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You will get there, I have kids too. All of this takes time away from them but they're my biggest supporters now, they want me to do well. New job meant I could pay for more of their activities, they had the best xmas ever because I could finally afford it. We are planning a holiday for mid January together. Things I could never do when I was with their dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:06 PM
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Lvm like to keep you dependant on them so you need them and never leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:03 PM
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Thank you! Its funny the chain effect levelling up has, some of my friends are now rethinking what they're doing with their lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:02 PM
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Proud of you! Sometimes they make you feel so small and convince you that you're a failure so it's like what's the point in even trying, they do not want you to do better than them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:56 PM
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Stop chatting with these men. You know why they are on those sites. You do not need their validation. If you really do enjoy chatting with strangers online I would recommend chatting within the context of a mutual hobby on a platform specific to that hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:14 PM
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Don't wanna be too specific on this sub but I'm in the south island. Hope you're holding up ok in lockdown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:55 PM
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🙋🏻‍♀️ Don't come across fellow kiwis much here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:44 PM
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This is likely on hyde st in Dunedin which is a street that is infamous for every house being a uni party house. Men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:39 PM
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I know a guy like this in real life. He's a 24yo alcoholic who is obsessed with sex but has never had a gf and I doubt he's ever even had (free) sex. Hes not even that ugly, his personality is just that shit. I warn all women to stay away from him, don't ever be in a vulnerable position around him. Don't ever let your guard down around him. He's so angry at women for not wanting him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:28 PM
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By the end of my last relationship sex was just a chore that I'd do so I didnt get the silent treatment for a week and I was not enthusiastic at all, these types of men don't care as long as they get to cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:14 AM
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A thread asking about people's worst sexual experiences. Pretty much all the men can come up with is the woman not engaging, lying there doing nothing. Half of them sound like the woman was coerced or didn't really wanna be there. Women on the other hand have far worse experiences, like the ones I've screen shotted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:49 PM
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He literally bet the shit out of her. Doesn't sound like his first time beating women either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:47 PM
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I wasted over a decade with a LVM. People still try to talk to me like I'm some victim because he cheated. Always makes me giggle, it was a shitty relationship, there was no way out. I'm thankful he cheated, it was my only way out at the time. I definitely learned what I will not tolerate and that everything he said was BS to tear me down. People like to say I become a man hater after that, funny how not tolerating LVM crap = man hater. I ended up in a relationship with a HVM, whilst ex is still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:45 PM
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I bet he's trying to get her to do anal. Maybe he should work on himself, sounds like shes too attractive for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:14 PM
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I struggle with whether or not my dad was a HVM. He certainly had issues, he was very socially anxious. Very shy, on the other hand he was never angry, he never smacked or shouted. He cooked and cleaned and worked a lot. I like to remember him as a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:39 AM
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I met my bf in August last year and we didn't do anything even remotely sexual until January. I was a complete pick me before that, normally wouldn't have waited. It sounds cheesy but it made it way more special waiting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:34 PM
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Wow that whole article was nick cannon trying to justify his shitty behaviour. What's the bet he's a narcissist and having all these children because he thinks he's some kind of God that needs to populate the world with his superior offspring. He has the audacity to say they all came to him wanting babies. I don't believe that for a second. Sounds like some kinda of weird culty mindset behind all of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:33 PM
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Even if size genuinely doesn't matter to you their attitude should. Small dick guys are insecure and have no confidence, you'llbe constantly trying to make them feel adequate. I truly believe in big dick energy. They don't need constant reassurance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:57 PM
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I made a post about this awhile back. Since then I have come to feel sympathy for these women because I genuinely believe bdsm is being used as a super unhealthy way to deal with past trauma. I've also noticed a shift where if you chuck the word "play" on the end of something it's apparently acceptable, "r*pe play" "race play" I even seen a woman write gun play on an ask reddit thread about fetishes. My friends brag about the messed up shit men do to them, it's just sad. If my bf done anything l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:56 PM
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I think in this situation it's on me. He's great and invites me to everything, plans things for us to do. I just need to remember to also do my own thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:00 AM
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Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:10 PM
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Can't believe the first guy would ring when he basically raped her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:48 PM
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I'm 5ft1, my bf is 6ft1. Would feel weird cuddling someone who is eye level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:29 PM
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I went though a really tough time, my ex of over a decade cheated and left, I'd been controlled by him since I was a teenager and then I was finally free and terrified I'd just jump at the first guy that looked at me the right way because I couldn't handle being alone, people close to me also died around this period and I was just super messed up. This sub honestly made me stay away from LVM and get my life on track without thinking I needed a man to do that. It's been 2 and a half years since I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:18 AM
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I have 2 dogs, a big 1 and a little 1. I'd pick them over any man any day, they are my babies. They both sleep in bed with me at night and come in and out of the house as they please. My bf is from a farming background so I was curious if he would kick up a stink about dogs being inside, especially when one is a working breed. He's fully embraced the dogs in bed lifestyle and hasn't complained about it at all, my dogs get excited everytime he comes over and he's been nothing but nice to them. If…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:14 PM
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This was my ex. He was cheating and assumed all men cheated. My current bf would never say anything like that, its Saturday here, he's out doing his thing tonight, he invited me, I said no I have other plans. No argument, no warnings about staying away from other men while I'm out, just acceptance and we will both have good nights separately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:36 AM
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You said no, he did it anyway. Without consent or enthusiasm. Now that he's done it he will do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:12 AM
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On the same page now. You are dead right. It's like they've decided that men won't like them unless they can show they're willing to do literally anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:44 AM
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I'm certainly not glorifying it. I'm telling them I think it's wrong. They're both in their 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:32 AM
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That's the vibe I got. If I genuinely enjoyed something I would defend it. They didn't even try to defend it, they had no explanation. Not even a "because I enjoy it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:18 PM
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Dude ain't riding that bike. That's not what you wear to ride... and it probably isnt even him. What a bottom of the barrel trash man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:48 PM
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This 100% didn't happen. I would not date a guy shorter than me, mainly because I am really short and he would having to basically be child size to be shorter than me. I haven't really met men shorter than me either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:45 PM
