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Debatepussy_destroyyer/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:26 PM
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I’d love to argue with you but I wouldn’t even know where to start with a statement like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:39 PM
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stupidest take I’ve ever heard on here, like actually braindead level take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:20 PM
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That’s sad, believe it or not there’s people in relationships for reasons other than gain or materialism or sex. I couldn’t imagine being with someone who is only dating with me to use me in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:24 AM
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That’s a sad question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:40 AM
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I get where you’re coming from but I don’t think your argument makes much sense. If you wanna be this detailed and technical about it, then those reasons you named would make you enjoy sex less as well. If you do it for purity reasons, either religious or marriage related morals are likely the motivation : if you’re religious you wouldn’t enjoy sex as much because you’d worry about being judged spiritually. Especially for women, there’s also barely ever sex that is enjoyed 100% without worries. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:27 PM
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Of course they do? For their safety? For self respect? For the possible consequences ? I’m not saying men don’t do that. I’m saying you can’t generalise by gender but to say women don’t turn down enjoyable sex is the worst take I’ve ever seen. There’s risk attached to sex, risk of pregnancy, risk of emotional hurt, risk of physical assault, risk of stds, risk of reputation loss and if you think women cannot resist sex enough to care about these then you have no critical thinking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:02 PM
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No Offense but I’ve never heard that, like ever, not irl and not on ppd. men on here regularly complain about women wanting a relationship and wanting to be romanced before fucking them. They complain about how women want emotional connection before fucking. They also say women are shallow and want that connection to trap you into providing yes, but it is, in my experience, well established that women are more likely to want a relationship and men are more likely to want no strings attached sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:57 AM
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Me when I don’t read the original post. I have literally acknowledged that women have an easier time having sex. But you can’t tell me a man who has fucked every woman that gave him the opportunity isn’t promiscuous or impulsive, especially if that’s many women. If you are wary of partners with a promiscuous past, then there’s no difference between a promiscuous man and a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:53 AM
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If you don’t think it’s bad then you don’t have insomnia, I’m not talking about the atmosphere at night I’m talking about the physical consequences of long term sleep deprivation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:49 AM
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My condolences, wouldn’t wish It on my worst enemy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:39 AM
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Jesus I remember the guy. He made this throwaway account asking me for advice with insomnia, saying he saw my post and was glad that someone relates (I posted on the insomnia subreddit once) and I was stupid enough to not realise at first. Eventually he completely spiralled into PPD insanity and the most vile sex talk lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:32 AM
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On god bro: “If you think your partner actually loves you for more than you providing sex then you’re a stupid dumb whore. Look at this stupid dumb bitch, women are too emotional and naive to face the truth. Oh he cheated, oh he beat you? Well that’s on you to not realise that he’d do that when you age” “Okay I guess men only care about sex and lack love and empathy for women” “All females do is demonise men, it’s a sad world out there”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:25 AM
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Of course yes. But that isn’t my point. There’s a very popular double standard where men are considered high value when they have a high n count and women low value when they do, often this spirals into women being villainised in derogatory ways for having/ enjoying sex at all. What I read often on here is that women with any real n count at all, in contrary to men, are bad material for a relationship because they are „whorish“ and lack impulse control. I am arguing that this cannot be generalis…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:02 AM
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A man who has had a chance to fuck five women in his life so far and has an n count of five is more promiscuous and less self restrained than a woman who has had a chance to fuck 20 men and has an n count of 4 (provided she would have enjoyed or had some motive to have sex with at least a big portion of these men). Not that I particularly care about who people sleep or don’t sleep in but I’m always shocked people disagree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:12 AM
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Female, yep absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:59 PM
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My partner masturbates very regularly as he, like almost any other sane man, can use his hands. We don’t see each other every day, even when we do I’m not always in the mood. We still have sex obviously, but I’m not going to sacrifice my mental health and comfort for intercourse. Also what you’re describing is literally a bizarre non-issue, this has not once come up in any relationship I’ve had. I don’t understand why you won’t just masturbate, I’m genuinely curious. Like you feel the urge and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:51 PM
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I’m just gonna assume you’re a troll because I refuse to believe people think like this. Go ahead, pressure your partner into sex by refusing to just touch your dick yourself. Explaining how this is weird and messed up is a waste of my time at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:34 PM
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I’m not just talking about short term side effects. Birth control is linked to higher risk of both cervical and breast cancer. The national cancer institute found that the longer a woman uses oral contraceptives, the greater the increase in her risk of cervical cancer is: a 10% increased risk for less than 5 years of use, a 60% increased risk with 5–9 years of use, and a doubling of the risk with 10 or more years of use. But women still use it, often to please their men. Do men have an issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:21 PM
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ALL hormonal birth control methods have health risks. Masturbation has none. If you rely on intercourse to ejaculate then there’s definitely an issue going on and you should get that checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:54 PM
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I’m not forbidding anyone from doing that. I just don’t understand why people are suddenly fine with whatever trait they disliked if they’re being lied to about it. I don’t think it’s healthy for both people involved, one is gonna carry around that guilt and fear of the partner finding out and the other is gonna feel betrayed and resent their partner when they find out (and people DO usually find out at some point )
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:49 PM
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And apart from that, that’s just an overall sad life Edit: OVERALL not oral
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:44 PM
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I guess we gotta just agree to disagree here because I know 100% I could never cum from penetration and neither could a good portion of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:49 PM
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Why do so many women not cum then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:39 PM
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Then you should know women have different preferences, more complicated needs to be able to orgasm and sex is more than dick in vagina. If it was as simple as intercourse more women would be able to cum through penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:32 PM
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Have you ever spoken to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:21 PM
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They have barely any effect on the quality of sex. Maybe dick size but believe it or not it still doesn’t dictate if sex is good or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:05 PM
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Theres too many things wrong with this to fit in a singular comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:02 PM
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More cum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:49 AM
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What else is there though? Either you communicate and work it out and it’s fixed or it’s not fixed and you gotta break up. Or alternatively you’re stuck with shitty sex or whatever your issue is. Plus I’ve found that when people come to Reddit for advice half the time they’d rather talk shit to random strangers than actually talk to their partner . That being said this is Reddit, people give advice cuz it makes them feel better about themselves or like they’re smarter so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:44 AM
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When it comes to sex it’s just not that complicated tho. Too many people don’t communicate when it comes to sex whatsoever and resent each other over time. „Hey I like this and have a preference for that, how would you feel about that? It also bothers me when you do this. Are there any preferences you have?“ and boom you’re communicating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:21 AM
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That too, but that doesn’t mean you’re overall shitty at sex. Plus who knows, you might be more compatible than you think, you won’t know unless you try
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:14 AM
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Yeah fuck communication. We should all just resent each other secretly and have shitty sex for the rest of our lives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:13 AM
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*Sanest PPD post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:06 AM
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Based take, vaginas are gross, penises are gross. Especially outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:04 AM
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Yes and no, sex is more than physical motions especially because most women care more about foreplay than just plain dick in vagina intercourse. For two people to enjoy sex with each other they need to be sexually compatible, there’s different types of sex, different dynamics, different feels. Sure, maybe there’s people that are bad at every single type but most aren’t. And if you don’t communicate with your woman, chances are she won’t enjoy it no matter the „skill“. You can be a super dominant…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:59 AM
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Sanest PPD user
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:40 AM
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Me when I pack any trait that has ever been seen as desirable in a man by any woman and claim all women want all of these things in their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:52 AM
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I don’t get that either, if it bothers you then why date them. And if you see it as a threat wouldn’t you want to know? People claim that the reason they wouldn’t date someone with a certain sexual past is because they somehow deem them less fit for a serious relationship or as a damaged individual. In that case it shouldn’t matter if you know or not. If you think that a guy having a history with men makes him less trustworthy but wouldn’t care if you don’t know, it just means that your the conn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:48 AM
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I’m triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:11 PM
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Fuck yeah fist bumps back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:13 PM
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And the idea that people do things for reasons other than to get their dick hard is somehow beyond you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:04 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, I’m sure most women prefer that, just saying it’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:58 PM
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Eating ass is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:50 PM
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You claim the reason men don’t like high n women is because they’re not trustworthy and not loyal. In that case wouldn’t you want to know? I don’t get it. If you think that a woman will cheat because she has a high n count, then it wouldn’t lower the chances just because she lied about it. If anything it would make her even less trustworthy because she’s manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:38 PM
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They’re gonna break up with you ANY DAY NOW!!!! And you’ll be LONELY and MISERABLE you WHORE😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:28 PM
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I’m not sure what your point is, I said nothing about what men should or shouldn’t worry about. I just think promoting lying and being secretive about your past instead of openly communicating is stupid. By your logic, as a person who clearly doesn’t like women with a sexual past, you’d rather date a woman with a massive n count but not know about it than just have a conversation with her about it before getting serious and parting ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:15 PM
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PPD users when I find a partner that I am compatible with and who is okay with my past instead of some dude who wants a “pure woman“ and lie to him so he doesn’t resent me😡😡😡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:07 PM
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Or, hear me out, if my partner would judge me for my sexual history then we’re not comparable anyways. And if he is the type of man to look down on women for things that are perfectly acceptable for men then he’s not someone I want to be involved with anyways. What’s the point in having a partner if he would resent you for your past?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:41 PM
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If he’s completely socially inept and doesn’t interact with women much then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:23 PM
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Meh, there was obviously chemistry the first time we met and that was great but if he immediately asked me out the first time we talked or said he wants to fuck me then maybe we wouldn’t have ended up dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:31 PM
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Any amount that’s needed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:34 PM
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YES it stresses me so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah, it started pretty early. I was bullied and stuff but there were comments outside of that too. Like about my leg hair when and weight or things like that when I was maybe 7 (I was never even near overweight)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:54 PM
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I mean, does she do any other type or sport? If she’s simply busy or it’s not her thing/she has other hobbies then I doubt you can make her. If you haven’t asked her yet though, just ask her to join you sometime to see if it’s fun for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:49 PM
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Freud is rolling in his grave rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:45 PM
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No shame in that, this doesn’t change that you have a completely distorted view of sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:36 PM
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LMAO you have a point. The fact that he considers a woman shoving things up her ass like a monkey the epitome of sex is pretty telling. Anyways yeah obviously Freud is to be taken with a grain of salt, however many theories that he coined are relevant to this day because they’ve been further researched by modern psychologists and adjusted. That’s the case here, obviously Freud is not the only one to talk about this phenomenon. It’s like saying therapy is bullshit because Freud founded psychoanal…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:35 PM
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Most constructive PPD reply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:18 PM
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No use in educating him. OP has already dismissed this possibility because Freud coined that term and Freud is a pervert so this way of thinking is, in fact, just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:17 PM
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Freud is obviously not the only psychologist to talk about this . He was just the first one, as with most theories/topics of his that stayed relevant to this day (and haven’t been completely debunked). Still, looking at your post I can’t help but think the guy is rolling in his grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:04 PM
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Freud would be THRILLED to talk to you. Please look up the madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:58 AM
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I agree but attraction is shallow to a big extent and there’s things most people find unattractive even if they’re traits that cannot naturally be changed. It bothers me that I see men saying “who cares about hip dips, women made that insecurity up themselves, men don’t care about any of that” when I’ve been insulted for them long before I knew what they were called. That being said I think pointing out things on peoples bodies, especially if it’s unchangeable is shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:51 AM
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I hate those posts that say “why are girls making themselves insecure about hip dips (or insert any other insecurity), most guys don’t even know what that is”. Not saying anyone SHOULD be insecure but people can find traits unattractive without knowing the specific name/mentioning it. I’ve never been insulted on my hip dips specifically but guys have commented on how bad it looks in different ways. It’s like when you see someone unattractive you don’t immediately think “hmm their eyes aren’t sym…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:34 AM
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Very well, my parents love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:24 PM
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How old is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:31 PM
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Maybe if you don’t want to hear them then don’t ask question directed towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:52 PM
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I wonder how straight women feel about dating women in that case🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:59 PM
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Yeah I’m aware, I find both variations equally offensive and braindead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:46 PM
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Men on here complain about sexlessness all the time. Why don’t they just fuck men? They’d have someone that knows what men like and women wouldn’t be made responsible for mens lack of sex. It’s a win for them and win for society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:42 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:00 PM
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Eh it can be, especially when grieving
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:57 PM
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Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:40 PM
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I think I only have one dude who I can consider a friend (except my boyfriends friend group I guess) and he’s taken so no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:37 PM
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What the fuck is a dark triad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:33 PM
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Y’all will find ANYTHING to be mad at. Take the damn compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:41 PM
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I don’t think anyone wants to be told „I’ve had better“. No girl wants to be told „if I’m being honest, my ex was prettier. I would assume that while many women mean what they say, a good chunk of them probably lie to make their partner feel good. My boyfriend IS the best I’ve had and I do tell him that, but if he wasn’t then I’m not sure if I would say anything different because it would crush him to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:28 PM
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A 6‘4 pot bellied guy with an ugly face will not be chased my man. But yeah, I’ve seen both but definitely more hot girls with ugly to average guys . I guess that comes from the fact that ( in my area at least) there’s just more attractive women than attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:33 PM
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It depends . I think generally a guy who puts effort into learning what women like is a really attractive trait. But if he doesn’t have any natural charm whatsoever doesn’t understand how to apply the things he learns then sadly that’s a bit offputting. Sometimes No amount of research can fix a lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:04 PM
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Yeah, I mean my boyfriend „expects“ oral to some extent but if I liked being eaten out myself he’d have no problem so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:39 PM
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Weird asf. I’ve gotten so many comments accusing either me or my boyfriend of cheating. I don’t understand why people are so invested in random relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:35 PM
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If I guy refused to eat me out because apparently it’s „submissive“ and he’s too Alpha I’d absolutely run. I don’t like being eaten out but if I did, I’d expect my partner to at least be willing to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah people on here are just plain bitter. I’ve gotten countless weird comments about my relationship on here too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:30 PM
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I mean yeah sure, whatever works best. But if your woman vents to you a lot and reacts badly when you vent then maybe I’d reconsider how balanced the relationship is .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:26 PM
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Who the fuck is saying daddy is more normal than babe? Imagine saying that shit in public bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:22 PM
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I think In a relationship a balance is important. You can’t rely on therapy alone if you have no one to talk to. My boyfriend and I are both in therapy because some issues we deal with are too serious for us to deal with alone. However if one of us is having a hard time, the other will listen and provide comfort. Therapy should become more available to people and less stigmatised but there should also be less stigma around men being vulnerable in relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:20 PM
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Venting from time to time doesn’t make you a less fun person though. If anything, never talking about your feelings in a relationship is gonna make you more miserable long term than if you get some comfort from your partner and then simply move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:15 PM
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Im not sure what you’re trying to say because your sentence structure is weird. If they complain about things to the point where you think they might have a mental health issue or massive stress then you should recommend therapy, sure. If it’s too much for you then you can also recommend therapy to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:13 PM
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If they mention therapy then the issue is likely bigger than just work problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:08 PM
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The thread was literally about women „whining „ and men not being able to vent. If you don’t think that’s a gendered issue then that’s fine, but that’s not what the thread was about so your comment makes little difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:07 PM
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Men are more frequently not taught things like cooking, cleaning, housekeeping as throughoutly as women. Men are also less nurturing in nature. If a woman has a high paying job and has a very nurturing partner who is good at housekeeping then a SAHD situation makes sense. However that often isn’t the case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:05 PM
