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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? hahahahahah ew!! What a shitty comment. Also, I didn't say I don't exercise? I run every day and I coach 3 sports. I stay very active and I am not overweight. Even if I WAS overweight I wouldn't want a partner who doesn't want to be intimate with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:41 PM
1	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? THIS! I wasn't upset that he told me the truth. In fact, this was not the first conversation we had about why we weren't being intimate. I value blunt honesty. It's up to me how I react to new information and I know my worth and what I need to feel loved. I made a judgment call based on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:21 PM
1	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Maybe trust wasn't the right word. I used it because I trusted him to love me and care for me. I trusted him to tell me the truth when I asked him months and months before we broke up why we weren't having sex. I do feel like I learned a valuable lesson about self-worth and not relying on one someone else to build my self-esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:18 PM
4	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Thank you! I agree with this. I didn't realize how important sexual intimacy was to me until I was with him. The feeling of being the only one initiating romance can get really lonely after a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:14 PM
1	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? I'm sorry you went through that. Knowing your self-worth is a lifelong journey with ups and downs. I think we just have to take it day by day and know that our physical bodies are just vessels for the soul. I have found great comfort on my bad days by thanking my body for the things it does for me. Something has to carry your beautiful soul around. Sending so much love your way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:10 PM
2	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? I think you missed the point here. I love being imperfectly human and I embraced the imperfections in my partner because I loved him with my whole heart. I have never gotten to know someone who is perfect because they don't exist! I would never want that anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:08 PM
2	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Thank you for this comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:04 PM
1	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Hi! This is a great perspective and I appreciate it. I want to clarify that I absolutely did want an honest answer. I was taken aback because it was the first time I heard him say anything like this to me. I think honesty is extremely important. I told him many times that I appreciated him sharing that tough truth with me because it gave me the answer to my question and allowed me to make an informed decision. The impact can still hurt though. I don't think it's a reason to find me weak. There i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:43 PM
2	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? I'm actually not! I'm very short but I'm an avid runner. I'm 5'1 and weigh 131 pounds. I think I'm just not his type. I have pink hair and lots of tattoos and piercings. I swear like a sailor and I smoke like a chimney. He prefers a more wholesome girl I think. We were friends for years before we started dating. I think he truly believed it wouldn't be an issue that he didn't find me sexually attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:28 PM
2	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? Thanks for sharing! Loving a partner to me means that both parties are absolutely 100% deserving of desire. Intimacy (both sexual and emotional) is imperative to a successful relationship. Of course, everyone's needs are different and we certainly don't need to agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:25 PM
4	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? I appreciate that so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 05:49 PM
124	Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character? I can't believe I stumbled upon this post. I just got out of a long-term relationship. Before we broke up I would have absolutely said it doesn't matter if someone finds you physically attractive as long as they are in love with you for all of the right reasons. The tipping point for my relationship was when we were having an open/honest conversation about how I really wanted more intimacy initiated by him. He ended up blurting out that he doesn't feel the need to initiate because he isn't "full…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 05:43 PM