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"Im not like other boys... Im a wolf 🐺" energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:29 PM
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(This is for safety) 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 08:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/u3jt73/thoughts_on_this_men_paying_on_dates_for_them_to/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share This was the damn tiktok. I was dragged to hell and back by incels and pickmes 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:31 PM
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Ackkkk this was the tiktok I was talking abt...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:28 PM
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Saw a tiktok of this divorce attorney (who usually makes very good points) talk about how if a woman doesnt fake reach to pay on the first date, she is ,in his words, "entitled". The comments were unsurprisingly from incels and pickme-karen hybrids. Like? Ppl dont understand bare minimum! Ofc Im now bombarded with notifications for giving a piece of my mind and its giving me anxiety when I use the damn app 😭 The bar is in hell. I should thank him for not date raping me too since I didnt want to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 03:36 PM
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Awesome strategy sis! Thank you! Also next time dont even... just block... let him be a walking red flag 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:26 AM
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Very much agree. And super red flag if they expect you to be hairless and theyre practically carrying a bush with a mushroom sleeping in the middle. Any guy that doesnt treat giving you oral sex as an exciting act but also wants BJs only sees sex as something women give to men and something men receive from women. Not a shared experience to be enjoyed together. Kind of a hot take but I prefer being hairless down there. Same with armpits. BUT! I also expect the same for my partner. No armpit hair…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 04:24 PM
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Sounds more like " Incels deserve sex for breathing " 🤣🤣 the delusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 03:38 PM
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I rly liked Savanah's suggestion in the podcast (I think it was her?) which is basically adding a question in the middle of a paragraph on your profile. If we match and you answer the question in the paragraph on your first intro that means to me that you read my profile. Youre not some desperate freak that has an auto swiper app so you can swipe right to ALL the women. BUt iTs A nUmbERs gAMe 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 03:37 PM
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The complaints you filed. Also talk to people. You wont be the first person he's done this to. Im so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 08:45 PM
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MAKE SURE EVERYTHING IS IN WRITTING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:40 PM
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This man needs to be reported immediately. Fck. You know how many incapacitated women are under the care of these predators? This is the hill I will die on. A prestigious job does not equate to a good man. Fck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:38 PM
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I had to really reflect on why when I encounter this type of narrative I get disproportionaly upset with the woman than with the man. Was it internalized misogyny? Come to think of it its because I feel betrayed. Like you should be on MY side. You should know what it feels like. Its almost a mental practice to be mindful of the fact that I was that pickme once. And that some women are taught that behaving and wearing the proverbial chain fashionably is the most freedom they can have. Im just hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:35 PM
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Like shes operating the same way desperate men operate. Flaunt wealth (that doesn't exist or is temporary) and shooting your shot at everything that breathes bcs its a nUmBeRs gAme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:24 PM
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And hope she gets everything! Storytime: Used to help with homeless shelters. Met this really sweet man. Apparently a health issue along with a divorce is what caused him to become homeless. Well come to find out he fcked his son's girlfriend. And that's what cascaded the divorce which lead to health issues. He was expecting me to feel sorry for him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 09:52 PM
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He got high on antibiotics. Less bacteria, more audacity 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:14 PM
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I like it when the sweet old ladies try to hook you up with their unmarried middle aged son knowing full well youre in your 20s. Like? Are you not embarrassed for yourself Linda?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:09 PM
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The sister part was it for me... One HV quality I see now with an ex was what he didn't demonize whoever I was upset with especially when its with family. He looked long term when I was shortsighted as one would be when theyre angry. I was upset with him then for not "being in my corner" i.e hating whoever I hated. Well he's an ex now and my sister is still my loving sister. Glad you go out. This scrote will reach out. They always do. Hes? 32 now? Be sure to block and delete. On everything. Emai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:41 PM
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So this is my personal take as far as race is concerned. I dont care about what the other person's race/ethnicity is but what I do care about is if they are "multicultural". Someone who grew up in 2 very different worlds. My rationale is that I too grew up that way. Ive found that youre less likely to encounter someone who is very rigid in their beliefs and practices when theyre multicultural because theyve seen both sides of the coin work. Theyve seen what tight familial bond is. Theyve also se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:38 PM
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Do you know that you can get a serious infection even a bone infection, necrosis, and systemic infection from human bites? Infection requiring IV antibiotics which means you'll need to be hospitalized. Oh also dont stick your hand in someone's mouth when theyre seizing. Same concept 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:40 PM
