pyrehoula Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory? Did I say that? No, nor implied it. Yes you did. I said, Higher rates of divorce are not necessarily a bad thing. to which you responded, Yes, they are, when you factor in the impact of a divorce on children. You said that higher rates of divorce are always bad because of how they impact children. I really don’t like having to break down what someone else said for them because they either put such little effort into a response that they forgot the words that are right in front of them or can’t a…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/19 04:31 PM
2	What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory? Divorce is not the worst thing that can happen to a child. Living in constant turmoil, picking up toxic interpersonal habits, or witnessing and/or being a victim of violence are much, much more damaging.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/19 06:01 PM
26	What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory? Higher rates of divorce are not necessarily a bad thing. When domestic violence shelters became legal in the US, divorce rates skyrocketed. Many said that domestic violence shelters were causing divorce and should be shut down for ruining marriages. However, we know that marriages weren’t being ruined by shelters; marriages that were already ruined were now escapable by victims of abuse. The higher rates of divorce were proof that shelters were doing a good job of helping victims escape their ab…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/19 02:58 PM
33	What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory? I agree with you on the cohabitation thing. My granny was the most “red pill” woman I’ve ever met in my life and her biggest piece of advice to me was to live with a man before marrying him. My grandfather was extremely kind to her until they moved in together; he became verbally abusive and extremely controlling two days into living together in their first home after their honeymoon. She made it “work,” meaning kept him as content as possible without making herself or her children live in const…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/19 02:52 PM
5	Re-dyed my (28) hair against my boyfriend's (28) wishes. Now I'm "on probation" because he feels very disrespected. I need to be on my best behavior now! I don’t think you understand what a bad dye job looks like. Blonde hair needs to be toned if it’s brassy/yellow or else you look like a Dollar Tree knockoff of a troll doll. We’re not talking about her going out and dying her hair hot purple after he asked her to stop dying her hair. We’re talking about a maintence treatment to make her look decent.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/19 10:20 AM
21	Re-dyed my (28) hair against my boyfriend's (28) wishes. Now I'm "on probation" because he feels very disrespected. I need to be on my best behavior now! A true leader doesn’t get what he wants by way of force and threats. A true leader doesn’t get what he wants if his desires are damaging to his partner’s mental health. A true leader does not force his will in areas that he’s not as knowledgeable about as you. Your man is not acting in a way that tells me that he’s a leader, he’s acting in a way that tells me that he’s a domineering asshole. You need to recognize this for yourself so that you can bring it up with him. You’re not even married and…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/19 12:03 AM
23	How do I become more warm and caring? Since your partner is saying that this is a change from the usual, it’s likely not that you just have a crap personality, you’re selfish, or your lazy. There’s probably a reason why you’ve been colder recently. Have you been under stress? Are you sleeping and eating enough? Are you surrounded by toxic people? You can’t pour out of an empty bucket; give to yourself so you can give to those around you. While you work on that, make sure you’re also smiling when you’re speaking with others, asking p…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/19 06:27 PM
5	Why do women, including myself, enjoy being feminine? The society we live in says that women should be feminine and men should be masculine. I disagree with those calling it innate; no little girl is born with a desire to wear high heels. We don’t see feminine traits or actions in any other animal but humans. The personality traits we associate with femininity are taught. Were they not, then why are women raised in more traditional households more feminine, and men raised in more progressive households more feminine? Something that is innate is som…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/19 02:51 PM
8	I think I'm low value...how do I increase my probability of finding a partner? Girl, there are women who would kill to be in your shoes. A lot of (possibly most?) men would love to be the one to teach their lifetime partner everything about intimacy. You’re young, and youthfulness is inherently attractive. That said, your feelings are completely valid and okay to feel, even if they aren’t entirely based on the reality of your situation. Feel them, realize that your thought process isn’t entirely rational, then let them go. From what you’ve written, it seems like the most u…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/19 05:40 PM
