her hands but all over her body! Just from holding and massaging her hands! Pow!
/r/seduction27/02/13 12:55 AM
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Join a dating service or two and work on your internet game. I fucking rock at internet game. In fact, I was getting so much unsolicited email from women on one dating website, that the moderators/site police thought I might be some sort of hacker and contacted me to find out why I was getting so much unsolicited incoming email. When I told them I am just a regualar dude who was just looking for a chick they asked me if I would be willing to do a feature interview on thier website explaining to …
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:42 PM
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Yes. here is a good example of what I recently did with the HB10 I am now dating whom I met off of OKCupid. Scenario 1st date at a busy bar, drove there seprately. We are sitting on a bench seat side by side with a group of strangers around us whom we do not know. My knees are turned slighty towards hers and her knees are turned slight towards me. We have been talking about 30 minutes. During this time, I am keeping the coversation light. This girl did not try to venture beyond the light convers…
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:42 PM
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Or as Mystery would say, "Get them to chase you!"
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:04 PM
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Dickchalk comes in handy. I like to say that: "I like to fap the same way I like my ribs". Sometimes I like a wetrub and sometimes I like a dryrub. : )
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:02 PM
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Carry around one of those chalk bags like the weight lifters do to keep them from losing thier grip on the bar. It works well on your dick too!
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:01 PM
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This is Gold!
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:59 PM
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Practice makes perfect! hahaha!
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:55 PM
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EAR, You are correct in your post, I always move quick to everything and do not get flustered at set backs. This is another HUGE piece to the game. Being able to take a step back in order to move two steps forward! Huge!
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:32 PM
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Solid Advice!
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:18 PM
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Mystery Method is where it all began for me. 90% of what is out in the pickup field today is an extension of what mystery was doing in the mid to late 2000's. He literally wrote the book! The strong point for me of MM is it gives you a graphic look at the entire seduction process from beginning to end. this was invaluable for me because I could see the entire seduction process from beginning to end and I learned how to identify in field where I was in the process. Also in the beginning the suges…
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:05 PM
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Mr_Z, that is what I meant to say! : )
/r/seduction26/02/13 07:29 PM
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enriquex, Yes! I was 39 yo when I started to learn this stuff. The first place I started was working on myself and I think that is where any guy learning pickup has to start to be successful. When I first started working out it was very hard motivating myself to get to the gym. I then discovered p90X and that was a game changer for me. That program has worked better for me than any gym and I have lost over 25 lbs. on that program plus I do alot of running, Biking, Ice skating, swimming, etc. The…
/r/seduction26/02/13 07:18 PM
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A shit test is something verbal said by the girl which is negative to your interaction with her. Women do this to test your character. In mystery method (which is how I learned) there are strategies to overcome a shit test. Since I am from NJ and not too smart I couldn't learn the shit test routines so I would just, 1) not react to her shit test or 2) React but make a joke or spin it as a positive. Both my strategies have worked well for me without having to learn routines to overcome the ST's.
/r/seduction26/02/13 07:09 PM
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Start touching her early in the process. First start with touches to the top of the arm shoulder and back. Just light touches for a few seconds at a time. Make it natural. Gradually up the length of time you leave your hand in any one place until you can leave it there for 20 or 30 seconds. Then move to her hands. FYI, women are 100x more sensitive to touch than we men are. When you touch a womans hands to them it is MAGICAL! it is almost as if you flip a switch in their mind. This was HUGE for …
/r/seduction26/02/13 07:03 PM
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Ravewolf, Been there and done that! you are not alone! I did it and so can you! You are a man with free will. You can choose to take your life in any direction you want. If you are anti-social then you can take action to be less antisocial. I did! I was not the most social person when I first started learning pickup. In fact, when I first started reading this shit I wasn't sure that I was going to be able to do it. I started with easy things first which was to work on myself. After my divorce, I…
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:47 PM
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Ebeaver, Actually it might! when you first started playing Diablo you didn't know how to play and probably died many times on your way to "learning the game". This same thing holds true for the pickup and seduction arts. The more you play the more you learn how to unlock the next levels to eventually get to the end of the game. The only difference is if you play Diablo the only way your dick is going to get used is by your own hand; If you invest the time to learn and practice "the game" you may…
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:33 PM
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Never react to a womans "shit tests" or something negative she brought to the interaction. Always treat it as something that doesn't bother you or better treat it as something good! When you are able to not react to something negative she brought to theinteraction the unspoken message you give is your inner strength is much greater than hers. This is extremely attractive to women!
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:21 PM
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Have fun or be perceived as fun, even when you do not feel like it!
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:07 PM
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Yes! One of the BIG keys. You must first love yourself before others can or will!
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:06 PM
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New to Reddit...How do I do that?
