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This ad summarizes the real mating market so felicitous, it can impossibly be composed by a woman. It must be a joke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 11:03 PM
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Isn't it the same deplorable story again and again? Young women enjoy their privilege to be the desired gender. They go for the best looking aggressive asshole type of men and many of them rather share more or less conciously such successful irresponsible bulls than contenting themselves with avarage looking guys who would commit and take responsibilty. Then after their era of easy going life, "unforeseeable" deceptions and often enough as single mothers they start ranting around, depicting all …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/20 11:43 AM
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-"Looking for a man to love me and someone else's kid unconditionally." Don't be astonished and don't apply some objective judgement. This is just how she experinced mating market hitherto. She had such a huge choice of men, she was the one establishing the requirements. This is the background of experience you can see through most of these ads quoted here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/20 08:37 PM
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Just imagine such an ad published by a man !
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/20 11:00 AM
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I just don't want to be used anymore And me I just can't stand this female standard view of ONSs and hook ups, namely that she has been used. Why used? Why she and not he? I want to find passion But pretty sure she will continue to subconsciously filter out all men but those same abusive assholes, she feels "passion" for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/20 03:23 PM
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What a difference just another x chromosome makes!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/19 11:04 AM
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SEX if I wanted just that I can get it anywhere What an illuminating finding! Did anyone here know that before? BTW her two children are proof of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/19 09:04 AM
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Or a show to wash themselves clean from their former way of life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 10:21 PM
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But that's not how she got pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 06:38 PM
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... just get off my page. I always wonder how these women dare being so hostile against men looking for sex, when they themselves did the exact same thing before.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/19 05:46 PM
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You know, I prefer talking about real things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 07:41 PM
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And you don't go to hell in Islam just because of adultery alone I see, you only get stoned, what a mercy. In the end it's God's decision. Whether you go to hell, yes maybe. But who is going to be tortured and murdered "in the name of God", this happens solely due decisions of arrogant evil humans out of eagerness for power. Not only in Islam, the same kind if crimes happened 500 years ago in Christianity, too. You see, I can't stand all this religious arrogance. The only justice comes from tryi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 06:57 PM
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Then why there are more women in hell when each adultry producrs one sinful woman and one sinful man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 03:40 PM
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No wonder if only the woman's participation in adultry counts a sin. And this sometimes even if she has been raped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 11:48 AM
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Dick is cheap and plentiful. This fact remains true, to what ever extent a woman exploits this priviledge. And it creates a whole lot of a difference between the options women have compared to those of average men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 06:17 PM
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I believe everyone explores their sexuality differently. Yes indeed, and as a man, depending on your looks, "differently" may signify not at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 04:25 PM
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> swipe left A typically female picture of the dating world. As an average male you simply can't afford to swipe left, women do that for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/19 04:31 PM
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On the other hand, being nice and gentle to someone is exactly an indicator of your confidence and strength. You do not need to bark like an anxious dog, you are aware of your capabilities and position and can afford to be gentle. I mean you can say it gentle and yet firm, polite and yet assertive.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 04:39 PM
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This ad is so utterly absurd, does anyone take it seriously?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/19 09:45 AM
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I appreciate your sharp tongue and can accept that sometimes it hits me, too. As to your question above, till now I supposed that I know how scatter plots are used since I used them on the job. But I thought here in reddit I'd better call it "cloud of dots" in order to avoid confusion with the technical term "scatter plot". However, if you think it's more impressive to use the latter, then ok let's speak educated. What they actually did in the above article apparently is trying to support their …
/r/BlackPillScience06/10/19 10:12 AM
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low n with human studies. You mention it.
/r/BlackPillScience05/10/19 09:40 AM
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Is it wise for a woman Is this even a criterion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:31 AM
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I have a hard time to distinguish all your protaginists. The "woman's romantic partner" is not her "own partner" ?
/r/BlackPillScience05/10/19 09:23 AM
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I do not even have to really understand the article. Just looking at this cloud of dots (the data) then the inclined line (the conclusion), there obviously is very few evidence/confidence. You could as well throw the dice. So why the effort to try to understand the details of the claim. (A lazy man's strategy)
/r/BlackPillScience05/10/19 09:06 AM
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I see this advice as a rough generalization. The girl in OP's example obviously was immature and selfish. When you share your life with someone, at a certain time you also want to share your deeper feelings, including sorrows. Metoo I had a bad start into life and explained this some time ago to my wife, she understands and does not disqualify my qualities for that. The point is, you must not try to sell yourself with this burden "mentioned on the front side of your advert".