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I'm very sorry youre going through this. But are you willing to live a lifetime of distress? Bcs a ring on your finger wont change him. It hurt when I made my very first post similar to yours and was responded with a mod saying "Youre a pickmeshia. Leave him". I denied it. I pretended like I didnt word the post right for her to say that. But it was true all along. The intentions of your sisters here wont change anything. You have to take action. You will not wither away if you dont have a man in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:28 AM
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My very very first post was similar to this on an old account was blocked (rightfully so) so I do believe these types of posts werent being allowed before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:28 AM
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In line with romantization of domestic abuse, erasing yourself to be with someone, needing someone to "save" you... If anything I hear the soulmate narrative shoved down women's throats like how Disney princesses have princes who are "the one". Cue the whole "taming beast" agenda of changing "bad boys" because youre their soul mate. Cue staying in abusive relationships. Cue gaslighting yourself to believing youre in love with a person who's just an idealized version of reality which will only le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:43 PM
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Proctitis, fissures, hemorrhoids, tears... High risk of prolapse and incontinence later in life. The internet will say its low risk but A. Its outdated. The sheer number of people who report anal sex was low due to stigma B. The large population of ppl engaging in this are still young. Ruptures can lead to a colostomy as well. The small number of men Ive been with were all in medicine. Every single one was against it. Both for selfish and unselfish reasons. I was yelled at once for purchasing a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:01 AM
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What in pickmeshia hell? So Mary's like the group's sex toy to be passes around? And she thinks shes this hot vixen with her harem of men? 🤢 No Mary was not "dealt" a bad hand. Im glad OP is out and did not have a kid with this loser. Shes young and she has a lot of life to live. Also I hope those other wives realize the lies abd act accordingly too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:40 PM
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My mom works in oncology. Every lump, bump, or symptom is potential cancer to her. Dont let this man influence you with his confirmation bias. Know your body. Know your own fertility. Youre not just "patient in room 3". Its your duty to curtail your medical care fit to what your needs are. A fear mongering male fertility doctor is not one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:25 PM
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Is he ok? I dont think hes ok...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:46 AM
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I just remember coming across her content it upset me so much I blocked her account. Oh let me go cook and prepare a bento for my SURGEON DOCTOR BOYFRIEND, take it to his work at the HOSPITAL WHERE HE WORKS AS A SURGEON, and eat in the car with him. He will stay for 5 minutes, eat 2 bites, and leave. And shes filming all of it with this "huhu so sad my DOCTOR BOYFRIEND so busy huhu" face. Like her entire personality is dating this dude. She used to have ok content iirc And now shes escalating to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:54 AM
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How can a peds remote telemedicine nurse get covid from her patients? Through computer screen? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:21 AM
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You literally answered your question. Its low effort. Unless his family and friends also go to that cabin, the only significance it has is with his ex. It upsets you. It doesnt matter if your reason is bcs the cabin name starts with B and you hate the letter B or smthing stupid... its a weekend getaway. Its purpose is to relax and enjoy the activity and the company. Youre not going to have fun being neurotic and analytical of your BFs actions all weekend, trying to assess if hes thinking of his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:13 AM
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I dont wanna read the article lol but does it say how she induces lactation "full time" 😵 what in the pickmeshia hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:36 AM
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Very PUA 🤡 and a waste of women's time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:16 AM
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Dollar pizza 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:15 AM
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Yes I agree. Marriage talk by 1 year, engagement if not wedding by 2nd. I do think its important to assess his dating patterns. If he wants marriage after 1 year (and he happens to turn 30 or some milestone) and his relationship before you lasted >4 years it gives me yellow flag. Especially if he has a pattern of having loooong relationships meaning he's the type to string girls around. I dont want to be the girl that he "settles" for because he's now ready and I happen to be there. Ideally that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:50 AM
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What career paths should we watch for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:09 PM
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Never been to Bangkok but Im guessing that must've been very dangerous for you (as with any big city to a lone foreign woman at 1am)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:58 PM
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Unfortunately there are women stuck in these relationships bcs the guy has made it so she never learns to sustain herself and never leave. And since they cant leave they get very possessive with their pRoViDeR and become catty towards other women. Im just happy these spaces are increasing in size that maybe one of those women would stumble here and realize its time to let that man go 🥭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:52 PM
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My aunt's ex husband current has a Filipino wife 20 years younger than him. My aunt's church gossip told her that the woman barely speaks english, was wearing winter inappropriate clothes when they met her, took him 2 years to introduce her to the community, and she's still not working or driving and apparently is a SAHW 😬 It just makes your blood boil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:36 PM