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I never said anything about not fixing issues. However humans tend to need comfort from their loved ones when they’re doing bad. That’s kind of part of what makes them human. If someone is complaining about not being able to vent to their partner, they rarely mean whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:02 PM
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The original post did, the original post was about n counts and age. I completely agree with you however an 18 year old is gonna a lower chance of having those skills than a 40 year old. That’s why we make those laws. A fully developed adult is gonna likely be less naive and have a better manipulation skills than a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:59 PM
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What is with this subs obsession to make everyone equally miserable instead of finding solutions to problems? I made the argument that both genders should be able to vent in their relationship to a healthy degree after I saw a thread complaining about women apparently being whiny and men not being allowed to vent. The responses I got were either basically „no one should vent because it’s whiny“ or „its shitty that men can’t vent but they shouldn’t do it anyways because they’ll get cheated on“ . …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:56 PM
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What does it matter though, if age doesn’t have anything to do with maturity and it’s purely about experience then my example would be perfectly fine. Where do you draw the line? A 17 year old dating a 30 year old is bad because the 17 year old is immature based on their age? but an 18 year old dating a 30 year old is fine because the 18 year old might have a similar body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:35 PM
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So if a 14 year old with a body count of 3 dates a 30 year old virgin, the virgin is actually the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:27 PM
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Not the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:24 PM
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Whining is being dramatic about trivial things. Venting is a perfectly healthy and NEEDED way to cope with stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:23 PM
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I‘m a woman but okay. Maybe if you wanna go a step in the right direction then don’t immediately tell (assumed) men that express their feelings that they’re gonna get cheated on .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:22 PM
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Speak for yourself. If you wanna be stuck in miserable relationships where neither party feels completely enough to express their feelings then be my guest. I’ll stick to my healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:18 PM
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Maybe encourage relationships in which men can vent as well instead of saying that confiding in your partner is whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:12 PM
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And you don’t see an issue with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:09 PM
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„Hey honey , I’ve had a hard day at work. My coworkers talked shit about me and it made me feel kind of insecure. Could we do something nice to cheer me up?“ „ stop whining, I’m not your therapist you pussy“
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:07 PM
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Maybe take a break at watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:03 PM
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What’s the point of a relationship if you can’t vent to them though. I’m not saying to the point where it’s troubling to the other person but being able to complain about your day at work or confide in your partner about what makes you sad is a perfectly normal thing to want in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:01 PM
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Depends, obviously that’s a trait that I’d want to avoid in a possible partner because our lifestyles would likely not be compatible and There’s a risk of him becoming financially dependent on me which is eh. But shit, if it was someone that is ambitious and working on improving their situation and we got along really well then fuck it. Shit happens and it doesn’t have to define a person, there’s a difference between someone who is going through a tough time in their life and someone who is lazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:47 PM
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That doesn’t matter though, they’re still better looking than some saggy obese lady. 5 is average and the average person doesn’t look like a celebrity, the average person most likely isn’t slim and there’s only so much plastic surgery can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:38 AM
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It’s almost as if women complained about only being valued for sex on here all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:12 PM
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He looks like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:17 PM
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It’s not inherently misogynistic at all, there’s just a good amount of dudes that still hold the view that women having sex makes them dirty or whores and having sex as men just makes them more valuable, which is one of those things rooted in misogynistic views. Preference is totally fine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:15 PM
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What if one party is abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:01 PM
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Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:57 PM
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Ok? You don’t have to. And how do you know the divorce was her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:53 PM
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No of course not, that’s the point. I’m not saying it doesn’t matter but I’m saying there’s no point in overanalysing the exact numbers. If my boyfriend was shorter than me than that’s be iffy, but he’s not and if he was I’d notice it immediately. I know he’s taller than me but it doesn’t matter if he’s 5’7 or 5’9 and I think to say that a 6 foot dude is attractive to women but a 5‘10 guy isn’t is really dumb you know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:52 PM
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Obviously to that extent but not the numbers. I don’t care if it’s 5’7 or 5’9 , if he was 5 foot it would be an issue but I think it’s stupid to say that only 6 foot and up guys with 8 inch dicks can be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:38 PM
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Then they would have the respect to at least not do it in front of him I mean come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:58 PM
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I never said anything about ethics. I only asked because it seems counterproductive to me and kind of weird, you’re the one putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:53 PM
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Until post nut clarity hits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:49 PM
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Can’t what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:41 PM
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I think overanalysing height and dick size is weird. I don’t know my boyfriends dick size or height and I never asked beca why the fuck would I ask. I feel like this is only common for online dating because in what world do I ask my boyfriend on a date “ hey what exactly is your height because I need to know to stay with you”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:38 PM
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It’s so brainless like it’s something that requires zero effort, the biggest misogynistic abuser will do it with no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:32 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:30 PM
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Ahh, marry because you’re horny, great reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:29 PM
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Yeah true, I mean a 10 is hard to achieve. I still don’t think calling slim young celebrities with gorgeous faces and perky tits a 5 is justified, especially since 5 is average and the average American is overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:20 PM
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Why does that mean you need to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:11 PM
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What does struggling sexually mean here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:06 PM
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Actually yeah, this is so true. Like a guy calling me pretty (especially if I know he just wants to get in my pants) does nothing to me. However when my boyfriend does those things I’m very very appreciative and it feels very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:02 PM
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Also in what world does that indicate if you would be a caring partner or not? Like yeah I’m sure holding open the door open for a woman for the sole purpose on getting in bed with her really shows that you won’t be an asshole if she sleeps with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:59 PM
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Video games, being a degenerate on Reddit and kiwifarms, idk if going to the gym counts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:51 PM
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Yes of course Edit: I forgot about people having alcohol with food. Yeah like a beer or a glass of wine at lunch is obviously fine, especially when going out to eat. But it shouldn’t be an every day occurrence and it shouldn’t be a lot of alcohol or “without any reason”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah it’s like they only ever see women on the internet and think the average woman is an instagram model. By their standards I probably am a 3, I have some chub (nowhere near overweight but still), I have hip dips and my face is a little asymmetrical. So by their standards I should be borderline unfuckable. Thats not how it is in real life though because most girls have at least some kind of flaws and those girls that are “perfect” are only a fraction. I wonder if that kind of mindset is also w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:42 PM
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But what else is there? What else would you expect from a ten?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:34 PM
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Half of those men are attractive and I doubt they have issues finding women. If anything they’re cocky enough to think that any woman would choose them over their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:32 PM
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If a slim woman with a small waist, big Tits, great hair and the face of an instagram woman is a 5 then how can anyone reach a ten?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:24 PM
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Yeah many guys nowadays very straight up (too straight up for my comfort zone lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:19 PM
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95% no, unless it was someone who is very important to me and hanging out wasn’t a regular thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:17 PM
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If you consider being touchy ( especially thigh area), commenting on my body(tits and thighs), asking for my Snapchat or phone number, saying how we’d be a good fit in bed and oh, inviting me over to their place as something completely platonic then sure lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:14 PM
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It is very much not healthy, it’s a recipe for yeast infections and friction burn. Especially for women. Just work out or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:01 PM
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They way they rate women makes me so insecure. I wouldn’t even consider myself ugly but seeing slim women with an hourglass body, no skin imperfections, perky tits and objectively attractive faces be rated a 5-7 makes me think I’m like a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:56 PM
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I can imagine, I was never in that specific situation but my boyfriend used to be be friends with one guy who was super vile to me. He’s stare at my tits, ask my cup size and make really mean comments towards me sometimes, other time creepy ones. When my boyfriend confronted my about it he just said that I’m ugly anyways and that I dress like a slut (for info, I didn’t, I wore some tank tops in the summer but nothing very revealing or with much cleavage). He obviously broke off contact with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:43 PM
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Then control yourself and not try to pick up that girl in front of the boyfriend you find friendly. It’s not about attraction , it’s about basic respect. I never said this is all men and I never said anything about being a psychopath, but please enlighten me how befriending a dude and trying to fuck his girl is somehow empathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:34 PM
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So weird, especially when they do it infront of him. Do they think my boyfriend is just gonna go “I was gonna be pissed off, but now that I know you also lift weights and complimented me, you can totally fuck my girlfriend”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:00 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:57 PM
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Unless it’s only quickies, then that has to be incredibly time consuming. You wake up in the morning and fuck, then go to to work. When you come home you fuck again, eat something in between and fuck for the third time before going to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:42 PM
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Has anyone here also experienced that weird shit guys do where they act like they’re homies with your boyfriend even though they’re trying to get in your pants? As mentioned in another post, me and my boyfriend go out to drink/club/concerts and other events where you get to know other people together fairly regularly. Obviously sometimes one of us will get approaches by the other gender sometimes, but there have been multiple times where a guy that tries to get in my pants will introduce himself…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:38 PM
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Ew what the fuck? That’s not just touchy that’s just like soft core cheating and also really iffy towards you. Why is he still with that woman Jesus. Edit: Why am I getting downvoted lmao, would y’all just be fine with ur girl being all touchy with some other dude and talking about sex to him? It just seems like flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:54 AM
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A fit person eating large amounts of high volume low calorie food would probably chew as much as an overweight person eating the same volume of food if that food is calorie dense. Not to mention liquid calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:41 AM
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Nothing . I won’t have sex if I’m in the mood, it would make me uncomfortable. But also not wanting it 3 times a day isn’t low libido, 3 times a day is an incredibly high amount . If you’re the type that needs it multiple times a day and your partner has a low libido then that’s a pretty bad match
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:38 AM
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There’s a difference between being abused or raped and having your heart broken
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:08 PM
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Or abusive relationships make you dependent and are hard to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:05 PM
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You’d think that but it’s genuinely not that uncommon. There’s men that genuinely believe telling you that you’re not like “the rest of those evil sluts” will get you to fall in love with them or something. There’s also plenty of men that think just talking about your tits and then talking about they would fuck that other girl they saw on the street so hard is somehow acceptable or hot. Some people have no filter. If it wasn’t like that, there wouldn’t be old guys catcalling 15 year old girls bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:56 PM
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Yeah and those aren’t the men that women get stuck being abused by. There’s plenty of men that will drop obviously weird comments and talk about how other women are evil sluts while trying to flirt with you. That’s how women can tell. However many abusers are incredibly caring at first and only start being abusive when you’re dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:50 PM
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Those are two different kinds of men. First off, it’s silly to say you can smell abusers, most abusers are successful at abusing someone beca they manipulate well and seem perfect at first. However I know exactly the type of men these women talk about being able to recognise: it’s dudes that have really weird/misogynistic views on women and while they don’t openly voice them, you can still tell from how their comments. For example, when trying to flirt they’ll try to tell you that you’re “not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:48 PM
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5-6
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:29 PM
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Adding onto that, people ignore that abusers do everything in their power to isolate you. Whenever a woman stays with an abusive man, people will say it’s because she’d rather get abused by a “chad” than settle for a nice guy, which is total bullshit. My ex was abusive and he wasn’t attractive, he was quite the opposite. But I still stayed with him even after he raped me. Why? Because he told me over and over how I would never find anyone that will genuinely love me again. That he’s the only one…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:28 PM
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F. End of kindergarten age. Started “dieting” first time around 7-8 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:11 PM
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I’ve never done casual but if I did of course people go for the more attractive person if they’re doing casual and have that option. Unattractive men have much less luck with casual sex. I know plenty of ugly men that have gotten into relationships though. It’s not ideal obviously, some do end up with attractive women that just value their personality (often because they met at work or in some shared activity and noticed they clicked) but some just settle for equally unattractive women or vulner…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:03 PM
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And men… don’t get fat or wrinkle?….or bald….?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:20 AM
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Why do they write like they’re in the mix of some action movie and some erotic novel. Those posts just seem like glorified power trip erotica
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:13 AM
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None of these things apart from “zero fat” have anything to do with one’s diet or workout routine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:09 AM
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According to CDC 2015 to 2016, 38% of men in the US are obese ( I’m absolutely sure it’s more nowadays) . Only 14.5% men in the US are over 6 feet tall. Do you think all those obese men under 6 foot never get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:25 PM
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They only do if you need an excuse. A drunk cheater would have cheater regardless, they just needed a reason. A loyal person won’t cheat even if drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:24 PM
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Right? It’s not like we just go alone too. We go with our friends and half of them are taken as well. Not once has someone said “yo sorry I can’t go to that bar, I have a girlfriend”. If they’re taken they’ll just take their partner as well a lot of the time. People create problems where there are none
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:20 PM
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Yeah looks are definitely a bigger wellness factor for women than they are for men. I’m sure it’s something that can get picked apart by redpillers and feminists alike and I’m sure it is linked to biology and attraction and society and all that. But I don’t wanna think about that when I go out, I just wanna put on the most obnoxious outfits I have and feel good. I’m sure someday I’ll feel similar to you and most others in their thirties and will prefer grilling but right now I just love the nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:17 PM
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“She’s probably fat and ugly and her boyfriend is a FAT NERD. She probably goes to NERD CONVENTIONS to cheat because there’s no NERDS at the club”. Dude you’re like 30 or something and so pissed that some 18 year old girl goes clubbing with her boyfriend are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:52 PM
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Exactly. I can’t with the guys in this thread. Me and my boyfriend both like clubbing so we go together and somehow that made them MAD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:35 PM
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Why are you guys so bitter lmao. Two 18-19 year old students going clubbing together as a couple?? Revolting. They must be ugly and mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:31 PM
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Literally. I don’t go to the club and say “ man , I hope I get one of those juicy 35 year old drunk guys. They are just so hot.”. If I wanted to cheat I’d chat up some guy at a cafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:24 PM
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It feels good to look good. Some do for men, some do for attention and some like looking in the mirror and saying “hey I look great”. I personally dress fairly modest ish when I go out but I still like to look good. I’m sure there’s a want to look good to the other gender to some extent, most beauty standards cater towards that after all. But consciously, I love wearing things that wouldn’t be acceptable on a daily basis. If you were a woman, wouldn’t you wanna wear some sparkly dress and pink e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:21 PM
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Very glad that my boyfriend is sane because if my only idea of the how the opposite gender acts was from this subreddit, I’d probably kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:59 PM
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You clearly don’t understand the appeal of clubbing. No idea what it’s like over where you are but going partying with your partner is very popular here. I keep away from any men and never go alone, I dance either with whatever friend I have or my boyfriend and I’ve never found a single guy that I interacted with in a club attractive. There’s nothing wrong with what I do, neither with what my boyfriend does. But I guess everyone has their own boundaries. If I had the intention to window shop , I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:52 PM
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Yes and mostly yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:47 PM
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What does that have to do with anything, like in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:46 PM
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Or I like drinking and dancing lmao. Most of my friends are taken and still go because its fun as fuck. I’m not gonna deprive myself of things I like because I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:45 PM
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Aww. I should’ve clarified this isn’t about me but I wholeheartedly agree with this comment and you worded this well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:36 PM
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For real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:34 PM
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I wish there was Clubs like that in my area , that sounds cool. But yeah one of the reasons that I like having my boyfriend with me is safety, I’ve gotten groped/harassed on my way home late a few times and it’s not great. When my boyfriend isn’t there he also trusts that I keep with my friends and always reject any advances . I always keep him updated too and it works rly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:33 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:29 PM
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Oh shit… that’s wow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:29 PM
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Obviously, but clearly they’re not a lost cause and can find a relationship. Most ugly dudes I know have at least had a girlfriend at some point. But I guess it gets harder with age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:19 PM
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I’m so curious, what was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:15 PM
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I see so much jealousy concerning clubbing and whatnot. But why don’t people ever go with their partner if jealousy is the issue? I take my boyfriend with me when I go clubbing 80% of the time because he gets jealous easily and it eases that worry for him. Unless it’s specifically a ladies night, my friends like him and don’t mind him coming along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:14 PM
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be me stays on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:12 PM
