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I’m 31 and I have a 16 yo brother. I have a rule now, if the girl is closer in age to him than I, she is too young for me. It makes me feel weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:16 AM
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I like this “run through hoe” title. More often than not she’s had sex with less than 5 ppl prior and one of them was another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:52 AM
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That reminds me of a guy talking about his friends experience. “My mom said she and my dad waited til they were married. Until I looked through their wedding photos and saw a three year old me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:51 AM
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I'm gonna b honest I c a lot of women say they try to communicate this and most saying their partners don't listen. So it could b both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:26 PM
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r/tinder r/bumble As a member of those subs I see it damn near everyday. I see some post of women complaining in here too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:45 PM
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One thing I keep in mind when dealing with anyone stating stats online or irl doesn’t matter, “Statistics can be manipulated on any level if the person I am telling does not have context on how, where, who, or when the statistics were collected.” Idk when ppl got to a point they believe someone off the internet off the basis of some random stats. Give me a source I am gonna scrutinize the source. Idgaf some study done in Sweden 1972 does not give u credence to say women wanted short men 1998. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:02 PM
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I feel like dropping it would b just be respectful then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:13 PM
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It is off the table to ask y they won't do it? Cuz now I'm concerned. If the act brings up bad memories of a poor or bad experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:06 PM
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30 yo. I don’t like the idea of handling everything financially. Not cuz I can’t but I wanna feel like I’m dating an adult not hanging out with a high schooler. Dating is hard no one should feel like they are carrying it alone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:35 PM
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Well I like big women so idc bout any of this. This feels like something not where ppl would b uncompromising on cuz I firmly believe u can’t make something or someone attracted to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:04 PM
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This a weird question. How u gonna hate someone for taking a vow of chastity and living a life of piety. Ppl who typically go out of their way to help children and help impoverished ppl. This a weird question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:48 AM
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It puts me off if it comes out of nowhere. Like if I walked up to a woman and started talking about my 90s wrestling knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:23 PM
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This whole situation still feels as silly as anything I've done all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:11 PM
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Oh man showed up too late to read the post. Boooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:39 PM
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Yeah I am just going to repeat what I said about this topics adjacent yesterday; I think women empathize, but my question is what are the circumstances they hear about the issues about men being vulnerable? Is it I have known this woman a long time and find I can confide in her or is it Women love vulnerability, and I want her to know I am sensitive, so I am gonna tell/trauma dump on this woman I have known for three days through Reddit, Facebook, MySpace, Kik, TikTok. The reason I bring up the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:44 PM
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Bruh that’s too much. At least give her a week. All women are therapist u should no how to deal with abuse. Whereas I find it women will b hesitant to tell a man a lot of her own trauma(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:36 PM
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My major concern wit that theory is y throw it off on some random girl or woman u barely no, instead of someone close, then complain when someone can’t handle it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:28 PM
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Yes a few, I got some now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:04 AM
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I always legit feel whenever guys say “Women don’t want us to vulnerable and open about our feelings” especially online, that it wasn’t in the context of; I have known this woman two weeks and told her I like/love her, and told her all my feelings/trauma dumped on her, then she went cold or blocked me. Granted this mindset was created by Reddit, but hell I’m not skeptical women don’t care, I believe women greatly empathize, what I’m concerned with is how are the issues of mental health of men be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:56 PM
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Hey the ol’ man Sigmund makes an appearance today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:50 PM
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I think of there is evidence and it is presented. Like DNA evidence, video, alibi, cellphone tower pings, that ilk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:46 PM
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Idk about but half of them being false, tags a bad example, but I do believe they should b arrested for false claims if there is evidence to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:45 PM
