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| 10 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.This subreddit used to be good a long long time ago, now it’s a place where people come to complain. Also, there seems to be a lot of insecure women on here as well hating on guys trying to better themselves. Maybe it’s because not one of these guys are trying to speak to them 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Severe Approach Resistance/AnxietyThe Moog droppin straight gems | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 07:49 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]If a girl likes you, she will make it easy for you to set up a date. Let her know to reach out when her schedule opens up then move on. Don't spend your time on one girl who isn't willing to do the same, it shows you don't have many prospects and that's unattractive. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 06:30 PM |
| 5 | If you have success with seduction, it's because you're good looking, not because of "game".Wrong | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:52 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]"I feel", "I feel", "I feel", "I feel", "I feel". Sorry but not everything is about you. He felt like jerking off so he jerked off. I don't think you require his permission to masturbate. If you say you don't do that when you're with him just consider that guys are way hornier than girls just by design. Girls want to cum, guys have to cum. He's not being selfish, we're borderline slaves to our hormones when we're young. Just hand him the lotion and go to bed. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 01:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]ER | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 12:12 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Either he nutted and is sound asleep or he's in the ER with blue balls. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 09:14 AM |
| 197 | [deleted by user]Super green light | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 04:56 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]She said no years ago and hasn't changed her mind. This isn't a post for this sub, visit r/therapy. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 10:43 AM |
| 3 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Lol I’m not vouching for his game I was just pointing out that there are people who are approaching and getting laid. OP just wants to make excuses. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 11:57 AM |
| 5 | How do I quit wasting my youth?That Tom Torero guy has tons of videos on YouTube of him approaching countless women in the UK on the street so yeah you are making excuses. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 02:01 AM |
| -19 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.Of course that’s your response. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 07:09 PM |
| -21 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.Lol no I doesn’t you dummy. u/jacobmoogberg69 is right. No point in elaborating since you just want to be right. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What part of restraining order did you not understand? | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Need help for cold approachingExcuse me miss, what year is it? | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 11:56 AM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]I found that insecure, weak and afraid-to- approach men would laugh at people's failed attempts, whereas guys who are secure and mature will respect the effort. Either way it doesn't matter what other people think. Most people are only really thinking about themselves and how they are being perceived which is exactly what we're doing when we have this spotlight effect as you call it. We're on a floating rock in the middle of fucking nowhere, literally. Nothing is that big of a deal. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 6 | What to do AFTER you get the number/social media?In that case I would message her something like "hey pool shark, I want a rematch." Keep it brief and after a few messages suggest drinks instead, I think pool again would get boring. Save the convos for in person and not text. Try to keep the messages brief. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 01:18 AM |
| 7 | What to do AFTER you get the number/social media?I found that how you get the number is more important than just getting the number. I stopped getting left on read when I changed it up and actually made a connection before getting her info, especially humorous connections. Then I would message a few days later with some sort of inside joke or comment to get her talking for only like 3-4 messages and suggest we should grab drinks somewhere rather than ask. If she agrees then I ask what her schedule looks like and after that I go specific and br… | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | How do I learn to pull out properly?If that's how your family rolls, you should practice on your mom first. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 02:20 AM |
| 5 | I want to try with someoneOffer to meet up for drinks and speak in person. It shouldn't be weird if you two knew each other in the past and you guys reconnected on tinder which is under the context of intimacy. If she liked you in the past and matched with you now, this should be a slam dunk. Don't bore her over text messages. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 07:53 AM |
| 7 | Looking and acting masculine/dominant?Non-reactive, always remaining calm. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 11:37 AM |
| 7 | The train wreck of my courting attemptYa that's pretty over the top in general but two weeks is crazy. You need to find something other than women to chase after and only date to compliment your life, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Tuh | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:06 AM |
| -1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Which one? | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:03 AM |