1	What are your femininity/beauty routines? I use this. I wet my hair and then separate it into big sections and then massage it against my scalp. I thought a scalp scrub sounded like a mess at first, but it’s not bad at all. It takes a second to rinse it all out, but it’s super gentle and not too hard to get out of your hair.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/19 05:16 AM
5	What are your femininity/beauty routines? Check out the info on r/skincareaddiction. TL;DR - find a cleanser and moisturizer that suits your skin and sun cream that you like the feel of. You can add actives (AHAs, BHAs, vitamin C, retinol...) after further research if they suit the goals you have for your skin. Dive into the sidebar and make posts if you have questions. I’ve cut sulfates and silicones out of my hair routine. If you feel that you must use silicones, at least understand the damage that it does to your hair. It’s the hair …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/19 10:59 PM
2	Hello from a man ... okay	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/19 06:18 PM
10	Feeling uneasy about socialising with boyfriend's ONS “You cope by dumping him” - possibly the best line of relationship advice I’ve ever heard.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/19 09:45 PM
1	Guy says he wants to travel with girl before dating (ie making things official). I call BS. Thoughts? I’m with you. That’s just... strange. I totally get wanting to travel with someone before marriage because you get to see them in all sorts of different situations and learn more about them, but this is way too soon. Also, am I the only one getting serial killer vibes? He wants to lure this girl away from her hometown with promises of commitment. That’s creepy. Maybe I’m paranoid, but the world is a dangerous place for women. Better off paranoid than dead. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/19 11:33 AM
2	Had a talk with a lady that’s into BDSM. She confirms that the way feminists promote their views of the world is extremely insecure. And she did say women want to be in charge, but not 1000% fully. And that she is still looking for a man that is a lion, and takes charge even in her late 40’s One only needs to read how all these girls write about the moments when their dom actually comforts them when a session went wrong. Or when they celebrate that he was gentle and rewarded them with gentle strokes. It is those moments they long for. Everything else is the price they pay for feeling loved once in a while and in all of them you can see the sadness that they are unable to love or feel loved without needing to play power and guilt and punishment and pain. Every single person needs to …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/19 02:56 PM
1	Had a talk with a lady that’s into BDSM. She confirms that the way feminists promote their views of the world is extremely insecure. And she did say women want to be in charge, but not 1000% fully. And that she is still looking for a man that is a lion, and takes charge even in her late 40’s The problem is that it isn’t safe or sane, and many people in the BDSM community now agree that it isn’t and have swapped to “RACK,” or risk-aware consensual kink. Telling me that my experience has soured me is like telling someone that reading a textbook has soured them against believing that the earth is flat. I was part of the largest kink community in my region of the country. Almost every single one of the ~500 women I met showed immediate signs of serious mental illness, and every single o…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/19 06:48 AM
-1	Had a talk with a lady that’s into BDSM. She confirms that the way feminists promote their views of the world is extremely insecure. And she did say women want to be in charge, but not 1000% fully. And that she is still looking for a man that is a lion, and takes charge even in her late 40’s No, I’m saying that BDSM isn’t a healthy, functional relationship. Been there, done that. No healthy relationship is founded on one party’s desire to self harm and the other party’s fetish for physical/sexual assault.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/19 04:25 AM
1	Had a talk with a lady that’s into BDSM. She confirms that the way feminists promote their views of the world is extremely insecure. And she did say women want to be in charge, but not 1000% fully. And that she is still looking for a man that is a lion, and takes charge even in her late 40’s There is a massive difference between a man taking on the role of the leader because he loves and cherishes a woman and a man getting off to beating his ten girlfriends.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/19 04:11 AM
7	Reassurance? This is tricky and depends on a lot of factors. Even though you’ve been pretty detailed, it’s difficult to give advice because I don’t know everything. When you asked for reassurance, were you communicating kindly and effectively? Were you attempting to be manipulative, consciously or not? Were you requiring his attention every second of every day? Were your overly paranoid of everything he said or did? Were you putting a burden on him that your average person would or would not be able to handl…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/19 01:11 AM