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queenw_hipstur/r/seduction12/12/11 03:43 PM
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queenw_hipstur/r/seduction06/01/12 05:22 PM
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Thanks brosif.
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:42 PM
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I didn't think she would remember my username.
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:42 PM
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Jesus Christ I swear to god if I comment on reddit one more time from my phone and it does something like that, I'll break my iPhone. Well, wouldn't break my iPhone, but still. 2003?! How does my autocorrect come up with this shit?
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:57 PM
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I was recently on a couple flights and had an exchange in an airport bar with a hot babe who sat next to me. She was nowhere near me on the flight. You realize that yes, the gods were smiling on you. The odds of that girl sitting next to you are like 2003. That's amazing. Good on ya mate.
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:26 PM
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The thumb war thing is great. Follow ups could include reference to tonsil hockey rematch, which you promise you will win, and then immediately belittling your use of the term tonsil hockey. If you're good at dancing, why not challenge her to see who can get lower on the dancefloor. It's a great way to get physical, and ive even done this one especially in packed bars, where you stay low below everyone, and it's actually surprisingly quiet down there, and you can pretend you are in your own fort…
/r/seduction17/12/11 09:24 PM
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Good stuff man. I am not jewish, but love Jewish girls. They are my kryptonite. Something about the curves mixed with the olive skin and sassy attitude. Best. Ever. Anyways, looks like your making some great progress. Isn't it the best? My only thing about your post is that, I feel like sometimes you were a tad complimentary. Compliments are great, too many compliments, not so great. I'm not one for the idea that you need to neg girls all the time, but you went from funny playful guy(hello frien…
/r/seduction17/12/11 07:12 PM
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Next gf? Next gfS. Having a few girlfriends at a time can be challenging. But if you're open and honest with all of them, you will have girls crawling all over you. Just make sure they don't run in the same social circles. You're not cheating. There is no commitment from either party. Like i said, if you're upfront, she can't be pissed at you, unless, you start teasing and leading her on with that loveydovey shit. Be a man. Stand up for yourself. Do what's best for you first, then you can start …
/r/seduction15/12/11 10:01 PM
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Except sex.
/r/seduction15/12/11 05:44 PM
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Yup. Always have wine or vodka back at your place. "hey, why don't we go cuddle up on my couch and have a drink..."
/r/seduction15/12/11 05:35 PM
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I talk a lot with my hands and sometimes look into space when I'm looking for a big word or phrase. Apparently I come across as calculated. Whatever works I guess! I also use my hands a lot, and will touch a girl almost immediately after meeting her.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:00 PM
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Took awhile, but a year of spectacular results will do that for you. I've become the guy in my group of dudes that when i walk in with a girl, my friends go, "are you fucking kidding me?"(in reference to the sexy babe on my arm) it also helps that I'm only 24 and hang out with guys in their late 20's/early 30's. Hahaha. They get so mad.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:53 PM
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Yeah, getting drunk isn't terribly attractive...depends how drunk he got too I guess. I'd say forget about him and go pick up some guy who's Christmas shopping at the mall today.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:49 PM
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To be honest, the biggest thing going through my head was that my dick probably smelled like pussy as I fucked a FWB before I went to the party hahaha.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:47 PM
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I'm not gonna be cocky, but I'd say I'm both. I get extremely positive reviews in bed, and can also have a really sensitive side(with the right girls). Unfortunately I think some here base success on numbers. I bet there are a few AFCs here that would like to learn how to pickup just so they could pickup that one girl in their physics class, or that girl they sometimes see at work. I don't think any of this shit can be defined in absolutes. Do girls want to fuck me? Yes. Do they want to date me?…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:45 PM
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Totally. Talking about stuff sometimes can ruin the simplicity of a physical relationship.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:36 PM
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How bad could you possibly have blown it? Did you guys fuck and did you get obsessed? If so, then move on. If you haven't banged this dude, and it sounds like you want to, I'd go up to him and say, "hey, haven't seen ya in awhile."(he'll reciprocate) "why don't we make dinner together one of these nights. You know, so that we aren't both wasting energy." Just be fun and obvious. 90% of men are numbskulls and can't pick up on girls subtle hints. Beat it through his head that you want to spend tim…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:35 PM
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PM me.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:30 PM
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I think cold weather gaming is great. You know where all the girls are: bookstores and coffee shops and malls. They are trapped inside! So go for the kill. Also, a great way to pique a girl's interest outside, is to say something like, "hey it's pretty chilly, we should go grab a coffee/beer and warm up!" Plus, if the mood is right, I'm one to always talk about getting into my bed and cuddling. Girls love that shit. Cuddling actually means sex. And you both know it.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:30 PM
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Let me know of you have any success with it, soldier.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:26 PM
