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It would cause me a problem. But obviously I'd at least try to raise my child in such a healthy mindset he would not need this service. Who am I kidding, even the perfect parent can't control everything. Ultimately, I also want him to feel free to not tell me of his private life because it will be his problem to manage. So if I don't know it's even better. I may have to intervene if lil' guy confesses to me he grew addicted to prostitution and it's affecting his finances or personal life. Bringi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:58 AM
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thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:04 PM
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thank you so much for the insights. yes actually I've found that casually being introduced to non-exclusive persons is a real chore. It is a real small fraction of population. That's why I have to make sure every time something starts. Maybe it's a tad abrupt. On the other hand, I would never date in monogamy then wait a long time to suddenly come out as polycurious and impose it as new normal, It indeed is horrible attitude and frowned upon in the polyamorous realm. I don't know, is there an id…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:49 PM
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are you a man or a woman? tbh if you are a man I'll relate easier but still I'm curious to read how you make it work. (other persons: according to the paragraph below, call me selfish all you like, let's say I struggle to find what I really want) I've tried the polyamory style some years ago, but then I've met my current partner and then we agreed she would rather not know if I was to see someone else. And actually the relationship is great and I will not see someone else. I should also mention …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 11:51 AM
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It was not my first relation, but my 3rd, that was the most significant in learning about myself. I've dated the younger sister of a friend, he didn't care about it (weird guy); and I was the most needy teen on the planet due to self-confidence issues. One day she broke up with me by phone and I stayed into her for 2 years afterwards, she'd even play it around as if I was not hurting. I have behaved like a dick with her too, anyways. I've learned I was way too serious for this age, and I never b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:03 AM
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nowadays I'm mostly scared of success. holding and entertaining a relationship has been a tiresome (yet awesome at times) task to perform; so I always think twice before an approach. When I really want to get to know the person things go naturally from there.
/r/seduction14/08/20 08:58 AM
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or maybe dude has fetishes on Asian-looking ladies ahah
/r/MGTOW209/07/20 10:30 AM
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what I take from this is, if I know and use my value, I'll claim the exact privilege that comes with it, no more no less. This makes sense. It will make me happy and I won't try to overclass, nor let anyone to underclass. But still, one should bear in mind that value fluctuates with time.
/r/seduction03/07/20 09:32 AM
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i laughed hard at this. conceptualising a law is a thing, enforcing said law is another thing.
/r/MGTOW226/06/20 09:24 AM
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"is the bus late" lead me to enjoy a whole bus ride talking with a very fine woman; or was it because she asked for a cigarette at the bus stop? And well I had bought this cigarette pack out of character at the time. When my time came to exit the bus, I gave her my number, she got in touch one month after, we messaged on and off for 2 more months, like no pressure or anything, just casual chat, and then, by chance, she was available for a coffee in my last week before leaving her city for good. …
/r/seduction26/06/20 06:59 AM
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Male here. I usually meet this kinda demeanor... Once, I approached a c u t i e whom I saw while we were exiting the subway engine and she just hysterically laughed at my face, and I was like wtf happened. Honestly I rarely feel I have the time to cold approach women or anyone else in the streets either, it just doesn't look fun because I enjoy time at home more. I mean I could get out of my shell and enjoy a bit more bars and cafés maybe. Most women actually are wired to have some disgust in th…
/r/seduction26/06/20 06:42 AM
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that's cool. sometimes an interaction with a stranger brightens the day.
/r/seduction25/06/20 06:19 PM
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My only goal is to stay afloat job-wise, and not become homeless. I have plenty of other subgoals like becoming good at creating media... But yeah overall it's hard getting this kind of discipline.
/r/MGTOW220/06/20 09:44 AM
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I understand. There are lifestyles in a lot of persons, that are not compatible at all with mine. I may have a fling with a highly extraverted girl, but the day she starts bringing me to every of her family or friends gatherings (with no choice) I'll check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:31 AM
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yeah exactly :) but it's nice when they accept it. even for shorter term. I mean. Commitment won't kill me either I'm just late learning it properly due to poor family dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:42 AM
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I've had my few success and periods of abudance regarding women, it was nice. But I'm most certain that a large population of women despise commitment-phobic men, and prefer not to encourage them. So it would be like finding the right match(es).
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:41 AM
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More like I would kinda lose interest. But also at this time my job contract ended and I decided to go back to my country. I guess I could have rolled this way a few more months maybe. I had my eyes on other women, too. I dunno. When I get abundance of companionship and intimacy, it does not feel as desirable of a lifestyle, as when I stay starved from relationships for months or years. It definitely keeps one busy hahah. I have various hobbies I'd like to thrive in, so I'd guess one romantic in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:49 AM