/r/seduction26/02/13 09:08 AM
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Wayne, Kudos! This is textbook game! Whenever a chick gives me a blowoff or seems indecisive my response is always "cool". Then I freeze her out for awhile or for good! If she is really hot, I will try to reengage but if she is 8 or below then I just move on. Bottom line: Never show the chick you are bothered when she gives you a less than desirable response. Everything is always "cool" as far as you are concerned.
/r/seduction26/02/13 02:03 AM
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David Deangelo's and Mystery's book All go into evolutionary psychology and why it works in seduction. I suggest you read those if you are interested in this topic.
/r/seduction26/02/13 01:54 AM
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Here is what i would do. I would immediately go out and get five more phone #'s of girls to go out with.
/r/seduction26/02/13 01:44 AM
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Bossrun, I am glad I can help inspire you! Sorry to hear about the end of your LTR. I assume you have never been married which is good. Divorce court is extremely punishing these days and if I knew how divorce really works I would not have gotten married. In anycase, even with all my woes I am a happy person and having a woman in my life is very necessary. I paid the price to learn the art of pickup and seduction and I am a happier person because of it and so are the women who enter into my life…
/r/seduction26/02/13 01:18 AM
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Thats because it is up to you to bring it out of them! You need to start with just going out and being a social being before you think about women.
/r/seduction25/02/13 09:41 PM
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F1nd3r, Pickup is not manipulative at all! or should I say it is not more manipulative than women who wear their hair a certain way, put on jewelry, wear makeup, wear tight jeans, wear pushup bra's, get fake boobs, have collagen injected into thier lips to make them fuller, and so on and so forth. Women do these things to make themselves standout and more attractive to men. The pickup arts are mens versions of the above mentioned things women do to make ourselves more attractive to the opposite …
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:41 PM
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The eyes always hold the key for me. If they have crazy in thier eyes I terminate the date I do not care how good looking they are! This has served me well!
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:30 PM
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Practice! Practice! Practice! it is no different for any endevour. The more you practice the better you will get. Sutdy the basics of pickup and seduction. Most of all play the game in the field. I cannot emphasize enough how critical this is to your future success!
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:19 PM
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F1nd3r, If I had one and only one piece of advice I could give to guys that I have learned on this journey it is this. "Have fun and Be Fun, even when you do not feel like it"! That's it! The success I am having today with women all stems from the fact that they see me as "fun". When I am interacting with a woman I am interested in I never talk about serious subjects. keep things light and fun. Mystery is my inspiration for this philosophy. Mystery by his peacocking conveys to women before he ev…
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:16 PM
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GI, You said, "I go out with friends who are very successful with the ladies and this intimidates me becasue they are so successful and have so much fun that I can't compete. I just give up." Dude you have a HUGE advantage over many of us! You have friends who are successful with women! Holy shit you should be picking those guys brains like everyday. They can help you but you have to ask. You have a HUGE advantage over what I had which was nothing! I had to go out and learn the game on my own wi…
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:16 PM
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GC, It is certainly possible to game a girl who is in a committed relationship to cheat on her husband or boyfriend. In fact, it happens all the time. I personally won't go after a "taken" women because 1) it is wrong, 2) I have been cheated on before and I didn't like the feeling and I am sure the other guy wouldn't either and 3) There are plenty of super hot, single women who are looking for a man to take them! For me personally, I just like going after single women versus taken women.
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:37 AM
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Wait a minute. You do not even approach the girl and before saying anything you feel rejected? I don't know man, you may be beyond my skill level. I am just a dude who knew I did not want to go through the rest of my life without having sex with a woman. I became determined to do anything and everything to make sure that would not happen. So far it is working beyond my expectations at the beginning of this journey. You need to work on yourself first before even thinking of approaching a woman.
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:29 AM
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Dude, women are not going to serve up their pussies on a silver platter to us. It just doesn't work that way. You have to learn as I have how to get a woman to first like you, then be attracted to you, then feel safe with you, then and only then are you going to have an opportunity to experience her inner demon slut that is waiting to be released! I believe most women have the inner demon slut that wants to be released. I have been fortunate to have had the experience of releasing this "other wo…
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:19 AM
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Well said!
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:13 AM
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CD, This has been exactly my experience with the majority of my hookups and girlfriends. In fact I cannot think of one, except my ex wife (go figure) who does not thoroughly enjoy sex and intimacy. The women who have been and continue to be in my life love sex and role play in the bedroom. They just don't make it easy for us men to get into their panties. They want sex, but evolution has conditioned them to only let the most worthy males enjoy the goods. This is why we practice pickup...to get t…
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:12 AM
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Me too! Mystery's book helped me in that regard. Once I was able to visualize the process I took my game up a few notches. Mysterys book does a great job of explaining the hows and whys the method works...and not just his, pickup in general.
