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Thank you for sharing this. It is exactly what I was looking for in a response. I will have to re-read it a few times to let it sink in.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 10:15 PM
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Thanks for the replies.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:13 PM
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Chateau Heartiste has some great articles you should read through: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/?s=text+game
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:29 AM
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It doesn't sound like you can do much but the thought of you saying to your gf that you continued to meet with her "friend" to keep your relationship alive, even though it was killing you inside made me chuckle. joke aside, most of your options have been given by other members but I'd say do not apologize and act as if it was nothing. There's a Beige Philip ep where Dante essentially talks about the perspective of your gf when she finds out she is cheated on. I wish I knew the ep# but hopefully …
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:28 AM
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no, don't do this. one of the first things you should have learned is that you can't take a woman's word at face value. Actions over words. Second, do you really give a shit what she has to say? About her FEELZ? If you've been on the sub even a little while, you'd know that a woman's emotions are capricious. I'm wondering why she even mentioned it in the first place...leading me to believe that in previous circumstances you either let her feel that it is OK that she even mention these things (sh…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:57 AM
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Last one I used was "you acted much more mature for your age (she didn't) I thought you were older". Most younger girls still have something to prove and don't want to think you're disqualifying them. They will attempt to qualify themselves as /u/turd_-_ferguson said. You don't have to lie, but don't tell the flat-out truth either, that's boring. /u/Apexk9 got it right - amplify. Say you're collecting SS (they might not even know what that is) or you qualify for the senior discount at McD's. You…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:48 AM
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I should've said I'm asian of filipino descent. Born and raised in USA though.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:48 PM
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I think you meant to post this in the parent sub.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:03 PM
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The moment she cheated on you meant that she no longer respected you and doesn't care what your feelings are on the matter, especially since she has already gone public about fucking someone else. You'll end up looking like a beta chump by trying to exact some sort of guilt when she will be none the wiser. Move on and forget about her. Block her if you want to, or don't. Sometimes it helps to go through whatever you're feeling and actually do something that you think would help, like putting her…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 10:46 PM
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I would be worried about the false charge possibility as well, especially because she is older and I would think she has tried to get married numerous times before. Her sense of entitlement coming from an affluent family ultimately exposes her true nature. She thinks she can control you like she does her orbiters and outright asks you for money it is disgusting. Protect yourself. Texts back and forth confirming everything was consensual. Get in public on a few CCTV making it look like you're bot…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 10:39 PM
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Yup. Except you're expected to act like it is a closed relationship.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 10:04 PM
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"I don't want you to think that I'm a slut. Give me a way to deny responsibility for my actions."
/r/askTRP07/06/15 03:54 AM
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No; Yes. www.therationalmale.com - read the latest post entitled "Building Better Worlds" dated May 19, 2015. Also read the linked-to articles in the article, specifically http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 08:13 PM
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Amused Mastery or Agree and Amplify. Always. I'm sure you're looking for the "exact" answer but I don't have it. It should be something along the lines of "Me too. I'm always being hounded by women like a piece of meat or for free drinks at the bar..." yadda yadda yadda "...I just want to feel like a real person". Or something like that. I'm sure someone else will chime in with something much more smooth. Whatever you do don't respond logically or seriously.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:24 PM
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Why waste your time on a woman this age, especially when she is a single mother? The effort/time/resources you spend won't nearly equate to a payoff, unless you're actually trying to learn how to game women this old. I think you're better off lifting, reading or spending time on yourself or on actual prospective plates.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:45 AM
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Yes. Take it up a level and don't respond logically. Continue your gaming here with amused mastery. Besides, you've got the time to do it. Make it funny or don't respond at all. Remember all those times you thought of something witty to say, hours or even days later? This is one of those times that you can close that gap.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:03 PM
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Sure. Just remember who that love should be aimed at first: YOU.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:05 PM
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I think you need to make your own decisions in life instead of asking a bunch of internet people what the "proper response" is.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:56 PM
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Don't you have some party to go to at the exact same time as that study session? Say it ain't so.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 04:19 PM
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At least tell us why this is a terrible idea otherwise it is just opinion. Your response is basically opinion without anything else to back it up. Really, I just want to know if it is because it just wouldn't work as intended or what.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:05 PM
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The Friendzone: You - not getting what you want. Her - getting what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:54 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:08 PM
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I'm assuming Agree and Amplify wouldn't be of help in your situation?
