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| 2 | Faking smiles vs natural smilesTry smiling, then squinting. The smile muscles should curve the sides of your eyes down when you try to squint, giving you "smile eyes". | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me. I'm regressing into beta.This is true. How does this line up with Seddits self improvement goals though? Be who we want to be, until we are that person. I dont feel like Im who I want to be yet, do I keep truckin forward? | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me. I'm regressing into beta.Thank you, TheRealCalculon. Girls aren't attracted to guys who are trying to attract girls. I going to mentally sear this line into my brain. Its true, and I've always tried not to be that guy. I guess I fell into a self-perpetuating cycle lately. While I was focusing on getting my life together, no girls. So my thinking was shit, this isnt working. So I started trying to "attract" them again, and that wasnt working either. Then it felt like I was losing either way, regardless of what I was doin… | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me. I'm regressing into beta.Thanks man, I appreciate that. I seem to fluctuate between "doing what I want" to "go hook up" modes. One shitty thing was that "Doing what I want" never really involves girls - I work and live technology, so that usually involves something mildly to extremely nerdy. Trying to integrate those two have been pretty tough for me, since I dont particularly love going out (also crappy cuz I live in NYC). Although now that I look at it, its possible that all these expectations Ive had about going out … | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, help me. I'm regressing into beta.Dude. This was insightful as fuck. You've sniffed out 1. these false expectations Ive levied on myself, and 2. how I feel about failure. The martial arts quote was unexpectedly helpful too (fighting stance in particular). I've always figured that to be on my A game all the time. I feel like some guys out there are and I've expected the same of myself since. I guess I felt like I should "act the part"- kinda going with the "fake it til you make it" ethos that sometimes comes up on Seddit. Doesn't… | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, help me. I'm regressing into beta.Replying late - but I_Summon_You, this is golden. It IS refreshing to know there are more out there like us. Appreciate you went HAM, eggs AND cheese for the post. It does help. Thank you for taking the time to write Learning to be proud of the things I love is something I need to work on and should be my first focus. Unfortunately, being in a dry spell/crappy state all the time has kind of taken the joy out of other things as well. I'll definitely have to get back in touch with doing things I c… | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, help me. I'm regressing into beta.I also noticed this whole post is neurotic as fuck. | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Can someone give me some tips on going out alone?DO IT AGAIN | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 10:57 AM |
| 1 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Everyone has something interesting about themself, something that would interest you, the goal is getting better at bringing that out. I want to think that youre right about this, and you probably are. In some cases its hopeless but Im sure more often than not there has to be something there. Ill work on this, but its a mentally exhausting doing this when the girls want to talk about the Jersey Shore. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.I have no excuses then, I live in NYC. Youre right, I havent put myself in the position to meet them or better people in general. This will have to change... Thanks | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 01:34 AM |
| 8 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Fred, You seem to have good insight on one of my biggest problems, and I thought maybe you could shed some light on my biggest problem - motivation. You say that some women feel like toxic energy saps, and I couldnt agree more with that. My problem is that I seem to be meeting girls who dont stimulate me at all mentally. Because of that, I feel like there is nothing to learn from them. I give value, and get none in return. So I have a similar lack of interest because I feel like the reward isn't… | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 12:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plan (and shirt) ruined, but F-closed in the end. It's 2am, she just left.Definitely good work. I feel like sometimes Im self destructive and even when I recognize this, I hesitate. Will give me some food for thought! | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 07:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Brought HB6 home and dropped the ball.Another good call on the location, it seems like theres a consensus about dumping those places ASAP. Do you have any pointers about getting intimate early? Im still not sure what topics are choice for a long conversation and building sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 06:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Brought HB6 home and dropped the ball.Thanks postman. Good call on bouncin earlier, shouldntve stayed in unfavorable conditions. As for the conversation, I think my problem is that Im easy to talk to, so we can go on for as long as we want to. But I dont know how to build sexual tension into it and that definitely killed me. More varied kino is also a good call. Will explore further.. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 06:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Brought HB6 home and dropped the ball.Hahaha, time to order a wireless printer. I most 100% absolutely wouldve done this if I had a chance to get her over here before we went out. She didnt seem comfortable so I figured Id let her settle in (my place is also ridiculously sterile - think American Psycho). Definitely shouldve escalated faster. I think missing the early window led to the subsequent failure to escalate, especially with the time constraint. | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 06:48 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Brought HB6 home and dropped the ball.Right on, thanks man. I think that was the big thing I couldnt do, make an opening and go for the kill. But I was definitely listening, maybe so well that I forgot I had a goal in mind. She had a lot to say about traveling, which isnt particularly arousing. So we ended up talking about that and I didnt know how to bring her/us back to the state where kissing would be the best thing to do. Example - Im massaging her hands while shes talking about her uncle. Hard to go in for the kiss? Or should I… | /r/seduction | 02/09/11 06:43 PM |
| 2 | what are some cute, fun things to do on a date? (whether it's a first date/second/whatever)very wrong place for this. | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 08:18 PM |
| 1 | But If We Started Dating It Would Ruin Our Friendship Where I Ask You To Do Things And You Do Them [Repost from r/funny, but incredibly relevant]this is based on the premise that you start dating. thats silly, you dont DATE a girl in the friend zone; you migrate seamlessly into a FWB scenario. also...they are useful for expanding your social circle, which inevitably leads to more opportunities down the line. | /r/seduction | 16/01/11 02:00 AM |
| 2 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.i dont think getting up and leaving is the best way to play this one. its definitely not very ALPHA and comes off as childish, especially if she doesnt think getting the call is a big deal. a better move is to 1. go occupy yourself with other women or 2. find a way to pull her out of the phone call either by bringing her somewhere or making jokes on the side bringing the attention back to you. there are times when walking out is the appropriate move but im not sure this is it. seduction is a che… | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 06:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The two hottest girls in the room. #Close and KClosecame in here to show appreciation for a good fr. at some point, the game becomes natural and i believe thats when its really hit its peak. | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How to be a legendary lover (By me)I think were getting something lost in translation here. I do agree that talking during sex isnt the most exciting thing. However there are many girls out there (im much younger than you at 22, so the girls i sleep with are younger and less experienced) who are not yet in control of their own needs, so this is a necessary evil. The first time I sleep with a girl, especially if its not a passionate spur of the moment hookup, I am definitely more inquisitive. As time goes on and you get to know th… | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today.youre missing out. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/10 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Thanks to you, Reddit, I canceled my son's circumcision today.i may be the only supporter here for getting it cut. to me it looks better which is probably why males in the adult entertainment industry are mostly foreskin-less. as for the sensation, it feels fine and if youve never known anything else, its still as good as it should be. i do have a buddy at work who had his cut in his late teens for medical reasons and experienced it from both sides. he said theres no difference...thats more than enough evidence for me. does anyone else have a before/after … | /r/MensRights | 29/10/10 01:27 PM |
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