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I mean I did and u just avoided my statements and questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:13 AM
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Hey wait if it's an argument u didn't make y won't u b able to argue against it? Wouldn't your argument b the point you wanna get across? I just asked what the basis of the argument was, I don't have an argument at on this topic. Now I just think u r projecting your poor reading skills on others, since u just skipped completely over what I was asking. But hey I hope u find your answers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:41 AM
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U don't think u comparing the surfer lady taking pics insta and not stopping, to another woman with a promiscuous nature b equating the two? Kind of weird how you aren't picking up on that and just getting defensive and telling ppl they can't read. It is basic writing lesson is that the mind will compare the two when they are so close together in writing. If I compared two sports teams of two different sports, one being rly good and the other being bad, wouldn't you think I was comparing them? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:25 AM
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Idk wtf is going on here but the comments are amusing at least. I still don't get how you no a woman's body count by her posts on insta, but hey this is fun. Cuz if these women are hot enough to garner a lot of attention online wouldn't that imply they get a lot dudes on their dms to the point they get rly selective? And idk I feel like women with low body counts also cheat. Maybe not at a higher clip, or maybe they do idk. This whole argument seems silly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:07 AM
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So I wasn't losing my mind. All I saw was “n word count” or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:03 AM
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This whole thing confuses me to no end, “If she takes suggestive photos that is clear and irrefutable she sleeps around”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:02 AM
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Kind of a mix of both of the subs bringing me to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:35 PM
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This and the links I have seen made me have a question, is this mentality of “I'm above average” stem from projection or personal insecurities? If I know something is a pos, but I wanna sell it and make money, I'm not gonna make it seem or look or sell it as the pos I know it is. In fact I'm gonna inflate the fuck out of it, to get a better price off it. Like a dude trying to seduce a woman off his dick size, if it's average I'm talking it up big time if sex is all I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:33 PM
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I feel like it isn't a just the companies that do that. I am black and I grew up hearing all the jokes pointed at lil black girls particularly about their hair and skin tone. It wasn't from companies but from peers and even adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:30 PM
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I feel like this is entirely a new phenomenon. Throughout my childhood I heard nothing demonizing single mothers, for either making bad choices or for having a baby. I heard a lot, I'm black so growing up watched a lot of black comedians, of jokes about deadbeat dads. The only time I saw it more balanced out is by women. This whole thing about bashing single mom's feels entirely this generation’s niche and feels like red pill or whichever it is leaking over with cries of women never taking respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:54 AM
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Huh my take on the study or article wasn't that women suck at rating men, my take was that women as a whole view have such a broad view on their respective view on the attractiveness of men that you can't really pinpoint what the masses find attractive on a large scale
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:14 PM
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Oh yeah I believe it. Sometimes it is cuz of their interest tends to attract or lead them around guys with low self-esteem who are quick to make them talk themselves out of asking women out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:50 PM
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............. Wtf even is this post? Where the fuck is the “Science”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:03 AM
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The only time I have seen BLM stickers is on white women’s cars
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:17 PM
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U leave me out of this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:16 PM
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Sounds like u just walked into a convo, and someone expects u to know what it was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:28 AM
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U ever lived by yourself? It's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:26 AM
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It's not. It's cuz I can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:19 AM
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It's y I live alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:18 AM
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Don't we all, but a lot of ppl recognize their bad traits and withhold them until they are comfortable. It's why ppl seem to become different ppl entirely when u move in with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:13 AM
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Rly sad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:05 AM
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I love plus-sized women...... Oddly enough I have only dated petite women...... So yeah. This is a weird thing, like I get some guys don't, or a lot don't, but they are my preference. I would hit on this lady and not give a damn what anyone thought
