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This reads like a useless circular argument
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:40 PM
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Someone who is theorizing about alleged power in what should be an equal partnership is unlikely to be a mature fulfilling partner anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:38 PM
1

Go ask 5 women then, they all have the same scores and gpa as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:50 AM
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Silly. If you've actually been to a top 30 ish university just about everyone has the same stats. Everyone I met had 3.7+ gpa, 30+ act or equivalent sat. Regardless of race, gender, SES. Everyone meets the standards. A 3.8 gpa and a few clubs isn't exactly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:11 AM
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What you're seeing as "male monkey brain" is just the way you've been socialized. Plenty of other men can feel bonding from non-romantic male touch. And plenty of men have robust supportive friend groups. Maybe continued effort in changing your perception along with repetition would help you feel more comfortable and validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:02 AM
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They don't know if it's bs they've never actually tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:53 AM
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The duplicitousness is the issue though... so regardless of if they are actually interested, that interest was prompted by sexual or romantic attraction. Who wants someone who wants to pretend to be their friend until they can date them. The desire is for a genuine friendship not a pseudo friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:32 AM
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I don't like everyone I follow. I don't think every joke is hilarious. Don't love every story post. It's almost more like an exchange. I like and engage with you and you'll do the same for me. Or just mindless clicking while bored. It's only real with people I regularly talk to anyway, and that's maybe 50/1200
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:22 AM
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The same exact thing can be said of porn with dick size, body image, addiction, and performance issues. The point was that porn is perceived as fantasy at equitable levels as social media is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:52 AM
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To you... those that use it adeptly do not see it as such
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:50 AM
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Here's your misunderstanding, after very early teens we know social media is fantasy. We are using the same editing apps, filters, makeup products etc as the girls online. And if not that well known cheap dupes. We also know that the comments and likes aren't necessarily genuine since we are all sending and receiving the same lil phrases and emojis. The assumption that women are incapable of discernment on social media in the way boys are with porn is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:59 AM
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Actually lizzo is quite healthy. Fit can be any size, her bmi is much lower 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:53 AM
7

A middle aged woman is banging the football team? Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:38 AM
1

Putting time in at the gym, on their game, and social skills doesn't correlate to an attractive man. That guy can still be offensive, unfunny, off-putting, etc. What you as a man see as direct improvement is not necessarily what we perceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:46 AM
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Biologically speaking the whole concept is flawed babe. Doesn't exist in nature and definitely doesn't reflect the human experience. And where do y'all get this abs thing? That more men's insecurities with their bodies than women's desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:18 AM
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Fraud that results in a loving paternal relationship for the child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:19 AM
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No, I support caring for children that arose during your marriage. Men would raise the child, boys think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:19 AM
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Yea no, this whole comment is near unintelligible. The whole "alpha beta" thing isn't reality or how I or most women think. A nice guy can just as easily not be compatible for a relationship but compatible for sex. Women have sexual wants and needs too, there's no weird cuck dynamic to go along with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:18 AM
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You get fucked if you're not worth anything else. The only people who say this still don't understand women can enjoy sex and casual relationships as well. Not rewarding the guy, just getting gratification from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:18 PM
1

I disagree, ignorance is bliss. Why do they need to know? Just raise the child...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:42 AM
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Ok? They should get divorced too. Financial issues are enough for a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:29 AM
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Men are just prone to a lack of emotional intelligence, depression, gambling addiction, drug addiction, cheating, sexual predation. Things that are not only unattractive, but also life ruinous. It makes total sense that women initiate more divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:47 PM
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More intelligent and successful men than you have been played. That's what they all say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:11 AM
1

Trauma dumping and emotional labour aren't just issues in female/male romantic relationships. They're issues with all kinds of relationships, including platonic, and describe people bringing up heavy traumas in inappropriate moments, in relationships that are underdeveloped emotionally, or with people who share similar traumas and are triggered by them being mentioned. Not some inherent bias against vulnerable men at all, rather an aversion to be used as a therapist and emotional punching bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:12 PM
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I wish it wasn't true... but yes. But not mgk he said some weird stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:05 PM
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Basic hygiene and personal fitness are not astronomical bb
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:10 AM
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Well I shower and like others who do as well. Other women are none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:09 AM
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It was a tech guy, big mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:24 PM
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The one from the black-pill guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:16 PM
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I've made it quite clear that neither me or the poster have the wife's perspective. That neither of us know how the husband is in a marriage. Not why the marriage ended, how they are as a husband. That is what's incontestable, why I haven't made value judgements on the husband or wife... because I'm not their spouse so I wouldn't actually know. Once again no, I was asked directly for "speculations" on why the adult offspring may have gravitated to the father, I just skipped over the wife being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:15 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:59 AM
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I'm talking more discreet problems, like they open their mouth a lil too far I see their plaque buildup. Or they drive me somewhere and I see a food wrappers, a gross piss bottle. Not the kind of issue you can smell on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:27 AM
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The issue with that hypothesis is neither of us date them. That's why we called them ineligible, hideous beats, incompatible...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:25 AM
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Being a sob isn't the only red flag. Political affiliation, possessiveness, disrespect. A lot of ways to be incompatible other than just hygiene. Though hygiene and cleanliness knocks out like 65%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:21 AM
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That men are more needy than they pretend to be. And if you want a consistent fwb you have to pretend you like them more than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:15 AM
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No, she's right. Most men are really repulsive in at least one way. Some of us just aren't willing to put up with that. Honestly, I think it starts with childhood/adolescent hygiene and habit issues not being aptly addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:07 AM
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That's just a poly relationship. A lot of men are fine with this dynamic including mine, not a bad thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:04 AM
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Looks like we both said a whole lot of nothing. But I did so in a neat lil paragraph and you did all this. Unless he's married to these men, he doesn't have the wife's perspective. That's it and not even really contestable. Also, to clarify, I didn't mean discipline as in abusive mothers beating their children... more like "no we can't go to mcdonalds", "time for bed" stuff like that. Strange reach to make that also highlights your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:55 AM
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Men are more likely to be perpetrators though. Most women that are homicide, SA, etc are victimized by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:33 AM
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When men contest custody in court they get it a healthy amount of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:56 PM
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Notice I didn't make value or morality judgements, just said your perspective is highly skewed and not even applicable to the situation. If I were to guess, the parents with custody have to do the disciplining. So kids might associate happier parts of their childhood with a non-custodial parent, who only has to deal with a weekend. Besides that, also never assumed the wife was perfect, they were likely just as flawed as the men were. But even still, using anecdotes with partial information isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:31 AM
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People are not owned :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:26 AM
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First, children aren't owned. Even now as we've progressed, from an American perspective. Women who have been out of the workforce are disadvantaged in alimony and child support. And also when rejoining the workforce as a result of a lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:15 AM
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Good guys... to you. Good in a childhood/high school friendship and in a marriage are totally different realms. You likely wouldn't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:12 AM
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Why would I lie? I think people subconsciously overestimate themselves. By definition most people, and that includes men, are mediocre or even below average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:44 AM
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These are just... minority groups? What does this say or prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:19 AM
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The only men who aren't are either those things or emotionally unintelligent... soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:33 AM
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Probably more like no men in appropriate ways and places. Not cat-callers or weirdos who approach in the streets at night or at the gym. Also age appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:15 AM
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And some men's personalities are not agreeable....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:14 AM
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But stimulation and orgasm would change the amount of dopamine in the brain. Nothing really to do with homeostasis as a whole just the amount present. Same for gambling, or drugs, or drinking. Same reason why sex addiction is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:13 AM
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Something isn't clicking for me with these descriptions. They don't sound quite in line with the way touch sensation is modulated in the brain. Even if uncircumcised men were more easily stimulated, the brain would compensate for that and lessen the amount of dopamine receptors. From my understanding, your claims overestimate the pleasure difference between cut and uncut men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:58 AM
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I think we've all forgotten men have zero idea what natural makeup actually looks like. Thank you for reminding us <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:42 AM
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How is it a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:40 AM
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Having a nice appearance involves skill. Makeup, dressing oneself. People can have skills that don't align with your interest, doesn't make them less valid. And while we're on it "physique" is what.... looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:51 AM
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Not what I said at all. It is sexually suggestive, but that doesn't equal giving the audience access to their body without consent. Meaning does not imply she wants comments, touches, stares, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:53 PM
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His complaints, and others in the comments expressed a lack of understanding towards consent. Particularly with the last paragraph. So this comment was to address that for both op and other commenters who happen to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:45 AM
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Someone being sexually liberated, having an onlyfans, dressing scandalously don't equal someone giving sexual access to you. Meaning if you are sexualizing them you should do so in your head, and in a non apparent way so as to not implicate them in your fantasies without consent. It has just about always been an argument about the constraints of consent and the consequences of people having different perspectives towards consent. Objectification isn't just sexualizing. It's both sexualizing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:34 AM
0