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An esteemed gentleman. A scrote snitch if you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:55 PM
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Im glad your mom is doing better now! Its so hard to be raised in a pickmeshia run household especially as a daughter. How else would you know better? Thats why I try to be more patient with any pickmes I meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:16 AM
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What a nice ear cleanse from the pickmeshia hurl of words we saw earlier. This woman needs more support. How eloquently did she explain the core FDS principle. Its either a great man or no man at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:43 PM
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Comments in the vid: Hahaha so true sis tell me youve never been married before without tellinggg meee youve never been married before hahaaa 💁🏼‍♀️ #picked Also dont blame men for lack of empathy 🥺🥺 lack of empathy is a chemical imbalance yknow (She does not know. She plays video games for a living)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah theres a other womens sub basically asking women what they think of the fact that 26% of men are now celibate. Here are the answers: No excuses for an incompetent man. Theres the internet. Use it. We dont really really need them anymore. So why bother if its for playing mommy to an egocentric manbaby Women would rather be alone than have an LVM lol. Sick of hearing men whine and complain about it on the internet and degrade women in the same breath. We do not care. No way/shape/form that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:53 PM
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No one is romanticizing anything. Women do everything AND work nowadays. You dont need to state a dumb obvious. This is not a trad fem sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:13 PM
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And the narrative needs to end omg I just got a message from my non medical friend inquiring about sperm donors bcs shes going to be 30 soon and still single. We need to do a better job at educating women that the clock doesn't just magically stop once you hit 35. Heck. Ages 30-34 have an 86% chance of pregnancy in a year. 20% miscarriage. Ohhh women only have 8% of their eggs left by the time they are 30. Ummm we start at 2 million. Thats 150 000 eggs! We need 1 per child! But no one talks abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:43 AM
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Reminds me of that 1000lb Sisters show and how the older sister Tammy gets validation from men who like her for being morbidly obese. She always meets them online on the fat fetish sites and these men always destroy the weightloss progress she accomplishes. Like feeding her high calorie junk and discouraging her from doing the right things. Saw her tiktok yesterday and she sadly has a trach now. Compared to her youngest sister Amy who has a very supportive albeit taciturn husband. Amy lost enoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:32 AM
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Ohhh mi Lord let me have the honor of wiping thy butt as it appears to have burdened thyself with basic hygiene mi Lord 🤴👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:06 AM
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I follow a very sobering mother's page (even if Im not a mother) where they just vent and vent and vent. Miserable unhappy lives. And majority of these posts were traced to the sex-posi lib-fem ideology of "you can have it all. Youre independent. Why bother marrying a grown man. Youre strong. You can mother him too!" Women who got accidentally pregnant and are now stuck in a very terrible marriage. Women who are tricked and baby trapped and are now bangmaids of their abusive husbands. Women who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:15 AM
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Imagine yourself as Pepper Pots and Im Tony Stark * is nothing like Tony Stark * Gosh the audacity makes my skin crawl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:05 AM
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The best or nothing at all. Gone are the days when we have to play therapist ride-or-die bangmaids. Im very sorry for what happened. Im just glad youre out of that relationship. Imagine if you werent strong in your boundaries and stuck with him regardless? In a year youll be reduced to a real life sex object just so you can have some form of distorted intimacy. The best or nothing at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:26 PM
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I feel like more women need to wine and dine themselves as to not be impressed by these little things easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:39 AM
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"Ex? Lol you were a bad lay. A quick one too. I dont date guys I dont find sexually attractive. Im sorry if I mislead you into thinking were in a relationship but yeah Id rather 💀😵 single 😅😅 (in a hehe im just kidding but srsly youre gross tone)" Flip the script. Sexually exploitative men fear having a reputation of being bad in bed. Renders them sexually undesirable. Its very uncultured and primitive to not last and satisfy a partner. Its 2022 we dont just mate for reproduction. We mate to have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:28 AM
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Does he have other coping mechanisms aside from games and tv. I just see it a lot with Peter Pan types who would rather pretend theyre a samurai about to avenge his clan than deal with their real life problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:57 PM
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She really out there doing that huh 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:34 PM
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If hes the type that lies to himself and other people he WILL lie to you. Dont listen to the "you know me at my most vulnerable" rhetoric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:36 PM
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Same. I have male acquaintances. I dont text them about what happens in my life if it doesnt involve them. I dont ask for personal advice. I dont hug or involve any physical affection towards them. I think its fair to look for that in with the man I decide to be intimate with. I was gonna type " I think its fair to ask that in the man I decide to be intimate with. " But actually. I dont have to ask. You can be balling your eyes out in another line and hes texting his "friend" on the other. No. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:12 PM