| -2 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Then where’s my upvote? | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Nah fam, billions. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Please Help me out, Im Fed up of shyness, she shows interest, but im too afraid to seduceI also steer clear of women who aren’t single because you never know how fragile her dude is. I don’t need him hunting me down trying to kill me. I know that’s an extreme situation but it is possible and I don’t need that possibility in my life. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Please Help me out, Im Fed up of shyness, she shows interest, but im too afraid to seduceEither my brain isn’t working or you said she was married at the age of 13? That crazy part aside, don’t mess with married women or girls I guess lol it’s not worth it man. Don’t destroy a family because you’re horny, that’s selfish just find someone else. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What if a ex called you and need your help?Is this in a world where 911 doesn’t exist? | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Close Friends on IG, what should i do?Post a story with a third girl. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 7 | Literally can not get a girlfriend...I don't mean to sound harsh it's just one of those things you're eventually going to have to muster the courage for and do, eventually it's not even a hurdle. Many had to do it before you and many will have to after you... It's just one of those things. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:03 AM |
| 42 | Literally can not get a girlfriend...Dating apps are garbage, you need to cold approach or network to some degree just do something. Most posts on this sub are things that should be posted on r/therapy. Try, fail and ask for help here on where you went wrong and then try again. No one can help you if you're not willing to try. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Who is getting the beautiful white girls?Someone's putting white girls on a pedestal 😂😂🤦🏾 | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ?Girl advice... enough said. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ?No problem, I learned this from experience so you get a few years for free. If you're still young, most girls your age are currently in their prime and will most likely be focusing on older guys (late 20's/early 30's) because they are more established and mature which is what they value. They will play the field and for the most part, younger guys are not in their view unless you're very good looking or satisfy some other superficial characteristic. I would recommend that no matter how much you … | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Question Regarding Female Psychology When faced with a Romantic Confession from a Man ?I do not know why but I do know that is the perfect way to ruin any potential relationship with women. As I got older I started putting women and relationships at the lowest possible priority even when I am seeing and regularly hooking up with them. I don't even care if I see her texting other dudes on her phone when I come back from the washroom because I am also talking to other women. I used to act indifferent and then I genuinely became indifferent and only saw women on my schedule (no free … | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is time for guys to settle down after the age of 30?Guys are in their prime when they cross thirty. By prime I mean that's when women are aiming at you especially women your age. I found that since I hit 30, every woman my age or slightly younger that I date just want to settle down and be serious now that they've had their fun but my whole life I've been working on myself (career, heath, hobbies etc) and have really only started consistently dating/hooking up with women in my mid to late 20s. I'm not settling down anytime soon. I don't submit to… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Easy HookI'm not even going to entertain your stupid question. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 09:21 AM |
| 0 | Easy HookWhat happened to this sub? | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 07:26 AM |
| 4 | I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step?Bro I wouldn't ask again, move on. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 01:45 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean if a girl asked me (M) what I thought about another guy?Wow you're way off... I wonder why? | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 3 | You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anywayLol looking for the hoekage, I got a D ranked mission for her. | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 25 | You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anywayLol thanks bro, finally some recognition. | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 159 | You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anywayReady is a lie | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Shit Tests are not a thing.OP is basically operating under if I don't see it it doesn't exist. Dummy. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate?You obviously haven't been taken out, probably cause you're a fat cigarette smoking cunt. You're going to die alone so there's no point responding to you anymore. You're gross. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate?Who said anyone is drunk? We have one drink. Lol go ahead and try and paint me the way you want you snowflake but you don't know what you're talking about you ugly fat Virgin. Go fuck yourself cause obviously no one will 😂😂😂. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 08:15 PM |