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? Ex was a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:57 PM
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To be fair like, come on . People come for advice indirectly. There’s no difference between “how do I get laid” and “how do men with insert trait get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:56 PM
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Bro has never heard of supply and demand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:48 PM
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Yeah that’s what I meant. And I’m pretty sure that’s a commonly known fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:43 PM
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Of course not but our current society is horrible with overconsumerism, like it’s actually horrible. Everything is centred around buying and buying and buying. Trends last a incredibly short time and so many things get thrown away fast. Everything is for sale nowadays. And that’s obviously not great for the environment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:38 PM
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Hopefully no one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:35 PM
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I guess I got unlucky because my ex was short and obese and somehow still managed to cheat LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:26 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:23 PM
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It’s like a pyramid scheme
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:12 PM
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This isn’t about me lol (thankfully). I just imagine this is what some guys on here feel like. I’m a women and my love life is fine haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:08 PM
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-be young virgin guy going on reddit for advice on improving love life -be insecure and think maybe you can’t get laid because you’re chubby or awkward -come onto PPD for advice -get told that you’ll never get laid because all women already hate you and any man’s chances to get laid are 0 unless they take testosterone and have 5% body fat or are a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:04 PM
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But men do have a biological advantage in sports. Women and men have biological differences, that’s not a sexist statement. Why would we make biological men and women compete, when most men would have an advantage. The funding issue is a bit eh, although I’m not sure how completely equal funding would be doable but sure I can see that there’s some improvement to be done. In sports, removing gender as a variable would make for less fair competitions but that’s not dramatic. However removing it fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:55 PM
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Yeah I mean, that would make sense, I’d say that too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:13 PM
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Yeah that too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:12 PM
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I didn’t mention any solution but I mean, what’s ur suggestion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:07 PM
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Yeah in this case yes of course. That was also not what I was referring to in my original post. I’m talking about the people who over consume things they don’t need because they have think it has no impact. People who buy new phones and clothes and throw their old ones away every few months and create a bunch of waste when they could easily not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:44 PM
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People don’t have a choice though. They need to get to work every day. If theres no public transit then they NEED to drive a car, there is no other option. Emily on TikTok doesn’t need 50 new shirts whatsoever but bob needs to get to work every day to earn money for his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:36 PM
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You’re telling me women want to sleep with men they’re attracted to and whose traits they like???? No way bru
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:30 PM
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Thanks Sad_top1743 for your absolutely revolutionary statement : “promiscuous women (in your experience) have higher n counts”. I always thought it was modest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:22 PM
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Good one lmaoo. I’ll be like “statistically men tend to cheat more” and people just respond “yeah but I have this TikTok of a woman saying she cheated lol OWNED WOMAN”. And it takes me all the willpower in the world to not pull up a bunch of Reddit stories that prove my point but I don’t wanna stoop that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:17 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:10 PM
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Literally, they’ll deny saying that shit but there was even that dumbass “women are sluts and men are slut makers” thread on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:09 PM
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Theres nothing I hate more than people that post random reddit stories on here and call it proof of a behaviour pattern of the opposite gender. Whenever I claim to know something in a debate( or at least most of the time) , I make sure to find some study that’s at least somewhat reliable only to have some dude say “gotcha, but this woman on r/relationshipadvice said she only fucks chad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:06 PM
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I say this every like 4 days and no one ever gives coherent answers. They want women to have sex with them and not anyone else or else it makes their ego shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:58 PM
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Ho‘s love me for my PPD hot takes. Nothing makes their dick harder than me participating in the N-Count debate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:54 PM
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Not worth is for either gender prolly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah they do but also yikes, weird statement. If you wanna cheat so bad just leave ur current dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:33 PM
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On Reddit, not PPD lmaooo, I only found PPD this year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:32 PM
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Sure, but you CAN be mad at the government for not providing more options for public transit or bike paths or whatever else is more environmentally friendly. And just because you don’t have many other options for getting to your destination doesn’t mean that you can’t criticise shell for being an overall unethical brand (also Shell isn’t only bad for making gas, it’s bad for violating human rights, causing oil spills, committing oil theft and whatever else there was). People don’t need a bunch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:19 PM
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Take ungodly amounts of steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:08 PM
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Eh, I actually disagree with that one. How else are people supposed to get from point a to point b, especially when they work super long hours and there’s not much public transit available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah many people on here mistake me for a dude. It gives me 5 minutes of respect from PPD dudes until they realise I’m a woman and call me stupid or loose or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:58 PM
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I’ve been a women on Reddit for 3 years now, where are my well deserved orbiters >:( I must be past my fertile prime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:52 PM
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When men on PPD tell me I’ll hit the wall at 25 but I’m 18 and already hit my head against the wall multiple times this morning 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:45 PM
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I was gone from PPD for like 2 weeks and the second I open this subreddit I already feel the urge to bang my head against the wall. Feels good to be back for my daily hit of brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:26 PM
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This is off topic but does anyone else also hate when people justify their materialistic overconsumption by saying „but it doesn’t matter because I can’t change anything and it’s actually the fault of big companies and the government and also others do it so it doesn’t matter“. Like yeah sure a big part is out of our control but that doesn’t mean you have to buy hundreds of cheap 2$ shirts and then throw them out in the months. It’s just the most braindead take I’ve ever seen. I’m not saying eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:20 PM
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Very true. Although I think the issue is that many people on this subreddit would rather sit inside all day while repeating „I’ll never be happy until I have a million dollars. I am a lost cause because I do not have a million dollars. Maybe if I yell at millionaires enough and tell them I’m miserable, they’ll give me money“ instead of finding other things that make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:03 PM
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Yeah I mean, having a healthy sex/love life can surely increase your happiness. However telling yourself over and over that you’ll never be happy unless you have a girlfriend and spending your life being bitter and angry at women will probably make you much more miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:00 PM
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Leave while you still can
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:49 PM
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You’d be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:49 PM
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Yeah no totally. It’s not cultural or societal pressure. It’s also not the completely human need for a partner. It’s Disney. Why haven’t I thought of this before? What a fucking revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:48 PM
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You do realise my comment is satire and I disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:42 PM
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I don’t have enough context to judge the story you’re referring but let me just say: „Emotional labour“ isn’t just picking up socks or whatever you think it is. It’s cleaning up after your partner constantly, always planning the schedules, cooking most of the time, taking care of children. That shit is tedious asf especially if you work as well. Dating someone with trauma is obviously tiring too and you don’t owe that to anyone. You shouldn’t sacrifice your own needs for that person. But dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:40 PM
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I also saw a TikTok of a dude saying that if your gf isn’t in the mood for sex, you should go cheat on her. My friend also got cheated on by her boyfriend. This must mean all men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:33 PM
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„women cooking, cleaning, doing household chores and planning things aren’t real work because I dated an abuse victim and that was tedious“ Like I don’t understand your point. Clearly the women complain about emotional labour aren’t severely mentally ill. Traditionally women are expected to take care of Kids, provide emotional support and do most housework. This, just like any other responsibility is hard work and women want it to get appreciation. What you’re describing is not the norm and clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:28 PM
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But what I did was literally just describe the concept of being owed something though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:56 PM
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What do you consider being given a chance though? A date? Flirting? From what I’m seeing, most mens goal with these things is sex. So why would a woman go out of her way to do them with a man she doesn’t have any intention of having a romantic or sexual relationship with? What reason does she have to put herself in a possibly uncomfortable situation for her just so the unattractive guy “gets a chance”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:52 PM
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You do realise that no matter for what reason, she feels shitty. Maybe it’s better if she accepts her preference and fucks old men, maybe it’s not. Maybe she has had traumatic experiences that have led to this attraction and she needs to work them out (it is literally not that unlikely). Maybe she has issues with guilt concerning her sexuality and she needs to work those out so she can fuck men without feeling shitty. No matter what, there’s something wrong and she needs it check out. Also yeah,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:33 PM
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Most men on this subreddit. Most of it revolves around the general view that women are too picky/greedy/prude or whatever else and SHOULD have sex with men like them. They don’t outright say that they’re owed sex, but they do say that their quality of life is shit without sex and that the reason for their sexlessness is womens entitlement or pickiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:00 PM
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This is PPD, no one is listening to anyone. Men aren’t listening to womens problems either. Everyone here is frustrated with the other gender and screaming at each other with no intention of actually compromising. Many women feel like men constantly expect sex from them and are upset about that. Many men are upset because they’re not getting any sex. Both are valid complaints and there’s no easy solution, it sucks. But you can’t seriously think implying that you are owed sex on the internet will…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:52 PM
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Post is fake anyways but if someone doesn’t feel comfortable with their sexual attraction and have done things they’re now uncomfortable with them there’s clearly an issue going on. No matter what, it’s worth it to get that checked out by a therapist. Either that kind of attraction stems from some psychological issues or it’s simply a preference and the person has some deep guilt going on. What else would u want other women to say? “Keep fucking old men and keep feeling shitty about yourself”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:37 PM
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Because reddits main demographic isn’t mothers. Plus mothers have less time for things like reddit anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:30 AM
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Muscular body can definitely be attained through hard work at the gym. Teeth can be whitened and facial asymmetry/ugly facial features (big nose, droopy eyes) can be fixed with plastic surgery. Hair transplants are also a thing. For penis enlargement, a penuma implant is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:41 AM
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Yeah I mean, ideal scenario. Whoever wants the kid can pay for it and no one has to go through a bunch of physical pain or pay money if they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:10 PM
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I mean, that sucks for both genders and overpopulation gets kind of worse maybe (or at least there’s a lot of depressed kinds being taken care of by the government). They’re treated equally so that’s good, but like it just sucks equally for them. I’d prefer access to abortions, more support for single mothers (access to cheap daycares, easier access to jobs or some shit) and then less financial responsibility on fathers if we’re talking anything realistically. Access to abortions (or putting the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:06 PM
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Again, distrust isn’t the same as hate. Saying “all men are the same, they all want to hurt me” is different than saying “I’ve been hurt by men in the past and I’m scared I’ll get hurt again, but I really like this guy so I’ll try to trust him”. You might get a girl who wants to wait with sex because she’s been assaulted, you might get a girl who will need a lot of verbal reassurance because she’s been cheated on. If you don’t want that, that’s fine, someone’s mental health isn’t your responsibi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:43 AM
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This is literally the point. Then they are probably not very keen on being flirted with. If a woman is distrustful on men, she’ll likely want to get into a relationship/flirt or anything like that on her own terms somehow. As I already mentioned I’m cautious of men and so I hate feeling pressured. I started getting to know my current boyfriend after he gave me the space to approach him myself. I’m aware that the norm is different but I wouldn’t have felt comfortable any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:21 AM
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The two first ones I agree are hostile behaviour to some extent. Not sure what u want anyone to do about the first two ones, if you’re intimidated that’s just how you’ll act and being friendly often gets mistaken as some sort of invitation. Being cold isn’t anything bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:09 AM
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Can you give me examples of that kind of behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:00 AM
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One happens so much more often than the other. Plus it’s like that : wanting thing in partner and abiding by those same rules= bad. Guy is low n count and wants low n women =makes sense, guy is high n count and refuses to date non virgin women= weird. Same with women, if you’re high n count and want a high n count guy, that’s cool but if you won’t date a virgin even though you have no experience that’s weird. The difference is, I don’t see a lot of outward shaming of low n count men as much as I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:57 AM
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Or, hear me out, men only wanting a virgin women if they themselves have a high n count is weird to a lot of women. The view that women who aren’t virgins are dirty/ unworthy while a man with sexual experience is something to be celebrated is clearly something that stuck around to this day (obviously not in woke circles but there’s enough people that think that way). If a guy states “my partner needs to have a low n count but that doesn’t apply to me”, women assume that’s what his view on women …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:43 AM
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If he has a history of having many partners, he is obligated to test himself and inform me of any stds he has. Apart from that, there’s no obligation. However if we are in an LTR, I would like to know at least vaguely what his sexual history looked like and lying about it/not telling me important aspects on purpose would be a red flag and maybe deal breaker for in my experience. Unless it’s assault or something along those lines and the person isn’t comfortable talking about it, I don’t think an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:22 AM
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Have fun I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:17 AM
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Not sure if I get the punchline of this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:16 AM
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Sounds pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:13 AM
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And there’s literally nothing to do about those “smaller things” like groping or harassment except for BEING CAUTIOUS either. Like some guy gropes me at a bus station, what am I expected to do? Go to the police and say “hey this guy groped me yesterday, I have no idea who he is and I have no proof”. Then like 3 months later it happens again. The only natural thing for me to do is to say “i guess I’ll avoid men in those situations”. What’s the worst that can happen? Some guy sees that I’m uncomfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:13 AM
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Like I’ve gotten sexually assaulted by my ex and I’ve gotten groped/harassed when being out multiple times. Therefore I avoid being alone with men or getting myself into situations that could risk either of those things happening. I don’t think most men are like that but I have no way knowing which ones are and which ones aren’t. My boyfriend can understand that, especially since he has literally seen it happening before and doesn’t trust many men himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:55 AM
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Plus distrust doesn’t have to mean dislike. Its not like most women who are distrustful of men are like “ oh a man, he must be a horrible person. I’ll go tell him he’s an asshole and then talk shit about him to my friends. “ . They’ll usually just avoid being alone with men and get scared off very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:46 AM
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Yeah I mean, did it affect you in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:38 AM
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Yeah same. I’ve had shitty experiences with most men so I don’t trust most very much. I won’t treat them any worse or differently, I just avoid situations that could make me feel uncomfortable. My boyfriend knows my reasoning, is aware of my distrust and agrees that it’s good to be careful. He also knows I’m very happy to have him and that I trust him completely and I’m just super grateful for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:37 AM
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Sure, if it was to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:31 AM
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Depends on what you consider flaws. I think most women don’t like Themselves. However a lot of them don’t actually have flaws that actually affect their looks in a way that is noticeable to others. You can say those things about someone with a crooked nose or something but truth is, if you have more severe “flaws” you will be considered ugly and people will judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:25 AM
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Has anyone here gotten plastic surgery and how has it affected your self esteem? I’ve contemplated it many times for some of my features that just aren’t “fixable” but I have the feeling that I’ll constantly remember the fact that I couldn’t live with myself and had to get surgery to fix that. I’m not terrible looking but I know I can never get anywhere near the current beauty standards with those issues. Right now I’m in a LTR so I don’t care much about how it would affect my attractiveness to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:08 AM
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Right? it’s not just women that are fat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:28 PM
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True, it makes literally no difference to me. Like my boyfriend could be 5’5 and it would be fine, it’s still taller than me so who the fuck cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:33 PM
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Ahhh, that makes sense. We have something very similar in Germany as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:46 PM
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What? Again, she is saying she is performing those wife duties, cooking , cleaning and all that. And that whoever she is talking about isn’t doing those same. She is saying she is putting in MORE effort than her boyfriend. I hate to insult people on here but are you just completely dense or do you have some weird hatred towards women? Because I can genuinely not understand how you somehow came to that conclusion after reading this tweet. I mean, I’ve heard some insane takes on here but this just…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:45 PM
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I have only been truly approached a few times and trust me, those guys were creeps. I do not give a shit if someone asks for my number, I don’t give a shit is they ask for a date, I don’t give a shit if someone asks to buy me a drink. It doesn’t put me off and I’ll just politely decline. However if someone comes up to me, tells me I have great tits and then gets ANGRY at me for saying I’m not interested then that is creepy. If someone sits to me next to the bus (at fucking night when I am clearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:42 PM
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I am in fact not from America and have no idea what AP English is. Is it like a high school or college subject type thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:34 PM
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Sex make genital feel good 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:26 PM
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The point flew right across your head. She is quite literally saying the opposite. She is saying you shouldn’t perform wife duties for a boyfriend who does not perform husband duties, as in he does not put in effort. The fact that he doesn’t put in effort and she does is IMPLIED, she is using the wife/boyfriend thing as an analogy. A wife naturally puts in more effort than a girlfriend and is more committed, while a boyfriend puts in less effort than a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:23 PM
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Putting my bitter remark aside, this is a great mindset! You seem very outgoing and open minded and I’m sure it’s gonna get you far :) Don’t worry about the lack of success with cold approaches, most women are weary of strangers but that’s no reason to give up. I’m sure you’ll find someone that’s just right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:13 PM