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What are your guy's thoughts on guys with female friends? Bcs I dont like it 🙃. And just bcs she's married doesn't mean you wont jump on her at the slight chance you have. Maybe its my remaining jealous scorned pickmeshia but maybe its my FDS not trusting men's words. Idk. Share what you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:18 AM
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You can have a scrote with 5 mil in his account and he'll ask to split the bill with you. It should be about generosity. I was pleasantly surprised to meet some self identified "blue collar" guys who treated me with respect and generosity. Always asking if they can do/fix something for you. Compared to majority of the high earner white coat guys I deal with that just see women as maids. I think some of our newer sisters here need to consult the handbook on "What makes a HVM" as Ive been seeing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:02 AM
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Yeah they are but most of the time they are targeted towards an older audience, like women who suffer from urinary incontinence or when you reach the age when you start saying "Dont make me laugh bcs Ill pee" 🤣🤣 Its now just a marketing ploy bcs wOmEn ArE LoOsE and yOU gOttA wOrK oN ThoSe mUsCLes fOr GorILLa gRip so he doesnt cheat on you BS. And the its your fault youre dry so lets shove a foreign body in there BS. Its all money marketing at the cost of women getting sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:06 AM
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He can use the yoni egg for himself now 🤣🤣 i swear this is too funny I even forwarded it to a friend who's now in L&D 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:00 AM
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⚠️⚠️PSA⚠️⚠️ DO NOT GET THESE YOGI EGGS! THEY ARE NOT MEDICALLY RECOMMENDED. POROUS AND HIGH RISK OF INTRODUCING INFECTIONS INTO THE V. Pelvic floor exercises are usually done externally without the need for weighted cones but weighted kegel cones are a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:58 AM
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Its just a fancy crystals gwyneth paltrow way of exercising your pelvic floor (which all jokes aside I believe all women would benefit from) and there are some folks use it in a more rose quarts will increase my libido way... 10/10 would not recommend. These stones are cracked and porous and are basically bacterial balls. So now hes a scrote that may have given her bacterial vaginosis had she put up with his lazy BS 😮‍💨 dodged a MASSIVE EGG SHAPED BULLET
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:51 AM
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Im just gonna suggest this to any lvm that messes up 🤣🤣 get her a crystal yoni egg 🤣🤣🤣 you cant make this stuff up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:39 AM
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Dont even give reasons next time. He knows what he fckin did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:28 AM
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Thats why im a firm believer in Block and Delete. I even tag my guys photos in the gallery (android) so if a take out the trash so to speak I just press the tag > delete all > never look back Oh also dont forget to block him on payment apps 😅😮‍💨 Its not my problem you cant get your dck wet. Figure it out yourself, like being a decent human being. Im not teaching what mask to wear for a poor girl who doesnt know better. Its a disservice to womanhood as a whole. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:27 AM
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This is from my personal experience with one particular college but being a people pleaser is the worst thing you can be in a sorority. Youll have the know-it-all Im better at everything types who are willing to sabotage and play dirty to prove their point. Ex: late night mandatory "celebration" before a big exam. And the pickme culture is strong bcs *** is dating *** ect ect, Im friends these group of men ect ect. Anything that says I'm worth of a mans attention is a status symbol that youre de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:45 PM
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I hold and push the cart back and very authoritatively say "Watch your cart!" with the looks that could 😵💀. Doesnt happen to me often but it always surprises them when the face doesn't match the attitude. And yes push back the first time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:35 PM
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Was recently re-reading this handbook post and thinking I need to re-evaluate myself (as Im growing) and what a HVM means now than what it did when I was younger Very happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:28 PM
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His friends will look you in the eye at a party, smile, and never tell you 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:59 PM
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So cute! 🥺🥺 Such a pure cutie 🥺 What a blessing of a baby 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:55 AM
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If anything I feel bad for the women. Ive never met one who was genuinely happy 😭 Divorced him bcs she was expected to be not have a social life. Basically isolated from everyone. Does not have a drivers license. 2nd went to med school, wasnt allowed to practice. Bcs "thats not what I married you for". Housewife/carer for MIL, BIL, 2 kids and her husband. Has never had mac n cheese till last Thanksgiving 🥺 3rd Husband was secretly an addict 4th pursues residency with her husband and she's also r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:42 AM
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"I'd rather sleep with you even if youre shorter than me bcs I dont wanna be alone on Valentines Day" - The pickmeshia that 💀 when you decided to level up... One mindset shift that really helped me, almost like a mantra, is "This is actually good for you". Your body feels like its a loss but what's lost was potential. And FDS discourages dating men for potential. Very proud of you. Imagine the years you would've wasted on "potential"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:16 PM
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Congratulations on your pursuit of higher education! Im sure your family is already very proud of you. Sis. Read your post. Then read it again. Every single question you posted, you answered already. Its not anxiety if you'd be "peachy" to move on your own. So why feel like this when this man is involved? You answered your question already. He's not the only one with an apartment in Boston. And do you really like Boston or was he selling you to it? Its a very exciting time for you so don't rush …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:56 PM
