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"Low maintenance woman" doesn't mean "loser" in the way a simp implies. As a partner of a low-maintenance woman, who has also been with higher maintenance, typical Western "Treat me like a Queen" women, the dynamic is completely wonderful. For one thing, when other guys meet my LTR low-maintenance woman, they think she's cool and they love the hell out of her and are occasionally jealous. She's the coolest chick at the party and the unicorn mellow pixie fairy every man wants. Women seem about 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:46 PM
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This amounts to grasping for rhetorical high ground, which solves zero problems for anyone. One thing I can promise is that nothing in this message will do anything for anyone, anywhere, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:46 PM
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Then what even is 'alpha' in your definition here? Just sex? Babies? Could be with anyone (broke trailer trash types from your description above). A totally insecure upper middle class dredger could pull all that off while convincing those women they were Julia Roberts in pretty woman and it would prove nothing. My suspicion is 'Alpha Male' means whatever /u/antariusz or anyone else wants it to mean in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:35 PM
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Have you ever been on the business/hiring side of the interview process? Even with a pile of applicants and you 'allow/don't allow', its a lot of work different to, though definitely as bad as seeking work -- also costly and stressful, and most hires don't work out but are hard to get rid of. Having been on both sides of this, both as an owner/consultant and as 1099 and W-2, there isn't an 'easy' part to it. Not a perfect analogy, fine, but one that could be informative if you have had the exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:13 PM
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This is where we cannot easily talk about people as a monolith. "Eastern Europeans" do you mean Polish, Romanian (the two I have experience with, which seem quite different!) or do you mean Ukies or Serbs or Russians? I think all these groups are vastly different and will have intergroup differences ranging wide. "Chill" in my Romanian friends means they'll say whatever the fuck. "Chill" in my Persian friends means they hang with buddies with loyalty and kindness, and are so warm and welcoming i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:17 PM
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Off-color jokes and swears are often throwing away class status to show that you have extra to burn in a fire. I think men who are unaware or doing this without consciousness of what they want to signal can come off as idiots. Of course, there are offices of the highest end where F-bombs pepper the conversation like pepper on peppered beef -- but it's a type of signaling. Using low-class language to signal that we don't need to signal our high class. The thing I find, because I grew up in countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:05 PM
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Do you know how to do anything other than strawman? Your statistic is meaningless here. It isn't as if there are no women who are highly educated outside of education. And yeah, as someone T-20 educated with M.E. and M.S. in two disciplines of engineering, I and everyone else I know is aware that a PhD in Education is (usually) less swagger than a B.A. in nearly anything but Education. Stop thinking of everything being a 1 or a 0 and throwing in extreme cases as if you have said anything interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:55 PM
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I will say the odds are good, but the goods are odd. Lots of chaos and dysfunction, divorce and oow kids. I like your saying there. Yeah, it seems like a lot of these kind of people are from bad places, dysfunctional. It reminds me of pretty girls from foreign places. I mean yeah you could fly over there and get one of them, but I seriously recommend against it unless she's at least upper middle class where she is from, educated, family has houses, and etc. Even then I have seen those relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:37 PM
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Not always fat. They didn't get the braces and other dental treatments that nearly literally every upper-middle class kid got in middle school. But not always fat. You can find plenty of thin poors if that's what you like. One of my friends with a PhD who thought he could do anything even married one of the really pretty country girls from another state who doesn't even have a B.A. He "took it as a challenge." But man, that has not worked out. They kind of hate each other and he depends on his g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:32 PM
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Everything from 20 east outside 285 is less than 1 house per 3 - 5 acres on average. Even the densest parts of Conyers and covington other than maybe the exact town center are still very light suburban. Unless I am missing some urban center I don't know about out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:34 PM
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The guy who wants to get a “future wife” while still living at home, underemployed without any skills except being good at “video games” You ever go out to proper countrified areas? Like where people pop out babies and get married and such in early 20s? I have made a group of friends in Covington GA area (halfway from Atlanta to Augusta, middle of nowhere culturally, financially, and everything else). What I note is that the videogame players and unemployed trailer trash and such typically have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:52 PM
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Women, while maybe socially desirable at 22, aren't all stunning goddesses either. I am currently 44 and sexually active and attending a university for my last semester of a mid-career change (double master of engineering). A huge number of the 22 year old women are.... just kinda okay. And this includes a lot of rich women at a T-20 school. I mean, yeah, mostly firm boobs I guess. But like, face, body, the whole package. You'd find many 35 year olds just as attractive and a few 40 somethings, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah, sexuality is just so complicated. It's been studied that a lot of lesbians watch gay male porn. I think it's something like "at least these guys are really into it." As for gay, straight, bi, etc. I mean, OP needs to read the Kinsey report. Long before our "immoral times" the lines of human sexual attraction were blurry, in both men and women. They probably always have been. And these days it's even more acceptable, and even more acceptable for women. So, I think OP's words just fall flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:34 PM
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obviously abusive asshole Have you ever been 22? Things that are "obvious" in real life just aren't when you're young and dumb. And as soon as you remove that word from your story above, the whole story changes in a fundamental way. Try re-rewriting without that and instead of a strawman, you'll have a regular flawed human, like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:21 PM