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I’m confused, isn’t she just saying to not put all your energy into a partner that doesn’t do the same for you? That’s good advice and completely valid, I don’t see what’s wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:06 PM
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Never done that. But then again I’ve only ever gotten approached by creeps and men like three times my age so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:00 PM
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And then you’re fucked :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:35 PM
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It never fucking ends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:34 PM
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PPD culture is just waiting for someone of the opposite gender to say le bad thing and so they can say “I knew it, they’re all like that! All of them!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:22 PM
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Same. They’ll complain about women not having sex but then when a woman has sex with them they go “gotcha, I knew you were a slut!”. Just enjoy the sex like a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:09 PM
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None?🤨 they’re all 6’11 gigachads with 10 girlfriends each.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:05 PM
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It’s a horrible horrible place to be in but I can’t leave it. It’s like watching a car crash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:58 PM
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Personality. I like my personality, I don’t give a shit if some dude says I’m too boring or clingy or not clingy enough or whatever else. My looks, however, are a different story and most things I can’t change unless I were to get plastic surgery. So getting rejected over that, big ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:46 AM
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Assuming you do not have any other support, you will not be able to afford housing, medical care and most other needs without a job. Many people work are still only able to afford the bare necessities to survive. Not sure how you’re supposed to survive without income. Sure maybe you can survive, but at best your health will suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:19 AM
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Again, you cannot compare those two. Let’s even ignore the fact that women have disadvantages in the dating and sex aspect as well, including the risk for pregnancy and being left alone with a child, much higher risks for assault and being used for sex. Even if those didn’t exist, the possibility to feed and support yourself is much more important than getting laid, it is a needed for surviving. It is not a want, it is a physical need. Plus you’re completely ignoring that by giving women the opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:03 AM
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If there would be no anti discrimination laws, technically any employer could choose to not hire women and many probably wouldn’t. Same with disabled individuals or anyone else who might need time off in the future. What would your solution for that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:57 AM
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Work and dating are not comparable whatsoever. Money is needed to live, living is a human right. If ugly guys can’t get laid, that doesn’t affect their ability to survive. However if no company hired women anymore, there wouldn’t be any way for women to support themselves outside of relying on men completely. I’m not sure what the government is supposed to do about the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:52 AM
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I think my comment lacks context. Of course no one is owed a job. But women shouldn’t be denied jobs because they have the chance of someday having a child. And saying that not hiring women purely for that reason is somehow ok because men have a harder time getting laid doesn’t make any sense to me. Of course no one is owed a job if they didn’t work for it or aren’t qualified, but I don’t think being refused work on the basis of your gender isn’t comparable to idk not getting laid because you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:46 AM
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Very true. When I don’t have a bitch to jerk off into, I also become homeless and starve to death. It is indeed the government’s responsibility to give prositutes to all virgin men, such is society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:41 AM
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This subreddit is so full of absolutely insane people it’s so funny to me. OP just replied to my comment with the most amazing argument : “ why do women act like they are owed a job if men are apparently not owed sex🙄”. Because yknow, if they don’t wanna suck my dick then they can starve on the streets, those entitles whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:36 AM
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The most logical conclusion is just to play workplace eugenics and fire everyone who is either a woman or genetically predisposed to long term illness. Most sane PPD take
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:29 AM
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Based on your previous comments I’m gonna assume this is supposed to be some sort of „gotcha“ towards people who think not hiring women because they could get pregnant is discrimination. Generally speaking, the best strategic decision for every company would be to only hire individuals that have the lowest chances of taking a paid leave. This would not only exclude women, but also men with health issues/ higher risk for developing health risks. Would that be a good strategy for creating more pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:18 AM
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How would an innocent person gotten harmed if peoples evidence would actually get examined and an investigation would be started. Because it never even got that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:15 PM
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I know countless people that have been raped and none of them ever got justice. Including me. Most of them had evidence at least to some extent. You might think that’s fine but I don’t because it affects me personally and I can’t feel safe knowing it could happen again without much of a possibility to avoid it. Again I’m not saying it should be at the cost of innocent people but I just don’t think the justice system works good enough the way it is right now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:55 PM
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I’d agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:40 PM
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I agree but victims are innocent too and currently they predominantly affected by this. I don’t think the way things are right now is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:35 PM
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I do wish that those things would get taken more seriously, so many cases have actual evidence but to lack of support and police incompetence justified by lack of funding that evidence never even gets evaluated. When we were young (around 10) my friend was being sexually abused by her father. A few years later she finally managed to go to the police about it. But because she got warned about the risks of false accusations and how incredibly difficult it is to do anything without proof instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:33 PM
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I don’t have a solution for the evidence dilemma. However many, if not a large majority of rape cases have evidence but due to lack of legal and mental victim support, ignored reports that are justified with „a lack funding“, societal stigma and sloppy organisation of investigations this evidence never gets to be evaluated. Tackling those problems would make a major difference already .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:24 PM
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Definitely, I think there’s a major lack of resources and support. However cases that don’t involve forceful penetration hardly allow for medical evidence. Being fingered without consent is still rape, however if there isn’t major trauma to the vaginal area then there’s not exactly any „evidence“ present. What’s even worse are domestic abuse cases where clear signs of forced sex can be written off as just being „rough“ during consensual intercourse :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:20 PM
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Well, it’s not. But if you can’t get a hard on without taking harmful medication then that’s more worrisome than a woman using lube. That’s why using viagra is seen as questionable more often than using lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:15 PM
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What about the suffering of victims? Statistically 1 in 5 women and 1 in 33 men (probably even more) are victims of sexual assault. Only 1,7% of cases reported in the US actually end in a conviction . Is this really a safe environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:13 PM
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As already mentioned in my post, I am aware of the reasoning. However in the US only about 1,8 percent of rapes reported to the police end in a felony charge, not to mention the amount of rapes not reported by victims due to a lack of support. I don’t think this statistic allows for a safe environment, predators are aware of how difficult rape is to prove and this allows them to continue their actions with very little risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:08 PM
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For rape to be legally considered as such, it has to involve the victim either being unable to give consent, explicitly not giving consent, revoking consent or being coerced into giving consent. By that definition, accidental rape does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:58 PM
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I agree that this is a valid topic on it’s own and worth discussing but I don’t see how that’s a biggest hurdle. No matter if the rape was a „misunderstanding“ or not. A victim could have been begging their rapist to stop but without evidence in form of a confession or the victims injuries/proof of forced penetration their case will likely not even go to court. Sure, cases involving people with disabilities like the example you mentioned are a tricky gray area. However I’d say most rape cases in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:52 PM
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Do you mean lube?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:28 PM
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They are, sexlessness is rising in both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:26 PM
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Who said I’m not fucking? And I’d assume most of them aren’t fucking because they’re on PPD instead of actually interacting with the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:09 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:54 AM
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It has so so so many side effects that can occur. It ranges from dizziness, nausea, pain in the genital area to more severe side effects like temporary or permanent loss of vision, sudden hearing loss and even heart attacks. Lube doesn’t have any of those risks, it’s made out of the same ingredients that people use for skincare and put on their face on a daily basis. In rare cases someone will be allergic to lube and get a rash or a yeast infection for a few days, but that’s nothing compared to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:52 AM
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I would say those things are mostly situational. It really depends on what boundaries you set. If you’re ok with her asking every once in a while and she doesn’t mind waiting then that’s all good, but if you’re not feeling great about her trying to convince you and she keeps doing it without giving you space then that’s shitty. In that situation it would be best to talk about what both of you expect from each other, if she can’t be in a relationship without sex and you don’t plan on having sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:35 PM
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Absolutely, teball 3 for president!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:35 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:34 PM
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It mostly depends on your intentions. If you don’t intend to pressure someone, then communication will at least solve the problem to some extent. Let’s say someone wants to have sex with you. You don’t want to have sex put they keep asking over and over, say that it’s their need and all that. Let’s say this upsets you and makes you feel bad about yourself. If the other person doesn’t have any bad intentions and doesn’t mean to make you feel pressured, then openly communicating will make things m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:01 PM
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All they do is eat hot chip, charge they phone and lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:48 PM
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In my experience they’re pretty unhinged, but I think that’s just their default.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:47 PM
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!!!!!!!!!! THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:42 PM
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I don’t think I’ve had a single person angrily disagree with me on here today. Why is everyone so civil? Something is off…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:41 PM
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13-14% if I remember correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:37 PM
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Definitely, but I think when the term “transactional “ is used on PPD, people tend to often describe women using sex as a means to gain money or status. Or men using money and status to gain sex. I don’t see sex being viewed as a mutually beneficial interaction on here very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:36 PM
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I believe 20-24 was around was around 12% or something. Lots of people lose their virginity around that time so I’d assume at 18 there’s a bit more virgins, lets say 15-16%. PPD is nit picky with sources so I look at statistics revolving around sex a good amount lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:31 PM
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What your ex did wasn’t ok at all. Obviously it’s fine to decide you don’t want to continue the relationship if your sexual needs aren’t met. However pressuring someone into sex is never okay. If someone states that they’re not comfortable with sex and the other person continues to pressure them, it can have a big effect on that persons self esteem and mental health. Sex is a sensitive matter. If you convince your partner into going to some concert they aren’t interested in or keep trying to con…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:20 PM
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I’m sorry. next time I rate someone, I’ll use a mathematical formula and calculate their attractiveness based on the objective aesthetic value of each of their features, the average preferences of the opposite gender, the worldwide average attractiveness and adjust it to the beauty standards in their culture and age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:58 PM
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That’s completely valid and no matter what insecurity they have, no one should pressure or guilt trip you to eat! I’m not saying that’s an excuse . I do however think this stems from the fact theres too many toxic expectations on young womens relationships with food and their bodies. I’ve had people comment on my eating habits all my life and even though I’m nowhere near overweight, I just can’t eat infront of because I feel too ashamed. To some women, especially young women, eating infront of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:50 PM
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Yes!! They’ll complain about women being manipulative and then reference FDS or complain about whatever else about men and reference the red pill. Like no way, you’re telling me there blue pillers on r/bluepill and redpillers on r/redpill? It’s almost like like those communities accumulate the same types of people and aren’t a representation or real life!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:35 PM
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I get both sides. I’m sure this is uncomfortable for him, but the issue is many women are ashamed of eating. At least around where there’s a big focus around womens weight and if a woman is the only one eating she might get judged. I’m sure the guy himself wouldn’t care at all about that sort of thing, but many girls my age including me are super anxious about eating in public for fear of being seen as “fat “.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:28 PM
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Because lube has basically no side effects and it’s not medication. A lot of women need lube even if they’re perfectly aroused just because penetration is a bigger strain on a vagina than on a penis. It doesn’t indicate any health concerns. However having to take viagra at a young age is a sign of either mental or physical issues. Obviously there’s exceptions and I also think men with sexual dysfunctions have it difficult/there should be less stigma but I don’t think those are comparable. Edit: …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:55 PM
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I did, then he just ended up being a shittier boyfriend and started becoming abusive. Should have left at the first red flag but yeah nah, never doing that again. If you stay, it just tells your partner that you tolerate that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:44 AM
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We’re talking about dating though. Not about dates. If we look at dates themselves maybe it’s not that big of a chance but if we say per boyfriend/husband that chance becomes quite big. How about you tell me a “valid” dating issue that has a higher probability which can be proven .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:42 PM
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1 in 4 women isn’t a small number and I don’t get how that’s not a valid issue. The question was about what issues women face in dating and this is clearly one of them. There’s essentially no issues that happen to every single person. It’s like if a guy said “men struggle with not getting laid” and I responded “well statistically it’s only like 30% of guys that are celibate so it’s not that common, it could be 90%, don’t be so dramatic”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:15 PM
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It’s still a viable risk. according to the same statistic I referenced, 1 in 4 women experience sexual or physical violence by their intimate partner. Plus according to https://www.rainn.org/statistics/perpetrators-sexual-violence , 33% of rapists are current or formal partners. I don’t get how this is something that’s not a valid concern, sure not every woman on every date is gonna get assaulted but when the statistics are fairly high, you might wanna be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:51 PM
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Right?? And then when I provide statistics they’d like “well women lie” like that couldn’t be said about any statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:41 PM
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The pressure to have sex. I haven’t been in a single relationship where my boyfriend respected my boundaries when I’m not in the mood. At the beginning they always say “when you’re not in the mood to have sex then it’s fine” but when it actually comes down to it all hell breaks loose and I end up feeling super violated. And don’t tell me that I’m “ just choosing shitty men” because when I ask about boundaries at the beginning of the relationship they claim they’re understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:38 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2021-04/2015data-brief508.pdf states that 1 in 5 women have been Assaulted so I’d say pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:18 PM
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Nah it works
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:15 PM
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Yeah definitely. I developed insomnia a few months ago and arguing on PPD at 4 am genuinely makes me feel like my brain cells are just melting away. It’s like a circlejerk of people that all hate each other and it made me feel like there’s something wrong with me or my relationship Do I lack value as a woman because my sex drive is low? And it took some time to realise that people on here are just too caught up in their weird chad/Stacy hypergamy theories and that my relationship is perfectly he…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:08 PM
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No way. I’ve never been to America and every day I’m closer to just accepting it as a hoax.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:47 PM
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Wow, I miss the time before I read this. It started horribly and it just kept getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:37 PM
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Could be both. Women definitely have a biologically lower sex drive, it’s hormonal. However ever since I’ve been assaulted my libido has definitely gone down so I can imagine many other women feel a similar way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:32 PM
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OH MY GOD THATS AMAZING. It’s like the polar opposite of those Christian billboards that I see whenever I visit my family in Poland : “ God loves you and Jesus died for you” Edit: I found one: https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b3681ee3e2d0961b31078b0/1611329376988-PNG7XI09TORLS0E4LSZ6/140371533_276292100580960_6219182264104192508_n.png?format=1000w It says “wake up Poland, Jesus the king is coming. (Jesus Christ, the king of Poland)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:07 PM
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To be fair I’ve never heard people say attractiveness is a big factor. Unless we’re talking unattractive rich person and gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:02 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:54 PM
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Not fat but whatever chub I have spreads in the absolutely worst ways imaginable. So bad luck I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:54 PM
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True. Plus I’m sure it’ll be fine, no use in worrying about what’ll happen in 20 years. If I don’t prioritise finding someone to settle down with and spend half my life going after whatever I’m passionate about then I’m sure I’ll be happier anyways. If whoever I’m with doesn’t want to go along then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:51 PM
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So it’s get cheated on or let your partner have multiple wives. Very comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:43 PM
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Y’all have billboards for porn over there??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:37 PM
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Yeah I mean, I’m hoping I’ll be content with that. If I manage to keep a good few friendships and be content with my job then that’s enough. Still, it’s a scary idea that maybe when I reach the age of wanting to “settle down” I might not find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:36 PM
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What’s your thing with trying to prove that boyfriends don’t actually care about their girlfriends, that’s like your second post about it today
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:21 PM
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And then they complain about how no one is traditional anymore. Like mate you eat chips and watch TV all day, maybe some porn from time to time. I wouldn’t call that very traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:15 PM
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It’s like half half. Overall I’ve had my fair share of experiences with rape and harassment and it’s not exactly something that made me incredibly trusting towards men. But I mean shit happens, not much to do about it ya know. However the whole “your worth expires when you’re 30 and you’ll never have a relationship that’s anything more than transactional” worries me more because I have no way of knowing if it’s true. Maybe people are exaggerating but maybe I’ll reach 40 and be alone and miserabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:38 PM
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Anyone else let the whole “you’re never gonna be good enough and your partner will always cheat because it’s human nature and if you don’t settle down you’ll be doomed and die alone”negativity of this sub get into head at some point? I noticed it made me insecure asf in some moments. The world view on here is so pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:05 PM
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Eh there’s enough toxic/abusive relationships where both people are attractive/unattractive. Power dynamics can arise anytime one partner is vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:59 AM
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Yeah I’m from Germany, there’s some fat people here and there (including my ex because I had zero standards) but the majority of people in my area are pretty thin/fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:53 AM
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I’m aware people aren’t getting fat because of Biden and abortion bans. Two separate things but both make me happy to not live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:36 AM
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I genuinely doubt that online dating works amazing for either gender most of the time. I’d recommend to stay away overall unless it’s a last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:32 AM
