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The good news is, it gets easier as you get older. At 20 I would come in seconds, but at 30 it takes me efforts to come. You are getting better every second :)
/r/seduction29/06/18 10:42 PM
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I'm not saying the rest of your life. Just at first, to lower their defense. Then gradually return to normal. That's basically the same lie, except visual.
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:33 PM
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You can just act very gay, and not say you are. You would achieve the same goal without lying.
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:22 PM
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IIRC in an interview, Neil Strauss (who wrote the Game) said: "we don't pretend to be gay anymore, it's just too easy"
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:20 PM
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Two things: Demography The people you are talking about met their girlfriends in an environment that made it easy for them. For instance, university, where the age boundaries makes the population very homogeneous. You want to make it easy for you to find a girl? Go to a place where demography is at your advantage. Lithuania, Russia, populations have many more girls than guys. Go in a bar at night there, you will be literally preyed on. On the other hand, if you live in a population where every g…
/r/seduction24/04/18 08:35 AM
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That first video is so awkward I had to stop watching it because I felt embarrassed. Everything is wrong. The guy calls out the girl in the street, don't try and win her friends, only talks to her, speaks way too fast. The only reason why the girl goes back and talk to him is that he's 8'0 and a model (or the whole video is staged). I guarantee you that any normal guy trying this, the girl will go on her way.
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:46 AM
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This is just bullshit advice. I guarantee you that if you go to a girl and your mind keeps repeating "I should stand tall, I should speak loud, I need to speak my mind…", you will fuck up. You will say "no" to her when there was no reason to, you will speak too loud, you will not pay attention to what she is saying, … Those behaviours are all natural traits of someone who is self-confident. It is a state you achieve by being surrounded with great friends (guys and girls), having a life-style you…
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:41 PM
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DW
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:34 PM
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Hey, great job overall!! For the LMR, as soon as she says something like "I want to leave something for next time". I would have backed out, spent a few minutes doing something else while chit-chatting about her plans for the weekend, what type of girl she is when no-one is watching, anything to keep her talking without evoking sex. Then I'd have suggested getting some food and watching a movie, and re-escalated later on if she said yes, or make plans if she said no. I would back out because it …
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:49 PM
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I think you are seeing this wrong. Girls are not stupid. They are not naive creatures you lured into your apartment. When they accept to come to your place, they know what's on. The big difference is, if you make a pretext, you don't look like a desperate guy that has been waiting all evening just for to get laid. Also she feels like if she changes her mind, she is free to go, she didn't sign for anything. TL;DT You didn't get her to your place, you made her feel comfortable enough around you th…
/r/seduction08/04/18 09:27 PM
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My boy
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:38 PM
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This makes me realize that I haven't felt rejected in a long time. This can only mean one thing: I don't try hard enough. Or I grew careless. Whichever
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:31 PM
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As a "real" salsa dancer, it's true... in more advanced classes. However in beginner classes, girls are here to have fun.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:16 PM
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It only feels awkward if when you are dancing, you keep thinking "I'm fucking dancing alone, I'm a loser". If you start thinking "I'm the fucking new John Travolta" and try and copy his crazy dance move and laughing about how ridiculous it is, then that's it, you are having fun
/r/seduction15/02/18 04:40 PM
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Good job! I wouldn't have said I'll add you tomorrow, I'd have said "sure", shrugged, then added her the next day.
/r/seduction10/02/18 05:15 PM
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OP did what everybody in their right mind would do. Reap some karma.
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:18 PM
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I'm curious about your demography then. Are they mostly locals or travelers? Do you speak Spanish? I'm asking because find it a lot easier to bring home someone traveling than someone local, I wonder if this correlates to your experience
/r/seduction20/05/17 12:41 AM
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I feel like this post is advocating bringing her home on the first date as the best approach. I opted out of this strategy because I get way better results when I wait for the second / third date. Maybe that's to do with not being in the US? Anybody relates?
/r/seduction19/05/17 11:58 PM
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I have the feeling that many of these items are seen through an American eye's filter. For instance: "Other Europeans might not understand teasing and banter". French girls and Spanish girls absolutely love that. But it has to be done the right away, which means knowing the language and the culture.
/r/seduction25/02/17 09:09 AM
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What rejection? I only saw a girl that a lost her chance to get to know me.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:01 AM
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It's hard to tell the difference between a girl that really don't want to talk to you (she had a bad day, she is married, etc.) and a girl that's just protecting herself against the hord. The first type will blow you away and turn your back to you, leaving you no chance. The second one will also blow you away, but will still watch your reaction.
/r/seduction09/07/16 05:13 PM
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Yes, that, exactly.
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:34 PM
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I usually go for: "I'm going to take a quick shower, just make yourself at home". and throw something at her (YouTube video on my tablet, tell her to get some wine in the fridge). Then I take the fastest shower ever. like 3 min in/out, and offer her to have one. She knows what's up, she probably also want to have one, she just needs an excuse "I need to check my email real fast, here's a towel if you want to freshen up in the meantime".
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:42 PM
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She either HAS a boyfriend and is not interested in cheating on him (otherwise she wouldn't have mentioned him). Or she doesn't have one and she pretends she has, because she is not interested in you. Either way, she is not interested in romance with you. You can choose to feel offended and decide to be miserable. Or you can just brush it off, and maybe make a friend out of her? Your call.
/r/seduction11/01/16 05:25 PM
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That's about what I do too. But what do you do when they don't ask? I don't want girls to start fantasizing and feel played with afterwards, and neither do I want to break the cool vibe by saying sth like "I am not looking for anything serious" when we are enjoying each other's company
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:56 PM
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At what point do you tell them that?
/r/seduction20/11/15 06:10 PM
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At that point you have already lost the game. Serious gaming implies befriending all her friends beforehands. This is "social hook", and ignoring it means later on, they will come as obstacle. So focus on improving THAT part of your game and the rest will come naturally, any excuse to go back to your place will do.
/r/seduction20/09/15 10:25 AM
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