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“Most women have never been held accountable ever” is an insane thing to randomly claim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:56 AM
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A woman or girl is not getting raped by another woman or girl. You might get bullied by another woman or girl, but you won’t get raped. This is because people are arbitrarily separated by birth according to surface level gender, then both indoctrinated into different behaviour. The man I encountered, was not a bad PERSON, he was a bad man, because he was taught to be a man and taught to not care about women’s propriety or respect women (as a man). This is specifically a behaviour taught to boys,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:24 PM
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Yeah okay so if I’m in a relationship with a man and he is doing gay stuff, that would be a dealbreaker not because he’s gay, but because that’s cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:22 PM
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Yeah, obviously I’m not gonna express it, but there is a latent concern (call it nagging thoughts), I’m obviously not scared of men but there is a bit of discomfort there normally. Once I get to know them it goes away, and unfortunately it went away once, it was with my best friend’s long term boyfriend who was hanging out with me because she was attending a funeral overseas, and unfortunately after a few weeks he tried to get me into bed. I trusted my best friend’s BOYFRIEND and he tried to sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:21 PM
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Nah I’m not talking about same sex marriage I’m talking about your internalised homophobia. You can be for same sex marriage and still be disgusted by gay men or male bodies. “It’s okay to be straight” bro I am not saying it’s not looool. So defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:05 AM
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If you were a normal man not poisoned by the patriarchal hatred of same sex marriage, you would find other men attractive. If you don’t hate yourself then you would find other people attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:48 AM
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Why are they not attracted to other men’s bodies? Because they are self hating and homophobic. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:32 AM
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No, you stop being a homophobe!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:31 AM
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That’s exactly what I’m saying actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:56 AM
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Because men are homophobic and women aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:47 AM
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Because we were expected to be perfect while growing up? And we were berated for that shit? I mean I can’t answer for other women but I personally was screamed at if I wasn’t “perfect”, so. I got beat up for any perceived slight so yeah I feel uncomfortable when people are constantly pointing out what the fuck I did wrong. My fight or flight is being triggered lol. I became a workaholic and a yes-man and a bootlicker because of the family abuse lol. Nowadays I’m better, I make mistakes and I lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:25 AM
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I personally believe that if people were mobile financially then that would help them make better choices. If we look at the example of China, things got really good really quick, and women started earning money, owning houses, getting an education and a lot of them stopped looking for marriage, because that wasn’t their only option anymore in life. Some of them go overseas and become lesbians in more progressive countries. Chinese women and men have more choices than ever for love, marriage, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:59 AM
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Don’t act like you care about female agency now. You told me to shut the fuck up and stop complaining because men were only sexist to me online and that they definitely aren’t sexist irl. Take a look at what you said. This conservation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:36 PM
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I hope your son in law is older than you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:41 PM
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I did it myself most of the time. So no, my female friends are not like me. But I did that. Not sure why I don’t count in this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:40 AM
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He's a grown man, an independently wealth comedian by trade, he can make decisions for himself. In no universe is a man forced into marriage. She probably just doesn't respect him very much, I wouldn't respect a man who marries me and brags about the "traditional marriage" either. I'd serve him a "traditional divorce" for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:16 AM
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when someone says something online.. where does that come from? Does it come from their brains which they use offline too? OR does it come from their ass like your thoughts seem to come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:24 PM
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where do you think these online men come from, like where do you think their bodies and minds are after the log off for the day? Do you think they don't exist offline???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:03 PM
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Men literally invented the phrase “hitting the wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:48 PM
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“If I deny it then it must be true”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:47 PM
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Women get told that only 18-25 women are the most attractive all the time actually so idk what you mean by “men refrain from saying this” because they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:37 PM
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Girl have you ever heard of sexual purity and shotgun marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:22 PM
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Conservative Americans have monogamy. Conservative Muslims have concubines. They’re both anti-woman and patriarchal and conservative. Conservative Americans who force 18 yr olds to become broodmares are not progressive. Anarcho feminist writer He-Yin Zhen wrote 100 years ago for the abolishment of conservative Manchurian concubines. However she also acknowledged that although Western women have monogamy, they are still oppressed through sexism, conservatism and patriarchy. The Manchurian rule wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:11 PM
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No the fat-shaming and expecting me to do caretaking for a full grown man like cooking and cleaning were definitely sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:04 AM