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Every time I look at what’s going in the US I’m glad that I don’t fucking live there. The politics are fucked and everyone is getting obese from what I’m seeing. God I’m thankful to live in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:30 AM
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Not saying you are, I’m saying women have the same issue with not finding any dudes that aren’t fat. Or at least I assume so, there’s not a terrible amount of fat people in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:20 AM
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Aren’t y’all the ones saying that there’s nothing more to life than sex? Half the time someone on here proposes to the guys that are frustrated about not getting a gf that they can find some other interests, they start saying that “there’s nothing more to life than sex and if I’m not getting laid I might as well kill myself”. Please touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:47 AM
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I don’t think it’s justified to hurt others just because you’ve been hurt and that’s a pretty messed up mindset to have. I’ve made some god fucking awful experiences with men and I’m cautious of most because of that. This doesn’t give me the right to go around and be cruel to the men that are in my life now though, or to seek out some weird revenge. Because chances are those dudes have absolutely nothing in common with the ones I made shitty experiences with. And even if they did that’s not a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:38 AM
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Some girls want muscular guys, some want skinny guys. Some guys like thick girls, some guys like skinny girls. But yeah, confidence and talent is obviously a great trait, most people don’t want to date someone that’s good looking but has no personality No matter what though, being in shape additionally won’t hurt. It’s not like lifting some weights will make you suddenly look like you’re on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:16 AM
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It’s not like men are much better though. Sure women have higher rates of severe obesity (11.5 percent to mens 6.9) but men have higher rates of being overweight ( 34.1 mens to 27.5 womens). Although I’m sure those statistics have worsened until now. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity Just saying , if you’re a fat dude, don’t expect to date skinny women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:03 AM
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I totally agree with you. However PPD seems to think that women are simultaneously having 10 times as much sex as men but somehow never with them. And so the “women are sluts but men can’t get laid” rhetoric never made much sense to me because if men really can’t get laid, who are these apparent “sluts having sex with”. My personal view is that men are more fond of casual sex while women are more careful for the reasons that you listed. I also think that’s where mens issues with finding a partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:55 PM
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Wasn’t my intention. That’s just usually the debate topic on PPD. I mostly agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:50 AM
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I’m not sure what you mean by mathematically impossible. Since sex is riskier for women this would make sense. The study that I listed only takes straight people into account so gay men aren’t considered. However you’re right about the part about gay men because according to this study ( https://match.mediaroom.com/2016-05-24-Match-Releases-New-Study-On-LGBTQ-Single-Population) gay men have an average of 30 life partners, whereas lesbian women have an average of 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:10 AM
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PPD’s opinion on men statistically having higher body counts? I’m curious since I see a lot of complaints about women being too promiscuous and men not ever getting laid. Source: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm#numberlifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:51 AM
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Sure but I’m just saying. If you see being promiscuous as a bad trait then this doesn’t really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:43 AM
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So you’re saying it’s good for a man to be promiscuous and bad for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:34 AM
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The issue is that people here aren’t actually open to discussion. They’re only here to rant about their own opinion that they’re not willing to change. With most topics it’s hard to find hard evidence that’s completely flawless. If you have an opinion, you’ll always find some sort of “proof” to support it. If you wanna say “hey women are evil” you’re gonna show FDS as proof for example. If you wanna say “hey men are evil” then you’re gonna use r/whereareallthegoodmen or that incel.is website or …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:57 AM
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“All available data “ as in some random graph with no source or context
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:15 PM
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I’m not gonna debate you on this. You could be totally right or not . I wouldn’t know because I’m not reading your 50 page Thesis on 8 inch penises. I couldn’t care less either way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:32 PM
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Some of y’all’s opinions on abortion are so weird. I’m seeing dudes on here have this weird “HA now these sluts are finally being punished for spreading their legs” mindset when they’re also the ones essentially claiming they’re owed sex. Not talking about the people who believe life begins at conception and whatnot, that’s a whole other topic. But yeah I don’t get it. You guys believe that women having sex should be punished but men having sex is their right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:10 PM
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If women have such an advantage then why do they experience higher rates of poverty than men and earn less?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:54 PM
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It’s not only about women though. I know you’ll disagree and whatnot but my boyfriend overheats really badly when he has an intense training. Sadly the gym we switched to has a dress code but before that he’d work out shirtless if it got too bad. Plus yeah, the temperature doesn’t change much in the winter as gyms are isolated and the temperature doesn’t come from outside. But yeah I mean, this is kinda pointless to argue about as opinions clearly differ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:48 PM
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Well then that’s good for you. For me wearing leggings and a tank top is infinitely more comfortable than some thick joggers, the comments under mine agree as well. So I’m not sure what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:39 PM
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Yes!!! Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:17 PM
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Tracking is super inefficient
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:33 PM
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Nah sorry but you’ve clearly never had an intense workout in a stuffy gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:19 PM
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Yeah exactly. Like I’m gonna sweat to death and get stuck everywhere wearing joggers. It’s like 35 degrees in those gyms, absolutely not. I go with my boyfriend and if I don’t , I go to the womens sections so there’s literally no need to show off for me. It is a a double standard that in a lot of gyms there’s dress codes for guys though and I feel bad for dudes who have to cover up even though it’s probably really uncomfortable :( .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:16 PM
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My issue is that this is majorly exaggerated. The woman doesn’t own the yacht does she, if she wanted to own it she’d have to work hard just like the man. Obviously young women nowadays are desired by a lot of men nowadays and can trade their body for money/fame as long as they are very attractive and willing to sexualise themselves. I’d say that mostly applies to very attractive women that know how to sell themselves and those gains are often only temporary. The majority of women nowadays work …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:03 PM
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I never really joined many of these groups but yes. I found a few friends through them when I did go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:45 PM
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The essence being? I’m just asking for one example of a point he makes that u agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:35 PM
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Yeah because some men genuinely do that. They think of women as inferior, less intelligent and evil. Abuse victims have nothing to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:34 PM
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I’ve seen his clips but I’m asking for specific things he said that are “facts”. All I’m seeing is him talking down on women, having massive double standards and making up conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:32 PM
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Sorry to tell you but those incels that don’t see women as human are the same dudes who would probably be abusive if they actually had a girlfriend. Most abusive situations tend to not start abusive and young women get into those relationships because their partner makes themselves seem ideal /preys on how naive they are. Usually the abuse escalated after the victim is dependent on the abuser and is is too late for them to leave. In that moment they probably think that they don’t deserve any bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:26 PM
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I’m genuinely confused about what your point is. Is the comparison you’re making about women who get abused in their youth and incel a who want a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:14 PM
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Can u give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:12 PM
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I don’t think that makes it better or worse. If you are loyal then being a bit tipsy doesn’t make you a cheater. It’s just a shitty excuse. If you don’t want to cheat when sober, you won’t want to cheat when you’re tipsy. Unless you’re so drunk that you genuinely don’t understand anything that’s going on around you. In that case you cannot consent and that’s rape, not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:00 PM
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Ever since I started going to the gym I’ve been so confused about the whole “women wearing too much exposing stuff” debate. I definitely see some women wearing revealing clothes but then again I also see men wear incredibly skintight clothes or even going shirtless as long as the gym allows it. And it makes sense. First off, I’m sure people like to show off their physique that the worked hard for. Second off, it is SO STUFFY and WARM in there, I never even thought about that before but I’m convi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:48 PM
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That’s so bizarre. Apart from the fact that he says incredibly vile things, half of the shit he says doesn’t make any sense whatsoever. Like it’s not even the fact that it’s offensive, it just doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:40 PM
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Why , if you’re going to a sports club for example, you’re bound to find people that don’t know anyone yet and therefore are easy to start a conversation with. Apart from that there’s events music/gaming or whatever other scene you’re into where people specifically go to meet others with their same interests
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:37 PM
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I’m always confused when I see him, he has to be satire right??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:34 PM
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This doesn’t make much sense to me either. But In my opinion those debates lack nuance really badly anyways: It doesn’t make sense to say no one should care about the n-count because everyone does to some extent, most people have some limit where they say “this amount is concerning”. In my opinion the importance of your partners n-count also depends highly on the situation: how high is your own n count? What are your boundaries in the relationship? At what stage of life did your partner have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:29 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:01 PM
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Oh no I absolutely agree with both. I think you explained it quite well. This is just my personal input when it comes to a potential partner wearing those. If you’re gonna be with someone long term then you’re gonna see them more without the shoe lifts than with so if a woman is really that out off by short men then this just isn’t a long term solution ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:53 PM
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Kinda? But nowadays you need it to be accepted by society while shoe lifts aren’t conventional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:28 PM
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It just seems sad, I don’t really care about height unless the guy is a lot shorter than me (maybe under 4’5 but that’s still not a hard no) but if I did then I think shoe lifts wouldn’t do much. I mean you take off the shoes and the guy is short again so it’s not like you it actually does anything long term
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:27 PM
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Yeah maybe because sex is much riskier for women than men . They can get pregnant, have higher chances of contracting an std . Plus they’re more likely to get assaulted by the opposite gender or at least have their boundaries not respected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:54 AM
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I’m aware of that, the original sources of statistics tend to be long. The 38% statistic is from page 13 (or 801 if you’re going by the page number written in the upper corner) of the study if you’d like to have a look at that. This is just the statistic I’ve seen a lot of articles (including Wikipedia, the national womens law Center and others) use and I haven’t seen it debunked anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:56 PM
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Right? And imagine if people just did whatever they have the urge to without any regard for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:45 PM
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I definitely agree that if both partners earn similarly (and responsibility is shared accordingly) it’s fair to go 50/50. But I don’t agree with comparing the wage gap to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:24 PM
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So confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:19 PM
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I hate when people on this subreddit justify shit cheating/rape by saying it has to do with peoples biology and whatnot : “oh but men/women did it for centuries because a man has the urge to spread his seed “. Like we live in a civilised society with certain rules and people have control over their actions??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:14 PM
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We could also turn this around. If a woman is pregnant and a guy cheats then he’s likely to leave her which will lead to her needing to finance and raise a child on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:02 PM
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What about the 38% of the wage gap that are “unexplained” when experience, occupation, education and industry have already been taken into account? https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/3/34/Decomposition_of_the_gender_wage_gap%2C_OWID.svg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:50 PM
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Great, I do that, now what? I still don’t see how being overall paid in your job somehow gets fixed by being taken out for a meal once though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:41 PM
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Ok sure, what does that have to do with the wage gap? Do you think women that go 50/50 with their partner are just magically excluded from pay inequality? Like those are two completely different topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:38 PM
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The people on this sub absolutely baffle me. Imagine thinking it’s justified to pay women less just because some get taken out by their partner. News flash, the majority of women pay for their own expenses. Many are single or go 50/50 on dates . And even for the women being taken out for dates, u think being taken out for 30$ is somehow gonna help any of those women pay rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:08 PM
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What’s the cause of rape in relationships in your opinion then? Plus again, statistics seem to show otherwise https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/314181
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:11 PM
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What’s your proof for that? I have a lower libido than my boyfriends and I know many other girls in relationships that have lower libidos too. Also again, you haven’t answered my question about rape in relationships, if the sex drives would be the same men wouldn’t rape their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:05 PM
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If there’s no difference in libido, how come so many women get sexually assaulted by their partner in relationships. Plus again it has been proven that men have higher sex drives than women (https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare )
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:59 AM
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I agree that issues like rape are predominantly mens fault. However i wouldn’t want to underestimate the damage that loneliness can create for the male population or downplay any of their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:49 AM
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Depends to what extent though, many just have their weekly call of duty game or whatever other mainstream game there is with their buddies but some spend hours daily. Personally I’m a bit more interested in games than my boyfriends but we also have different taste in games, we both generally keep it out of our relationship though so I don’t think it would be an issue even if that wasn’t my cup of tea whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:39 AM
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Men do have statistically higher libidos though and while it’s true that of course women want sex as well, I think a lot of them don’t have such a straightforward need for it. From what I’m seeing men are more likely to want sex straight away and not need a lot of connection before/after. Otherwise I also don’t see why there would be such high amounts of rape, especially in marriages/ relationships. But yeah obviously women are also much more cautious as it’s a bigger risk for them so that defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:36 AM
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If it’s just a hobby then it depends on the woman, a woman who mostly has sports related hobbies might not want a “nerdy” partner. But overall I don’t think so. Unless the dude spends all his time on it then it can get annoying, especially phone games and constantly being occupied with it. I might be biased tho idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:25 AM
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Imo a big amount of the issues that men and women face are caused by the difference in libido between the two gender. Definitely not all issues but what I often see is : Men often have a hard times finding a partner which results in frustration, sexlessness and wasting time/money trying to have their needs met due to a lot of competition. So overall a lack of sexual Attention is the issue. For women there tends to be the issue that they are valued only for their ability to sexually satisfy men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:21 AM
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What makes you think sex and attention are something that is owed to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:57 AM
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Yeah thats a great option
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:56 AM
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Yeah same here, I used to watch it when I was younger but when I started being more aware of the industry it became a hard no and idk it’s a bit gross to me atm. Ideally I wouldn’t want my boyfriend watching it but I have a fairly low sex drive so we agreed on him watching porn that is as ethical as it gets every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:48 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:17 AM
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What do you mean by “reality would hit her”? Most women aren’t getting their bills paid by their partner because they work as well and therefore expect their partner to also help with chores and raising kids. She doesn’t owe you both money and being a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:17 AM
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Q4A What’s your attitude towards porn? How do you feel about your partner watching it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:37 AM
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Then she’ll likely expect you to pay 100%. Traditionalism will often include her taking care of chores, cooking, the house and later on your children. Plus catering to your needs and all that. In that case it would be weird to expect her to hold a job that makes enough to pay for part of the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:25 AM
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Depends on what you expect from your woman as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:20 AM
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Well porn fucks over your ability to get aroused, sex toys don’t. Not sure what your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:16 AM
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Right? “Need advice : much does one submissive female cost?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:14 AM
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Idk, my boyfriend and I go 60/40 ish and it works nicely. Most of the time we split the bill and I’ll take him out as well but he generally takes me out a tad more than I do him. So the situation isn’t too unbalanced but I still get the feeling of “being taken care of” or whatnot. But if you have the mindset that a woman should be submissive to you then ur gonna probably need to pay for a good amount of stuff, I don’t think you’re gonna get a submissive housewife or whatever you’re thinking of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:00 AM
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Yeah people insult others on sensitive topics. Big surprise. They know men are insecure about their dick sizes so that’s what they use as an insult. Plus insulting the other gender by mentioning “negative” sexual traits is generally common, “small dick energy” and “it probably smells like fish “ is essentially the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:53 AM
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Given that this was written by a dude, men are kinda terrifying sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:49 AM
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Look I’m just gonna stop arguing with you because we clearly do not have the same views
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:29 PM
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Yeah essentially. Because it’s not your body and sure maybe I’ll give the dudes that stay and give support to the girl the benefit of the doubt. There ain’t no way you can be upset if a guy impregnates the and leaves her and she then aborts it like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:24 PM
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The man doesn’t have to do shit either way , either he pays a bit of money or he doesn’t have to do anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:11 PM
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Literally in what way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:11 PM
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Good for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:08 PM
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And those states aren’t the only places where abortions are banned. Plus no matter what, carrying a pregnancy and raising a child will always be the bigger responsibility so especially if the guy doesn’t want any part in it, the woman should get to decide what to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:08 PM
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Not a big fan of penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:02 PM
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Well now they can’t so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:00 PM
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Mate I’m a straight woman I’m not actually destroying any pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:57 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:55 PM
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How in hell do men get all the accountability. They can literally just leave. “But child support :(“ yeah great, imagine having to pay much more than child support AND babysitting all day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah, I genuinely hope don’t think that way irl cuz some shit on here really scares me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:52 PM
3