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:04 AM
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Idk about weird, but the idea of placing my morals and beliefs on others isn’t something I really wanna do, cuz I don’t appreciate it from others myself. It just gets to a point you gotta live by your own morals and standards and decide not to live on other peoples. If u don’t care about age gaps, do ur thing, cuz at the end of the day it’s your life and relationships. This still goes into the idea placing your ideals on others rather than ur own, but this also goes into the idea of people hidin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:04 PM
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U would b very surprised. A staggering amount are dudes my dads age. I will go on Grindr rn and find a new set of 50 dudes of a bunch of different age ranges on there than i did Monday and stay in my city. The thing I will admit also is that there are a lot of guys who wont admit this side of their sexuality. When I used Grindr a ton of guys will say they are straight, some are just sexually frustrated, but you find this with the early 20 yos. The late teens seem to be exploring their sexuality …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:08 AM
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My god was it a small town?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:39 AM
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My motto for dating a younger women is if she is closer in age to my younger brother, 16, than me, 31, she’s too young. A pair of girls 18 and 19, had crushes on me, I told my brother about it and all he said was “Ew”. I couldn’t help but laugh. I think I just cut my preference off at those. Just cuz it feels so strange to me. I don’t like the idea of getting into the mentality of telling ppl “ Your relationship with this other consenting adult is wrong.” To me it greatly diminishes the idea tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:37 AM
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I feel like I have seen it, but the circumstances of women doing it was like drug related
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:10 AM
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Yeah, I feel like public flashers just went online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:37 PM
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Before our time. I didn’t no either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:36 PM
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Unsolicited pp pics. It’s one of the main reasons my lil brother, a bi boy, never posts pics of himself online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:45 PM
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I learned thanx to this sub, and other subs, anything incel related (won’t expound further but imagine a group hating u simply being born, i.e I hate it for black women most of all cuz they get it from both sides, race and being women) that I learned it sucks being a woman sometimes. Seriously if u can’t find something on here or online somewhere of a woman being sexualized for just saying she is woman, never even posts a pic of herself just some random dude saying something nasty in ur dm I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:02 PM
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I in all sincerity believe the idea of marrying up, but women aren’t gonna do it nearly at a high a clip as some would lead you to believe. Partially because it is insane to base your entire romantic life on it. I believe there was a question here about the random insta model getting flown out to Abu Dhabi, but I mentioned u see on Reddit all the time of ppl getting ditched in different states, u would b insane to do it, or fucking desperate. Ofc some women will do it, most will think it is some…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:17 AM
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Haha I enjoy OP realizing some ppl like other peoples quirks and something they may not be proud of being or having.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:04 AM
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So glad I was not the only saying “WTH do government quotas on the amount of women in a workplace have to do with dating?” Cuz it feels like if they have to have a woman employed at any position in a company to get a grant or funding, sounds like there are not a lot of women there to begin with. Which wouldn’t that just be bad for guys in general if they are looking for a partner that they work in a field that doesn’t even get the chance to hired women cuz it is so male dominated? That sounds mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:56 AM
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Oh fuck yeah, it is especially those dudes who say women control the dating market, all women are the same and only want Chad. It starts getting rly weird wen guys start saying all women before 25 have had sex with a hundred different dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:30 AM
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WAIT RLY THEY SAY WOMEN ARE POST WALL AT 25? Wat the actual fuck? They think my sister is at the wall now? I’m gonna say it this whole wall thing is the biggest fucking “Cope” I have ever heard in my life. Don’t fucking argue with me about it, idc it is stupid as fuck and makes no god damn sense. Like we live in 16th century and women at 25 are at deaths fucking door banging on it. “She’s no good anymore. She’s had a 100 Chad cocks in her.” Omg this is the epitome of negging, and idc what u come…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:17 AM
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I don’t think I have ever thought all women were the same. I think my fear of rejection has been the key reason y I struggle in dating. I think that plays a bigger role in the struggle for men. How many time have u seen a guy say “women have done nothing but reject me” but the guy is 16 years old? Or ive been rejected all year and he has only asked out of girls? I think the idea of rejection, not even the rejection itself is the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:10 AM