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You sound like me a year ago dude! Like, exactly the same. You'll start feeling a lot better about your interactions with women once you only turn on that lovey shit with a select few that you really like. Affection is a great thing, but I'm starting to think i might need to take it completely out of the bedroom. Im a very passionate lover, and like to kiss girls entire bodies, lick them everywhere, grab them hard and then softly run my hands all over them. I've been told by a few girls that the…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:16 PM
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Can you please do me a favour and get off OKC? That shit needs to stop. It's kind of like the "stop watching porn and masturbating" posts lately. You don't get fucked by the penises that you want inside you, because your only interactions are with online penises that you don't want. Please begin talking to guys you want. We would love to be approached by women more often. Tell all your girlfriends to as well. Start a trend please. Invest your time in the real world. The Internet should be used f…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:11 PM
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I'm trying something fairly risky with this one and gonna play really hard to get. I know she will track me down. I got her way too excited for her not to. I've seen that look before, the one she gave me when I walked into my place, and it has always been from a girl I am going to fuck. This girl needs anti-game. I was just awesome all night and she wants awesome. I'll get her eventually. All is well.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:07 PM
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It depends on the girl or situation, but sometimes it can be within the first 10 minutes of meeting a girl(if I'm getting the correct IOIs). I'd say something like, "To be honest, I'm in a really great place in my life right now and I'm kinda doin my own thing. But I think you're great and we can have a lot of fun together if you're into it..." the last part is really tough to come as across as sexy and not sleazy. I admit, I have a fantastic smile, and I'm also on the cuter spectrum of handsome…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:02 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I wouldn't say I turned passive, I just started to realize where this might lead if I were to fuck this girl last night. Our groups of friends are too entwined, and I'd really rather not become the guy known as a home wrecker, just to get laid. I'm sure I will see her again, and maybe even some of the other girls at the party who saw me leave with her will remember the fact I left with the hottest girl there. Also, I just wanted to do a FR so I thought it was an ok situa…
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:53 PM
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Sarcasm.
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:46 PM
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Nope. Disagree. They are sick of guys who covet their beauty and "power", and want a man who has the balls to say and show what he wants. This is next level confidence. Being able to excude the fact that, you are actually the prize. You don't just think it, or say it. You are it.
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:12 AM
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I think the underlying theme of your post is honesty. I used to roll girls by a phrase I learned at a very young age that I think a lot of wannabe PUAs use which is "trick, lie and deny". This may get you laid a lot in the short run, but women are very perceptive and catch on quickly. If you are straightforward and honest with a woman, she will usually be even more into it than before. I have no problem telling a girl that all im looking for is something physical. You'd be surprised how many wan…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:49 AM
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it took a lot of self control. I was going to do the same thing, using logic. Saying something like, "sometimes you can decide when something good comes into your life..." or something along those lines. Anyways, glad I didn't. It all worked out anyhow.
/r/seduction12/12/11 04:20 PM
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Sure. I can do that.
/r/seduction12/12/11 02:58 PM
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Pure MDMA is a really great way to lose all inhibitions, if you know what you're doing on it. I've had some spectacular success on it, and approached girls I never would have.
/r/seduction12/12/11 08:21 AM
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Listen. LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN. 80% of success with women is based upon listening skills. If you listen really well. the things you want to interject with will come. Don't worry about it. You will be fine. Just truly listen, and the follow up questions will be organic.
/r/seduction12/12/11 08:18 AM
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Dude, if you want to know how to really pick up women, instead of measuring yourself on this scale of the amount of numbers you get, PM me. I'm of the ilk that quality far exceeds quantity.
/r/seduction12/12/11 08:13 AM
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This. This is exactly where I'm at now. Love one night stands, but right now I'm into one girl. We have the best sex and always have fun together. Why would I risk fucking it up just so I can say I've had sex with x amount of girls? Who knows if it will go anywhere, but just because I know how to pick up lots of women, doesn't mean I need to do that 24/7. Why mess with something that is working?
/r/seduction11/12/11 09:40 PM
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Consider this: you are leaving in a month. Therefore it is easier to get into your head that you are never going to see any of these girls ever again(even though in NYC you probably wouldn't anyways). You have a HUGE advantage over dudes in small towns who have a "one strike and you're out" situation with women. Approach every single girl you see for the next month. You are going to fail over and over and over. THIS IS A GREAT THING! Then, next month in your new city, you will be so confident in…
/r/seduction11/12/11 06:13 PM
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Lol. The thing that I do is just going about my daily life and approaching when there's something to approach. I'd go to the library or bookstore because I enjoy reading. So I'd go, read a book, drink a coffee, whatever. I'm not gonna wait around all day. I feel like a lot of men here only go to certain places just to sarge. I go to places that I enjoy and yes, some of them are definitely babe hangouts, but I go there because I'm doing it for myself. If you don't like reading, a bookstore would …
/r/seduction11/12/11 06:04 PM
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That's perfect. The best part is that you've got a million and one openers. Pick up the same book she's looking at and ask her if she's read anything else by that author, etc.