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:45 AM
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You would need to not be an extremely skewed You're not interested in putting yourself out there, meeting people through a hobby, You're making a lot of completely wrong assumptions and are not ready adapt them to reality. when you can convince yourself it's pointless since women are insensitive, golden-spooned, idiots... Not all woman are like that, fortunately. But the dating market for women up to maybe their 30s is very skewed to their advantage. I could send you tons of evidence. But you do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/19 08:14 AM
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Not exactly a factual or sensitive answer. I hoped we could make a few things clear in this dialog. I am sure there are lots of misunderstandings around. But you need to have an open heart to understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 09:42 PM
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Please, if you said "Are you aware that women are just people?" didn't you see women in the victim role as well? The fact that you think most women are/were like this is laughable. Laughable? All those men in the quoted paragraph of the article for sure couldn't laugh. Just the women did! Then 10 years later obviously the laugh is on these men's side. You just have to understand this little bit of schadenfreude. No, I don't think all women are like this. Fortunately there are others, too. But wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 09:09 PM
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"Parfitt adds: They've swallowed the L'Oreal line: 'Because you're worth it!' There's a real sense of entitlement.'' (Linked article by Bettina Arndt) I frankly admit it, this statement feels like a relief or even malicious joy after all these rejections back then. Thanks OP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 04:10 PM
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Are you aware that women are just people? Have women in their 20s been aware that men are humans too, not just numb robots? Read the linked article: "... In my 20s, the women had the total upper hand. They could make or break you with one look in a club or bar. They had the choice of men, sex was on tap and guys like me went home alone, red-faced, defeated and embarrassed. The girls only wanted to go for the cool guys, good looks, outgoing personalities, money, sporty types, the kind of guys who…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 03:55 PM
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Is Sexual Liberation a facade No. The sexual liberation, sexual freedom, receding of moral and restriction is real and slowly spreads through society. There are winners: women and good looking men. These are the men women have in their view and OP mentioned in "fucking men in her car" and "the more men you fuck". There are losers: the other men. Competition for a woman has become harder and for some men the barrier has become insurmountable. Some men are completely left behind. No woman feels en…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:45 PM
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No, you missed the point. For a woman it is so self-evident and natural that she can have a man who appreciates her physically. That's why she is incapable of replicating that type of satisfaction he feels when he finally reaches it after years of countless rejections. The wording of OP is perfect.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:01 PM
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In u/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen I found this statement in a single mother's ad (with regard to her little son) "So you will have to accept that if he cries, i will stop what i am doing to go to him" She got it, she has the right stance. This child's mental capabilities to socialize and be happy in his life are at stake!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:55 PM
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and looked like a basement dweller. Doesn't it all boils down to this fact?
/r/seduction12/08/19 11:53 AM
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Again I assume you're joking. But my fault, at times I just can's stop blabbering. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:06 PM
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Of course you're joking. Nevertheless: All species of animals, humans included, have evolved to their current optimal looks by evolution over hundreds of thousand of generations. Among other selection mechanisms mating selection is at work. Females instinctively select the male to copulate with on his looks, which gives her unconscious hints about his health, strength and other traits relevant to bring up their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:47 PM
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beta is not APPEARANCE Have you ever heard of evolution, mating selection? Why do you think we are looking the way we do if APPEARANCE doesn't matter!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:12 AM
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I really agree that most women depicted here seem so have unfair requirements towards their potential new admirers and that they do not all seem to question their own role in their fate. It was just this one remark in her profile that stroke my eyes, where she said, that she will immediately go to him, if he cries. You know my life for sure would have been pretty different, if my own mother had the same priorities!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 08:00 PM
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So you will have to accept that if he cries, i will stop what i am doing to go to him At least she recognized the crucial importance of this kind of attention for her little baby. Otherwise there would be the danger of bringing up another traumatized and later lonely guy. So I'd clearly count this part of her profile with the pros. (In contrast to her unconditional addiction to the dog!)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 04:52 PM
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Just look at this recent post: https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/comments/cdotvi/neural_substrates_of_sexual_arousal_are_not_sex/ demonstrating that: "Neural substrates of sexual arousal are not sex dependent"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:30 PM
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But what if a mans source of motivation and inspiration to achieve stuff in life is a woman? And what if a man's source of motivation to continue his life at all would be a woman, some intimacy, the warmness of her skin, a human to love and to be loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:44 PM
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have an entitlement problem And my problem is the mechanics of this subreddit. Can't find the downvote button, which is my natural reaction when reading "entitled".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:41 PM
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What do you want in life? Be the judge of her morality and sacrifice your relationship if necessary in order to give her a lesson in morality? Or do you want to be happy yourself? If the latter is your primary goal, then simply ask yourself whether you feel happy with her and love her for the love she gives to you. Life is complicated enough, do not additionally complicate it with moral shit and in advance jealousy.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 06:03 PM
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I don't have time for games ... But apparently you had?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 04:43 PM
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But maybe i'm missing something Yes you are. There's more than just pussy: Feelings, emotions, being comforted, being supported maybe. So being rejected with sympathy is less painful. However, being rejected the crude way although more painful in the end might effect less damage to your soul, because it makes it possible to develop resent against this woman and getting over her sooner. So the effect of being nice and sympathetic to the one you reject is two sided. But for sure we can't just say …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 10:28 AM
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There is lots of evidece for this elsewhere too You don't have to convince me of that fact, but anyway thanks a lot for this additional piece of evidence.