| -2 | How do you escalate?Lol a few dates? A few hours bro. Bar back to your place and that's it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Two POWERFUL Ways To Get A Girl To Cheat( If She Has A Boyfriend BUT You Want Her)It's not worth it. You never know how internally weak the BF is and he might be on some violent shit. A lot of single women, pick one. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | To the guys who hook up with a lot of chicks, what do you think you do differently?I meant I can't fuck the thing I'm passionate about lol. No, I was out here struggling in the past and I learned bit by bit. My biggest tip is learn all the attraction killers and habbits of weak insecure men and remove them first. Basically all the things not to do because that's the fastest way up imo. It's hard at first because at times you may do it subconsciously but those things can ruin your chances of success. No matter how well you're doing, displaying low value either directly or indir… | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | To the guys who hook up with a lot of chicks, what do you think you do differently?I don't think it's by choice anymore | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 0 | To the guys who hook up with a lot of chicks, what do you think you do differently?I only read the title but my answer is I don't care. I don't pretend I dont care or think I'm better than they are I just don't care. I don't care if they leave me or ghost me. I don't care if they try to start a fight I just really don't care. Pure indifference because I found that after I fuck a girl, no matter how hot she is, I find myself around someone for the next few minutes or hours that I don't give a fuck about. It's to the point where I don't text girls at all aside from "I'm free on … | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Too much approaching kills your gameLooool you know?? But fr dealing with multiple shorties is a headache. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How to engage my older neighbor?Bro this is weird, don't do this. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Just got here, and wow! simple mistakes you men are doing that destroys seduction.Cheers bro. | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Just got here, and wow! simple mistakes you men are doing that destroys seduction.I've analyzed your work and it's all correct although I've been living like this for the last 2 years which is when I finally hit my stride. I almost never text the girl I'm dealing with right now genuinely because I hate texting and all the girls I've been with know this but this girl sat me down explaining how it drives her crazy because she has all these guys (orbiters) messaging her but radio silence from me. I found that setting clear boundaries even for trivial things and enforcing them do… | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | When a girl tells you she can't figure you out, there is sexual tensionSorry for the confusion. I agree with OP and disagree with u/nosympathyforpolice although I also have no sympathy for police. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:18 PM |
| 3 | When a girl tells you she can't figure you out, there is sexual tensionI find it hard to agree, this is my bread and butter. I show girls interest and attention only when we’re alone at my place or hers, and slightly above zero when I’m not with them. This girl sat me down and had a hard one to one with me one time because I “don’t text her” but when we hang out I never touch my phone. In essence she wants what all women want, which I refuse to give her... more. When there’s nothing left to chase, they stop running. And When they stop running, they get fat lol Jk. … | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 09:48 AM |
| 3 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongI want to break up with you too. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | stop TEXTING women🖨 | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 11:19 AM |
| 3 | I'm front desk employee, cute long term hotel guest giving me lots of interest?Ready is a lie. I would make a move now, you clearly don't need to lose weight to catch her interest, you've already caught it. She's only there for a month, you don't need to be Mr. Right, just Mr. Right now. | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | I made a joke with my guy friend about wanting to be his bitch. His entire face turned red and he couldn’t stop smiling for 20 seconds then he out of nowhere changed his facial expression to him giving me a weird look and shaking his head. How does he feel about me?Some of the posts on this subreddit are just fuckin retarded. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 12 | My red flagsI agree with the entire post especially the social media point. In the last 3 years, I've hooked up (on a regular basis) with about 4 girls who were not on any social media and they were the most chill, in the moment, least superficial girls I've been with. I am currently seeing one of them and it's nice. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | How poor guys can get laid ?Hit the gym | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Do girls like to be called "Daddy" by their BF?Cosign | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 06:33 AM |
| 4 | Escalating on a coffee dateNo coffee dates. Meet with girls in the evening and do it then. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 08:20 AM |
| 9 | Things to have in your apartment for one night stands / casual sexThe condoms in my room are just for show | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 08:16 AM |
| 9 | How to stop being emotionalThis is r/seduction not r/therapy | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 0 | I only want to sleep next to someone. I've decided that's what I'm looking for.Lol | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What would you do to stop someone who's walking?Lasso | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Any good resources for how to actually be good in the bedroom?Check out don of desire on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 06/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I am going to end my life if I don’t get laidI'm not going to read your cry for help, just off the title, it's not worth it. Once you have sex you realize it's not a big deal especially not big enough to kill yourself. Get a fucking prostitute if you're that desperate. If that's beneath you, then what you're really saying is I'm going to kill myself if no one wants to fuck me and if that's the case, lack of sex isn't your problem, it's self esteem. Get a fucking prostitute and boom you'll cross it off your list. Also see a therapist. Maybe… | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 12:26 AM |