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For me (28M) sex definitely involves an emotional vulnerability. I never just happened to "pump and dump" because I feel it's kinda gross. But on the other hand I still appreciate the idea that there is an ethical way of having consensual hookups, without hurting anyone's feelings. I just did not find it yet. At some time I tried "open dating", meaning I would see different women and have them know they weren't the only one in my life. But I didn't keep doing it very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:11 AM
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oh yeah they definitely do. I wouldn't experience it myself since I'm rather tall haha :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:57 AM
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alright. me neither. I just have read some incel bull from time to time on reddit, that may not count as a correct population sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:54 AM
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well, unfortunately, cliché do not count as examples I guess? but let's imagine someone with an unhealthy lifestyle like an incel who's overweight; this person would start judging overweight females or not accept them as mating partner. And then complain how the fit girls go for fit boys. What I say is people can only settle in their league. Incels are particular, they feel judged at all times but they judge like the worst hoe in return. That's it, I literally have nothing else lol. Thanks for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:51 AM
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Actually as a man I'm a bit confused at what I want from life. But I'll bet the biologic imperative of females pushes them to the guy who will both pass good genes to her child and also be able to raise the child. Actually it's rare that both these qualities fit inside one single man. I don't want either. Impregnating just for the sake of it doesn't look nice, and settling down to be a responsible father threatens my hobbies. I guess all I have to give is positive attention and body care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:34 AM
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Some low tier men have ridiculously high standards; so do some middle tier women; that makes them the most unhappy; all they have to do is settle for a bit less and leave the goodies to the god tier; lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:32 AM
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lol I searched for a place to say it, this will do, although not completely related. I decided to save my health from a bad non-alcoholic liver steatosis three months ago, in the process I've lost 10 kilograms and started doing daily sports (really low like 2mn or so); process is still ingoing since my goal is to give 10 kilo more and to reach my optimum weight. All my female colleagues have been commenting how fit and younger I look, and my gf is turned on easier than before. All that with only…
/r/seduction01/06/20 08:26 AM
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lingerie adverts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:33 PM
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of course, if one is both physically idiotic, and also boring and needy, it ain't working. ask your typical nerd if his smarts don't get him girls. at least when he gets 30 and finally makes a move on his dream tech startup. being disadvantaged by looks should not be an excuse to skip charisma build day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:40 PM
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facts.
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:12 PM
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fake it until you make it
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:11 PM
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that was a beautiful read
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:10 PM
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I agree. I only read and let go of the stuff once I find out it's full of shit. I have high doubts all that's told here is true during purge, and if it's done to hold a comedy value, well it's a poor one. But... Yeah, good fun for everyone else I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:07 PM
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shoot I cannot tell what's a tru story or not with this purge going on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:01 AM
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the title is misleading, you would have preferred "it's thanks to feminism" instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:22 AM
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Specifically: how much is your self worth tied to: How much sex you have / are able to have The quality of the sex you are having / able to have How many men/women find you sexually attractive How many men/women want to have sex with you How often you get sexualized Ahhh, the big debate is it. I can't answer something definitive, because it surely has to do with my current status. Now I am in couple. But I've stayed single for periods of time varying from 3 months to 18 months. 28 yo male here b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:46 PM
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sorry being ignorant but what exactly means "dumpster dive"? is it the expression that designates harshly lowering standards? Anyways I'm kinda selfish, if not self-centered. Super furious my precious time is spent at job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:55 AM
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I don't know but I've stopped chasing attractive women, most of them are as needy as can possibly be, especially when young.
/r/seduction10/04/20 08:49 AM
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I think the abundance of porn has scarred human mind; it makes one think everyone has horny good sex all the time while in reality we're all struggling in a crazy world. Especially in Northern countries where sex should absolutely not be the top priority at all times, because we also need to work and prepare for Winters. I happen to be horny and to consume porn at times, I happen to blame myself for liking seeing naked bodies of women, but they're not to blame. I've stayed single for extended pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:33 PM
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Hah, I agree. When I'm single I'm the creepiest POS on the planet, but now since I have a gf I'm much more self-aware about my need to become good at work, especially work related to improving at hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 12:04 PM
