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Consider this short story I really want (thing that satisfies my immediate desires) Oh wait now that I have (thing that satisfies my immediate desires) I have found out that is not what actually makes me happy, I really want (my long term happiness) and good quality of life. Many such cases This has happened to literally everyone and it takes maturity and introspection to learn what we actually want out of life, easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:19 AM
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Vast majority of people want to love. Many just have an immature and misguided understanding of what love should look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:33 PM
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This is accurate for majority of autistics as far as I know. I’ve put in the work I don’t throw tantrums because I realized if my rational brain is far stronger than emotional brain, (with little connection between the two) then nothing can force me to react emotionally. and I am barely good enough socially to pass as neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:30 PM
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As an autistic man I 100% agree that there is no garontee they will make a good husband or father. Dating autistic imo is a massive gamble because you either get an amazing person or irredeemable shit, with very little in between. I have found it to be incredibly easy to clock people for type of person they will be. Just use psychology knowledge and actively listen, they will tell on themselves every time at least with a subtle queue if you don’t make any assumptions and stay rational. It’s espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:31 PM
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Yea I think we need more info here. As far as we know OP most likely saw a guy drinking matcha and assumed it was performative. If a man happens to like some things women like from his own choice and has a backbone then it’s completely fine. I have never known someone who was obviously being performative to attract anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:42 PM
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This is the real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:18 PM
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Coherent thoughts and this subreddit mix like oil and water. If you want a sort of text or real book for TRP I would assume it would be something more like The 48 laws of power. I would recommend an hour long YouTube summary because that book is super long and dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:44 PM
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Idk what exactly you’re referencing but if we’re all talking about rage bait you fell for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:30 PM
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Feminism, just like TRP, varies wildly in definition based on who you ask. I like to think as a CNA and a football coach I embody healthy masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:26 PM
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I just asked ChatGPT to remind me I don’t have an actual source. Take with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:45 PM
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Yea I kinda misrepresented that. she lived as a man and realized both sides suck. She became sympathetic to men’s struggles as they were never talked about, but still remaining anti-patriarchy and feminist ideologically. She called for both sides to be empathetic and accountable to the other in light of her struggles and revelations and this upset all sides. This slowly drove her to insanity in and out of psych wards until she killed herself with medically assisted suicide years later. Her story…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:57 PM
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Who remembers the name of that one lesbian journalist who went undercover living as a man for a year and killed herself. Edit: Norah Vincent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:30 PM
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We are not normalizing that shit as a society shut that down. Nobody should have to enter another relationship to free abuse. I’ll help her find whatever resources are in the area
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:04 AM
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I didn’t say any of that? Please for the love of god go outside. I’m not responding anymore this is making me feel dumber
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:04 AM
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🤨 are you ok ? Genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:57 AM
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I remember when ragebait was believable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:45 AM
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Mom said it’s my turn to tell everyone to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:47 AM
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I just want a happy long term relationship where we both live in alignment with who we are and love each other for it. We use our skills and both put in the effort until anything is done without needing to compare. Redpill to me is just a lens to see the world. If that relationship looks largely traditional than I want a traditional relationship. It’s really going to be more of a blend of traditional and 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:14 PM
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If women can (correctly) argue that small dick energy is a comment on energy and has nothing to do with the dick itself, then logically men can say AWALT as a warning even if it’s occasionally wrong. There is no debate to be had here. It is literally just a definition that some people can’t seem to understand because it upsets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:10 PM
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Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:57 PM
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Ok this seems genuine enough so here’s my opinion. Not to be confused with the entirety of redpill agreeing. Looks generally fade but a few wrinkles is not a big deal to me. A woman letting herself go as she ages is a big deal. Both because it’s physically unattractive and it hints at deeper issues. The lady in the clip seems attractive enough so that shouldn’t be an issue. However we all know that attractive and charming people often get approached, so if you are not getting approached then you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:01 AM
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This is entirely a personal problem and is not limited to any one opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:14 AM
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“Mostly outside of his control” Highly debatable. Saying mostly here is disingenuous, but I’ll give you 50%. That being said, it does not take away from the fact that women’s attraction to a man is relative to other men’s attractiveness. And due to the 80/20 rule, no matter what the lower half of men will always be settled for at best and left with nothing at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:49 AM
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Real. I can’t believe how some of these guys keep arguing with me about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:58 PM