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In my experience, the women who want the tough biker or Mr. Prisoner still want some version of him when they're 35, and when they're 45. Also, plenty of men have that one psycho girl who just about ruined your life but she was good in the sack. Somehow or another you got into the relationship, but that doesn't mean you were necessarily trying to sow wild oats or whatever. Many times you don't know what you're getting into with someone. Your term "Wild Years" sounds like the natural evolution th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:20 AM
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No, it never did. BTW, PUA was supposed to make a man be able to overcome lack of looks, or money, or status. Yet in the period where looks, money and status are the most important, PUA is useless. Because it always was. The point of PUA is that most people don't actually need to overcome looks, money, status so much. They needed to use what they had. Most young and healthy men look normal and fine. Most young and healthy women also look normal and fine. Looksmatching happens, but the standard d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:16 PM
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You have here: A strawman, where you model thoughts into the people doing this which say a lot more about you than them. Also, PUA used to work pretty well. The whole massive loneliness epidemic/incel/blackpill/hard red, etc..... it's less than 20 years old. I know that's the whole of reality to some people, who are also less than 30 years old for example. But it wasn't always like this. It's not "evolutionary psychology" or "the truth of men and women." It's a sociological phenomenon that is ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:29 AM
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I moved back to the USA from Taiwan after 11 years abroad to help elderly sick parents, and can second some of this. I never quite got fully back to US culture, my coworkers and colleagues all being Indians for most of the time since returning. The number of upper middle class Indian and Asian women circling me for several years as someone with a decent job, decent education, who would help my parents is high. Then I moved to Virginia to increase my education, lived with housemates, and dated th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:31 PM
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Again, you are overlooking nuances deliberately and zeroing in on something ultra-simple and waving your hand away at the rest. "PB" in my experience of a lot of expat friends with a lot of relationships, more often means escaping the cultural wounds of your own country -- and this can be mutual. Out of hundreds of men I have known or met, very very few would fit the type you are talking about. You're discussing a subset of a subset of a subset, and it seems like they might be military, and it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:19 PM
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In the USA, the white man/black woman was considered noteworthy into the early 2000s. When that taboo fell apart, it seems to fall apart hard though, and those type of relationships seem pretty common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:07 PM
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The East is not some paradise where you will reign supreme coz you are of Caucasian extract, by default. I think part of the issue is that there are, genuinely, a lot of chasers. Not 100% of women, but usually enough that the normal men in those places don't get lonely. I have known women over there for the Asian men, too, BTW, and enjoying their own version of chasers. It is what it is, but we cannot pretend this dynamic doesn't exist. Like, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:05 PM
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veteran Okay, I'm posting this last. Sorry. I note you mention veterans several times. My hypothesis is you're from a place with US Military bases. Those guys are assholes. Even by American standards. My second cousin is a Colonol in the US Navy. That is a position that is approved by the congress of the United States. Very special rank.. Her job. Her entire job. Was to basically smooth over the bullshit those men on military bases across Asia caused with local police and governments. Because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:56 PM
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And honest to God, that often happens. I have known a large number of expat men (and yeah, Western women sometimes complain they can date "out of their league" a couple of levels) who lived in Taiwan, did not have to put up with the cultural crap from their home countries, and it healed them. Many ended up staying there permanently and living happily ever after. Yes, a lot were lonely back in the USA. To some people, male or female, genetic diversity (i.e. another "race") is naturally attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:46 PM
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For men who stay in those countries, and fit the stereotype you're talking about, there is often a gain for the woman in status. Thinking about this, I know one, I think, who might fit your stereotype. He stayed in Cambodia, but waifu was not poor or humungous age gap. Family money and big houses there and all that. I know another who nearly fits who nearly stayed in Vietnam, but it did not work out with the woman, again quite wealthy by local standards. In both cases, the main tradeoff seemed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:36 PM
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cranky, pot-bellied, balding, 55-year-old self! I don't usually see those guys with super hot "waifu" from East Asian Tiger countries. I do sometimes see them with a peer who is maybe 1 to 8 years younger -- like they would have got in the USA if the culture had been a little kinder to them. And most of the women from the two Asian countries I have lived in are notably thinner and healthier than their American counterparts (come on, over here the obesity pandemic is hitting so hard, everyone is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:30 PM
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Except the story above had more nuance than you are describing. I lived in 2 countries in Asia for a total of about 11 years, dated women between Taiwan and India. Culturally, the (same age as me) educated women were sweeter and the dating culture was "warmer" in both of those places. I ended up marrying a lovely woman 6 months younger than myself and have been with her for a total of 12 years. That's another side of this whole story. Now, to get even more nuanced, and I hope you can stay with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:19 PM
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Alternative response: Who cares what someone on reddit thought? Relevant-- https://xkcd.com/386/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:20 PM
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"Lawyer" and "High Value" are overloaded here. I mean, it really depends on what the woman is looking for. If he's intelligent, emotionally mature and looking for intimacy, working a lot, and etc, then he's not going for just any woman because she's younger and perkier. Maybe you have the insecure lawyers and finance guys who want any trophy girl (I know a man like this, and he is closeted gay but it's the deep south and as he says they look good together in photographs). You also have the actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:50 AM
