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| 1 | Women who lost their virginity at a late age, when did you lose it? Why?I’m Asian as well, and I probably experienced the same kind of social stigma you’re talking about. I didn’t lose my v til late 20-early 30. There’s nothing wrong to stay a v. I was worried that I might stay as a virgin like you when I was in my early 20. But I’m really happy that I didn’t gave out my virginity just because I worried that I might stay a virgin forever. I lose my virginity to my love because I feel safe and loved by him. If part of the reason that you’re unsure about staying as a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Is it fixable or am I better off exploring a better situation?My bf said this to me when we talked about some serious things(trauma childhood): “it might not be your fault, but it is your responsibility to fix it.” ——————————————————————————— It sounds like he’s ok to live with no intimacy, but that’s him, not you. It won’t work if one side is compromised for the other side. It might work in short term, but long relationship only happens when both side invests on each other. Have a conversation with your husband and be honest with him, let him know that yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with guilt surrounding your (unfeminine) image?If your bf doesn't care, then it's you giving yourself too much pressure my friend. The stress and the pressure are coming from inside. You're creating the environment (your brain) that makes yourself feeling guilty. I can tell you're very thankful to your bf, but the relation of "he's kind to me, therefore, I must return his kindness by lose my weight fast. I must be punished by not doing it fast" could be "he's kind to me, therefore, I must return his kindness by making myself healthy and grow… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with guilt surrounding your (unfeminine) image?I was weighing 122 and I’m 171 right now. I suffered from the guilt and couldn’t really have a social life before too. I’m still chubby but my mental is at a much better place now because I was able to change the way of my thoughts about myself. Before I would blame myself for being fat and ugly, and wanting to feel better I then binge eating to get that short moment of satisfaction. After that, my feeling went worse because I regret eating so much. It’s a bad mental cycle. (It might be differen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 4 | How to not feel guilty about money in a relationship?Hi there, I apologize for my broken English in advance. I’m in a similar situation like you. My BF helps me a lot financially and I want to repay him in any way I can. I also feel the guilt and feel like I have to be independent. But what I realize is that being independent doesn’t mean I should refuse financial aid from anyone/SO just because I need to be independent and not feel guilty if I can’t support myself. What I do to make myself less guilty is realizing and accepting that this is him t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Advice NeededHi, when someone approached me with friendliness, I usually keep an assumption that person would like to gain something from me. What they want could be only for their advantage, or could be beneficial for both that person and me. But I rarely encounter anyone that approached me with good intentions. In your case, you haven’t see him for a very long time, and time can change many things. Pretend that he’s a complete stranger. Before letting him join into your life, you have a house and a daughte… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/22 10:25 PM |
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