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:05 AM
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Your body may be that of a greek god but your attitude is worse than a bum on skid row! Chicks dig the attitude more than muscles. While I have made tremendous strides in taking care of myself and amping up my style I am 5'10" 173 lbs. I am no greek god BUT my attitude gives women the message that I am in control and love myself! Most muscleheads are very insecure and women do not want an insecure dude!
/r/seduction25/02/13 04:02 AM
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Good post, this is EXACTLY what I did! There were lots of disappointment along the way but I kept on improving all along. Now I can go into any venue and approach and usually get digits.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:59 AM
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GI, I am going to give you a task this week and I want you to report back to all of us how you did. Here is the task. I want you to turn to anybody within talking distance, Male, Female or Canine and smile and Say the following line. "Hi, My name is Good Infection, Is today a great day or what?" That's it! If they say yeah, say "Thank you", If they frown, Say "thank you", If they tell you to "fuck off and die", say "Thank you" and keep smiling. If the chick says, "You are so positive, where can …
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:55 AM
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GI, Just build a life that does not revolve around women. I am not saying you shouldn't try to pick up women but just don't let it dominate your life.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:47 AM
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I think why I have not been successful with younger women is because they demand to be entertained. Entertaining costs money...a resource I have precious little of because the courts in NJ have decided that my ex wife and kids deserve my paycheck more...all of it! Older women are very content to entertain at home, watching movies or doing things at home.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:44 AM
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The other side of the pickup arts is the seduction arts. For me, I treat them as two separate arts but they walk hand in hand! I will tell what women mean by a "real man". Women are naturally attracted to masculine men. That does not mean big muscles and a 11 cock. It means you have inner strength and you are not afraid to offend her. I will be honest this one took a little bit to learn but it has been well worth it. A real man does not apologize for doing something. For instance, If I want to h…
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:41 AM
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fysreddit, I tried going the younger girl route and for whatever reason it just wasn't working for me. So I changed my strategy to concentrate on the hottest of the women in my age group. So far that has worked much better for me. There are plenty of women who are very hot into their 40's and 50's. I am talking what I like which is women with tight bodies and looks that any younger man would not mind to have on his arm. My previous GF was a solid 9. We went out for new years to a bar with some f…
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:31 AM
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Yes, spot on!
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:18 AM
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Banblue, You can do it too! It takes time and practice but the game can truly be learned. It took me six years to be that confident to do that and I am still learning. Pick up a chick and try it! A fun game I used to have was, being on a date and escalating kino/kissing just for the sake of doing it. Most of the time I would get blown out but sometimes the chick would let me move forward. That is how I found out that this pickup shit actually works!
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:34 PM
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Garthoneeye, True! But learning the game early on you have to have experience to eventually get the 10. That is the saying Mystery alwys said that made no sense at the time to me. Back in my teens, I took my now ex wife because I felt I had no other choice. She chose me and I was grateful that finally someone felt I was worthy. That is why I got into a bad realtioship. Now, I am in a much different position. I have REAL choice in who I date and I am very very selective! I am dating a 10 right no…
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:25 PM
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I took awhile but I take things to a sexual frame very early. It does not mean I am pawing up on her right away by I will tease her with some mildly sexual references and observe how she reacts. Maybe that is why I have had some of the hottest sexual experiences in my life in my 40's is I am always gauging where the woman is. If I make a sexual reference and she is cool with it, chances are she is a sexual woman or a woman who enjoys sex(imagine that!) and she doesn't mind that I bring up sex. T…
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:17 PM
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To be honest it took me many years of hard work to get the "I don't give a shit attitude". BUT when you get it, it will take your game to a new level. I remember reading mystery and listening to David D's interviews with dating guru's cd's and hearing PUA's talk about having the "I don't give a shit attitude", back then and it did not make sense to me. Fast forward to today and finally I know what they mean. It all in the attitude you project. It doesn't even need to be verbalized. example, the …
/r/seduction24/02/13 08:03 PM
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Stop thinking of her rejecting you! You can only reject yourself. I know what you are going through because I went through it myself until I finally said "fuck it" and just went out and had fun. You have to get out of your comfort zone. After my divorce, I went out solo for three years, no wingman! I would go to different bars and clubs and try to be social. First, I was always on the older side of the other patrons most who were in their 20's. Yet I would go out and just try to be social. After…
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:50 PM
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I will give you a quick answer as I have to go do my p90X workout before I go to work. I was out of the dating scene for 20 years! I met my ex wife at 19 and was married until I was 38 but didn't discover "pickup" until 39. That was a long time to be out of the game and I was afraid I would never have sex again with a woman! LOL! I can laugh about this thought now but it was a very REAL fear for me after my separation! I love women and I love sex. I will state for the record now, the pickup arts…
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:39 PM
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see this thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/194ymu/45_yo_m_give_you_my_perspective_on_the_game_and/
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:16 PM
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why would you freak out? I don't understand.