| 4 | How to ask a girl for long term relationship?Dutch oven to make it official | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | For guys losing hair but not shaving it off yet... your experience?Honesty man I wore a hat a lot and took very pics of myself. I found that there are a lot of fake reviews online but I found a good number of people who seemed legit showing their progress photos from Dr. Cinik's clinic so I went to him. Do your own research but he's the guy I'm telling my friends about. My results are similar to the people's on YouTube - satisfied. I'll try and fish some up from my old phone and dm you later. Currently out of town. | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | If you like someone and can't stop thinking about them is it always infatuation or oneitis?The best way to get over this is to sleep with other women. It's takes your mind off of them and you begin to sober up to the fact that she's just another person. | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 06:43 AM |
| 2 | For guys losing hair but not shaving it off yet... your experience?I never really started gaming till I started going bald and I did shave my head and I did have success however last October I went to turkey and for about 3k Canadian, I got an Fue hair transplant and my shit is back in action. I guess it's more of a hurdle being bald but it did force me to become better to get the results that I did but now that I have hair again, this shit is much easier. May want to consider it, it's a complete game changer. At the end of the day there are girls who care abou… | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Asked a girl out...she said no in a nice way but continues to talk to me and snap meCease all communications. It's not a matter of salty, it's a matter of whether or not you value your time. Give it to girls want to be around you not the ones who don't unless you actually came in with platonic intentions otherwise keep it moving. | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I, as a woman, be more interesting over text?Really, these guys you're talking to should just ask you out on a date. Texting back and forth is pointless. Once a dude matches, he should maybe toss out 3-4 messages of playful banter then offer to grab drinks. That's what I do. I have friends who want to know the perfect response for each message and then when I look, they're like 20 messages deep, talking in pointless circles. I don't know if I have tips for you, but rather the dudes messaging you and that would be to shut up and ask to meet… | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected, now she asks for dinner? What should I do?I wouldn't take her up on that. She has already put you in a box where you can't get what you want but she still wants your time and your space, the things you have to offer. Reserve that for girls who are interested in you. You don't want to be the lame dude taking her out to dinner, talking and texting back and forth, meanwhile she's fucking or flirting with other dudes. Don't be a square and actually cut down drastically on the amount of attention you alott her. 3 years is absolutely fucking … | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Does weed impair anyone else's charisma/out going vibe?Weed is just all around bad unless you’re depressed. I’m not sharp on it and sex sucks with dry mouth. It’s just gross. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 16 | What are your best "Damn, I really got game" moments?Grabbed was the wrong word. I reached out and touched her hand and she was receptive to it and walked right up to me. Relax Jeff. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 21 | What are your best "Damn, I really got game" moments?My friends and I went to a club 2 years ago and as soon as we walked in, three girls walked right through our group, one of which was staring right at me so I grabbed her hand, isolated her and spent the next 10-15 mins together. I bounced back to my friends and near the end of the night when I was about to leave, she came up to me and gave me her phone to put in my number. As I was doing it, some dude who I guess was talking to her before I arrived at the club started trying to interact with he… | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Guys Deal With No Responders, and How To Get Out Of Oneitis?No responders = move on. As for Oneitis, Patrice Oneal once said Halle Berrys pussy is the same as the bitch that works at McDonald’s’ pussy. Once you realize the end goal isn’t very different from girl to girl, you should be able to snap out of it. They are just people, you might like her now, but you may not touch her with a stick 5 years from now. The only person you should put on a pedestal is yourself. Work out, have fun, make money and girls will come to you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Is randomly approaching girls something a lot of guys do or is it not that common?Talk that shit | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 05:19 AM |
| 3 | How to slide into the DM's effectively?Meet other girls and put them on your story. Show yourself off as a guy who has girls or hangs out with girls doing fun stuff. That’s usually how to illicit a good response and then say next time I’ll take you or something else that’s sly and confident. It’s not a question so it doesn’t really need an answer, you just plant the idea and move on. Keep having fun and then set up a date next time they message you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Paradoxical IntentionThe goal of this exercise is not to get women. You don’t say. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 2 | HelpStop talking to her. Your problem isn’t subject matter, it’s that you’re too accessible. Your time and your space is your pussy, why would she ever want to hang out if you guys talk all the time? She’s getting what she needs from you over the phone. She’s no longer curious about you which means her interest is stagnant. I just started seeing this chick and yesterday she asked me why I don’t text her. I told her straight up I’m busy(it’s Covid, no ones busy). All she wants to do is hang out and e… | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Politeness vs interest?Girls don’t start a conversation out of politeness, they put up with you out of politeness. If you’re ever in a spot and can’t genuinely tell, just see if she’s investing in the conversation. If a girl isn’t into you, she doesn’t give a shit about where you work or what you like to do for fun, her phone is loaded with guys asking her that same bullshit, she can just talk to them. The only exception is if she’s asking you cause you asked her - then she’s trying to be polite. If she starts a convo… | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | disbelief someone is interested in meYou think too little of yourself. Underneath it all, we're all ugly mofos, like really ugly. Don't put anyone on a pedestal, no one deserves it. If she indeed says she's into, then she is. It's also fluid, you could say the wrong thing and she won't be. Also, if you don't act, she probably will lose interest. Nothing is set in stone, opportunities come and go. Take it or don't, but don't sit around wondering if people actually like you, it's a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 07:07 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 10 Field ReportMans not even waiting for a vaccine. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand,why do men think the only way to get a woman attracted to them is with money? It's not true.I can only guess and say that maybe those men have been rich their whole lives and since money is just a tool, they've only known how to use that tool for every problem in their life. I'm sure money was all it took to get them girls. Some girls don't fall for it, but others do. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 06:28 AM |
| 13 | how do you not get attached to a girl you likeAlways assume she's talking to other guys cause she most probably is. Likewise, you should be talking to more than one girl and if anyone of them should stop talking to you/leave you, the game is the game. You need to just straighten your tie and move on. Getting attached to a girl you're not exclusive with (or in general) is needy behaviour. No girl wants a needy guy and no guy should be needy. Long story short, talk to other girls and if you feel like you're liking one too much too soon, shift… | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Maybe it was upvoted because other people feel the same way, it may get down voted later on. I think both sides are shallow, there's no doubt about that. I didn't post this to get upvotes, I usually get down voted to oblivion on here and it's fine. I find reddit to be full of weak minded people and people pleasers. I posted my opinion. You have every right not to like what I said and I have every right not to give a fuck. Btw, I don't know what you're talking about with ok cupid. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 13 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)When you realize that 90% of chicks are hideous under their makeup (sorry but true) you won't care about impressing them, nor should you. Don't get caught slippin over photoshopped pictures. GO IRL, even then it ain't safe. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Here is a new kink you can practice with one of your friends with benefitsLost me at ears fam. Some chick licked the inside of my ears once. Fucking gross. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.Very good post my friend, congratulations. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 118 | How are you guys coping with not meeting new girls?You merely adopted the drought; I was born in it, molded by it. | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayI'm not 6'4, I'm 5'9 and like most guys who are 5'9... I'm really 5'8 lol. I say that because I can attest to the power of posture regardless of other attributes (of course being tall helps). I had upper back pain cause of my job so I bought a 15 dollar back brace off Amazon. It worked so well and the relief was immediate. I decided to wear it when I would be out and about, not just at work, and I too noticed more attention, considerably more. Weird enough I even wore it under my sweater to the … | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Strategic friend zoningI don't find myself in these situations mainly because I don't like to talk to girls for hours... Platonically at that. But if I did, I would approach another girl while hanging out with her. Whenever I run into female friends at the club, I get a lot of girls looking my way just hanging out with them. That preselection is a powerful tool. If you have the courage, say you'll be right back and approach another girl in plain view but out of ear shot, one that saw you with your friend and try to ge… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Female Friend ProblemJust because a girl says she wants to be "friends" or she "sees you as a friend" does not always mean friends in the actual sense, just "I don't want to be intimate with you" and that's usually the result of low attraction. You sound young so the best piece of advice I can give you is to use your time to focus on yourself and never chase after any one girl. I'm 31 and kept in shape ever since graduating and looking back on Facebook, every single girl that I either had a crush on, rejected me, da… | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Ban SpanishintuitionWho cares? Even if he's a piece of shit, just disregard and move on. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is that SHIT TEST Or?Ahlie | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 01:22 PM |
| 2 | When she complains about "all your other women"Anytime bro | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 10:35 PM |