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What's fun, from my experience : when I don't get my sexual needs met for a long time (say for example more than 6 monthes), I become this obsessive and unattractive piece of crap man. But on the other side, when I've got some for quite a time, I become to find the deed messy and exhausting. Usually my long-term gfs are more sex-hungry than I am. But it's ok because I try to sell my other qualities haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 03:46 PM
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I dunno. Currently I have a gf for 9 monthes or so, my sex needs have decreased, even lower than hers, as it seems. But like I become crazy about a woman's company when monthes go without a partner, too. Actually, yes there are things I dread more than a dead bedroom, namely social pressure. If a partner who's been supporting me for years suddenly wants to make me available for her parties or else, I'll choose the "else" without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:38 PM
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for example.
/r/MGTOW206/03/20 07:36 AM
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I guess yeah why not. Would be like a life experiment to do for the sake of it. But I sure know there are downsides to the gay life, as I've heard stories from a gay friend. So I don't idealise it too much.
/r/MGTOW206/03/20 07:21 AM
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it all depends if the sex is used only as an unhealthy cope. it all depends if the money is being spent huge amounts with no project whatsoever and you just feel like you're losing it for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:07 AM
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These are some fair points. Still, nowadays lots of women enjoy their high tier gigs and would not leave it. Not to mention minorities who would be impacted in some way by such a change. But it's all very theoretical so I'll stop bothering haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:21 PM
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I don't know put let's imagine all the women are pulled out from their job overnight; we would be in trouble. no functional childcare less teachers less nursing less creative ideas in marketing And the list could go on and on. As utopic as this may seem for some, we can't just remove women from the worforce like this. There would be a need to make this progressive. Also I'm not sure women will just accept society taking back their rights... How do you force it? Propaganda? OK OK, maybe you'd thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:32 PM
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Sometimes I take a girl's flaw and make it cute in my head. My obssession days have not been showing up lately, for the better. One flaw I cannot stick to though, is if she's overweight. Another thing is, I pick up clues about the girl's lifestyle in her bodily appearance. For example, if I see fake tan or overly prepared make-up, I take it as a red flag, even if the girl looks gorgeous. As a student I was more attracted to the geeky-type girls, those who had a longer nose or a broader chin, wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:41 PM
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Turkey.
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:33 PM
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Actually I'm a Frenchie in Turkey and the military attire is just fashionista look, not real military uniform. It feels strange having a woman hit on me so fast, not sure about what they'd expect. I'm nowhere near the marriage/children lifestyle, I'd better have it known since this is every woman's dream nowadays.
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:42 AM
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This was so fun, I keep it as dear memory. This happened in a small village in France, (I'm French), in summer 2014, I was 22yo. I was visiting a couple of friends for our university group event. They're engaged together now. The girl used to be my schoolmate, she organised the whole meeting and hosted us all in her house. Turned out her bf used to be a literal Chad. He's had a history of wild seducing, so he says. And now he's settled down, he dearly wants to "teach" someone his ways with girls…
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:05 PM
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my father has had a bad marriage, he divorced 20 years ago and is still fighting to not handout to my mother a number of assets (which she legally claims). but he wants me to marry and have children so I can pass on his traditions, our family name, etc... Don't be to be rude to him but I could not care less about this stuff, it's well difficult enough taking care of myself, save for a wife and brats. I don't want to live up the "middle class dream" where I'm one salary away from personal collaps…
/r/MGTOW217/01/20 05:42 AM
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older : cannot name age, didn't dare asking, but she was between 50-60 (I was 25) younger : hmmmm she was 17 (I was 21) younger chicks are boring though, my niche is older chicks, at least they have a life on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:28 AM
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the whole social aspect of it is weird for me, as an introvert. I've got myself a gf, she has a life on her own and is older than me. If having a relationship with someone my age means I need to show up to their fancy-dressy, alcohol-bingy parties, then I'm better off alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:16 AM
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whom from the egg or the hen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:13 AM
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Once I matched a girl on Tinder. It was my first successful match in 3 years of game, although I am 1.90m tall and 90kg bold. Well I ain't muscular and don't like to sell myself too much. So this girl was more overweight than I am, I won't go into details. What I liked on her Tinder profile is she was 420-friendly, so I invited her over for a small smoking session. Shortly after there was some chemistry so it turns into a kissing session. I escalated the situation quickly enough to make it physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:12 AM
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Hey, I'm a man, in the early stages of my relationship I told my partner that it was not her I was pursuing in the first place, and it hurt her, and I apologised. That was quite the best red flag I could offer. But I am still with her, doing my best effort to keep the relationship healthy. As I could not obtain whatever I wanted (the job I wanted, among other things), I could just keep my poor selection strategy for anything else: if they accept me in their life, that's enough. Fuck the world th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:19 AM