/r/seduction11/12/11 03:32 PM
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no. It's perfect. You go and ask her about the book/author she's reading. Solid opener. Plus it's easy to be fun and playful in a serious environment.
/r/seduction11/12/11 04:25 AM
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Library. That is all.
/r/seduction11/12/11 01:48 AM
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I didn't read the whole thread, but I guess what I gleaned from some of the comments is that they think we are "a bunch of circle-jerking douchebags". I obviously refute that argument with the fact that, although some of the people who post in here are douchebags and bragadocious liars, what I've seen over the last few days as I've begun to post here, is a community discussion of what works, what fails, and what we think might help one another. Not just as far as getting laid, but to becoming yo…
/r/seduction10/12/11 10:50 PM
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Because if his "experience" regarding seeing women in sexual situations is dominated by viewing them in pornographic situations, I feel like he may be subconsciously measuring himself up against the dudes in porn who are alpha male, aggressors with a "wealth" of sexual experience. This could definitely lead to anxiety over "closing", because I'm assuming this guy isn't alpha male or comfortable playing that role(which he shouldn't have to, of course.)
/r/seduction09/12/11 09:53 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction09/12/11 07:52 PM
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Eastern standard
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:17 PM
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Be yourself. You're not picking up here. She already likes you. Be comfortable and honest. The rest will work itself out. You'll do well.
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:16 PM
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Stamping yourself as a player is possibly the worst idea ever.
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:14 PM
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I really like your taste test idea. In fact, that would be a great way to blow a girl's socks(or panties?) off. If you get good enough to be able to make a few small plates that you can pair with these wines, I will bow to you. I might even steal your idea. My love of food and wine has grown exponentially over the last few years. It is just a hobby, however next year I'm considering moving to Spain to work in a restaurant. You should read "saveur" and "gastronomica". These are two fantastic maga…
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:01 PM
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I want to know more about your workplace so that I can help you be creative. So many options!
/r/seduction09/12/11 03:05 PM
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I'm from Canada so I've never heard of trader joes. Here, there are mildly upscale supermarkets that have awesome fresh produce and meat. Local butchers and markets are the best though, because the people working there are knowledgable and want you to come back. Ask for help! As far as wine goes, websites like GQ and esquire always have good new ideas both for the budget-minded, and the splurgers. There are a couple of rules that you can't ever miss with: white wine goes well with fish and chick…
/r/seduction09/12/11 02:54 PM
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This. Too many AFCs or wannabe PUAs use "the game" as a textbook. If anything, the PUA field guide is a much better source of information. That being said, the main theme in all of these books and blogs should be about you. Not tactics. Your game will work itself out once you realize what an awesome dude you are and stop trying to become something that you're not.
/r/seduction09/12/11 02:41 PM
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Yes. It makes you look professional. A knowledge of food and wine is something every man should know, gay or straight. You don't have to be rich to live nicely and enjoy fine things. A great meal at home can cost as little as $30-40 including a $16-17 bottle of wine(in Canada that's a medium-nice wine that is at least 2-3 years old).
/r/seduction09/12/11 02:32 PM
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I don't want to sound like Tony Robbins here but it's one thing to read all this material and try and force yourself to be confident. It's a completely other thing to truly believe in yourself and your actions. I've repeated this over and over and I will continue doing this to the end of time, and for all those people that consider themselves AFCs or amateur PUAs, realize and get engrained into your mind that YOU ARE THE PRIZE, not them. Most guys run around chasing women, when in fact they shou…
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:51 PM
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Online dating is a great testing ground for openers and general conversation. Hell, you might even get laid out of it. However, my game went from ordinary to extraordinary after I stopped using POF as a crutch to get laid and started interacting with girls in real life more. The virtual world is tempting, but nothing beats real life sarging. Get of POF and go for a walk. Say hi to everyone. Results.
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:43 PM
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I have a question that is going to be a precursor to my answers for you. Do watch a lot of porn?
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:39 PM
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You should research plating(presentation of a meal). It's like icing on a cake. Women love a man who is knowledgable of fine things(obviously).