Umm, men have followed me home for less. I'm not nice to men I'm not familiar with for safety, not because of some "cost to sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:41 AM
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With your dating app example, is it not more likely that women just spend more time and money on appearance? The average woman is objectively more attractive than the average man. And those males that try are often trying to reach some arbitrary marker of masculinity rather than appeal to what women actually want to see. Plus yall are terrible at taking photos....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:39 AM
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That isn't cancelling, people are allowed to not like someone. His consumer base still loves him... what does people that already disliked him not liking him do to his bottom line? He still received all the Adsense and sponsorship money from those years, not like they went back and snatched that out of his savings account. Breaking the rules of a corporately owned site and getting banned is not cancel culture. Those people broke the rules...... of the site
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:44 AM
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Those are rapists baby, that's not cancellation thats the LAW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:39 PM
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LMAO I struck a chord. Anyways, they were drafted into ww2 what does my grandma have to do with that? Someone's hurt and emotionally stunted lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:32 PM
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And yet, based on the behavior exhibited by men like you, these realities have made you bitter and aggressive online.... and likely increasingly unattractive in reality. Besides that you don't have to lie to someone to improve their confidence and emotionally support them. Rather than "you're not fat" a better compliment would be "you fill out that dress really well" "your makeup looks amazing" "I wish I had your (insert body part or facial characteristic here)". Grounding the compliments in rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:21 PM
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Hyper-focusing on "being cancelled" comes off as pathetic. Cancelling isn't a real thing, people on twitter just don't like you, get over it. Do you know any fat women to base these unending assertions on? Do you have studies to back it up. Seems like you aren't really friends with fat women so you wouldn't even know....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:09 PM
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But the thing is, you guys in general clearly lack positive emotional support. Particularly when it comes to looks and desirability, yall don't like be scrawny and short any more than fat girls like being fat. If your "friends" had more emotional intelligence they would do what we do to. You on here being bitter and insulting proves that to some extent. A guy with a healthy relationship with his looks and plenty of positive reinforcement wouldn't feel the need to be carrying on like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:02 PM
1

So... exactly what I did? Chose better partners, being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:40 PM
0

But you didn't... you stretched the results of an already precarious study to try and support an argument that doesn't align with the paper's conclusions. And the other paper you posted said nothing of the sort. So you gave one paper that half agrees with you and another with barely any relevance to your argument. Also, you're ignoring that the passage you cited to describe sexual assault mentioned there being differing definitions by state and country. And this isn't even totally my definition,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:44 PM
1

That's not how definitions work, especially when it comes to scientific studies, educational language, these things are always shifting, always have connotations, draw from other works etc etc. Which is why when studies use words like that they define them to the terms that they are doing their investigative work. I could find 10 definitions of racism, intersectional, tons of words that are discussed from a sociological lens. Which is why specified what I meant by nonconseual acts and sexual ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:57 AM
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The actual definition that differs by state, country, person, medium, etc.... ok. Sexual harassment is a form of sexual assault in many if not most cases. The overall consensus or whatever else bs you want to add to continue a semantic argument is irrelevant considering I carefully explained my meaning to you. This isn't even a criminal argument, useless semantic debates are unnecessary and unwanted. You say it isn't misattributed based on faulty reasoning... yet the paper's abstract isn't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:56 PM
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Did you read where it specifically stated that the definition differs by state. And when did I specify that my definition of sexual assault was the same as the one you randomly googled to start a semantic argument. Unwanted sexual remarks, pictures, touches, all file under sexual harassment. Even the word "contact" is ambiguous enough to allow for online contact to be considered.... so what was the point of this blurb mess? Also, misattributing study results to silly generalized statements about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:22 PM
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Any nonconsensual sexual action is sexual assault... not because dicks are gross, because it's nonconsensually initiated. Plenty of men consider that sexual assault and plenty of men have been sexually assaulted. YOU and your lil friends being desperate for a crumb of cooch does not apply to all men. How can someone be so off the mark..... if a woman tells you what they feel... believe them. You aren't a woman and thus have no experience in the matter LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:31 AM
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I am not a full lezzy.... yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:28 AM
2

Yea once I realized the average male doesn't care about my sexual gratification I learned that toys and women do it better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:54 AM
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You'd be surprised how many of us are amazing actresses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:02 AM
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Normal to you, Sending any nude picture without consent is a form of sexual assault... and thus aggressive. Almost the worst example you could've used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:01 AM
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Not all males, just gross creepy or aggressive males. You aren't a woman or gay so you wouldn't know LOL. I'm telling you that's not totally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:45 PM
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Have you considered she may have been a really good actress?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:53 PM
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Does not follow. Not thinking porn that abuses women doesn't mean women find male sexuality disgusting. Not all male sexuality is violent or objectifies women....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:51 PM
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Maybe if it's not consensual..... should we be worried here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:00 AM
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I think that's why she specified a non necessity, being 5 star steak, money and food are necessities. People can and have gone their whole lives content without sex, marking it as non-essential
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:59 AM
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The first part was just pathetic drivel but the rest has merit. Like what you like, writing this shows that YOU are insecure about your interests, that shows. Further, how do women end up accepting blame for this issue as though men aren't promoting most of these negative stereotypes about themselves. Men ridiculing other men for being feminine. Blame the "alpha men" and others like them not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:08 AM
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My point is that both men and women have potent reasons to not reproduce later in life....? So very much not that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:36 AM
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And women can have eggs and give birth well into their 50s and 60s... just explained why they shouldn't DUMMY sperm and egg quality decreases, rates of health conditions and miscarriages increase. Even an older man with a younger woman. Here's one study but there's a ton out there study
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:38 PM
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Men and women both have limited reproduction time. As parents age, rate of miscarriage, developmental issues, other conditions all increase
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:57 AM
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Not really, I already wasted time getting ready atp so I'd rather just eat the free food in silence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:48 AM
1

Are you from the south? Maybe it's different in metro sexual yankeeville
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:47 AM
2

The point stands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:46 AM
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"Women don't like fancy dates" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:22 AM
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Doing the legwork for men and decided a date isn't even FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:22 AM
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Really doubt that's true. No women in my family are like that, acquaintances, friends nothing. Haven't seen any data to back it up either. Most men pay for dates, most women expect that. Id you thought they didn't hope you aren't waiting up for a second date lol. We al just go to our gfs, complain, then ghost the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:21 AM
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Wanting to go out to dinner and have the man pay isn't FDS, it's normal. Most dates are exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:46 AM
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In this case specifically, honestly can't see the majority of anyone agreeing. This seems like a question/argument against imaginary over inciting people. In other cases, like at parties, clubs, or in the street I can see how the sentiment aligns. At parties half the people are going to be men, and them watching girls get harassed, pressured, drugged, etc would reflect not caring about the safety of women. In this case there would be low risk for helping out and protecting your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:43 PM
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About how many? Do you actually know them as more than momentary acquaintances?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:44 AM
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Lies. Some of us actually talk to other women, I don't get my info from viral tweets or reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:19 AM
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Yes they do, body positivity is big in lgbt circles, including men. And from here I mainly see men complaining about not being included, when they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:08 PM
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Men denigrating fat, flat, black, etc women is definitely more common
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:01 PM
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Just don't be so outward with it, it's distasteful regardless of gender. That's something to share with close friends not dating profiles or around strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:55 PM
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Body positivity is definitely for men as well, they just tend not to take part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:54 PM
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I explained how each of them tied into my point lol. Not about "care" just being courteous and making the data forefront
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:42 AM
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It just took longer to find the actual data and methods 💀 so.... if you have the choice to post a news article or the actual research article the latter is better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:02 AM
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Stride length is not applicable. Women competitive in those sports will already have stride lengths greater than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:29 PM
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I never argued that or implied an impression of that... umm... anyways. What wider shoulda do for running, trans women likely aren't playing football. Not everything here is applicable to most female sports. As more data rolls out with actually viable sample groups maybe my opinion will change, otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:51 PM
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I posted the studies under a different post under this thread. Recommend you read them. That isn't at all what trans athletes do considering the already strict testosterone guidelines. Cis women have even been barred from competing. The differences between the strength and performance levels are thought to even out after 2 years. And not even a factor with those who don't go through male puberty. Between cisgender men and women those differences are more significant. Not for transgender women vs…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:46 PM
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Generally, if you're using it as evidence, you should post the actual pdf of the scientific paper. From what I read, it also wasn't done on athletes but just regular trans women. This prospective study highlights some of the problems with studies like these The Effects of Gender Affirming Treatment on the Sporting Performance and Muscle Memory of Transgender Athletes. A Protocol for The Tavistock Transgender Athlete Study. Those and many other studies just aren't showing differences in performan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:36 PM
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No longer the body of a man supplement with testosterone, just google it atp LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:02 AM
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No and neither could the average transgender woman on testosterone blockers and estrogen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:01 AM
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If puberty has proceeded some aspects like frame, height, voice cannot be reversed. But those aren't the end all be all in sports where those who are competitive already have significant advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:00 AM
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Because trans people's hormones are controlled. Having an above average frame does not restrict one from competitive sports, nor should it. Those differences are definitely not as significant an advantage as you make them out to be. In that case should volleyball, track, and basketball be separated by height? Me and my mom both destroyed school sports on account of her being 6' and me being quite tall as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:58 AM
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They aren't, there may be a few exceptional trans women... but they aren't the norm. Trans women frequently compete at average levels. Also could be a bias there, since they get criticized so heavily for taking part in sports, only those who are passionate/talented would continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:46 PM
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No, the majority of studies disagree with you both. The impact of estrogen over testosterone is far greater than most think or realize. Which is kinda the point of the post. After being on estrogen and testosterone blockers for any sustained length of time their strength advantage nearly if not totally disappears. Further, the differences in skeletal structure can pretty easily be found in cis women. Like some of the top athletes have been found to have subtle advantages, ex: Caster Semenya, Mic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:35 PM
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There's only so many men and women in a generation... if guys aren't dating then women likely aren't either. If we're talking monogamous straight relationships it requires 1 man and 1 woman lol. And with women being represented more in higher education, socially equivalent matches skewed away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:56 AM
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If anything it's under-diagnosed, particularly with women being known for passing/ exhibiting symptoms differently than their male counterparts and the poor/ people of color being less likely to be diagnosed or recommended treatments statistically. It's just based on a spectrum, people aren't necessarily misdiagnosed if they don't show symptoms with as much severity. They are just on another end of the spectrum and may have trouble in other areas like other people have mentioned or pass well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:53 AM
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Exactly, we also have to "run through" a ton of guys to find someone who is companion worthy and willing to see us romantically. The "average woman" may be desired for sex but isn't honestly found that much more attractive or treated much better. Besides that, hookups being easy takes the fun and excitement out of it. If I can find a hot guy online or at a bar why would I be excited about that? Applying men's wants to women's invalidates that part of your argument. Totally different issue especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:48 AM
1

