queencityrangers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Honestly, unsure what the best move forward is “Not trying to make it political” but the entire post is about politics. I’m not sure you understand what the “conservatives” have done to make everything political from the half time show to the beer we drink to the way we discuss serious issues. Culture wars impact every facet of life. The way you are trying to shield yourself from political discourse it sounds like you’re probably a little too fragile for marriage it’s not exactly an easy thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/26 12:36 PM
3	Can people who get divorced remain close friends? It sounds like you want a relationship with her brother. Work out something so that you can stay in his life and you’ll have a relationship with both of them. Friendship? Maybe not, but you’ll still be around and can talk through the big things going on in each other’s lives. I finalize my divorce on Friday after a tumultuous year and a half separation. We have a 3 year old. I know all the issues going on with her new house, all the kid stuff etc. but we don’t hang out or talk on the phone more …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/26 06:20 PM
1	What was the Craziest Moment In your Divorce Story? Well….there were a lot of accusations and pending criminal charges (long story but the beginning of it was that she beat me and held me at knife point for a few hours one night. She had bruises on her arm from where I grabbed her to keep her from hurting me or herself. The next day when she made it clear she was not going to stop and continued to escalate I called the police and we both got arrested. Her charges were dropped early because she agreed to testify against me 🤯)	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 12:20 PM
6	What was the Craziest Moment In your Divorce Story? I went 40, then I got every other weekend until I suspect my attorney finally realized I wasn’t the psychotic monster that she made me out to be. It only took me convincing him to listen to all of the recordings (and he charged me 3 hours for that). 50/50 now	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 12:44 AM
2	Need help ASAP. This guy gets it!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/26 10:41 PM
4	Any other men here feel like you were left for dead? They figure out the hard way how much was being done for them. My ex is in the middle of a year long “renovation project” at her new house. Wild how much I was able to do without her even noticing that it got done. The “mental load” she was carrying multiplied by at least two now	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/26 10:38 PM
2	Any other men here feel like you were left for dead? That happened to me too…. Sorry man	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/26 10:36 PM
5	Witnessing your own funeral. Divorce is socially contagious	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 08:42 PM
16	Update, 2 years post divorce Hey dude, hope you’re ok… Just stop talking to that guy. He’s a bad friend.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 03:22 PM
5	Ex-wife glow up… To be honest. You sound high value. A total breaux	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/25 07:57 PM
3	2nd wife?” The Brady bunch lied to us?!?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/25 04:25 PM
2	What the fuck! I just inherited a little over 2.0M That was exactly what I was thinking. Get separate lawyer or accountant	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/25 02:23 PM
1	How and where did you tell her you want a divorce? Nah, I just meant don’t write down anything that outlines what might be used later on in the process. I mean he is talking about her drinking, lack of intimacy, mental state etc. probably best to only use those if and when needed in the divorce process. Leaving a paper trail of the “why” is going to make things messy. If the need to talk about those things comes up, fine talk about those or file motions or whatever but no need to get personal and definitely don’t put the personal stuff down on p…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/25 11:48 PM
3	How and where did you tell her you want a divorce? Don’t put anything in writing	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/25 03:42 PM
9	I won, supposedly. I also “won” and hate it. She walked away from all the headaches with a little bit of cash. I have to figure out what to do with all the stuff. The house. And then I have to figure out what I’m going to do with my life now that it’s been completely upended.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/25 04:18 PM
2	She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful? Not OP…but how did you get to the point where your wellbeing is on the list of priorities? All I’ve been doing is focusing on my son when he’s with me and avoiding thinking about him, avoiding a break down, or trying to handle the divorce process when he’s not with me.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 04:27 AM
1	Altering child support Why not offer a “bonus payment” of whatever the attorney cost for her would likely be?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/24 05:48 PM
2	How to move on from feeling taken advantage of? Yeah I’d be fine if she didn’t blow up everything because she didn’t “want to be a mom” and then fight me for our son. I’ll figure out the financial side of it but I’m never gonna be ok with the non monetary consequences of her actions.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/24 12:44 AM
6	How to move on from feeling taken advantage of? I thought it was bad when I got hit with that a few months after moving. We tried to make it work and got a little over a year in the house before it all went to shit. Now I’m stuck with a huge mortgage and a house that’s bigger than we needed and a ton of work to maintain waiting for two years to sell to avoid being slapped with cap gains tax. Meanwhile the woman who was so concerned about losing her “independence” took off with my son to her new apartment…..	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/24 03:05 PM
1	How’s this shit work Yeah people who say move back in have probably not been in back of a squad car before	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/24 10:25 PM
1	How’s this shit work I don’t know if I’m just in the “lucky” minority or if I’m going to find something else crazy out about my wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/24 10:19 PM