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Thank you for being honest about the root of this. My brother, what a women spreads about you after breakup has nothing to do with reality. It’s all about her saying shit to make her feel better about herself. Her friends might pretend to agree with her, but a grown woman knows your ex is full of shit when they go on those tirades slandering you. You’re always the bad guy not matter what and she’s always the perfect victim 99% of the time. After I broke up with my last ex she did the same shit, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:01 PM
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Same reason muscles are important to a bodybuilder, I just like it. And you don’t have to win the genetic lottery to be proud of yourself either. It’s not like I don’t have love for BBWs or milf appreciation. or any other average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:52 PM
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My guy. A girl doesn’t know your dick size until you show or tell her. If she “isn’t interested in your size” and you didn’t get that far then something else is the issue. Have you ever been where you’re taking your clothes off in foreplay and she starts laughing at your penis for being too small for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:52 PM
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First of all, I’ve been with 1 woman and her pussy smelled terrible, haven’t chased since. And I never claimed to be a sage or anything I’m just saying my experiences as a man with a big dick. And how exactly does a man have experience in both having a small and big dick? My tongue is pretty average sized and I also got fingers so I can get a decent idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:43 PM
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When did I say size is a big deal? The experience of sex means your size plus how you use it. Energy is correlated to size, but it is not uncommon for a small dick man to have big dick energy. Your energy is your responsibility. My penis size matters to me. Not women. This is the distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:24 PM
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Bold of you to assume I actually get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:19 PM
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I love my penis. I’ll always know that whatever goes wrong I’ll always have a massive cock to guide me like the North Star. That being said it’s important to understand that having small/big dick energy has nothing to do with the actual size of the dick. It’s all about the energy commonly associated with each side. If a man is constantly trying to prove his masculinity he has little dick energy because he’s probably insecure about his penis. If a man has subtle confidence then he has big dick en…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:37 PM
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Bro is horny and wants a woman to help this time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:47 PM
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Exactly. Can’t defend his horny ass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:46 PM
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You know I love autistic women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:45 PM
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So true. There’s probably a huge overlap between the men that can’t understand their relationship issues beyond “something is wrong but idk what, oh well wait why did she leave out of nowhere”, and the ones that say “she should’ve seen the signs he was going to be an abuser”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:00 AM
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Men do need to realize society does also set up women for failure being happy in a relationship. Everywhere they are told that they are all special and wonderful and deserve only the best and they don’t need to do anything themselves. If they don’t get a top tier man they are unhappy because they are settling, if they do they are unhappy because it doesn’t feel right because there isn’t any reason for him to actually choose her and she’s not good enough. This is just 1 powerful example
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:42 PM
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Girls appear to mature faster because the average adult woman is less mature than the average adult man. Sue me that’s just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:27 PM
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Women are generally much better with culture of valuing other people for the sake of people instead of just transactionally. Us men should begin to shift and adopt this more often
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:30 AM
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Yes most people will follow the path of least resistance. Not much to be said here unless any individual believes they are different, and they may or may not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:50 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:44 AM
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finally someone has the correct answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:42 AM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:28 AM
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This is the correct answer. I think people only notice the bad men is because they are just louder online and barely social overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:24 AM
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You do have to admit she has very well worded stupidity. And as someone who works in schools you are 100% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:09 PM
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Not sure what point this guys trying to make. I’ve actually had this talk before with my last ex that I’m ok with your past 2 relationships being toxic since you learn from it, but you have to actually learn from it and not make same mistakes over and over. I did genuinely care but I can’t help someone who can’t help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:10 PM
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Interesting nobody else is talking about size ever being too big. Stopped me before
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:59 AM
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Im not sure where you’re going with saying don’t dish it out if you can’t take it. I’m perfectly capable of both and it’s just a weird thing to say here, not the own you think it is. If someone told me that my opinions are shit because they are entirely based off of emotion and self preservation and I responded by lashing out and throwing around baseless accusations then I’d look pretty stupid. Fair warning anything beyond this point if I respond further is going to be pure rage bait and I’ll ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:23 PM
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It looks like you have lots of anger and want to take it out on me. Is there anything specific you want to talk about so we aren’t throwing around strong assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:51 PM