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Idk wth happened, all I saw was the title and just bolted towards the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:55 AM
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I will admit in the past decade the concept of a “relationship” has been greatly skewed and diminished. So if I ask someone what one is their definition will b different than the 9 other ppl I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:48 AM
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U have to keep in mind, it’s not about a woman’s perception to a man being attractive or desiring casual sex, it’s about the perception of other men if they know u have casual sex. If a guy has casual sex, it’s not that a woman may find attractive him attractive cuz he has casual sex it’s the confidence he exudes knowing he can have it and that other men have boosted him up for having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:44 PM
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I’m going to just expound upon one point that was made. I don’t like nor have I ever found submission in women attractive, partially cuz I was not raised that way and find it useless in todays age. I don’t think I personally know any guy who does. It’s a weird thought to me to boss around or give or orders to another adult, cuz it feels like I am just treating them, not even like a kid, but property. If u like cool, can’t tell you wat to like. As a kid I wanted a girl I could talk to on a simila…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:41 PM
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Bro I ain’t reading this. Let it go u ain’t trying to have a convo if u moving the goalpost at will. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:48 AM
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Never been a timeframe specified m, but hey u wanna change the rule and move the goalpost go ahead ig. She put me in the friendzone and an hour later we were discussing dating. A timeframe nor expectations of how long or wat the circumstances of the respective relationships wasn’t what was discussed in the thread or the original post. A timeframe has never been discussed. And ofc we can have a conversation especially about this sort of thing but the thing I specified in my previous comment was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:24 AM
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Not rly concerned with a timeframe. u called it the friendzone the only standard is that someone tells someone else after they have shown romantic interest, they only consider their relationship platonic. I have never seen anyone under any circumstance say “she really didn’t put u in the friendzone if it lasted an hour.” U moving the goalpost on me? Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:29 AM
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U can, at this point, I don’t. Rly don’t consider the fuck zone a thing either. Cuz I have seen dudes fuck a girl, ignore her, then be civil. Like I said I believe it is easier for a guy to get with tha girl who just told them they wanted to b friends, hell a got friendzoned earlier this year and she and I agreed to take our relationship to tha next level an hour after she friendzoned me. It didn’t work out but we still tried
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:11 AM
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Dudes who have been friendzoned. A girl in the fuck zone stands not a bit of chance. Case in point how many girls have been smashed and dashed on Reddit alone, hell at my job it is most of them. My sister said she found a boy friend zoned all of a sudden attractive and wasn’t sure y. It’s y some ppl don’t consider the friend zone a real thing. Ppls feelings change all the time, but wen the mindset is based in lust they don’t expand just diminish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:59 AM
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Ummm u r on the site tha made tha term and it is called a Nice Girl. There’s a sub for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:55 AM
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Who wrote this? Obito Uchiha? Or was it shadow written by Madara? So the love I have for my mom is not real? Man I’ve been deceived by those old tv shows we used to watch. All joking aside yeah that is simply not true. U say it urself a relationship can’t be one sided. The thing I also greatly disagree with is that is a JUST a deception to young men and not young ppl in general if that’s the mindset u r going to perpetuate. The thing would be is that it can still be love, but if it gets to being…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:34 PM
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I heard about this in hs. Then read it in two different books 7 years ago that used pornhub and google data to support it. U see it quite a bit, but I’ve seen Reddit answers where some women feel unfulfilled in a sexual exploration aspect of their lives. I’m gonna go out on a limb and say it’s men not feeling comfortable, having a fear of being reported, even if they were asked to do it(I saw a thread a year ago on xhamster on a homemade video of a woman asking her bf or w/e he was, to cum on he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:24 PM
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Where ppl meet up with locals and chit chat and get to know their neighbors. Idk where u live, but I feel every country has something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:27 AM
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I will agree u see that quite a bit, but have u taken into consideration different places to approach women? Like I’m not saying dating apps are the best, but keep in mind u r free to go out to different places, and use dating apps also. There are places to actively meet women besides in shops. U can join a local club, volunteer, sign up for single mixers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:12 AM
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Over a third of anything is not “rare”. If u ate 37% of a pizza, that is a sizable portion of it, is it not. Rare to me would b something less than 10-15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:09 AM