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Thanks for your interest. As a maverick, I get bored and sick easily in most social contexts, especially the "couple moments" depicted in romcoms. I try to keep away from the fatigue and the drama by enjoying more quiet, introspective and artistic activities, but most of the partners I had needed this kind of entertainment in their life, so in the end we parted ways. My post was about offering my quirky activities right away for a first date, and imagining how awkward it would sound. Then I said…
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:42 PM
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Oh hey, do you want to come home? Should we eat my fav chips? I'll have you listen my fav niche music that literally no one wants to dance on, and you'll love it. Don't love it? Out of my house, now. Oh hey, we could also get up at 4am and go on a hike to see a sunset from a cool place. Oh hey, maybe we could craft something we like, each on our side, and when we done, we show it to each other. You like writing poems? Perfect, I'll trade yours for my drawing (and I'll forget it in a paper pile i…
/r/seduction13/12/19 01:57 PM
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Here's for my piece of cliché. Served warm : needs an overly active social life parties, loud music, alcohol, hedonism at its worst seeking for attention and affection frequently, as much to distract the s.o from what he needs done a strong sexual appetite can't stay on her own for shit I think this is why most people would qualify women as uninteresting. The emotional needs of most women are blinding. While they crave the hedonism and the attention, these women fail to discover more introspecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:36 PM
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My mother has qualities and flaws. Flaws : Controlling, loses her shit when answered "no", always has a plan or advice to make things flow faster (although still can't take a hard no), can't work for shit, stayed stuck in NEETdom for a solid 13 years, has been depressive, suspected borderline syndrome, whines and guilt trips people whenever her conditions are not met; drama queen, manipulative, ends up at age 61 with no real support system, sick, poor, tired and angry. Qualities : Emotionally su…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:23 PM
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Guess I want to become this kind of guy. This way I don't have to stick around the lady for too long. I'm really lazy to stay charming and entertaining on extended periods of time, for the same person. Why the burning desire from the first monthes always has to fade. Smh. Why would a woman want me to stay commited. I'm just a poor man :p
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:44 AM
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But I have some, I'm seeing a woman at the moment. It's just, the actual act of having sex makes my body tired and sore, and it's a feeling that bothers me most of time.
/r/MGTOW229/11/19 02:16 PM
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If you want to control natural instincts you could just have a normal talk with the women, couldn't you? As in, if a woman is getting obnoxious or we have a disagreement, I will not give her a "pass" because she's feminine. If you need to handle a talk at least, try to be more spontaneous. About the club bits you've mentioned, I don't know, maybe you don't have the right charisma to handle a casual butt grab, right? It's not about nationality, it's how you showcase this gesture. Personally I wou…
/r/MGTOW229/11/19 02:10 PM
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I wish my sex drive was not so automatic and primitive. I've seen all kinds of women bodies, in real life or on screen, I've enjoyed myself very much, but for some reason I cannot let go and say "it's been a good life, let's focus on something else now", there's always a point where I will crave this hot mess that is sex.
/r/MGTOW229/11/19 01:58 PM
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well, I've been there too, I think the maximum I've endured w/o a sexual relationship was 18 monthes or so. It was driving me nuts, that's for sure. I wonder why it feels so bad. After having had sex at least once, the brains should make sure the concept is understood, but it doesn't. Honestly, now that I'm involved in a relationship, my gf initiates much more often than I do. And having sex gives me fatigue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:47 AM
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1.) Do you think men in women can ever be just friends? If not, why? What about if one, or both of you are in a happy relationship? Yes they can. They just want to keep it not too touchy-feely and not indulge in their primary instincts when they feel down. Basic professional behaviour. 2.) Do you have female friends? If yes, what % of your regular friend group are females? I have some. I don't have a group because I live abroad, and there I've met my gf first. I spend some alone time so I have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:09 AM
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only the cel dead weasel get to fuck the cuss puss, or else they'll make a fuss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:49 AM
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I wouldn't recommend trusting a mother who takes the phone of her adult daughter. Either because the mom's abusive, or worse she has all the right reasons to take the phone away (addiction problems, hookups problem while not having the kid's needs met, etc.)
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:26 PM
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as the son of a single, sick stay-at-home mother who ended poor and who is yet to receive compensation from my father, I support this what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:48 AM
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my bad. sorry. I didn't read it all. I wanted so much to spill theories again. I may do a new comment with my experience, although I don't have much, because I'm not too resentful of my ex, crushes, nor did I pull much asshole-ish moves myself. I'm pretty positive about men/women at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:36 AM
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this was a good read. women function on instinct much more often than men. but as they're part of a standardized society they'd rather die than let anyone know about this animalistic side. the man who can address gently these primitve instincts without making a fuss nor a judgement about them wins the prize fast enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:10 AM