| 2 | When she complains about "all your other women"Bro... 1) You don't need to prove anything to her. I believe girls should be the one to make things monogamous (out of fear of losing you) if that's what they feel but if she isn't coming out right trying to be official, you shouldn't prove to her that she's any more special than the rest. The fact that you don't talk about your stable in front of her leaves her wondering where she stands and THAT is where you always want her to be. That's the motherfuckin sweet spot. Do not try to reconcile her… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | My opener was just a joke but she ran with it...Not really fam, looks like she just took you seriously. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Do I look different and worse than 5 years ago? Girl wants to meet up againSame camera too | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Was I being shit tested?Ba dum tssss | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 9 | Im falling for girls that obviously dont care about me. Dont be me.Hoes be plottin | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 11:15 AM |
| 2 | As someone who's clueless on the signs of attraction when it comes to women, what can I do to improve my awareness of these signs?No worries but again I strongly suggest reading the book multiple times. It didn't just change my game, it transformed it. | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | As someone who's clueless on the signs of attraction when it comes to women, what can I do to improve my awareness of these signs?Read how to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne. Here's a link to a thread where someone shared all their notes from the book but I strongly suggest reading the book for greater context. https://amp.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9h875d/ive_read_corey_waynes_3_male_ten_times_here_are/ | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 04:34 AM |
| 22 | My first date game is awfulCouple things I do everytime: If it's the first date, I like starting early, around 7-8ish with the intention of taking her to multiple places because I go from the dude she met up with to the dude she arrived with, it establishes comfort pretty well and this move has helped me smash on first dates when I plateaued. I tend to be the one to end the date, I do this on a high note when we've spent a decent amount of time together but not too much. It will leave her wanting more, if not, at the very… | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 12:02 PM |
| 5 | “Pressure” DHVNow you're really turning me on. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | “Pressure” DHVShit, or get a off my face. | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Holy shit she said yesCongratulations. Btw now you have to bench a shit load when she walks by... Lol good luck. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Seduction makes a lot of sense theoretically, but then as soon as you're thrust into it IRL, it's like you've just walked into a war zone and now you have to somehow keep it cool.Welcome to the jungle. | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm trying to set up a threesome and before answering both girls said "with who?" And "have you asked the other girl?" How am I supposed to respond?The right way is for her to find the third party. https://youtu.be/btoHUoq7rtA | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl submit ?https://archive.org/details/blackphillip | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is into you after the first dateUnless she hates her parents | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I opened my preferences to include guys hours ago for the shits and giggles, and holy shit. Y’all are thirsty.She's here to stroke her ego. Just disregard. | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Not gonna lie pretty drunk, need adviceCouple of things, someone said something the other day in these forums that I fux with. He said shes never yours it's just your turn. If she's a higschool ting, don't rush to break her up with her man or whatever, just make correct moves going forward. If what you say about her is true, it's only a matter of time before she leaves him. You could be spending that time making her reevaluate her choice which is a much stronger move than getting her to break up with her man. Be that sociable guy tha… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Just wondering, how many times have you been lead on?I think he means "led on". Just kidding, I don't know what he means. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Friendzoned or integrated in her life?I wouldn't say the one on one part, I would just let her know that something came up and you have to take a rain check. Then the following week I would invite her out for drinks. One of my favourite moves is doing an early evening date around 6 or 7 pm with the intention to take her to a few different spots. When you do this, you go from the guy she met up with to the guy she arrived with. It builds momentum, the compliance is there with all the moving around and it makes coming back to my place… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 08:08 AM |
| 5 | Friendzoned or integrated in her life?Just ask her if you should bring condoms. In all seriousness I would try to avoid taking girls to the club, it's like taking sand to the beach. Just say you guys can come over, he can wait outside. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | If you believe this sub you have to be the perfect man to even stand a chanceThis is all your opinion and it's totally your right to hold it. It's also not an objective one. No one is saying you have to do all those things to get girls, some of the things you mentioned are what some people do and some are not. Some are also to address sticking points in their game through repetition. Either you're a female who is disgusted by the concept of this subreddit or a frustrated guy taking it out on others who are choosing to engage in the subreddit to better themselves, in eith… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | HelpLol well I'm not gonna post my friend's pic on reddit. I guess you'll just have to believe or not, can't say much but the dude is all about having fun. He's not a pua guy or whatever, he's just hype on 10 always. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | HelpNope. One girl was 5"11. When we hit the club, he takes over the dancefloor and is the life of the party, literally everywhere. The girls flock around him I guess cause they don't see him as a threat and he always pulls one. I also don't put stock into whatever standards girls have mainly because I believe they truly don't know what they want. Every girl I've hooked up with on tinder, and I mean all of them have "no hookups" in their bio and yet they always do. Don't look at the 6ft shit at face… | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 08:58 PM |
