queenservingfacts Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
122	Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? \| the guardian article PREACH. Queens, let’s boycott these apps!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 05:56 PM
89	If you are having doubts, leave. I love this. I’d add that doubts are worth investigating to some extent. Introspection around feelings of doubt can be a really useful exercise to ensure the doubts aren’t some prior trauma playing out in real time. If doubts persist beyond inner work, talking things through with trusted friends, and dialogue with your partner, it’s gotta be a hard pass. In my experience it’s helpful to put a time frame on how long any feelings of doubt are tolerable, like a number of days or weeks. If a couple …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/22 02:57 PM
95	Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me! I’m 1000% with you in this! Deleted mine over a year ago and haven’t missed them one bit! I wonder what men would do if women collectively boycotted dating apps and casual sex - I suspect this would be one hell of a motivator for men to get their shit together.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 03:39 PM
192	Trigger warning for exes of porn addicts I think you’re picking up on the “idealizing phase” going on here. This scrote is likely a porn addict, and addicts are selfish, compulsive, emotionally immature, narcissistic, and view their partners as objects to be used for emotional validation and sex. The thing is - instead of acting out his addiction with porn, he’s shifted to using his girlfriend as his addiction instead. His description of her illustrates the degree to which he’s projecting his own distorted fantasies onto her rather tha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 03:40 AM
193	Trigger warning for exes of porn addicts Haha oh boy, reading this feels like watching the opening scene of a horror movie. This scrote’s poor girlfriend has no idea what’s around the corner. What happens next? Does he finally see her without makeup and realizes she’s not a sex toy but, GASP, a real life human!? What weird new kink will he develop in another failed attempt to overcome his PIED? How will his mother enmeshment sneak in for the final sabotage? THE SUSPENSE.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 02:29 AM
79	Woman feels rightfully betrayed at her husband watching porn, advice columnist gaslights her into her 'past trauma' being the problem. Her advice is the quintessential couples therapy advice that only works in the rare instance that both partners are healthy and self-aware enough to use this situation as an opportunity to increase communication and build deeper intimacy by respecting boundaries. This advice doesn’t bother taking into account the reality - which is that very few men have the emotional maturity, humility, or mental fortitude to even bother considering their partner’s experiences and feelings in a conflict like th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 02:10 PM
50	Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental health Dear adult men with mental health issues: The assertion “no one cares” implies that it’s a reasonable expectation that everyone or anyone should care. The only one responsible for you, your feelings, and your choices is YOU. You’re an adult with autonomy and can choose to seek professional help. Sincerely, Management	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 09:18 AM
20	Women who dated covert narcissists, did their narcissism get "worse" over time? Yes, they worsen over time. They also worsen in response to increased healthy boundaries over time, and in my experience that timeline escalated rapidly. You deserve so much better than a narc NVM. Don’t waste any of your precious time on one of these scrotes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 11:34 AM