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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Need advices on handling shit test in the form of asking me to do menial tasks for her		qianer1006	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/06/15 03:22 AM

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1	An example of OI What does "DEER" stand for?	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/08/15 08:16 AM
1	Need advices on handling shit test in the form of asking me to do menial tasks for her That was really insightful and thought provoking. Thank you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/06/15 03:35 AM
1	Need advices on handling shit test in the form of asking me to do menial tasks for her Thank you everyone for giving me your generous advices. Words can not describe how grateful I am. The take home lesson for me is to stop trying to dodge the bullets and focus on improving myself. Lift and read, and be the best version of me.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/06/15 01:15 AM
3	Need advices on handling shit test in the form of asking me to do menial tasks for her One key characteristic of beta is supplicating to women. This is why I hesitate to simply offer my service. I hate the blue pill me so much and I despise myself for doing anything beta. But you're right I'm probably over thinking and over reacting. I should focus on increasing my own value instead.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/06/15 09:41 AM
1	Need advices on handling shit test in the form of asking me to do menial tasks for her Thanks for the comment. Seeing it this way it definitely looks like a comfort test. I've been trying to up my alpha lately and must have been failing a lot of comfort tests. I might have to dial it back a bit. Another thing to ask yourself - does she show love to you by acts of service? If so it's probably just the way she shows and understands love, and it's all probably just a comfort test. It is possible. I need to observe more to know for sure.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/06/15 09:18 AM
3	Need advices on handling shit test in the form of asking me to do menial tasks for her Yeah I grew up in China and am currently living in Singapore. What about me suggests that I'm Indian? The key is respectful reciprocity. If she routinely asks you for things while you're up, routinely ask her for things while she's up. If that works, great. If it doesn't, then refuse until she does. Shit test her. I see this as largely agreeing with pentadad's comment. I see this as something I need to work on. My wife seems to get off on making me do things for her, while when I try it, I just …	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/06/15 09:00 AM

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