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I didn’t say Bin Laden was modern or western? I said he was a conservative. Having multiple wives is conservative ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:29 AM
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Okay and? That’s still not really a game plan for most women. Fall up into an unequal marriage. Absolutely terrible idea lol. Do YOU dream of that? To fall into a relationship with a powerful woman who can drop you at any time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:24 AM
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That’s like one guy. Literally one guy. One single NBA player.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:18 AM
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I’ll take your word for it. Some guys are gonna want to date normal women of average looks. But the vast majority of men would not. Most me have high standards but some are happy with someone normal. I can’t account for the taste of one NBA player.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:17 AM
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I’m sure some NBA players date normal looking women, but I think most men of a certain class would want a woman of a certain class. I don’t mean class as in attractiveness, I mean class as in, she might be wealthy. Only using gender as an analysis factor is short sighted here. Some women get into dating high profile men because they are beautiful, other women get into dating high profile men because of their class. Neither extremely beautiful women, nor wealthy women are average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:53 AM
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That was in something like 2012 maybe. But just last year my sister in law who was 19 at the time was still sexually harassed by her manager. Women aren’t safe in the post me too world still.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:15 AM
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Legit how brainrotted is this guy to think normal women are in the same league as pro-athlete men lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:56 AM
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Is it taboo though? Because when I was a waitress at 15, men didn't think it was particularly taboo to approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:52 AM
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Even poor dudes take photos with hot girls, like girls working as entertainers and pass them off as girlfriends or groupies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:49 AM
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From men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:58 AM
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Cohen LL, Shotland RL. 1996 is saying that men tend to want a relationship and sex more? You can want something all you like, but it doesn't mean you need it or deserve it. I work with human rights, so I believe you need those, but not every man necessarily needs an attractive girlfriend, like you can live without that. If you really want to sit around and do nothing and wait for a girl to pick you, then nobody is stopping you. I know lots of men who do this. I also know lots of women who do thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:43 AM
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Bin Laden is conservative bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:27 AM
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Yeah I don’t think we could. Plenty of waaaaaay hotter girls. Let’s be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:23 AM
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The average woman isn’t getting DMs from basketball players. The vast majority of women won’t even pop up on a man’s radar. Comparing yourself to male celebrities is where you’re going wrong. You are an average man, not a male celebrity. Attractive women and attractive men both get a LOT of sexual and romantic attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:45 AM
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"So far I had to take the initiative and be in the aforementioned vulnerable and powerless position for pretty much everything(inviting her on dates while we still were friends, initiating most conversations, first hug, first kiss, first sex was all initiated by me" could it be you're the one who wanted all these things more than her and it had less to do with her gender and more to do with how much you wanted these things? Also how is it a powerless position when you're the one picking and choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:26 PM
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I'm here to help people since I already have a great relationship with my man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:37 PM
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Have you dated both women and men to compare? Why don’t you also date people on the nonbinary spectrum to make a more through analysis? Or is this deduction just based off vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:04 PM
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Nah I need total inner peace and concentration, if someone else is touching me I can’t get off. Believe me I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:46 PM
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I think there is a bit too much movement during sex for me to do that. I might try? But I find it hard to concentrate. I have to be totally zen to actually orgasm. This is very strange I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:56 AM
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Penetration has never done anything for me. It’s either caused me excruciating pain (I got that fixed) or just has felt okayish-a bit painful. I’ve been with men who didn’t feel comfortable with me masturbating and would get angry with me for not getting off on their dicks. What can I do? I can’t fucking lie about it. I’ve had a lot of dick and none of it is good. My current partner is aware of them and doesn’t get pissy when I masturbate afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:52 AM
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What was your point? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:54 AM
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If someone wants relationships or sex they should be allowed to pursue those things but nobody owes them these things. For instance of a man really wants to have sex with a woman, she can say no without any guilt, because it’s not about his desire it’s about her consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 12:31 AM
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It’s up to the person. Also men are all individuals and women are all individuals. So they’d each have to make their own choice. But that choice cannot be dictated by sexual shame (female, stop having sex) or sexual shame (male, have as much sex as possible).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:19 PM