Ahh yeah, I definitely agree with u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:49 PM
1

I’m putting accountability on you, I’m saying if it bothers you so much then either be ready to raise a child or don’t have sex, what other solution is there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:48 PM
3

Is this directed towards me or pro lifers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:44 PM
1

Yeah but somehow it’s only the host getting food poisoning
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:43 PM
1

Aaand you still don’t see that maybe your logic was flawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:41 PM
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Bruh I’m so confused. This sub is filled to the brim with men complaining about not getting laid. All the time. Every second post is like “the evil women won’t fuck me :((“. But now everyone is like “women wouldn’t need abortions if they weren’t such sluts “ when they themselves are looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:38 PM
1

I commented this after you said women just need to “close their legs”. I just found that pretty funny because this subreddit is full of dudes complaining that women won’t fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:36 PM
2

Then keep your dick in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:30 PM
1

Yeah but how is that only the woman’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:28 PM
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First off, I’m so tired of hearing about it Jesus. Second off, I think it’s fairly simple: amber heard is shitty and an abuser. Women abuse men too yes. However people are turning this into some weird “women are evil and have been lying about getting raped all this time” which makes no sense, yikes. Also people seem to think depp is some sort of saint when he clearly did some shitty things too, nothing to justify what amber heard did obviously. But still, it’s both weird and infantilising.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:25 PM
4

Not to mention a closed moist and warm space is an ideal breeding ground for bacteria
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:11 PM
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The skin inside of the vagina is much more vulnerable than the skin of a penis (obviously since it’s inside) and is therefore easier to penetrate for bacteria and viruses. Plus it takes longer to get rid of bacteria than a penis since you can just wash a one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:09 PM
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Yeah I definitely agree with you there. Sex is riskier for women due to pregnancy and a higher chance of contracting stds, plus some societal stigma no I guess. So it makes sense for them to want to have sex with someone who at least makes it seem like they care to an extent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:39 AM
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Can I see the thread? Because from what I’m seeing the cdc uses this https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2021-04/2015data-brief508.pdf as a source (at least that’s the first thing I can find) and that one doesn’t include these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:53 PM
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It’s easier to get laid as an average woman but I’d say it’s just as hard to get attractive and a shit ton of work goes into that . Also I’m not sure how you made the assumption that men don’t diet from my comment, what I obviously meant is that if one party puts in effort to look good then the other should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:19 PM
3

True, goes for some men too tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:16 PM
5

What’s up, ketchup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:23 PM
1

So true, women will either have either or they will find them absolutely disgusting. You should only ever interact with people you wanna fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:18 PM
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Women that are attractive spend hours on their looks every day. Even the less attractive ones spend a lot of time to make themselves look better. If a woman diets to stay slim then it’s only reasonable to want her man to go to the gym. I think it’s pretty similar for both genders, “value” isn’t something that a lot people need for sex because sex relies heavily on physical attraction and not as much on other areas. However for an LTR both men and women want someone that they can get along with, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:13 PM
1

Oh, weird generalisation to make
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:27 PM
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I’m saying in situations where this doesn’t work obviously, If I am not interested I am clear about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:26 PM
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But then y’all complain about women being shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:22 PM
1

Gonna try to find a different gyno and ask but I’m not even sure if those are a thing here. I did actually order a kit after my the appointment with my gyno
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:13 PM
1

Shit that’s what I meant, I confused that terms haha. But it’s definitely not that. Thank you for all the advice though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:56 PM
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Tried that already, definitely not an issue with feeling pressured. I am getting a dilation kit though to work my way up for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:46 PM
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My insurance only covers doctors that are in my area. Most gynaecologists are either too far away or only take private insurance. I’m sure I’ll figure something out though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:44 PM
1

Probably gonna try something of that sort. I‘m a but scared it might be something that’s not diagnosable though, it’s not an infection or vaginitis so I’m not sure what else it could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:38 PM
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I’m trying but it’s hard with insurance issues. I’m afraid it might actually be something difficult to diagnose and even more difficult to fix though :( maybe neurological?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:13 PM
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Q4W Those of you who have health related issues with your vagina, how do you deal with it? Penetration was always uncomfortable for me but in the past two years the pain got so bad that I had to leave it completely and it sucks for both my partner and me. I don’t feel taken seriously by my gynaecologist because all I seem to get it “it’s probably psychological, you should see a therapist” when me and my therapist agree that it seems like mostly a physical issue. There’s some problems with my cli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:08 PM
1

Sounds good, no idea what a masaai is though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:02 PM
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I feel famous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:56 PM
2

Y’all could also take a hint when someone tells you they’re uncomfortable tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:55 PM
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I’m kinda confused at your wording. You mean women that are flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:47 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:38 PM
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Definitely, I do often see things like “men are depressed because no one shows them support and compliments and they feel unloved” which is obviously true to a big extent but I don’t like women being blamed for it because “they don’t give enough compliments” . There’s obviously issues with men not being able to express feelings openly very well for fear of being judged but “women don’t call me handsome enough” has nothing to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:38 PM
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First off I’m just gonna say that I get how this is confusing , different women like different things but I’m not a big fan of these types of statements from women since it can be difficult for guys to “get it right “. Personally I don’t like persistence much, I’d rather be left alone if I state that I’m not interested however I can explain how to tell if a woman wants persistence or not. If she looks scared or uncomfortable, makes up excuses to why she’s not interested or tries not to upset you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:20 PM
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Well you gotta have some social awareness. Flirting is a mix of body language, tone, facial expressions and what is being said is only a part of that. If you’re down and say “man I feel really bad about myself “ and your friend/acquaintance says “ hey don’t worry, you’re a good looking guy.” Then that’s probably not flirting. But if there’s tension between you guys and she shows other signs of being interested, maybe says “well I think you’re cute” in a more seductive tone then it could be flirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:39 PM
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Well if that’s the case men shouldn’t complain about not getting compliments. A lot of women don’t wanna risk it because it’s seen as an invitation. Either be fine with only getting validation when flirting or don’t get upset when women who are nice to you aren’t dtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:28 PM
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I’m confused what guys want though. Y’all complain constantly about not getting compliments or validation (which makes sense, that has to suck) but then also giving compliments is bad because it leads guys on? Damned if you do, damned if you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:22 PM
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Yeah idk, maybe I’m also not attractive enough? My social circle is mostly made up of good looking social people. Not like I mind much tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:17 PM
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I mean idk where I’d even get one , possible areas are school , work, friend groups. Not particularly popular so it’s not like I get hit on at school/ work. Friend group is mostly female so Yknow
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:09 PM
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Idk I’m a woman and fairly attractive ish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:58 PM
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I think a lot of people don’t tbh, at least I’ve never had one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:53 PM
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How are high poverty rates for single moms just the moms fault. Very often the dude leaves ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:50 PM
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Yeah some people on here have such warped world views. I’ve heard some say that they have it easy because They can just find a man to pay for everything like?? What
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:44 PM
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That’s strangely optimistic for PPD since people on here tend to assume the worst and usually portray the other gender as rather superficial, I’ve mostly seen complaints about dudes caring about n count too much. Although again, it depends on what you consider caring, I think when people say they don’t care about n count they mean to a reasonable degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:37 PM
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Imo that’s super vague, it probably depends a lot on their social circle, culture, the country. I’d say most men care, like maybe 90-95% . But the question is to what extent? No one wants a person with 300 bodies even from a safety safety standpoint. But obviously there’s also dudes that want a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:12 PM
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Honestly I don’t care what theyre attracted as long as they’re not pushy about it. I’m 18 ,still in school and find dudes the age of my dad approaching me in inappropriate ways fucking weird especially if it’s pushy. Also how is taking advantage of the fact that you look younger to pull younger people that don’t know about ur age not fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:29 PM
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I still think being attracted to people half your age is weird especially if they’re barely legal, they’re teens. And he’s not even saying it’s bad , he’s just saying he matured?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:42 PM
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Exactly what I’m thinking. I’m 18 and I’m finishing school atm, the fuck would a 35 year old who probably has his wife and kids at home want from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:35 PM
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Right?? Dude said that he’s not attracted to girls half his age that are probably still in school anymore and people are losing their shit. Like fucking an 18 year old at 35 is weird no matter the gender, what’s the issue ?? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:33 PM
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I don’t see how those correlate whatsoever, I’m so confused lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:18 PM
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Plenty of people meet after 30 and they don’t seem to have any issues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:19 AM
2

What about if you wanna enjoy life when you’re young and don’t want the responsibility of a relationship interfering with that, I’m sure lots of people feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:10 AM
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Why is she pretending though. Like I get if you don’t wanna have someone who has much more experience than you, might make u uncomfortable or they might have stds, who knows. But there’s plenty of reasons why someone would have casual sex for a while and then decide it’s not their thing anymore. A lot of young people explore at that age and Yknow, sex is nice , I bet if half the guys on this sub had the opportunity they’d have a good amount of casual sex too. However most people mature with time…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:02 AM
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Not sure if you mean for adhd or recreational use but I have adhd and it really turned my life around. Ever since I started taking it I can actually get things done and it helps a lot. It does make me weirdly distant towards others when I take it and it makes me a little like panicky?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:54 PM
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I would go to therapy if I was you lmao. If your sex is enjoyable then why would you fuck over your relationship for some anal, if it isn’t then why are you in that relationship. How is you not getting some special sex position or kink or whatever “suffering”. Imagine you did something kinky in the past, idk maybe let some girl peg you, didn’t like it though or realised later on that it makes you feel bad about yourself. Now your girlfriend is asking to peg you, you obviously say no because it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:50 PM
1

I am, what’s a denomination though? English isn’t my first language and Google is saying it’s a branch of the Christian church so I’m confused haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:41 PM
1

Well there’s a reason she doesn’t wanna do it with you. Weird mindset, there’s shit that I’ve never tried that aren’t my boyfriends thing and I’ve never though “why don’t I just fuck one of my friends instead” or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:20 PM
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I wish you the best of luck! I’m a big believer that everyone should at least try therapy even if they aren’t exactly mentally ill, since most people carry around some kind of baggage that would be good to unpack. Or at least to have a person to talk to about topics that are too personal/upsetting to the people close to you. It’s sad that not everyone has access to that, in our country it’s covered by insurance .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:55 PM
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PPD Redditor in therapy?? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:50 PM
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Oh you don’t wanna do anal? Why? Oh, you tried it a few years ago and it really hurt ? Not fair, why didn’t you wait for Redditor “specialist-action-33”. Now I have to fuck my coworker because you didn’t present your ass for fucking, how selfish!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:48 PM
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Sure, be an asshole to irl people that have done nothing because women are mean to you on Reddit. You know, like a sane person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:28 PM
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Why are so many people upset at the idea of actually being honest with whoever you’re sleeping with and telling them you’re fucking other people. Y’all will get a tantrum when a girl has a body count over 4 and doesn’t immediately disclose that but somehow it’s fine to regularly sleep and hang out with someone without even mentioning “hey , I’m fucking other people by the way”. Aside from morals, this is really iffy when it comes to safety because your partner doesn’t even know they’re at a high…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:21 PM
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Because it’s the norm. Monogamy is the norm. Usually if people sleep together frequently, it eventually leads to being exclusive. If you don’t want that, that’s fine. But how is your partner supposed to know. No one is entitled to anything but your honesty. Plus, not everyone wants to sleep with someone who fucks other people , especially since that makes them at a much higher risk for contracting some std.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:13 PM
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I’m not defending anyone I’m just saying, dudes can definitely be cruel to unattractive girls just like women can be cruel to unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:59 PM
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Oh jeez this really ended up a long rant, I’m sorry haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:23 PM
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Ohh, no I don’t have that. My vagina is just built weird to put it simply. Not sure what’s wrong with it, definitely a hooded clit and if you press on the wrong spot it feels really uncomfortable. So to make myself cum I have to touch in this really weird position and manner, it’s always been like that and I don’t have difficulties orgasming by myself but it’s impossible for anyone else to figure out. I wish vibrators worked but they never did either, magic wand vibes are the only thing that fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:21 PM
1

Ahh that makes sense, also what’s vibrator sickness?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:12 PM
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Yeah haha, I try to make it more obvious with lashes and all that on my avatar but it doesn’t work that well. But yeah I can imagine how that’s nice, since clitoral stimulation is difficult for me too there’s not much my boyfriend can do to physically pleasure me which is a little sad because I feel like that would be really intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:09 PM
1

Yeah could work nicely too, honestly anything works with blowjobs, u just gotta use it correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:50 PM
2

Yeah same I mean like, it’s nice to have something there when it comes to hand/blowjobs but I couldn’t imagine it actually being a real issue in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:45 PM
1

Stirring things up a little
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:43 PM
1

Same tbh. Only issue is that I often see cases where one person seems dissatisfied or uncomfortable and it always makes my stomach hurt a little because I feel rly bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:42 PM
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Q4W Do you really care about size? I see a lot of women here say that they care about size in a significant way, but most of my friends or women that I’ve spoken to irl said they don’t care much as long as it’s not like a 1 inch micropenis. A lot of them say that penetration isn’t really the main source of pleasure/orgasms for them and I’ve read some articles that say similar things too, so I’m a little perplexed. Personally I can’t speak much on the matter because intercourse has been really pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:37 PM
2

Absolutely, dating app relationships barely ever work out anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:30 PM
2

Yeah, I have the biggest 12 incher
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:29 PM
1

Nah, never asked either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:59 PM
2

Have you ever seen a fat woman ask a dude out? They be brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:56 PM
2

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:42 PM
1

Hard question, main goal is definitely health. But there’s always that desire to lose weight though because my body isn’t exactly desirable by societal standards? I’d like to be slimmer but not necessarily to get hit on more or anything, although I’m sure a need for validation always plays a role in these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:32 PM
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Honestly no idea, he’s pretty tall but I’m not good with American measurements and I never asked so maybe 6 foot? Dick size probably 7’’ and since we’re both students and stuff minimum wage part time so probably not a whole lot. Really good physique though since he does bodybuilding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:50 AM
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In my opinion it does. Maybe not the way it’s portrayed in movies. Obviously no matter what, if you’re in a LTR it’s gonna get hard at times and you need to put in effort to make it work, you don’t stay in the honeymoon phase forever. But relation that aren’t reliant on some sort of gain definitely exist. In fact, That’s what I witness most of the time. No weird hypergamy chad/Stacy shit, just two average normal people who fell in love and decided they’re compatible enough to stay together. Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:31 AM
2

Pizza deffo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:41 AM
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Appearance is not what makes a guy creepy but I agree it can play a part. Personally I consider guys creepy that just approach me in weird /scary and inappropriate ways or just idk, stare for a really long time and shit like that. It’s true that a lot of these guys will be unattractive and not very well groomed though. I assume it’s because guys who have the social awareness to take care of themselves also have enough to not be ,well, creepy. I assume attractive guys also don’t feel the need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:33 AM
3

As in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:20 AM
2

Question for all: What do you guys think about polygamy/open relationships? Like apart from those cases where someone gets bored in the relationship and clearly just wants to cheat without consequences. Personally I can see the appeal but even as someone who is barely ever jealous it makes me absolutely nauseous to think about having to “share” my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:58 AM
3

Mortifying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:31 AM
4

They go on r/PurplePillDebate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:59 AM
3

I… what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:54 AM
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I can’t imagine they do. I’m convinced half these people would be less spiteful if they went on a walk and talked to real people every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:52 AM
3

Girls are a myth made up by the government to lure redditors outside. Don’t fall for their lies!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:43 AM
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One thing that will always baffle me when browsing through this subreddit is that people seem to genuinely think that men and women can’t Interact with each other normally. They act like everything revolves around hypergamy chad/Stacy bs. Like personality doesn’t matter and no people are ever just simply compatible because men are all horny sociopaths and all women are evil money hungry manipulators. Like do you guys genuinely walk down the road and rate all women you come across and decide if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:40 AM
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I’m definitely in favour of educating about lgbt and all that when teaching kids sex Ed in school but this is just.. ew… why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:08 PM
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Porn actually desensitises you and makes you seek out more and more hardcore/extreme stuff, that’s part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:28 PM
1