/r/askTRP24/10/14 09:17 PM
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You parachuted 5 miles off course deep in the Amazon and it took a little while to find your way out.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 05:42 AM
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I think you're right. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 11:45 PM
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It might have. I barely got to watch any of it when I thought I had saved it. In the beginning they walk out onto what looks like a stage, but are basically sitting alone, just the two of them.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 05:18 PM
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What's the term for when you don't use ego protection to say you're not like those guys, but instead aspire to be like them, lift, lose weight, basically just start focusing on becoming better in every way?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:21 PM
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I've been on the other side of this before. When I went to leave the girl even initiated an intense makeout session with me. So blue before.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:07 PM
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Seriously, where is the summary?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 04:54 PM
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In before the tables turn. I doubt others here would agree with your handling of the situation. It might feel good in the short term but expending all this energy for revenge just puts you in a more vulnerable position for your plan to backfire on you. I wouldn't be surprised if she found out you're into RP and then have all manner of social shaming done to you. If you've read even a story or two about how women can come together to basically excommunicated you from your peers, especially throug…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:32 PM
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I believe Ian Ironwood defined it best as praxeology. He has a good article in his blog at redpillroom.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:10 PM
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Also read as "not intimidating" or "feminine".
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:01 PM
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You know what? Fuck that. I hope all of you come to the realization that your time is more important than trying to keep some girl "company" while they drive home at night after AF while you BB her with that. When I was BP I used to take calls from this one friend-girl all the time. I did it for so long that I didn't know why I was doing it until I stumbled on here and started taking myself more seriously.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:44 PM
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An example on a large scale of giving women what they think they want and how it won't make them happy. But, you know, it's your (men's) fault because you gave it to them.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 03:04 PM
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It sounds like you're entitled too, if you get a "no" response and you automatically think that he is an asshole. Maybe as a cab driver his passenger is an assassin and has taken the driver hostage? What if the driver was trying to save your life?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:47 PM
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Yes. It's been said many times.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 09:27 PM
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Intelligence must span more than just the ability to study, do well in school and obtain a well-paying job. She didn't think about her reproductive success until now.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 10:34 PM
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When I start my test cycle I'm going to buy a whistle and blow it near ugly girls that I consider are trying to "rape " me.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 06:33 PM
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Check out T.K. Kirkland. I stumbled onto him through Spotify. Not the funniest stuff but he has an RP perspective. T.K. Kirkland: http://youtu.be/VaIPZzYl7Ko
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:22 AM
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Or use her vagina to host the Olympic games of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:04 PM
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You didn't learn your lesson the first time and now you want advice on how to do it a second time? Damn. If you pursue Shirley and it doesn't go nuclear on you, I will still be shaking my head. The other girls STILL like you now. Cherish this moment and hope it stays that way.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 09:55 PM
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If thats what you think full red pill is....sigh.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:33 PM
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LOL, that is excoriating.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 04:35 PM
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Even if she wasn't "that bad", whatever that means, he should be getting child support.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 04:43 PM
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I really wish I could have been there to see the look on her face. Badly.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:11 PM
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Seriously. How many self-described "foodies" do you know? Reminds me of that phrase: Human Beings vs Human Doings. Think about all the guys you know and all the girls you know. Chances are guys have hobbies where they like to hone their craft and are passionate about it; girls on the other hand? Racking up likes on IG, Yelp, Facebook etc. Internal vs external validation.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 10:54 PM
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It sounds like you're assuming that TRP is responsible for the disappearance of the unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:02 AM
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I got a good smile reading this, hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 09:59 PM
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Same shit different feminist. All the perks with none of the responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:48 PM
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Never thought of it that way. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:22 AM
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Why are you asking her "if" you're going to get coffee? Get coffee yourself and tell her to come. Start leading and stop asking questions.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 10:33 PM
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How is it you pull the same story as someone else did just 2 hours later? Also you have no intro. Good Damn read the rules again.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:18 PM
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Yup. Had a good mind-chuckle.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:14 PM
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From what you can see, what are asian women in Europe/England going for more often?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:01 PM