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You cannot be arsed with editing a word in a previous post and yet you can arse with typing a whole paragraph and someone has to "deal with it?" I think, /u/Salt_Mathematician24, this is pretty tryhard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:34 AM
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And if God whispered the answer in your ear, I bet you would still make the same gross error on the direction of causality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:31 AM
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I know a man who decided t stay home with the kids. He has a lot of money through inheritance and stock trading (dad taught him how to make the money also, not only inheritance, basically). Made a killing in BTC as well, so the guy is proper money. However, in suburban D.C., the stay-at-home-dad in the neighborhood is just viewed with distrust and disdain. Like somehow it's all inappropriate and weird. Even though he's dependent on no one and it's the logical choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:14 PM
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Abso-frigging-lutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:10 PM
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"Although I don’t hear it out loud as much, I’m sure there are just as many men who hate women." != "Everything I see leads toward conclusion X, but because I don't want to deal with the consequences of what X means, I must balance it with an opposing but already believed conclusion Y so as not to change anything I think." To twist around, "People don't say this out loud, but it seems to be true" to "Everything I see leads to the opposite conclusion, but I will not conclude that" is seriously tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:07 PM
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You met another human being and had a great time isn't of value in and of itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:43 PM
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90% of these dudes aren't winning anything, really. Guys who missed out on hookups should be encouraged by this. I certainly feel better and more justified about hating hookups. This is weird and seems to prove the point isn't the sex? If you just wanted flex, then be the locker room braggart -- cool fact is, you didn't even have to really do it. People aren't walking lie detectors or something. And if you really did do it, for all I know, you're still a locker room braggart. Either way you kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:37 AM
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This type of humor is medicine when things aren't great. I think it's a sane response to that kind of world and life, but healthy people are mirthful, not wry half smiles and dark humor. Most human humor is like that [edit: i.e. indicative of an underlying wrongness, while being] a healthy response to insanity. And the examples given by OP are all in that roadmap. Without some sort of insanity, the humor wouldn't need to show up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:54 PM
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Which is why men need to learn to read the tea leaves and not take seriously women that make then jump though hoops other men before them didn't have to jump through. "Reading Tea Leaves" means you don't know, and you're surmising based on your feelings, which is hardly a reliable gauge. Are guys supposed to become girls now and get tarot readings before every date? Really, unless you were there with her during all those other encounters, why do you think you know? Or are you blending together a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:23 PM
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A player behaving all passionate a compliment that her body elicits a incontrollable desire in him. A nice guy behaving all horny in the bedroom that he is pronsick and sees her as a "sex object". I have never seen nor heard of a straight woman in a sexual situation with a man who didn't want to be complimented and him be inflamed with desire. Where the hell are you getting this? For men, women, most every normal person, at least some piece of being turned on is how strongly you turn the person …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:14 PM
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Weird that evolution/nature also includes homosexual practice in many non-human and non-primate species too. But as for nomenclature, you can keep collecting butterflies, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:34 AM
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disgusted by bi men Really? Is this a thing? I'm starting to feel old. The roaring 90s/early 00's were just pretty cool all around or what? Now I know there were some cultural/demographic issues in certain groups, but I see that as a separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:30 AM
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You are using a simple present verb, which generally indicates a habit or ongoing state. What about if they did it once and decided it wasn't for them? What if they tried it a few times when they were rolling, were into it then because of MDMA but would never do it under normal circumstances? What if they had a little jailhouse romance when they were locked upstate in the same room with one guy for 11 years? Etc, etc, etc... Life isn't so simple as you are making it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:28 AM
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I think if these men had a quarter ounce of bi in them, they'd at least understand something of the value and power of a man. I've fallen for guys by holding hands going into a club, or after they really turned the heat up and they focused their attention on me that was like the center of the sun.... I mean, you also wonder how these guys are falling for women! Is it 100% shallow physical attractiveness for them? If I believe the guys on here, it's like all romance and sweetness and personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:24 AM
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they can only mimic what they imagine or their brain can invent a reality it imagins the opposite gender feels and thinks. I would suggest this is also just as much a factor within ones gender group. Within the bell curve, there are going to be people of your own gender who think and feel things radically different to you. You want stats? Lets say someone is pretty rare, four sigmas out from the mean, at .001 probability. If you know 100 people, there's about a 10% chance you know one that odd (…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:58 AM
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You won't have to worry about the male gaze. The male gays, on the other hand.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:45 AM
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My understanding is if it persists past adolescence, it rarely goes away. But prior to adolescence, it is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:42 AM
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