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I can’t speak for everyone but even though I think they’re almost always wrong and typically stupid, I still want to learn as much as I can from everyone and set ego aside. I always accept the possibility that I may be wrong and put forth effort into wanting to find the truth, wherever that leads me. But roughly (making this up) 80% of the time their opinions are straight up shit, 19% a grain of truth with questionable applications, and 1% factual and insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:59 AM
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Not a woman but exactly this. Not sure how this is hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:47 PM
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Absolutely right. Economic changes and technology changes historically are the two big game-changers for social politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:26 AM
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Thanking god it took me a solid minute to figure out what NSA stood for now I’m not chronically online anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:33 PM
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Yes I would say the same about the gender swap on a micro level. And I once fell into it once but recognized it quickly (for a teenager at the time) and never fell into the trap again by learning the right lessons. Once major difference though on a macro level is that roughly 60%? Of young men are single and a large subset of them are desperate for anything at all while also not really knowing how to “play the game” without getting manipulated as a provider. Women by contract are only roughly 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:10 PM
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That’s one big subset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:06 AM
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That’s bullshit surely it has to be more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:05 AM
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Everything you said is technically correct. The female version is the friendzone though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:27 AM
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I’m glad some other men took this one because I was gonna be mean lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:52 PM
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If you read between the lines Husband material just means “I’m not attracted to you, but getting with you would give me a good quality of life”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:35 PM
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… bro you can’t say the stereotype of black people liking watermelon isn’t fair for xyz, (which I agree with, and I have nothing against blacks or watermelons) but still admit it’s true. At the end of the day it’s true or it isn’t and that’s what stereotypes are useful for determining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:31 PM
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I can strawman too!!! Why does blue pill not understand that despite your situation you are still responsible for your actions. Stereotypes exist for a reason and especially with women it is rare they are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:51 PM
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Channels of married women telling young women to lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:16 PM
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There are some channels on YouTube afaik don’t remember names bc I’m not that into genderwars but as you can guess their audience is mostly men and women click off at any sight of accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:08 PM
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Great long answer. I’m going to add that the short answer to this is just to try to put your own biases, desires, and insecurities aside to judge people as objectively as possible by their actions. This is the biggest reason why men are vastly better at noticing abuse and tell women to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:59 AM
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Since you’re essentially paying for a live in gf for a day for the duties and need to support the actual business the women are likely under I would imagine silver tier would be roughly 200$ a night with materials provided for cook/clean and no extra fees for uncomfortable acts or time related fees. So 200$ minimum, diamond would probably be closer to 1000+ and may lead to a class of women doing it solely for a small side hustle (or intro point by selling purity) and men paying every once in awh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:40 AM
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The only RED flags are professions that require a lifestyle which I would not be compatible with for a woman. No truck drivers, flight attendants, or execs with no outside life. I want to spend quality time with her often. There are many Yellow/orange flags in professions based on what type of people they generally attract but if the deal is otherwise too good to pass up then I would settle for it. OF/model/influencer/streamer type, law enforcement, military, HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:29 AM
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I don’t know shit about the industry so if it was up to me the market would decide and I would try to make some form of branch for OSHA and fair trade regulations but be largely hands off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:54 PM
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The biggest downside I see to this is that our culture would probably shift towards unloving and purely transactional even more than it already is. The biggest upside is that it would be a much better alternative for current prostitutes to be able to work and not go through nearly as much exploitation from pimps. Who knows, they may use the skills learned in the job to become a chef! I would support it for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:05 PM
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My lesbian parents are divorced and both are bitter lonely people. one follows an ideology aligning more with blue pill and the other more with RP and putting herself as the man. Make of this what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:33 AM
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I was 100% with you until saying you should leave a man who is overly interested in your sexual history, Unless he is being weird and creepy obviously. It’s perfectly valid for a man to care about past relationships/sex/rel with father because it is accurate for the overwhelming majority of cases in predicting a woman’s behavior for the future. Have you ever seen a woman truly overcome a deep struggle of the past? I sure as hell haven’t, but Ive seen it with a few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:29 AM
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Or women could just take a step back from loving the attention and get better at judging people. Or just listen to the men in their lives, but that requires accountability and objectivity and will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:21 AM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:55 AM
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OP do you need someone to talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:36 PM
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Real as fuck. Also Convo needs to be had about mods favoring women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:39 AM
3

The correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:45 AM
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Relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:43 AM
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Can’t have adult decision making if there is no adult accountability. The more I’m on this subreddit the less I believe in women’s sufferage since I get to see what they actually believe and how society is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:04 AM
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It’s a really good thing that voting is anonymous and nobody will ever know who you voted for unless you tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:37 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:00 PM
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My thoughts on this post Sees title: this definitely came from a woman who doesn’t know shit and wants to complain. Sees user flair: woman, knew it. Skims post: terminally online takes. Sees top comment: glad this is getting called out, why am I still even on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:53 PM
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Holy shit is it seriously not easy to tell for women? That would explain so much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:08 AM
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I I think people are getting tripped up on the wording of the post or just are only reading the first half. You may want to put the disclaimers at the top of the post for directness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:52 PM
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There is still some basic generic advice that works. Rule 1 and 2, Good hygiene, reasonably healthy, have friends, build a life. Believing women’s words over actions is where men go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:24 PM
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Came here to say this. The key word is domestic VIOLENCE. Others are called manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 PM
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OP changed it after getting called out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:47 PM
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It’s a competition and the only people who win are the ones who don’t play
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:53 PM
6

Short answer the upsides and downsides pretty much cancel out imo. But everyone has their own opinion/values
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:16 PM
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1st and only time I had sex it was genuinely awful because of how terrible she was. If someone asks I’ll go into more detail
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:37 AM
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My personal experience has been the complete opposite overall, especially working retail dealing with male and female karens. MOST LIKELY what is happening with you is that men will try to set you straight and engage when you say something stupid as a man, but as a woman it typically isn’t worth it to engage as men since there is a very high chance you just want to complain and aren’t rational. Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:22 PM
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I’m glad someone is doing it but I would rather touch grass is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:45 PM
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OP why do you bother spending so much time writing out basic facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:30 PM
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OP is rolling in his grave with these female comments. But he really wasted so much effort to post something obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:43 PM
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I’m ok with finances but a lazy woman will bring problems with living together. Yellow flag as many lazy people aren’t actually lazy, just lacking purpose and are unhappy. Being addicted to porn and fast food is a red flag in 99% of cases as a general indication of mental health. I’m ok with bringing the smarts, no offline friends is a general indicator for bad but can be respectable. lack of ambition is ok only if she is completely happy with supporting mine and she won’t just get bored. A genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:38 PM
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The real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:19 PM
2