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Now hol up there dude. I’ve met tall guys who have great personalities and short guys who have great personalities. Met some short guys with garbage personalities and same with tall guys. Ur height and looks never play a role in ur personality or confidence. Idk where u got that from or who is spreading tha bull. Ain’t no arguing with me on that cuz that notion is so self defeating. ………… I see it now, totally see it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:02 AM
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I can’t change ur view on this, cuz I think the same thing. The guys, are there AI bfs too, who spend money on this type of thing cuz they are socially awkward and can’t pick up or social cues, or suffer from depression, or severe anxiety or other things that cause them to not be able to talk to women are going to be exploited for this. They are going to feel defeated and hopeless and have no idea what to do with themselves. U got guys in this sub who blame everything on not being able to find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:55 PM
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Now see i like those girls and I will actively talk to them. I can tell they aren’t interested in me I won’t push for it, but I will still talk to them. I remember in hs a girl I got rly close to would always bring up “You were like my friend when I started going to school here”. Made me feel appreciated cuz at tha time I was super shy so it was a big accomplishment for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:37 PM
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I work at a restaurant and I have seen some women who get no real attention either on purpose or they aren’t all that attractive cuz they hang around hot chicks. I’ve seen it mostly cuz the girl clearly isn’t interested in dating at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:49 AM
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Ig the LTR, idk if I feel the need to rly no how much sex my partner has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:46 AM
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Okay I am strictly going to dispute that claim of the title and say u learn a lot from observing relationships and not being an active participant in them as well. From close friends I have learned a lot about communication and honesty. From my parents as well. I am a really observant person and I learn a ton from observing especially wen it is at its most candid. It amazes me ppl don’t think I pay attention to things. Case in point u can improve urself without even participating cuz u can learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:18 AM
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I don’t where u r getting numbers from because even if u r basing it off what u assume or guess about the US, they are strictly shots in the dark. Ngl women that I have seen can be really rational ppl, and some men I have r the most irrational ppl I have seen. Is that indicative of the population? Of course not so I try not to say this group as a whole is this way and this group is this way, it is how marginalized groups stay marginalized. Idk if dating being shit is based on narcissism and glut…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:08 AM
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I am sure there are some that do. Idk any or have met any, my aforementioned example didn’t seem to enjoy it, I think it was frustration, cuz I think her friends had brought it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:15 PM
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In my example we were like 13 or 14 freshmen in hs, we knew each other going into hs from middle school. I mean even girls I thought were way outta my league have been nice wen turning me down. I still have no idea where these guys get it cuz I’ve never seen it, got friends my age and younger who have been outside the US and different states who have never recounted as many stories that I see here, I live in a military town fyi. It feels like it is just like “ I’m embarrassed to be turned down o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:57 PM
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The thing that I don’t get here is how is mutual interest established without an approach, also the organic line in a later comment, but one thing at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:36 PM
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I no, I do that myself. A girl looked at me like a sandwich and I got scared
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:33 PM
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……….. I read it and it made no sense and confused the hell out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:32 PM
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It always seems odd that for the past week I have seen a lot of posts and comments about “Women are always humiliating men who approach them that they don’t find attractive”. I was the fat kid in school and got embarrassed once by a girl I liked, and she did it and felt embarrassed herself cuz her friends were telling her to give me a chance cuz I was super shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:31 PM
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U found the one thing that immediately threw me for a loop and confused me about this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:18 PM
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Ugh I knew a 16 yo gay years ago, who got hit on constantly on FB by girls, to the point he wanted me to tell them to leave him alone. He constantly would tell them he was gay and get hit with “I can change that”. I saw the messages he would get, one found out we were rly close and asked me to hook her up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:58 AM
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My lil brother is a handsome kid, he has been getting asked out by girls since he was 12 and he is 16 now. So it ain’t closed clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:59 AM
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Imma dude and I tell ppl they don’t matter. Can I call it advice since it isn’t telling someone to do anything or how to approach something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:50 PM