Actually dating someone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:43 PM
3

Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:42 PM
1

Well then I hope you find your dominant lady
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:41 PM
1

Man idk what to tell you , if you’re redpilled then you’re probably conservative. In that case you probably won’t get dominant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:36 PM
1

“Holding them accountable “ for what bro 💀 There are many women that aren’t submissive , you’re clearly just not getting any. Plus the reason women are more often submissive in bed is because they’ve been expected to for ages. red pill and then complaining about the effects of gender roles don’t mix, can’t have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:26 PM
1

Username checks out a little too well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:21 PM
1

Tbh if you trust the people that are offering it to you then why not. I mean it’s much less harmful than other hard drugs and worst case scenario you’ll get a panic attack, best case scenario you have a good time. You gotta know your boundaries though. Imo it’s a bit underwhelming but some people like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:16 PM
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Absolutely not. Spent 40€ on 4 grams to share with boyfriend, smoked 2 grams (made sure to inhale properly and all) and felt nothing but frustration about the wasted money. Boyfriend smoked like 1 gram and had a good time for like 20 mins. Smoked the leftover a few days later when he was a bit stressed, got a panic attack and vomited everywhere somehow. I’m sure it could be nice if I tried a few times more but I can’t be bothered to spend money it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:09 PM
1

Mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:02 PM
3

I think no person that actually likes themselves would have little enough respect for themselves to go on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:56 PM
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The way this is written makes me think this Is just a larp. Otherwise your girlfriend is just a sociopath or something but I’m really gonna assume this is a larp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:57 AM
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I think it really depends on age . I’m 18 so I’d definitely consider 10 or more high if the person is let’s say below 21. Obviously it’s different at like 40 though, then a body count of 10 isn’t that much. But I also don’t think having a high N count is bad or anything . Personally I wouldn’t want to date anyone much more experienced than though me so 5 would be the limit for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:36 AM
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I meant the possible abortion ban, which was the topic of this thread. If OP was talking about any other country then this would be a different situation. But he was referring to the current situation in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:44 AM
1

A child is always expensive when you’re raising it on your own. Plus the abortion ban is taking place in the US so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:34 AM
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I still don’t understand how that somehow makes men suffer. Want less men to pay child support? Allow abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:57 PM
1

Supporting a child still costs a lot, especially when you’re doing it on your own. You don’t just get it paid for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:55 PM
1

Well It looks really awkward because all my fat goes into my stomach and thighs and around my hips there’s just nothing, like just this indent. So it looks like I just have a fuck ton of muffin topping or a big stomach from the front. It sucks but I just don’t wear any leggings or tight jeans and that solves it. His height was maybe around 5’8-5’9. I’m 18, turning 19 soon and he should also be around 19 right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:34 PM
1

For real.. way too …….high….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:10 PM
1