/r/BlackPillScience28/04/19 01:50 PM
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Mainly that women rate men as less attractive BTW, I don't see the downvotes, counter was 5 before I read it, 6 afterwards.
/r/BlackPillScience28/04/19 01:27 PM
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"An inconvenient truth" I suppose.
/r/BlackPillScience28/04/19 01:17 PM
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That's true, now I understand, thanks. I recently watched a show of locally famous female "spoken word" performer. She dreamed about ... "then just came up a fat ugly man." I am sure, a male performer couldn't dare making a corresponding joke about a fat ugly woman !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 06:34 PM
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u/AndYouThinkYoureMean ingful
/r/BlackPillScience27/04/19 04:34 PM
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Don't understand your derivation that said messaging shall apply only to women. Don't understand which way you mean "apply to", women are the ones that qualify somebody as fat, or women are the ones qualified as fat ? But I fully agree with your "conclusion": If (all but high value) men are disposable, that's actually fine, like reality is what it is, but we really ought to start openly acknowledging this state of affairs ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:13 PM
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You need to experience such a volume of rejection that it's as unspectacular to you as the air you breathe. That confirms what another redditor said: "The goal is to become as numb as possible, whether it's to yourself, or others. In this way, you become what society demands of a man. Emotional abstinence."
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:53 PM
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That's really tough what you report here about your parents. Again I wonder about the limits of our juridical system. Parking your car at the wrong place is punished, destroying the lives of your children isn't. BTW I realized, that apparently I had a wrong understanding of the term "abuse", I thought it must have something to do with "use", so a kind of "mis-use", and what you described I would have called "mistreatment". But ok, English YOUR native language not mine. So ok, as the word "abuse"…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:14 AM
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Hello again. A few more things. but I did grow up with a lot of violent and psychological abuse I am really sorry for that. How old were you then? The way you describe incels on the link you showed me...It seems like you're talking about a learned sense of helplessness "learned" might not be the proper term. Maybe we should say, I acquired it as a little baby, long before I could even speak. I started speaking later that other kids, just as another indication, that something went wrong. (I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:13 PM
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Thanks a lot for your detailed and committed answer. I'll read it again tomorrow. I also see it as a description of your feelings and your way to help yourself out. This is really valuable advice. However, I suspect you didn't read one key paragraph in my linked text about my own history: "My life then went through a few relationships, learning about living and eventually into marriage and happiness now. But still I feel some kind of deep emotional injury and never stopped searching for the reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:12 PM
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Thanks for your elaborate comment. There would be a lot to answer, just the most pungent points in your text: chances are you're not going to find the love of your life at 13, so you're not really missing out on much I think Incels in general have this warped idea of how everyone else's life is so much better than there's but it's not the actual reality most of the time. Dear woman, you have no idea, you simply can't imagine how it feels to not be desired, to be isolated physically, to never hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:07 AM
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No one sees me as just an object for sexual pleasure. Typically, if someone wants to be my friend or to date me, they feel that way because they like my personality. Strange that you as a male see this as an advantage. For me it’s a large, major disadvantage. I so much suffered from the fact that I was just appreciated for my personality, my merits, my work, but not for my body, my myself, for me. I craved for being loved corporally, being accepted physically on this world. That’s what I envy wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:26 AM
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Stop being such a pussy At times I wished I had one, life would have been a whole lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:10 PM
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So then my assumption (once more ;-) is not exactly correct. However, reading from you I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 17 Oh Lord would I have been happy back then, a girlfriend in the age of 17, heaven !!! So I still have reasons to believe, that you do not fathom in full depth this feeling of not being physically accepted in this life. I may have called myself an Incel How I hate this walk on eggshells around the simple word incel. Either you was or you wasn't. Me I was, and this…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:08 PM
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Yes, an interesting view. Millions of them perish, only one is eventually successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:51 PM
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They're not deemed to be bad people because they don't have much luck with women So why then we always hear these offending platitudes, e.g. "shower more", "bad personality", "only want sex" ? they're considered bad people for their hateful rhetoric and bad attitudes. Have you ever heard of cause and effect? Imagining how it feels to always be rejected or even insulted and ridiculed is probably beyond your capabilities, since as a woman or good looking man humans treat you really differently. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:08 PM