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3 months - I wont get him anything 6 months - A very small cactus or pothos or anthurium that youve repotted in proper soil (something easy to care for) which is a good vetting tool imo to see if he'll create time for something I have given but in a very very micro scale. How hard is it to 😵💀 a cactus, especially for those w/o experience. You will see how much effort they will put into a 5 minute research on caring for something and actually doing it. 1 year - I get something personal and a card…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:46 PM
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No ofc not idk your situation. FDS encourages dating. Its just that this sub does not encourage lowering standards or being a forever girlfriend just so you can have a relationship. Bcs you deserve better than that. Im not shaming you or anything but this sub is "ruthless strategy to maximize woman's benefit".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:33 PM
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What are your thoughts on that? From what I understood the cord cutting not just severs connection but also describes or predicts the nature of the relationship? Like how Person A's candle got dissolved easier = that person's energy was being consumed more? I have 0 knowledge of these things. Just saw on my page and its very fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:26 PM
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Boyfriend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:21 PM
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Did Travis say anything? I'd be so embarrassed if I found out a grown man is playing Karen against a 20 year old in my name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:21 PM
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OoooOoo girl listen. Outside the scrubs we are all just people. The "skinny" cardiologist telling you to stop eating fast food bumped his knee in excitement for receiving taco bell gift cards for Christmas (he knows all the menu items by heart. Its actually very cute. Yes I know). The very smart neurologist always passes out while studying before brushing his teeth. Then he goes ham with brushing the next morning. I wish I had an actual photo. He may have inherited my old electric toothbrush 😇. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:12 PM
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It takes time to move one from someone so give yourself that. Meditation helps in observing your thoughts. You'll notice when youre thinking of him, accept that you miss him, and let your rational mind explain to you why its not a healthy relationship. Accept what was lacking in your life that he was fulfilling and find those things else when youre ready. Its really like weaning off an addiction. Cigarettes were a social point for most people and hanging outside the smoking area vs spending time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:39 PM
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Listen to your gut sis. You wont post here if you weren't having second thoughts and doubts. I dont think it would hurt to ask for help as far as navigating the housing market but what's yours will always be yours and itll definitely be a safety net rather than a leverage over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:16 AM
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Ahahha I read this too. So funny. I basically told her how my ex (who was 28 at the time and an actual single guy) was flying me out to his state every 3 or so weeks. Would pick me up (1hr) or get an uber for me. No excuse. He can get her an uber. Unless ofc his wife would be upset about that. Whats interesting are the comments getting upset at her and how "age is not an issue here why would you bring it up" blah blah. Like boomer, you genuinely believe the reason you wanna date people 10 years …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:38 AM
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Hot girl 2022 🥳🥳🥳 Congrats Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:20 AM
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Even if theyre accomplished they can still be very bitter. Had a new coworker I was training. She has loads of experience, shes just new to the workplace. This guy probably thinks she's a naive newgrad since she looks really young and you can see he's just irritated around her? It came to a point where he started berating her infront of a customer. After that was done she pulled him aside. (Ofc my nosy ass was listening 🤣) Why do you talk to me like that J? Why are you so agit when Im around? Do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:00 AM
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In my limited experience, ppl who know how to make wealth dont get weird or sensitive about money talk. If anything they find the money talk weird bcs its a non item for them. No need to discuss whos paying what. Its already implied. 🤷🏻‍♀️ thats just my limited experience tho...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:33 PM
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I had to google what those were too! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:08 PM
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Ngl I had to google what french tip is 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:06 PM
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What sucks is there are women out there that are in such dire straits they think their only choice is between living in the street or living with these creeps. And these manipulative men know what theyre doing, baiting women who are already at the end of their rope. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:42 PM
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Its like when LVMs get caught cheating through his phone and first thing they say is how youre untrustworthy bcs youve invaded their privacy 🙃 boiii 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:33 AM
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This is probably not as doable but check the search history on his insta. Know someone who looks at those naked cosplay ladies but they just have them on his search bar bcs hes smart enough to not follow and like the posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:54 AM
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Related but not: Dont let him get used to stool softers and laxatives. You can become dependent on it to the point you cant go anymore without using it. Im not saying dont use it at all but dont use it as a daily thing for years on end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:08 AM
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The whole "dad bod" thing 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:57 AM
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I knew one who had a clean image. Prim and fashionable. Always smelled nice. My girlfriend who hooked up with him a few times told me he wets his hair and layers perfume before going to work and that he rarely showers 🤣🤣🤣 He told her its bcs he has sensitive skin and it gets dry 🤣🤣 Why my friend continously met him knowing about this beats me 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:56 AM