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:14 PM
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All girls do not like sex! I only go out and find the ones that do! I do not agree totally with what PUS is saying above. I am not the hottest guy out there, nor the richest; in fact I am poor, nor the most witty. Over the past six years I have learned the game of amping up my positives and minimizing my negatives. This is NO different than women who put on makeup, get fake tits, have the fat sucked out of their bodies. We are putting out just our good mojo when we study the pickup arts!
/r/seduction24/02/13 07:12 PM
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GI, First your attitude says alot about you! If you think your a "loser" what makes you think a women will see you differently? You have to first get out of the mindset that there is something wrong with you! Believe me I know whats its like because I was there! So here is what i did, I first started to work on myself by exercising and getting into better grooming habits. This had the benefit of making me feel better about myself. I would talk to anyone anytime and not expect any outcome. I woul…
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:50 PM
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BTW, I want to clarify something for you guys. I a did this while being almost completely broke! Literally very little money to live on. Yet i would find ways to adapt and overcome that obsticle! You are only limited by your dreams and desires!
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:38 PM
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Pickup sticks, I am at the stage in my game where all that shit is out the window. I don't even think about when to do kino or kiss closes or anything. I am completely zen right now and it is a beautiful thing. When you can release yourself from all that is the stage you become a master. I do not want to classify myself as that but I still remember the times I would be in a bar trying to figure out how I was going to get a girl back to my place, then how I was going to kino, then kiss close, the…
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:32 PM
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Good Infection, Here is one of the keys to the game. JUST DON'T GIVE A FUCK! thats it! do not set your sights on anyone woman. believe me I know what oneitis is I had it several times early on in my learning. As I have stated earlier, my learning the game was not linear. I had setbacks, disappointments, tons of rejections, dates I fucked up, etc. the one thing I NEVER did was give up! Now I am in a space where I am regularly turning down 7's and 8's so that I could hook up with 9's and recently …
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:27 PM
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I am not overly outgoing. As I have stated in previous posts, I went out and flew solo for three years before I finally pulled my first HB8 and got into an LTR. I then had several STR's in between when I pulled my first HB9 that lasted 9 months and ended because I wanted it to. And now I have pulled my first legitimate HB10 which is the pinnacle of the pickup arts. The point I want to make to every guy out there is this stuff can indeed be learned! I am not a natural but I studied and paid the p…
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:18 PM
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Koffie5d, To clarify I am not just learning the game, I have been practicing this shit diligently for 6 years! I am just at the point now where I am pulling the types of women that I really have always desired and felt I deserved. I have paid a price for learning the game. I studied it like I wanted to graduate Magna Cum Laude and Have! I can go into any type of environment or social situation and pull at a minimum 7's and with work 9 and 10's. It hasn't always been easy, but I paid the price an…
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:58 PM
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I can only speak from my experiences...Fuck yeah they like sex, in fact most love sex and are waiting for a "real man" to fuck them silly! That is the gods honest truth. Most of the women I date are professionals in their jobs, but at night when the lights are low they want to let their inner bad girl out. The craziest sex I have had are with women who on the outside give off no hints they are complete demon sluts in the bedroom!
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:52 PM
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"Hey, I just got a new leopard thong I want to try out. Want to come over and help me put it on."...laugh a little, then grab her hand and drag her out of the club or bar where you are at. If she goes you are in!
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:47 PM
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Let her do all the work! She seems she is down for it so the secret of attraction is girls can attract 10x as fast as you can. If it goes down great. If it doesn't don't even let on that you are dissapointed in any way!
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:44 PM
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Stop putting pressure on yourself and just go out an have fun! Chicks gravitate towards those who can have fun!
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:27 PM
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Best three books I have read by far are the two David D books Double Your Dating and the Attraction Ebook (which I am not sure he even offers still). The beauty of the david d. books is his advice is very practical which when I started learning pickup at age 39 appealed to me more than some of mystery and other pickup gurus advice. Mystery's book, The Mystery Method is invaluable in the sense it gives you a graphic look at the entire pickup and seduction process! I spent alot of money on pickup …
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:24 PM
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I couldn't agree with you more! Learning is great but you have to go out and get the real world experience to get pick up and seduction to work! I spent six years of consistent learning and going out and practicing to get where I am at now which is consistently picking up Hotties. It is a great place to be and worth the price you pay!
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:16 PM
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This is EXACTLY the attitude you want to have when dealing with women! In fact, my expereince has been is that women are turned on by guys who, "just don't give a fuck". This works awesomely because it says to the women. I VALUE MYSELF, MORE THAN WHAT YOU THINK OF ME! Don't ask me why, That is what works with women.
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:02 PM
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