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Oh thanks for the opportunity to promote the need for a public statement about the true privileges on both sides. So far in public, in newspapers, in the news, it's always the male's privileges that is spoken about. The one's of women are so evident, that they are not even seen, like not seeing the forest for the trees. ===> The sought-after and desired sex is female <=== and from that principle fact all the societal, behavioral differences between the sexes are derived (deduced?): Men have to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:45 PM
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So, is anyone here willing to admit that their sex actually is enjoying some privilege that the other side does not have? Of course I am, but I won't stop considering and comparing these privileges on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:52 AM
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Tbh I agree with sex after marriage. What a generosity! You probably didn’t mean it this way, did you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/19 05:44 AM
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I didn't intend to make you sad. No worries. I just fell in a rather pathetic mood, but then went outside for a stroll and then I had and have to work, I am fine and listening to good bluegrass music. (e.g. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hxQJHUt9QA) Besides I can to tell you, that these things bothering me from time to time and of course especially when reading in e.g. r/IncelsWithoutHate, apply to a distant past of mine, however a past that won't let loose of me. Today I am married with a fan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 07:14 PM
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You certainly say a lot of good and true things, and i would like to reply to these. But in the moment I feel so overwhelmed with sadness for all those lost years. When I was 18 I had no intention of starting a family any time soon so I didn't look for a guy who I would consider to be a good father and long term partner to actually share my life with in the most meaningful way. I did love him and we had fun When I was 18 and many years after there was no girl interested in me, no love, no fun, j…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 01:52 PM
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There are men who have always been rejected until reaching the age of 30y or so, when women of the same age start to become less attractive and thus less picky. Or men who have no other chance than those women in difficult situations such as being single mom. I mean these men cannot afford to be picky in any way. They are glad to finally find someone at all. As I said above, in such cases these men's choice is "take it or leave it." BTW, I don't want to say, that a woman with lots of experience …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 01:04 PM
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Likewise men have the same right to not date a woman they think is too promiscuous or what not That's the point. You can declare this generosity so nonchalantly. As /DonLandsman said, you'll get someone to wife you up. You'll find another man easily. But for many desperate men a woman in this age is his first real chance to find somebody at all. So his choice rather reduces to "take it or leave it."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/19 08:11 PM
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But the most credible information available.
/r/BlackPillScience24/01/19 07:48 PM
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Does Romance have any real value or is it merely biology ... It has a real value BECAUSE it's biology ! We have these feelings in order to reproduce and congregate to stable relationships which are indispensable for nurturing our offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:44 AM
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That isn't exactly convincing, since normally men brag about their experience, while women tend to be ashamed of it.
/r/BlackPillScience23/01/19 08:37 PM
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Is this British understatement?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 12:41 PM
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An interesting claim. Whether it is true probably depends on local culture, your gender and attractiveness. I am sure it never happens to an ugly man here in Western-Europe, but pretty sure to ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:27 PM
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That's fine. Only problem: People think that these measures overrule attractiveness. If you're attractive, then you can mess it up with not caring about hygiene, clothing, behaviour and such. But the inverse is unfortunately not true. If you're unattractive, then "gym, learn how to dress well, get a cool haircut, learn basic social skills" might not help. And even worse, others then blame it to you, when you remain unsuccessful. Shit to those who are already within.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:07 AM
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Why is it that men who have to learn how to charm women Just be attractive, that's all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:38 AM
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stop playing the victim As a male you don't have to play it, you are. accept it and adapt accordingly or get used to being unhappy and frustrated for the rest of your life You hit it, correct just one tiny word: accept it and adapt accordingly and get used to being unhappy and frustrated for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:37 AM
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Concluding from the comments, settling down with her does not seem to be very appealing. Well we all have better options. Do we?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 07:03 PM
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Why do some men sound so envious of the attention women get from men, when those same men ... would be disgusted by men. Why do some screws fit so well into nuts, when those same screws would be uncooperative when directed to another screw? I am such a man being envious of women for the attention they get from the opposite sex. And I don't understand why this discussion is hold so utterly complicated. If you want to compare a male's situation with that of a female, then compare it appropriately,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:35 PM
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