You've missed the point again. The expectation is overly exaggerated. Nobody cares if you don't being expensive flowers and a teddy unless it's valentines or a bday. Otherwise women do this stuff as well, for both SO's and even more frequently for friends. If you see it as such a chore maybe you didn't like them very much. Or your love language doesn't relate to gifts... but there are plenty of women also like that. Too busy stereotyping women when so many have the same thoughts as you. Me and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:44 AM
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Tinder match≠wants to date. Hangout≠date. Hookup=not the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:28 AM
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That's the thing you're missing, we do it for each other all the time. So it's an expectation for everyone, friends, men, etc to put forth effort in a date or meeting. How frequently can you possibly do such simple tasks to be this exhausted by bare minimum effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:46 PM
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But you wouldn't know... what experience do you have in being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:34 PM
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LOL you think guys haven't done the same thing? That's called confirmation bias. Semi-attractive guys in high school/college have def done rude humiliating stuff around their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:32 PM
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By bare minimum I mean we would do this for each other easily and do it frequently. Regardless of all that, a reservation to a new restaurant isn't hard to set up... call the number. Expensive flower shops don't have you waiting in the store for hours, they are expensive for the quality of the flowers and the convenience/customer service. Nobody is paying top dollar for something that is difficult. Just say you're lazy or something these are not hard for dates or otherwise. Have you done any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:59 AM
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These things really aren't all that difficult. I've done far less just to surprise friends. Like flowers and a dinner date doesn't take hours to plan, both can be arranged in less than 10 minutes. Unless you're speaking from the perspective of someone with social anxiety the things you listed are bare minimum and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:22 AM
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I think they either don't care or find it amusing, which is worse. Did you see them abusing that lt?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:02 AM
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I mean people who don't take the context and precautions necessary to avoid infringing on citizens rights and/or endangering citizens needlessly. This, of course, includes police who brutalize, kill, humiliate, etc citizens in ways that do not follow protocol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:35 PM
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I think there are bad people in every profession and that the bad people in police departments are enable by both the just system and department culture of covering for each other, lying on reports, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:30 PM
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Maybe if y'all reigned in the sexist discourse happening on public platforms under you banner you wouldn't have that issue. But regardless, are you forgetting the smear against feminists or that BLM groups were being referred to as terrorists for years? That's not unique to your movement either. Woke people don't need faulty, transactional activism from men who clearly don't believe in or support the message. Take your mess and go, crime will probably go down! Lastly, those societies probably do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:50 AM
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They know there's a good chance they will face either no consequences or far less than they should. Police have shot near children 12-14 and gotten off scott free. Even if they didn't go out planning to kill, they did. And many did against regulation and against unarmed American citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:40 AM
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Why would it be up to the "woke crowd" to do the work. You should be making posts. You should be protesting online and on the streets. That's what black and indigenous people have done for the small bit of recognition they have received thus far. Feminists and Womanists have done the same. You should be promoting this message it pertains to you, not everybody else. If you can't even get your fellow men to back you up and post about this stuff why do you expect us to do all the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:25 AM
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Darker than a Mexican just sounded really gross. Darker than insert race here sounds strange in general
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:22 AM
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I was coming to laugh at you all but this is nice
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 03:13 AM
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No, it's rationalization for being wary around men in general. Regards of if they appear "nice" at first. Kidnappers, rapists, abusers can be and are excessively nice for a couple of days/weeks until you trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:06 PM
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Do you really think "nice guys" are the magic exception to the statistic? Abusers specifically take on those traits to lure women into a relationship, love bombing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:43 AM
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In that same vein I could say most of the readers have not indicated at all that they are arguing in bad faith, they are just asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:16 PM
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... the boxer? Thank you for the most basic common sense point that wasn't asked for lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:53 PM
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Not everything is explicitly misogynistic. Some things just reflect rhetoric I'm not comfortable with. What they say, their motivations, their influences are all important to know if I would have a fruitful conversation with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:52 PM
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Honestly atp I just think a lot of y'all don't recognize what the average woman views as misogynistic or even just as a red flag in general. I think a lot of those guys need similar tough advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:00 AM
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Obesity is based on body type and height. Plenty of men are overweight/obese at 200 No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:56 AM
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What do you consider groping? Was it consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:49 AM
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Not getting how you made this take after seeing some of the stuff posted on this sub....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:46 AM
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Medical and student debt have been rising for decades. Could the average man your age afford to support a foreign woman? To her and her family's satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:25 AM
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Foreign women also grew up socialized in those misogynistic environments though. They want a specific kind of man. The soft, obese, underachieving, American man lacking in masculinity will not appeal to them. Money will appeal to them. The women aren't isolated away from their own cultures. And even if that wasn't the main factor, it's still one that cannot be ignored. Why would an attractive woman was the dregs, obese, and elderly of American men....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:24 AM
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Did you miss the pandemic economy in the USA, UK, Southern Europe? There is a difference between "freedom" and financial stability. Many of these women have children or other dependents. If it was be homeless on the streets or flash some wiener what would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:46 PM
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Most people being poor isn't semantics bb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:26 PM
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Most people in America, the uk, are considered middle or lower class... that's how economics works. Yet poor Americans are still getting married, poor brits get married. "Richer" is subjective when just about everybody is in the shrinking middle class or rapidly growing lower one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:54 PM
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And y'alls delusion isn't anywhere near most women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:58 PM
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Did you forget that most people worldwide are poor, and that just as many women are poor. So yes, where there is motivation for marriage from poor men they frequently get married to poor women. You're too obsessed with the potentiality of losing sex, sex isn't even the main purpose of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:45 PM
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They say that because a lot of women can't stretch enough to fit more than 6 inches, I sure can't. But 6 is definitely not a lot it's like average/bf dick. Also don't think Adam is conventionally attractive in the face, people just like his energy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 05:38 PM
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So maybe you can only read the second half of each post? Because I clearly asserted that my primary point was "1. are you in their marriage?", "none of us are in their marriage". Clearly different if one can read, but I see you were purposefully obtuse to try and make your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:38 PM
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I mean, if you can read?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:28 PM
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And my point is that none of us are in their marriage and for all we know they could both be lazy, or neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:07 PM
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are you in their marriage? Probably not. 2. How did his statement of people, being men and women, overrating their work become "I know a ton of lazy wives". And I'm sure we all know lazy husbands. It's a human thing not a wife or woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:58 AM
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It's hard to get convictions in general and men still far outweigh women. I've never met a man scared he'd be followed and jumped by a sex crazed woman at night. Or men going in groups to bathrooms because they might be assaulted. Or men being hypercareful around their drinks because they could be drugged. Due to their strength men have increased ability to commit these crimes. And actually I said "child abusing felons and rapists" focusing on sexual crime which men outweigh women on based on an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:38 PM
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But not if they are obese and ugly lololol you missed it again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:13 AM
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I mean colorism is a big issue in asian countries. If he were a light-skinned black man she def would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 09:18 AM
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Women can have casual sex without wanting a LTR....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:59 AM
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Or not at all... they should have consensual sex with men or women who are honest about themselves and their intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:44 AM
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Not quite, his money is the only attractive thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:57 PM
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And still be ugly. Only an option when he's taking advantage of desperate women living in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:55 PM
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Still wrong. Who cares if they used to be fat or ugly. The issue is they want to manipulate women into sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:42 PM
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What tf does that have to do with anything I said. This post is about TRP not women or men trapping people with babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:36 PM
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What does that have to do with what I said? Men still commit the lost overall crime, rape, violent crime, pedophilia, just about everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:35 PM
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I've read the page, it's all manipulation. Presenting oneself as something they are not to fuck is manipulation. Negging, intermittent reinforcement/ignoring, and coercion into sex all manipulation. The end product is irrelevant when every other part of TRP is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 06:27 PM
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The generalization is so strange here. "You girls" why do you have such a strong distaste for women as a whole? I could've said "you men are child abusing felons and rapists" and it would be the same kind of logic and technically true. Doesn't make it more logical though. Don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:21 PM
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More that TRP is just basic manipulation tactics, and I have friends who are insecure and would definitely fall for it and end up in toxic situation-ships. Why would I want my friends to be used for pseudo-intimacy and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:13 PM
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Umm no, it's absolutely manipulation... it preys on insecure women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:09 PM
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Baby you're struggling and that's ok. I didn't invent the word or it's meaning, debate with the dictionary or your ancestors idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:09 PM
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Now you wanna argue the semantics of victim, lol bye
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:22 PM
1