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Sometimes you just want no strings attached sex and that’s fine. Most girls I know were busy with a degree, work and all that. We didn’t talk about it in our circles because all of us were higher academic achievers and a lot of us had sexual shame, we wanted to be “proper”. Every time I spent 3 years dating an unpleasant man I thought I could change with my love and patience, it made me really angry that I spent that time on him and things didn’t improve. Should’ve slept around more and not been…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:03 PM
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What’s an interesting thing about a woman, so what should she share about herself? How do you banter with a guy? How do you find out about a man if you’re just bantering? Have you been successful with this method? Do you also banter back? What happens if you come across a girl who isn’t interested in these rules, but she is interesting still?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:12 AM
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So what is a woman supposed to ask a man then? Like yeah some women are gonna want to know how tall you are or if you have employment. I’d say most women would, since that’s like part of knowing someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:57 AM
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Not every woman is going to like you? That’s the point of dating or talking to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:58 PM
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Just ask her out first, don’t slink around for months and months and months and years making her think you’re a friend in order to “test her out” as a prospect, THEN jeopardise the relationship she’s been building with you by asking her out. You can’t test run people, be upfront about your intentions, because otherwise if you do grow feelings it will end up one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:19 PM
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Yeah I grew up with a mum and people would say this to her a LOT. I do think she’s beautiful, but I also think people were also trying to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:29 AM
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As a woman disagree but okay. I just don’t like men who are disagreeable, adamant and brash. Cocky nonchalant men disgust me. They reek of insecurity. I won’t be caught dead near them. Like sure if they attract idiotic women with poor taste then fine, but don’t act like one type of man is attractive to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:32 AM
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Men think finding a woman through an app or online means he’s ordering uber sex. Keep your standards high. I did meet my soulmate through dating app though, but statistically fewer people use dating apps now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:08 AM
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Yeah so most people don’t identify with any pill they’re just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:33 PM
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CEOs aren’t humans though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:26 PM
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Some of us women don’t like having the same boring men thrown at us since we were children watching Hollywood movies. There’s more men in this world. I go outside, I travel. I’m tired of white American hegemonic beauty standards for women AND for men lmfao. These men reject Margot Robbie because they could never have her. I reject these men because I hate racism and physiognomy. We are not the same. Also if you really wanted to find attractive “white” men you could find hotter farmers in the Eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:17 PM
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I’d rather be single than be with a man who could never see me for who I am. And idk fights me or something. Peace is better than constant degradation. Obviously being understood in a relationship is extremely fulfilling, but the more men treat women like a different species the harder it is to find a good match. I found my soulmate now, but I don’t have a demanding job like she does. It takes a lot to be a doctor, most people lose their 20s to it, I’ve noticed my male doctor friends find it eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:11 PM
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Hottest celebrity has to be Luigi Mangione
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:14 PM
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Maybe you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:11 PM
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Dang caught me out. I live for myself yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:11 PM
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I never claimed to be attractive? I just claim to have eyes. Like I’m happy for him, but if you’re out here trying to make claims that you know what is attractive for women, you may not know. I know a hockey player irl and he is much more attractive than the photos of these famous men. But I don’t think men want to acknowledge that local hockey players or local men are cute, they want to act like only top 1% of men are attractive to the vast majority of women and that’s why they can’t get a date…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:41 PM
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You keep linking unattractive men and acting like you know what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:23 PM
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You kinda had a point until you linked the ugliest man in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:02 PM
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No point arguing with unhappy red pillers about how their ideology doesn’t serve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:01 AM
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All these men are definitely muscular, just not puffy. Also every man is technically muscular even if he’s fat or skinny. Like we all technically have muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:59 AM
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I knew you were Slavic before I opened up the post because my boyfriend is Slavic too and he’s the most morally good and most handsome man I’ve ever met but also the most unhealthily enmeshed man I’ve ever met thanks to Eastern European family trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:24 AM
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If I say “it’s personality” the men will come for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:42 AM
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I use the “is he pure of heart or is he rotting within?” System. Any man that has to “prove” himself is already rotting. Goodness should come from the heart, like he should be doing kind deeds even without the possibility of attractive women around. A man who is consistently good and kind on an authentic genuine level will generally be attractive no matter how he looks. This is someone who is a pillar of the community, helps his family, supports his friends, puts other before him, treats ALL wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:30 AM
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He definitely still looks like an old man. I am Chinese I have seen a lot of Chinese people, nobody has managed to tricked me into thinking they are a handsome young man and not a grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:00 PM