You are describing a below average person. If you have a list of things with 50% chance then the average person does half of them and does not do the other half. I agree with the point but there is good amount of negotiating and settling to be done if you can pick and choose which vices you’re dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:27 AM
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And the truth comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:15 AM
3

More like imagine hearing a different language, you can repeat it sound for sound and not understand what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:56 PM
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My single mother was used to be a therapist. Can confirm she was terrible at understanding men and in conversation with me claimed that it literally was not taught for her masters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:37 PM
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More men need to understand this the difficulty of SAHM duties is easy but it fucking sucks to do something so boring and monotonous all day every day. Humans need conflict and purpose in life otherwise they decay into a husk of their potential! “Being bored” doesn’t mean I can’t watch tv, it means “I have nothing in my life to give me a strong purpose/conflict and I will continue to seek it out anywhere I can” which often means going after a flawed man who she wants to try to fix
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:49 AM
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Came here to say this. Only people who genuinely believe this are extremely downbad simps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:05 PM
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Uh… check your flair before you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:51 PM
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Fair, thought I would try to provide some explanation since op did not cover it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:51 PM
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Bait used to be subtle. If you genuinely don’t know then you won’t listen to anything I say. Im not validating that to deserve a real response
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:09 PM
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Within the confines of the internet debate there isn’t really anything you can say that I know of. (I’m always willing to hear you out unless you’re clearly trolling but I can’t speak for every man.) with every women’s counter i have seen so far in this thread men can just go back to the argument of “if your data says that women aren’t doing it, then why have we all had the experience of going through it.” Flip the genders and it is pretty similar to women complaining about catcalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:06 PM
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Not OP but the only real way to convince me that women aren’t like that is for them to not blatantly act like it. Surely we can both agree that any sort of statistics will be completely poisoned by the current social climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:13 PM
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Finally someone else sees this. “Anecdotes don’t count, but we are also going to dox you, ruin you with false accusations, and take your livelihood if you try to make anything providing statistical data to go against the hive mind” I’ve also had the same experience with any woman who ever had power in my life. They genuinely don’t understand their own mind like us men do and it reflects every time they have any power. TBF though it is much easier for women to get away with it since their nature …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:59 PM
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Long read but yea
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:24 PM
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What am I projecting exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:12 AM
1

Guess that makes most people (including me) a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:18 AM
6

You won’t be starving but you won’t be fully satisfied either if you can’t get that steak you’re craving
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:32 AM
6

Stealing this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:57 AM
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It’s a different type of connection between friends and lovers. And I’m one and done with fucking a guy friend to make up for the lack of worthwhile women, it does not work. I would absolutely agree that for any individual, most of what makes them unhappy is in their power to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:28 AM
2

This guy fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:45 PM
5

Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:03 PM
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Op I have to give you props for this one. I have been asking for an age poll for a while on this subreddit but this post managed to get a ton of people to blatantly tell on themselves. I think some form of basic relationship/ social skills education would be a decent idea but idk if doing it in schools is good because there will be more problems and side effects everywhere you try to meddle in. For example what happens if the teacher has their own opinions and differs from curriculum and what ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:02 PM
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Vast majority of the time someone says they want someone who gives without wanting reciprocation they want a doormat. But since you hold yourself to that standard aswell and can back it up with actions it is 100% valid. I’m in the same situation holding myself to standards and not seeing others do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:10 PM
3

men like “insert specific preference here” usually height/weight/personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:08 AM
4

Women here are really not getting it. The point isn’t that attractive people attract people, it’s that women are downright awful towards men they don’t find attractive solely because they’re unattractive. Men do not do this nearly as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:06 AM
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I would never hold someone to a standard that I didn’t meet myself, people here are missing the difference between standards and preferences. A standard is nearly objective for SMV like attractiveness, status, and income. A preference is something that varies entirely on the person like hair color and personality (outside of the basics everyone agrees on.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:52 PM
5

Ding ding ding! She doesn’t want to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:13 AM
6

GO OUTSIDE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:38 PM
9

Yep. This man is definitely made of straw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:36 PM
12

I want whatever they are smoking. Always gonna be that one guy who thinks everyone is mid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:09 AM
4

Reminds me of a convo I had to have w an ex gf who wanted to be dom but I had to explain how subbing actually works. Not many young people actually have good dom energy or actual good sub energy and it’s no fun. Porn corrupted everyone’s idea of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:15 PM
7

You’re right bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:22 AM
2

And anorexic but those standards may be too high lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:19 AM
4

I don’t do this at all. Can I say everything in the post??? Or do you just want men to suffer in silence, single, while women are shit with 0 consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:17 PM
3

