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Point taken. Can you explain what the red flags are? I just don't see it -- it seems like a fun tease to me. What could I have sent instead? Just "I had a good time last night" + logistics?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:56 AM
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Are you referring to my texts? Or to what I do on dates? What should I do differently, in practice? I really can't see my mistakes on my own.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:20 PM
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Adjust your priorities so that they exclude women, and stop thinking so goddamned much about how to achieve their approval. I've tried, but I just can't get that out of my mind. I'm successful in my career and other areas of my life, way beyond my peers of my same age. But I swear I'd give away all of that to be more successful with women. How do I change my mindset? I've tried therapy and consuming RP and self-help books, but all I care about is being successful with women.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:19 PM
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What sissy shit is this? She said she had to leave as she had planned to do some early-morning photography with her friends, even I though "I was making it really hard for her to leave". This text was my attempt at teasing her for not sharing her photos. I can see how it can come across as cringy now, but can this text really be the thing that made her uninterested in seeing me again?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:18 PM
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stop caring I wish I could. Any practical advice on how to stop caring? I've tried therapy and consuming RP and self-help books.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:16 PM
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I understand the problem. TRP advices to internalize the belief of "you are the prize", but that is a hard thing to believe when I'm objectively below average in many of my physical traits. I should act like I am the prize, but rationally that makes no sense to me. My genes are inferior. My height is way below average (5'6"), and I've been rejected for that many times. My dick size is a bit below average, and I wouldn't be surprised if many sexual experiences where the girl felt "loose" was due …
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:14 PM
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That is fair. We agree that the problem is my desperation and thirstiness, which women can sense. However, I do not know where to start to fix it. Outside of my dating life, I feel pretty good about myself. I have a very big salary, good savings, and very good quality of life for my age -- not incredible, but way above average for most of my peers. I hit the gym consistently and have a nice body. I get compliments for my looks from time to time. I don't think I am a boring person. I can be funny…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:10 PM
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I'd be down to give it a try. How do you start? My physical urges for release are very strong, to the point that I feel like I cannot think about anything else unless I nut. I hate that, because it makes me a slave to my instincts. Can it be fixed?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:01 PM
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I don't mind getting my feelings hurt, as long as some constructive advice is added to the mix. Otherwise it just seems pointless.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:21 PM
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What are examples of needy behavior in the stories I posted? How can I avoid being needy if I know I have zero plates and sex happens so inconsistently in my life? (Honest questions.)
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:08 PM
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> Whats your age? I'm 25. --- > You seem to care a tad too much about busting a nut. I know the feeling of just getting a fix but girls sense that shit. I'm trying to minimize porn consumption and masturbation. I constantly feel horny and I don't want to masturbate (especially the day before or the day I have a date) as that feels like giving up and admitting that I cannot get sex. I have a lot of bottled up sexual energy that I want to release, especially when my date is hot and interesting. I …
/r/askTRP17/10/20 08:07 PM
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I'm not saying he's not wrong. I'm confident that "terrible" is an overstatement though. And providing a resource to get better (e.g. Sex God Method) rather than just providing zero value is a much better way of helping someone. Unless his goal was to just make himself feel better.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:53 PM
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You're too pushy in story one and 2. I assume that's because I wanted sex in story 1, and told her to finish me off in store 2, right? I can understand how that's percieved as pushy, but it's seriously hard to not push for sex when a hottie is literally rubbing her pussy against the tip of my cock, then saying "I don't want to have sex tonight" (story 1). I guess it's the ultimate shit test. For story 2, I was really close to orgasm when she told me she needed a break. I don't remember the detai…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:51 PM
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Nah, as I said, I want to feel in control. Paying for sex is not something what would work for me. And why is it sad? I don't get it.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:39 PM
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I can't exactly recall, but I remember I was taking a long time to cum after she did, and I was sweating a lot. I usually wait 3-4 days before sending a text. I tried waiting only one day as an experiment for the girl in the OP as 3-4 wasn't working either, and I was wondering if it was better to keep the momentum going. I don't know what's wrong with me. I just wish I got some feedback. Maybe it's my physical traits: I'm short (5'6") and my dick size is slightly below average. But I think I can…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:26 PM
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Maybe. Your comment is not helpful, though.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:18 PM
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I can't help being invested, because I have zero plates. I get sex so inconsistently while my body is constantly craving it. I don't think I'll be able to fully relax until I know I actually have one or two girls that I can regularly fuck.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:16 PM
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How can I not care? I have zero plates. My body and instincts are constantly making me crave sex, and I get it so inconsistently. I want to have one or two plates and feel in control.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:10 PM
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I guess you were right. I pinged her with an inside joke from our date, and she blocked me without replying. I must have really creeped her out. That feels terrible, not gonna lie - I actually quite liked her and this made me understand I am absolutely out of touch with girls. Fuck.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 06:57 PM
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I pinged her a few hours ago with an inside joke from our date... and she blocked me without replying. I feel really bad about it, she looked like she was into me. I must have really creeped her out. Fuck.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 06:53 PM
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I pinged her with an inside joke from our date and... she blocked me without replying. Guess I really creeped her out. That feels terrible, not going to lie.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 06:49 PM
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I agree with everything you have said, but having trouble imagining how to react positively to her leaving. We were making out and she awkwardly says "I'll go now" -- what would be a good way of reacting to that? Just say "OK" and let her leave? Seems weird.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:07 PM
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Hmm, I did try to build tension while in the bar. Did a lot of kino and eye contact, talked about kinks, and didn't kiss her until later when we were outside. Any other way I could have built tension? I think I fucked up when I brought her home. I just grabbed her and made out, but maybe I should have teased her more. I am having trouble calibrating... Any suggestions? Would really appreciate that
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:05 PM
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Yeah, it was the first. I will text her in a few days, but since I made hey uncomfortable I don't expect much. I'd like to understand what I filled have done better...