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People are nice to me but I can’t assume I’m hot shit and very fuckable everytime I get a compliment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:58 PM
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Yeah but you can’t know who wants to be perved on and who doesn’t. And usually it’s the ugly old men who wish they were still attractive to young women. But as a young woman I am absolutely not attracted to grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:55 PM
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I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:16 AM
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Finding people attractive doesn’t mean I can stare at people and make them uncomfortable. I find plenty of people attractive every day, I just don’t make them feel weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:16 AM
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Staring like a creep has literally been around for thousands of years bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:14 AM
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Some of us respect that goodlooking people don’t want to be eye raped actually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:25 AM
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The blur is hiding literally everything. That purple haze is completely not normal, never seen a place with that shit in my life. Obviously you’re insisting you look young but you give me a blurred photo. Like I’m not your aunt I don’t owe you compliments bro. If you were actually youthful looking you’d give me a photo where I could see your eyes and your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:33 PM
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That picture is overlayed with some purple haze and blurry as hell. You’re trying to hide something from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:34 PM
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Unc? If you’re talking about Gen Z mistaking you for younger that happens all the time to me. Gen Z just thinks everyone is under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:27 AM
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Fair, but I don’t perve on men irl just as a general rule even if I’m so horny I could die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:26 AM
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I am still a creep then even though I masturbate? I don’t perve on real men because it’s unethical. But I am a pervert about fictional men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:27 AM
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Could it be that they’re acting surprised to be nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:05 AM
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Thought we stopped the Oppression Olympics 2020
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:49 AM
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Has it occurred to you that people are being very nice to you for your own mental wellbeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:59 PM
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I don’t think I’ve seen a middle aged man look like a young man, but if you have one please send it my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:58 PM
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“Men have it harder than women in dating” also gets posted constantly. L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:51 PM
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Love a health dose of racism with my sexism in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:09 PM
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From what you’re saying she probably hung around you because she felt sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:34 PM
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Yeah they sexualise actually old men but these men aren’t sexual predators. They just lust after nice old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 01:08 AM
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There’s no argument, I’m just trying not to clarify what you mean by the evolution that women have gone through.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:45 PM
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Well I can't be wrong because I'm not making any claims. I don't know much about evolution because I never studied evolution, but from the sounds of it you have knowledge on evolution? So if that's the case, then why not just share what you have on the topic? I don't have a position to defend on the topic, like I legitimately don't know!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:55 AM
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I still don't understand the part where it's biology or evolution. Like you explain that biology and evolution IS the thing that makes women exploit men, but what is that part? Like you said, is it the physical or the mental part? I am interested to read more about this topic, do you have any scientific papers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:22 AM
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Legit how can you let someone treat you to all these nice things and call them ugly to their face to "humble" them, AND THEN go online and act like the victim because "women have it easier than men". Permanent victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:11 AM
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Wow, so what have women evolved to do? Can you describe it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:42 AM
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How do women do this with biology? I doubt women are fitter or smarter than men, so what sort of evolution do women have do play men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:30 AM
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Look, you can say what you like to me, but you still bungled a good friendship. I have never had a friend who goes out of their way to look out for me in the way this girl sounds like she did for you, so I feel kinda mad that good hearts are squandered on people like you. And yeah, you don't snark at a friend who is literally sharing resources with you. She was a good friend to you and because you had no morals you decided to chase her away by reducing her life to "she's a woman so she got it so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:28 AM
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I have good grooming habits so I assume they were referring to aspects of my body that aren’t easily changed, maybe my face, body, body shape, placement of eyes, nose mouth. Like it could be anything really. Why would I ask someone who humiliated me in public which parts of me exactly they found ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:06 AM
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I'm gonna be 100% real with you, I assume they called me ugly because they felt I was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:56 PM