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:35 PM
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I like making bbq'd chicken with garlic and montreal steak spice. Pair it with button mushrooms and asparagus. Lots of garlic and salt. Savory is the key word.The thing about creme risotto is that it shows delicacy. You have to stir and stir and stir and taste and add. You can prep everything before she comes over and then have her arrive just as your starting to cook. She can sit with a glass of wine and watch you cook as you ask her questions. Listen and make sure you don't burn anything. By c…
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:03 PM
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I live in Toronto and have done the condo thing. It's ok however, now I live in an older house downtown that isn't enormous by any means, has a patio in the back, and best of all, it is mine. Semi-detached homes are a great bargain. The problem With buying a condo is that, on top of condo fees, its too early to tell how much they will appreciate over the next 20-30 years(probably the length of your mortgage). Having a house on property is a safer bet(though i wont get into it too deeply, the sha…
/r/seduction09/12/11 12:59 PM
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I find that during a ONS, you need to move very quickly from foreplay to sex. If you spend too much time making out, she has too much time to reconsider her actions. Take advantage of her impulsivity. Go for the gusto.
/r/seduction09/12/11 12:48 PM
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Creme risotto is great, I like to go with savory foods. Stuff that makes her close her eyes and say "mmmm".
/r/seduction09/12/11 11:56 AM
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A tapas bar is a bar/restaurant that serves lots of appetizers/little plates that are great for sharing. Really good for dates because you can decide on things to order together and be adventurous. Always look at one menu together so that you can kind of snuggle up together. Ask her what she thinks looks good. Be adventurous and after taking her suggestions, take charge and make decisions. Girls can be indecisive about things like this sometimes. Try new things.
/r/seduction09/12/11 11:55 AM
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yeah, cooking for a woman who is even mildly interested in you(if you're good at cooking that is) escalates her interest level infinitely. I believe every man should know how to make killer creme risotto. 60% of the time it works every time.
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:11 PM
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Talk to every single girl you see. Every. Single. One. Not necessarily "sarging" them, but just plain talking. After this comfort of talking to girls becomes a habit, you will be able to work on any girl you like. I'm not being bragadocious, but I go out at least 3 times a week and never do less than a #close. I've f closed 40+ women since June. God knows how many other k closes and #'s I've gotten. What changed between my intermediate PUA abilities and my advanced ones now? Confidence. Built by…
/r/seduction08/12/11 09:15 PM
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Totally agree with you, in every situation. This is a special circumstance however. This one is different.
/r/seduction08/12/11 08:22 PM
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I think we can agree to disagree over agreeing or disagreeing. I think that always "peacocking" can be a bad thing. It may come across as smarmy or condescending and she may perceive you to be a player. The best game is when girls don't even know they are being gamed. EDIT: I think what I'm trying to say is, I feel like there is this notion within the PUA community that there is only one way of attracting women. Isn't the number one rule "be yourself"? If an AFC wants to become a PUA and isn't a…
/r/seduction08/12/11 07:42 PM
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I was just meaning in general terms in everyday things that men and women do. In regard to seduction, I feel like this forum and others can be misused by people into thinking that there is a formula to pickup women. I think the main point here is that seducing women is creating a situation where they are chasing you. Never forget that YOU are the prize. Not them.
/r/seduction08/12/11 05:58 PM
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I think it belongs in seduction because the advice they are looking for is regarding creating an attraction that may not have been there. However, oneitis is tricky because the girl in question already has a preconceived notion about you and your intentions. The best way to alleviate this problem is to show social proof and create situations where she sees you surrounded by women. Easier said than done, but I'm sure there's already a lot of posts about this.
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:48 PM
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That's because women's actions are much more calculated than men's. With women, there is something to read deeply into. With men, not so much. Start thinking like a woman thinks sometimes. Will exponentially improve your game.
/r/seduction08/12/11 03:21 PM
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I've used a similar one before that is a much more positive spin on this: me: we're breaking up. At this point she will do one of two things. A)she will say "what/huh/excuse me?" or, she will play along and say something lines of what?! Why?!" the second one is a great IOI an is a best possible scenario. If you fuck it up at this point, I'd be reevaluating my game completely. Seeing as she clearly is into you, I like to crank things up immediately and say something along the lines of, "well, you…
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:56 PM
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Disagree. Always make reference to the awkward conversation. She was just as awkward as he was. It's playful. Girls like vulnerability combined with confidence.
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:37 PM
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If I were you, I would turn this into an ongoing game. Every time you see this girl, you should always say, "oh hey didn't I see you last class?" She will begin to play along and will most likely start saying the same thing. Do not introduce yourself. You will be the mystery boy until she introduces herself. Keep the interactions short, light and funny, and then be on your way. She will be thinking to herself, "why does that cute guy keep chatting me up with no follow up?" This will lead to her …
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:35 PM
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I had been seeing this girl L for about two months. She was very freshly rebounding(we met 5 days after she broke up with her bf of 2 years) and we went home from a bar the first night we met and made out all night. As we started to hangout more and more we developed an emotional attraction to go along with the incredible physical attraction(see: best sex I've ever had). As luck would have it, we got along TOO well and she ejected, out of fear of getting hurt. We didn't speak for almost three we…
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:28 PM
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