/r/askTRP06/09/20 02:27 AM
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OK. Can you elaborate on why it would be a terrible idea? Trying to understand how she would perceive it
/r/askTRP05/09/20 10:11 PM
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I will wait 1-2 days and do that. Should I text (now) something along the lines of "I had a good time meeting you, didn't mean to scare you off" or is it counterproductive?
/r/askTRP05/09/20 09:31 PM
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Should I text (now) something along the lines of "I had a good time meeting you, didn't mean to scare you off" or is it counterproductive?
/r/askTRP05/09/20 09:31 PM
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I think I fucked up by escalating again, I thought she was just having LMR. I will text her in a day or two and invite her over.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 09:25 PM
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I think you are exaggerating. Girls always put out resistance, LMR is a basic TRP concept. Also "always be closing" is another TRP concept. When she told me she was uncomfortable I didn't force her to stay. I didn't follow her to the escalator, it literally is outside my front door. I opened the front door for her. DEERing was a mistake but I was trying to make her more comfortable. I would also appreciate tips on how to do better rather than just being crushed by your assessment.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 09:23 PM
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Trying to get there, but I keep fucking up. Unless I stop fucking up, I won't ever date 5 women
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:02 AM
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I thought that was just another shit test. If I show I'm pissed because of that she'll know another weakness
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:01 AM
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I did try a few times, but she wriggled back
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:00 AM
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What you're saying makes sense, but some clarifications: I had my tongue and fingers deep inside her. I also had my fingers deep inside her asshole. She was very wet and very turned on. She sucked my dick like a champ. I even rubbed my dick against her vagina, and told her to rub her wet juices against me, to which she complied. I've had similar situations where the girl says "no" at the beginning in the past quite a lot, and every single time the girl ended up fucking me like a rabbit after per…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:26 PM
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I was expecting a "fight", as I've had that multiple times in the past and always ended up fucking. I was dumbfounded when that didn't happen, and it made me react emotionally. I wish I could fix my insecurities at the core, but every experience like this one feels like a blow to my self-esteem.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:22 PM
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Of course not. The entire trilogy is about the first date.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:20 PM
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Fuck. I just can't force myself to not give a fuck. I've tried for years, but rejection and games still bother me. What can I do to improve my reaction to shit tests?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:55 PM
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This is just a short summary. When the full book and the movie trilogy come out, it will be glorious
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:54 PM
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We fucked a dozen times, this is the first time she's acting like this.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:25 PM
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We last went on a weekend trip in the countryside that she proposed and wanted to do. It looked fun so I accepted. I drove her around and we had fun exploring the nature. Today I just wanted to have a good fuck, play some chess with her (we do that regularly), and then go back to work on a side project I'm behind with. Is it that too much to ask? When they behave like this it makes me less likely to want to hang out with them non-sexually.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 08:53 PM
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Call me a pussy but I am going to miss her companionship and care a lot. She was sweet. But I also needed to fill fulfilled sexually, and I didn't fully.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:22 PM
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She was putting out, just not as much as I wanted. We fucked regularly, as she visited me on weekends and had sex at least once a day. The rejections came when I wanted to fuck her multiple times in a day or - much worse - when we were on vacation or spending more than a weekend with eachother. The other issue was that I've only seen her in a "super horny" state a few times in 3 years (the few time she initiated sex and when I dreaded her to break up the first time). I felt inadequate as I could…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:21 PM
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This is a great answer that I needed to hear. The thing that I didn't make clear is that our situation wasn't a deadbedrooms one: we spent most weekends together and had sex 1-2 times at least. If we spent more than the weekend together, we would fuck at least once a day. The rejections sometimes came when I wanted to fuck her two/three times in a day, or - much worse - when we were traveling on vacation or spending more time together. Other than the rejections, the other issue was that I was al…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:15 PM
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How can I tell? She knew other women were interested in me, and she commuted 1hr every week (one way) to spend the weekend with me. She seemed pretty invested.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:34 PM
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I was seriously considering this. I do not see a man cheating as morally wrong. The reason why I didn't do it is because I really cared about this girl and I was worried she was going to find out and feel heartbroken. I pictured her feeling betrayed in my head and I just didn't want that to happen. Maybe I have been naive and cheating on her would have resulted in a positive outcome. But I didn't want to risk her being severely hurt. I'd rather have us break up and her die with a good memory of …
/r/askTRP06/07/20 06:11 PM
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Not really. Length/girth is average
/r/askTRP06/07/20 08:42 AM
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She never was the wildest or horniest girl I've been with, but I did notice a very gradual decline
/r/askTRP06/07/20 08:40 AM
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Dude, I love her and I have been 3yrs with her. Not ashamed of crying. I'm not a robot