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I'll just explain the basic nice guy cliché from my point of view. Let's review the same old story! The female friend (let's call her Stacey) cries about the asshole guy (let's call him Chad) being mean to her because reasons. She shares this very intimate weakness of hers with her best friend and confident, the nice guy (let's call him Rob). He then points out the most logical thing to do : burn bridges with Chad (and date him instead). And as Stacey is a feeble creature that's easy to manipula…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:57 AM
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congratulations on you buddy. I've gotten into a similar situation at a time of my life, two year ago, most girls find it hot when you don't lie to them and say you're just there in their life for fun. Some others state they don't want anything to do with me and it's also fine. But in the end it's me who flakes out and catches a feeling that I should more do the "relationship" stuff, mostly because I don't know any other way. Even in my behaviour in bed it shows (kisses and hugs, etc.). So I've …
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:44 PM
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good thing you've pointed that out. I try my best to not stab my gf in the back, even though I somewhat have opportunities. Sometimes I realise I do really good at smalltalk and that it could be misinterpreted, and I back off by myself, just to not make "it" happen. I like having my gf around when socialising anyways, because I don't mind any more speaking to strangers, even when these strangers happen to be awfully beautiful young women. I don't need the approval I'd need when alone or with fri…
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:33 PM
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no, I do realise Hollywood movies deliver a message and aim to make people behave in the way they depict, hence the high chance of most people engaging in said behaviours.
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:31 PM
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It always end up very bad, just look at Hollywood movies. Guy overworks himself to carry lots of cash back home to make his little family safe and spoiled, then wife cheats or leaves him because he was NeVeR THeRe @ HOM wItH HEr AnD The KIdS. Inconsistency, inconsistency everywhere.
/r/seduction11/11/19 01:01 PM
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I love how capitalist this sounds. I advise you a rewatch of "they live!" by John Carpenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:38 AM
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I'll have no marriage and no kids until the day I know I could sustain this lifestyle, i.e I find myself a job where I don't feel like shit everytime I have to wake up, and being sure I can pay off this house credit/rent, pay off this car, and take on me to leave my personal stuff for the sake of the family. Did you know with the working day and the commute there only are 5-6 hours left to care about your personal duties? Until then, I'm trying to cope with whatever I can. I have cool hobbies an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 06:27 AM
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depends on what social evidence you want to exhibit at your arm I guess? so logically, guys who prefer emotion and sensuality over being popular in their social circle would be far less picky, as long as their woman allows them good sexy time. imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:48 AM
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in my teenage years I was growing resentful for the women who would not do me the honor of sucking me dry in a nightclub's toilets, as they were supposed to do (advertised by movies, series and the like). I've later come to realise that there was nothing glamorous going in a crowded place to sweat and dance and drink like there's no tomorrow, just to get some not-so-sexy action, eventually I stopped this shitshow and stayed at home. Now, I still have trouble seducing for the sake of it, I handle…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:51 AM
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cannot get to her level of agressiveness, it's not me :D I'll just leave her to her delusions, it's not my business after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:31 PM
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sorry, my comment was directed to u/frugaholic1201
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:09 AM
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the exception that confirms the rule? :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:28 AM
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I occasionally have discussions on this with my current SO. She was the first one bringing to the table that I would cheat on her with a younger and cuter girl, in the early stages of the relationship. It made me a bit akward but I've kept going. We still joke around it from time to time, although I have no real need to cheat, because I cannot be invested in 2 relationships at once when I'm already so busy. I try to tell her that she is excited by the idea I could cheat (but won't)... But she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:32 AM
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thank you so much. As a matter of fact, I've been reading a lot about polyamory since year 2013, and had my moments when I was seeing multiple partners (older women haha), in 2015 and in 2017. I also stayed on OKCupid for a while, without big success. I mean I've got nice messages but never took it to the IRL level. Now I'm living in Istanbul, Turkey, I guess the polyamory lifestyle is even more underground here haha.
/r/seduction09/10/19 09:08 AM
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r/ihavesex, at least you can congratulate those who had sex. good luck USA yo. Don't overwork yourself.
/r/MGTOW218/09/19 01:29 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:33 PM
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I always find myself wondering what I want from a woman. Interestingly, I can get bored from sex quite easily once I've got my functional dose.. My standards of frequency in sex have dropped over the years when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:22 PM
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seems more like black pill than "ex" red pill. get some help d00d.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 08:46 AM
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cool story bruh
/r/ExRedPill09/08/19 08:44 AM
2