You referred to them as being "used" by me... which would make them victims
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:13 PM
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Your argument points to them being victims
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:00 PM
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"Being antislavery was considered extreme" ok baby. That has what to do with dating exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:59 PM
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Then they aren't all victims like you paint them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:25 PM
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Neither me nor the men I date see it as using. They are happy to pay from what I've been been told. Not every man is like you, probably not even most
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:20 PM
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And you should absolutely use those, why would I though...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:14 PM
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Not you comparing slavery to dating, at this point you're hilarious. Trying to place literal meaning on nuanced and exaggerated points is silly. Not literally forcing, more as in being unable to understand another's point of view without ascribing lesser cvalue to it. I would say that your view is that of broke men, but I wouldn't use that as on of my main points people who want to live with gender roles should do so, they are constrictive and damaging TO YOU not everyone else. The issue has nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:13 PM
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The thing is, in this specific instance, I'm not weird or high maintenance. I'm normal, before I had this stance the guys that asked me out wouldn't even let me get the check. The childish thing is trying to force your worldview and skewed morals on other people. Do you, but it wouldn't fly with me or a lot of women. Even generalizing all women that get taken on dates as high maintenance,, so strange to see the extremes that honestly make me doubt you would do anything of the sort in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:14 PM
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Being willing and determined to pay is a show of interest, how are you reading so far into this...... it's 50 bucks..... not exactly moneybags
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:51 AM
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I'm not funding a dude's life. He's not funding mine either. A 50 dollar check should not break the bank, it definitely doesn't for me. Y'all act like paying for dinner is the equivalent of servitude, it isn't. Not like he's paying my car note, rent, and utilities LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:49 AM
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Not agreeing with my methods doesn't make them, or me childish. If a man can't afford to pay for double his meal and tip maybe he shouldn't be dating. And if he isn't willing to do so for me? Our interest levels aren't compatible and good riddance. Me being self sustaining is the reason I have strenuous requirements, not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:41 AM
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"You're missing the point totally. Maybe focusing too much on extremes? Expecting a man to pay doesn't mean I'm uninterested, it means I am interested enough in them and in a date but I want to ensure their interest level as well. Like a housing deposit or safety fee rather than direct payment."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:39 AM
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Using to you. To me it's an innocent date. Ima have to pay for the ring too? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:03 AM
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But... I can get both. They aren't mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:36 AM
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Why would I do that LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:58 AM
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It can be because of the risk involved. Could be a liar, could be manipulative. Or I could later discover they have a wife and kids. Or that they're jobless. Meeting people online means lots of bad matches. It's like quantity over quality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:49 AM
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Because I want it to be. No other reason required.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:47 AM
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But I can do both, can have friends and community and also date separately. Takes a while to find someone I like enough to stop what I'm doing but it happens eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:46 AM
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And I do, regularly. Right now we're in a pandemic And I got on maybe a date per week. Haven't had the chance to get to know these men other than the persona they have fed to me online, and I like to meet them before my brain invents characteristics for them and raises my expectations too high
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:50 PM
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Good! If we aren't compatible that's fine. Unsure why this point is so critical to y'all. I'm equally for people vetting out me as I do with then. I don't want someone who resents me for my habits and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:48 PM
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You're missing the point totally. Maybe focusing too much on extremes? Expecting a man to pay doesn't mean I'm uninterested, it means I am interested enough in them and in a date but I want to ensure their interest level as well. Like a housing deposit or safety fee rather than direct payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:44 PM
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It works though, plenty of men to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:07 PM
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I don't know anyone who cares that much about whether they are confirming to roles or not. We do what is helpful to us, if that happens to appeal to the male gaze or align with gender roles then... ok? I want to vet men with dates, so I expect them to pay. If they don't they aren't likely to be invested in more than sex. This is from experience and having to block annoying thirsty guys after not having the standards I do now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:00 PM
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Go for the lower 20% of women then, they are likely desperate for attention. Especially as they age into their 30s and above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:38 PM
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Inbox full of horny unattractive men is not desired
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:04 PM
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That's honesty baby <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:20 PM
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I think the new consensus is that police were doing lazy work and wanted something to pin their incompetence on. By saying he was so charismatic and charming they could excuse letting him go on and kill for so long, even with his records. Many of the women he approached claimed he was pitiful, unattractive, and creepy. He often used injury or helplessness to lure them in rather than the aforementioned "wild charisma" attributed to him later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 05:45 PM
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Not exactly saying you as in the singular you, more as in, all that it applies to. Lots of men are unattractive to the algorithm, as are lots of women. MGTOW and incels are fun to ridicule and laugh at. There's whole subs dedicated to this, seeing how angry and "reeee" they get about basic things and the narratives they invent in their heads is entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:33 PM
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For what? What resources can be gleaned from a bum?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:30 PM
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No... all the men I talk to on a regular basis are loosely dating me or one of my friends. Maybe the difference is... you have been selected by the algorithm as low value and are thus shown low value women. Perhaps you want women who are far out of your league but aren't quite eligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 06:14 AM
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In which case... there's not enough successful men left to leech from
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:54 AM
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What women!!? Are you married? Seeing this first hand? Got a study??! Otherwise this is just bs from your ah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:53 AM
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That sounds like standards. How can women be simultaneously taking over the job market and also leaching off men... doesn't make sense. Employed women going for employed men is still mutualistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:36 PM
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Do we need to discuss the age of the women and the rates of death in childbirth? All lower class people suffered. No need to make it between men and women. The life expectancy was extremely low regardless. Both genders suffered in different ways, but at least high value males could escape the issues impacting lower value males. For much of the western world, women were subservient to their husbands to an extent regardless of their social standing. And had to go through childbirth, quite dangerou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:21 PM
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We're in a pandemic...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:23 PM
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These random women you speak of don't exist. The truly average woman is not receiving this especially if she is obese. All of this depends on the dating market in your area. If there are way more men in a market you may experience this on a less extreme level. But honestly if it's as bad as you say, you're likely unattractive, lack social skills, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:15 PM
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You can't make claims like that, not how data works. What you should say is "In one sample of women in country from the ages of age range 82% engaged in casual sex. Also crucial due to cultural and racial differences is ethnic background of participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:28 AM
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Only the most radical fat positive people do that. You're just sensitive. Have rarely seen people criticized for not wanted someone overweight, only seen comments and posts like yours playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:36 AM
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If something "works like clockwork" it might just be manipulation, not the foundation of a healthy relationship. But you do you idk your life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:28 AM
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I disagree but this metaphor is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:35 AM
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That's to ensure matches have a baseline attraction to each other. Personality can then be explored on a date or sumn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:02 AM
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"Kindnesses, respect, gratitude, and courtesy" don't happen in a vacuum. Guys lie or pretend to have these traits to get a leg-up on other men and manipulate women. Further, nobody is these things all the time, and even if they were they can have other traits that are very unattractive. For example, you can have these but also have bad hygiene, or be super jealous and controlling. And lastly, what you see to be kind or gracious may just look excessive to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:00 AM
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Men get like that with any positive emotional relationship, whether it's friends, slight romantic interest, whatever. I wonder if some are just not accustomed to emotional friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 12:50 AM
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You don't need to assume, discover, or discern whether she is lying or not. Regardless, the outcome is the same... not interested. Why be worried about the lives of women who are either taken or so not interested that they lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:22 AM
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Or they actually have a boyfriend or actually are busy. You being sensitive and strange in your thinking patterns does not reflect the average man. The reason it works is in it's normalcy. A lot of girls do actually have boyfriends, or work tmr, or whatever other excuse is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:34 AM
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Most black people are not committing crimes and the vast majority 85%> is towards other blacks. Period, I am talking facts, not feelings or petty baby percentages of crime. I said what I said, and what I said is based on statistical data. White people have more to fear from other whites than they do from blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:33 AM
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Still doesn't work, black people normally victimize other black people. Based on like all studies on criminality, blacks victimize blacks whites to whites etc. Men actually do victimize women at higher rates comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:15 PM
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Something you deem "so disrespectful" doesn't harm or embarrass you in any way. It's a white lie the average guy wouldn't notice or overthink, which is why it's effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:13 PM
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Not true at all, seen plenty of funny ugly guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:09 AM
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Having charisma is the opposite of creepy, regardless of physical attractiveness level. Being creepy is ignoring or being unaware of social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:21 PM
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What that got to do with black men as a group being both useless and the most critical
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:46 AM
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This doesn't seem very accurate considering human vaginal anatomy. More likely would be that adaptation being vestigial left over from an ancestor that relied on competition between sperm as a result of mating style with multiple sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:24 PM
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You know primates that are primarily asexual.... ? Doesn't matter considering our closest relatives are chimps and bonobos and both species have sexual females with estrogen, testosterone, and oxytocin. As do human women. Read a book not misogynistic conspiracy BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:18 PM
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Your conclusions are wrong, this is proven fact. Mammalian females exhibit the same thing... human women are mammalian females. You think we alien?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:49 PM
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Baby, I didn't make the rules. Argue with my textbook 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:14 PM
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Considering every woman I know has estrogen, oxytocin, and testosterone.... they do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:42 PM
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Both are true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:50 AM
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No, I think a basic level of politeness should be afforded to just about everyone you meet. Of course excluding perverts, harrassers, etc. I also think a lot of men are not accustomed to female social interactions and take politeness as flirting/interest. Being polite isn't bending over backwards, if anything it takes more effort to be rude and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:45 PM
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What is up with these extremes? Being the basic level of polite in public isn't a "fake smile". I can guarantee she wrote you off as bitter, as do I. Mad you got rejected so you become rude. Hi, bye, have a nice day, basic polite conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:33 PM
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Are they upset because you don't want to be their bestie or upset because that's rude. You sound bitter baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:05 PM
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Friendly and polite ≠ friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:54 PM
1

I think this method confuses men unnecessarily. I've had to say no to guy friends multiple times. If everyone understood no to mean no, and likely not ever it would be a lot easier. Even assuming I'm not sure, I would just say "later", "not right now", etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:36 PM
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Umm... I haven't been rejected yet, nor would I need to considering I let partners ask me out rather than chasing myself. If there is a time when that happens, idc. No means no period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:32 PM
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Yasss mama tell me awf sis!!! Ima be goofy from now on!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:27 PM
2

If there is implied consent there is also implied non-consent which is what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:43 PM
2

I'm not a communist ❤️ Edit: Yet 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:42 PM
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I said what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:16 AM
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Or just be aware of body language changes/ freezing up/ looking uncomfortable. Which are all things you should do already as a sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:20 AM
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I like this. Once someone says no move on, they either don't like you or are playing games. Either way stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:21 AM
1

So betas only get recycled shit, sad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:40 PM
1

My teeth are too sharp, it'll be ripped apart :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:32 PM
2

How about neither
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:30 PM
1

What is it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:28 PM
1

That's why vaginas have teeth, chew it right up 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:19 PM
1

If I did enough kegels I could crush your dick into mush 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:17 PM
1

Absolutely, or I'll just call my uncle or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:16 PM
1