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Most of the women I no aren’t on them. Worked at the same place for over 3 years now and we as a whole, me and about six other guys, have seen one girl we worked with on a dating app. I would suggest through the old school means; parties, work, school, local events, through mutual or close friends, like their siblings. Hell I would go so far as to say postings on Reddit, not to say there are a ton of actual meet ups, but hey u never no. Seen ppl get together thru Roblox and Minecraft, so there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:25 PM
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I thought the dog park was a tv show trope, like college dudes taking Women’s Studies class to just meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:19 PM
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How do gold diggers typically find out u have money? I’ve seen where dudes flash money, or tell women imma take care of u give u this and that. If u r attracted to them that’s on u and if they r attracted to u then that’s on them, but it straight just sounds like u feel that’s all u offer to women and for the women it seems like that’s all they want to perpetuate an appearance of wealth, feels like they grew up with nothing or with everything being handed to them and no understanding how ppl wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:58 PM
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Idk what the number or where ppl get their facts. I very well have no idea where u got 80%. Hers was an opinion u r stating urs like a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:53 PM
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When i hear a woman say that, that makes u realize she is terrible cuz not only is she bad at picking dudes, she attracts dude that ain’t worth most women’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:37 PM
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Had no idea what they meant. Thanx a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:32 AM
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What is the 2x sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:48 PM
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Sex Affirmation? What do you mean by that? I will admit I don’t see it, not because I think it is impossible, but I think most guys will get bored of an AI gf, after a few months. The elements of a relationship run deeper than you think. Even with the physical, it will get old quickly. We see these types of situations, but really how many have we seen as it pertains to population in correlation with the level of lonely people specifically men. Even if a guy puts in all his effort and get respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:43 PM
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Oh Henry Cavill is a bigger nerd than me. Cuz didn’t he read all the recent Superman comics to prepare? I no he read and played all The Witcher stuff to prepare for his role as Geralt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:03 PM
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Yeah good looking guys put up fronts too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:02 PM
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Oh jeez idk 🤷‍♀️ about tha one. Cuz depending on tha, it frustrates me to no fucking end at times dealing with someone, but I will say, if u r not tha bright it frustrates me more wen u put up a front as if u r smarter than u r to impress me or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:00 PM
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I was jus told b urself, starting and building a relationship on a lie is a bad start. That was rly about it outside of wat OP said about being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:58 PM
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Haha a girl I was talking to said she wanted a man obsessed with her, I pulled tha and she said it was scary and I told her straight up that means it sounded good in ur head but it is not what u want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:55 PM
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Idk if anyone I am talking to knows who the starting WR for the Tampa Bay bucs is. Idk how u came to the conclusion tha these random rich dudes are interested in these women they won’t meet, even online. I c where u r coming from but in this aspect u r kind losing the plot for the sake exaggeration. I’m Joe and odds r I’ll talk to a Mary and Jane, but Mary and Jane r both talking to other Joes, every now and again, even online, they will run into a Brad and Chad, but under even this logic, Chad …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:44 PM
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Don’t say “everyone” when I pertains to dating. As this sub has established not everyone’s experiences r the same. Cuz I just said in my parent comment I have never had this experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:32 PM
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Not that I don’t believe you but u including “a few times” does imply it is uncommon. When I think “not uncommon” means it happens a lot, close to half not quite more than half.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:27 PM
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Mine r weird Rebel Wilson bfor her weight loss and Zendaya. Tbh I’ve moved on from celebrity crushes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:27 AM
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It feels like, not even from here, that women tend to dislike hurting a guys feelings by turning them down. The best indicator when I think about it is telling a guy u only wanna b friends. I have no idea where guys get girls and women love to embarrass them in public wen they simply say no. I got embarrassed once by a girl but hell we were in middle skool we all r pretty extra as kids. Every rejection I have had has been nice and considerate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:23 AM