time for money is prostitution usually. even your boring job duh. taking wife and children is not job. one is totally free to avoid it and can still stay alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:14 AM
7

oh! you are here, too. We all know prostitutes provide other services. Aren't all employees prostitutes? They're just using their arms and brains instead of their sexual parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:48 AM
1

smashing. I'll try sometime in my life. Maybe. Or not. I don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:45 AM
4

ok, now we're going to business. who's gonna be more expensive : wifey, normal baby-sitter or prostitute? there should be a scientific study on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:41 AM
7

it's not only sex you get with that money, it's a partner who raises your kids and takes care of your household. ask a prostitute to do that and you'll be served with laughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:24 AM
8

what kind of prostitution is it with only one customer per lady. If I was a pimp I would not approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:05 AM
2

it is ridiculously drawn to luck. sometimes I'd wait 1 year because of being busy in studies or whatsoever, sometimes it would just take 1 evening just having a spark with someone in unexpected ways, such as board games party.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:16 AM
1

poor thing... may I see the blog? for study purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:52 AM
2

question : how do you get better if you don't train? ​ instead of focusing on "being good" or "performance", it would be better to shame them for "not listening to your needs" or something like that. What makes men bad in bed, is their making or false assumptions about how it's done. Maybe for some it's forgetting foreplay too much. Some others want to last long at all prices when their partner just loves a quickie. Some take it too sloppy and behave like starfishes (ew). Some would come juicefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:07 PM
2

I enjoyed this movie years ago. Sad to see, you're right. I don't idealize it so much now. Heck, Braff is a funny actor though.
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 11:26 AM
1

I guess ultimately she's still leaving with the kids rite? sad D:>
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 12:11 PM
1

at first I was enjoying Skyler's interventions about staying safe and stuff, but it didn't even last one season. ​ Marie's fall was so fun to watch. Also at this time I had the hots for her haha.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 10:02 AM
-4

well, I shit you not, read for yourself... ​ https://robertsheating.com/blog/what-is-your-air-conditioners-impact-on-the-environment ​ https://www.nytimes.com/2016/08/10/science/air-conditioner-global-warming.html ​ All it took me was searching "air conditioner environment" on google, come on guys.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 08:26 AM
-3

why tho?
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 07:15 AM
-18

actually, AC is wrong on many ecological levels because it rejects hot air, only making heat hotter every year. but very convenient device nonetheless.
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 06:24 AM
1

example here with automatic subtitles for what it's worth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkOnesGQ7JM you can also google translate the video description, which is basically the text read by the author.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:11 PM
1

This is what I do, thank you. My point was to try and say to all the bitter persons telling their stories and claiming "AWALT", "all men are trash" and such stuff, that nature does not care. Not even my point, Delavier's point. ​ Basically he says : life finds ways to carry on and does not care about the individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:10 PM
1

I don't know yet. All I can say is I do not resent about any of my exs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:07 PM
1

I want to offer something nice to OP ahah. I share this opinion, that this whole disappointment in dating emerges most in USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:58 AM
2

fact : inconditional love goes to children only.
/r/MGTOW06/07/19 07:54 PM
1

i cannot sum it up all, nor do I know whether he has english subtitles on his youtube videos. if you're interested search him on youtube or amazon, guy also wrote books.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:34 PM
1

i did not. Frederic Delavier did. I just think it's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:53 PM
1

as long as life carries on haha. it is like it is whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 02:22 PM
2

well. i'm male. one of my porn fantasies (among others I don't tell :p) is threesome sex. ffm or mmf it doesn't matter. and orgies or whatever I like to see. but IRL I put care and effort into my sexual relationships and it exhausts me quickly, so as much as I like to watch group sex on videos, I'm not sure I would have a good performance nor a fun time at it. other than that well. I don't have overly difficult expectations. I just don't get too lazy in bed... until I can't move anymore haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:58 PM
1

that was my point actually. lots of MGTOW and incels complain but it just is. sorry for the misunderstanding, english is not my native language.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:46 PM
6

lowering my standards helped me out and made me meet less shady chicks. Every breakup went smooth with zero drama, and I can still talk about my exs with enthusiasm and care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:21 AM
1