For one Women can fix cars. Google exists. Triple A exists. Relatives exist. I would never wait for some stranger to help me with my car. The kind of person who would prey on unsuspecting women thrives in situations like that. How many serial killers used this situation exactly? Like 5 I believe. Probably even more sexual predators too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:59 PM
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It just goes back to normal bb, no tightening or loosening. The one thing you might be misunderstanding is vaginismus maybe? Or when a woman is aroused the vagina temporarily loosens. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5106737/amp/Can-sex-stretch-vagina-Gynecologists-explain.html
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:54 PM
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For me it's maybe twice, others are either more blatant or break them more severely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:20 PM
1

Not true, she has commented under my messages for being too personal/aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:58 PM
1

They're probably poor or otherwise desperate. Not a flex to need to move country just to find a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:57 PM
3

Also how they treat ethnic or fat women when not fetishizing them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:54 PM
1

But how do we even know if they are lying? Most do not lie statistically, and those that do wouldn't be differentiable from actual accusations. Instead, all accused men should be prosecute and the minimum sentence should be 5 years. This would be the most equitable solution for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:53 PM
3

Deserved, do better and don't be obese
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:51 PM
0

Sorority house...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:47 PM
2

If you say something totally wrong ima assume you've never seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:46 PM
7

Nooo just help me a lil bit. Alone, with no other witnesses. Promise I won't accuse you of anything, even if I may get a settlement out of it or whatever... only wealthy men help me please 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:45 PM
0

Nice guys being boring isn't the issue, a lot of the time they just seem manipulative. Being overtly nice with an ulterior motive of dating/sex isn't attractive. Since you said that isn't you, maybe something else comes off as inauthentic. Are you maybe interpreting indifference for dislike?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:02 PM
1

As long as men are paying for condoms, viagra, etc who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:45 PM
1

Birth control is needed to treat multiple hormonal abnormalities though...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 07:19 AM
-3

"They're into" is the key phrase. They expect attractive women to bend over for them yet would not do the same for the women who match them, being obese or otherwise unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 09:45 AM
1

I'm 5'10 buster
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:41 PM
2

That's kinda a good idea, like pay my rent or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 11:25 AM
1

Exactly, I tried one shorty and that was enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 11:24 AM
1

I guess if everybody is short there's no issue, so just places where women are tall
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:21 AM
1

Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:20 AM
2

No, being tall enough to not be plainly insecure about it. Differs per person normally like 5'10 though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:20 AM
-5

All world female problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:39 AM
0

They don't meet the height requirement and frequently have complexes about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:39 AM
-3

But you can pretend they didn't say anything and move on. What can you do with an unattractive pill guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:12 AM
-5

So many mention height when it's just as hard for women. Being 5'8 plus makes it much harder to find taller guys who are also attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:11 AM
2

Is that what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:46 AM
1

That's why there's a question mark lol. Regardless if you're going to make claims, make them about a a group you know like "ppd women" rather than women. Even scientific studies know better than to make claims about women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:45 AM
3

If by discussion you mean biased generalizations...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 05:30 AM
2

Someone with a "ton of experience" wouldn't have provided such a flat representation, totally lacking in nuance. But it's not even just women he has this with it's men as well. Or perhaps just not being able to see outside his own perspective. I know multiple men and women who don't fit their gender's norms for libido/sexual demeanor. Just reading the message he sounds like a total virgin with no sexual experience with a fixation on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 02:10 PM
32

This could be correct if you replace men with "I" and women with "my stereotypical view of women that comes from a lack of experience" and you got it on the nose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:13 AM
4

If they can't manage to find a date without oppression and then complain online about it they are defective. "Women aren't genetically fit" Silly statement. Doesn't matter, men are the sex with the most variable rates of reproductive success. Men take what they can get. And before women had primary agency, their families did it for them. Either way men lacking in social skills, capital, ambition, etc are weeded out. Any perversion of this detriments society by allowing their genes to propagate. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 07:12 AM
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You incorrectly likened my statement to one. And all of that would he fine, yet you insist on clinging to morals and "equality". That was oppression, and even then the dregs of society would not have been favored by families looking to marry off their daughters. Forcing women to copulate with defective men was to the detriment of the human species as a whole. Women nor having their own agency is also known worldwide to be a characteristic of a lesser developed society. Why should genetically fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:19 AM
2

No baby that's you, I said it was "natural and correct" not good. And that it had advantages for reproduction. Our bodies aren't on autopilot but our genes and the expression of them is geared towards producing competitive offspring. Female mammals who were selective of mates had more successful offspring until primates and later humans were produced. What motivation do women have to not follow this not all men are suitable, besides that, men are selective in some ways too. And most men are cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 03:25 AM
1

Maybe if there was a physiological difference between low n and high n women, there isn't. Men have no for sure way to determine this so even if that subset of the population believes that it's irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:47 PM
7

That's why we can ✨lie✨
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:44 PM
3

The imbalance of power in sexual selection is natural and correct. Women expend more energy producing and rearing children in almost every mammalian species.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:25 AM
2

Nah, most people just don't believe the "man need more sex" yall spout. Even looking at our closest evolutionary relatives, being chimps and bonobos, females are still the sexually selective sex. That's the way evolution has pushed most mammals to be, males have more variance in propagation and therefore compete to mate with females. Don't being up an evolutionary perspective without knowing anything about mammalian sexual selection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 12:48 AM
0

That's why if a guy asks you always say 3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:13 AM
1

If you aren't favored in modern America or wherever you're from, where would you be? Unattractive, poor, short, etc aren't only factors in the western world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:12 AM
1

That's nature, biology, and natural selection. Not women??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 01:38 AM
1

Expressing your feelings doesn't make you an asshole. Increases in oxytocin during sex make it near inevitable for one partner or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:50 AM
3

Well... they didn't handle it. Which speaks to the issues pornhub has had for years. If it was so easy why wasn't it done? This isn't even the only case just the only one that's been publicized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 09:50 PM
4

Considering pornhub left up an underaged girl being gangraped for far too long... very deserved. If anything pornhub should be more accountable with the content they allow to be posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 09:49 PM
1

If both partners are consenting that isn't an asshole. A guy being horny makes him terrible?Plus women get horny too lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:00 AM
3

You being like "haha fat and over 30, no get man" is what they're trying to avoid basically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:45 AM
0

These men are manipulative and hide their true intentions. Only show their true colors once you're attached to them through children, legally, etc and separated from friends and family. They don't come out of the gate being horrible, it becomes exposed over time. Why the rate of abuse for pregnant women is so high https://www.marchofdimes.org/pregnancy/abuse-during-pregnancy.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:33 AM
2

Nothing, if you don't measure up as a man give it up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:43 AM
8

Maybe you're just the only person that believes transactions are rewards for you. McDonalds rewarded you with the big mac.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:32 PM
6

Nah, you're just doing mental gymnastics to confirm you view... which is both male-centric and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:24 PM
3

You're confusing intimacy with solely fucking. If I want to date someone, I'm looking for emotional intimacy along with physical intimacy. Until we achieve that first part, nothing else is happening. It's not a punishment, it's the natural course of a healthy relationship. If we just fucking there's no real emotional connection needed. For some reason you take women's preferences as an attack or insult when you should be flattered she wants more from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:22 PM
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"Nice guys" aren't really a thing. Nobody who is a nice guy would need to refer to themselves as such. Being manipulative to get pussy rather than upfront isn't nice. The only times I have ever called someone a nice guy is when I was trying to give a nonconfrontational rejection. Basically if the end goal of being decent is to get in somebody's pants it's not really nice, it's manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:18 AM
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It normally is, violence and sexual abuse are mainly perpetrated by men. The organization impact of testosterone produces aggressive tendencies that are not as frequently found in women. Most victims are women so they are centered upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:35 AM
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Yall being insecure bas nothing to with feminism, yall are just using it as a scapegoat. Mind-police is not a thing, whatever paranoia you have about women spontaneously finding out you wanna fuck is unwarranted. Feminism is literally just equality, women desire men at times so why would it be so different the other way around? No sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:31 AM
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Who's to say lesser men wouldn't want to "pump and dump" if they had the chance. Seems like a biological thing for yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:18 AM
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Plenty of men end up bored and with mistresses though. Especially when libido doesn't match. Once again not worth. WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:26 PM
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"Suitable" is temporary. There is an excess or horndog men. It isn't worth the effort to chase after them when you can be pursued instead. Even in compatible pairing, a ton will end in disaster/cheating/divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:13 PM
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How are we supposed to know who's downvoting though. Also women have a menstrual cycle, your perspective is influenced by your lack of experience and knowledge about the female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:18 PM
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Most of any group will get average grades. That's why they're calling average grades... most people are of average intelligence too. Think you maybe just ignored all the equally average males in your classes because they didn't confirm your biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 09:53 PM
6

You'd be happy to have sustained health issues from abuse. And struggle through your daily life... if only you had titties?? Concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 09:46 PM
1

No additional context was added, he just tried to explain away the victim blaming in the above comments... with more victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 11:47 PM
1