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Regarding the difference in the twin's attractiveness even though they are the same, yes thy do look the same, but under the patriarchy a lot of features are considered "feminine" and others are considered "masculine". Could it be that the twins looked more pretty and feminine therefore those features tended to look better on the girl twin? Maybe you've overestimating the attractiveness of the male twin. Edit: and yes I think you shouldn't be calling someone ugly after they are looking after you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:43 PM
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I am literally praying that robot girlfriends replace women so I can finally live in peace. I just find it mildly uncomfortable the way that men enjoy harming robots that look realistically human and realistically like young girls. This is uncomfortable because we can go both ways with this stupid robot thing: A. Men get sex bots and finally shut up B. Men get sex robots, for a while they are satisfied, then when they realise they are not satisfied raping and bashing their sexbots then they star…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:38 PM
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I'm sad for you. Could you not simply share your own thoughts anyway? Sometimes people get caught up in their own thinking, or maybe they don't want to pry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:29 PM
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Explain this concept to the guys who called me ugly in high school and university and licked the boots* of only the hottest girls in class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:28 PM
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Wow I've heard of the 4B movement as well. However I have been told by Korean men that this is not a very popular movement and has no power against the mainstream. Are you saying these Korean men are wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:18 PM
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Sorry to hear that's been your experience. Does this happen every time or just with some people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:17 PM
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how do I sign up to live in this country you're describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:08 PM
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Thankyou for explaining. But how much hid this is just this woman’s personal problems and not feminism? I think most women can’t even tell you what feminism is about, and also transactional sex has been around forever? Prostitution was likely the first paid job, so why do you only mention modern day women? I just don’t think Neolithic women had feminism. Would it make more sense then that women from the beginning of time are evil and transactional? Like the Neolithic woman only sleeps with the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:40 PM
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Can you explain to me how feminism unionises women? Like what does feminism say to women that makes it so women are now using sex against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:37 PM
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I can’t believe women successfully revolted against men and I wasn’t invited
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:30 PM
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So you’re saying women have unionised against men? How did women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:58 PM
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So you’re saying a woman can have multiple husbands? Why don’t lonely men be like lonely women and adopt animals? You can have relationships with the animals and pay for sex on the side. What if you used these techniques to get close to a woman and then you stopped once you think she’s attached to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:20 PM
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Why shouldn’t a man have kids? What if the wife wants kids really badly? I still think men’s health is paramount and trumps aesthetics. What if he dies in a horrific long and drawn out way due to the roids and his wife has to look after him in this process? Should she leave him if he gets cancer? Because it doesn’t seem fair that she has to look after a man who doesn’t give her goodlooking kids and is dying from roids overdose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:11 PM
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These are some interesting points. But what if a man gets plastic surgery and doesn’t tell his wife, and then their kid end up with his ugly features. Isn’t that a bit cruel? Would you have to save up for plastic surgery for your children? And with roids, maybe some would be attracted to you, but wouldn’t your health be more important? Also how will you combat premature balding and reduced penis size with roid use?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:59 PM
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How will muscles and plastic surgery get a man a partner? What if the girl finds out that this man has plastic surgery? Won’t she not want to have children with him? I understand men want to be buff, but what if the temptation is too great and they end up using roids?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:53 PM
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Wow, so what would you say to these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:39 PM
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Wow, that’s really sad. Do you think there’s a way to equitable redistribute women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:31 PM
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Definitely everyone can do with improvement. How do you hold a good conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:29 PM
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I am completely illiterate on that topic actually. Can you tell me more about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:22 PM
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What experiments?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:15 PM
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Were those children with the wife or the prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:04 PM
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One thousand woman per day sounds like a lot of hard work, maybe it’s good to outsource sexual labour to model men like this. But wouldn’t too much sex break their legs? Anyways, wishing you all the best on this journey through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:02 PM
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Tens of thousands of women… PER DAY? Or per year? Edit: happy to hear you out if you have statistics. Also send over any studies involving male models vs ugly guys like you would be useful too. My condolences on the no pussy. Maybe a combined prostitution and therapy program might work better for hard cases like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:53 PM
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Sorry I don’t quite get what you mean here? Do you mean that prostitution damages the mins of people who buy or sell prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:49 PM
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peace at last
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:44 AM
