quadruplesquare Archive

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2	Why do so many men here want casual sex? They probably should, however I don’t like the entitlement to others time and understanding the previous commenter has. It’s actually a feminine trait. Women feel entitled to others’ time and understanding, and I never really liked it, when men exhibit the same traits it’s double as cringe. There is so much hardship going on in people’s lives, women are busy trying to survive in this economy just like men, no one cares about mens libido broadly unless it’s a specific guy - their boyfriend/husban…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 11:00 PM
2	Why do so many men here want casual sex? It’s a problem if you can’t fulfill your impulse, absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 10:31 PM
2	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Does it affect me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:29 PM
2	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Then whose problem is this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:22 PM
7	Why do so many men here want casual sex? But I’m not interested in most men, and the ones I’m interested in have different problems than not getting laid by definition because I’m willing to solve this one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:20 PM
2	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Habibi this is not ad hominem. I’m not saying you are a bad person, I’m not saying you are a bad man, I’m not saying you are unattractive, I’m saying that you - you have a problem. Which you even acknowledge yourself, in fact this kicked off with you acknowledging a problem. The only difference is that you trying to blow the personal problem that you have, to the scale of the entire population. This isn’t an attack, I have personal problems too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:18 PM
2	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Dude your personal problems are not men’s problems. They are yours. They are your problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:13 PM
6	Why do so many men here want casual sex? Why would anybody make an effort to understand you and your personal wants that have nothing to do with them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 09:09 PM
2	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Habibi this particular issue is not a system issue, you checking out is a you problem. You make decisions you gotta live with the consequences. What do you want me to do about this choice to check out and this public announcement, cry “Oh no Johnny come back! 😭” No, nobody is coming to change the world for your convenience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 08:56 PM
7	Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success? Why do you, men who checked out of dating, need to announce it on every corner of the internet? As if somebody is supposed to do something	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 04:30 PM
-2	Q4W, What is a boring relationship to you or a boring man? When you are becoming too intimate with one another it becomes boring. I want to feel jealous sometimes. People who don’t give any reason or space for insecurity and jealousy tend to be impossible to be around, it’s cute at first, but then this bliss becomes suffocating. How am I supposed to be attracted to somebody who doesn’t put minimal effort into sex appeal, and dumps their puppy love on me all the time. And what’s more frustrating is there is no way to verbalize it without sounding like a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:13 PM
3	From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us. I think their complaint is that they didn’t get their goody bag while you grabbed yours. If every guy was getting laid they all would be pro-feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:06 PM
1	Those who criticize people who engage in workplace romances are hypocritical TDIL that there is people who dislike someone else’s workplace romances	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:04 PM
3	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women “Some women are only good for getting pumped 😊 I don’t mean it to be rude 🤪”	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:03 PM
2	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women I have so many questions. When was the last time you met somebody who gets fucking alimony? Where do you live? What the fuck is this bourgeoisie problem? Most women aren’t getting a jack shit because their guy doesn’t have a jack shit. This alimony hysteria is not even consistent with this recurring TRP point on average man’s salary being like what, $50,000? Then what the fuck is there for a woman to take?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 06:56 PM
0	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women I’m so tired of this “women are more likely to initiate divorce” one liner, because it doesn’t capture any reasons why women are more likely to initiate a divorce, nor does it explain why divorce is necessarily a worse outcome than continuing to be married. Can we stop saying this, pretty please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 06:51 PM
7	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women I by no means advocate that men should be pressured into commitments that they don’t want to take, but this whole “If you don’t believe that I’m committed - 🥺” is cringe. Of course nobody believes that you are committed. Because you are not. You can’t request this level of trust from people, especially considering that you can easily uncommit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 06:50 PM
1	The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned women They stick around for longer than they should, and they have no insight into the other persons perspective. I think they don’t ask themselves where a relationship is going on time and build themselves illusions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 06:45 PM
0	Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore? Just to be clear: all of this is in your head and you are fighting the ghost of your dad/mom/1st grade teacher. I don’t have a single person who imposes these standards, or any standards, on me. Like, nobody gives a fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:41 PM
2	Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore? Just to be clear, as a guy you don’t have to be anything. You have to be these things to appeal to women, if you want to. It’s more of a free marketplace logic than somebody imposing expectations on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:36 PM
1	Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive? Not unless I didn’t like his approach. If he does anything that I perceive is rude or out of line, I will bully him so hard that he will require psychotherapy. Example of rude: a guy trying to take me to his apartment immediately after I entertained small talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:34 PM
1	CMV : if you offered this - Stability, kindness, consistency, no drama, aka a steady healthy calm relationship that “ends” your story, most would say no People want both. That’s why they will find stable boring goody two shoes and cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:31 PM
–	CMV as a Man Status and Money beats Looks easily, and anyone who disagrees is completely delusional. Status and money do not solve the problem of attraction. If you want to buy sex, you don’t need to be Di Caprio, just get yourself a plane ticket, go to Cambodia or Thailand, or some other destination and you will see a plenty of young beautiful women. Like, sex itself was never a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:30 PM
–	The reason why many men don’t see objectification as an issue/don’t understand it is cause they view the world, themselves, and each other from that lens Okay, first of all, there is a plenty of women who objectify men - as wallets, or as a guy who they can show up to some presentation event with and all women will be jealous. I think there is as many women who see the world through the lens of gain-loss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:26 PM
-4	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. As a woman who is guilty of giving people this type of advice, I in the back of my mind understand that “women just want someone nice” is a lazy milquetoast response. At the same time, I am simply not going to tell anybody that they aren’t passing other bars. It’s exhausting, rude and there is nothing for me to gain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:20 PM
3	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. Do women lie and sugarcoat their preferences? All the time. Some of it is cluelessness, some of it politeness and lack of interest to engage with your dating struggles. Nobody owes anybody truth, especially when people interact with you in person. There isn’t a single person, besides maybe your parents, who is interested in giving you a refined and genuine perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 05:09 PM
3	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? The same women who call men out on being careless and pushy lined up to see 50 shades of gray when it came out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:59 PM