Very victim blamey to me. Of course there's always a reasoning for abuse, the baby just cried SO loud. A wife just spent SO much money. Regardless absolutely unacceptable. How amoral can one be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:29 PM
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Girl, when did I say women aren't adults?? You may have been able to immediately separate yourself but many aren't, that includes men and women. What purpose does "It makes sense because she's exhaustingly loud and insulting" serve other than minimizing the psychological impact of trauma and abuse. If you know about trauma why type that? Just seeing the way you express yourself in these comments tells me you have unresolved issues and should definitely seek help with what you went through with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:27 PM
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Go look up the emotional trauma tied to abuse and then come back. Blaming the woman for being beaten is never a good look. Nor excusing it on the basic of your dislike of her. Hope whoever you're with is careful considering being loud and annoying is enough to merit beating to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:45 AM
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You: yea my wife's friend got abused. She's annoying though so what she deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:17 PM
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Delusional and wrong, ok. If you want to pretend that this is what modern feminists discuss regularly then go ahead. You need a reason to hate them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 08:31 PM
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This isn't a fact though... it's a 6 year old opinion piece. Adding to that, it's barely based in reality. So yes, it is outdated both politically and I doubt it aligns with the author's current viewpoints either. It wasn't popular, it isn't a common point discussed by feminists or leftists in 2020 to just get rid of only female prison. To present it as such is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:36 AM
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You forgot to list the privileges modern women are enjoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:07 AM
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Doubt many "feminists" are saying that at all. Other than this outdated (2014) franky ridiculous article with no recent traction. Seems like something anti-woke guys dreamt up and spread as the truth like so many of these theories. Or they saw one "feminist" with 2 likes on twitter say it... not representative. If anything I have seen calls for the abolishment of our current prison system given that it's both expensive and exploitative while not prevent future crimes. But that's for males and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:04 AM
1

So there is value in carrying a child. Value she should continue to receive indefinitely. almost as though she sued for trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 05:10 AM
1

So what are you saying then? Being pregnant in itself is straining. Surrogates frequently get paid to carry children for other women or for lgbt couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:34 PM
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Being pregnant isn't the cakewalk you think it is for a lot of women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:15 PM
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I'm not arguing semantics with you. Using the context of the sentence "having"clearly meant gestation and labor, not just labor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:44 PM
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It's an 8 month process, you can't get impregnated tomorrow and have the baby by monday dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:18 PM
1

Maybe if they are providing it for a study or something. Shitting takes minutes. Having a baby takes 8+ months
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:01 AM
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Wrong, with the child support she can hire a nanny and cleaner and use leisure time to follow her dreams. It is a scam and the males fell for it hook line and sinker, as always
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:00 AM
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Not lower class once they get that 200k
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:37 PM
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Had a baby duh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:36 PM
1

I do think that we sometimes get idealistic advice rather than advice for the average woman. Men however are even worse with the idealism, their advice would only work on the most naive women alive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:16 AM
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If anything problem solvers and critical thinkers are outliers/the minority. Most people are not educated or known for their ability to solve issues. You just added misogyny to prove no points.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:37 AM
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Idk why I expected you to recognize actual science. Testosterone is testosterone baby...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 04:01 AM
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The thing is... it's not a dunk at all. That's the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 02:36 AM
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Women have testosterone tied to their cycle well into their 40s. The rest of this sounds like echo chamber mess. Strange to see men obsessed with women trying to wrangle the idea of women's autonomy to their male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 02:19 AM
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No you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:01 AM
1

I never said it wouldn't hurt them. That's none of my business. I like to know if I like their personality first so yea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:41 AM
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It's less uncomfortable when you leave it at that. Especially in workplaces/friend groups/school and other situations where you may come in contact with this person later
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 04:08 AM
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If they wouldn't be a good friend why would I date them? If they can't enjoy my company platonically same thing? I mean that why would I see sex with someone I'm attracted to as a cost, that's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 04:07 AM
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It really only takes one bad one, I'd rather be safe than sorry. The rejections where I've claimed to have a man and asked to be friends instead have gone over much better than where I've just said no. If you're talking about cold-approaching women I would expect even more of that, they don't know how stable you are and there are a lot of creeps and people with anger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:45 AM
0

I mean... if they don't interact with you after that's your answer. Take it as a blessing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:33 AM
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Is this referring to women that the guy has known for a while or just barely acquaintances? Sex isn't really a cost if someone is attracted to you. Friendship isn't a step down necessarily more a step to the side. If someone asks me out I would assume they enjoy my company and might actually want to be friends? That not being the case would be a little hurtful tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:32 AM
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You qualm/virtue signaling is irrelevant to me. If attractive white affluent men are initiating uncomfortable and inappropriate interactions with women they should be punished as well. Most men are no white, attractive, affluent. Most men aren't even attractive. Why is the focus on a minority of perpetrators when the potential victims make up a much larger percentage of women. Sexual assaulters are repeat offenders. One man can harass/grope/sexualize countless women. Dealing with these few would…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:37 AM
1

Systemic racism doesn't suddenly make them saints. If they are harassing women they need to be dissuaded from that. Whether that be a fine/sentencing/volunteer work something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:35 PM
1

Ok and? This is a consent issue. Random women on the street did not consent to be conversed with sexually or verbally assaulted with inappropriate "compliments" nobody should be doing it. Whether the incident is racially based is the defense lawyer's job not mine. Studies have shown criminal sentencing is already racially based to some extent/low income black neighborhoods are already monitored more and this stands especially true for drug charges. Drugs though, depending on the type of course, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 06:24 PM
1

If you're yelling sexual comments at someone, it's best to consider if they'd be appreciated. Which is what criminalization would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 06:18 PM
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It doesn't matter what they are, if they sexually harass and scream sexual comments toward women or create uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situations for women who aren't receptive to them, they need punishment. Regardless of those factors they shouldn't have been doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 05:13 PM
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Anything "unwanted", I've disliked attractive guys' attempts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 05:05 PM
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Not to the degree people bring it up or apply the stereotype to others. Any stereotype is at it's core an assumption about other people paired with an ignorance towards how they actually are as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:17 AM
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Pad/tampon's should have similar prices to condoms of the same quality. Same for shirts or pants whatever. Even razors and pens are gendered and the female is always more expensive. Could just buy the man version but why wouldn't they just be the same price.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 01:32 AM
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Women previously were confined to marriage and probably faking it if anything. What exactly do you mean by past?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 11:15 AM
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Even if something is a bad choice it is up to the women to make that choice for herself. Not other women, not men, and definitely not pseudo feminists who think they know better. Say what you will about onlyfans, but is the majority of the real cash even being made by women who just all of a sudden got laid off during the pandemic? No, it was thriving before that and probably will after. Sexwork is not necessarily a life plan, but good money for now is better than minimum wage for now. As I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 11:13 AM
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Yes they are. You live in fantasy land where outdated views tale precedent. In reality, times have changed and so have views. There is nothing antifeminist about sexwork. Voluntary sexwork is not somehow detrimental to all female rights, nor does it negate the strides made in equality currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:57 AM
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It's not my problem that you think archaic outdated feminism is an apt response to modern nuance. But you do you. In what world would equality mean "women only do what man no like"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:34 AM
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Just showing how I saw your reasoning "well men think woman sexy so not feminist". Nothing circular my point has remained the same since the beginning, as has yours. That's a straight line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:29 AM
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Still doesn't matter though. If being objectified is what a woman wants then that's fine. Nothing antifeminist there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:23 AM
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And the men are pathetic pay pigs. So desperate for sex they would pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:18 AM
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I don't think I've ever experienced "raw animalistic virile lust"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:11 AM
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It doesn't matter what they assumed you are. Your post is one sided and as a result of that they assumed you were a man. I assumed the same thing. The main point of the comment I saw was to broaden the conversation and consider that police are treating women badly on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:57 AM
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Also made for aging and the disabled of both genders. Men aren't the only creatures capable of enjoying or paying for sex, though they may be the majority. While you, as a male, may see sexwork as entirely for you someone like me may see it as businesswomen leveraging their bodies to capitalize on their pathetic lack of sexual partners. Your view of feminism is wrong and leaves out women. That isn't the purpose of the modern women. Now the focus is on equality and agency not whether men think so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:55 AM
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You clearly needed to since you failed to mention both sides in your post and then just criticized others for doing so...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:46 AM
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Not a fact at all, if a woman wants to be a sex worker then that's it. That's part of what agency looks like, not every woman is a ceo or doctor and not all aim for that. Many want to be housewives or strippers and that's just what they chose. Nobody cares what feminists from the 60s or older are doing. Their views weren't perfect and were often exclusionary. Many of the most lauded feminists were extremely racist. Them being from another time and working towards equality doesn't make their view…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:41 AM
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It isn't antifeminist at all because it's based on the woman's free will. It would be different if they were forced to do onlyfans. Feminism is about women's agency not women having to follow a defined role or be antifeminist. Even being a "traditional wife" is feminist if it's what a women wants for herself. It's about men and women having equal agency, not men decided that sexwork is all for them and therefore not feminist. Agency and equality/equity is more important than "feeding into the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:26 AM
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You were socialized to view her as a flat character. People aren't normally like that. The "sjw" stereotype isn't a thing in real life. And this is as someone who often resides in left spaces as a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:21 AM
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Those relationships are not the norm. And roles carried out in sexual situations don't necessarily carry over into real life. Richer, higher stress, powerful men are some of the more common that enjoy female domination for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:16 AM
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What else dates back to the plague or spanish flu... any permanent societal norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:13 AM
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It's more about, if a woman wants that then she can have it. There shouldn't be anything wrong with being sexually liberal for one's own enjoyment. Anything forcing women into a box, whether that be over sexuality of overly conservative values, is anti-feminist. I feel that your view is too centered on the male gaze when really, it should be irrelevant. A man wanting to be sexually liberal and a woman wanting to be sexually liberal should both be allowed assuming consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:02 AM
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They aren't competing for men on onlyfans, they are sexualizing themselves directly for a paycheck. A paycheck is not a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:59 AM
2

Maybe that's what you remember because it confirms your bias. From experience, a thick 5-6 is better than a thin 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:52 AM
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I'm saying that's the limit, between 5 and 7 is good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:48 AM
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The job market is oversaturated with qualified people of all races. They don't have to go to the slums and hire some random thug. Most of them are more qualified than you for this work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:08 AM
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Nobody wants to go through these hoops to interact with a male who has paltry communication skills and lacks boundary awareness. I would rather just leave him and talk to someone else. I don't crave friendship from these men, I'm being friendly. My night does not revolve around catering to creepers. You seem to assume that it's anybody's duty to do anything of the sort, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:40 PM
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I've seen ugly men be really nasty and entitled to less attractive women. You are looking at it from solely the male perspective. Most women don't want bad sex from multiple men, especially if they're ugly. Regardless STR or LTR are better since it takes longer for guys to figure everything out. It's a lot harder for unattractive women to get into these relationships yet ugly men want them to go above and beyond for them. Atp I've seen a top of posts on diff subs trying to put women into the ini…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:28 PM
2