Absolutely right. I just wanted to point out than SOME men are being unreasonable in response to SOME women being unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:10 PM
16

This right here. There are plenty of times when womens standards are insane but maybe a majority of the time the standards are things many people lack, but things every functioning adult should have. These boys say women only want a perfect looking millionaire with incredible social skills and emotional availability with introspection. The same people also don’t have any care/hygiene/exercise routine for looks, work a shit job and barely support themselves if that with no intention of building a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:34 PM
7

This and immediately after do something whimsical and childish to balance it out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:57 PM
3

Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:35 PM
36

“Mom said it’s my turn to post this question today”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:46 PM
10

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:22 AM
45

Both of these double standards are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:57 AM
9

Bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:18 PM
5

I always try to uplift other men. Guess I have every right to complain about society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:59 PM
16

Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:53 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:35 PM
1

What kind of answer are you looking for here? Is it supposed to ask men to choose between sexless love and loveless sex? The first choice is just describing a good relationship with no catch, the second is just fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:16 AM
1

Emotional intimacy is much more fulfilling than just physical. I can enjoy emotional intimacy 24/7 rather than just maybe an hour for physical. I also prioritize personality over looks and I prioritize someone who is fun and interesting over looks and libido easily. I would like to see why anyone would pick 2 other than being afraid of emotion intimacy because I don’t see it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:30 AM
1

1 without any doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:07 AM
7

“I refuse to believe feminists are stupid” Well there’s your problem. I’ve Never seen a woman who is actually able to see from mans perspective without baselessly victimizing herself. Closest thing we got are grifters and that doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:27 PM
13

This. Every vague question gets an equally vague answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:01 AM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:25 AM
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All good man. I may not get much attention from women but I get much more from gay men to make it better, only problem is that I’m straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:13 AM
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Yes in a heartbeat because it would replace the attention I never got from any father figure 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:16 AM
5

NNnnoooooooooooooo😞
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:10 PM
1

Well mediocre is a a step up from my ex so yes, I’d never put a ring on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:33 PM
3

Bold of you to assume I actually want to have a real convo rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:00 AM
5

Send me a million dollars. If you understand this message and do not obey then you are a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:57 AM
2

Seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:32 PM
1

Every once in awhile there’s good discussion but mainly it’s entertainment and messing around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:05 PM
1

Fair enough. I don’t know shit about periods so I wish you luck with your expertise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:44 PM
4

I don’t talk about prostates with women so no. Although I have unfortunately dealt with “mansplaining” about penises and how men think in general and get everything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:11 AM
3

I’ve personally seen this far more often form women than men. This absolutely goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:19 AM
20

A few and they all do Only 1 Yes easily Ehh I do good with making “work friends” but have a hard time making that real friends Edit: Damn I thought I was bad, some of these responses are just sad. men or women too DM me if you really need someone to talk to for a few mins
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:21 PM
2

This is the real answer it’s about money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:44 AM
-1

Yep sounds about right. Glad so many other men are also calling this shit out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:27 AM
2

^
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:26 AM
1

I think some of the men are trying to emphasize that people will do whatever they get away with to an extent, but everyone disagrees on where exactly the line is drawn before the moral compass should override doing whatever we can. I draw that line very early on since I believe that how people do the little things is how they do the big things and I have my actions to show for who I am and I’m proud of it. This seems personal for everyone so it looks like it is bound to not make much sense and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:12 PM
1

Op does not speak for all men on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:08 PM
1

Well I hope that I am an example that fully knowing and saying one is sexist doesn’t mean they use it as an excuse to say whatever benefits them or spout out whatever they feel if there is not at least some truth behind it. I never thought I would be having this conversation so I’m not sure what else to say lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:56 AM
1

Nah all she did was whine and had almost no actual personality and a huge victim complex. I decided I would rather stay single than deal with that shit. I have good relationships with all of my female coworkers but at the end of the day thats what every girl I see does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:32 AM
6

Nah I was sexist then I got a gf and continued to be just as sexist if not even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:54 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:09 PM
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Lmao you got some balls actually responding to them. We both know they are not capable of a real discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:59 PM
13

