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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | I finally said NO to a narcissistI don’t know you, woman on the internet, but I am bloody proud of you 💪🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:48 AM |
| 17 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himOr you might tell someone/say someone needs to get their head out of [name]’s arse. Sometimes their own 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 4 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.I think the bottom line is this (and I’m going to potentially seem a little blunt but I’m not trying to be nasty). As the mod said, it was derailing for the topic that was being discussed and highlighted in the post, even after they said this, and another FDS member responded (as a POC - so one of the very people you are supposedly defending, side night I’m also not fully white but appear so, so don’t consider myself to have a BIPOC experience) you further went into a long long explanation as to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 17 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.I understand that, and of course progress needs to be inclusive (otherwise what is the point?!) I’m LGBTQ+ myself. But in relation to these images that were shared, they were not created by white women, only depicting white women, because they were eliminating the voices of BIPOC. They were created by men (white ones - let’s be honest) against women having freedom and autonomy. Yes they depict white women (sign of the times etc), but the sentiments, values and messages being portrayed in them wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:28 AM |
| 36 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.They are historical posters from the time. OP has shared them as they were created (obviously not featuring BIPOC) - which is how they were created at the time. Are you suggesting she should have fabricated historical propaganda? It’s not OP ignoring/not representing BIPOC - it was the people that made those posters at the time, looking as they do in the post. You seem to be under the impression that they’re modern posters that have been created in modern times, depicting attitudes of the time w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 65 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏I’ve always gone for the shorter end of the spectrum too- my fiancé is 5”6 and the tallest I dated is 5”9. Hear me out on this... I’ve thought about it a lot! The issue I have with tall guys is that they are so often incredibly arrogant. They think their height is something meritocratic rather than something they’ve had no control over. Every well-meaning granny or auntie throughout his life saying shit like “wow aren’t you tall” and “look how tall you’ve got”, plus multiple “I only date tall gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:25 AM |
| 9 | NEVER AGAINMe too, friend. Flat pillow or no pillow even! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 0 | NEVER AGAINAs a flat pillow sleeper... who often gets rid of the pillow whilst asleep... I feel attacked 🤣🤣 but for those wondering you get the cheapo pillows that know aren’t gonna hold their shape! Mine aren’t old... they’re just not good quality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 21 | Truer words were never spoken 💛I’ve thought many times that lack of waiting for something taught at such a young age could be a contributing factor to why many men are so impatient in general. Nothing teaches you patience like queuing for the ladies as a small child! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 10 | ExactlyAh it’s probably that then! Neither of us had premium as (obviously - given it’s tinder 😂) we weren’t seriously looking for anything. We deleted the app but not our “profiles”. Still weirded me TF out though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:45 PM |
| 32 | ExactlyOkay on this topic (but also slightly off topic) does anyone know the answer to this? My fiancé and I met on tinder (I know - hideous) and we were talking about it a while ago and trying to remember some of the dumb stuff we chatted about in the early (still on tinder stages). So mutually we both re-downloaded it at the same time (like sat next to each other) to see out chat on there and BOTH of us had new matches... neither of us had been on the app for 3 years and obviously there were messages… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!Does anyone know what happened with Nadiya and Shekar?? in the end? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!Don’t worry, we know it’s TV and will not represent everyone :) Also, Ankita is HUGELY unappreciated and overlooked! She’s awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 52 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!I got massive gay vibes from Pradhyuman. The size of the closet (metaphorical to say the least), the fact he’d rejected 150 women based on a lack of attraction, making dolls clothes for the gods in the shrine and also the way he sat. Feel bad for the guy tbh, think he’s in the closet and the door is locked - that’s coming from someone who knows what the closet feels like! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:13 PM |
| 106 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!Oedipus, that you babe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 6 | iM nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLs“I like dirt” too 🤣 and don’t wear make up unless I feel like it, often dress borderline androgynous (despite being feminine facially - long hair etc) and never wear heels as I frikin’ hate them (none of this is to be “one of the boys” but just what I’m comfortable in, I’m bi so maybe that kinda influences it🤷🏻♀️). However my bestie is THE definition of a girly-girl - loves wearing floaty dresses, takes time on her make up and weekly manicures etc. Would I ever make her feel bad for being girly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 13 | Must be under 5’5, fit, submissive, and stepmother to 4.That’s not a dating profile... that’s a job description! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:48 AM |
| 123 | Anyone else fed up of men at weddings (often even the groom - e.g “help me” shoes) pretending that they don’t really want to be in a committed relationship because it’s ‘funny?’And that that trying to be “funny” is actually humiliating to their partners? If my fiancé pulled out a pair of “help me” shoes at our wedding he wouldn’t need any help... I’d walk right out.... wouldn’t wanna be forcing someone into a marriage that they didn’t want now, would I?... 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Please let’s help her. I don’t know what to do. Please help.I am so so sorry to hear that. Your heart may feel like it’s breaking but you’re mourning “what could have been” and not “what is”. And that “what could have been” could be with another man who treats you and your child like an equal, with love, care and respect. Your husband will never do that (even if he may have done it in the past). I am so proud of you for getting a plan in place, I wouldn’t give him anymore notice or clues as to you leaving as that could make things difficult for you and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else fed up of “funny” wedding traditions where the men at the wedding (or worse- the groom) pretend they don’t want to commit to their SO?If my fiancé knelt at the alter to reveal shoes saying “help me” - he wouldn’t need any “help” as I would walk outta there for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:34 PM |
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