If it's sexual harassment they already can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:15 AM
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If you don't want consequences, don't force interactions with strangers. You don't know of they would consent so don't do it. Otherwise hope yall end up in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:52 PM
1

Considering 46% did not where did you get 2/3... that's closer to 50-50 if anything and that's not really knowing enough of the reasoning for a lot of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 09:36 PM
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The key is consent. If it is unwanted there should be a path for legal action. These men know if they are creepy/ugly. Plus... 46% don't like it at all. Let's not act like that's a tiny minority or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 09:28 PM
2

Slightly larger than average* anything above 7.5 is pushing it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:20 AM
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Vaginal canal lengths vary, though they can stretch. For many larger dicks are uncomfortable. Also, larger dicks can reach the cervix... and that hurts. You could make an argument for girth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:05 AM
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Lmao I'm not exactly normal either. Even working with the hypothesis that red-pill philosophy is correct, the way so many obsess over it is unattractive. Like even when people are overtly cautious about gold diggers it comes off as cheap. Most of the time I have found that when someone is trying to apply these generalizations and strategize a meeting with you, they aren't as slick as they think they are. It comes off as blatant. Being honest about "male nature" or female is strange, and reads in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:47 PM
1

Finally someone gets it. No one cares if you're short or a lil nerdy like some of the guys here. Just be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:25 AM
3

It does 2 me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:23 AM
1

Do you think that describes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:15 PM
0

If they lost some years and weight. Not really fair they're out of their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:23 PM
0

1 or 2 of the incels could maybe hit... but they're probably racist or sexist so it's what they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:10 PM
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Lmao they see both dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:05 PM
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Who counts as a good/nice man then... you? The anti feminist... or what. Do you think they scream yo the heavens how toxic they are every 5minutes. No, the trap you with obligations, dogs, kids, shared living. And then pounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:36 PM
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No such thing skeletor!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:58 AM
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You're jealous they can eat, unlike you. Get over it stickbug. Eat a burger or two!!! 😂😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:11 AM
1

Yall get invited to dinner 👀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:20 PM
1

We can just sniff out virginal men. How else can they be avoided??? Think!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:19 PM
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No reason to be mad, they are valid for that. Anything less than one's ideal is settling. Exactly what produced unhappy marriages that trapped women for decades. Y'all are a whole nother story though. So greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:12 PM
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I've only been there once and I just remember it being so clean. I had just been to LA and New York and those were gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:23 AM
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Why you sending me to jabba?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:21 AM
1

At least y'all are clean up there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:57 AM
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Ugly men are so entitled it's hilarious. Unattractive, not wealthy, often unsuccessful. Yet they criticize the choices of sexually active women...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:57 AM
0

Then she should racemix so they will be more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:53 AM
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Don't want a chad or redpillers or incels. All super unattractive. It's not one or another most people just want normal people. Y'all aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:49 AM
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Surprised you've never heard these before, where are you even from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:39 AM
1

That's probably hun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:27 AM
1

I kinda call everybody baby, depends on the situation. I'm from the south soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:14 AM
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Baby I saw the rants myself 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:36 PM
2

Why do you expect women to want male dating advice though? And from the dudes on here?? Puh lease
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:49 PM
1

The shirt is nice for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:44 PM
2

The shirt is nice for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:44 PM
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The shirt is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:44 PM
2

Sooo dumb and anecdotal? How many women you talk to regularly to tell you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:42 PM
2

Sooo dumb and anecdotal? How many women you talk to regularly to tell you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:42 PM
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Nah the dudes on here rant about fds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:39 PM
1

Difference is a fetus can't just be plopped in another body. Your children could find other homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 12:18 AM
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Idk about this, girth is good but length will hit your cervix. Somebody lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:50 PM
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Excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:21 AM
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But we do tho sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0196064400618784 There's a ton of different studies to that aim. Most sexual assaults go unreported. This isn't just penetrative, also sexual harassment, groping
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:09 AM
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Wrong, you could die and they could be adopted. Also orphaned children worldwide without access to orphanages/foster homes have survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:06 AM
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I think this is a great idea, I'm glad we've come to a consensus. Humans without more complex thought and higher level of cognition than the average pig are liable to be dismembered/eaten/enslaved. Pigs are an excellent comparison point. Not all humans, just those without complex thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:05 AM
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And where did you get that fact? Your ass?? And I should just trust that she was lying... in this economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:00 AM
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They aren't totally dependent lmao. They eat their own food, move and think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:59 AM
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Of cognition. Pigs are close and cute, just like babies may be to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:58 AM
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Literally the first google definition. Because we kill and dismember pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:35 AM
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You missed the mark again. They aren't totally dependent on your bodily functions in the way a fetus is. If you died they could find a job, remarry, etc. they don't live inside you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:31 AM
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If an officer is making assumptions about the validity of a sex crime minutes into the investigation there is a clear systemic issue. You sound just as bitter and biased as the "feminists" you hate so much. It isn't either extreme. Yes, false accusations exist. But they make up a paltry percentage of actual reports. There are few men that have been falsely and unjustly punished to the fullest extent of the law, pretending as such is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:25 AM
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Who exactly established it was a lie though? You? They might be false accusations, but lost likely they won't be convicted for then anyway. And theres plenty of woman-hating men like you to take their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:22 AM
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Reflex reaction to stimuli does bot indicate awareness or cognition. I already told you, if they are as intelligent as a pig we can assume they shouldn't be dismembered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:21 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:19 AM
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Umm ok... is that what I said though. Having met and discussed with actual feminists, the bigger issue is that false accusations are brought up so frequently and out of place. False accusations make up a small percentage of reports, and would he unlikely to end in a conviction anyway since most sexual assaults are either unreported or don't have sufficient evidence. Keep in mind that rape kits in America can cost upwards of 1000 dollars. Also, the harm is overestimated. Their lives aren't destro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 10:02 PM
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Did I say any of those things... no, I said that such methods are necessary is sad. Where you pulled the rest of that from idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 09:47 PM
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Not separately together. A human being, an entity with complex thought and, going off your point, should we all be vegans? But then what about plants they're alive? No, life is irrelevant we snuff out life all the time as a species. A fetus is not aware and and does not have sufficient cognition to consider it above the whims of the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 09:46 PM
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A newborn isn't living in someone else's womb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 09:43 PM
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There's no nuance in "either... individual human beings have a right not to be killed, or you do not". Objectively there is a clear difference between an undeveloped fetus and a human. They have no bodily autonomy and rely on someone else's body and nutrients to survive. Therefore, the person there parasitize can end their "lives" at whim. Abortion has always been a thing and it always will be. The thing with you claiming an arbitrary measure is that there is nothing random about it. It is based…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:14 PM
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Fetuses aren't really human beings yet, the possibility of one day being one is not enough. Humans are categorized by their superior mental development fetuses do not have that period. My grandparents told us to not leave them to suffer in dementia. Thankfully we never had to make such a difficult choice. You tried to tell me science says life begins at conception, that was pseudoscience... not real. It was just funny that you criticized the complexity of my argument when yours is "no kill babie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:00 PM
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Not arbitrary, based around cognition and developmental science. All the examples you are using are false equivalencies, a fat woman still has complex thought and emotion. A fetus does not end of story. They don't know they are being killed either way and don't have the cognition required to even recognize the prospect. I am consistent with my morals, beings capable of complex thought should not be killed in the way you describe. Developed humans, monkeys, dolphins, orcas. Regardless of species.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:57 PM
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All humans beings that have been born are equal... fetuses not so much. There is bot an inconsistency there I think ALL fetuses are not on the same level as developed humans, very consistent with my views. You need to get a dictionary and find an acceptable term for that babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:29 PM
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Yall misunderstanding... was not arguing the necessity if their methods just their unfortunate harmfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:28 PM
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He in somebody else's body now? Also I'm an advocate for mercy I don't think anyone should have to live through severe dementia. Yes it does, a fetus has less complex thought than a pig and we kill and dismember those all the time. All your points exchange nuance for pseudoscience and posturing, and yet you criticize me for a complex argument? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 07:27 PM
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Gay men have higher standards than women. Easy to get laid as a tall attractive white/latino male maybe. When you cross into other ethnic groups, non-athletic bodies, height difficulty increases. How many gay men you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:49 PM
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At this point you're misusing inconsistent. My view doesn't line up with tour values and that is fine. Regardless if you're going to use a measure for your archaic knowledge of fetuses, don't bring up science. Doesn't work out for you. A fetus does not have the same value as a human at any later point of development, which is why we don't shred newborns or toddlers. Not up to you, up to science and the woman who's body is being inhabited and changed hormonally /epigenetically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:47 PM
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Wrong. They are still totally dependent on the mother's womb. Maybe once their brain's complexity reaches the level of a small lizard. I don't know what developmental biology you have taken, but that isn't true. The fetus may contain the genetical material of a human being, but it does not contain the complex thought of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:45 PM
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There is no inconsistency they barely have bodies. Smaller than my finger. Why would I value them higher than the women they are parasitizing? Their continued survival depends totally on someone else's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:36 PM
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Aspects of police interrogation and interaction are not conducive to many victims' emotional wellbeing, often exacerbating trauma. Sad fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:34 PM
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Not any human being, just unborn babies. Other people have live experience and loved ones, these fetuses don't have that, they are still lacking in complexity that a born and living human would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:31 PM
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Where is the inconsistency though? First and second trimester fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:27 PM
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It is an issue with the police and justice system. For actually victims having to describe your assault in detail multiple times is emotionally straining and damaging. Police have been know to assault women in custody, it is even legal in some states to have intercourse with women in custody. Also have been known to dissuaded women from pursuing justice, particularly in smaller communities. Must we constantly mention the paltry percentage of rape cases that result in prosecution?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:16 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:13 PM
6