I think if you come friendly to any women in any given circumstance (instead of being a clingy needy creepy guy), they'd instantly get a bit more interest than they would normally. When you focus on yourself, unconsciously you become more self-aware and careless about what people will think of you. ​ Actually if you come to ask this question and describe it as you do, you're probably still a bit clingy. ​ If you actually stop putting women on a pedastel they'd come at you because they would know…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:19 AM
1

I don't get the joke? Like wifey has to believe he's working or something?
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 09:10 PM
1

what do you think of men being happy in poly lifestyle and even getting multiple female partners?
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 11:50 AM
1

sad it happened. btw as a result were you unbanned from r/offmychest?
/r/MGTOW204/07/19 09:25 AM
4

very valid point
/r/MGTOW02/07/19 06:19 PM
3

I will maybe hang out sometimes and throw seductive moves. If it's a catch cool, if not I go home and watch series while eating ice cream lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 08:37 PM
1

I was raised by a depressive mother who never got her shit together after her divorce when I was 4 yo. It was not that bad, I mean she stayed away from something bad like cigarette, alcohol, going to bar, etc... She was also a loving and caring person, listening to my problems to no end, buying me clothes (at sales day of course), cooking super yummy meals with lots of veggies and stuff. But she was not (still isn't) fully functional with her own life. Always lacking money to pay this or that, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:30 PM
2

Cut the daydreaming. We cannot even handle living together on this planet, in your mind what kind of society would raise from life in a (tiny) spaceship travelling for (a lot of ) years? Actually, a writer imagined it : Bernard Werber - The butterfly of the stars
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 08:27 PM
1

great, cheers
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 02:07 PM
0

that sucks
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 09:27 AM
12

Money doesn't bring happiness. Jk jk. The ones who said that, are the same people who never know a single bit of struggle in their lives. I hate this statement, too. But my point is : Money does not bring happiness to uncreative people. Most people who are born in high standards, do not know a shit about themselves, thus they have nothing to do really, and drown in some sort of depression state where nothing makes them fullfilled, because they already knew everything possible on Earth since chil…
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 09:11 AM
115

no one should work 12hrs/day
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 06:30 AM
1

did the same and also got in r/MGTOW and proudly got my ban from r/offmychest. totally worth it, these discussions are fascinating, cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:20 AM
1

I don't get it. on one hand we criticize this kind of allegations done on father's day, on the other hand I see every now and then, high rate of criticizing the fathers (beta, cucks, losers, chads, tyrones, and other nice names) whenever some milf thot pops up in tinder and wants a "new dad" to take care of her and her brat. I don't know, ain't they all fathers anyways?
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 02:21 PM
1

honk honk
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:20 PM
1

The biological imperative of men is to impregnate as many women as possible throughout their lives and to eventually get away with it. I can imagine the chaos if this was normalized :) ​ Usually this kind of man is the "attractive type" who's so despised by incels. I saw some video about it, that claims that there are three types of men : i. the caretaker, sticks to his wife and cares for his offspring ii. the massfucker, spreads anyone at any occasion and usually either drowns in child support …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 08:17 PM
0

Single mom is evil, single mom wanting a new companion/partner and life back on its track is evil. Well I'll have you know, fellows, that the glass isn't always half-full. Some of these women really got some shit going (not all ofc, I'm not white-knighting in the wind). A bit of compassion for women who've had it hard with their ex-husbands. When you blame all the single mothers for being single, you forget the ones who were beaten, berated, who feared for their children's physical health. Blame…
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 12:50 PM
1

what the pistachio
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 03:09 PM
1

I see it as the expansion of my porn kink collection.
/r/MGTOW205/06/19 01:59 PM
3

fucking magnets, how do they work
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 09:47 PM
1

dunno ya, it's not like dem thots are craving my personal genitals :p
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/19 01:00 PM
-27

I don't get the hate? Girls wants to stick to this boy anyways doesn't she? In my mind she may tell the truth if asked, or keep her secrets if not. The important thing is she stops craving dick once she's engaged, not how much she had before, AMR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 12:33 PM
-1

Very short love story but the biggest change I could see in a woman, and boy was it surprising. So I kind of fell in love with a young lady when I was around 20yo, and she was 16 or something. Some messages were traded and also some pictures but nothing more, she was going through a tough time and at some point we lost contact. Fast forward 3 years later, we begin to build some friendship again, she tells me she became a lesbian because all men were hurtful to her, etc... Also she begins to hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:17 AM
1