| 5 | HelpLol I'm not either and I hear it all the time. I don't feel any way about it since we've been putting standards on girls for the longest time. It doesn't bother me because my friend is 4"11 and I shit you not, this guy gets girls. When we used to live together, he would be smashing on the couch with a random chick all the time. I get mine so I'm good. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | How to improve self imageRead Psycho-cybernetics by Dr. Maxwell Maltz. It should help. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Tinder DateIt's not up to her to set up the second date. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Tinder DateI wouldn't keep the conversation going, you're not pen pals. You also don't want to give off the impression she's the only thing you got going on in your life. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 10:52 AM |
| 2 | 16-warning-signs-of-cancer-you-shouldnt-ignoreA CENTER FOR ANTS?!! | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 05:21 AM |
| 2 | I just can’t take it anymoreI understand you feel agony however there are people who have it much worse than you. Not to sound heartless but I'm getting sick of this subreddit because people keep starting threads just to emotionally unload rather than what it should be used for which is having other dudes analyze their game in hopes to get better. I was like you, no girls for years, couldn't land anything and it upset me and on some level I held a little resentment but I was cognizant enough to understand it wasn't just ha… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Im going to a basketball game with my ex girlfriend. Can i take things to another level?I agree with the human above me. Bro you shouldn't have taken her back, and yes... You did. If I ever took a girl back, she better believe she lost her place and is right back to hoe status. No basketball games, nothing. For all we know, she probably has her eye on the point guard and pretty soon he'll drive through your lane, post up at your crib and lay up with your bitch (basketball scheme). Also, is your boy still your boy? I'm guessing not since he smashed your girl and yet you're still tal… | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 07:53 AM |
| 2 | What do guys think when staring at a girls boobs?And then twist the nipple like a balloon knot. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | “I’m confused. You’re really hot but you act very feminine”Loooool | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Hows my bumbleDo you own clothes? | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | 10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All CostsReally good post. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | 3% Man, Coach Corey WayneSuch a good book, I can't stop recommending it. I'm all for pirating but I had to give this dude my money after all the fine tuning this book did on my game. | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice!Read "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I am in quite the situation...Anytime bro. | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Lost and Needing AdviceRead the book first, it will lay a solid foundation. You can also stream it on audible. Two other things I can suggest and can vouch for are these crazy quick workout videos on YouTube. Make a solid effort to do these workouts, rotating every other day. I couldn't finish round 2 when I started in July but now I can finish the entire workout which leaves me dripping in sweat but now I can see my abs. Try a month of this before getting a gym membership but remember to give it your all before givin… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Lost and Needing AdviceThat's not old. I'm 31 and I work with someone who turned 42 in August and we party all the time. We run into each other a lot because we hit a lot of the same clubs and I always see him picking up girls. I know a lot of girls in their mid 20s who date/hook up with dudes close to 50. Tighten up your game, put a shirt on and get out there. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Lost and Needing AdviceI see that it says 4 comments but just see both of ours. I think someone broke reddit - I dunno. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Lost and Needing AdviceRead "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. Read it 10 times. I would also look into getting a cheap gym membership and make the effort to work out. The initial hump is what holds most people back but I suggest going to the gym and just using the treadmill just to get in the habit of showing up and then slowly ease into workouts. In a few weeks time, you'll start seeing results and you feel the need to keep working out - it only helps. But make sure you read that book, it will help you immensely. | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I am in quite the situation..."How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. Read that and you will figure out all the things you did wrong. The few things I can name off the top: 1) Trying to friend zone your way into pussy. You weren't honest with yourself when you said you liked her for more than just her body because you've been out here plotting for 9 months and finally gave her an ultimatum after she went off to fuck some other dude(s). If she's up front about not wanting a relationship, that's your turn to be up front and risk … | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Anybody here still listen and enjoy the black phillip show and or The beige phillip showI listened to the whole black Phillip show, over and over, years ago and still to this day. Patrice is the funniest dude ever. His friend zone analogy is perfect and it works. Dante's spinoff is good but Patrice's charisma can't be replaced. | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Why is it so hard to get a girlfriendRead "How to be a 3% man" by Corey Wayne. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 10:58 AM |