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a story about the murder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:27 AM
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I'm glad it helped you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:20 AM
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There was a woman in the town near where I live who was murdered in a motel room by her ex bf whom she was trying to escape, she had a very young baby to him, he killed her brutally, disposed of evidence and took the baby to his mothers house before trying to flee. This guy was a pretty popular "normal" guy from the outside, very social, had a lot of friends. During his trial text messages he sent her were presented as evidence. He sent her messages threatening what he would do if she ever had a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:10 AM
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Clearly doesn't want her to see where he's spending money. I will never understand why anyone would put up with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:02 PM
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That's a good way to put it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:11 PM
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Love doja cat too, just wish she used a different word so we could all enjoy the song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:26 PM
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100% looks to me like he's in a whole other relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:24 PM
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Sounds like he only met the baby when they were first born and hasn't had anything at all to do with them since. About as deadbeat as it gets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:41 PM
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I've never been rejected, assuming this is because I've never given anyone the chance to reject/dump me. If I feel like they aren't fully into me then they're given the boot before they ever get the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:01 AM
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I'm 31 and met the HVM I'm dating through friends BUT he is 25
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:21 PM
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Live in a small town and he lives a few doors down from me, seen each other around a lot and built a friendship first, we have the same big group of friends that do a lot together so would see each other all the time. Was actually good to see how he acted thinking I wasn't interested in him. He was always kind and a good friend to everyone including me. He was never pursuing women and has never done OLD. He's still kind and a good friend to everyone. He did kind of drop out of the sky, our initi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:17 PM
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I'm not really sure how to tell but I can describe the guy I'm dating who does have a big dick and I felt like I could tell long before I ever actually knew he did. He never ever talks about it. Even when we were just friends for a long time before we dated and other men were talking about gross stuff he never engaged in it. He's tall. He doesn't do the cocky Male thing. He's never trying to prove anything to anyone like small dick guys are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:54 PM
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There's an actual name for only sleeping with someone you love and have a deep connection with. Its called a "demisexual" It's so weird that there is a name for it now instead of it being just a normal thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:08 PM
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I've seen a few tiktoks lately of women asking their FWB if they like them and being rejected. You're sleeping with this person who you clearly have feelings for and they don't even like you, that's messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:05 PM
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Just wanna say im proud of you. Its not easy leaving, especially when kids are involved. Your life and your childs life is about to get so mich better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:38 PM
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I was always "too emotionally distant and cold". If I'm either walking on egg shells around you or any slight affection is interpreted as me wanting to have sex then yeah I'm gunna keep my distance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:28 PM
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Hmm most of them describe being in a relationship with me. I'm not good at compromise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:32 AM
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Once I became single I believed this and dated a "safe" ugly boring man, was the biggest narcissist I'd ever met and now I just regret dating an ugly boring LVM and cringe every time I think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:03 PM
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There were so many more too. Just disgusting vile creatures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:00 PM
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You would think so, he clearly does not care about her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:47 PM
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Someone you're scared to ask or even have to ask for commitment from is not your future husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:42 PM
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I have a friend who is a life coach and i would never ever go to one! She is in a horrible relationship which started through him having an affair with her as one of her clients. She talks about her clients and their issues and constantly crosses boundaries. I could never take advice from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:38 PM
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They never actually change, there's always a motive behind it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:43 AM
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My daughter is at at all girls high school, she chose to go there and I'm so glad she did. Shes going to be the first person in our family (including extended) to go to university. I think the school she chose has helped so much, theres a lot of focus on empowerment and setting you up for your future. The highschool I went to (her other option) was just about getting you through it and out the door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:16 AM
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My ex who I have kids with likes to say "you think you're too good for me now" when I reject him. Well yeah, I do think that, so does everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:33 PM
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It's so the rest of us know they have the bestest man ever 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:09 AM
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My bathroom is being completely gutted and renovated so hopefully having a new bathroom by the end of the week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:20 AM
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The man I'm dating has a really good relationship with his mother, they're close and he has the utmost respect for her but he has absolutely nothing to do with his father because of the way his father treated his mother when he was a kid. Completely cut him years ago because he's a lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:46 PM
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I have a cat, 2 dogs, fish and a crap load of house plants. I love my life, all that I have is mine no scrote gets an opinion on it. I'm dating someone but my mindset is now you can fit into my life or leave, I'm not changing a thing or doing anything I don't want to do. I genuinely feel like I could never live with a Male again. Like the thought of it makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:27 PM
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My mother was a pick me when I was growing up, she always chose men over her children. She got married to a lvm when I was 14, he was creepy to me, would grab my ass constantly to the point where I was afraid to walk past him. Once i told my nana about this, I cried because I didn't want to go home. She promised she wouldn't tell my mum but she did and within days I was sent to live with my dad, never lived with my mum again. A few years later he cheated and left her for someone else. She met a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:18 PM
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Yup her husband is a pig. She's beautiful and successful, hes just a pig. I wish she would leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:27 PM
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I hope she left his ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:26 PM
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From my POV that's what it looks like. I don't know why people stay with men like this. All the women I've talked about could easily leave, they just don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:25 PM
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Unfortunately this is in a progressive country. It's disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:21 PM
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I think stuff like this happens alot but most women just don't tell anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:32 PM
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Wow she's so woke /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:51 AM
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That whole story is insane, you're moving way to fast and breaking basically every fds rule
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:03 AM
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