Honestly I have no idea what I’d rate myself because beauty standards are different everywhere. I have some features that just aren’t very desirable (asymmetrical face, kind of sunken eyes, weird fat distribution (hip dips but fairly big thighs for example)) but nothing that stands out in particular, plus I take care of myself and dress fairly well. So somewhere between 4-8 I guess. I’d rate my ex somewhere around 2-4 maybe , overweight and didn’t really take care of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:46 PM
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Idk man I got along really well with him and it just happened. It was nice for a while and I genuinely liked him apart from the obvious red flags, then he decided to repay me by cheating (not sure how he managed that) and I decided to finally have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:13 PM
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I can assure you he wasn’t good looking, lack of showering/hygiene, acne and obesity aren’t objective. And in hindsight all those things probably said a great deal about his personality and should should have been a red flag. But I dated him and I loved him for a long time. So again, our personal experiences just differ but you can’t tell me that there are no people who are willing to date someone unattractive, there’s a lot of people who aren’t very good looking and somehow they manage to find …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:03 PM
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Easy life hack: if you can’t get a girlfriend, become a celebrity! It’s a walk in the park with no social skills, apparently not not being able to sell yourself and a lack of good looks💪
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:49 PM
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This is either satire or there’s something wrong with her, definitely not an example for the “norm” tho since she’s literally saying she desires him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:42 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:39 PM
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I think it depends , you don’t have to look amazing but I think it you’re like really really unattractive it’ll obviously be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:37 PM
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But again, your experience doesn’t have to match mine. Our social circles and personalities probably differ a good amount, I’m sure there’s lots of superficial women. I just think grouping all of them together is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:31 PM
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Yeah honestly I think we’re mostly on the same page here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:29 PM
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If you’re insinuating that I broke up with him because he was unattractive then let me ease your mind, he somehow managed to cheat on me and ended up being incredibly pushy with sex to the point where I felt violated multiple times. My current boyfriend is much more attractive than my ex and actually takes care of himself but he’s also a better person and I’m convinced I’d date him if we wasn’t good looking as well, although I can’t say it’s not a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:28 PM
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Depends on what you consider objectively attractive, I’m not ugly and I had better looking options at the time that were interested in me if that’s why you’re asking. Maybe a 4-8 , those things are super subjective . I never explicitly asked him about his height but I’d guess around 5’8-5’9 ish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:12 PM
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I went out with my legs not completely shaven once and I received an ungodly amount of shame from both men and women. Never did that again. I’m aware most men take care of themselves to at least some degree but as I literally had to beg my ex to wear deodorant I’m still gonna give my two cents in this debate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah, it’s not the norm but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:58 PM
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My ex wasn’t objectively attractive, he was overweight and overall not very good looking . But I connected with with and I loved him, so I can’t agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:58 PM
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If I’m expected by society to never go out without makeup, be fully shaved, have my hair done and have a certain body then I want my partner to at least have the decency to shower /wear deodorant every once in a while and go to a hairdresser sometimes. But apparently that isn’t common sense. If I neglected my looks like that I can tell you I would not have any relationships or even friends for that matter but somehow for them it’s acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:56 PM
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Women do care as well. I just don’t see as much blatant shaming going on. Personally I wouldn’t date a guy with a high body count at the moment (assuming I was single) because I just wouldn’t feel comfortable with that but if dudes wanna sleep around then that’s none of my business and I don’t think it makes them a worse partner Or somehow less valuable as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:45 PM
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Well not having options and choosing not to have sex because your options are not up to your standards are two different things. If the issue is high standards then it’s not being an incel since it’s voluntary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:20 PM
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Still, how does it make a difference. Guys like having sex, women like having sex so if you’re a guy with a high body count it’s weird to shame women who are similar. If your concern is stds, “purity” or loyalty then those rules don’t just disappear because you’re a guy. I don’t understand why it needs to be a “guys are chads and women are sluts” situation. That being said wanting what you describe is perfectly reasonable. Not sure how old you are so I can’t exactly judge your body count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah occasionally guys work out shirtless too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:07 PM
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Huh? Who are we talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:05 PM
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People throw the word slut at anyone on here, what do you consider a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:00 PM
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So an attractive woman having sex is a slut but an attractive guy is a chad? Weird. Y’all complain about women not sleeping with you but want no commitment and don’t want a “used “ woman. In your opinion, what is the ideal situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:59 PM
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We’re just gonna have to agree to disagree then, my experiences certainly differ from yours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:20 PM
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Sorry that you have this really sad world view
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:14 PM
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That’s not how women work lmao. Some girls value looks but a lot of girls would like to be in a relationship with someone they actually connect with. We’re not some weird cold and cruel creatures walk around judging guys on their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:12 PM
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Not sure what the quotation marks are supposed to mean
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:07 PM
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I think it depends on context. Sending a selfie to show where you are/what you’re doing to a friend (travelling or whatever or a hobby) ? Cool. Sending a random guy a selfie of you looking attractive (makeup, fresh out the shower or something)? Rather flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:49 PM
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Well most people aren’t gonna do that, especially men as well. So I guess either accept that people have sex or go looking for someone’s who is specifically a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:41 PM
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It depends on the girl. Contrary to what people believe on this subreddit, I think it’s not all about look and status. Connecting with a girl is really important, often more important than looks. You can do this by having meaningful conversations or making her laugh, it depends. Some women just want a good looking guy to have sex with, some women want a guy who makes them feel good and who they can laugh around, some women want a guy that they share lots of interests with. Truth is though, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:40 PM
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Ahh yeah that’s what I meant too. I guess it’s still one of those gender roles that still lurks around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah it’s really weird, and neither party even gains anything . It’s just unnecessary and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:27 PM
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Wait, never do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:25 PM
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Ah I guess I had some bias here. I’ve seen a lot of men on the purple pill subreddit talk about how them having a high n count is ok but their girlfriends having one is unpure and shit like that. So I guess we come from two sides for the extreme. I totally agree lying is really really fucked up and promoting that is shitty, maybe even a violation of consent . People need to know what they’re getting themselves into so they know their boundaries. Not to mention stds and all that. I don’t like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:19 PM
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Obviously I know women like different things. I meant he’s average looking when it comes to physique, I was gonna say he’s no supermodel but that’s rather a womens term. I’m convinced what would help is him going outside to socialise more then once a year, not asking girls for a relationship the second he speaks to them and watching porn less than like 3 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:12 PM
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But no , there’s no girls going up to him and hitting on him and he’s no bodybuilder. But he’s lean with some muscle and has an attractive face with a decent style so I’m convinced it’s not his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:05 PM
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I assume he would be if he went out more to social places like clubs or sport related things where you meet people. But he doesn’t. The girls that hes aquatinted with that he does try to approach seem to show some interest back at first usually until he gets really awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:03 PM
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I really doubt it, I’ve known countless overweight and objectively unattractive guys who had lots of experience. I’ve also known women who could never find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:00 PM
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Not much from what I notice. I guess girls don’t make the first move that often tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:57 PM
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Not much from what I notice. I guess girls don’t make the first move that often tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:57 PM
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Not being a virgin isn’t automatically being a slut, if someone is lying about it then it’s an issue and you should dump them, goes for both genders. It’s unreasonable to expect women to not have any sex just because you’re a virgin though and I really doubt most women do it to manipulate men. Having sex a few times in 30 years is perfectly reasonable. But yes, lying about your body count is weird and gross. If you read through the sub though you’d see that people aren’t just jealous over people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:54 PM
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Ahh yeah! I agree, especially since half the dudes here aren’t virgins either, weird ass purity culture shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:49 PM
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Ok well then I assume you’re a virgin? If so , good for you, I’m sure you’ll find a girl who shares your values. Even if you’re not, just make it clear that it’s important to you to your future partner. I don’t care about having preferences or boundaries, as long as the rules apply for both partners then it’s fair game. This subreddit isn’t mostly about high n counts but overall jealousy even if the person only had one partner before and it’s good that there’s a support space
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:48 PM
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I don’t see many people on there lying about anything and again I see jealous women too. I don’t condone lying about it but if you’re not a virgin, don’t expect your partner to be one. Half of these people don’t even have a high n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:44 PM
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I feel kinda dumb for asking but what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:41 PM
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And guys date younger naive girls to manipulate them as well. Happens from both sides. My point is if you’re 29 , don’t expect your partner to be a virgin. Plus who said she’s younger or a slut, from what I’ve seen you’re assuming that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:40 PM
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Right? Just don’t date people with high n counts if you don’t want to. Weirds me out , especially cuz I see so many dudes here wanting to sleep with many women but then get mad over their girlfriends not being virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:38 PM
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Or maybe it’s normal to not be a virgin at 29. The fuck is she supposed to do? Wait her entire life so her future incel boyfriend doesn’t get insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:36 PM
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Not sure if that’s a statement or a question but the word cuck is usually used for guys and the word whore is usually used for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:33 PM
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It’s not like there’s no ugly women who struggle too, sure they’ll find some guy who will use them for a one night stand but finding someone who will actually stay for a bit is hard. People Are superficial and you gotta cope with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:32 PM
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I see just as many women on there though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:27 PM
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You’d probably get laid if you tried because their issue in a big part is their mindset. I’m convinced for a lot of people their mindset is the biggest issue. I know a guy, not a typical incel or anything he’s genuinely a cool guy, who is convinced he cannot get any women because of his looks. He’s a good looking guy though, really not ugly. The issue is that his loneliness made him really insecure and desperate, he just doesn’t communicate well with girls and adding onto that he’s developed a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:22 PM
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Both, you can have a great life, eat healthy and go on hikes every day and still be depressed due to biochemical factors. But if you are in a toxic environment, isolate yourself or don’t go outside you’ll probably have much higher chances of developing depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:59 PM
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No problem, learned something new today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:54 PM
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Ahh I see lol, I can see the resemblance tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:51 PM
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No but Someone made a reference to them when they saw my name. Who is that tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:47 PM
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First Redditcare message let’s goooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:35 PM
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I think the porn and prostitution industry is really exploitative. Lots of coercion, taking advantage of people in poverty, human trafficking, minors and other morally questionable things. Not to mention porn is shit for the people who watch it too. Sex work is easy to get into, hard to get out of and contrary to popular opinion barely makes any money long term unless you’re really lucky/successful. Plus if you’ve ever done it chances are it’ll follow you for the rest of your life. So I definite…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:29 PM
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I don’t think so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:21 PM
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Personally I find it a bit tricky. Most men have higher sex drives than women. I mean, this seems to be where most issues discussed here come from : men wanting sex early, women wanting to wait. Men spending money in order to to have a chance of getting laid. Women wanting commitment in exchange for sex, men feeling trapped. Women being used for sex, men being used for money. Rape statistics. And overall many issues that stem from the differences in libido. I’m aware of most men probably having …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:07 PM
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Yeah it depends if you’re pushy about it or not, I’m my experience dudes get really angry for some reason when you don’t end up giving it to them. But apart from that in normal scenarios it’s pretty alright, maybe smalltalk or a conversation or something would help a bit if the opportunity is there but overall why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:40 PM
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So carrying a child is free? Being a single mother is free?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:34 PM
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How is allowing abortions making men suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:33 PM
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Only that men get raped less than women statistically and paying child support doesn’t compare to having to raise a child + paying for everything. But yes, men face hardships too obviously and these issues have a common reason : Rape not being taken seriously enough in the eyes of the law. These things wouldn’t happen for women or men if they were believed about being raped, it’s not like the examples you named are legal . They’re crimes, just not taken seriously enough. Again though, paying chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:32 PM
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Getting off this subreddit and socialising with people I’d say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:33 AM
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Agreed, spending a lot of time on here gives you a pretty warped mindset. I socialise a lot and spend a good amount of time outside but even with all that, I still notice that participating in debates on here makes me feel very frustrated and out of touch with reality. I always need a bit to remember that normal men with a healthy social life don’t hold the views that people on here do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:31 AM
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I love how people on here just find it absolutely incomprehensible that people can have chemistry even though their looks differ. As if people just go around being like “I am a 7/10 man, therefore I must only speak to 6/10 women and up”. Like maybe “chad” finds value in “Becky” beyond her looks and sees her as a human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:33 PM
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“You meet a pretty cool dude irl”: This wouldn’t happen because people who comment on PPD don’t go outside. Hope this helps👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:25 PM
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Arguing with people on this subreddit is like the worst thing you can do to yourself. It’s like a breeding ground for hate and anger and frustration. And I think everyone here just needs to go outside and socialise with real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:29 PM
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Totally, you’ll be better off making out with yourself in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:23 PM
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Ohh wait ur the „girls aren’t real „ guy. I fell for the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:20 PM
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I probably would have argued with this two years ago. I have no idea why I disrespected myself like that but I was in two long distance relationships. I convinced myself it was good and denied that it was absolutely fucking sad. I didn’t even cheat even though it would have been the better choice at that moment. Now that I’m in a healthy irl relationship I can confirm, it sucks. It isolates you and fucks up your mental health to such a tremendous degree. Looking back, worst time of my life. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:19 PM
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Definitely . Have you ever seen a woman from the side? No ? Exactly, it’s because they are made of paper and seeing their side profile would give them away. The photos you see of girls side profiles looking normal are fabricated, they’re government propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:14 PM
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So rape is fine because society bad. I’ve never heard such a braindead take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah and not just kinda rapey, like it’s full on rape. He’s literally touching her when she tells him to stop and holding her down. Idc what kink he has this is basically assault. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:05 PM
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It’s true, girls are a myth made up by the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah I’m sorry, kissing girls in general is gay because they probably kissed a guy at some point so you’re basically kissing a dude. Guys kiss girls tho so if you kiss them that’s not gay. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:00 PM
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They probably should though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:38 PM
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Weight and controlling behaviour are two different things. Cheating solely because your partner gained weight is a dick move if that’s the only reason imo. But again, there’s too much context missing to really judge this situation. Did they both gain weight? Did he address his concerns? Did he have any other reasons? Why did she gain weight. If she idk gained weight after childbirth or illness and he didn’t attempt to have an honest discussion with her then leaving for another woman Is really sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:34 PM
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For real! I see so many guys complaining about women being „too picky“ as well and treating them like they’re just born attractive. Attractive women work hard for their looks and it’s perfectly reasonable for them to want a partner that puts in effort. I don’t see attractive men who take care of themselves complaining about these types of things. Like the entitlement baffles me every time when I see obese guys who don’t take care of themselves complain about not getting supermodels like they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:27 PM
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I think she does have a point but it’s really weirdly worded and sounds derogatory. As you said, both genders lose sexual function overtime, so it’s good to not only rely on looks and your skills in bed if you’re looking for a long term partner. Generally it’s good to actually connect emotionally if you want a long term partner, I think that’s like common sense though (although I’ve seen so many people on here disagree so idk anymore). Settling down isn’t a must though, if you haven’t found the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:22 PM
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In my experience getting „free things „ wasn’t ever really a thing. I’m average looking , not attractive but not unattractive. I’m not overly popular with men but I’ve gotten hit on before and I’ve been in three relationships now if I’m including my current one. In my past two we spent an overall equal amount of money on each other, we split the bill most of the time. Sometimes I’d take them out, sometimes they’d take me out, fairly equal. I’m my current relationship my boyfriend generally takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:14 PM
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I think women are perfectly capable of making decisions about what they want to do. And I don’t see women who are sex workers out of their own will as victims. If they are content with their job that’s great for them, but many women don’t have the privilege of choosing. You can’t know for sure unless you did your homework and hire someone independent or whatnot. But if you’re going to a brothel, big chances are those women aren’t there consensually. I’m not against the women, I’m against the cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:08 PM
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So raping women is fine because some of them have a thing for cnc? I guess I can also just go out and punch random people because some of them might have a pain kink
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:00 PM
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What do you consider “high quality”, just because the place is expensive or fancy doesn’t mean the women are there out of free will. Forced prostitution isn’t some niche little issue, it’s massive. With the amount of ethical issues in the current industry, I just wouldn’t be ok dating someone who supports/has supported it unless he changed his ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:52 PM
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I agree, that’s the issue for me as well. It just doesn’t sit right with me and I feel bad for the escorts. If the guy is perfectly ok with all that, then he’s not someone I’d like as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah I would definitely consider that a broken foundation. Don’t get me wrong , I don’t consider lying about it to a potential partner ok even if it’s out of insecurity. Honesty is key and while your past actions don’t determine who you are, they’re still part of you and important info to your significant other. I’m not sure I understand your last statement though, what have you been through?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:31 AM
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It does matter, it just depends on the situation. I think what people have an issue with is the amount of judgement. In my opinion, It’s perfectly reasonable to want a partner with a low body count. For example you might want someone with the same amount of experience as you or you don’t feel comfortable with promiscuity or are worried about stds. But the body count of a person isn’t an indicator for their loyalty, their personality or their worth. Some people had a phase where they tried around…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:05 AM
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For real, I don’t understand the issue. „The second you set foot in a club, you’re fuckmeat and men deserve sexual access to you“. Obviously these places are sexually charged to some extent and an appropriate place to chat people up. But it’s not some mass orgy or irl tinder, at least around here the main thing is alcohol and music, maybe drugs in shadier places.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:54 AM
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What’s the obsession with cucking on here? I see posts about it all the time. Is it just a way for y’all to insult each other on here, as in „ men with xyz views are weak and beta so they like to be cucked“ ? Or is there actually any relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:01 AM
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Relationships have may advantages that aren’t sex. Emotional support, stability and overall alway having someone to spend time with are some. Judging from your mindset you’ve never genuinely loved a person, but if you love a person , get along and you’re compatible, settling down is a great option. Not to mention wanting to have a family of your own. That being said marriage can be tricky And isn’t for everyone, if casual sex is all you want from a partner then it might not be for you. Simple as…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:49 AM
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How the fuck do you interpret women being scared of rape as them wanting to be raped. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:44 AM
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People aren’t fine with rape, but if you’re dependant on these family members financially or are just forced to live with them it’s hard to do anything about it. But if you’re already in that situation It’s because you don’t have the possibility to leave, so it’s not like an abortion ban is gonna change your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:43 AM
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Plus I don’t want to commute like two hours every time I wanna get drunk and they don’t wanna throw a whole ass house party every time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:18 AM
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It’s bizarre to me how people find it absolutely unfathomable to go to a bar/club because you just like dancing and drinking with friends. I go out fairly regularly and it’s a fun way to destress, I’ve never cheated on my boyfriend. Sure, some people might get the wrong idea or whatever but I just tell them I have a boyfriend and they don’t push beyond that most of the time. But idk maybe Germany is just different with that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:16 AM
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Update, some of them are sane?? I’m shook
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:02 PM
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Respects dude, that sounds like a lot of work. It’s good to hear that you guys figured it out at some point. I wish you a lot of luck and strength for the future, you seem like a good dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:58 PM
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That’s a good mindset to have imo :) thanks for the input
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:52 PM
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What kind of evidence do you have? Sorry but don’t you think it’s a little unrealistic to think that every single woman just has a bunch of guys ready to buy her things, especially if that woman isn’t conventionally attractive? Do you think guys just line up to validate mediocre looking women with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:51 PM
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I’m glad to know at least you and your daughter get alongst least .How do you manage? Did you guys split custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:47 PM
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Yeah if I saw my kid on this subreddit I’d settle for a „late abortion „ too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:45 PM
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being a woman who doesn’t get things paid for or a lot of validation and can’t imagine being a single mother being easy. knowing single mothers that are very much struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:44 PM
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Yeah, of course. I definitely think this isn’t the ideal situation for both parties and I obviously don’t wish that kind of situation on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:42 PM
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I hope they’re not tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:37 PM
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Sounds like a good decision!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:36 PM
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I agree that a lot of them have pretty disgusting mindsets when it comes to this. But I do think the situation is more complicated than that. Imo the responsibility is shared and neither party is at complete fault (unless one of them sabotaged whatever protection is being used or someone got coerced/pressured into not using protection). I think it’s disgusting to leave a woman in that situation without helping her, but I do understand that men have an issue with changing their entire life if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:35 PM
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Fair enough, communication is key !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:29 PM
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Sounds fair! I’d like to ask two more questions though if you wouldn’t mind giving your input: If the abortion ends up being a very painful/draining procedure for her, would you take the time to be there for her beforehand/afterwards? And what about if abortion isn’t available either due to laws or due to major health concerns?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:24 PM
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Wow I’m sorry, that’s awful. I hope eventually he does find a way out of that situation. It’s good that the rest of you are cautious now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:14 PM
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Yeah that’s what I was thinking too, I’d still like to a civilised discussion tho and gain some insight on their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:11 PM
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While that might be true in some cases, this applies to a fairly small niche of very attractive women. And even if a woman is attractive, it doesn’t mean she automatically wants to pimp herself out just to keep out of poverty. I’m pretty sure most single women that don’t have a big social circle or a lot of money available do struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:07 PM
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Question for Men : I’m seeing a lot of discourse about both child support and abortion here, a lot of you seem to have an issue with at least one of these things if not both. So I’d like to ask a genuine question: If you get a girl pregnant but do not want to commit to a relationship with her, what would you like her to do and why? Let’s say you guys have casual sex every once in a while and at some point the condom accidentally breaks or something leaks. After some time she feels weird and take…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:03 PM
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Like, there’s no issue imo with not wanting to spend a lot on your girlfriend or whatever. If you wanna split the bill half half that’s all cool, but if you already got her pregnant then do the bare minimum and chip in so she doesn’t starve
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:53 PM
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I don’t get how it’s based to leave women after impregnating them to live in poverty. Like that’s just a scumbag move. Plus , do you not care about the kid that’s gonna have a shitty life now? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:51 PM
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What? This is a really weird way to portray this. Yes it’s hard to say no sometimes. I’m sure you don’t know what it feels like to be insulted by your partner and accused of not loving them, being a whore and and other horrible shit for not wanting to have sex. Or being given the silent treatment for a long time because they feel like it is their given right to have sex whenever they want . And that’s just on emotional coercion. If you were a women and your partner who is twice your size gets ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:38 PM
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Right?? And they’re against Abortions too. There’s nothing in their eyes a pregnant woman can do right. She just becomes a “whore” to them even though they share the responsibility of having sex. If she gets an abortion because she doesn’t have money to support the child, she’s a child killing slut. if she decides to keep it, she’s robbing a man of his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:11 PM
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Why should women be the only ones dealing with pregnancy when it’s the responsibility of both partners. If a man and a woman are in a relationship of some kind and the guy decides to leave after she gets pregnant, shouldn’t he at least have to have some responsibility. It’s still gonna be much much harder for the woman he left now , so the least he could do is help out financially a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:06 PM
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Again, if you have lots of casual sex with people, chances are not all of them get themselves tested that often. It’s still your responsibility to at least do it every once in a while. Like even if you wear a condom, I doubt you never have oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:26 AM
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I can’t say you deserve it per se, but sleeping around and not getting yourself tested every once in a while is both really dumb and inconsiderate towards the people you sleep with. Like , what did you think would happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:21 AM
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Absolutely not, biggest red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:19 AM
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Weren’t you the one who said it’s ok for you but not for women to sleep around? Seems like karma to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:18 AM
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Real classy. Whatever, good luck on your sad little chubby chasing journey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:42 PM
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I’m sorry mr. Smegma enthusiast
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:40 PM
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Damn, no reddit support bot gf? At this point I’d just give up if I was you..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:40 PM
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That’s more affection than 90% of people on this subreddit will ever get. Whoever it is, they deserve a Nobel prize 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:32 PM
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I just got one too so I’m convinced they send one to everyone on this subreddit. As they should, every single person here is insane and should immediately touch grass. Every single one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:28 PM
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Girl here, can confirm. A guy once touched my shoulders and immediately contracted cooties. He’s been in a coma for months now..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:39 PM
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Mind you, this is not about some e-girl making an only fans. For example you said if women really needed the money they could just apply for a job. you’re thinking of predominantly privileged at least somewhat financially stable women in first world countries that are too lazy to work and just decide to sell a couple of sex tapes. The reality however often looks like this : women living in poverty (for example in Eastern European countries) are promised a stable job and a better future in anothe…
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 09:24 PM
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Maybe it’s because currently a massive part of the porn industry consists of human trafficking , coercion, exploitation of minors and is overall not consensual in many situations. Plus it is often near impossible to leave due to threats or dependence. Same goes for for men and boys, they too get exploited by the porn industry. The point is not to shame people for doing sex work but to help those who can’t leave and boycott the current system. I don’t see how this affects men negatively or is a n…
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 09:04 PM
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Deffo, I rather meant judging her character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:05 PM
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Yep! Exactly my point! In any case, no reason to shame her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:55 PM
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Last one wasn’t meant as a fetish although I admit it was weirdly worded. I just mean maybe she likes it for her own reasons. But with the standards nowadays it’s often insecurity. I have a big nose and hip dips, I’ve been told that these traits are ugly all my life and I’ve contemplated plastic surgery’s multiple times. Many of my female friends have thought about it too due to insecurity so I’m purely talking out of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:49 PM
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Because they’re insecure due to the unrealistic beauty standards society sets. She’s probably been told over and over again she’s too flat and eventually got boob surgery. I’d say that’s what most cases are. Or she’s rly into having big tits, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:45 PM
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Of course, but men are still physically stronger than women. Most guys can easily defend themselves if a woman approaches them in a way they don’t like. Women cannot and are therefore more vulnerable to being taken advantage of outside/in public. But obviously there are many men who have gotten sexually assaulted as well and they have all the right to be cautious about women approaching them as well. I’m sure some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:30 PM
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Again, a lot of women have made bad experiences and prefer to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:20 PM
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I find the idea that it’s “media brainwashing” making women anxious really weird. What makes me anxious isn’t Reddit or instagram posts. What makes me anxious is men harassing, following or even threatening me when I am out at night. What makes me anxious is most of my female friends having been sexually assaulted. Most women would rather reject someone than risk getting in danger. If you have an issue with that, approach women in situations that don’t seem threatening. Don’t randomly approach w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:14 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:56 PM
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That’s the thing, I don’t get hit on but I do get harassed a fair amount. I rarely get polite compliments from men and Don’t think anyone ever asked me about my number or anything like that (which I’m content with because I’m in a committed relationship ). Yet whenever I’m out somewhere in the evening, especially on my way home, half of the time I get creepy comments and harassment from men twice or three times my age. I think I might look easy to take advantage of or something, I’m not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:44 PM
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So you’re admitting to sleeping around with many women , but you see women with high body counts as less worthy than you? If so, what’s the difference between a woman and a man having a lot of sex. Why is it acceptable for men but not for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:34 PM
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To be fair, this place IS pretty hateful. I think everyone here just needs to touch a little bit of grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:25 PM
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Your point doesn’t make any sense. If there’s demand for it, then works. You do realise women exist outside of Reddit, right? Aside from how tasteless your clearly hateful generalisation of women was, It’s weird to assume that somehow online women from Reddit would be there. And even if there weren’t any conventionally attractive women there ( there probably would though since they’re the ones facing the most harassment in normal clubs), why would that bother you? It’s not like you would go ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:43 PM
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Well according to OP, women like the idea and and would like to go there. In that case, there’s enough customers and demand. So where’s the issue? And apart from that, why do you feel the need to generalise and portray women as completely mindless individuals who only care about validation. Clearly there’s enough women who aren’t like that and they’d like a nightclub that fits to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:34 AM
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In my opinion being a “loser “ has little to do with someone’s dating life. Being single , even if it’s involuntarily doesn’t determine someone’s worth. Apart from that, I’m sure there’s a good amount of men (and women) who are single because they don’t work on themselves/ don’t take care of themselves and are generally unsuccessful in life. I don’t think it works the other way around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:27 AM
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Well personally I go out to have fun with friends, not to get attention from men. I’m sure some women do want that attention. But if they don’t, why shouldn’t they have the option to go out in an environment where they feel comfortable. Again, what is bothering you personally about these night clubs? How do they affect YOU?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:18 AM
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Believe it or not, some women go out because they want to have fun and dance, not because they want to get laid. And believe it or not, they feel more comfortable being able to drink and go out without being worried about being drugged, harassed or worse. I don’t see how these nightclubs affect you, it’s not like there’s not gonna be any women in normal ones anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:11 AM
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If they deliberately look for men with no experience to take advantage of them then obviously that’s fucked up and a big red flag. The difference is that age just makes a much bigger difference than the amount of experience someone has. Someone young is vulnerable not only because they don’t have relationship experience but because they’re more naive, have overall less life experience and all that. Both are messed up tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:06 AM
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I think it’s less about their actions but rather the mindset some of them have. In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with either but I’ve made some bad experiences so I’m rather cautious. In my experience a lot of incels ,for example, deal with their frustration by seeing women as evil and/or less worthy than men. Sometimes these frustrations will spiral into extremist views and hostility towards women in general. Other than that there’s obviously nothing wrong with men who struggle with finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:58 AM
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