Absolutely This
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:56 AM
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I’m not going to debate this. Here is your daily reminder to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:30 AM
2

Fair enough I’ll take your word for it. Obviously Im going to need more than 1 persons opinion though to fully judge since I know gym well and nothing about makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:17 AM
7

Tbf, as a man and a personal trainer, it doesn’t sound like you have any clue how much time and effort the gym and lifestyle takes. This goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:46 AM
1

You are absolutely right. What/how do you want the guys to learn about makeup and style other than “shits hard and we’re actually doing important stuff to us when we take an hour to get ready”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:44 AM
1

lol the obvious hole in the logic. You would be nothing if we took away everything you are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:45 AM
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1st of all, I never changed the definition and I would like you to point out when I did. Lying by omission being wrong is a moral guideline to build a worldview around, not a hard and fast rule. Just like how we have free speech but we can’t yell fire in a crowded theatre. “He is willfully concealing other relationships because he knows the truth will change the situation” idk about this one chief, I’ve seen it all too often that it really doesn’t and the girl just tries to win him over from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:25 PM
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Ok found the problem! Lying by omission does not apply if he never said he’s dating you in the first place, which is why one of the most common lines ever is “baby I don’t wanna put labels on what we have.” If you still think it’s lying by omission and morally wrong then consider the social effects of this new social fact. An employer would have to give a promotion to every worker who works hard thinking that they Will get one, otherwise they are in the wrong. Parents will have to give their chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:12 PM
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Tf you mean being lied to. Those men aren’t the ones lying, they just let you believe whatever you want so they get you lmao. Y’all lying to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:52 PM
23

Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:53 AM
1

Absolutely. The women that talk about a man needing to cook because he needs to eat too are the same ones who go starfish in bed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:45 AM
0

That’s what I hear a lot of, I cannot weigh in on that topic myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:50 PM
0

It is true that individual experiences can vary wildly and that can skew broader judgements. At the same time, I cannot make a full informed judgement of something if I have not seen something for myself or have any experience with it. I am not doubting your experiences and I do consider them, but it would be irresponsible of me to take what you say as fact when you also have a limited perspective of your situation and having as many as possible perspectives including my own is the best answer. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:24 PM
1

True, I am much happier single than I was with a shitty woman. But still I don’t really see nearly as much women put any effort into themselves or make any sacrifices compared to men. All of this only applies to those below 30 older men and women are about the same generally with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:54 PM
1

That is true. But still many women expect a man to make their sacrifice but haven’t made theirs or have no intention of ever making any. Yes I’m aware that logic goes both ways but the unsuccessful men got societal punishment for it while women don’t as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:42 PM
-2

Absolute facts my man Dating just like everything else is a skill and with a greater than average about of hard work out in almost anyone can become greater than average at it. this is from someone who had absolutely 0 hope in myself and absolutely nobody had any hope for me 4 months ago but I’m starting to barely reap the rewards now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:23 PM
6

The correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:47 PM
15

“Women mature faster than men” NO THE ACTUAL FUCK THEY DONT. People who say that only measure in ways that bias women, like seeing liking video games as immaturity. If you measure it by looking at things like have a broad perspective on the world, not being quick to judge, being able to ask for help but also putting in the work yourself to get through your problems. More than that obviously but you get the point. Then men and women are equally bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:16 PM
4

I think there is a distinction to be made between saying “ I deserve this, but it’s my responsibility to go out and get it” and saying “I deserve this, and they better give it to me for free.” For example, People deserve social security because they paid into it when they were younger. They are “entitled” to it but we as a society agree that it’s justified
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:43 AM
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No two numbers are the same so men and women cannot be equal is dumb. 3,4,6,7 are all different numbers but 4+6 and 3+7 are both 10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:52 PM
7

58 DIFFERENT men. Mileage could be much higher if they fucked one multiple times
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 03:26 PM
1

Mood af
/r/MensRights19/08/21 09:48 PM
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