What a crybaby. You're lucky they aren't tasty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:13 PM
1

So you're too slow or lazy to use google? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:09 PM
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Yes they would and they do all the time. Lmao how would you even know to make this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:08 PM
4

Fetish play≠affection
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:05 PM
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Treat women telling their stories as innocent as y'all want people to treat prospective predators. That means not running the victims down with accusations of lies or manipulation and give their story the same validity that you would give their predator. A lot of people say innocent until proven guilty as though proven false accusations are not also criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:56 PM
5

Girl I read it 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:52 PM
21

Is it blue goggles or are they just satisfied in their relationship. If anything you have bitter goggles on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:25 PM
1

Ima finesse one of yall out some chicken strips ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:12 PM
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This was a random tirade. I'm sorry for you traumas but that doesn't at all refute that men exhibit the same vindictive tendencies after rejection that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:49 AM
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Men kill, harass, stalk, insult women who reject them. I've seen multiple just in this thread saying they love mistreating women and putting them in their place after being ignored/rejected. There's whole reddit communities based on this phenomenon. There are gendered issues, this isn't one of them. If you think that men are somehow immune to this vindictive human pattern then you are biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:24 AM
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That was an extreme example. This isn't a female issue it's a human issue. Nobody likes rejection and many unconsciously take it out on those around them. Gendering the issue is unnecessary and speaks to op's strong gender bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:15 AM
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<3 ill be waiting for your next appointment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:20 PM
1

That's just what insecurity means, bye
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:14 PM
1

Good thing I'm not thirsty <3. Thanks for the car!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:16 AM
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If that was the case, maybe you should have went for someone you were comfortable telling the truth to. If you thought your lack of sexual experience would be detrimental to your interaction... that means you were insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 03:53 AM
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Fell for what? My honest offer?? Take a few sips fa me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 03:51 AM
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My specialty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 03:50 AM
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Wellll I got a nice drink for ya if you wanna come over. Bring the stacks w you, no charge I just wanna see em.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:24 AM
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Lmao any frat party except the asian frat either me or one of my friend's has gotten grabbed. I don't mean a slide past, I mean ass to crotch lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 01:23 AM
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Law abiding an vigilant... which politicians are going to jail? Which advocate for not wearing masks? You idealize conservatives they aren't actually like that. And no personality is bot entirely heritable it's a mix of inherited traits and environment. Liberals are "open and slutty" is a generalization with no factual basis. As is the rest of your argument. No factual basis, some bs you thought of and passed off as a logical deduction when it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:10 PM
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You said "you realize one's place in the political spectrum is basically genetic" and "liberal girls are slutty. No cents made. Neither is correct. How does personality decide political views, unless you believe that "creativity is liberal and sternness is conservative" bs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:27 PM
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No studies about political views and nature vs nurture have been conclusive enough to determine the validity of your assumption. How would such a study account for changing political views or having differing views from one's parents? A ton of twin studies have been done, but for one about nature v nurture around the political spectrum, twins would have to be raised in homes on opposite sides of the political spectrum. The one time that we know of involving a twin separation study was a huge sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:07 PM
1

So you were insecure about your prowess and had to lie? That's more unattractive that just being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:55 PM
0

Yup, let's just throw science out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:52 PM
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Idk if I'd say "made up construct" exactly plenty of animals form monogamous relationships. Not everything to do with sexual assault is legally enforceable. A ton of guys grab/rub against me at a party, I can't take them all to court and police would laugh in my face if I tried
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:48 PM
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Wap is genetic so she had it before. A stack is like a stack of money you take to the strip club to throw in the air/ on strippers. Normally means like 1k tho. Probably charged a pretty penny since she worked in New York, there along with Atlanta have strippers that charge more I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:43 PM
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It is... they agreed to sex with the goal of monogamy in mind. The other party was doing the opposite and actively misleading. That is absolutely a form of sexual assault in the same way any kind of coercion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:48 AM
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Are you her clientele... would you be purchasing a hotel room for a night with a stripper in the first place?? Do you have enough stacks to be worth a robbing?? All pertinent questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:47 AM
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She was a stripper, lured them in with the suggestion of sex, then drugged and robbed them. Do you think a stripper would need to drug someone for sex...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 01:43 AM
2

Not the same for you* I wouldn't say rape necessarily. But definitely manipulation, so still sexual assault in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 01:40 AM
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The premise of the sexual interaction is based on lies. Same reason why sneaking off condoms would be considered sexual assault. They agreed to sex with protection/ sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:00 PM
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He has 20+ sexual assault accusations....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:52 PM
6

She didn't rape them, just drugged and robbed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:51 PM
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She didn't pony up that amount, that's the portion of her worth that is eligible to be split with him in the court proceedings. Doesn't mean he gets 140 mil. I got that from your article btw.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/20 09:42 PM
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He refuted it already. Ya lil friend barely recognized the argument before restating it with even more fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:57 PM
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You overestimated the validity and depth of you friend's argument, but that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:42 PM
3

Relationship with good sex*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:05 PM
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Guys like sex, women like good sex*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:57 PM
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I got that directly from your comment babe, it's not projection those are your words. After looking at your profile I know everything I need to know lol. Should have checked earlier tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:04 AM
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You said "a revenge fantasy that's actually reality" the revenge fantasy ie getting rich and then sticking it to unaware prospective dates... you said it was reality, as in you're living it. Generalizations are never the way to go but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 06:20 PM
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Not to spite you. If you generalize and treat women the way you describe, I doubt any relationship involving you would have the emotional depth required to be healthy and fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 12:01 PM
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Still strange and still gross, bet you're lonely. You can't be emotionally open in relationships if you're like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:47 AM
1

Yea not everything needs a reason, just an example
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 08:30 AM
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Where you went wrong is "women". Young men are a lil creepy and gross tbh not women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 08:29 AM
1

A lot of yall have this strange revenge fantasy against all women...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 04:17 AM
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Prisonpolicy.org/profiles/US.html I just looked at the yearly incarceration rates graph and you can clearly see the difference from the war on drugs. Not sexist at all. Women commit less crime, it's a fact. Also I'm not female so...you're just reaching for an argument on "sexism" that isn't there. Some theories revolve around social and cultural factors and the influence of testosterone. Regardless, men, particularly young men, have always committed more crime. If we were going to argue anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:02 PM
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Not at all because it isn't true. Blacks haven't always committed more crimes. Previous to the crack boom blacks didn't commit that much crime, after that it became a political tool "blacks are dangerous vote me in and I'll protect you". And even if they had that is due to other factors like over-policing and poverty. Men that are middle class and above still commit more crime than women always. And always have. Men are also not a marginalized minority group so... definitely false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:45 PM
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Men commit more crimes in every culture. Probably a testosterone thing or something. Or different social expectations? Either way men commit more crime and have always done so, regardless of race.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:37 PM
1

No you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:08 PM
1

Black women also get locked up at higher rates though. The system is racist for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:07 PM
1

I'm not familiar with stats for every race. I just recently read an article with black women so I used them as an example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:04 PM
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This isn't the 60's or something, average woman doesn't have kids until 27. Working women often wait until well into their 30s. How does your hypothesis account for that? If the base rate of pay starts lower and continues that way then there is a clear systemic issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:03 PM
1

Absolutely disagree with that blanket statement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:58 PM
1

... and how does that account for lower pay per hour or week exactly. Do female doctors just get to cut their shift in half... no they do the while shift just like their male peers. Boss be like "nah just take the day off, you're a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:05 AM
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Not quite
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:54 AM
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They are more privileged because they have penises. You may argue they face more overt racism, but in terms of privilege they definitely have it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:54 AM
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Yea I should have specified, more as in than their significant other in a relationship. If they are the breadwinner they likely make more but on average black women are still subject to the wage gap
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 07:52 AM
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Still make less than white men, white women, asian men, asian women on average I believe. Still had lower average household income, though that's likely due to spouse choice/lack thereof don't remember the study perfectly. Intersectionality would assert that black women would have a more difficult time entering competitive job markets and they still do, also still face workplace micro aggressions and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:01 AM
5

How is this against intersectionality? 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:19 AM
9

The women they chose to he used by* if they wanted something different they should've dated different women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:18 AM
6

Also your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:33 AM
11

Then get used. See, your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:42 AM
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That's strange, none of the women I know that. For context black women make more, are more likely to be educated, and are more likely to be breadwinners than black men. Maybe that's a white woman issue? Expand your options I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:36 AM
4

Do women see you as enough of a prize to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:41 AM
1

And all other men as well! Don't forget them!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:34 AM
-2

What they deserve tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:11 AM
0

Less care more entertainment and comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:38 AM
2

56% of college students are women now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:32 AM
-2

Umm did I say you were? A hit dog will holler so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 09:07 PM
-1

It's kinda rude. If I want free dinner why would I settle for free coffee...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 08:49 PM
2

Nobody cares about what incels want except other incels. Get over it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 08:48 PM
3

You mean standards 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:56 PM
2

Sounds like those are the women you go for. There are plenty of women turning guys down in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:42 AM
2

So defining a casual sexual relationship is bad now? That's a good thing and still doesn't apply to all or even most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 06:51 AM
3

No we don't both know that... how many non familial women do you interact with on a regular basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 06:44 AM
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Your first mistake was assuming all women want "attention and affection" from hookups. Hookups are for the men who aren't worth a relationship but have good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:59 AM
3

Neither are men...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:41 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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