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From what I've been reading on here lately, there is something to be said about a woman that is willing to be led by a man. If she is that scared that she cannot give up control to someone who isn't "intimidated" by her, it would seem to me that she still isn't quite sure about you or isn't getting the 'gina tingles'. I agree with /u/But_ImNotARapper in that you might need to build comfort. Are you at least doing 3/2 with the texts? Also would suggest you stop "talking about hanging out". DHV wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:08 PM
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What are your fitness goals?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:57 PM
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This is the kind of sentiment that makes people lazy as fuck on the job. If everyone made the same amount of money, the incentive is gone to actually do work worth a damn.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 06:17 PM
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Rephrase that first sentence please.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 12:23 PM
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You don't feel bad because it doesn't exist in your frame. What you are feeling are remnants of your previous "nice guy" frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:02 PM
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She thought she could have her cake and eat it too. Well? Happy birthday to the ground!!! Seriously though, I see the typical solipsism and hamster rationalization in here. If the story is true, good on the guy for having options. Reminds of this article in TRP: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/267333 Action yielding a desirable reaction = success Action yielding an undesirable reaction = mistake You always want to make sure you have options.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 04:56 PM
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Eh. What EXACTLY do you want from this girl?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 03:13 AM
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Follow the above advice. You are currently operating from a frame of scarcity and one-itis. Since you brought up the conversation of the relationship she probably feels that you don't have many options, resulting in a loss of 'gina tingle. You've essentially demonstrated lower SMV, which is possibly the cause of her distancing herself.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:34 AM
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I'm surprised they didn't show the positives of the female perspective: cheating on the husband later rationalizing it divorcing the husband and getting spousal support divorcing the husband and getting custody of any children getting a male to pay for child support even if the kid wasn't his having a one-night stand, regretting it months later and then accusing a male of rape nagging the husband making the male drop all his other female friends creep-shaming males that are not attractive gettin…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 03:38 AM
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Holy S. I cringed at just the captions.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:07 PM
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This is an interesting perspective. Can you elaborate more on this?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 07:02 PM
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Hmm. So she withheld sex but didn't bother to tell you why until you confronted her? Do you know this friend of hers? Have you seen the picture she mentioned? It almost sounds like a fictional excuse. Anyway, hopefully you learned not to tolerate bad behavior in the future. Lots of good advice in here to read over and let sink in.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:29 AM
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Back in college before acquiring knowledge about game, I joined a group of 5-6 females in my black studies class for a project which required a speech (I was the only male). I did it mainly to get face time with some of them. When we met to discuss the assignment, they just sat there waiting for someone to take charge. These girls did not contribute anything of value. The ones that did submit their portion of the work was of such low quality that I decided to redo the entire assignment myself. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 08:00 PM
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Article is gone?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 07:44 PM
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I've seen this response before but I think it is better suited to questions like "are you seeing anyone else" or questions about your relationship status.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 10:34 PM
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Amused mastery applies here. Something along the lines of, "yes, today/this week" etc. Or "only on Tuesdays". You should never be answering a serious question from your FWB with a serious answer.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 10:32 PM
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Be that yellow butterfinger guy. Don't be the Peanut butter guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 06:48 PM
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Wait is "theredpill" suggesting that women shouldn't be able to wear what they want... dafuq? Honestly, this sub has become infected with people who stick with a single point they don't agree with which hasn't even been explicitly stated. This type of arguing is better left to play out in your own head. Besides, TRP is what you make of it. You're asking a question to the entire subreddit which is basic concern trolling. Stop this petty nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 04:51 PM
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Smells like concern troll.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 04:52 AM
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Talk about lazy. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 11:20 PM
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My takeaway from the trailer: Demonstrate high SMV to increase your chances of pulling increasingly attractive women Don't get married Be wary of the women you keep around yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:17 PM
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Dave Chappelle - Love Contract
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 04:57 AM
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The last time I did a body fat test in water I was around 14% so I've got a gut which I'm losing slowly. My initial goal was to just lose that but since I started working out more consistently I've noticed some muscle gains which actually piqued my interest in getting "swole". I'm not sure where I'm at now but I highly doubt I'm very much below 14%. Do you have any recommended sources for clen and T3/T4?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:38 PM
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Lose weight and get cut
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:04 PM
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PM me if you want some cheat codes and are okay with using "enhancements". Depending on your size and goals, it's a lot easier and quicker than you think. Hey puasenator. I need some tips for fitness like you mentioned. I'm crosfitting right now and have gotten modest gains but I'm looking to get the overall swole look or at least be fucking sexy. what advice do you have? Thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 05:27 PM
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Hahaha. She'll have feminism to thank for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:39 PM
