queenoshi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Being gaslit through and through	MALE DEPRAVITY	queenoshi	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 06:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
60	I have no words for the way other subs invalidate women Sounds like my ex, who constantly called me controlling and insecure for being angry at him hanging out alone with his "good friend" with whom he had a sexual history. (He also used the words "I don't care how you feel about it, I choose who I am friends with"). They would hang out at her house and get high together. When I posted about it here (stupid, I know), I was told to work on my anxiety and insecurity. Some people called me abusive. Spoiler: he cheated and discarded me. The same will soo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 01:25 PM
13	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 I think the most disgusting thing about this is the number of victims of incest/child sexual assault who are led to believe that it is somehow "healing". I myself am a survivor of CSA and have been told by scrotes and other victims alike that DDLG "helps" their trauma by allowing them to reenact it in a "consensual" way. I'll admit that DDLG turns me on but only because being assaulted by my older brother was the entire foundation of my sexuality. I have literally been conditioned and GROOMED in…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 01:21 PM
3	Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you. He has shown her that he is capable of, and purposefully will, punish her for "defying" him (trying to have a life outside of being his bangmaid) by withholding finances. This isn't just him being an asshole - it's him letting her know that she better do what he says, or he'll happily withdraw her access to their "shared" income. If I were her, I would RUN.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/22 12:58 PM
138	Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks. I agree that we should own our looks and shouldn't let men shame us - with that said, I worry that this kind of rhetoric encourages pick me behavior. I work hard on my looks, but realized a long time ago as a dark-skinned woman of color that I would always lose this battle by default. My tall and thin blonde haired blue eyed colleagues would always be the ones to achieve career advancement or win a client thanks to their looks. I hold absolutely no resentment towards these women - I hold resentm…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/22 08:03 AM
52	Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?) As a fellow woc I have had the same experience many times over. Even well meaning white women will be cliquey in my experience. Once a white woman who usually ignored me like how OP is describing got drunk and hugged me saying "I'm sooo happy I have a friend who's not white." It made me wonder if maybe her shutting out behavior had to do more with fear and awkwardness at never having spoken to people of color her whole life, rather than malice. Another time a good friend of mine who was a white …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 08:25 AM
7	Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’. On the note of the first tweet can someone explain to me what the appeal of "hate fucking" is? Isn't sex supposed to be about intimacy, love and connection? I mean even ~kink culture~ pretends that intimacy and love is at its root. A man once told me a story about how he really, really hated a girl: he found her obnoxious, rude, whatever. But then he spent TWO YEARS telling her she was pretty and nice trying to get in her pants. A clear example of how men want to "hate-fuck" but lie about the ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/22 07:12 PM
58	UPDATE: Part 1 of my 3 experience implementing the 3 month rule. I HAVE MADE A HUUUUUGE MISTAKE with cohabitation. I concur completely. When the pandemic hit, I had nowhere to go - I lost my job, most of my savings over a medical emergency, and had nowhere to live. I could have stayed with a friend until I got back on my feet, but I stupidly decided to move in with the apparently-HVM I was dating at the time. Every man in my past had been flaky and uncommitted; this one was already sure he wanted to move in with me and marry me soon! Great, right..? Except... not. He lived in his grandma's basement and refus…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/22 05:16 PM
27	On men frequenting OF/internet models/cam girls etc : If this were the 90s would you date a man who carried around a box of swimsuit model magazines 📖 so he could ogle them a couple times an hour?? I just watched a video where a 40 year old man tangentially mentioned his shock at what kids have access to nowadays - he didn't encounter porn until he was in his mid-20s. I am younger and encountered porn in my teen years and it really fucked with me and made me think it was "hot" to be used and degraded. I have dated so many pornsick men and I feel angry and ill thinking about what it has done to my generation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 05:35 AM
3	He showed up at my door last night THIS is why we don't tell men where we live!!! Ladies take note!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 04:45 AM
12	Disgusting Vday Gifts I bought a pair of booty shorts recently that had custom text (mine was something like "misandrist witch"). Ever since then they've been serving me these gross ads with the same shorts I bought except they say "daddy's cum toilet" or whatever. So gross honestly I feel violated. On the topic of vday fun story about my ex. He organized an amazing vday for me with cake flowers etc. When he went to pick up the cake I asked where he was going and he said "to see my stripper mistress ;)" totally out o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 07:56 PM
21	Stop getting into cars with men. Absolutely. I cannot believe that this is not common sense. In college, a girl in my writing class was boasting to me that she matched with a rich older man on OLD. He organized a limo for her to go to New York to see him. She was bragging but all I could think about was how completely terrified I'd be in that situation... Imagine being a 19 year old girl getting into a strange limo going someplace you don't even know?! Literal nightmare fuel.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 11:15 AM
73	Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving him Thissss. Their partners probably do much worse things to them than what happened to this woman. If they believed her leaving was justified, it would also mean admitting that they've invested decades into an abusive piece of shit; it would mean undoing years of telling themselves that they're happy. That's why you never take relationship advice from a pickme.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 11:44 PM
78	Men who try and escalate things too quickly Yes!! So many of us have been screwed over by men who only want a forever gf/refuse to commit that these kinds of guys seem really attractive at first. After 6 years of "I'm not ready to get married," who wouldn't want "I want to get married even though we just started dating?". These scrotes know exactly the game they're playing; they're going to lovebomb and get you under their control so that they can abuse you after marriage. Don't date a man who doesn't want commitment, but don't date a man…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 04:55 PM
5	My Daughter's Married Boyfriend & Being Mad At Your Old Boyfriend for Being Old I've read this article, it's completely insane. So excited!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 04:29 PM
230	not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what? Apparently that sub is moderated by MRAs and one of them got power because he was the boyfriend of one of the female mods. Go figure, ultimate pickmeisha behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 04:54 PM