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Gonna get downvoted, but can men afford mental healthcare to improve their personalities so that (yes it might work out to be more expensive in the short term) but this might actually improve their lives so that they do end up with a partner? maybe? Prostitutes kiiinda feels like a band aid solution to a male loneliness crisis, male suicide crisis and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:43 AM
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Mental health prostitution is the most insane term lmfao. We are at this point in society. I don't condone prostitution either but honestly the way some men on reddit carry on, they need a good long hug from a whore to fix them because I ain't touching them with a pole. edit: And a strap, some of them need the strap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:41 AM
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Yeah like I can’t think of anything which isn’t… just kinda like “ladies first and opening doors is kind sexist but at least helpful or at least not an issue” lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:58 AM
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I think evil mind games is like, treating her like crap to see if she’ll bother proving herself for him, so like negging basically. This is something taught by those redpill influencers a lot. Basically having no compassion, but like all the time. I think a lot of those listed I find personally attractive. But I can’t say for women in general. To add to your point I think a man with a big beauty routine is a bit of a red flag, like he’s deep in the beauty industry slop and I’m deep in the beauty…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:54 AM
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I have never heard of a male model paying for sex? If he doesn’t pay for sex then he is pure of heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:50 AM
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Your feelings are valid, get help for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:49 AM
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If you cannot stand seeing your FRIEND date, then you are not a friend, you are an angry suitor. You need to distance yourself and go to therapy and talk to a therapist who will support your emotional growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:58 AM
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A discussion about whether men should be able to opt out of legal parenthood when they did not consent to becoming a parent turns into accusations of being anti abortion. - probably because abortion is a big women's rights issue right now. Also men consent to being a parent when they put his dick in her. Next A discussion asking why some women are attracted to abusive men gets answered with statements like no one owes you sex. - I can't quite follow this one, needs more context, but women are at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:53 AM
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I am not asking you to consider my story as an average story, I am just begging you to see my feelings as valid. Putting a woman in a situation where she has to say yes or lose everything is absolutely horrible. Please have some feelings for her aside from "she's pretty I wanna fuck her". She is a PERSON too, she does not want to have to reject a good friend and lose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:47 AM
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attractive toxic masculinity is like when a man refuses to let you carry heavy stuff and driving you places not advocating for government issued girlfriends and playing completely evil mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:38 AM
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The man that cornered me already was dating my best friend. He got close to me while she was attending a funeral overseas, and eventually confessed to me that he loved me. Do you realise the kind of position that put me in? He was also suicidal so I had to make sure he was okay while telling him I wanted nothing to do with him. When my best friend arrived back from the funeral overseas I had to tell her to her face that her boyfriend tried to cheat on her with me. Do you understand the destructi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:34 AM
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No, some men will create illusion that they are actually after a friendship and then use that friendship as a vehicle to escalate to sex or a relationship. This has happened to me. Not all men are upfront about their desires. I am sure the ideal in life or a storybook is to fall in love with your best friend, but that is not the way the world is organised. Even if you had pure intentions and you asked a girl out after being friends with her, she could say no and where do you go from there? She r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:09 AM
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I'd rather be with a man who doesn't cheat even if he has options rather than be with a man who doesn't cheat because he thinks he coudn't pull any women. Like the former is a choice and the latter is just embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:04 AM
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I think that scenario can come off the wrong way to a girl. Like, she's just supposed to accept that this was completely innocent? Now she's going to feel used, or like the friendship was a lie. Going after friends to date is always supremely dicey and breaks up a lot of friend groups. Plenty of guys might also use this technique on purpose to corner a girl, this was done to me. I was doing my friend a favour and spending time with her boyfriend while she was overseas, he then got close to me an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:02 AM
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I mean, I'm sure a man could pay a hooker to hold him while he cries so maybe not necessarily a sex only service. I pay $255 per half hour with my psychologist though, maybe I'm thinking prostitutes deserve a pay rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:49 AM
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I mean sure, go ahead. Most women probably won't touch those sorts of ran through men though. But go knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:47 AM
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Can you see how that can come across the wrong way to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:45 AM
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You can self identify as straight but you absolutely aren’t normal if you can’t like women through dating and can only lie in wait during relationships and then pop the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:39 AM
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If you’re already friends with someone and then you accidentally catch feelings I think is very different to what OP is describing, which sounds to me like it’s befriending women with the intention of trying to figure out if he has feelings or not? The latter is obviously problematic, the former can still ruin relationships so idk why OP recommends it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:20 AM
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No where except night clubs, I’m afraid it’s nowhere except night clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:22 AM