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I think the only reason it got popular was the sleaze. Think like Montell and Jerry Springer. Cuz F&F their convos are rarely intelligent and, no insult to the women, most don’t seem prepared for the convos they have on the show, hence y I call it silly. It makes me wonder where they even find the women, like off insta or twitter. They feel like useless convos and the guys just have echo chambers from the men in the room and the fans and they always feel like their mentalities just become reinfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:29 PM
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Case in point I really stopped watching fresh and fit after a few episodes. It came off as silly and dismissive on both sides. I would give it a shot, to me it isn’t a big deal or a deal breaker. Ngl I would look up her content tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:53 PM
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I have seen some of those guys, most are average a few are even above average, they just feel inferior. Gonna go out on a limb and say most dont talk to women irl and feel that if they were attractive women would come and fall in their laps. Some consider themselves "subhuman" and no one but them have called them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:17 PM
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Yeah i agree. It amplified my anxiety and i didnt feel up to far. Always compared myself to porn stars, their penis sizes and performances, never felt like i measured up, especially bad cuz i am a black male. I think it is fine for women and men in moderation, but i feel men go overboard and dependent at rather early ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:10 PM
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Between what I have personally seen, reddit responses and internet responses in general, I have seen women try and date and struggle to get over previous relationships. I have seen women try to get into new ones and the new struggle or breakdown within a year cuz they still have feelings for an ex and try to move on too quickly. I have seen reddit dating and tinder of users mostly guys and a few women talk and discuss about dates going to shit cuz the woman admits to not being over an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:07 AM
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I have no idea y, but my sister fed and spread gossip around our workplace about a guy. She said the guy was like 30-35 dating an 18 yo girl, when in fact he was in his early 20s. She had already told me she was jealous of the girl cuz she had a bf and she didnt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:21 AM
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M 30 TBH none, a few show interest, but I got issues and personal stuff going on, I am not interested in dating right now. Trying to finish my novels, and get in better shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:21 PM
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So you don't want someone who has a notable sexual history, and you don't want someone who makes you feel used. I can understand that. You might want to chill with the incel terms, I think we get where you coming from, at least I hope we do. Don't think after reading a couple lines your views will be changed. It kind of seems the whole view of women partying, having fun, is your biggest perspective point. IDK man I know girls who do party and have fun all their own, that's their biz. I agree if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:59 PM
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So I would like to ask in terms of dating, for men and women, with the way people are, losing interest, not feeling a spark, but enjoying the time spent, how does it not evolve into a numbers game for people? If you spend 2 months talking to one person with like 2 or 3 dates over that time how are you effectively increasing your own opportunities to finding some even if that person you are seeing is only talking to you? People lose interest daily, get ghosted, along with people being shaky and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:49 PM
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I like girls with kind of big boobs, and big hips and thighs. I like bigger girls so a stomach is fine. For guys I like them nice butt, idc about belly, I prefer them shorter, but I like them tall too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:36 AM
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I also get the feeling that most trans women have become programmed when dating men that a lot of guys are mostly only interested in sex and not long term relationships. I find men attractive and not particularly trans women. I am not nor would I consider myself straight, but I am a man. I don't seem to run into trans women or gay men very much for that matter. I wouldn't mind, but it is okay for straight men not to be interested in people they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:37 AM
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It is not at all. If you don't want to be with women or someone who has never been a gender you are not attracted to that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:29 AM
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Not wise to only listen to a group who are trying to teach you how to get over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:45 AM
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I used FDS as a male member, all male users are apparently banned from posting anything in there. The thing that disturbed me most is that how do you have a sub for supposed dating advice and don't want to hear from the group a large portion of your user base will be dealing with? Didn't get it. All the good men seemed like it was going downhill for a while. Didn't get the point of the sub aside from a level of bitterness from some men. I never used the sub, but I saw a couple of videos on youtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:54 PM
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I have never been uncomfortable around women my height or taller. I now work with a 19 year old who is my height, and I get really aware of how tall she is whenever we get close. I will say I do believe taller women do get looked over by guys. I saw it in high school and now, mostly it can make guys feel oddly self-conscious. I have never cared about my height and taller girls make me self-conscious, whereas a taller guy does not. It doesn't make me not want to talk to them or make me feel infer…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:31 AM