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Love the username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:31 AM
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Saw the Puppermaster recently. Omg that woman who still believes in him and is living in filth with their 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:22 AM
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I suppose its never letting go of the feeling of being needed. So you infantalize your children so theyll always need mommy. You'll never have to worry about your kids abandoning. You didnt get to make choices for your life so youll gain a sense of control now by deciding every aspect of my childrens lives. Im sure its a common but unconscious thing parents with unhealed wounds do. The one I got close to basically has a true personality and a personality infront of his family. He truly doesnt wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:19 AM
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Ive seen this even in "modern" settings. The parents can both be successful professionals. On paper its a modern family since the women of the household also have a career of their own. Living in a western country even. But the dynamic with the kids, especially her "special boy", is very malignant. She ends up raising a surface level "feminist" but is actually an egotistic manchild with a VERY inflated sense of self who will do mommy's every whim because her approval is everything. You think you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:42 AM
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enter the "arrange marriages have lower divorce rates 😌" comments 😮‍💨. I cant even get mad at it bcs hey man... whatever makes you feel better about your current arrangement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:11 AM
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TeAcHinG hEr a LeSsoN Yeah you taught her how she doesnt need a mooch 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:05 PM
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Mom coddling her "special boy". Raises entitled, emotionally stunted man babies who never seem to run out of audacity. He thinks hes Gods gift to earth. Many have a surface secure attachment. You'll see him as someone "good to his mother = respectful to women". After a while you find out how mom still pays for a 30 year old's rent so he can drive a leased BMW. Youll be turned into a mommy mcbangmaid without the superiority of a parent bcs his mama controls every aspect of his life already 😌 You …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:59 PM
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Ask him about his mom... parents for that matter. It'll say a LOT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:05 AM
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Every website as an FAQ at the bottom. Ctrl + F and type remove. Most site you have to "prove you are the person who wants your info removed" by providing an email address. I have one for junk mail and coupons. They make it very very difficult to find. If that doesn't work youll have to use "Contact Us" and let them know you want your data removed. If they ask for a "why" I say domestic violence and they tend to respond faster. I search my name maybe twice or three times a year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:48 PM
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Google your name everyonce in a while. I just got rid of my records on a people search website with full address and phone number and all the people who have lived in my address. Its so creepy and upsetting that the government can just hand out this info because you decided to vote. Also google voice? can give you a second phone number that you can give to strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:42 PM
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Farm/homestead management is a skill and a passion. Making sMooThIEs is not. Please dont take what I say the wrong way. She just talks about it as "giving up" whereas you talk about it as "starting"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:33 PM
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Idk how Ill navigate it but its this same reason why I want to name my future kids after my last name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:04 PM
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Men never counted it as work. Hence out current nursing crisis that affects us now. Hard to believe women managing critically ill patients is a worthy job to be payed fairly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:55 PM
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There are reps that have to "develop rapport" with physicians, especially those with private practices, to ensure loyalty to a specific brand of equipment. Free dinners, all expenses paid out of the state conferences, all expenses paid after party to said conferences. They start them young too. My ex who is only a fellow is already on first name basis with a huge number of med reps he only met once! He was so creeped out by how they remembered his name after meeting him once when he has an uncom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:46 PM
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I didn't wanna sound like an ass there but that's something someone without a career, aspirations, or passion would say. Making your husband meals is... not a career 😅 And notice how she wants to do exercise A, B, and C. I have a feeling its not for the workout, its to maintain appearance FOR HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:34 PM
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And them knowing where you live. Totally agree. I watch too much true crime not to be paranoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:05 AM
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I feel like Im there and Im playing the scene in my head and acckkkk queen my heart is racing. You dodged an LVM bullet like its matrix 🤭🤭🤭 you are soo awesome!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:03 AM
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I recently came across psych content rabbit hole regarding Freud's penis envy theory. How women dont envy having a penis. Women envied having autonomy and equity that only men had during the period the theory was proposed. Karen Horney proposed the womb envy theory in response where men punish and hate women because we are the ultimate gatekeepers of biology which all evolutionary functions lead to: procreation. If women dont chose you as worthy of mating with, youre bottom barrel. Your genes de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:58 AM
