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SEX STRATEGYputequitue/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:50 AM
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Or worse he’s trying to get attention from new women. I see this sometimes when a guy is publicly really sweet around animals. He’s looking for that “awwww” from surrounding females.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:35 AM
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Had a man recently, cut my losses because he brought no value. He was in fact, a leech bringing down my value. And this is not just my misguided female opinion. This is every friend, relative, therapist in my life screaming at me to run from the worthless mooch. But oh yeah sure, I could have tried harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:55 AM
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The more you play into their standards, the worse it is for you. I once asked a therapist who was a specialist in porn addiction how I could stop attracting men who had this problem, and he said “stop trying to look the part” meaning I was dressing and acting the part of a pornstar even though what I actually wanted was his love and respect. It doesn’t work. I just got out of a long term 3 year relationship with a guy who kept pushing the kink/poly thing on me, and in the end when I asked him wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:09 AM
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And who wants to bet there are scrotes laughing and hi-fiving each other about this, because guys brag about sexual violence: “i tore her up” “she couldn’t walk afterwards” etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:03 AM
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One thing I have observed, is that since it’s an addiction, it is usually paired with other addictions. Alcohol, drugs, video games, etc. Guys who can’t seem to tear themselves from screens, even if it’s not porn all the time. The types who waste hours arguing with strangers on Twitter. I’m avoiding all y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:12 AM
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Yep. So the ex I gave the speech to was very sweet about it at first, like “of course Babe, anything for you!” and then I found out he was on porn sites for 8 hours or more every day while I was at work! You don’t even have to spy to find out, just check the wifi (if it’s your internet).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:23 PM
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I’ve given that “porn is a dealbreaker” speech, only to find he was still doing it behind my back. You can’t take his word for it! Keep vetting and don’t be ashamed to snoop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:06 PM
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Same. I just don’t see how I can ever trust a man again, let alone be attracted. I felt that way after my last breakup, thought maybe in time I’d get over it. Then I found FDS and realized this goes way, way deeper than me just having bad luck with a guy or two. It’s like the entire male population is rotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:44 AM
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Haha laughing so hard. And I actually dated a rocket scientist. Who was as clueless as described here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:42 AM
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It’s like some kind of pickme test. They want to see how low we’ll go for that precious male approval. I once had a first date go on and on about how much he liked threesomes. I just said, “Well, you haven’t even managed to get me into bed yet. And now, you never will!” He was one of my brother’s best friends too. Just so ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:32 AM
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My ex (boyfriend not husband) was extremely interested throughout Covid as to whether or not I was getting a stimulus check and how much. Same interest in my tax refunds, bonuses, etc. I always lied and said “guess I’m not getting anything” then stashed the money or used it to pay down my debt. He would have had me blow it on him. Did I mention he didn’t have a job of his own? So glad I got away from that loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:28 AM
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Yep. How many of us have taken a “fixer upper” dude and taught him how to dress, speak, etc only to have him backstab? There is also the phenomenon that even meh guys suddenly seem more desirable when there’s a hot girl on his arm. My ex husband was a 5’4” little troll but with me next to him, other women were suddenly intrigued and quite competitive. Now as lone old short dude he is probably not faring so well! Who knows and who cares though, I ran and never looked back (this is all 20 years ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:02 AM
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A lot of “straight” men are repulsed by the female anatomy. They love BOOBs of course, but can’t deal with performing oral sex on a woman, or even talking about anything related to periods or pregnancy or female sexual pleasure. I think they secretly want DICK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:04 PM
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The paying for food thing will really get you. My ex ate his way into obesity on my dime. Insane grocery bills, I couldn’t keep up. Not to mention the cost of all his booze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:35 AM
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The agism thing is so bizarre. I know plenty of accomplished, beautiful, and classy women as old as 70. Meanwhile I also know plenty of aging men whose lives are absolute disasters (living with Mom, unemployed, addicted to various substances) and these men no longer have the fuckboi looks to go along with it…they are balding, paunchy slobs. But oh the horror of women past their prime!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:12 PM
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You can never, ever please a porn addicted scrote. I happen to be very blonde (everywhere) which you would think they would like but I got complaints about not having a well-defined landing strip! Meanwhile he is so hairy and disgusting he has black body hair coming out of his butt crack. The audacity….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:06 AM
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