Thanks a lot for this input. It was a pleasure to read. And it gives some Hope ^^ I am aware that a lot of bad things happened to most women in the last decades, I just mentioned the "good old Times" because I Guess most disappointed men have sympathy for this. Actually, every Time I read of a MGTOW thread where the Guy is bitter and salty af, I Wonder : did this Guy do any abuse to this woman. My parents for example, went through lots and lots and rough patches, and still today. My father claim…
/r/MGTOW231/05/19 06:32 AM
2

So this classic thot wants all of her dreams come true while the real scarred women would come with a realistic list : - Must not be alcoholic - Must not beat me up - Must not beat up our kids - Must not engage in harcore sex with my teenage daughter - Must not control my every moves - Must not call me names and neg me every hour - Must allow me to see my friends I hate it, that these self-centered assholes take all the fame with their bullshit while most women are still enduring serious problem…
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 09:50 PM
1

Lol what's wrong with her. And what can she bring to that relationship eh? We didn't even talk about her hobbies but I'm pretty sure it is boring lady-like stuff like buying expensive brands of bags and shoes. Ugh disgusting. Just like her face.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 09:42 PM
2

Ok, y'all convinced me, I want to be one of the dicks of various carousels, seems like a much more enjoyable situation to have a good sexual life :p
/r/MGTOW230/05/19 08:13 PM
1

I can see no forever After in Chad's arms. At some point this Chad's not enough. Like it never ends does it?
/r/MGTOW230/05/19 06:09 PM
1

Does it happen that Chad got Chad'ed also?
/r/MGTOW230/05/19 06:07 PM
1

I am empathetic it turned that way for you. I wish you well man.
/r/MGTOW230/05/19 02:26 PM
1

So many undatable divorced women really? Wow, that makes me think. Maybe some of them are just scarred to life by their previous wedlock, can it be? But yeah, being emotionally scarred will end as a handicap anyways. I have being dating/fwb'ing with some divorced women. At this step of the relationship they were nice. And experimented. That felt good. And I never got too much interested in their children anyways. Then the relationships ended without drama, either because I was living country, or…
/r/MGTOW230/05/19 02:09 PM
1

I Hope Sloan does not have any intentions on Hosanna. That would be a shady hidden agenda for sure.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 11:11 AM
1

I know of a chick who did not ask for financial support from ex-husband when she divorced. She is proud that she held on by herself (also with state help I guess). I wonder what's wrong with her :p
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 06:03 AM
2

I can guess we guys are more straightforward about the number of persons we actually have had intimacy with. Damn patriachy society standards slut shaming women with their numerous sexual encounters! Wait whaaaat.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 01:42 PM
1

Actually I would prefer to date a chick who's aware of her body needs. They do much better partners in bed. Km of cock they took should be seen as experience, as any other activity could count performance numbers. Disclaimer : if she cheats on someone when doing this it is still wrong
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 12:23 PM
7

Tegrity farms
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 11:42 PM
1

If they are less selective thanks to abortion, could they also think about this AWALT thing. If İ am following right, escape the imperative equals more sex with strangers, including least good-looking/ambitious strangers? Like if sex was just a candy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:49 PM
3

Brrap Brrap Pew Pew
/r/MGTOW24/05/19 10:44 AM
2

I study music making but İ gotta guess that's some religious lifesaving stuff as well ^
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 05:06 PM
3

Happy my bait worked. The other guy did not just fuck the wife, they got together in the same home and they took the kids. I wonder if the same scenario can apply to the other guy later on. İt's normal women behave this way. Now, the state and the technology can achieve whatever us mere human could achieve. Thus, they are getting bored. That said, taking advantage of women's hypergamy is just a different form of street smarts. It's evil but still clever. İt's dog eat dog society, who cares if on…
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 04:06 PM
21

Bitches be like
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 03:45 PM
-9

Don't be a loser, be the other guy.
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 03:20 PM
2

I can't seem to understand why this kind of story always come from USA. I.e women wanting only free food and entertainment, taking no responsibility, knowing no limit like entitled little cunts. You're an USian aren't you? I never seem to read complaints on this particular behaviour elsewhere. Or maybe it is still taboo and men do not express it. My dating life sucks so anyways I have no personal comparison base to play the devil's advocate, haha. But I can remember some women I've met who were …
/r/MGTOW22/05/19 11:44 AM
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