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OMG this totally turned out to be one of those "Women aren't humans"/ "Women can't be normal or have common interest" post. That is totally an incel mentality, that women find men showing emotion disgusting, like women see men as robots who cannot and should not feel. This is still so confusing why people think or believe this........ Then again a dude did yell at me cuz he thought porn depicted real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:01 AM
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Gonna be gurgling if you take that pill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:18 PM
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Wth why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:57 AM
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bruh wtf is BBC-pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:55 PM
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Well it kind of is a natural implication. If it wasn't why bring it up? Pretty much seems it was right cuz you had no idea what I even said, went to feminism and didn't even answer the question so yeah this ain't about that, this about u getting coochie and not much else. Hey do you, but remember if half your follow-up comments are nonsensical and contradict your opening statement about wanting to debate, let's face it you are so far into your train of thought can't change your mind, you didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:52 AM
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Dude idk who you meant to respond to but I said nothing about differences physically, biologically or socially, acknowledging them or not, I mentioned nothing above about what feminists say or believe. I was not putting words in your mouth notice the question mark to the part about men not wanting women to have preferences. So I have no idea who you thought u responded to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:09 PM
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Wait what, so this whole post ain't about relationships or animalistic tendencies as we have progressed, this about getting laid? Also is this another example of a guy not wanting women to have their own preferences? Let's face facts here we need a lot less simping in the world men and women, trying to buy someone's affection is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:56 PM
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Lady I have seen so many ladies, with kids in particular granted they are older than me so this might change in another 30 years maybe, maybe not, be happy by themselves and just enjoy whatever life they have left. It does seem mostly center on men as they get older not being able to deal with loneliness at later ages. Like me, I am younger than you and feel a loneliness a lot of the time you may not feel. I know I have fucked up quite a bit in any relationship endeavors I have had though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:45 PM
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I suck at dating becuz I spent most of my teens year being suicidal and not going out, and being socially awkward and it greatly effected me later on in life. I actually have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:51 AM
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Whenever people bring this up, keep in mind if you are gonna dismiss the issues women have then you can't argue on the difficulty of the other side. If you only gonna mention the side you are acquainted with can't take you seriously. And I like fat girls and I think the interests part accounts for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:04 PM
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heres a video, from the woman's side. Also note I had a friend a few years ago who told me he would get ready to sleep with women and they would immediately say hell no cuz he was way too big ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kyEHv343fOQ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:04 PM
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It messes with guys because we see movies and porn and the locker room talk about living in this weird fantasy that ALL WOMEN want a guy with a big one. I lived most of my life believing I was too small as I watched porn I felt even worse cuz I am a black male and was led to believe I had to have a big one so I always believed I was insignificant. As I lost weight and got older, no one has ever complained. Then when I began coming into my sexuality, every guy who has seen it has gotten somewhat …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:02 AM
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While I think dating is hard, it is somewhat based on your perspective of hard. A man will more than likely go out with a woman even if she isn't his type, while a woman may stretch it if she likes the guy somewhat. The only difference is it feels like men have a smaller margin for error, an ofc I'm not gonna say dating is impossible cuz that's super catastrophizing and nonsensical no matter who you are or where you live there are dudes everywhere dating women, and men so it is nowhere near impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:07 PM
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I've legit wondered this myself. I myself have a preference, but I gotta admit it can't be too easy for objectively unattractive women. The only thing I've learned by reading posts and watching videos is that dating is hard for all sides looking. To the point I don't think anyone has an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:50 AM
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I can only say what I have seen and read. I've seen it where people get hooked on drugs. cheated one or the other, and sometimes people just stop trying in the relationship. Lets face it, a relationship is hard, but sometimes people male or female just give up and neither person can force the other to try. In that situation it's not something the other person did, the relationship ran its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:45 AM
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