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Just watch this clip and how puppet like and meek his wife was https://youtu.be/f1HE1yc2YJo And dont get me started on the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:00 PM
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Nah sis. Dad is surgeon. Mom is pediatrician. He himself is an orthopedic surgeon. Parents insist he be in an arranged marriage... would be better if it was to his cousin. Was told he is a failure bcs hes unwed. You'd think degrees and growing up in a non muslim country makes a difference... that's what roped me in. The facade of progressiveness. The talk about how shitty his other Pakistani coworker was to his wife. Pro-choice. Religiously accepting. Nonstrict about his practice but still respe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:18 AM
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You have a wonderful family. My Desi friends are either being fed with the "only date desi" rhetoric or the "only date w/in religion or caste IN the desi community" which is even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:00 AM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:58 AM
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Lots of mention about the hyper misogynistic, controlling types or the "i like liberated women only if they have sex with me otherwise theyre whores" type. But say he is non-religious, pro-choice, isnt the jealous type, non controlling.... say he is like that... will that be enough? Bcs the ones that wasted years of my life were all mama's boy to the bone manchild with zero emotional intelligence. Its still not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:52 AM
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Despite all the BS about the secret haram girlfriend and the secret arrange marriage meetings behind your back. Despite all the cultural misogyny. Even if you remove the religious aspect. You end with a manchild who's praised for being born male instead of female. You end with a manbaby that has the emotional intelligence of a 3 month old and a depth of a teaspoon while saying that he's just not an emotional type. He is "logical". You end with a child in man clothes. 10/10 would NOT recommend 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:37 AM
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They want to come to countries where weve put in a lot of work for the equality of people so that they can experience that liberty but also shit on that country's liberalness but also impose that their ways are superior when it benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:30 AM
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thats within his means financially If he has an expensive leased car while relying on mommy and daddy to pay his rent 🚩 If he's a classist and looks down on other less expensive cars (even if he's technically renting a bmw) 🚩 If he sacrifices safety and functionality over "aesthetics" 🚩 Careful with the smoke and mirrors type that uses cars to "seem" financially stable but are actyally very financially irresponsible. Theyre very good at making appearances and first impressions and one of the thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:13 AM
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Reminds me of a co-worker (idk why she told me this) who caught her bf sexting someone WHILE having sex with her from behind 🐶. Oh last I heard they are still together 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:54 AM
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When I hit bottom pickmeshia behavior to the point I realized theres gotta be a different way I should go about love and relationships so I dont do this again. I got into the whole archetypes, astrology, pretty privilege, etiquette content, and finally landed on FDS. A special place on the internet who doesnt blame me for turning my "prince" into a "frog". A place that didnt blame me for not being pretty enough. They have to hit rock bottom and seek change themselves. The codependence addiction …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:48 PM
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Feeling of indigestion is something I hear from female patients too. Dull epigastric pain. If in ER and you feel like they are dismissing you, insist on an EKG. Its just stickers on your body, wont hurt. Takes 2 minutes. What is does is it reads the conductivity of the heart on all sides. Shitty conduction on an area means theres probably lack of perfusion there. Prof told me stories of many women being sent home with Xanax for an actual heart attack bcs bro dude ED physician thinks auntie is ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:48 AM
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Uniqlo. Comfortable, casual basics 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:45 AM
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Look at the likes (or lack thereof) compared to the comments ratio 🤔 Also shoutout to the MOD whats up queen! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:58 PM
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Sometimes seeing something in writing is all it takes to see how reality truly looks like. Very happy for her! The relationship served its purpose. She's outgrown him. Its time for her to focus on herself. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 11:57 AM
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The audacity to blame it on a disease 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:50 AM
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My older coworker (50s) was telling me how she got married at 18 to a 28 year old man with 2 kids. He was abusive, manipulative, and controlling. Instead of pursuing her goals and exploring the world she became a housewife and dedicated her life to kids she doesnt even conceive. Her husband eventually died from an accident and that was when she decided to explore who she is 30 some years later! She tells me how she had to support her two step children's kids so she had to work immediately instea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:43 AM
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Ive seen guys so detached to reality that they only consider their animal as someone deserving of love and everyone else just wants to take advantage of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:39 PM
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Ofc Im biased as Ive personally been burned but it would be a disservice to any woman to be with my ex knowing full well he'll only marry you to keep his parents happy. And will most likely make your life miserable once the ink is dry. On paper hes a great guy. 30 year old in his final year of fellowship. Soft spoken and kind. Having physicians as parents. Great family on paper over all. But no amount of money and prestige will pay for having a safe, healthy, and loving home for a child to grow …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:16 AM