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Isn't there a rule that if you post a link you need to provide a summary of what it haS to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 08:38 PM
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I understand that you enjoy it when your SO (and previous SO's) would express their affection towards you. That's great/normal. However, panicking when they don't return it is a red flag on your end. It looks to me like you're always seeking some external validation. You can't expect to be in any relationship for long if all you are doing is relying on the other person to tell you how great you are (or all those wonderful lovey-dovey things she says in return for you doing things for her). That …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:41 PM
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I meant in general, but thanks anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 05:27 AM
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Does anyone have a link to identify signs of crazy? I'm sure it was on here somewhere before. I think I need a refresher after reading this.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 04:29 AM
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If he regrets it later can he claim rape since he was penetrated?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 01:39 AM
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Not only that but it reads as a litany of contradictions. e.g. DO NOT GIVE A FUCK, but ... That's called giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 05:04 PM
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Another Asian here. Even though I'm a guy, that doesn't stop relatives from the occasional "OH MY GOD you've gained a LOT OF WEIGHT" phrase or similar remarks. Then last Thanksgiving when I was beginning my paleo diet, I had another relative say "THAT'S ALL YOU'RE GONNA EAT?!" when I piled on a bunch of veggies and meat, no rice. It really is the culture. There isn't enough fat shaming here in America.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 05:44 PM
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Wow, that was a very interesting read. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 08:50 AM
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Crossfitter here. I can attest to the effectiveness of the workouts. The only downside to it is that it can be expensive for some. However, since the workouts change daily and it is class based, you basically get a personal trainer for each session. It is just that the quality can vary greatly between boxes. If you decide to go this route try a few before settling on one.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 08:19 PM
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Or if you ARE fat, be funny as hell and OWN it. Like Patrice O'Neal. Listen to the Black Phillip Show if you haven't yet.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 04:16 AM
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Thanks for the insight. I find that being serious is also just plain boring. A&A exercises your mind and lets you have a lot of fun and as I've read before, if you're having fun, so will the other person. I've found that staying in this frame helps you worry less about what others think and allows you to be more of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 04:09 AM
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UPDATE: Thanks to all of you who took the time to provide feedback. I didn't notice that she messaged me through a different chat service that same day she pulled the shit-test, so I messaged her back: ME: hey, just got this, how was your saturday? HER: went to work and shopped a bit ME: [some random info about me being an idiot for messing with my phone] HER: "I'm still mad at you" At this point I knew I was still in and replied "you shouldn't be". HER: Why? I was so mad and all you told me was…
/r/askTRP25/11/13 05:36 AM
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Roger that. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP24/11/13 06:50 PM
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I hadn't thought about this but it makes a lot of sense. I'll remember this going forward. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/11/13 04:36 AM
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Yeah, she does have a habit of complimenting herself. I found it comedic at best and didn't take her seriously. This, however, threw up a flag. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP24/11/13 04:36 AM
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First lesson of TRP is that no one will do the work for you. With that said, I introduce you to the sidebar ----------------------------------->
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:26 PM
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This isn't even RPT.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 08:16 PM
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Looking forward to that verb edit.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 02:40 AM
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You just reminded me of a time when I was at the airport after 9/11 and my then-GF stubbornly brought along travel-sized shampoo and conditioning bottles thinking it would be OK. The TSA agents DID NOT like it and were giving her a hard time about it. She began to argue with them saying things like they could've done it in a more respectful manner. WTF? Respectful? You could've been carrying bomb, they're just doing their job. Anyway, we finally get away and she tries to get validation from me b…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 02:22 AM
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Have you read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 07:47 AM
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In my experience, when a woman carries baggage she will make you pay for past transgressions which you had no part of. This is one of the primary red flags you should avoid because no amount of appeasement will help if she doesn't try to fix her problems on her own. You will inevitably run into wall after wall of something that she feels you are reminding her of, and time after time you'll have to reassure her that you aren't doing those things. TL;DR - I dumped her after I couldn't take it anym…
/r/askTRP24/09/13 07:13 AM
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Handle it like any other plate. Make sure you are getting what YOU want. As Patrice O'Neil said, women will fuck your time, your wallet, your conversations, etc. If you aren't fucking her pussy, then you might as well just be her "friend".
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 06:53 AM
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There should be a registry for women who falsely claim rape so men would know to steer clear. http://register-her.com/index.php?title=Main_Page
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 11:22 PM
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Reminds me of when I tried to help a fellow female crossfitter at my box with split jerk technique. She was bringing her front foot backwards instead of her back foot forward and I suggested she do it the other way. "Are you my trainer???" I couldn't help but just stare at her in the most dumbfounded way. Could have also been a shit-test but what do I know.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 03:42 PM
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Would you mind sharing some of the shit tests she was giving you and your responses?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 05:40 AM
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