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If you’re not demi then you don’t even have a pathological excuse for being this weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:02 AM
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You can know immediately, then spend time with her with the intention of wanting to know her better. Also the guy who hangs around in the friend/fuck zone is realistically ONLY there as well because he wants to fuck her. So both men want to fuck her and only one man has actually asked her out in a normal way rather than skulking around like a rat hoping she’ll “realise he is an option”. Like what is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:01 AM
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You don’t get to “try out” the woman before you decide she’s your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:59 AM
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This is such a funny and perfect explanation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:58 AM
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Okay but you can’t just befriend a woman, get her emotionally attached, sometimes for years and try and get sex out of her. Did you ever ask what SHE wanted? Like let’s be real. Thats called ✨having no boundaries✨ Nobody develops feelings for a guy or girl immediately. You are not special as an “introverted man”. Generally it takes a little while. But if you have healthy boundaries and good emotional regulation, a friend will not look like a fucktoy ever. If she was into you, you would be told. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:13 AM
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Yeah they just make fun of women for being “crazy cat ladies” which is like… kinda shitty because if you think about it, having some pets is an infinitely more moral and productive way of dealing with loneliness than… creating male centred gangs to try and lobby for like government issued attractive girlfriends or shooting up a school or harassing teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:53 PM
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Maybe men should be more discerning who they get involved with idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:37 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:20 PM
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If these so called high quality men want teenagers then I say go for it. That’s not my problem. Because I got mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:19 PM
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They just shamed me a lot. And sulked afterwards and talked to me seriously about how I made them feel inadequate. That was enough to make me rethink my actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:58 PM
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Not really I just want 20 yr old girlies to be able to enjoy their lives, go to parties, travel, date cute guys, find their favourite hobbies, get a great education and be really happy with where they are at 30 so they can decide who they like, and if they want kids. I find it so funny that 35yr old men had fun in their twenties but would deny their future wife that fun? No, you want to catch girls at 18 and prevent them from living a life so you can put a baby in her, force her to be your maid …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:14 PM
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Real Neanderthals were quite clever thankyou very much 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:21 AM
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Aren’t men more concerned that their girlfriends will hate them for not helping around the house or something? This just seems really unrealistic and specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:03 AM
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Not really, I don’t think I could replace my partner with a dildo. Not even a high end dildo. A man is more than his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:54 AM
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And that’s the difference between yourself and a young girl who was told that her sexuality was shameful her entire life. Most girls are not equipped to identify abusive men because we are taught tot tolerate abusive men starting with our own dads, brothers, teachers. Men’s bodies are sacred and women’s bodies are not sacred, this is what most societies teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:53 AM
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It’s insane. And girls grow up in sexual shame too. Our parents, schools and communities normalise sexual abuse, shame and sexual disfunction so when we’re adults in adult relationships, we don’t know what looks normal. Lack of sex ed and honest sex talk leads to sexual abuse I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:50 AM
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Men act abusively in different ways. So it’s kind of hard to identify abuse because it looks different each time. Men aren’t robots. They’re human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:45 AM
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Cost sunk fallacy, and eventually I picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:45 AM
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I’m totally okay with being replaced with a sex doll if sexual labour is the only thing you think women are good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:44 AM
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Dying from laughter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:01 AM
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One was short, small penis and Chinese. The other one was overweight and white. I wanted to look past their exteriors and love them because everyone deserves a chance. Nowadays I am with a conventionally attractive man who cares about my sex life. You have to kiss some frogs before you get a prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:07 PM
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Dude are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:14 PM
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It’s wild but not uncommon. A small vibrator would upset these men. I never shamed them for not getting me off. I just wanted bodily autonomy. They’d scream and cry and yell at me for it. I’d get the silent treatment the next day. They were probably feeling inadequate. So yeah those men on here saying that it’s offensive for you to pleasure your women? Those are the same men crying in the bedroom (no literally crying, tears and all) when the girl busts out her fingers or a vibrator after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:41 PM
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A lot of male partners I was with didn’t allow me to masturbate after they failed to get me to orgasm. My pleasure meant nothing compared to their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:37 PM
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Men think they can be replaced by a dildo which says a lot about how much value they bring to the relationship and the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:33 PM
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I mean I guess you could just hang around her and follow her around and hope she drops some sex for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:42 PM