| 7 | How to control this situationShe's probably still digesting your message... Lol Jk. I typically let a message hang until I get a response, I will not send another message if mine has gone unacknowledged. I can see that you feel you might have made her feel self conscious but you really won't know until she responds. She might be completely comfortable with herself and is just busy. The real violation is that you have been messaging her for 3 days without locking down a date/hang out. Food is the perfect segue... Just saying… | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that texting back girls late makes you mysterious?I cosign this. | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 05:31 AM |
| 3 | I just dont know how...I say this to everyone who needs help in more than one area and that is to read "How to be a 3 % man" by Corey Wayne. You can also get the audio book from audible. It's not a book teaching exactly you how to flirt, it teaches you how to act and carry yourself. It also goes through his steps to inviting a girl out and a lot of general information. I'm sure if you have any questions after reading that book, it will be a more specific question. That book helped me take a birds eye view of successfu… | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Taking a girl to dinner today but I didn’t use the word date when we set it up, is it a date? Do I tell her it’s a date?In that case she is already aware, in my opinion. There are a lot of things, I generally refer people to read how to be a 3% man, but since it's tonight, here's a link someone posted a while back. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9h875d/ive_read_corey_waynes_3_male_ten_times_here_are/ I like scheduling early dates, around 6 or 7 with the intention of taking her to a couple different spots. When you do this, you turn from the guy she met up with into the guy she arrived with. It feels … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 12:58 PM |
| 8 | Taking a girl to dinner today but I didn’t use the word date when we set it up, is it a date? Do I tell her it’s a date?You already asked her out, she already said yes. You managed to avoid taking her out to lunch which is good, that's usually a friend thing. I would just get this out of your head, stop trying to label it a date or get her to verbally acknowledge that it's a date, it would be awkward at this point since it shows you're taking this too seriously. If this is the first time you're meeting in a long time, don't look like a chump, just show your intent by man-to-woman type interactions at dinner. Let … | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Could anyone provide useful advise on moving past this useless crush?She's red shirting you. Girls who really like their bf never refer to them as anything but. My guess is that there was a stagnant period in their relationship and she was looking for someone else to be her bf before she breaks up with him. I've noticed that, for the most part, most girls won't dump their bf until they've already started chatting up other guys, makes the 'being single' transition a lot easier. However something must have changed and she's decided to stay as per the news you disco… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I dump her ?Clearly that "more" you're referring to isn't enough for you since you generated this thread but that's understandable, you have needs. A wise man once said "don't chase 'em, replace em. " Just read How to be a 3% man, mostly for pointers on what not to do. Read it 10 times. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 10:59 PM |
| 0 | l need a witty reply to use when girls say I remind them of Clark Kent (Superman's alter ego).whaddya say we fly back to my place? | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 12:33 PM |
| 8 | Should I dump her ?You need to understand that as a man, your time and your space is your pussy. Are you just going just give her your pussy until she's ready to give you hers? No. I know that sounds absurd, but that's the dynamic she's trying to establish. It's a power dynamic and she's on top. You just gonna sit and be a good boy until she's ready? Bro, fuck that shit. How old are you? I mean no disrespect, I'm wondering because this means she's already your gf and you haven't smashed yet. This concerns me becau… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 12:29 PM |
| 2 | What should I reply?Open 24/7. | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 11:58 AM |
| 3 | What should I reply?You can take it many different ways but you haven't provided enough game context in this screenshot for someone to give you a good response. Dunno the vibe. Also you're not supposed to take them out to lunch, you're not trying to be friends. If you're trying to be an asshole/funny, you can say: No, you should feel hungry. You might not make it till September. That's if she's skinny and can take a joke but since I don't really know what's going on, it might explode, especially if you haven't made… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 10:56 AM |
| 3 | 26 yo virgin. I’ve made progress but still don’t feel like women are attracted to me. What should I focus on improving?All the game in the world is useless if you don't know how to carry yourself. Read "how to be a 3% man". Read it 10 times. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 07:18 PM |
| 22 | Rejected While Picking Up Girls ( + Daygame Infield Compilation)Bro one thing I learned is never make the "boyfriend" real. If a girl says she has a boyfriend, I don't comment on whether he's real, fake or if it's "too bad" because I find if you stay and manage to gain her interest, it's easier for her to come with you without feeling like a liar or someone who cheats. In situations where I have made a comment and then gained a little interest, she felt compelled to maintain that lie and still reject you. I don't even hear the "I have a boyfriend", I just ch… | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 06:38 PM |
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