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:02 PM
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5'5"
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:01 PM
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5'6", 72kg, 1RMs (before quarantine): - deadlift 170kg - squat 130kg - bench 105kg
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:45 PM
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I tried. I did light bondage for a period. She seemed to enjoy it until she didn't anymore and said that she preferred vanilla stuff. Also tried toys, anal, orgasm denial, but she wasn't into any of these. I also mentioned in another comment that we discussed the situation multiple times, and every time I dreaded her she became a sex fiend for 1-2 days and then reverted to normal. I make 5x her salary and I'm really successful in my career. Socially and looks-wise I'm average, but I do work out …
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:45 PM
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We did communicate previously multiple times. The time before we broke up I remember telling her that "I wanted more sex and I wished she was the one that would satisfy all me needs, but that I would be forced to consider other people if she didn't". After that her sexual interest surged (due to dread, presumably), but it then faded again... I wouldn't have minded fucking only her if the sex was more frequent and she initiated regularly, but nothing changed in her long-term behavior after our di…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:40 PM
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She was far from the horniest girl I've been with since the beginning, but I did notice a very very gradual decline over the years.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:15 PM
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I matched with a decent looking student chick during the peak of lockdown and the day after I was balls deep inside her in her dorm. I'm not even particularly physically attractive. Either your game is really bad, or the girl was just a time waster.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:10 PM
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I read all of the advice and that has affected my actions and way of thinking about the situation. It has been valuable for me. I also applied the top comment's suggestions (as they resonated closer with me and were not nuclear) and reported back with an update.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:12 PM
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I agree it is not the most alpha thing to do, but I do believe that having sex on the side can improve a relationship for a man. It reduces the feeling of scarcity and neediness, and makes both parties happier. The alpha thing to do would be to straight on tell my LTR that I want to fuck other women while she needs to be exclusive, but I am not high value enough for that.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:08 PM
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I talked to her yesterday. She told me that she finds me attractive "both inside and outside" but that she feels like doesn't get turned on as often as me, and that it's a turn off for her when I act too demanding/controlling or when I get annoyed at her jokes/pranks. She's not entirely wrong, but the times I break frame like that are rare. I told her that it wouldn't matter if she genuinely felt attracted, and to pack her stuff. She started doing so, then she started crying and hugging me, and …
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:11 AM
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No one else is pounding her. She's at my place for weeks at a time, and I went through her phone and social accounts. She was completely clean. When she's not here, she lives with her family (who I have met regularly). Either she doesn't want to fuck me anymore or she has hormonal issues, but she's not fucking anyone else.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:29 PM
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Marrying (in general) or cohabiting (with this girl) is out of the question. I know I should break up with her, but I am afraid of missing her good qualities and to be in a situation of scarcity.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:28 PM
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I wasn't clear: it's very far from a dead bedroom situation. We fuck often, but it "takes effort". While she initiates very rarely, she's often receptive to my initiation. It's been getting worse, though.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:25 PM
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they are worthless after 30 but no man...it is all a lie. They're not worthless for random sex. TRP says they're not LTR material and you should not get attached.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:54 PM
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I want a family whose love isn't contingent on me being switched on, all the time. We all do. A LTR is never going to give you this, unfortunately. Your parents might give you this, but it is not guaranteed. Unfortunately, the red pill that's hardest to swallow is that you're alone in this world.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:32 PM
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Splitting 50% of the bill gets annoying. Pay in turns. One date you pay, the next one she does. It evens out and it's easy.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:59 PM
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If you want to do it, do it. Frame is what matters
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:58 PM
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Maybe. Or maybe he likes having memories of him and his LTR. Why the fuck do you care?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:55 PM
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I was less amused to discover she was cheating on her long-distance LTR of 3 years when we first starting hooking up. She trickle-truth'd that one so the timeline is fuzzy, but I know - she traded up when I paid attention to her. It was probably a red flag. It definitely was. You should have not promoted her to anything more than a plate. She might have been cheating on you as well. My previous LTR ending was devastating because I was dating another high flying type-A woman (her ex is also a nat…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:53 PM
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Haven't tried it. Sounds like bullshit, but trying it doesn't hurt, and it's more worthwhile than talking about it on Reddit. Meditation has been proven to work, however, so you might want to focus your time on that.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:43 PM
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You're a jester. Don't be a jester. Get her number. If she's interested, she will give it to you. Do you think that a physically attractive man needs to make her laugh through text before she wants to fuck him?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:36 PM
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