1

And that’s fine too? But I’d want my date to be honest about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:20 AM
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And if men do not want to pay then they do not have to pay. They can tell their date “I don’t want women to take advantage of me financially so you can cover dinner”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:15 AM
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If you’re not going to honestly take into account what people say to you and just keep pushing the agenda that women are after men as meal tickets, then why bother? Just go home and don’t talk to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:17 AM
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Then why don’t you talk to your partner about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:03 AM
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Wrong actually they think misogyny is simply not real! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:50 PM
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I mean if it bothers you this much then either don’t pay for dates or don’t date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:45 PM
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I mean I guess, just stay away from women if they’re so dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:43 PM
1

And that’s still insane to me, but it’s more of a capitalist scum thing and less of a woman thing. The average woman isn’t some social climbing slime like she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:21 PM
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Who the hell goes on dates with younger men? Younger men DO NOT want to date older women. I got called “mature aged” for being 4 years older than men at university. Get your facts right and your misogyny in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:15 PM
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This it is mostly a thing with younger women because they have no money. I was constantly broke 18-27 because I had university and was being exploited at dead end jobs. Edit: this is a youth poverty issue, not a “women are evil” issue. We are poor for longer because we need to prove our worth with university degrees. And no more accusations that I abused men for meals, I did not, because my parents covered the cost of me going out. Edit 2: I work in social policy and plenty of women stay with ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:09 PM
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Using the example of a multi millionaire scumbag to explain how women are is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:08 PM
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You wanna talk to my manager about your concerns for men? Wanna dismantle some social policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:37 PM
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We’re only a couple hundred years removed from that. Women still don’t have equal rights. I pay for dates, I am a proud Chinese woman. So idk why you’re accusing me of sh!t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:36 PM
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God I wish I could say this at work, but we need to save women from poverty, homelessness and domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:29 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:17 PM
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I think there’s a lot of structural issues men have to deal with under patriarchy, but this ain’t it chief. If men want to be paid for so bad, they shouldn’t earn money and let women make more money so we can pay for the dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:16 PM
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Again this is insane. I’m telling my manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:15 PM
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Personally I think it I insane which is enough for women to not want to date them. They think they’re in the right which is what’s funny. A lot of this discourse boils down to “I think women have it easier with dating because they get free meals” and it’s like… again insane to me that people think women get educated and work and then date for the food. They also oppose feminism at the same time. The reality is that the more money feeemales make and the more secure her social standing is as a wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:14 PM
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This is so funny because a stingy rich guy with personality issues is basically admitting you’re better off dating a homeless guy or a goat or crab or something. You’re gonna let your life partner die of some preventable disease to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:08 PM
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Go king you absolutely are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:05 PM
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Equating dating with homelessness is absolutely insane my guy. I work in public policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:02 PM
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This is so funny to me. I guess everyone is gonna be not paying for dates while wanting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:00 PM
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This is insane lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:58 PM
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We want.. both?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:56 AM
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Nah I’ve.. definitely failed a lot in all places. Romantically I have failed the most yep yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:42 AM
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This could be answered with a quick google instead. Nobody owes you the history of women’s work and domestic labor. Those things are free online. If you cared, you would be learning about these things already, not “challenging” people on reddit. Let’s be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:34 AM
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I was taught the opposite from a young age and treated much like a financial investment or racehorse. But I still came around and decided that human worth was innate rather than something you have to prove. Also yeah that girl didn’t say anything about OP’s value, that dumbass framing came from his friend. Don’t trust your friends that try to drag you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:29 AM
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I'm less concerned about the older man being a loser and more concerned about the older man potentially misleading a younger woman. This girl, 18-28 has her whole life ahead of her. Could potentially go travelling, go to university, try many different relationships on, is now saddled with a man who can emotionally and financially leverage against her. This is very bad. She is very very young, and deserves to be able to make her own choices in life. I imagine this older man doesn't have much mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:56 AM
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