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This is just from a very small subgroup that Ive encountered. This is not generalizing everyone. Be wary of those who trained abroad or have been living abroad especially if they lived alone. Ask what their opinion is about other religions and how life in the country is. The one Pakistani guy Ive worked with who stuck to the practice with grace has no issue with how other people live their life. Live and let live. Oh youre a Pakistani guy but you wanna get a drink? Its your choice and I wont jud…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:16 PM
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There is a privilege in having your case be televised to spread awareness. Im sure an average looking gal wont achieve the same attention folks like Gabby Petito got. Its a tragedy regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:33 AM
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This doesn't deserve its own post so Ill just put it here. My LVMX who is a physician has a photo of him in a pathetic joker cosplay on the internet when you search his name. 🤣🤣🤣 I like to google my own name to make sure its hard to dox me and reflexively did so to all my family members and him. His name shows up, where he works, physician ratings, typical physician stuff... Images show a headshot of him... and next to it is a full makeup joker costume selfie 🤣🤣. The image doesn't show on the go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:27 AM
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Ive always said this at work when the strong clinicians were inventing stuff and reaching out to the community and getting by while the weaker ones were quiting or drowning. The pandemic is a crucible to what we are and what society is. It just amplifies it and brings it to surface. The system is against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:41 AM
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They have every right to shit on people bcs they've struggled dO hArD during in training in their luxury condos paid for by mum and dad 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:36 AM
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CARDIOLOGISTS ARE FUCKINGGGG ASSHOLLLESS I SAID WHAT I FUCKING SAID!!! 😡😡😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:22 AM
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Sis idk if youre immersing your self in the FDS handbook but protect your womb!! This is priority #1! Dont be bound by blood to this pendejo. Theres online services like nurx that sell birth control for 15$ or if you can find a way to go to a Planned Parenthood and get it there it should be free. Perhaps find a way to get legal status? Getting student visa and go to school? Im just shooting out ideas too but please dont hurt yourself. Theres a way out if this! You'll only come out stronger after…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:06 AM
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Im sorry this isnt my field BUT what I can advise is if your prescription antiemetic tabs don't work, say youre so nauseous you just end up throwing up the pill, there are sublingual versions of it. 10/10 would recommend. Its absorption is faster too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:59 PM
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Betcha he thought he was being a smart mfcker with this move smh. First of all you just saw this trick in a new outlet somewhere. Second I hope your kids disown you and you die alone you piece of dirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:41 AM
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Ok ok so I did my mini research bcs I do know of an instagram guy who fakes his deep voice. Watch him here with his Adam's apple. This post has obvious movement. On others its much more subtle so I just treat it as practice. ⚠️: this guy is corny AF https://www.instagram.com/reel/COA79ukgSQG/?utm_medium=copy_link Then go to his page under the "Throwback" story highlights. Keep clicking for about 8 times and you'll see him speaking in his real voice. Its kinda funny and hes jarringly different th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:35 AM
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Super happy for you! Honestly very hard imo to find HVM to "surround" yourself with. Even the dad types either secretly wanna fck you or are protective of you bcs they treat you as property. Idk if I have a fixed mindset or what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:23 AM
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Queen 40 bucks is like? 4 small meals or something? A tank of gas? Divorce is a major step. Youre getting out of the shit cycle. Its normal for your brain to feel for him bcs that was your way of coping with the abuse. "He gets so emotional with me because he loves me so much". You're already on the path to healing and itll only get better once the dust settles and the cords are cut. You deserve better. You're already doing better. You are better. Love you. 😘 Also pls do the tutorial on FDS wiki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:26 AM
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And you can get cheek and neck darkening. Sometimes temporary. Sometimes not. Really shitty when women get make fun of for it especially with black women who show the darkening more. Postpartum moms applying bleaching creams unknowing (or knowingly) laced with mercury.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:48 AM
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Imagine sending pics of your shlong only to get "cute" 🤣🤣 prolly looks like a mushroom peeking out of a bush
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:06 PM
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Just having a child requires a lot let alone a child with disabilities. I just think it's unfair that situations like these happen a lot with absentee fathers but its not as sensational as it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:20 PM
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🤣🤣 a literally ROF(away from the scrote)L
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:57 AM
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Normalize seeing women as human beings. Not body parts, or sex dolls, or labor slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:51 AM
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Hence some conservative states here in US enforcing abortion bans. Regardless if its incest or rape or high risk pregnancy! The same scrotes who think women pee out of their vaginas are the elected law makers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:46 AM
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Not sure what sub this is but please let her know that pre-cum also has sperm (least of her problems now I know). Im so afraid for her 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:34 AM
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